Asking your friends to be chambelanes

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  • @guadalupevazquez3857
    @guadalupevazquez3857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    I don’t have any close guy friends and idk what to do😂

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Cousins, neighbors, siblings???

    • @serxndipityy._2840
      @serxndipityy._2840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Clearly Lupeee! I only have one close guy friend 😂 my mom said we can rent some and I’m not sure about that option😂

    • @luvstrawbb
      @luvstrawbb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@serxndipityy._2840 Haha I rented one guy for one of my damas and he turned out to be pretty cool and we all became friends with him🤣🤣

    • @luvstrawbb
      @luvstrawbb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@brittr4318 we didnt really use a company. He was friends with the choreographer and he dances in quinces all the time

    • @bananajin7159
      @bananajin7159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I don't have any guy friends either. Or any guy cousins that are close to me. :(

  • @brissacastillo
    @brissacastillo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what if you don’t got friends

  • @emilyz7747
    @emilyz7747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    U remind me of becky g! 😍ur so pretty!

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Haha, I get that a lot! 😭 Thank you love ❤

  • @luvstrawbb
    @luvstrawbb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I asked my crush to be my chambelan for my quinceanera and he agreed and I'm so happy❤❤❤❤❤ and I really needed this because I need a chambelan for one of my damas. Thank u so much my quince is in june😭😭

    • @marthalopez3129
      @marthalopez3129 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My is too

    • @andreavalencia1598
      @andreavalencia1598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He should be ur main chambelan

    • @serxndipityy._2840
      @serxndipityy._2840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Angie R. Congratulations sweetie!! I hope your quince goes well with him!😁

    • @katieromero358
      @katieromero358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I want my crush to be my main chambelan 😂 not just because I like him but he’s the only guy I’m actually close with 😅

    • @luvstrawbb
      @luvstrawbb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@katieromero358 omg ikr, hes the only guy I'm close with too😂 so I'm so grateful he said yes or else I dont know who I'd be stuck with🤣😅

  • @jocec9975
    @jocec9975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Im scared for my 15 because I don’t have any guy friends I want in my 15, and my cousins and I aren’t really close so I feel like if I ask them they’ll be bored in my court :((

    • @toes5704
      @toes5704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same girl same👨‍🍳

    • @jocec9975
      @jocec9975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@toes5704 idk about u but i ended up going with all girls and my brother as my main :)

    • @montseh9945
      @montseh9945 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jocec9975 I might have one in less than 2 years maybe, but I also don’t have any close guy friends rn, and I kinda want to do mostly girls bc I’m more into them.. but I’ll probably do a cousin or something, how was it was it fun?

    • @wyn1720
      @wyn1720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're not alone, I dont have any guy friends either.

  • @nathaliegaribay3655
    @nathaliegaribay3655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Perfect timing

  • @amber-cj3fu
    @amber-cj3fu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The fact that you said November 10th and it just happens to be when I turn 15💀💀

  • @micheruv
    @micheruv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    all i did was be straight forward and said “will you be my chambelán?” And they said yes lol. I have 5/7 chambelanes!

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Easiest way to go! 😁

    • @aresol6487
      @aresol6487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yodeling yoongi I have 7 right now!!! I want to have either 9 or 11 bc I’m not having damas 😳

    • @febag1
      @febag1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      fam I have no chambelans and my cousins are old and idk who to ask I have girls but I only have like 3 months to prepare a dance, what should I do?

    • @readercw
      @readercw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aresol6487 Omg same, I'm not gonna have damas :D and Im the only girl in the family so all my cousins are the chambelanes lol

  • @aresol6487
    @aresol6487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When everyone else steals your friends for chambelanes bc your quince is in a popular month

  • @johanaaguirre4919
    @johanaaguirre4919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    How do you ask a guy u domt really talk to but he is in your class??

