Depression I faced | My Life as an OCD patient

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  • @zeenaunni3
    @zeenaunni3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    മോളെ കണ്ടാൽ ഇത് പോലെ സിറ്റുവേഷൻ ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു തോന്നിരുന്നില്ല. 😭😭😭😭ദൈവത്തിനോട്കൂടുതൽ🙏🙏ക്കുക.aishune ഒരുപാട്ഇഷ്ടമാണ്

  • @motherandbaby5140
    @motherandbaby5140 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    I’m a psychologist, very happy to share your experiences. As an influencer you did a great job.

    • @albin6126
      @albin6126 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey psychologist is ocd and disorders like this does only happen to people who have comfortable living and have time to think about different things. Like only during last 10-12 years we are hearing such conditions in Kerala.
      For eg : people living in slums does they get ocd because all of their surroundings are very dirty so does they have different idea about what is clean or these thoughts come only when when we are not in survival mode , does people in poor African countries get ocd and walk back 100 m back due to OCD while they are travelling with water for kilometres.
      What is the reality?

    • @SP-xh9tq
      @SP-xh9tq ปีที่แล้ว

      sathyam, ocd mannankatta, gimmicks for getting views that's all@@albin6126

    • @dr.ninakurian
      @dr.ninakurian ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@albin6126 OCD is indeed a persistent condition characterized by uncontrollable, recurring thoughts (obsessions) that drive individuals to perform repetitive behaviors (compulsions). It's crucial to note that these obsessions and compulsions can extend beyond cleanliness, encompassing various aspects of life and significantly impacting daily functioning.

    • @motherandbaby5140
      @motherandbaby5140 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@albin6126 Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition that can affect individuals from various socioeconomic backgrounds, including those living in challenging environments. The nature of OCD is complex and involves a combination of genetic, biological, and environmental factors.
      While the specific symptoms of OCD may vary across individuals and cultures, it's important to note that obsessions and compulsions can manifest in different ways. In resource-limited settings, the focus on survival may indeed influence the expression of OCD symptoms. The perception of cleanliness and the nature of obsessions might differ based on cultural and environmental factors.
      Individuals in diverse circumstances, including those in slum areas or impoverished regions, can experience OCD, but the manifestation of symptoms might be shaped by their unique surroundings and challenges.
      In resource-limited settings, where daily life often involves significant challenges, the focus may be more on survival, and the specific manifestations of OCD, such as walking back 100 meters due to obsessions, might be less common or expressed differently. Cultural factors can also shape how mental health issues are perceived and addressed.
      Understanding mental health in various cultural and socioeconomic contexts is crucial for providing effective support and care.

    • @fathimafarsanapi8752
      @fathimafarsanapi8752 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ocd is not only about cleaning . Fear of contamination s just a part of it . Don't misunderstand this . And also , don't speak, unless you know about this. Please

  • @simplesmile007
    @simplesmile007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Thanks.വളരെ വൈകിയാണ് കാണുന്നത് 2024 മെയ് 5 മുതൽ ആണ് തനി മലയാളി ചാനൽ കാണുന്നത്.ഈ വിഡിയോ വളരെ ഉപകാരപ്പെടും.

  • @NihalaSainudheen23
    @NihalaSainudheen23 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I am a Psychology student and Its so better to see others experience to know more about the disorder .Thankyou for sharing that.I wish you a better life.❤

    • @seven0007.
      @seven0007. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im in Depression but enik preshnam toxic parenting aanu njn aarod poyi parayanam enn ariyilla ullil othukki nadakunnu with pain, cry, loliness
      Psychologist ne kanan entha reethikal

    • @anjainov
      @anjainov ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take an appointment

    • @sajivsajeevan9343
      @sajivsajeevan9343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Parentsine anu kanikande chelarde avastha angane anu onnum cheyan patilla pne patience keep cheyya financially independent avumbo kurachukudi rakshapedum allenki case kodka allathe than poyi psychologist kanichittu karyamilla

  • @chithrasoumily2893
    @chithrasoumily2893 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    oh! Aishu, I can't watch it without leaving a comment here! I have gone through the same anxiety issues( fearing that I have a disease ) and OCD problems.. It was like hell.. And at last, many years of silent suffering I decided to take help from a professional..
    Thank you for sharing your story.. It really means a lot..

