Do lots of married couples have separate finances? Been married for almost 25 years and this is foreign to me. Beyond that I cant comprehend the idea of, "my money is my money and his money is our money" Thats a recipe for ruining a relationship.
@joelrodriguez9661 That is not a relationship. It is having a roommate not will to pay their share of the rent. I assume it they have children they are her responsibility, and if they separate, no child support? She has her own money!😁 You can't have it both ways!
You guys HAVE TO watch the Chris Rock stand up comedy video wherein he talks about the difference between men and women. It's epic because he nails it so hard dynamite couldn't take it apart. He tosses it down hard for an hour non stop, it's a must watch. So you know I'm a 59 yo "white man who "identifies" with other people. Like the man said the skin is for protection from the sun, it won't help protect you from women however. I was married....was married. Never again I said and I meant it. Been 20 years and some change and I haven't changed my mind. On the contrary, things are worse than ever. When I get a wedding invite or hear about someone I know getting hitched I send them a "get well soon card" with my sympathy and prayers 🙏 for a speedy recovery 😜
God bless you queen I hope I meet my soulmate like you are to your husband because as a young black man I’m already mentally tired but this gave me hope
That's because you're not a product of western feminism and social engineering. The black American woman is what you will become if you allow these efforts to take hold of people and culture. Be careful.
I've only went out with 2 black women in my life. One expected me to pay her cellphone bill on the first date. I got up and left. The other expected me to buy her stuff at the mall. I ditched her at the food court.
It's not a raise thing tho! Truth be told. There are many selfish & ignorant females out that! I'm a black woman. And has never used any1 for money. It's just wrong! That black woman isn't speaking for me.
Wow, im a black woman, and I've been married to my husband for over 30 years. That man is a retired veteran and has worked his ass off for his family for years. I would NEVER expect him to pay me back for anything. Guys, you need to look for quality females, not BBL's.
Just because he's a retired vet doesn't mean you're supposed to be his slave until death. Look up your history; most vets fought for nothing, oil, goods, guns and another countries resources, but NOT freedom! Stop worshipping people. If that's what you like then more power to ya. Let that be me and his azz WILL be helping around the house and not sitting around talking about "imma vet".🙄
@@fashionforwardmomBrazilian Butt Lift, it’s a cosmetic procedure women get to make their butts look bigger. Soooo many women have them now and it’s unfortunate because 90% of the time they look weird as heck.
She texted his friend to sleep with his friend. She is trash. Now, his friend is also trash. Everything this woman said and her attitude is all a red flag. She was a mistake from the beginning. His friend is most likely going to ditch her.
Soon as she appeared on screen and I saw those horse eyelashes I knew she was gonna be terrible. She reminds me of "New York" from MTV's "flavor of love". That shit was cringe before cringe was even a thing.
He did it to himself. His man card needs revoked - he shouldn't have given that trash the time of the day. Us men need to pass on women like that and let them be single the rest of their life. He had to know how she was but he was just thinking with his dick
It's worse than just "she slept with his friend". It's actually "she slept with his friend FOR MONEY". We all know what word describes that sort of behavior.
Bro I remember my homies wife told me her friend broke up with her husband and she came to the party. I was talking to her for a bit then she hit me with that ‘hey you got a good job huh?’ 😂 ol girl was looking for some security
She had no business even getting g together with friend until she had her emotio s and priorities checked. She totally intended on doing what she did. Now she's lying on top of being g rachet. Run Dude! Run!
I'm an older lady and our generation was raised to keep private stuff private. Arguments and personal things were handled in private. It was shameful to raise your voice and act a fool and you earned respect by being respectful.
Too right, Ma'am. I'm an old white lady and my first job was around older black ladies. They were the most dignified, respected women I had ever met! They carried themselves with so much grace, I just cannot imagine them being anything than the Queens they were. I was only 16, and I will never forget those ladies.
I'm a white guy. I became acquainted with this black guy. Didn't get real friendly but close enough to have he and his family over the house for bbq's. He worked construction during the day. He took on a moonlighting job as a security guard so his wife could go back to school during the day. He worked 8-10 hours a day in construction; made dinner for he and his two kids; then worked into the early hours of the following morning as a security guard; get home and get a few hours sleep and get up and do it all over again for two years. After she graduated, she started getting promotions at her job and made more money than he did. Just like the woman in this video, the money he made was "our" money and the money she made was "her" money. He never asked me for my opinion regarding this arrangement so I never gave it.
In our home, we firmly believe that teamwork make the dream work. And when we need to vent, we vent to each other. Both of our money comes back into the household.
I cannot feel badly for him. Eyelashes ✅ Long, dirty, ridiculous nails ✅ His money is theirs, her money is hers ✅ He jumped into this with both feet. He chose it. He signed in for it.
Oh yh,if he already knows how her engine works,spent a week or 2,basically knows what she thinks about idk EVERYTHING, and yet u stayed???u wanna hang around a month and just think ur gonna smash it and not get any opinion either??RIGHT...if u gonna order the burger,U GOTTA TAKE THE FRIES ON THA SIDE TOO!!u can't expect the whole meal,without eating some shitty 🍟 sometimes 🙄🤣🤦♂️🤷♂️😂✌️🍻🤟
There’s some disdain with all people in all communities. The whatever podcast lists these very things for ww lol smh. A bunch of hurt people not growing ❤️🩹
So she cheated because she had to pay a month's worth of her own house bills! Just when you think these woman can't possibly go any lower. What an embarrassment
I met a black woman in Monaco. Most expensive date I ever had, she could eat and drink like no-one else. She practically ordered everything on the menu because "I can't be sure if I like it or not". I felt like I had been robbed, reparations, I certainly paid my fair share that night.
I've dated a couple black women. Super beautiful women, but I found them argumentative, entitled, and wanting to be spoiled despite having bad attitudes. It didn't take long to see it was gonna be a bad path for me, so I got out quick each time.
Likewise just described the last black woman I was “talking” basically self sabotaged not even a month in 🤷🏽♂️ exactly why I don’t date black women unless they’re a specific type.
@dekoflores3637 I would agree more females today, absolutely. Note the distinction with my use of female instead of woman. These females often let you know from the get what they are about. They can't help themselves. Some men get sprung (been there, don't that) and let their senses down. These females begin to learn how horrible they are in their thirties and forties. When men don't want them anymore other than to smash. Then they get old, lonely, and bitter. Lol!! What a breakdown!! Sometimes, I impress myself..
That's the attitude of most black women. That's why 56% of black men have walked away from them(all the hard working non criminal black men). They're entitlement is off the charts.
It's 100% cultural, not color. Go find a good African woman from Kenya or Tanzania or any eastern African country. You will be the happiest man on earth.
My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years now. And from day 1, regardless of who made more or less, both paychecks went in the pot, and the bills were paid. Then, after all the bills were paid and groceries were bought for the month the the rest was left in the bank. If either of us wants something we may want, we will discuss it first.
Apparently that woman refuses to grasp the concept of: Marriage is supposed to be an EQUAL PARTNERSHIP, not her sucking up all that cash leaving him without. She never loved her "husband", she only wanted to be with him for HIS money. Women like that are why I quit searching for love, let it happen on its own.