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I would recommend you talk to him little by little before popping the question. :)

    • @lunabean2050
      @lunabean2050 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      that’s currently my struggle

    • @stephanievilla3222
      @stephanievilla3222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meeeeer

  • @goosey6553
    @goosey6553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just got asked to be a chambelan, didn’t think much of it, jeez I didn’t know she was nervous and scared to ask

  • @aileenbb3273
    @aileenbb3273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    i asked my friend (he ain’t latino) if he wanted to be my chambelan and he asked me what it was i tried explaining but he was still confused and I don’t know what to tell him!! Any answer i could give him?

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Show him a surprise dance video and tell him its super cool! 😅 You can also say it's similar to a Sweet 16

    • @aileenbb3273
      @aileenbb3273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      quinceaneraexpo thank you so much 🥰

  • @emilyz7747
    @emilyz7747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Yes ive been askin my friends that are boys and their either like i don't dance or no

    • @karlapadilla8124
      @karlapadilla8124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Elizabeth Castillo OMG GURL SAMEEE - I BE LIKE COME ON IT ILL BE FUN AND MY choreographer will teach u . And they b like “ idk “ I’m not sure “ - and I’m just like then “ BITCH BYE “

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why not ask some who are outgoing and optimistic? There's a lot of boys who dance now!

    • @emilyz7747
      @emilyz7747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@quinceaneraexpo i mean i am like the only girl in my family and i have friends that are boys and none of them are hype

    • @aileenbb3273
      @aileenbb3273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elizabeth Castillo I FEEL YOU 👏🏽

    • @robumentaries
      @robumentaries 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my friend asked me and i was like yuppp

  • @Antonella_abril
    @Antonella_abril 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    How do you tell your dama that you don’t want them to be in your court anymore?

    • @melanie-iz3rw
      @melanie-iz3rw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Antonella Abril ur so beautiful

    • @Antonella_abril
      @Antonella_abril 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      melanie thank you:)

    • @danielaflores8090
      @danielaflores8090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Antonella Abril what’d you do about your situation?

    • @claudiab4014
      @claudiab4014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can we get an update because I'm now invested

    • @emmamaria306
      @emmamaria306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      angelica schuyler sameee and i love your name!

  • @alessandraalvarado5136
    @alessandraalvarado5136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t have any guy friends , what can i do ? i need chambelanes soon !

  • @xltlalicastro3738
    @xltlalicastro3738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Okay so I have to do my own choreography but I don’t have anything that’s good for a Quincenera dance, and I don’t want to embarrass myself in front of my friends and chambelánes please help.

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Check out TH-cam videos or take some dance classes love 😊I'm sure everyone will be very supportive, just let loose and dance to the beat of the music 💃

  • @hinokamiluckas
    @hinokamiluckas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bro this is my first time being a chambelane, I'm hella nervous bro honestly ggs bruh

  • @berniehenry1960
    @berniehenry1960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Your videos are so helpful. Even tho I'm not having a court I still clicked on this. With some of my guy friends (even close ones) it might have felt a bit awkward asking them, idk. lol.

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It can be the most awk thing ever! The hardest part of asking is, getting yourself to ask 😅

  • @biscuit3456
    @biscuit3456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How do you ask a crush to be your main chambelan/chambelan de honor without it being awkward

  • @emelynavarro5424
    @emelynavarro5424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This video did help me and now I have 4 chambelanes for my quince in October 🙂

  • @samanthamartinez4481
    @samanthamartinez4481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t have any guy friends and I’m not close with my cousins. Maybe I shouldn’t dance?🤷🏽‍♀️😧

    • @HWYLIVE
      @HWYLIVE 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just do a dance with your girl cousin or girl friend

    • @jocec9975
      @jocec9975 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly same, like my cousins we talk but I feel like they’d be bored in my court but imma ask anyway. What did you do?

  • @marthalopez3129
    @marthalopez3129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For it was hard to find some chambelánes but good thing that i have them all now im like so excied and its almost here in june 8 just can't wait for it

    • @luvstrawbb
      @luvstrawbb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg my quince was June 8th too😱😱🤣 how did ur quince go?

