I absolutely loved hearing your viewpoint. Its so true that as women we tend to judge one another for their choices not considering everyones individual situation. Every woman’s life and circumstance is different and we should never judge anyone just because we think we can!
Sorry off topic but Haleh i have been binge watching your videos and I wanted to thank you for such relatability and compassion toward topics of parenting. Parenting is sooo hard and for you to take in many Muslims lives into one video thank u. In regards to the video 100 percent that everyone's contexts is different!
In short, women can work if they need to. Power to her. But their duty is to manage home and raise righteous children. If a woman doesn't have a need to work, she shouldn't. The idea that women must get educated and go to work came from the West, not Islam. Best of Muslimah didn't went out to work. Plan your life around duties, not desires. Follow the best of Muslimah, not the way of disbelievers.
Will a man going out to work be planning his life around desires? We do not doubt that for a second because he puts bread on the table. However, nowadays many men depend on their wives to make ends meet especially men from lower income groups. The idea that women's role is only within the home is ideal and only practical in certain situations and cultures where cost of living is low. Many women work because cost of living is escalating year by year where they live. Please reserve such judgement on women who had to leave their homes for work. Firstly, many women are single and they have to work to care for their parents and themselves. Do not suggest polygamy as there is no surety their husbands who are polygamous can maintain them and all their parents-in-law. Secondly, many women still work even with small children because they could find someone to help them with their children part-time. The work they do such as specialist doctors is a rare profession and it is in their best interest n the community to still continue in their profession because you need such female representation or in general you need such experts in the area. Many Muslimahs prefer to see female gps, specialists or surgeons, right? Thirdly, when the children grow up and are more independent, women can continue with their profession especially when children are not at home. Going out to work is not the way of disbelievers but necessary for centuries even during the time of the Prophet. Fifthly, many women work because their husbands fell ill or died. Do not brand something as evil or haram just because women do it. Research first, ask questions, study the seerah before pronouncing judgements.
Facts! Its unnatural order to leave your children with strangers..I believe its a curse if you cannot take care of your babies at home in safety. Your comment is the true way to protect our babies, and the Creator will provide!
@@jy7869 may not be for you but many women have to work. please dont judge many women including our mothers who had to make sacrifices. Allah tests all of us in different ways.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's incredibly challenging to manage the mental health struggles that can arise from staying home to raise your kids. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to address them. The Banani Method can be very effective in helping you navigate these challenges. I recommend exploring our resources, such as the "Mindful Hearts Membership," which offers support and tools to improve your mental well-being. Additionally, if you need more personalized support, we offer one-on-one sessions with Banani Method trained coaches. You can find more information at halehbanani.com. Remember, taking care of your mental health is crucial for both you and your family. You're not alone in this journey. Best regards, Aisha, on behalf of Sr. Haleh Banani. Haleh Banani's Support Team
I like your thoughts but I see today that lots of girls will just concentrate on their job n dump everything on their husband's. The poor guys don't say anything bec they want to keep peace in the family. I have seen this within my own family 😔
I read your response to someone saying “women working is a concept of the disbelievers…” I appreciate your response and the 5 points you’ve highlighted. Indeed, marriage life can be dynamic at times and it takes reasoning to make the best decision for each family setup. Jazakillah Khairan.
@@muyideenjimoh2874Allah has already made the decision for the best family setup. It’s up to us to follow it. If someone is widowed or divorced, that may require a different approach. But generally, our women are meant to be at home. The men are commanded to be providers
Stay at home mothers are awesome! Honestly what kind of woman has strangers raising their children??
Exactly, its unnatural order because children suffer later.
Since the beginning of time children were raised by a village/community not just mom alone at home which is often the case for stay at home moms now.
I absolutely loved hearing your viewpoint. Its so true that as women we tend to judge one another for their choices not considering everyones individual situation. Every woman’s life and circumstance is different and we should never judge anyone just because we think we can!
True and we have different needs which works for me may not work for another we have to respect each other
Sorry off topic but Haleh i have been binge watching your videos and I wanted to thank you for such relatability and compassion toward topics of parenting. Parenting is sooo hard and for you to take in many Muslims lives into one video thank u.