Also obviously such women are horrible with money. They are the type that will win the lottery and waste it all in a few years. They never realise that with their ways they make themselves eternally poor because a man by her side will never manage to become great since she will be sucking his recourses and ability to have capital and expand his life. Therefore the guy will end up poor and she will then leave him while without her the guy will have the money to invest and become successful. Then she sees the other woman that is married to a highly successful man and she gets jealous and wonders why she can't have that. She can't because she didn't stand by her man and tried to help him succeed like that woman did, she instead put blocks in his ability to succeed and sucked him try and stopped him from having the ability to invest and buy a house and make sure they have big pensions etc etc. Now she lives alone in a small horrible apartment paying rent and struggling to get by and still wasting most of her money on getting her nails done and putting big eyelashes without realising what she is doing.
The fact that she "laid down the law" to him BEFORE he married her and he still married her makes him the fool. She wasn't trying to hide who and what she is.
That is horrible. She cheated on her husband! And she has no remorse. A marriage is a partnership where both people pitch in and help each other and work together to make it through life.
There are things that shld be talked about before marriage Will we become parents/ how many kids/ Etc He knew how she felt about her $ before they marry
To answer the poster below: My wife and I, 2nd marriage for both of us, have separate finances. We kept them that way for convenience since it was all setup that way when we met. We share expenses and pay our bills together. She manages her own money as do I. WE never have ever utter any words like "your money is my money", ever. Just toxic greed demanding entitled bullshit. We are older folks now I am 67 my wife 65 soon so that is a factor as well. We don't do bling or flashy cars or any of that stupid expensive crap behaviors. 100% debt free with money in the accounts. If a woman says that even once? Run screaming from the building. Do not wait, do not delay. Run away as fast as you can.
She said he knew about that at the start of the relationship. Man if I heard that shit especially early in the relationship i'd be like 'get the fuck outta my house' lol
I'm absolutely certain that long term marriages like this are going to be a thing of the past. There is a serious lack of morality today and too many low quality women for that to be sustainable.
35 years here and still going strong. Also wanted to share I have more money most of our marriage. My husband and I have always shared/combined our finances and pay bills together. I don’t have a separate bank account from our account together.
The man who got rid of the woman who left him can be so happy to get rid of her. As Steve Martin said in a film: "You can't live with them (women), and you can't live without them!" But it is better to live without a woman like her than to live with her! You can't be happy with that kind of woman. It doesn't matter if she is beautiful! Finally, you will hate her!
My wife is Black. From the Motherland of Africa! She is very Black and a wonderful human being and a wonderful woman. She is kind and polite. Her Kenyan culture is different from American culture.
@shannonconrad4988 I'm a white guy and spent two years living in South Africa. The differences in attitude is night and day different from American black culture. It was kind of a shock actually, but the other part of that is that even between the different tribes in South Africa the cultural norms are quite different one from another, to the point that I now don't like to hear global references to "African" culture, as they are so very different from region to region. But mostly the women were very conservative and very traditionally minded. Travel is an important method of education.
Your wife probably had a father who showed her how to recognize a good man. A good number of American Black women, did not have fathers in the house to teach them that, so they think that men are beneath them.
“Play stupid games, win stupid prizes”… anyone that would consider a relationship with a woman like this (Gay or straight), should be required to have a psychological assessment. The ‘lack of maturity’ speaks volumes as to how relationships work. I’ve been married 36 years & its WORK. Both working towards combined goals…. It can be the BEST or the WORST, depending on how you choose….. choose wisely.
Truth. Love of my life, obviously not his, knew I had kids...was cool to have situationship until he kissed me. Whoa. Then decided his bank account may deflect due to my n their fathers children. Whaaattt? Nyet....you Can have a life with a woman with kids that had present fathers...its all a mindfu*k for gay trannyism. Yes, I divorced less deserving animal, but I still sought love. A mistake. We are judged as less.
@@GreatIntellect13 White people aren’t ‘others’ we are all part of the same oneness. Twists comment was tongue in cheek at the woman’s ridiculous behaviour. She was hardly condemning the whole of the black community!
What?! 😂😂😂 I keep my nails long. I’m the major breadwinner in my home. I cook, clean, raise kids. Everything my husband has is because of me. Miss me with that. Lol
@@seasons365 and just like you felt the need to defend yourself here - where you were not called out, named, or thought of in kind of way, shape, or form... You indirectly proved the OP's point. absolutely NO ONE here knew how long your nails were... We didn't ask about how much money you have... But you felt the need to defend yourself... Now we know that you're also the type to bring up what you did for the family financially in an argument with your "husband"
In Africa our women are hardworking, they go to the farms, markets, offices and take care of the children. This culture in America is alien to us. They are also the pillars of the churches and guardians of morality
“My money is my money, your money is our money.” Let’s be honest, she just said the quiet part out loud as a lot of women think like this. This that Sexy Red & Ice Spice Effect.
This makes me so sad lol, I’m a 46 year old single mom of 2 young adult sons & have been single for a while & it’s hard dating bc men look at all women the same these days. I DO NOT want your money. Yes, if we are a couple for a while & live together there should be sharing but from BOTH sides. I just want to live with a roof over my head, food on the table, gas in the car, compassion, conversation, companionship, loyalty, trust & love. I know it sounds like a lot but it’s BASIC & I want to do it TOGETHER. What’s yours is MINE but what’s mine is also YOURS. Idk, maybe I’m old fashioned haha…I just enjoy people & want to take care of each other. We need to rise up as an American people & get through the hard sh*t. Be well all, peace and love ✌🏻🇺🇸♥️
I'm a Black American woman and the last thing I care about is an emasculated Black man. I take care of me and don't and never have depended on a sorry Black man
@@forwarddiscipline At least all of the women that have been around first-hand on visits to Senegal, Kenya, and South Africa were a whole lot different than American women (different in a good way).
I don't feel bad for that dude at all...as soon as he heard her speak he knew what type of women he was getting. How in the hell can you even stand to listen to her for more than 5 minutes.
@janedoe-hq9vn I know that's how it's spelled, but I didn't hear and "N" either. More like veh-eh. Like damn we just keep taking letters out of words now. No wonder younger people speak in modern day hieroglyphics (emoji)
The culture of many women today is that "my money is my money and his money is my money." I just never understood. When you get married, it's no longer yours alone but "ours". I make double what my husband makes, but we have a joint account. Were a couple, and i trust him with everything. That is why i chose him as a husband; he's my partner for life.
It's been said many times, many different ways...."The winter is coming sistas..." 1 out of 4 black women have been married in their lives and that number is dropping. 2nd marriages are far less likely to survive the first 5-10 years. Being frustrated with your husband's inability to to pay bills is one issue, but to torpedo your family due to inconvenience is pure selfishness. Soon enough, there will be even less black men to complain about in the dating pool. Good luck, sistas... you'll need it.
Since i stopped dating ABW and started dating African women, my reality on quality women has drastically changed. I thought low quality was high quality, and the standard was ABW until I started dating out. I can never date ABW it's low quality but I had to experience high quality to know the difference. know your worth and stop dealing with these low quality Keshias. The world is yours
That woman was acting more like a mistress! She lives with him for a wage ( in this case, the rent and bills paid ), and when the money stops, she goes.
As a black woman, I really wish this wasn't the narrative or standard for black women. There are so many of us that are the complete opposite of what is described in this video. I can only speak for myself, but I'm out praying to find an man that is a man of faith, is not a thug, at nearly 40 or older, has his life and finances together, not sex crazed, respectful and willing to communicate effectively, travel and have a successful partnership. No drama. I've worked hard to have my own money. If ever the situation arose, I could handle things financially. So I don't need his money, it would just be an added bonus. We are not all money hungry, promiscuous, ghetto, hood rat chicks. Some of us were actually raised to be respectful, productive parts of society. Ijs.