    • @Peaceandpeaceonly
      @Peaceandpeaceonly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What was your treatment procedure? Was it just counseling or did you took medicines?

    • @senstonantonypaul8750
      @senstonantonypaul8750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PeaceandpeaceonlyI have suffered the same and I consulted a doctor he gave me medicines with high dose that I have to have at night.after having the medicines within one hour i will sleep in a peaceful way . But socially interaction is a must . That doctor said to me always . I am under treatment for 2 years . I have recovered 90% .

  • @manju4025
    @manju4025 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Aisha, you are so proud to share your life difficulties and share your thoughts and experiences due to OCD, even in this 20th century people are scared to reveal who they are what they are going through. These 2 videos will definitely help people who are suffering with similar problems but haven’t yet been diagnosed and still struggling with day today life. Who will definitely decide to seek for help some time soon, thinking that they are not alone in this situation.

  • @evina8636
    @evina8636 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is something most of us are facing these days.. It's very difficult to convince the people around us.. much appreciate your effort in putting this into a video.. ❤

  • @Amrutht1
    @Amrutht1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Chechi thank you so much for sharing this, its not something that is openly talked about in the Malayalee community (at least from my experience). You are raising mental health awareness. Thank you ❤

  • @aryarkrishnan7129
    @aryarkrishnan7129 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I had a very similar childhood trauma experience.. I had fear of loosing my dear ones.. But my parents didn't realized that it was a psychological issue.. Then too they too me for some pooja.. But somehow it faded but it again came back during a hard phase even more severely and still people around me takes this a shame to share and hide.. I myself reached out to a doctor.. And as Aishu said now even when a similar situation recur i know when where and how to regulate it to a better mode...

  • @Happy3000-k3z
    @Happy3000-k3z ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I also struggles with OCD. From your experience i got the courage to share my problems and consult a psychologist

  • @primarycherian
    @primarycherian ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Takes a lot of guts to share what you did. It will help many. Hats off to you..

  • @neenamathew180
    @neenamathew180 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im hypochondriac . Severe health anxiety sufferer. Your video makes lots of sense . Thanks for sharing .

    • @malusree7372
      @malusree7372 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you have medication??

  • @afseenak7106
    @afseenak7106 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm commenting on an online platform first time... I'm going through the same situation like I have a disease.. Every day i'm searching on google.. Same like what you did.. Thank you for sharing.. Will seek for a professional help.. ❤

  • @athirapanicker2471
    @athirapanicker2471 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hi Aishu really appreciate that you are revealing all these.being a nurse I have looked after many people with OCD .however I never understood how they felt themselves.so your experiences are definitely a chance for me to understand them well if I come across somebody again.keep going…

  • @Anjuu6969
    @Anjuu6969 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Lots of love Aishu... Truly inspiring ❤
    Even in the present time also our society has not accepted the fact that consulting a psychologist or psychiatrist is a normal part of maintaining health. Even people are not able to discuss or explain what is going on inside their mind because no body understands it. Many young people are suffering from anxiety and depression now a days and no one knows how to handle it ...even the family consider it as a silly matter and keeps advising to socialize more...and folks also sarcastically says that.. what's wrong with these kids...even we have gone through tough times and we could handle it.
    Sadly no one understands what is the importance of mental health...and how drastically it effect the whole well being and life of a person.

  • @user-tn3ih4nt6y
    @user-tn3ih4nt6y ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi that is very brave of you to share these. May the stigma of seeing the "Head" doctor go away so all can access them freely.

  • @TheDecember999
    @TheDecember999 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thankyou so much for sharing your experiences with OCD, depression, etc... My loved one is facing a similar issue and has had the courage to start taking psychology sessions and medication despite zero support from parents.... Thanks a ton.... Stay brave... Stay the way you are... Cheers!!!

