It's very rare that I dislike your stories but this one is so senseless, so selfish. Its not that Rishi cancelled the wedding, the issue is that he cancelled the wedding at the last minute, so karan johar style.
This video was actually a disaster it encourages people to run away from the responsibility of marriage at last minute . This one is the first video of #lifetak which I really disliked.
Calling off an arranged marriage 4 days before is unfair to the bride as in our patriarchal society the prospective bride n her family will have to go through enormous societal pressures and often get blamed for the marriage being called off abruptly for frivolous reasons. But modern day couples take great care to lan and proceed with their marriage plans with a long term view on how they wish to live their married life together. So such impulsive decisions in the 11th hour are rarely taken unilaterally..
It's so easy to watch this video, but if it was me as the girl in video, would have nervous breakdown and might not get over it for years. This was not fair at all. There are consequences of every action.
I'm a girl still and i can understand your situation at that time it's very hard to accept things like this but I think it's better to not with someone who doesn't want you in his life. Maybe it's painful at that time but now You can see how happy you are in your life...and can you imagine asi sadi ho jadi to kya tum sahi me khus rahpati.. sayad wo sadi ko bachene ke liye khud ko kho deti ..kya wo sahi hota Ultimately divorce Hota. To its best to get married to someone who wants you in his life..han yahan bhi jhagda hoga Kain tarha ka issue hoga phir bhi ekdusre ka sath rehga ..It's not the person is wrong it's the situation. Han wo late me bola par bola to sahi agar sadi ke bad bolta to aur bhi galat hota. So jo bhi hota hai ache ke liye hi hota hai... Live happily stay blessed 😇
Absolutely . It's like one of those Ms universe award ceremonies where announcer announces the wrong name leading to immense humiliation . It's a wedding not a trial room where you can try and reject afterwards after sudden realization .
Rhishi - what he did is unacceptable. His statement about "accepting the marriage" is sufficient enough to know the end result. I doubt whether he will be able to talk to people; he might just not show up. His reasoning shows his timid, self-centred, confused character. Will he ever have a successful career or life; doubtful. Tanya - very typical girl; thinking of what will guests think, society day, what will happen to papa. In order to have a peaceful life, it is better that she doesn't marry a man like Rishi.
Crazy fellow! He could have known much before the engagement. It is so embarrassing for the girl & her parents. People will blame her. He is acting foolishly.
Logo ka kaam hai kahna.... Kch to log kahenge..... Never loose your life behind such foolish things..... Whatever you do people will say anything is that right or wrong.....
Abhi saadi nahi hui. Jindgi save ho sakti hai. Kya chahte ho shaadi karke dono ki jindgi barbad kar dete ghut-ghut kar jeene suru kar de. Agar shaadi ke baad aisa karta to aap hi ye kahte ki to phir shaadi kyon kiye nhi karni thi shaadi.
@@rajnikant4268 Lekin rishta hone se phle he usy mana krna chye tha ase hopes dekr ksi ko peeche hatna us insaan klye b bht heartbreaking hota hy Larkon ko to rishte mil jate hyn lkn lrki klye society yehi hmesha kehti hy k iski Shadi toot gyi hy zroor isi m koi burayi hogi or us k parents pr kiaaa guzrti hy ye socha ksi ny..
He did the right thing Perhaps he should have done this before but it was right instead of living your whole life with someone you don't love , it's difficult
Reason is clear..1. "he is not in love with her" 2. He is not happy by this decision.. 3. He is feelings frustrating right now so he will be frustrated in future though. .
Yes rishi did good thing he act brave for what he want to be ...nowadays everyone damaging their lives and causing depression due to loosing them selves he bravely did what he want for himself he did right thing
I think under some inevitable circumstances Rishi had to take such mammoth decision, otherwise there seemed nothing any sign to do break-up.... What do u think ?