My grandfather was a marines veteran and an ordained minister, my grandmother worked in health care and was a self taught seamstress. I make my own dresses for fun, practice violin, and pride myself in being a talented painter. If I'm not the type of black person you're used to seeing, something is wrong with black representation 💯
I was at a family barbecue last weekend and a young man with two little kids both in their early 20s,her barely 21, She had no education no job and two kids by her 21st birthday. Still not married and her ego was so huge, She thought she was the prize. He works as a welder comes home babysits does the cooking and listens to her ratchet at him about not doing a good enough job with the kids. On her watch, the five-year-old fell out the goddamn bedroom window on his head. She’s got the nerve to ratchet at him? She was doing it in front of everybody and I looked at him and said” are you going to check that shit?” She didn’t like me too much. I dragged him aside and said, do you wanna be miserable for the rest of your life if you don’t, then you get her in line right now or you dump her ass and get the kids. I really hope he listens because I love his family and I don’t want to see a miserable for the next 20 years or more. Man up young men don’t take that shit.
She just told the world she cheated on her husband and with his friend at that.. I do think it’s a problem when men don’t feel they need to provide for their wife, but we have a role as well. She wanted him to be a man when she clearly wasn’t the wife she was supposed to be.
Loving them how, definitely not in marriage. Last time I checked, 93 percent of black men married black women, so where are all these brothers who are being loved by white women.
For richer or POORER, in sickness, and in health. That includes mental health. Some people have no loyalty, honor, or integrity, just living from one purchase to the next, or one partner to the next, to make themselves feel better.
I was doing my field work. I was working my way though a large office area during lunch and overheard this woman on the phone, obviously talking to another woman. Marital discord was in the air, and I overheard this woman say, "Just remember when you see the lawyer. What yours is yours, and what's his is YOURS!". I'm a boomer. In my time I saw a lot of marriages start off all lovey-dovey. But, once the apartment morphed into a nice house; the rusting Nissan became a pair of good cars; the K-Mart kit furniture became real wood furniture, she (always she) decided that she didn't love him anymore and was going to take the better of the two cars, the house, the furniture, and sole custody of the children. I never married.
‘My husband asked if I could help with the finances this month so I cheated on him with his friend, can you believe how horrible he is?!? Am I right, ladies?!?’ 🤢
Good I would not advise you to either. Dated 2 black chicks and by far the worse experience of my life. My first gf was white and there was no problems either. Last black chick I talked to stood me up and wasted my time. They not worth it man
@@jaysouthmusic8230it’s not about the it being a black and white . it about the home she comes from . The economic status . Does she come from a two parent household. It’s who you choose . It’s not a color thing men go after these women with the eye sweeping lashes drag makeup Lace front wigs screaming she independent but want you to spend crazy amounts money on her hair and nails or a damn designer bag . They become jaded by the race of women . I’m a black woman . My fiancé had to remind to set a hair appointment. I know how to do my own hair and I don’t believe in paying a lot of money for that . Alot of this is culture but it’s good black women out there that don’t behave like what you came across . Her behind is in the house somewhere .
Facts I even heard that even white dudes don’t want them and those be the ones most black women be worshipping and swear up and down that they are better
Facts. I've always told folks (before I met my wife) that I don't GAF what a woman's skin color is, or what countries are in her bloodline, as long as she had a good personality/non-gold-digger/doesn't slam me for my interests/hobbies if she doesn't like them.
I have been divorced since 2012. I have dated several women since my divorce. They were all narcissist. I have not been with a woman in 10 years. I have never been this happy in my entire life. They are just not worth my effort.
@arizonagirl6474 I know that all women are not that way. I am a decent man who always put other's needs before my own. They, including my ex-wife, just were not looking for someone like me. I do not need anyone else to make me happy. I am truly free. I do not have to answer to anyone but my dog. He is okay with whatever I choose to do.
In 1960, the Black American community had a single-parenthood rate of 20%. Now that rate is 75%. When the Civil Rights Act was signed the poverty rate was 17-18%. Now, after 59 years and 22-24 trillion dollars, the poverty rate is 13-14%. The problem is not society's reaction to our minority population, but the culture within the minority population itself.
I have natural long beautiful hair, no nails, no fake eyelashes, no fake butt,no fake thighs, im not loud,I still like long walks in the park, my church , im very respectful & I respect my husbands views ,I am submissive ,oh I do love fried chicken but I love to juice veggies & fruit. I love hiking & bike riding. Please stop putting us all in the same boat please ....thanks
Except for the submissive part, you got it right. I've been married for 41 years, and we're partners. We consult each other about things and respect each other. I give in to him and he gives in to me.
@@auroraborealis6009 being submissive is one of the component of being a good wife, a masculine man want a submissive feminine woman, submissive doesn't mean weak or less than, just like a men being a provider is what attract feminine women, you are asking him to have responsibilities without any authority, also if you are Christian its in the bible, that's why the men in your countries leave to find wives in other continents, its only happening in the west, that's telling.
@@sole008 That's where you're wrong. I'm a lapsed Catholic, but I remember my Sunday School teacher saying that God made Eve from one of Adam's ribs so she could walk beside him.
@@auroraborealis6009 even in Catholicism it's said that jesus is the head of the church the church is the head of men and men are the head of their families and each should follow their master, if you are not convinced give me the version of the bible you read and i will give you the verse. And anyway if a man is masculine enough his wife will naturally submit to him unless she doesn't look up to him or is more masculine than him. Which is your case I presume.
"my money is MY money, his money is OUR money" wtf?! why get married then?! How can a grown ass women not understand how marriage works? this is insnae.
Same here. We're a partnership. Can't tell you how many times one of us has gone to look at something, run into a salesman who was desperate to make a sale, and tried to "shame" one of us into buying something when we said, "I'm going to talk to my spouse about it," or "I want my spouse to see it first." They try, especially with my husband, to make it seem like we're whipped. I just tell them, "Well, we've been together 40 years, still in love, and if we do decide to purchase it; it won't be from you.'
As a black woman, I would be ashamed to treat a man like that for money. I dated wealthy men but asked for nothing. Other blacks around me thought me a fool but I cared about them men I dated and have no broken bridges and can call any of them and have a good talk. They treated me good and I treated them good. I can buy my own stuff and never have had a weave since I do have hair growing on my head and I don't need fake nails, or my feet done. Who told women they needed these things. Who told you this stuff is important? They are so busy trying to get these things, they forget how to act and just be a lady. I feel for young men today who have to date this mess out here.
You are a very rare woman in today's times. My 2 white exwives where just like this woman. Red flags didn't show til after we were married. Good for you in having morals and a good upbringing.
Do lots of married couples have separate finances? Been married for almost 25 years and this is foreign to me.
Beyond that I cant comprehend the idea of, "my money is my money and his money is our money"
Thats a recipe for ruining a relationship.
you are absolutely right
@joelrodriguez9661 That is not a relationship. It is having a roommate not will to pay their share of the rent. I assume it they have children they are her responsibility, and if they separate, no child support? She has her own money!😁 You can't have it both ways!