  • @vibesofmeenu
    @vibesofmeenu ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im also a ocd patient, its very difficut to get rid of this problems😐but your experiences are comforting me🥰

  • @lifeofanju9476
    @lifeofanju9476 ปีที่แล้ว +96

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    • @Sendraa848
      @Sendraa848 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      calm ആയിട്ട് ഇരിക്കു രാവിലെ യോഗ ഒക്കെ ചെയ്യൂ. എന്ത് തന്നെ വന്നാലും നമ്മൾ അത് ഫേസ് ചെയ്യാൻ തയ്യാറായിരിക്കണം തന്റെ മകൾ വളർന്നു വരുമ്പോൾ ഇതൊക്കെ മാറും അവൾ തനിക്ക് ഒരു റിലീഫ് ആവും തനിക്ക് കിട്ടിയ അനുഗ്രഹമാണ് തന്റെ അമ്മയും ഇത്രേം സപ്പോർറ്റീവ് ആയ ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ഉം ഒരു മോളും നിനക്ക് സന്തോഷം കണ്ടുപിടിക്കാവുന്ന ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾ ചെയ്യ ബുക്സ് വായിക്കു. ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ആയിട്ട് മനസ്സ് തുറന്ന് സംസാരിക്കു തന്റെ പ്രശനം ഒട്ടും വലുത് അല്ലെന്ന് വിശ്വസിക്കു ഈ ലോകത്ത് പലതരത്തിലുള്ള മനുഷ്യർ ഉണ്ട് ഫോബിയ എന്ന് പറയുന്നത് എനിക്കും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്ന ഒന്ന് ആയിരുന്നു നമ്മൾ വർക്ക്‌ ഇലൊക്കെ കൂടുതൽ എൻഗേജ് ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ അതൊക്കെ മാറും 😊

    • @lovemalakha6904
      @lovemalakha6904 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      എനിക്കും എപ്പോഴും ഓരോ പേടിയാണ്. Husband പുറത്തേക് പോകുമ്പോ ആക്‌സിഡന്റ് പറ്റുമോ, കുട്ടികളെ ആരെങ്കിലും abuse ചെയ്യുമോ, കുട്ടികളുടെ വിരൽ കതകിന്റ ഇടയിൽ പെടുമോ, ഉമ്മ മരിച്ചു പോകുമോ, അങ്ങനെ അങ്ങനെ. അതിനു ഞാൻ തന്നെ മാർഗം കണ്ടു പിടിച്ചു. പേടി വരുന്ന ടൈം തന്നെ പേടി തോന്നിയ കാര്യം അല്ലാഹുവിനോട് കാവൽ തേടും. അപ്പൊ relax ആകും. അങ്ങനെ മുന്നോട്ട് പോകുന്നു. അള്ളാഹു ആണ് എല്ലാം നിയന്ദ്രിക്കുന്നത് എന്ന് മനസിനോട് പറഞ്ഞു മനസ്സിലാക്കും. അപ്പൊ ഓക്കേ ആകും

    • @LakshmiLakshmi-ci9tl
      @LakshmiLakshmi-ci9tl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Vegam medical support edukkanam.therapy kondu valare mattam undakum. Dr consult cheythathinu shesham yogayoke start cheyam.dr ne Kanan vaikikaruthu ketto...njanum therapy cheyunund.valare mattam und. Singer Gowri Lakshmiyude videos kandu noku. .

    • @Aamiandponnutty
      @Aamiandponnutty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Ee comments okke kaanumbo aanu ith pole kure aalukalkk undennu manasilakunnath😢... Njan 3 months aayit ith anubhavikkunnu. Nallonam prarthikkum apo nalla aaswhasam und.
      Pine ith anxiety aanennu njan thane manasilakki munnot povanu ath kond ipo kure better aayi. Daivathe vilich munnot povanu ipo

    • @speedgaming4377
      @speedgaming4377 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love u Aishu , Iam lady of 39years old suffering from alot of problems like u, u r such brilliant very impressive ❤

  • @nidhasafz123
    @nidhasafz123 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Well done lady..❤ U overcomed a depressive phase in ur life and today stands out as a powerful personality.. And big claps to ur parents, Vishnu, and to NL family too.. 😊
    Keep shining aishuu❤

  • @suryamtk4305
    @suryamtk4305 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey sis, I was an OCD patient like you. I had obsessive thoughts not only about cleanliness. A number of problems arose because of it. I had to take the medicine to be conscious to sleep. Then after the treatment it changed a bit. I can well understand its difficulty. Thank you so much for making this video.I felt like you were telling my story😊

  • @nashlakt3561
    @nashlakt3561 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Idhaaanu Thani malayali proud of you ❤

  • @VeettuRuchi
    @VeettuRuchi ปีที่แล้ว +12

    No words to say aishu.Great respect to u.Inspiring too.