He did the best he could Sometimes you try and make others happy and in turn suffer. And when you are unhappy you will automatically make others around you unhappy. It's better to have taken this decision a minute before also. Yes it's painful and v hurtful in the short run. But in the long run it saves them from years of adjusting. Marriage should be a 100% commitment to happiness ..and then adjusting becomes easier But it it starts as a compromise ...it becomes a liability
Rinki ji ye story bakwass h. Aap faaltu me trust kho rahi ho men pe se, saare men ek jaise nahi hote.....Aakhir aapke brother and father bhi to men hi h😊😊
Relationship's were always complicated . So need to be clear before we commit for it ...Saying "no" at last moment definitely not a right thing to do or getting engaged and then thinking about marriage after engagement is also not a right to do . So being clear at the initial steps itself is the right way of commitment .
He is right and she is just being in an illusion ...she is not wrong at her place but is in shock...not every guy or girl has such guts ...she is lucky
@@sujayreddyv I don't know..i just said my opinion in "this" situation where if one of the person is not ready to get married yet agree for other person's happiness... that's not right because it will not be for good all the time...mostly it will be in negative
Deepthi reddy a small homework. Try searching the following in oxford dictionary:- 1. Adjustment- because partner is not your Uber driver. 2. Tolerance- it’s more humane of kind 3. Patience- it’s not a nature’s call. But marriage. 4. Sensitivity- it’s an innocent girl. not a whore! Last but not least marriage in India is a collusion of 2 souls, families and their aspirations. New relations start with a marriage. And it’s not like what’s the gap between (tinder-oyo) and shaadi.com app.
If rishi didn't wanted to marry tanya then he should have taken this decision before.. now all arrangements r done and everything is set then suddenly saying no is not a gud option.. rishi has played with an emotion of tanya and her family
1-Story mein dum nahi hai, 2- ladki ke acting bhi Interesting nahi hai. 3-end is not proper. 4- even dialogues are not much attractive .. 5-we dont know exact reason why rishi breakup ?
It’s better late than never. Rishi was really looking out for Tanya but she was just concerned about what others would think. My brother asked this same question when he was about to marry .....and I was in the same place as Tanya ....what would people think? when two people marry .....the relationship is between those two people ....not the people who came to the wedding. We worry way too much about what others will think .....and get in to situations we regret in years to come
If or Else...#Rishi isn't a gay...He must have married Being a Boy I have thought of it something same if occurs either in my marriage or my Sister's marriage & it makes girl's life terrible.... Usually still in #India..Girls are dependent not by financial needs but f emotions. *Intention should justify Action*
He could have postponed the marriage.... And taken some time.... Love happens even after marriage as well.... N the gal knows him since years so it is easy with her... Telling at this moment... Wrong absolutely wrong... What abt that girl... Her emotions.. Her family... Will her parents be able to take it?? Will it be easy for her to get her life back on track.. Rishi is just running from. The situation... He should have taken time... That was better... If something happens to the gal or her parents... Who. Is answerable... There is always a solution mr rishi.. Think wisely.... India h movie nahi chal ri... Last min koi b dulha change ho jayega... Ya kuch b N rishi if it was ur daughter or ur sister then???
Gadhe ko itne years m samajh hi ni aaya ki what kind of relationship was he sharing with her??....aur janaab seedhe shaadi krne chl diye......😕 But if he was clear about their relationship, then why he kept quiet for so long?????
What Rishi did was right. I saw this video twice. Initially even I thought he was wrong but after watching for the second time I realized y he did so. He just wanted to have a life partner who would have an opinion or liking of her own n not a partner who would forget her own pehchaan n live only as per Rishi's liking.
Joooo b hy lekin isse kiaa asr prega un k parents pr specially lrki k wo ye sb kese brdasht krenge or wo lrki wo khd kese kregi uska pyar ya dosti se bhrosa alg uth jayega or phr usy b sbki batein jo sunni prengi wo alg or sb arrangements hogyi thi paise ki wastage alg i'm sorry lekin uskoo ye sb q pehle yad nhi aya hmesha end moment pe q sbkooo yad ata hy..
