I'm not going to pretend I know what you and brothers have gone or is going through. What I do know is that life is full of challenges. The obstacles we face determine who we are. Look at it this way, what you have earned people can never take away from you. Those beautiful moments when we push ourselves to overcome difficult times are well worth it. For some people their best time in their lives are when they are young. Then there are those that have a miserable childhood/teen/young adult years and their best years come when they are in their 30's- retirement. I have a feeling you and your brothers will fall in the last category. Those are the best years. Best of luck to you and your brothers!
Your brothers will always be your brothers regardless if you are blood or not. Don’t listen to what other say. Love your brother but also remember that you are NOT their mother. It’s not your job to take care of them like a mother’s role. They are old enough now to go work and provide for themselves. Please don’t enable them so you all can grow and have a good future.
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry for the loss of your father. He deserved to live and see all of you succeed. You are all your brothers got so continue to support them regardless of what your in-laws say. I lost my brother two years ago and wish everyday that he is still here. At the end of the day, yus niam yus txiv yug thiaj hlub yus thiab mob siab rau yus xwb mog. You’re the only sister they have and they’re the only brothers you have. May God send blessings your way.❤❤
Im glad u helped ur siblings. As long u are able to help urself, and little family, you should be okay to be able to help ur siblings. Showing appreciation how ur dad loved u and raised you by not giving up on ur siblings is wonderful. Dont ever let the in-laws stop u from loving ur own family who is really in need. U dont need to worry about ur siblings’ wedding. Educate them to not get marry early, go after their education and work, then marry. U dont need to be responsible of their weddings as we are living in America, not Laos or Thailand. They need to become financially independent so they dont put much burden on u and ur little family. ❤
Sister, keep supporting your brother. Who care what your niam pog say because if you dont help them get back on their feet who else would. Your niam pog would do exactly the same thing if she was in your shoes. You got to be strong. Dont let negativity get in your way to succeed in life. SOME hmong niam pog always want you to do everything to their family because you are marry to them and leaving your side of your family behind. But in this generation we dont think like that. We support both side if we have to. Your niam pog have small heart..very narrow and only love herself only. We only live once in this world. If you dont help your brother..when one day they go do drugs or hang out with the wrong crowd or suicidal...you will go back and say to yourself how come i could have prevent it...then too late. Plus your husband got to support you to. Once they learn how to fly, your heart will fill with accomplishment. Sister just dont give up. There is still hope and humanity. ❤
Tsis tim yog koj txiv tsis muaj tswv yim khwv nyiaj es koj niam thiaj li ua siab phem rau koj txiv os dev noj kam dev tawb quav lawm txawm yuav tau tus txawj khwv 1 hlis tau laab xwb los koj niam yeej yuav ua koj niam tus xwm qub xwb. Koj niam twb ntse2 cas koj niam ho raug koj niam niag hluas nraug dag nyiaj ntau ua luaj na tim koj niam siab2 phem rau koj txiv es npam koj niam lawm
Sis, hang in there. So proud of you for pushing through and getting this far with your education and life despite your circumstances. Remember that we can let our situation work for us or against us. You’re doing the right thing by using it to open your eyes and propel you forward. Hard times do not last forever. It’s better to struggle a bit now together and have it easier for everyone later. Don’t listen to your in laws and keep supporting your brothers and building your life with your husband. Good times are ahead and will be here before you know it. Be thankful you and your siblings have each other to lean on. May God continue to bless you all!
I'm so sorry for what happened. Your dad's been a good father and husband but that's not enough for your mom. She got more than she asked for now. You do the best you can to support your brothers but don't let this ruin your marriage, too. Hugs.
Tus me Ntxhais aw txob tag kev Cias siab os hlub hlub koj 2 tug nus nawb nkawd thiaj yog koj lis theeb ze nkawm thiaj yuav hlub koj rau yav nkawd muaj neej mog niam pog tsis kam Los tsis txob care mog
Wow. She really took out two birds with one stone - herself and that rascal boyfriend. Your grandparents can't support your brothers to have an education. They only have you. Your brothers are over 18 now, so please forget them old folks. They have a say only if they are actually making a difference in your brothers' lives.
Yes, it's all your mom's fault. I don't feel bad for her bf because he was a scammer, but of course that was not the way to take care of the problem. Now you children are basically like orphans. I'm sorry you have narrow minded old fashioned parents-in-law. Don't mind what they say. You have every right and even the responsibility to love and look after your brothers. If your in-laws loved you, they would love your brothers too. I hope you siblings will keep loving each other. Things will get better with time, love, hard work and forgiveness. Best wishes for you and your brothers.
Your mom yog ib tug maub dev xwb tsis yog niam tsev..cheated always cheated…she not good so sorry to hear thank you for sharing your story koj yog ib tug mi Ntxhais zoo mog koj tsis txhob tu siab mog….so sad about this…..