  • @fathimairfan7254
    @fathimairfan7254 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aww...🫂🫂🫂 Thank you sharing this vulnerable side..You are strong. I had tears as it is somewhat relatable to me.

  • @raseena697
    @raseena697 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for sharing Aisu …I can relate your story with someone I know so close. Now I can understand you both very well. You described very clearly. I feel very empathy to my close one who suffer like this.
    Much much thanks for sharing this. May God bless you with all happiness.

  • @jusainamariyam6326
    @jusainamariyam6326 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Blasphemous thoughts ocd".
    I am a Psychology Studend (M. Sc), i am very glad to see this video🙌
    കാരണം, ഒരുപാട് പേർ ഇതുകൊണ്ടുള്ള ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുകൾ അറിയാതെ ജീവിതം ജീവിച്ചു തീർക്കുകയാണ്, ocd മാത്രമല്ല! ഇതുപോലെ ഒരുപാട് psychological disorders ഉണ്ട്. Psychological disorders തരണം ചെയ്‌താൽ തന്നെ ഉള്ളു ജീവിതത്തിൽ സന്തോഷവും സമാധാനവും കണ്ടെത്താൻ സാധിക്കുകയുള്ളു. Don't be aware of your neighborhood, family or friends, don't be fool, go and take a consultation if u need. It will change your whole life❤
    And aishu chechi did a great thing, beacuse ningale pole ulla influencers ningalde personal experience share cheyyumbhol orupad perkk, ingane ulla avasthakale kurich koodthal manasilaakkan sadhikum🙌

    • @krishnap12
      @krishnap12 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eganey issues phycologistney psychiatristiney kaanikaa gentsinum venda council vendi Vero??

    • @minnu2344
      @minnu2344 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@krishnap12gents and ladies n psychologist consult cheyyamm....👍psychology clinic il poyi... Psychologist kanikam...

    • @Fathi-x4p
      @Fathi-x4p ปีที่แล้ว

      Hy sis ith pryr cheyyumbo varum😢bad thoughts

    • @minnu2344
      @minnu2344 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Fathi-x4p undkum ath ocd religious aayi varm

  • @LidiyaAbith
    @LidiyaAbith ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I too went through this phase aishu. But I did not go for any treatment because I was afraid to say to somebody. I was so scared at that time. Don't know how it went from my life. Stay happy dear 😘 The person in youtube whom i love the most ♥️♥️♥️ i think we will meet one day 😍

  • @Greenspace_pearlgrass
    @Greenspace_pearlgrass ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This same situation currently I'm passing through.. thankyou for sharing...now I'm feeling much better after watching your video ❤️

    • @shintapious8197
      @shintapious8197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too. But nobody can understand it is depression. People around me make fun of me saying I am sick and portraying me badly in front of others including my husband for seeing the doctor.

  • @archanahemachandran4547
    @archanahemachandran4547 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Truly inspiring and I am very proud of you chechii🫂🫂💗💗

  • @nandana0320
    @nandana0320 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Really inspiring Aishu❤
    Thank u for sharing
    Someway or the other it would help people ❤❤❤

  • @aaryag5315
    @aaryag5315 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good to hear that you are right now in a state where you can balance your health. Wonderful 👏👏
    Self awareness + Family's awareness + Decision to resolve it + meeting the right and efficient doctor + continous practice of techniques - All it culminated so well for you... And you are lucky in that. Not all get blessed with so.
    Many a times such efficient Drs are hard to find and not affordable for common people. That's a bitter reality.
    Keep spreading the light, i hope many are relieved listening to your life journey on this. More power to you.

  • @sharmilahemanth996
    @sharmilahemanth996 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi dear.. This is the first video i watched of yours & i immediately pressed the the subscribe button ❤ and the reason behind it is my daughter is a severe OCD patient & she has been under treatment for the past 6 yrs & still going on. We r originally from Calicut but an NRI in Dubai. My daughter is currently 23yrs finished her Engineering. I really wanted her to connect with you. God bless you dear

  • @sahlashafi8448
    @sahlashafi8448 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Really inspiring aishu .because.njan anxiety disorder loode കടന്നുപോകുന്ന ആൾ ആണ് കൂടെ obcession thoughts ഉം.I can related to you.❤

  • @nishinkareem6251
    @nishinkareem6251 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Applauding your raw honesty and willingness to share your journey in the hopes of helping another person.