This rishi's types of boys are such as dumbo and above all they r the biggest coward in the world. If u r not happy with any decision tell it at the very beginning because at the last hour when everything is ready this is a huge lose for anybody. The character of Rishi is a very typical selfish boy. Hate this type of character... But love ❤😘for lifetaak.... Want more episodes regarding this story @lifetaak
This girl looks egoistical dominant.kudos to the guy for leaving her before marriage or his life would be screwed forever.very brave and self respecting decision. For all feminists out their who dont agree i have only one question.if this decision was taken by girl and you support ed her..then ur feminist.. Its just that the guy took the right step
Yess he is correct but.....he should have think bit early on it.....because ...i know we should not think of the oeople but its hard to face them .....and unfortunately we don't have any other option......
How mediocre this man is.He indeed took the wrong call.Killing ones happiness,dreams and everyones expectations where not only you,other persons life and both of the families are involved in pursuit of what you're thinking "will happen" is just cowardness.
@nagesh jutta Lekin ap ye to maan lo k sbko end moment pe q yad ata hy Shadi tornaa ye sb wo phle krletaaa to asa na hota or log kiaa kahenge uska dar nhi lekin Specially lrki klye rehna mushkil hojata hy un logon k beech m ap ny srf Rishi k point of view se socha pr kiaa unki families ka socha is k bd kiaa hota hy parents ye sb brdasht kr nhi pate or unhy b kch hojata hy ye sb b hota hy or sb arrangements pe bad jo paise ki b brbadi hoti hy apko kiaa pata k unki families ny kis tarah se Shadi klye sb arrangements ki m srf ktnaa kahungi k usne kaam theek kia lekin galat time pr kia usko phle krna chye tha ab uski wja se ksi ka pyar se ya dosti se bhrosa uth jayega phr log kahenge k hr larka 1 jesa nhi hota waah..
What on earth made him ready for engagement and marriage. He has a rotten mind. The girl would be in depression and people will ask questions about her. Accepting her for marriage by another family would be most difficult. If she had a brother he could harm this stupid guy.
In 90% relations love start after the marriage so he should either tell at beginning or move towards marriage waise bhi 90% best friend hi crush hoti h if best one is of opposite gender
So much relatable in this generation.i made same mistake in differentiating between friendship and love.but realised it within 6 months and broke up.the other person dint understood but I knew if I could not generate any feeling in these months means I don't have any feeling of lover . Only the person who have been in place of Rishi like me can only relate to his story .and it happens to make your friends happy u commit to them but that is not how feelings, love generate . realised later soon after met my soulmate and found a bond of love which was absolutely perfect.that was best decision of my whole life.i feel so blessed to take that strong step which saved many life. 😊
Finally someone who got what the video is actually trying to show. Others r just blaming the boy. But he just didn't wanted to hurt her feelings so agreed to marry but now realized that it's wrong for both. I agree it's not right time but definately gonna save boths life
He took right decision. But not in a right way. He could postponed it and could have made her realise the things. I have seen people regreting n making their life hell after marriage just because they thought their frndship was love.
Even after watching the whole video i don't understand why rishi denied to marry.....? 😟 Hit like if you also agree with this. And please reply the one who understood..!
I don't think it's a good move by Rishi, Tanya is a decent girl,He should marry her.Life has problems,we should Fight them ,not just throw away in the last time
Noo... Who will pay for the father who is going to have a heart attack and who is going to pay for the mother and the brother ??? And what about the girls depression after that. Her trust issues? Dealt with that. I know what it feel like. Itni der se ussko khush krne k liye ye sb kr raha tha toh ussko abhi b khush krta. Ya ye jo so called enlightenment huyi hai. Vo pehle ho jati ussko. Atleast girl ko itna face na krna pddta. Even if she move on. People will never let her forget it.
Best decision, at least he was mature enough to take a stand for what he thought was right. Nobody cares of "log kya kahenge". This is 2019. Reason is not necessary, maybe it was his work, maybe it was his ambitions, maybe he was not ready..But it takes guts to take such a call.
Some people are saying bomb should have defused before it was even planted ... He didn't knew if he loved her or wanted to stay frnds unitill.. Rishi just fused the bomb mins before it took 2 lives.. What do you call this ? Courage or stupidity ?