Vuag !! Cas koj siab phem xwb es tsis Npam koj niam xwb os es tseem yuav raug koj txiv Tau tag Sim neej lawm thiab es nej yuav txom nyem ua Li . Cas tsuas hnov lub teb miskas es tej neeg txom nyem tag Li xwb ? Peb lub teb Chaws Australia mas nom tswv pab hlub yus tsis lam cia tej neeg txom nyem Li os ?
Cas koj niam poj lawv lub siab yuav mus nqaim2 tag npaum es yuav tsis txawj xav thiab hlub mes nyuam ntsuag lios😢. If you were me, I give no 💩 about what they think and said. I would just continue helping my two brothers. They are my flesh and blood even if we don’t have same dad.
Who cares what your in-laws say. Your brothers are your family. Your in-laws are pretty selfish and heartless for saying that. Do what you can and your brothers will still appreciate your love for them.
Tus me ntxhais, hlub nej cov nus muag kawg li nawb. Txawm li cas los txhob tag kev cia siab, hlub koj tus txiv hlub koj 2 tig me nus. Nyias muaj nyias txoj hmoo los ua neeg. Txom nyem thaum yau los ua siab ntev yeej yuav tau txais txoj kev zoo lub neej yav pem suab xwb. Qhov tseem cheeb ces yog nej cov me nus muag sib2 hlub xwb.
Me ntxhais aw..koj ua tauj zoo heev li os mog. Txhob tu siab, koj yuav tsum hlub koj 2 tug nus nawb mog. Txoj kev ua zoo yeej tau ntuj ntoo os mog.
I'm not going to pretend I know what you and brothers have gone or is going through. What I do know is that life is full of challenges. The obstacles we face determine who we are. Look at it this way, what you have earned people can never take away from you. Those beautiful moments when we push ourselves to overcome difficult times are well worth it. For some people their best time in their lives are when they are young. Then there are those that have a miserable childhood/teen/young adult years and their best years come when they are in their 30's- retirement. I have a feeling you and your brothers will fall in the last category. Those are the best years. Best of luck to you and your brothers!
Thank you for sharing 😢 love your Brothers someday they will love you back 🙏
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Thank you Sooo much your sharing story. We are love you. God will be with you guys through all the hard situations.
Your brothers will always be your brothers regardless if you are blood or not. Don’t listen to what other say. Love your brother but also remember that you are NOT their mother. It’s not your job to take care of them like a mother’s role. They are old enough now to go work and provide for themselves. Please don’t enable them so you all can grow and have a good future.
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry for the loss of your father. He deserved to live and see all of you succeed. You are all your brothers got so continue to support them regardless of what your in-laws say. I lost my brother two years ago and wish everyday that he is still here. At the end of the day, yus niam yus txiv yug thiaj hlub yus thiab mob siab rau yus xwb mog. You’re the only sister they have and they’re the only brothers you have. May God send blessings your way.❤❤
Once a cheater ur mom will always be a cheater. Ur childhood may be messed up, but love urself & be strong.
Im glad u helped ur siblings. As long u are able to help urself, and little family, you should be okay to be able to help ur siblings. Showing appreciation how ur dad loved u and raised you by not giving up on ur siblings is wonderful. Dont ever let the in-laws stop u from loving ur own family who is really in need. U dont need to worry about ur siblings’ wedding. Educate them to not get marry early, go after their education and work, then marry. U dont need to be responsible of their weddings as we are living in America, not Laos or Thailand. They need to become financially independent so they dont put much burden on u and ur little family. ❤
Koj ua tau zoo kawg lawm os sister ❤
Sister, keep supporting your brother. Who care what your niam pog say because if you dont help them get back on their feet who else would. Your niam pog would do exactly the same thing if she was in your shoes. You got to be strong. Dont let negativity get in your way to succeed in life. SOME hmong niam pog always want you to do everything to their family because you are marry to them and leaving your side of your family behind. But in this generation we dont think like that. We support both side if we have to. Your niam pog have small heart..very narrow and only love herself only. We only live once in this world. If you dont help your brother..when one day they go do drugs or hang out with the wrong crowd or suicidal...you will go back and say to yourself how come i could have prevent it...then too late. Plus your husband got to support you to. Once they learn how to fly, your heart will fill with accomplishment. Sister just dont give up. There is still hope and humanity. ❤
Tsis tim yog koj txiv tsis muaj tswv yim khwv nyiaj es koj niam thiaj li ua siab phem rau koj txiv os dev noj kam dev tawb quav lawm txawm yuav tau tus txawj khwv 1 hlis tau laab xwb los koj niam yeej yuav ua koj niam tus xwm qub xwb. Koj niam twb ntse2 cas koj niam ho raug koj niam niag hluas nraug dag nyiaj ntau ua luaj na tim koj niam siab2 phem rau koj txiv es npam koj niam lawm
Sis, hang in there. So proud of you for pushing through and getting this far with your education and life despite your circumstances. Remember that we can let our situation work for us or against us. You’re doing the right thing by using it to open your eyes and propel you forward.