  • @tejaswinibs1934
    @tejaswinibs1934 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm watching this a lit bit late. I do think that I'm having OCD. But I was not ready to realize what is this thing happening with me. And the thing which surprised me the most was the fact that you're not a relegious person and why you chose not to. The exact same thing happened to me as well. I felt extremely overwhelmed when you said that. I never met person who has OCD or who knows it. The urge to talk about this thing is really high in me especially with you. TY for sharing this.

  • @DeepaGeorge
    @DeepaGeorge ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You should read Dale Carnegie's books. They helped a lot to kick myself out of depression.

  • @SruthiSoman-x8i
    @SruthiSoman-x8i ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i was also gone through the same situation… it was very horrible…i can understand it…. nobody can feel the intensity😢 Whenever i remembering those difficult phase am so glad becz am still living…& am so greatfull am recovered from those bulshit phase of my life….Thank u so much for sharing this it will be really helpful for those who going through such situations…. u r such a strong lady ❤ More power to u

  • @meenkumar
    @meenkumar ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi Aishu, Your video deeply touched me, and I found myself in tears. I've been through a similar situation, and your story resonated with me. Your courage inspired me to consider seeking help from a doctor. Thank you for sharing your journey - you're truly an inspiration.

  • @Haseena_PP
    @Haseena_PP ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you have no idea how much this video helped me

  • @Snowflake2022
    @Snowflake2022 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am a victim of toxic parenting. And my toxic parents chose a person like them as my husband. With series of traumas happened in life made me a severe ocd, anxiety and depression patient. Along with that I have dissociative disorder too . Suffering for last 14 years. No therapists or medications are able to cure me. Struggling every second and not sure how long I can survive like this .

    • @Mariamm6965
      @Mariamm6965 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do u have depersonalization?

    • @fathimashazapm
      @fathimashazapm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't lose hope. you will be cured one day. Start doing meditation.

    • @senstonantonypaul8750
      @senstonantonypaul8750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      if you are from Thrissur pls do vist dr sam . if you are from far place you can consult online(through video call). For me he is best doctor in Thrissur. i am under treatment under him and it has lead for me positve change in my behaviour and all

    • @athirajaljith2753
      @athirajaljith2753 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@Mariamm6965This thought itself is a psychological problem. Consult a psychologist. Blessings to have a great future.❤

  • @athiraou3052
    @athiraou3052 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your presentation is vere level❤❤ Highly appreciated 👏😍

  • @Cherryblossom978
    @Cherryblossom978 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are really a gem ❤❤❤ Aishu . Thank you for sharing the tought times you go through, that tough times made you more polished and become an amazing humble human being . Love the way you put effort to become a better person in everyday life....its motivating really
    Keep going .....❤❤❤❤

  • @amithathomas5233
    @amithathomas5233 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aishu so happy you shared these with us…loads of love to you❤

  • @tintucb3177
    @tintucb3177 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very very Useful story ..njanum ee depression stage pala time vannitudu,ethupole ulla anubhavaghal undayitudu ,but ethuvareyum treatment eduthitilla..ethu oru motivation aakatte ethupole anubhavichavarkoke😊thanks mole

  • @anaghaanu1571
    @anaghaanu1571 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are such a brave and strong lady and moii inspiration and role model when i started watching your video i think i am improving my character and your a gem lady❤‍🔥

  • @priyajojo2503
    @priyajojo2503 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's good video aishu...u told the difficulties u faced in ur life as a story... everybody will go through like these situations but hardest,no the greatest thing is we should overcome this

  • @AshersMomma-ck8mx
    @AshersMomma-ck8mx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hii dear. I m so glad to hear someone giving awareness on Mental Health. I can completely understand and relate someone going through mental illness as i had gone through severe depression in my life. Had taken many kind of treatments and therapies but nothing given a complete relief. Battling my obsessive thought is something out of my control. Only prayer and relationship with God has given me an ultimate relief.. I pray for anyone who is going through this phase in their Life.🙏 God bless

  • @karthikavirad8150
    @karthikavirad8150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many reasons are there for me to like you ❤one of the genuine TH-cam personalities ❤very informative