  • @alondramartinez7325
    @alondramartinez7325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ughhhh it’s so hard for me! I don’t have any close guy friends and I started online school this year and haven’t gotten close to any guys. Idk what to dooo

    • @montseh9945
      @montseh9945 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have any guy cousins,neighbors? What I want to do is mostly girls.. but idk I have less than 2 years left 😅 anyways good luck finding some!

    • @alondramartinez7325
      @alondramartinez7325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@montseh9945 well my brother and 2 cousins are gonna be my chambelanes. I just need 3 more, thankfully I got close to some guys at my school but I don’t have the courage to ask them. 😩 I get scared to get rejected.

  • @isabellamontano9647
    @isabellamontano9647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have a twin sister and our quinceanera is Nov 9 so she picked my partner (I'm not very social) but she can't find a chambelan so this video should be very helpful💕

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How cute! Congrats to you both 😍

    • @isabellamontano9647
      @isabellamontano9647 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! ❤️

    • @andreavalencia1598
      @andreavalencia1598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wtf you know what so weird is that i have a twin sister too and our birthday is in nov 9 😰

    • @isabellamontano9647
      @isabellamontano9647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My date actually changed to Nov 16th because my mom didn't get the venue in time

    • @andreavalencia1598
      @andreavalencia1598 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isabellamontano9647 oh ☺

  • @devrush3872
    @devrush3872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take their family hostage and forcing them to do it or else💀

  • @dreamvelvet5324
    @dreamvelvet5324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have barely any guy friends at school or anywhere. My parents are going to pick them if I can’t get any myself. I feel like that’s going to be awkward because I don’t really talk to them. Any advice on how to get guy friends for my party or just in general 😅😅😂😂

    • @noeliacastelan7236
      @noeliacastelan7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Alexandra Flores YOU DID NOT💀

    • @noeliacastelan7236
      @noeliacastelan7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Alexandra Flores lmao let’s be friends 😼 ima turn 13 in like 5 months idk

  • @happyplace2792
    @happyplace2792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loved thisss plz do a dancing video for quince or some moves and songs for surprise dance I’m really struggling thanks love ya. ❤️

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a couple videos on dancing, hopefully we can come out with some more 😏

  • @cruzpmendoza2530
    @cruzpmendoza2530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me being a guy clicking thinking it’s gunna show me how to be good main chamalean

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HAHA it's just the asking process, maybe I can do a video on Do's and Don't for damas and chambelanes 🤔

    • @carsforlifelater1594
      @carsforlifelater1594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quinceaneraexpo you should

    • @biscuit3456
      @biscuit3456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quinceaneraexpo yes please

  • @angel_1683
    @angel_1683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t know how to dance

  • @mochiecat306
    @mochiecat306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Video: straight up
    Me: ahhh I will get too nervous
    Video: make him feel bad
    Me: I can't do that's too hard for me cuz I'm a good person
    Video: Compliment and recruit
    Me: Okay now that's an easy one for me cuz I always compliment my friends so that's easy
    btw I'm here 3 years early until my quinceanera

  • @ximenanava3281
    @ximenanava3281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't have any friends but I want a quinceanera what should I do?

  • @sophie3184
    @sophie3184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At my school there isn’t that many Hispanics and I’ve tried asking some girls to be my damas but they don’t really want to and it’s the same with guys :( I don’t have any cousins boys or girls around my age I only have a brother that’s 1 year younger than me but we don’t really get a long lol another thing is that I don’t really want to do a baile de sorpresa cause I feel like they’re always awkward and I can’t really dance but I wouldn’t mind doing one with a whole court (which I’m struggling a lot trying to get one) so idk what to do

    • @olgaj8341
      @olgaj8341 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      sophie you could also do a little vals with just your brother, it’s way less work, and it will still look good:)

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Make RSVP cards to make it sound legit! Let them know it's like having bridesmaids and groomsmen. 😬

    • @marthavazquez7
      @marthavazquez7 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl im in the exact situation too😭😭😭

  • @lorelaikaplan
    @lorelaikaplan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    None of my friends are also Hispanic so they have no idea what a chambelane even is 😂

  • @lizzierubio2311
    @lizzierubio2311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo my quince is in October and I need 5 chambelans but all my boy friends live 8 hrs away :( how cud I convince them