In regards to the video 100 percent that everyone's contexts is different!
jazakallah khair for your kind words, it means a lot to me.
May Allah SWT make it easy for all mothers to fulfill the rights of their children Allahumma Ameen 🤲🏼
In short, women can work if they need to. Power to her. But their duty is to manage home and raise righteous children. If a woman doesn't have a need to work, she shouldn't. The idea that women must get educated and go to work came from the West, not Islam. Best of Muslimah didn't went out to work. Plan your life around duties, not desires. Follow the best of Muslimah, not the way of disbelievers.
Tomorrow we have debate about mom stay home and mom work really I liked ur comment jazaka ALLAH khair ALLAH bless you
Will a man going out to work be planning his life around desires? We do not doubt that for a second because he puts bread on the table. However, nowadays many men depend on their wives to make ends meet especially men from lower income groups. The idea that women's role is only within the home is ideal and only practical in certain situations and cultures where cost of living is low. Many women work because cost of living is escalating year by year where they live. Please reserve such judgement on women who had to leave their homes for work. Firstly, many women are single and they have to work to care for their parents and themselves. Do not suggest polygamy as there is no surety their husbands who are polygamous can maintain them and all their parents-in-law. Secondly, many women still work even with small children because they could find someone to help them with their children part-time. The work they do such as specialist doctors is a rare profession and it is in their best interest n the community to still continue in their profession because you need such female representation or in general you need such experts in the area. Many Muslimahs prefer to see female gps, specialists or surgeons, right? Thirdly, when the children grow up and are more independent, women can continue with their profession especially when children are not at home. Going out to work is not the way of disbelievers but necessary for centuries even during the time of the Prophet. Fifthly, many women work because their husbands fell ill or died. Do not brand something as evil or haram just because women do it. Research first, ask questions, study the seerah before pronouncing judgements.
Facts! Its unnatural order to leave your children with strangers..I believe its a curse if you cannot take care of your babies at home in safety. Your comment is the true way to protect our babies, and the Creator will provide!
@@kays3956 This is not natural order for women to provide like a man, she will not feel satisfied long term.
@@jy7869 may not be for you but many women have to work. please dont judge many women including our mothers who had to make sacrifices. Allah tests all of us in different ways.
I chose to stay home and raising my kids and I have caught many mental illness
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's incredibly challenging to manage the mental health struggles that can arise from staying home to raise your kids. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to address them.
The Banani Method can be very effective in helping you navigate these challenges. I recommend exploring our resources, such as the "Mindful Hearts Membership," which offers support and tools to improve your mental well-being. Additionally, if you need more personalized support, we offer one-on-one sessions with Banani Method trained coaches. You can find more information at halehbanani.com.
Remember, taking care of your mental health is crucial for both you and your family. You're not alone in this journey.
Best regards,
Aisha, on behalf of Sr. Haleh Banani.
Haleh Banani's Support Team
This is excellent advice
Thank you so much!
Masha allah..
Assalamualaikum write Allah in capital Ma sha Allah SubhanAllah In sha Allah JazakAllah Barak Allah and Allah knows best
I like your thoughts but I see today that lots of girls will just concentrate on their job n dump everything on their husband's. The poor guys don't say anything bec they want to keep peace in the family. I have seen this within my own family 😔
I read your response to someone saying “women working is a concept of the disbelievers…” I appreciate your response and the 5 points you’ve highlighted. Indeed, marriage life can be dynamic at times and it takes reasoning to make the best decision for each family setup. Jazakillah Khairan.
@@muyideenjimoh2874Allah has already made the decision for the best family setup. It’s up to us to follow it. If someone is widowed or divorced, that may require a different approach. But generally, our women are meant to be at home. The men are commanded to be providers
I want this support system sppuses are horrible these day
Mic drop....
Can you specify the trustees (mothers who need to work outside the home) should entrust there children with,according to the muslim faith. Thanks!
We will forward your question to Sr Haleh so she can answer it inshAllah and we will get back to you soon :)
Cleo
Haleh Banani Support Team