  • @thefairytaleofdivz
    @thefairytaleofdivz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you Aishu.. no other words can express my feeling after these two life experience videos. ❤

  • @geethuvlogs9618
    @geethuvlogs9618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes aishu... I had an episode of depression and anxiety after my delivery but the main thing was nobody can understand my situation.. actually that was post delivery depression in extreme... Simply crying over eating anxiety , insomnia suicide thought . Finally i found a doctor and attend many therapy but which was not cured completely . Then i started to doing some course nd now i came back to normal life

  • @ShahsiyaShahsi
    @ShahsiyaShahsi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So Relatable chechi...A few months ago,I also went through this same situation like Google searching each and every obsessions and I feel depressed😐I am a neet aspirant So I not get enough time to study due to these obsessions.. wasting many more time..I'm a little better now✨This is really a nice video... Thankyou❤❤

  • @ammusworldmalayalam3756
    @ammusworldmalayalam3756 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much strength to you❤ thank you for such an inspiring share

  • @bh6394
    @bh6394 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OCD sits on top of anxiety. You were anxious person from childhood which escalated to ocd and then escalated to depression . Root cause is anxiety.

  • @nidanourin8613
    @nidanourin8613 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am realising that I am an OCD patient.....Thank you 😮❤❤

  • @rinkumariasebastian5825
    @rinkumariasebastian5825 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nothing more to say...I truly respect your words ❤

  • @ziajal3285
    @ziajal3285 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Aishu soo happy that you overcame those toughh times❤ and also could you please share with us the exercises and names of some of those books that helped you to deal with anxiety..😊

  • @Viya-z6c
    @Viya-z6c 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very much relatable..I quit my job in 2019 for Ielts preparation and at the same time i had a very bad breakup followed by lockdown..I started developing healty issues like severe allergic problems stomach issues and even a fear of having serious disease..i consulted many doctors like dermatologists for my skin issues and gastro for my stomach upset and did endless tests..but nothing was effective later I myself realised these are psychosomatic issues..my mental health is deteriorating in a way my body couldn't tolerate..unfortunately my parents was not supportive but somehow i overcome this with my willpower ❤❤

  • @rinkumariasebastian5825
    @rinkumariasebastian5825 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am going through this situation nowadays because of some reasons..your videos really helping me to get relief from that stress to an extent ❤❤❤❤

  • @athulyamb531
    @athulyamb531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hii
    I too faced the same ocd situation in my life. I took help psychologiest and spiritual practice🧘‍♀️. Nw i m being better and I am also proud of myself because of not tofed up with my challenging situation.
    Its so relatable...
    Thank you ✨

  • @devs4476
    @devs4476 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Soo genuine ❤ Good that you shared it.....

  • @swathysivadas4900
    @swathysivadas4900 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel you❤️

  • @kripamary431
    @kripamary431 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very inspiring..Thank you for sharing your experience with us ❤

  • @linusam8877
    @linusam8877 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this video. This video itself is enough to understand how strong you are. Big hugs to you. It would be beneficial to everyone if you can share the books you referred to help you out.

  • @bindujacob5044
    @bindujacob5044 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are doing a great job. I started watching your channel recently. Atleast you have a platform, you can video call home. I came to us in 1998. Only child. I had to wait whole week to talk to my parents, only snow everywhere. Don’t even know how I overcame this. But this is good for newcomers who are in similar situations

  • @zoyabob4568
    @zoyabob4568 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    thank you for sharing your struggles with us. it takes a lot of courage and we all truly appreciate it. you are a kind human and may you always have inner peace. also cheriya oru manifestation cheythotte; ente daivame oru nalla life partner'ne elavarkum kodukane. namuda jeevitham make or break cheyuna oru part aan love/dating/marriage.