  • @noidealol
    @noidealol 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cousins neighbors and family friends to old and my crush would tell all his friends

  • @torirodriguez5751
    @torirodriguez5751 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I were to have chambelanes idk if I would rent them because they would have to be close like my family or my best friend…

  • @_Raphsway_
    @_Raphsway_ ปีที่แล้ว

    POV: the guy asks you what’s a chambelan

  • @stephanielunaa
    @stephanielunaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm just gonna work with other dancers bc they are all in the same location I'm gonna have my quince (I travel 😅)

  • @calvelo9873
    @calvelo9873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for this video I need to find 3 chambelanes

  • @Cupids_Obsession
    @Cupids_Obsession 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    can a chambelan be a girl?

    • @sir_glob7133
      @sir_glob7133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i mean theres Damas? Its kinda like a girl chambelan?

  • @melaniemae2002
    @melaniemae2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it ok if u only have damas in ur court ??

  • @savonnahmoe8424
    @savonnahmoe8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My quince is coming up this June and in a tiny country town in MISSOURI so ifk how to ask my only guy friend to be my chambelan! If I asked him he'd prolly say no and not even know what it is. Someone pls helpp

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As your only guy friend, let him know you're counting on him. Explain to him the best way possible, show him a video, and let him know how special it'll be to have him.

    • @savonnahmoe8424
      @savonnahmoe8424 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quinceaneraexpo Thank you so much! I asked him and he said he'd think about it! (Its better than a no)

  • @a.33308
    @a.33308 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait can you ask your tios to be your chambelans too? Cause I don’t got any cousins and I barely have close guy friends… but I have these two tios in their 20’s that I’m really close with. But like I don’t know how exactly choosing chambelans works 😭 helppp me pleaseee

  • @emelynfranco5487
    @emelynfranco5487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it okay to ask random boys u don’t even know to be your chambelan???

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TBH I asked my friends to ask any guy friends they had so I did have like 1 or 2 boys I didn't really know but turned out to be cool LOL

    • @emelynfranco5487
      @emelynfranco5487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      quinceaneraexpo I was thinking that, and I asked my crush to be my main chambelan and he said maybe....

    • @alyssa1583
      @alyssa1583 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emelyn Franco did he end up saying yes?

  • @hi-em3zh
    @hi-em3zh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tbh I don't even know why I got picked for this I haven't seen this girl in like years and my parents and her parents were asking if I can be the Chambelane

  • @speakfacts4579
    @speakfacts4579 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any one know where I can rent chambelanes in LA area

  • @GRIM.47
    @GRIM.47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can a girl be a Chambelan ?

    • @quinceaneraexpo
      @quinceaneraexpo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girls can definitely be a part of it too, they're called damas. :)

  • @sammjamz6219
    @sammjamz6219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i picked my chambelanes so easy, like i had so many options i feel bad for some friends I didnt pick

  • @evamarie4262
    @evamarie4262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m kind of new to this I just started planning but what does a chameleon do

  • @sonyacarrasco8455
    @sonyacarrasco8455 ปีที่แล้ว

    how advanced should i be asking the Damas and Chambelanes to be part of my court, 6, 8 months or a year?

    • @Forgotnatalie
      @Forgotnatalie ปีที่แล้ว

      mines in 4 months and im barely asking now😭😂

  • @atxxjenn
    @atxxjenn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i dont got no guy friends,no boy cousins,no older brother i honestly dont know what to do lmao

    • @montseh9945
      @montseh9945 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I can replace a guy with a girl but I might have to end up having to do a boy cousin or something, I don’t think you HAVE to have a chambelan but good luck finding one!

  • @desirae4012
    @desirae4012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need this 😐😬

  • @julizzazafra3313
    @julizzazafra3313 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks this helps

  • @allisonmtzz
    @allisonmtzz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love yall💎💙

  • @jazminostiguin3572
    @jazminostiguin3572 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Currently struggling to find chambelanes for my sis😣 & we’re both too shy to ask