You guys HAVE TO watch the Chris Rock stand up comedy video wherein he talks about the difference between men and women. It's epic because he nails it so hard dynamite couldn't take it apart. He tosses it down hard for an hour non stop, it's a must watch. So you know I'm a 59 yo "white man who "identifies" with other people. Like the man said the skin is for protection from the sun, it won't help protect you from women however. I was married....was married. Never again I said and I meant it. Been 20 years and some change and I haven't changed my mind. On the contrary, things are worse than ever. When I get a wedding invite or hear about someone I know getting hitched I send them a "get well soon card" with my sympathy and prayers 🙏 for a speedy recovery 😜
I got one like this so I tell her your child is your child
A socialist mindset is like that.
I’m Latina….our money is our money. When he is not working I pay …when I’m not working…..he pays …when we work….we pay. This is math.
God bless you queen I hope I meet my soulmate like you are to your husband because as a young black man I’m already mentally tired but this gave me hope
where can I find a woman like you.
Same. Couples depend on eachother, that's how a relationship works. Teamwork makes the Dream work❤
🫵🏾💯
That's because you're not a product of western feminism and social engineering. The black American woman is what you will become if you allow these efforts to take hold of people and culture. Be careful.
The culture: Ashamed of nothing, offended by everything
Never their fault..
Always blaming others when they fail at any part of a day
We must accept reality And realize it's time to peacefully separate.
@@PhilAlumbleave them. Force them to follow or fend for themselves
So true
You just hit the nail on the head 😂
I've only went out with 2 black women in my life. One expected me to pay her cellphone bill on the first date. I got up and left. The other expected me to buy her stuff at the mall. I ditched her at the food court.
Every man should follow your lead in this regard.
It's not a raise thing tho!
Truth be told. There are many selfish & ignorant females out that!
I'm a black woman. And has never used any1 for money. It's just wrong! That black woman isn't speaking for me.
You ever met one like DENISE FRAZIER .. FROM MISSISSIPPI
OH JUST GOOGLE HER
I would only do thing different start lmao at them
White women do the same thing!!
Wow, im a black woman, and I've been married to my husband for over 30 years. That man is a retired veteran and has worked his ass off for his family for years. I would NEVER expect him to pay me back for anything. Guys, you need to look for quality females, not BBL's.
i thank him for his service.
Just because he's a retired vet doesn't mean you're supposed to be his slave until death. Look up your history; most vets fought for nothing, oil, goods, guns and another countries resources, but NOT freedom! Stop worshipping people. If that's what you like then more power to ya. Let that be me and his azz WILL be helping around the house and not sitting around talking about "imma vet".🙄
What is a BBL?
@fashionforwardmom a very ignorant, perverted, distorted, unattractive and ungodly surgical alteration to a mostly female body and some males.
@@fashionforwardmomBrazilian Butt Lift, it’s a cosmetic procedure women get to make their butts look bigger. Soooo many women have them now and it’s unfortunate because 90% of the time they look weird as heck.
Lack of shame
Lake of common sense
Lack of decency
Lack of honesty
And then the audacity
The "culture"
I'm black and even I don't date black women.
@@aradustruitt6956 I hear that a lot, especially in Atlanta. Would it be too personal to ask why?
@@argarman09 You know why, you're just trying to be funny.
@@mcflex8913 I'm asking someone else a legitimate question because I want to know. I don't recall asking you anything.
She texted his friend to sleep with his friend. She is trash.
Now, his friend is also trash.
Everything this woman said and her attitude is all a red flag. She was a mistake from the beginning. His friend is most likely going to ditch her.
Agreed
Soon as she appeared on screen and I saw those horse eyelashes I knew she was gonna be terrible. She reminds me of "New York" from MTV's "flavor of love". That shit was cringe before cringe was even a thing.
Wonder how many diseases she's had or has, I heard my ratchet neighbor talking a out her gonorrhea...wtf? Talking loud into the phone, no class.
She got more red flags than a Chinese laundromat!
He did it to himself. His man card needs revoked - he shouldn't have given that trash the time of the day. Us men need to pass on women like that and let them be single the rest of their life. He had to know how she was but he was just thinking with his dick
It's worse than just "she slept with his friend". It's actually "she slept with his friend FOR MONEY". We all know what word describes that sort of behavior.
One for the streets
Bro I remember my homies wife told me her friend broke up with her husband and she came to the party. I was talking to her for a bit then she hit me with that ‘hey you got a good job huh?’ 😂 ol girl was looking for some security
That’s the oldest profession
She had no business even getting g together with friend until she had her emotio s and priorities checked. She totally intended on doing what she did. Now she's lying on top of being g rachet. Run Dude! Run!
“Now I ain’t saying she a gold digger… but she ain’t messing with no broke..”
I'm an older lady and our generation was raised to keep private stuff private. Arguments and personal things were handled in private. It was shameful to raise your voice and act a fool and you earned respect by being respectful.
They taught the boys the same thing, Oh and to open doors for ladies.
Too right, Ma'am. I'm an old white lady and my first job was around older black ladies. They were the most dignified, respected women I had ever met! They carried themselves with so much grace, I just cannot imagine them being anything than the Queens they were. I was only 16, and I will never forget those ladies.
The real crime here is the dude accepting those terms and conditions in the first place.
These dudes be pussies and worship these birds.
Instead of focusing on themselves.
Well hell if that's the case it's on him 😂
🐈 whipped
facts, he simped for her and got burned
Ikr!
I'd be so ashamed if I raised a daughter who turned out this way.
@rl3810 It feels a bit like schools are raising kids with those values more and more strongly. How tragic.
@@1DrBar Schools don't raise kids. Parents do. If they're messed up they show up day 1 that way. Don't dump it on public school teachers.
A single mother or foster home raised her.
@@ronlackey2689They don’t raise the kids but for sure brainwash them with this bullshit.
Might have been following her friends advice.
Leave her where she stands. You are lucky to get away with no children.
Thank God!
Thank God for subtitles.
I'm a white guy. I became acquainted with this black guy. Didn't get real friendly but close enough to have he and his family over the house for bbq's.
He worked construction during the day. He took on a moonlighting job as a security guard so his wife could go back to school during the day. He worked 8-10 hours a day in construction; made dinner for he and his two kids; then worked into the early hours of the following morning as a security guard; get home and get a few hours sleep and get up and do it all over again for two years.
After she graduated, she started getting promotions at her job and made more money than he did. Just like the woman in this video, the money he made was "our" money and the money she made was "her" money.
He never asked me for my opinion regarding this arrangement so I never gave it.
He should divorce her and get his alimony money!
You can't fix stupid...
That's what us girls in NZ
call an expensive f..k surely he could do better
Divorce her and get the alimony money
Sad Asf 😩😩😣😣😣😣
Bet he had 80% white in him
"I told him from day one, 'My money is my money, and your money is our money'." That's not a marriage, that a master/slave relationship.
Yep
Why would anyone put up with this kind of crap regardless of the color of their skin?!? WTF?!?!
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Agreed
Facts!!!!
maybe she got.."SKILLS "
In our home, we firmly believe that teamwork make the dream work. And when we need to vent, we vent to each other. Both of our money comes back into the household.
I cannot feel badly for him.
Eyelashes ✅
Long, dirty, ridiculous nails ✅
His money is theirs, her money is hers ✅
He jumped into this with both feet. He chose it. He signed in for it.