  • @nono-hp1ij
    @nono-hp1ij ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou for your valuable words ❤

  • @Sufi_Jamshi
    @Sufi_Jamshi ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey Aishu I am a big fan of u .. I keep watching all your videos but this one …. OmG it was just like I was hearing my own story when u spoke about your 2020 anxiety story googling symptoms .. husband warning all these were just exactly what happened to me the only difference being u we’re in Netherlands and I was in Paris . Now still battling health anxiety often in Germany and living with it …

  • @jaismart1
    @jaismart1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a very brave girl to reveal this, not many people do that. Hats off you 🎉

  • @nandajoseph8322
    @nandajoseph8322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You just described how i felt for the last 5+ years. Ocd depression and health anxiety is real and its so hard :)

  • @gratitude838
    @gratitude838 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    More than anybody i would appreciate her husband n his family...Mostly people would want their wife / daughter in law to keep this as their family secret...the kind of value they have given her is commendable..
    ഇനി ഇപ്പൊ നാട്ടുകാരെ കൂടെ അറിയിക്കേണ്ട എന്ന ചിന്ത അവർക്കും കൂടെ ഇല്ലാത്തത് കൊണ്ട് ഇതൊക്കെ share ചെയ്യാൻ ഉള്ള ധൈര്യം ഈ കുട്ടിക്ക് വന്നു...തൻ്റെ husband n family പൊളി ആണ്....stigma break ചെയ്യാനുള്ള ധൈര്യം

  • @SreelakshmySreejith
    @SreelakshmySreejith ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg we do have so much similarities 😂😂😅😅. I've faced each instance you mentioned, and the worst part is the constant Googling. Despite visiting different doctors who confirmed it's psychological, I've conducted numerous tests for reassurance, with everything turning out normal. Enjoying brief periods of relief, the persistent nature of OCD symptoms always returns. I'm fortunate to have a husband like mine; he humorously suggested to stop Googling, recognizing the toll it takes on my mental well-being. 😅

  • @alwinaugustin
    @alwinaugustin ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am also diagnosed with OCD and taking medicine. It was diagnosed one year before only and once I started taking medicine, there was a huge positive change I have seen in my life.

    • @Peaceandpeaceonly
      @Peaceandpeaceonly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it ok to take medicines? What was your experience on taking medicine, like did you had any kind of side-effects ?

    • @senstonantonypaul8750
      @senstonantonypaul8750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it's good. we have to take medicines at night. we will have a good sleep and we feel a relief.There is no kind of side effect
      @@Peaceandpeaceonly

  • @Omnivertmallu
    @Omnivertmallu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Googling cheyaruthenu njnum realise cheyan late aayi....googling athra nallathallen sathym parenjal ee video kndapo anu enik ichiru koodi manasilayee ....i also have ocd (basically repeating actions....urge cannot be controlled ) ...inale aishunte video kndapo thot i am getting more calmer to be frank🥰

    • @hitechpopcorn
      @hitechpopcorn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Puthiya review cheyyo 😢

    • @Omnivertmallu
      @Omnivertmallu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hitechpopcorn aada cheyam sure thanks for asking😊🥰

  • @stanleycherian1653
    @stanleycherian1653 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just saw this video and it's so refreshing to hear that you have been able to defeat OCD for the most part. Are you able to share as to what the treatment was, that you underwent in 2020?

  • @dreamon8921
    @dreamon8921 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this video! But could you please explain the exercises and book recommendation you got from the doctor in another video? Hope it helps me in some way.

  • @anjukrishna7013
    @anjukrishna7013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm going through same. Will try to see a therapist soon

  • @shahinamanzoor468
    @shahinamanzoor468 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou thankyou thankyou so much chechiiii for sharing ❤❤

  • @rinishapk8774
    @rinishapk8774 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you 😊for your message ❤❤❤❤👨‍👩‍👧‍👧

    • @rinishapk8774
      @rinishapk8774 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ithuvarai ullathil ishtppetta video

  • @jijababu2060
    @jijababu2060 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for your information ❤

  • @Akhijo
    @Akhijo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you aisu for sharing this...😭😭😭ee same stage il koodeya njnm pone...enkum death anxiety aanu...enk nthokeyo asukam undennulla thonal

  • @akhilgovindmalayalam
    @akhilgovindmalayalam ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Highly relatable. Thanks for sharing

  • @nihalanazar6582
    @nihalanazar6582 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Difficult roads often leads to beautiful destination.
    Be Happy Aishu.. ❤

  • @prabithabanu7058
    @prabithabanu7058 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you sister ❤....I am facing the same problem......u r video helped me a lot.....

  • @monicadeepakdaksh
    @monicadeepakdaksh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a helpful video ❤ Stay happy and blessed

  • @sanooshasanujs2786
    @sanooshasanujs2786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aishuchachi... You are very positive....