This kind of a rejection is irritating. What is more bothering is not just the timing, but most importantly, being rejected for a baseless/workable issue. The male character in the video reminded me of my Ex, this kind of a person won't be giving you more details other than 1 or 2 statements that convey that they are not sure/not feeling love that too after knowing you so deeply for a significant amount of time even after exhausting your patience, love, care, time, etc. Just sharing an excerpt from my experience.. It sounds obvious, but my hard learning is that, knowledge doesn't guarantee wisdom and maturity. Some people are avid readers of vast genres, binge watch plenty of documentaries, movies, etc. while some of them grow up as a person with better maturity & clarity, some do it superficially for sounding intelligent or just to fit into a situation, etc. Although its painful in general, its devastating for somebody who is very straightforward, flexible and honest to get betrayed only to realize that the SO had no spine. These kind of people start off in a way that makes you feel compatible with them & if its happening in a very short period of time, better be cautious! Especially if it's happening from somebody you already find yourself liking, please, I repeat, please take time and take it slow, one step at a time! Of course, the amount of time it requires to know each other enough to analyze compatibility based on mutual requirements would entirely depend on the individuals orientation, intellectuality, transparency and so on (you should know what to expect, what to ask, what not to compromise, what parameters are flexible, etc). Also, do not ignore red flags at any stage in a relationship, especially in the very beginning. Guess what, my ex ended things with me for the exact reasons he shared with me in the very beginning (BTW, he neither made the relationship nor the rejection clear/official to me, I had to give myself the closure that I deserved). He was scared of attachment and stated that he was commitment phobic, that's exactly what happened between us, what else would happen when you love somebody? So, please listen & believe if they are opening up about stuff like that to you, so that you will know beforehand about your boundaries, what works for you and what doesn't etc. Take care, be strong, be confident, don't give away the power of your self-esteem to anybody! In a way, I am glad that I had an experience with this kind of a person, because that drove me to build myself emotionally & intellectually (both are life-time WIP, but I am making sure that I won't stop learning). I realized that some connections are better off as friendship only, a bare minimum common sense would give you that intuitive feeling, just need to trust that and take that connection only to that level and not beyond (if its meant to be beyond, you will know with time. That is exactly why patience in any aspect of life is essential, do not rush things unless its a lethal situation). Even if the other person has the ability to destroy you and still put no effort to have a decent communication (ghosting), please know that it's always better to level up for shielding our own self than expect the other to know better. We can only control ourselves (sounds easy, but it's not), but maybe our orientation can motivate somebody to re-think or re-calibrate themselves for the good of all, but these kind of experiences, if perceived correctly, could offer great learning curves. So keep yourself mentally and physically fit to enjoy this journey of life!
Currently stuck in this situation... But in my life roles are oppo... He said that maybe he is being selfish... But I told that he is not.. we have to live life together not our parents have to... If anyone one of us is not happy then this marriage is useless...Stuck because.. he is still confused.. but I will never marry someone who isn't ready for the marriage.
It's the god gifted nature of human beings when he/she gets everything,there after he's expecting to gets more ,because human wants are unlimited. In this case, Rishi's decision are extremely going on the worng way..( Rishi should have thinked these thing before say yes to that girl!) in marriage not only two couples met with each other, it's relationship between two family, emotiona, faith and most of thing #sacrifice, not only our happiness is mandatory, we should be thinked about all not only us.
I understand how everyone is talking about the boy being very late in breaking this off. But I have a different take on it. It was surprising how clueless the girl was when he walked in. She seemed a little self-absorbed where she didn't pick up on his voice, his tone. She was fiddling with her hair, bangles. And it is strange how she didn't immediately ask what went wrong and why the marriage wouldn't work. But yes, good that it happened before things got more complicated.
True, the girl was v self absorbed, kind of not concerned with the boy ,not sensing anything . May be she is a dumbo ,that's why Rishi finds it better not to go for it..
O my god. I also have a friend last 5 years. I thought i tell him that i love him. But this vedio make me nurvas. If he rejected me.... I don’t wanna lost him
Don't know what problems Tanya's family will face. Rishi's family too will break down. No one is perfect and no couple r perfect. Life is full of mysteries. Why to hurt anyone's heart after commitment. What will be Rishi's next commitment's guarantee?