👆💯she told his simp @$$ day 1. Her money was her money 😂
Oh yh,if he already knows how her engine works,spent a week or 2,basically knows what she thinks about idk EVERYTHING, and yet u stayed???u wanna hang around a month and just think ur gonna smash it and not get any opinion either??RIGHT...if u gonna order the burger,U GOTTA TAKE THE FRIES ON THA SIDE TOO!!u can't expect the whole meal,without eating some shitty 🍟 sometimes 🙄🤣🤦♂️🤷♂️😂✌️🍻🤟
There’s some disdain with all people in all communities. The whatever podcast lists these very things for ww lol smh. A bunch of hurt people not growing ❤️🩹
Shameful!
My second wife was like that. Her money was hers. My money was ours. She's no longer my wife.
So she cheated because she had to pay a month's worth of her own house bills! Just when you think these woman can't possibly go any lower. What an embarrassment
Well, I'm not like that... thanks for putting us all in the same circle.
Maybe it was not only one month's bills ..... it was every month's bills.
@@aaliyahhernandez223”these women” if the shoe fits🤷♂️
Yo what’s ur embarrassmentz I’m 😬ask n for meh friend hello
Bet she spends what I make in week on nails ,hair,and makeup and I make decent $ for the Midwest😉
She didn’t just sleep with his friend, she took money for it.
Basically she whored herself out for $$.
And if you called her what she deserves to be called she'd think you were wrong.
Of course. She wouldn't have slept with him otherwise. "Your body in my body means your money is my money".
Yeah this was skipped over. She hooks up with a guy and then non chalantly says “he gave me money or whatever”. Ok gotcha so you’re a prostitute 😂😂😂
@@riboflavinfolate3964As my good friend calls it. Horrors
And then she'll wonder why she's always alone.
I met a black woman in Monaco. Most expensive date I ever had, she could eat and drink like no-one else. She practically ordered everything on the menu because "I can't be sure if I like it or not". I felt like I had been robbed, reparations, I certainly paid my fair share that night.
Poverty mentality.
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Lol she ate and drank that much my dude I hope you checked under her hood to make sure lol
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@@rubesco5928😂😂😂
I've dated a couple black women. Super beautiful women, but I found them argumentative, entitled, and wanting to be spoiled despite having bad attitudes. It didn't take long to see it was gonna be a bad path for me, so I got out quick each time.
Likewise just described the last black woman I was “talking” basically self sabotaged not even a month in 🤷🏽♂️ exactly why I don’t date black women unless they’re a specific type.
Hmmm...Thats too bad. Sorry you went through that experience.
That female has zero sense.
And yet that fool put a ring on it. Yikes.
Most women are like that, i life in Amsterdam same thing i come from curaçao same thing
@dekoflores3637 I would agree more females today, absolutely. Note the distinction with my use of female instead of woman. These females often let you know from the get what they are about. They can't help themselves. Some men get sprung (been there, don't that) and let their senses down. These females begin to learn how horrible they are in their thirties and forties.
When men don't want them anymore other than to smash.
Then they get old, lonely, and bitter.
Lol!! What a breakdown!! Sometimes, I impress myself..
@dekoflores3637 female versus, a woman.
That thing is a female.
Zero integrity, zero dignity, zero respect
I would tell her husband to "RUN FORREST RUN".....LMAO
😂😂😂
“My money is my money, his money is Our money”. Wow thats Ridiculous
Wow, her Mentality is fucking rotten.
That's the attitude of most black women. That's why 56% of black men have walked away from them(all the hard working non criminal black men).
They're entitlement is off the charts.
It’s the most common attitude of women today.
that woman is so trash, she had to help with bills for once, so she left and screwed his friend... LOL WHAT? trash asf
@@johnthomas6849 NO it's Not!
That woman was raised WRONG!!!!!
Yes, by a single mother.
You think?
Aren't most of them are? Lol
Lots of black women are brainwashed by other black women.
She probably a drug dealer @@joaopedrobaggio4475
so she openly told him 'my money is my money, your money is our money' and he still married her? dumb.
Exactly.....
I was reading your comment the same exact time she said that
Whelp!.....This was her attitude during the gf/bf period and she stuck with that attitude now as wife/husband.... Whomp! There it is
Exactly, start holding people accountable for the type of people they attract. It’s a reflection of your imperfections.
It's 100% cultural, not color. Go find a good African woman from Kenya or Tanzania or any eastern African country. You will be the happiest man on earth.
that's true tho ...I agree 💯
Yeah right. They want money to
@@MMM1981Dr They are still female.. have to watch em lol
She's acting like she is the victim!!!!
Everything about her is fake - fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake nails and fake personality.
They all seem to have this victim mentality
@@Photomonon how did black people become victims what happened to them that made them victims
@@Photomonon... it's the "Bully Pretending to be Victim" mentality.
She said she told him about that from day 1... Who here really believes her? 😒🤣
My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years now. And from day 1, regardless of who made more or less, both paychecks went in the pot, and the bills were paid. Then, after all the bills were paid and groceries were bought for the month the the rest was left in the bank. If either of us wants something we may want, we will discuss it first.
Cringe
Same at my house. It's worked well for thirty years.
Same. That’s how a good marital partnership works.
@@capwb Mature successful marriages are cringe? lol
@@capwb What the heck are you talking about. Must have posted that 'cringe reply' on the wrong comment.
Apparently that woman refuses to grasp the concept of: Marriage is supposed to be an EQUAL PARTNERSHIP, not her sucking up all that cash leaving him without. She never loved her "husband", she only wanted to be with him for HIS money.
Women like that are why I quit searching for love, let it happen on its own.
Also obviously such women are horrible with money. They are the type that will win the lottery and waste it all in a few years. They never realise that with their ways they make themselves eternally poor because a man by her side will never manage to become great since she will be sucking his recourses and ability to have capital and expand his life.
Therefore the guy will end up poor and she will then leave him while without her the guy will have the money to invest and become successful.
Then she sees the other woman that is married to a highly successful man and she gets jealous and wonders why she can't have that.
She can't because she didn't stand by her man and tried to help him succeed like that woman did, she instead put blocks in his ability to succeed and sucked him try and stopped him from having the ability to invest and buy a house and make sure they have big pensions etc etc.
Now she lives alone in a small horrible apartment paying rent and struggling to get by and still wasting most of her money on getting her nails done and putting big eyelashes without realising what she is doing.
If you pray you will find it
She loves the color green…
There are white and Hispanic and Asian women who THINK exactly like the woman in the video but they got enough sense not to say it out loud.
Black American women are horrible say that out loud
O ye speacliy Asians and Korean women
They learn that behaviour from the single mommas that raised most of them. Angry , emotional, illogical, entitled, demanding and outta control.
That's just what I was saying
Yup. It's a vicious cycle.
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I know that's right 😮
Add to this: arrogant, belligerent and confrontational.
The fact that she "laid down the law" to him BEFORE he married her and he still married her makes him the fool. She wasn't trying to hide who and what she is.
She initiated a private hang out session with his homeboy but swears she didn’t mean anything to happen… Right.
Do you smell that? It smells like...bullshit!
Women are the best at planning infidelity.. And when they do it, it was a well thought out plan for a good while now. It's never a surprise.
With drinks too 🤣
@@here2play760 And cash at the end of the night.
Don’t expect more (from a person) than you’re willing to give. That goes for relationships and friendships.
If my wife had the nerve to ask me to pay her back for a bill when she knows I'm doing my best, that's the last conversation we'll have.