  • @anakhawilson2901
    @anakhawilson2901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a powerful women. Kudos for sharing❤.

  • @ThePixelWings
    @ThePixelWings ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Number of responses in this video represents how much people are really suffering from mental health issues and not getting treated.
    Thanks Aishu for opening up.

  • @indirajacob
    @indirajacob ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good..but its all depends on how well your partner understands you…those partners who think its just acting or a phase of so called’braanthu’, we gonna fall
    Into a bad stage

  • @prazworld5703
    @prazworld5703 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have also faced depression in my life. I know the difficulties that you have faced in your life... Really it is a terrible situation one should face in his life time.. We should definitely consult a doctor... I also consulted a doctor and took medicine for 1 and half yrs. My family also suffered a lot. They took initiative in curing my disease..Especially my husband gave a huge support to me and my family. Hats off to him❤ and my family.My doctor suggested me to walk daily till we sweat.. Sometimes I feel it again come to my life.. That time I try to change my life as i can.. Still I continue walking not only for my physical health but also for my mental health. Your words are so inspiring.. ❤️❤️ I pray nobody should face the situation in their life. If we have any such situation try to overcome it.. And consult a doctor as early as possible. You have a lovely husband that he can understand your situation in a better way..

  • @Rasnadelvin
    @Rasnadelvin ปีที่แล้ว +4

    True.... 💯 straight from heart.... Real influencer.... Aishu... Ur words will help many i think. 👍... As you said mental health is too important in current situation.

  • @Genalphakidartandcraft
    @Genalphakidartandcraft ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I Aishu . I am also going through the same phase and none of my family members considering my issue. But know I will definitely consult a phycologist and cure my issues. Thank you 4 d video❤❤❤

  • @SanaV.21_sanu
    @SanaV.21_sanu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At present im going thr a mental disturbance. Thank you for sharing ur experience.

  • @devika7444
    @devika7444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are an amazing person chechi❤❤❤

  • @Feliz108
    @Feliz108 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Aishwarya❤.... Innu aadyayittanu nhan childhood thott face cheythondirikkunna condition OCD aanenn thiricharinjath...

  • @lovelythomas8645
    @lovelythomas8645 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Glad to know that u hve overcomed the tuff phase and back to normal.❤ U. I will keep u in my prayers dear.

  • @sonajoy8751
    @sonajoy8751 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the video aishu..❤

  • @TripTripTgo
    @TripTripTgo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Aishu,
    Thank you for sharing the experience. I have asked for it on your last video where you have mentioned the word "depression" and I knew that it has also played its part to make you stronger that's why I have asked for it. Thank you so much for sharing and I am sure a lot of people will be inspired by this. I don't know about others ..but yes, you inspired me!
    Thank you.
    Peace❤

  • @jabinm.k5605
    @jabinm.k5605 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aishu.. i had the same story.. where my stress level made my ocd even more severe..nd the same situation where.. god believe turn into god fear.. and body ache due to depression.. nd soo on..
    its very difficult situation where no one can understnd it..

  • @athiravishnu_____6823
    @athiravishnu_____6823 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am facing the same situation now.Australia vannit 2months aakan pokunnu.. Dependent visa aan.ende husband job pokunna time yil kure alojich irunn pranth pidikunna avasthayil aakum. Job ipozha onn ready aayath. Medical koodi kazhinjaal kayaraam. Kazhija oru 5 years aayi naatilum dubai yilum work cheitha kond ivide vann oru paniyum illathe veetil thanne aanu.. But husband nalla support aanu.(Vishnu ennu perullavaroke angne aakum🤣) njan epozhum alojikaarund vishnuettanu pakaram vere aaraayirunnenkilum enne handle cheyyaan kazhinju ennu varilla ennu☺️ ethra vishamathil irunnalum aalu enthelum oke paranju set aakum.. 2

  • @minshabacker
    @minshabacker 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @8.42 ..same situation in me...night at 1.30 i cried and told my mother that i can hear my heatbeat outside..like a mad person..i screamed out that...THIS IS MY LAST DAY IN EARTH..that i have HEAR ATTACK... 😭...i can 💯 relate to you AISHU....🥹🥹..veruthe polum aa oru jeevitha gattangalonnum aloikknath ink ishtamilllla....aarkkum ingane onnum kodukkalle dhaivamee...🥺🤲