As the mercury person in this inter-aspect, I can say that I have learned that my trying to understanding the moon's persons feelings in my own language had led to assumptions that were completely off. In order to understand, the best thing I've learned was to ask questions, until...something clicks in my head. The desire to understand truly is there and I can say it was never an intention to hurt the moon's feelings. Another realization, as you've pointed out, is accepting even if I don't understand; while something may not be rational to me or even valid, it is to them. It's a habit I try to instil in myself with just about anyone...most of the time.
It was the straw that broke the camels back for us (He Mercury I Moon). He once said to me 'I honestly beleive we are 2 people that are meant to be together, if only we can understand each other better'. Misinterpretations, assumptions, rationalising and forever feeling misunderstood, this aspect caused constant pain and was a curse to our bond.
@@jody6233 lol exactly the opposite for me, cap moon and my ex aries mercury. We ended our relationship 6 years ago and to this day i still remember things that he said that hurt me deeply, but at the same time he was the only person i could talk to openly and i loved him more than anyone ever after in my life. It is sadly a unsurmountable aspect.
Hes the Mercury person , I'm the moon person . But I have my moon in gemini ! Ruled by mercury .. so we understand each other great! Hope this helps you! 😁
I think so.. Bc the person I have interest in we have this aspect and his first language is Spanish and he speaks it more than English 😭 I said I wish I could speak Spanish and he said “believe me I do too” 🙄😭😭😭
This aspect makes me sad a little because I have this aspect natally. Sometimes I have a hard time communicating my feelings to others and I feel this between us. I’m the mercury person and he’s the moon. I feel like sometimes he holds back on his feelings but we also have sun trine mercury, moon conjunct moon and moon trine Jupiter. I feel happy being around him but I when it comes to expressing personal feelings for each other, it’s a challenge
me too i will have this aspect play out with honestly everyone i love and i wish they could understand (moon sag mercury virgo ) nataly. his moon is 29 scorpio squaring my mercury and it’s frustrating because i wanna understand so bad but i feel like i’m not in tune with him
One of our double whammy’s. But we both have our mercury’s biquintile and our Saturn’s quintile so I’m not too too worried cuz we also have my Pluto quintile his moon :) along with other amazing aspects. I just try to remember we’re both misunderstanding each other. And each time we have a fight we take a short break then come back together and it’s like he adjusts himself to my needs more, and I adjust to his. It’s great! I feel like I’m connecting on a truly mature level with him, and it’s not just one sided. I see that change and adjustment in him too.
As the Mercury person (Libra) to my partner Moon (Cancer), I will confirm your assessment is accurate. I would add, the Moon person oftentimes makes snap judgements, assumptions based on past situations that had nothing to do with today. They have a tendency to project, get defensive, interrupt usually. I do think it depends on the sign the moons in. Has not been a deal breaker thus far. On the other side my Virgo moon is conjunct his Mercury, but wide Orb.
I drew him in via our conjunct sun merc me Virgo sun 22deg and his Merc 23 deg. I miss that one… we brought many solutions to one another’s lives. Our mars Venus conjunct exact cross aspects made things sexually charged and passionate however ultimately he liked chatting with strangers online and was caught in three places since we shared an iPad for a work project. Not sure what aspect indicates dumbass, but I’m all ears … so I can avoid in future
Hi Jewel! Thank you for your interpretation and explanation! I have this aspect with a guy I'm currently dating; however, in our composite chart the mercury is placed really good (trine jupiter, trine moon, sextile saturn, sextile uranus (and yes, opposit mars)); Would it still have a negative impact that makes the relationship or him unattractive haha?! Because, seriously, I absolutely don't like things like that 🙈
My moon is square his mercury, on the other hand his moon is conjunct my mercury. Does that mean I’ll always understand him just fine and he’ll have trouble understanding me? I have Capricorn stellium and most of my inner planets are conjunct his Capricorn moon including my sun and mars. Our conversations are mostly very good, but sometimes I do get bit emotional (scorpio moon) and I think I freak him out (leo mercury)... we get over it eventually... It can be tricky indeed, but I feel great connection to him and we have a lot of things in common so usually it turns out to be something said in a heat of a moment rather than a normal daily conversation...
But then that combined with the moon person having their moon in the mercury persons 1st house would I think make them feel actually understood on an subconscious/emotional level. Like their feelings are in tune and it is felt but when it comes to vocalizing then there are misunderstandings
We have the opposite, his Mercury is in my first house, right on my ascendant and my moon is squaring my ascendant. On the other hand his moon is squaring my Mercury and also my Mars is conjunct his moon. I have my Mars square my Mercury obviously. But his Mars trine my moon. So, its complicated. Double whammy and some. .. Life is really playing games with us... I sometimes know what he is thinking, because he tells me later. I also knew some long term things, predictions.
I am Cap Mercury square my guy's Libra Moon. But my Aqua Venus is trine his moon, so I think that may help out. His moon is also conjunct Uranus, so can relate pretty well to my Aqua.