That is horrible. She cheated on her husband! And she has no remorse. A marriage is a partnership where both people pitch in and help each other and work together to make it through life.
She prostituted herself. HE PAID HER.
"My money is my money and your money is our money" that's a crazy ass thing to tell your husband when you married him and a huge red flag
And that dummy still said, "I do."
@@hoviksmail RIGHT. wtf. Sorry but he deserve it. Beta mindset to the core.
Or with children: it's my child generally, it's our child when I want something from you, and it's your child if the child did something bad.
There are things that shld be talked about before marriage
Will we become parents/ how many kids/ Etc
He knew how she felt about her $ before they marry
To answer the poster below: My wife and I, 2nd marriage for both of us, have separate finances. We kept them that way for convenience since it was all setup that way when we met. We share expenses and pay our bills together. She manages her own money as do I. WE never have ever utter any words like "your money is my money", ever. Just toxic greed demanding entitled bullshit.
We are older folks now I am 67 my wife 65 soon so that is a factor as well. We don't do bling or flashy cars or any of that stupid expensive crap behaviors. 100% debt free with money in the accounts.
If a woman says that even once? Run screaming from the building. Do not wait, do not delay. Run away as fast as you can.
She is completely inhuman. No remorse, no care, no self reflection. She does not deserve a husband.
Her nails though.😱
"My money is MY money & his money is OUR money."🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This can’t be real
Thunder is coming
She said he knew about that at the start of the relationship. Man if I heard that shit especially early in the relationship i'd be like 'get the fuck outta my house' lol
There’s a popular TH-camR called Manifestelle. She preaches that message.
Shows that she just loves her self
My parents are married 54 years and they have always supported each other through everything. The crap going on today is disgusting 😒
40 years here and still going
I'm absolutely certain that long term marriages like this are going to be a thing of the past. There is a serious lack of morality today and too many low quality women for that to be sustainable.
35 years here and still going strong. Also wanted to share I have more money most of our marriage. My husband and I have always shared/combined our finances and pay bills together. I don’t have a separate bank account from our account together.
The man who got rid of the woman who left him can be so happy to get rid of her. As Steve Martin said in a film: "You can't live with them (women), and you can't live without them!" But it is better to live without a woman like her than to live with her! You can't be happy with that kind of woman. It doesn't matter if she is beautiful! Finally, you will hate her!
I'm a white man and I know a lot of white women with this same attitude
No doubt, neem dealing with that for all my life, 75 years.
Yup, this isnt black culture, its now American culture.
@@Shawn-94 Nah, these women are being "taught" this in college.
@@Shawn-94Highly doubt that
@@mr.realistic9791 10 year olds are listening to Megan the stallion
My wife is Black. From the Motherland of Africa!
She is very Black and a wonderful human being and a wonderful woman. She is kind and polite.
Her Kenyan culture is different from American culture.
@shannonconrad4988 I'm a white guy and spent two years living in South Africa. The differences in attitude is night and day different from American black culture. It was kind of a shock actually, but the other part of that is that even between the different tribes in South Africa the cultural norms are quite different one from another, to the point that I now don't like to hear global references to "African" culture, as they are so very different from region to region. But mostly the women were very conservative and very traditionally minded. Travel is an important method of education.
Kenyan women are the best Africans to marry.
Your wife probably had a father who showed her how to recognize a good man. A good number of American Black women, did not have fathers in the house to teach them that, so they think that men are beneath them.
I watch real housewives of Dubai. I have learned about other cultural cruelty and inhumane practices that Iman overcame.
@@Trauma_to_Triumphno
When you are married it is a partnership. You cover each other.
Sad she didn't look at it that way.
Unfortunately not everyone applies themselves that way anymore
“Play stupid games, win stupid prizes”… anyone that would consider a relationship with a woman like this (Gay or straight), should be required to have a psychological assessment. The ‘lack of maturity’ speaks volumes as to how relationships work. I’ve been married 36 years & its WORK. Both working towards combined goals…. It can be the BEST or the WORST, depending on how you choose….. choose wisely.
Truth. Love of my life, obviously not his, knew I had kids...was cool to have situationship until he kissed me. Whoa. Then decided his bank account may deflect due to my n their fathers children. Whaaattt? Nyet....you Can have a life with a woman with kids that had present fathers...its all a mindfu*k for gay trannyism. Yes, I divorced less deserving animal, but I still sought love. A mistake. We are judged as less.
As a black woman, I don’t claim that black woman as kin 🤣
Respect! Stay beautiful and classy 🤙
Should be ashamed of yourself trynna garner validation from others by putting your own down.
@@GreatIntellect13 No validations needed, just stating a fact. She recorded that ridiculous video of herself and posted it online 🤷🏾♀️
@@GreatIntellect13 White people aren’t ‘others’ we are all part of the same oneness. Twists comment was tongue in cheek at the woman’s ridiculous behaviour. She was hardly condemning the whole of the black community!
THE GOOD THING WITH YOU IS THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE THAT ENTITLEMENT BS.THERE ARE A LOT WOMEN ( OF ALL CULTURES ) THAT THINK THAT THEY ARE OWE EVERYTHING
If you see really long nails on a woman, it indicates self centeredness. Not wife material.
What?! 😂😂😂 I keep my nails long. I’m the major breadwinner in my home. I cook, clean, raise kids. Everything my husband has is because of me. Miss me with that. Lol
@@seasons365 and just like you felt the need to defend yourself here - where you were not called out, named, or thought of in kind of way, shape, or form... You indirectly proved the OP's point. absolutely NO ONE here knew how long your nails were... We didn't ask about how much money you have... But you felt the need to defend yourself... Now we know that you're also the type to bring up what you did for the family financially in an argument with your "husband"
@@MannieBeatz3p....🎯
How can anyone with long nails like that hold a towel well enough to properly wash their behind?
@@seasons365: He's not a man to be with you. He's a bum. There... and I did not miss!
It's not skin, it's behavior.
Yep it's not BW It's the stereotypical BW
If only we had a guy giving a speech where people were judged on their actions alone
@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 MLK was a foul human being who behaved horribly...
culture
a learned behavior.
You guys somehow popped up in my stream… the first show got me 😂. Great work!
She slept with his friend for money, there's a word for that. My god, the audacity of that woman!!!!
Prostitution
American black women.
There are incredibly feminine, respectable, conservative black women... In Africa.
I might need to buy me a plane ticket.
If that's the case, this black man is going to Africa.
I live in South Africa and I regret to inform you that our once traditional conservative women have been infected with that toxic feminazi culture
@@BlueDeath-r13you are welcome
In Africa our women are hardworking, they go to the farms, markets, offices and take care of the children. This culture in America is alien to us. They are also the pillars of the churches and guardians of morality
“My money is my money, your money is our money.” Let’s be honest, she just said the quiet part out loud as a lot of women think like this. This that Sexy Red & Ice Spice Effect.
it is the selfish effect, I would bet the farm if the tables were turned she would say otherwise....the love of money is the root of MANY evils.
They all think like this... It's rare to find one who doesn't.
Exactly, she was just being honest with something almost all women think.