Hard times do not last forever. It’s better to struggle a bit now together and have it easier for everyone later. Don’t listen to your in laws and keep supporting your brothers and building your life with your husband. Good times are ahead and will be here before you know it. Be thankful you and your siblings have each other to lean on. May God continue to bless you all!
I'm so sorry for what happened. Your dad's been a good father and husband but that's not enough for your mom. She got more than she asked for now.
You do the best you can to support your brothers but don't let this ruin your marriage, too. Hugs.
You did a great job....
Thov hais rau koj tias yav tom ntej tsis txhob xyaum koj niam lub niag qhov pim lwj ntawd mog, thov Vajtswv pab nej 3 tug nus muag
Koj Txhob hais lus phem 2 li koj mas, koj tsuas hais lus zootxhawb siab rau tus ntxhais no twb tau lawm tsis tsim nyog koj yuav hais tej niag lus phem 2 li koj nas..
Tus me Ntxhais aw txob tag kev Cias siab os hlub hlub koj 2 tug nus nawb nkawd thiaj yog koj lis theeb ze nkawm thiaj yuav hlub koj rau yav nkawd muaj neej mog niam pog tsis kam Los tsis txob care mog
Wow. She really took out two birds with one stone - herself and that rascal boyfriend.
Your grandparents can't support your brothers to have an education. They only have you. Your brothers are over 18 now, so please forget them old folks. They have a say only if they are actually making a difference in your brothers' lives.
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Tsis tsim nyog koj txiv tau tas lub neej txoj sia.
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Yes, it's all your mom's fault. I don't feel bad for her bf because he was a scammer, but of course that was not the way to take care of the problem. Now you children are basically like orphans. I'm sorry you have narrow minded old fashioned parents-in-law. Don't mind what they say. You have every right and even the responsibility to love and look after your brothers. If your in-laws loved you, they would love your brothers too. I hope you siblings will keep loving each other. Things will get better with time, love, hard work and forgiveness. Best wishes for you and your brothers.
Zoo siab rau koj niam 😅uas koj niam xas canon rau niag laib laus ntawv hauv siab tov nplov,ua nws mus nyob kiag dab teb😂en enfer 😈
😢😢😢tim koj niam niag maum dev liam kom ib leeg xwb. nub no cia kom nyob nkuaj kom tuag tom nkuaj😢😢😢
Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim. Nim yev....Cas koj txiv twb yog ib tug zoo neeg txim txiaj es tseem xiam thiab.
Your mom yog ib tug maub dev xwb tsis yog niam tsev..cheated always cheated…she not good so sorry to hear thank you for sharing your story koj yog ib tug mi Ntxhais zoo mog koj tsis txhob tu siab mog….so sad about this…..
Koj niam yog cov tib neeg tsi xyeej mov zaub noj kiag li nws yog cov kws nrhia rau yav hauv noj ntau dua lawm xwb.
Vuag !! Cas koj siab phem xwb es tsis Npam koj niam xwb os es tseem yuav raug koj txiv Tau tag Sim neej lawm thiab es nej yuav txom nyem ua Li . Cas tsuas hnov lub teb miskas es tej neeg txom nyem tag Li xwb ? Peb lub teb Chaws Australia mas nom tswv pab hlub yus tsis lam cia tej neeg txom nyem Li os ?
Cas koj niam poj lawv lub siab yuav mus nqaim2 tag npaum es yuav tsis txawj xav thiab hlub mes nyuam ntsuag lios😢. If you were me, I give no 💩 about what they think and said. I would just continue helping my two brothers. They are my flesh and blood even if we don’t have same dad.
Koj niam keej sib tsoob heev thiab keej tua phom mus nyob txim 40 xyoo zoo nyob npaum li sib ua es zoo nyob 15 second tsuav tau sib tsoob es zoo zoo nyob xwb poj niam ruam tiag peb cov poj niam Yuav tau txhob xyaum li koj niam nawb thov Vajtswv pab koj mog
Koj niam cia li nrhab ceg es muab ko rauj tswm ob ceg xwb vim qhov ntawd na.
Who cares what your in-laws say. Your brothers are your family. Your in-laws are pretty selfish and heartless for saying that. Do what you can and your brothers will still appreciate your love for them.
Tus me ntxhais, hlub nej cov nus muag kawg li nawb. Txawm li cas los txhob tag kev cia siab, hlub koj tus txiv hlub koj 2 tig me nus. Nyias muaj nyias txoj hmoo los ua neeg. Txom nyem thaum yau los ua siab ntev yeej yuav tau txais txoj kev zoo lub neej yav pem suab xwb. Qhov tseem cheeb ces yog nej cov me nus muag sib2 hlub xwb.
Ib tug poj niam deev hluas nraug muaj me nyuam tsaub coj los yug hauv tsev ces tsis tas yuav lawm xu siab dhau lawm
tos txom nyem los ruam npaum li kov poj niam hlwb npua dag tau yooj yim tshaj li tev txiv tsawb,