What if we also have moon conjunct mercury in our synastry too? Does this make a difference and classed as a double whammy? No other hard aspects to mercury - mars is sextile moon, Venus trine mars, Venus conjunct moon, moon trine moon, moon trine sun, sun trine sun, moon conjunct north node, but also squaring moon/north node so another double whammy... only hard aspects are moon square mercury and moon square north node, and sun square saturn. I’ve heard squares to the north node are sometimes binding.. hoping that as all our hard aspects are to NN it won’t be a problem
I liked this video as I love all your videos 😊🌷... but I don’t like this synastry aspect! Painful one, my moon is in Gemini too!! ... but in the 8th house 😢😭 my Pluto also squared his venus! Anyway we aren’t together anymore!! Yay! ...Although it’s still quite raw! 😭
Thank you for these videos, I like so much your very lively way of explaining :) You've said "The Mercury personne doesn't get the sign that the moon is in" Does it mean that this particular aspect is lesser when the Mercury person, has also the moon in the same sign that the other person? like : Mercury square moon + moon conjunct moon ?
I know I'm not Jewel. I would love to hear her thoughts on this. But in my experience, I've had some squares in composite and synastry charts with my loved ones and friends, and honestly, with a lot of work on both sides, it feels like the squares have turned into trines for me. Also, one of my very best friends- our composite chart is filled with all kinds of nasty squares to our moon, sun, and venus. And yet, our friendship is very easy, deep, smooth sailing and free of drama/discord. So there's that. :)
As the mercury person in this inter-aspect, I can say that I have learned that my trying to understanding the moon's persons feelings in my own language had led to assumptions that were completely off. In order to understand, the best thing I've learned was to ask questions, until...something clicks in my head. The desire to understand truly is there and I can say it was never an intention to hurt the moon's feelings. Another realization, as you've pointed out, is accepting even if I don't understand; while something may not be rational to me or even valid, it is to them.
It's a habit I try to instil in myself with just about anyone...most of the time.
Did it work out bw you to?
It was the straw that broke the camels back for us (He Mercury I Moon). He once said to me 'I honestly beleive we are 2 people that are meant to be together, if only we can understand each other better'. Misinterpretations, assumptions, rationalising and forever feeling misunderstood, this aspect caused constant pain and was a curse to our bond.
I feel your pain! The samem Aries Moon here, shes a Cap Merc
@@jody6233 lol exactly the opposite for me, cap moon and my ex aries mercury. We ended our relationship 6 years ago and to this day i still remember things that he said that hurt me deeply, but at the same time he was the only person i could talk to openly and i loved him more than anyone ever after in my life. It is sadly a unsurmountable aspect.
Hes the Mercury person , I'm the moon person . But I have my moon in gemini ! Ruled by mercury .. so we understand each other great! Hope this helps you! 😁
This aspect can also signify a literal language barrier, yes ???
yes! I have this with a friend. He was born in a different country and we have trouble sometimes with language :/
I think so.. Bc the person I have interest in we have this aspect and his first language is Spanish and he speaks it more than English 😭 I said I wish I could speak Spanish and he said “believe me I do too” 🙄😭😭😭
Thank you for this comment! Because I sometimes struggle to express myself completely in his language.
Thanks ❤ also, the lighting in this video is so beautiful 😍
This aspect makes me sad a little because I have this aspect natally. Sometimes I have a hard time communicating my feelings to others and I feel this between us. I’m the mercury person and he’s the moon. I feel like sometimes he holds back on his feelings but we also have sun trine mercury, moon conjunct moon and moon trine Jupiter. I feel happy being around him but I when it comes to expressing personal feelings for each other, it’s a challenge
me too i will have this aspect play out with honestly everyone i love and i wish they could understand (moon sag mercury virgo ) nataly. his moon is 29 scorpio squaring my mercury and it’s frustrating because i wanna understand so bad but i feel like i’m not in tune with him
🤣🤣🤣 sounds like a “yes dear” concept.
One of our double whammy’s. But we both have our mercury’s biquintile and our Saturn’s quintile so I’m not too too worried cuz we also have my Pluto quintile his moon :) along with other amazing aspects.
I just try to remember we’re both misunderstanding each other.
And each time we have a fight we take a short break then come back together and it’s like he adjusts himself to my needs more, and I adjust to his. It’s great! I feel like I’m connecting on a truly mature level with him, and it’s not just one sided. I see that change and adjustment in him too.
As the Mercury person (Libra) to my partner Moon (Cancer), I will confirm your assessment is accurate. I would add, the Moon person oftentimes makes snap judgements, assumptions based on past situations that had nothing to do with today. They have a tendency to project, get defensive, interrupt usually. I do think it depends on the sign the moons in. Has not been a deal breaker thus far. On the other side my Virgo moon is conjunct his Mercury, but wide Orb.
Did this work out?