This makes me so sad lol, I’m a 46 year old single mom of 2 young adult sons & have been single for a while & it’s hard dating bc men look at all women the same these days. I DO NOT want your money. Yes, if we are a couple for a while & live together there should be sharing but from BOTH sides. I just want to live with a roof over my head, food on the table, gas in the car, compassion, conversation, companionship, loyalty, trust & love. I know it sounds like a lot but it’s BASIC & I want to do it TOGETHER. What’s yours is MINE but what’s mine is also YOURS. Idk, maybe I’m old fashioned haha…I just enjoy people & want to take care of each other. We need to rise up as an American people & get through the hard sh*t. Be well all, peace and love ✌🏻🇺🇸♥️
Absolutely. Amen
The problem here is not black women but (black) American women.
I'm a Black American woman and the last thing I care about is an emasculated Black man. I take care of me and don't and never have depended on a sorry Black man
Have you ever watched African media?
@@forwarddiscipline At least all of the women that have been around first-hand on visits to Senegal, Kenya, and South Africa were a whole lot different than American women (different in a good way).
@@patrisio3 cheers
I agree.
I don't feel bad for that dude at all...as soon as he heard her speak he knew what type of women he was getting. How in the hell can you even stand to listen to her for more than 5 minutes.
Right i would have left after 3 seconds 😂
So true nd those fake long nails is a total red flag this dude had it coming
Heres the thing black women can be very attractive but as soon as they start opening their mouths we gotta problem
Oh, come on now. She was only ven'in'!
@janedoe-hq9vn I know that's how it's spelled, but I didn't hear and "N" either. More like veh-eh. Like damn we just keep taking letters out of words now. No wonder younger people speak in modern day hieroglyphics (emoji)
This man is surrounded by treachery. Friends ain't shit, wife ain't shit... I hope bro surrounds himself with good family members.
The culture of many women today is that "my money is my money and his money is my money." I just never understood. When you get married, it's no longer yours alone but "ours". I make double what my husband makes, but we have a joint account. Were a couple, and i trust him with everything. That is why i chose him as a husband; he's my partner for life.
It's been said many times, many different ways...."The winter is coming sistas..." 1 out of 4 black women have been married in their lives and that number is dropping. 2nd marriages are far less likely to survive the first 5-10 years. Being frustrated with your husband's inability to to pay bills is one issue, but to torpedo your family due to inconvenience is pure selfishness. Soon enough, there will be even less black men to complain about in the dating pool. Good luck, sistas... you'll need it.
Face reality and admit it's Time to Peacefully Separate asap.
facts bro! Our sistas are cooked! These videos will be a constant reminder NOT to deal w/ them
The cheating culture helps nothing at all either
It’s Noah’s Arc and the ramp is up, some of them are gonna drown 🤷🏿♂️
Since i stopped dating ABW and started dating African women, my reality on quality women has drastically changed. I thought low quality was high quality, and the standard was ABW until I started dating out. I can never date ABW it's low quality but I had to experience high quality to know the difference. know your worth and stop dealing with these low quality Keshias. The world is yours
"My money is mine, his money is ours" ... That is about the most insane thing i heard, considered they are married.
That woman was acting more like a mistress! She lives with him for a wage ( in this case, the rent and bills paid ), and when the money stops, she goes.
I swear it sounded like he said "beat and greet" when talking about Chris Brown 😂
That just tells you that she really wasn't married to him. She was just riding him till something better came along.
As a black woman, I really wish this wasn't the narrative or standard for black women. There are so many of us that are the complete opposite of what is described in this video. I can only speak for myself, but I'm out praying to find an man that is a man of faith, is not a thug, at nearly 40 or older, has his life and finances together, not sex crazed, respectful and willing to communicate effectively, travel and have a successful partnership. No drama. I've worked hard to have my own money. If ever the situation arose, I could handle things financially. So I don't need his money, it would just be an added bonus. We are not all money hungry, promiscuous, ghetto, hood rat chicks. Some of us were actually raised to be respectful, productive parts of society. Ijs.
Well said..
A woman with self respect, men like that kind of woman!👍
My grandfather was a marines veteran and an ordained minister, my grandmother worked in health care and was a self taught seamstress. I make my own dresses for fun, practice violin, and pride myself in being a talented painter. If I'm not the type of black person you're used to seeing, something is wrong with black representation 💯
youre a unicorn
you're a unicorn
I was at a family barbecue last weekend and a young man with two little kids both in their early 20s,her barely 21, She had no education no job and two kids by her 21st birthday. Still not married and her ego was so huge, She thought she was the prize. He works as a welder comes home babysits does the cooking and listens to her ratchet at him about not doing a good enough job with the kids. On her watch, the five-year-old fell out the goddamn bedroom window on his head. She’s got the nerve to ratchet at him? She was doing it in front of everybody and I looked at him and said” are you going to check that shit?” She didn’t like me too much. I dragged him aside and said, do you wanna be miserable for the rest of your life if you don’t, then you get her in line right now or you dump her ass and get the kids. I really hope he listens because I love his family and I don’t want to see a miserable for the next 20 years or more. Man up young men don’t take that shit.
SWEETIE,SHIT LIKE THAT GETS YOU UNALIVED!
chick: my money is my money..and his money is our money...fellas dont be with that kind of woman..
In marriage, our money is our money. You're a team at that point.
@@AlysaAlysaBolissaBananaFannaFe i like your screen name!! I am gonna try to rename my daughter to that!!
She just told the world she cheated on her husband and with his friend at that.. I do think it’s a problem when men don’t feel they need to provide for their wife, but we have a role as well. She wanted him to be a man when she clearly wasn’t the wife she was supposed to be.
He's not a friend.
This is likely a damn skit
She just told the world that she's a 304 , not that she just cheated with his best friend, but she got paid for it, yuck!!😢
the way we are as women is truly sad and heartbreaking this toxic culture is destroying all of us
That black woman is one of the main reason why the brothers are loving the white woman more.
Unfortunately because of the push of this type of mentality from the mainstream with people like cardi B white girls are acting like this now too
Loving them how, definitely not in marriage. Last time I checked, 93 percent of black men married black women, so where are all these brothers who are being loved by white women.
But they wanna get mad at us for liking snow bunnies and call us a traitor to our race 🙄🤡
Y'all ain't no brothers!
@@NintendoGamepro Biden:You aint no brother if you dont vote for me boy!!!!
For richer or POORER, in sickness, and in health. That includes mental health. Some people have no loyalty, honor, or integrity, just living from one purchase to the next, or one partner to the next, to make themselves feel better.
Hey you summed up all black people, you’re making progress this is good lol
when she went to hang out with his "friend", she knew what she was gonna do.
Yo~! you bruthas are so fkn funny, I had to subscribe. I enjoyed your content.
Ego, selfishness, arrogance, etc.
I was doing my field work. I was working my way though a large office area during lunch and overheard this woman on the phone, obviously talking to another woman. Marital discord was in the air, and I overheard this woman say, "Just remember when you see the lawyer. What yours is yours, and what's his is YOURS!".
I'm a boomer. In my time I saw a lot of marriages start off all lovey-dovey. But, once the apartment morphed into a nice house; the rusting Nissan became a pair of good cars; the K-Mart kit furniture became real wood furniture, she (always she) decided that she didn't love him anymore and was going to take the better of the two cars, the house, the furniture, and sole custody of the children.
I never married.
‘My husband asked if I could help with the finances this month so I cheated on him with his friend, can you believe how horrible he is?!? Am I right, ladies?!?’ 🤢
To many “Oh Whatever” 😂😂
She be doing him a favor by divorce. I hope he sees this and leaves her ass
How did he not see what she was before.
BIG FACTS!!!!!
This is one of the many reasons why I have never dated a black woman, and I’m black!!
Good I would not advise you to either. Dated 2 black chicks and by far the worse experience of my life. My first gf was white and there was no problems either. Last black chick I talked to stood me up and wasted my time. They not worth it man
Amen 💯💯💯
@@jaysouthmusic8230funny thing is i never dated black women but i have had bad experiences with em jus never romantically
@@jaysouthmusic8230it’s not about the it being a black and white . it about the home she comes from . The economic status . Does she come from a two parent household. It’s who you choose . It’s not a color thing men go after these women with the eye sweeping lashes drag makeup Lace front wigs screaming she independent but want you to spend crazy amounts money on her hair and nails or a damn designer bag . They become jaded by the race of women . I’m a black woman . My fiancé had to remind to set a hair appointment. I know how to do my own hair and I don’t believe in paying a lot of money for that . Alot of this is culture but it’s good black women out there that don’t behave like what you came across . Her behind is in the house somewhere .
It’s who you choose not the fact she black.
It's not only black men who don't want them
they are the least desirable out of all races and it has zero to do with skin color and all about culture.
Don't lie, black men love their baby momma train sets.
Facts I even heard that even white dudes don’t want them and those be the ones most black women be worshipping and swear up and down that they are better
Facts.
I've always told folks (before I met my wife) that I don't GAF what a woman's skin color is, or what countries are in her bloodline, as long as she had a good personality/non-gold-digger/doesn't slam me for my interests/hobbies if she doesn't like them.
@@darkynhalvos Yeah, my D is an equal-opportunities employer too
I worked in a burn unit for years. I've seen people with no skin.
I have been divorced since 2012. I have dated several women since my divorce. They were all narcissist. I have not been with a woman in 10 years. I have never been this happy in my entire life. They are just not worth my effort.
As a woman, I am sorry to hear that, but I do agree. Many women today are just terrible. I'm embarrassed for them. It is easier to be alone.
Same here. Divorced since 2018. 40 and single. One chick in her 30s said she likes to travel and make memories $$$. Bunch of immature children.
My experience as well...narcissistic self centered control freaks not needed.
@arizonagirl6474 I know that all women are not that way. I am a decent man who always put other's needs before my own. They, including my ex-wife, just were not looking for someone like me. I do not need anyone else to make me happy. I am truly free. I do not have to answer to anyone but my dog. He is okay with whatever I choose to do.
So true,I've been single for four years and it the best in my entire life since before marriage.
he voice by itself was a red flag😂
My ears hurt 😢
Marriage is good don’t be fooled by a gold digger, I have a good one they are out here
It's a single mother problem with black women.
And that is why no one wants em
Facts
They will be like who created these single mothers and I'm like YOU. 😂
It's a lot of races of women that are single moms. I know at least 5 white chicks right now, who are single moms.
I know 4 white single moms
Thank you. Brings a smile to my face. Good work, gentlemen.
If i was a black man i would be Uncle Ruckus 😂😂
Uncle Ruckus was an actual real racist, so your not funny your hateful
Me too.
No relation.
Ronald Regan '25
Lol naw i wouldnt kiss the white mans ahh like ruckus
In 1960, the Black American community had a single-parenthood rate of 20%. Now that rate is 75%.
When the Civil Rights Act was signed the poverty rate was 17-18%. Now, after 59 years and 22-24 trillion dollars, the poverty rate is 13-14%.
The problem is not society's reaction to our minority population, but the culture within the minority population itself.
Simpleton.👊🏾
And with the printing of this stated truth, liberals everywhere screeched, "How dare you!"
@@VivSeeshe's correct. If you are calling him a simpleton you have a profound lack of critical thinking skills.
You are a clown if you think it just magically changed for no reason at all.
The problem is welfare
I have natural long beautiful hair, no nails, no fake eyelashes, no fake butt,no fake thighs, im not loud,I still like long walks in the park, my church , im very respectful & I respect my husbands views ,I am submissive ,oh I do love fried chicken but I love to juice veggies & fruit. I love hiking & bike riding. Please stop putting us all in the same boat please ....thanks
Except for the submissive part, you got it right. I've been married for 41 years, and we're partners. We consult each other about things and respect each other. I give in to him and he gives in to me.
YOU'RE RARE
Many minority women tend to over dress & over accessorize
@@auroraborealis6009 being submissive is one of the component of being a good wife, a masculine man want a submissive feminine woman, submissive doesn't mean weak or less than, just like a men being a provider is what attract feminine women, you are asking him to have responsibilities without any authority, also if you are Christian its in the bible, that's why the men in your countries leave to find wives in other continents, its only happening in the west, that's telling.
@@sole008 That's where you're wrong. I'm a lapsed Catholic, but I remember my Sunday School teacher saying that God made Eve from one of Adam's ribs so she could walk beside him.
@@auroraborealis6009 even in Catholicism it's said that jesus is the head of the church the church is the head of men and men are the head of their families and each should follow their master, if you are not convinced give me the version of the bible you read and i will give you the verse. And anyway if a man is masculine enough his wife will naturally submit to him unless she doesn't look up to him or is more masculine than him. Which is your case I presume.
All income in one account, becoming one together versus staying separate together.
1 month and he can’t pay the bills? You know he was living paycheck to paycheck because she was blowing all his cash on crap.
His dumbass wife was taking all his money.
Yeah, homegrl was building her very own nest egg, and her man wasn't invited! She knew at some point she was gonna bounce.
I have noticed obvious nails on her and her hair was all nice. How much does that cost each month.
She doesn't understand how adulting works...🙄🙄🙄
But she knows how adultery works.
Most women under 32 in America have not matured past the age of 16 yrs old
She cheated and then blamed him for her cheating
didn't that will smith wife do something similar?
Sounds like a typical narcissist
I support you two on everything, simply LOVE you guys!❤
"my money is MY money, his money is OUR money" wtf?! why get married then?! How can a grown ass women not understand how marriage works? this is insnae.
Exactly, but the grown ASS is too much...smh...that sounds stupid. LOL...maybe that is the problem,
everything is now related to ASS! 🤣
Cultural Differences that can't be ignored much longer.
It`s not they don`t understand... there just looking for a man they can pimp out. Peace and brother love to you and all.
In my marriage there is only the pot. We have no separate accounts. All bills are paid from the pot, and, all purchases are made in solidarity.
Same here. We're a partnership. Can't tell you how many times one of us has gone to look at something, run into a salesman who was desperate to make a sale, and tried to "shame" one of us into buying something when we said, "I'm going to talk to my spouse about it," or "I want my spouse to see it first." They try, especially with my husband, to make it seem like we're whipped. I just tell them, "Well, we've been together 40 years, still in love, and if we do decide to purchase it; it won't be from you.'
As a black woman, I would be ashamed to treat a man like that for money. I dated wealthy men but asked for nothing. Other blacks around me thought me a fool but I cared about them men I dated and have no broken bridges and can call any of them and have a good talk. They treated me good and I treated them good. I can buy my own stuff and never have had a weave since I do have hair growing on my head and I don't need fake nails, or my feet done. Who told women they needed these things. Who told you this stuff is important? They are so busy trying to get these things, they forget how to act and just be a lady. I feel for young men today who have to date this mess out here.
You are a very rare woman in today's times. My 2 white exwives where just like this woman. Red flags didn't show til after we were married. Good for you in having morals and a good upbringing.
Spoken like a LADY!👍🌹
Amen. I’m proud of you.