I’m a cancer and my moon is in Libra
@@naturallyniece320 nope
I drew him in via our conjunct sun merc me Virgo sun 22deg and his Merc 23 deg. I miss that one… we brought many solutions to one another’s lives.
Our mars Venus conjunct exact cross aspects made things sexually charged and passionate however ultimately he liked chatting with strangers online and was caught in three places since we shared an iPad for a work project. Not sure what aspect indicates dumbass, but I’m all ears … so I can avoid in future
@@Teow_of_Meow I died laughing at the last sentence. Sending you lots of love and a person of integrity along your path 🙏😂👍
The straw that broke the camels back. Your explanation fit. I am moon he is mercury.
Thank you and yes everything that you’ve presented makes perfect sense.
You have such great hair, ha! Love your videos. Appreciate what you do. :)
Hi Jewel! Thank you for your interpretation and explanation! I have this aspect with a guy I'm currently dating; however, in our composite chart the mercury is placed really good (trine jupiter, trine moon, sextile saturn, sextile uranus (and yes, opposit mars)); Would it still have a negative impact that makes the relationship or him unattractive haha?! Because, seriously, I absolutely don't like things like that 🙈
Thanks jewel for posting this. I love Mercury.
My moon is square his mercury, on the other hand his moon is conjunct my mercury. Does that mean I’ll always understand him just fine and he’ll have trouble understanding me? I have Capricorn stellium and most of my inner planets are conjunct his Capricorn moon including my sun and mars. Our conversations are mostly very good, but sometimes I do get bit emotional (scorpio moon) and I think I freak him out (leo mercury)... we get over it eventually... It can be tricky indeed, but I feel great connection to him and we have a lot of things in common so usually it turns out to be something said in a heat of a moment rather than a normal daily conversation...
But then that combined with the moon person having their moon in the mercury persons 1st house would I think make them feel actually understood on an subconscious/emotional level. Like their feelings are in tune and it is felt but when it comes to vocalizing then there are misunderstandings
We have the opposite, his Mercury is in my first house, right on my ascendant and my moon is squaring my ascendant. On the other hand his moon is squaring my Mercury and also my Mars is conjunct his moon. I have my Mars square my Mercury obviously. But his Mars trine my moon. So, its complicated. Double whammy and some. .. Life is really playing games with us... I sometimes know what he is thinking, because he tells me later. I also knew some long term things, predictions.
I am Cap Mercury square my guy's Libra Moon. But my Aqua Venus is trine his moon, so I think that may help out. His moon is also conjunct Uranus, so can relate pretty well to my Aqua.
Would house placement affect this? If it is a square but the Aries mercury is in the 10th house and the person has a Capricorn moon?
Currently (almost full) moon is squaring my natal mercury
Please jewel! Make a video about inconjunctions to the ascendant in sinastry! Thank u ♥️
What if you both have all of the same placements? Therefore of course both of you are the moon and mercury person
What if we also have moon conjunct mercury in our synastry too? Does this make a difference and classed as a double whammy? No other hard aspects to mercury - mars is sextile moon, Venus trine mars, Venus conjunct moon, moon trine moon, moon trine sun, sun trine sun, moon conjunct north node, but also squaring moon/north node so another double whammy... only hard aspects are moon square mercury and moon square north node, and sun square saturn. I’ve heard squares to the north node are sometimes binding.. hoping that as all our hard aspects are to NN it won’t be a problem
I liked this video as I love all your videos 😊🌷... but I don’t like this synastry aspect! Painful one, my moon is in Gemini too!! ... but in the 8th house 😢😭 my Pluto also squared his venus! Anyway we aren’t together anymore!! Yay! ...Although it’s still quite raw! 😭
Thank you for these videos, I like so much your very lively way of explaining :) You've said "The Mercury personne doesn't get the sign that the moon is in"
Does it mean that this particular aspect is lesser when the Mercury person, has also the moon in the same sign that the other person?
like : Mercury square moon + moon conjunct moon ?
can you do mercury opposition mars please ? i have this with someone with their mars in the 7th house and my mercury in the 1st house :/
Hi! I got a question. What happens when you "solve" a square? The planets involved then work like a trine?
I love your channel, love from Brazil! :*
You're always going to have the friction but will find ways to overcome it with understanding.
I know I'm not Jewel. I would love to hear her thoughts on this. But in my experience, I've had some squares in composite and synastry charts with my loved ones and friends, and honestly, with a lot of work on both sides, it feels like the squares have turned into trines for me.
Also, one of my very best friends- our composite chart is filled with all kinds of nasty squares to our moon, sun, and venus. And yet, our friendship is very easy, deep, smooth sailing and free of drama/discord. So there's that. :)
have to look at the sign and house
Opposition?
What if both moon and mercury are in air signs?
What about in natal? Comes in one ear and out the next?
I was born strong aspect moon square mercury
unfortunately a double whammy. 😐
Moon in Gemini, mercury in Venus 😅