All shit, Unfortunately people don't understand the meaning of love they think that they don't have emotions for the particular one. and this becomes a circle like one day Rishi will face this situation because that one will not like Rishi but Rishi will Like her 😇😇😇
Rishi realized that they both were doing everything for other person's happiness, ignoring their own individualities. Such relations become toxic and unbearable with time, when persons involved become subconsciously conscious of their inner self and their own personality that they had unconsciously covered (which cannot be held for too long) to please their affectionate. He was a little late to realize it, but at least took a bold to decision to save two people from the torments of an unsuccessful marriage.
Story is so incomplete. None of the guys have proper point for their say. The guy is wrong to realise close to engagement. Unnecessary expenses n inconvenience to guests n family..
He has taken a bold step which saved both the lives from getting ruined. The decision could be taken at last moment but it has to be correct. Marriage is a sacred bond it cannot be mounted on the pillars of compromises and unhappiness. A temporary wound is always better than a permanent Sorrow.
It is not easy to place oneself in someone else's position, condition, situation .It is better to communicate one's mind before going into a permanent, lifelong relationship
Some Guys are like this! If they dont want to marry why not saying at the beginning! Thats why it is right to keep boundaries in the beginning. Some guys just make place in heart of girls and when the girls falls in love with them they ran away.
Well I just felt that he shouldn't have kept her in dark as it was about important decision of life. But we humans make things complex. Rest things like having an opinion of own mattered to him but that's not the reason of saying no to marriage. He just used that as an weapon.
yes, he did the right thing....one should get married happily and out of full consent.....it should not be a compromise or for family or for society.... marriage is a lifetime partnership Journey....else it can turn out to be a bad marriage.... Happiness is more important than what others think about you....go for Happiness...
mai khud aise situation me fsii hui hun...meri love story ko arrange marriage kra rhi hun ..but mai ab khus nhi hun..pta nhi kyaa horha hai..kuch v thik nhi hai..mai ye abb kisiko v nhi bol parhi hun..sayad ye uuse v aisa feel horha hoga..what i do?
This same thing happened with me just a month ago.. And still I am in depression. The only reason I get that his didi bhaiya didn't liked me.. And his brother got a very good job in big 4, so they just left me out this way.. Even my father got an attack but they didn't contacted me neither a boy nor his family.
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Yes I will be marry with the girl. And try to sort out things but won't cancel the marriage. 👍
It's very rare that I dislike your stories but this one is so senseless, so selfish. Its not that Rishi cancelled the wedding, the issue is that he cancelled the wedding at the last minute, so karan johar style.
This video was actually a disaster it encourages people to run away from the responsibility of marriage at last minute . This one is the first video of #lifetak which I really disliked.
I love... lifetak... but.. this vedio is.. so odd..
I think it's good decision.... bcoz married life is enjoyment not a sacrifice and i want to be result ....i mean the next part
Kisi ke emotions ke sath majak nahi karna chahiye..
Jab sadi nahi karna Tha to pehle sochna chahiye
Ab b Soch liya to Sahi Kiya
Shadi k bad sochta
To
Aur galat hota
Yes, Sadi ke bad break up karne se accha hai ki Sadi se pehle hi mana karde.
@@srishti-the_world itna time Kiu barbad kia us ke sath ?
... I think Rishi ne pehle socha hai before getting married.... and he might have said it late but better late than never
Meri sagaaii ho gae thi tb smj aaya meko
He did right thing in a wrong time.... Relationship shud never be forceful
Coming out from a unhappy relationship is always better then to live in compromised relationship
This has happened to me as a girl I suffered a lot then..but now I m happily married ....
Thank God you are happy now
Thank god you are happy now
Calling off an arranged marriage 4 days before is unfair to the bride as in our patriarchal society the prospective bride n her family will have to go through enormous societal pressures and often get blamed for the marriage being called off abruptly for frivolous reasons. But modern day couples take great care to lan and proceed with their marriage plans with a long term view on how they wish to live their married life together. So such impulsive decisions in the 11th hour are rarely taken unilaterally..
The timing was totally wrong.
It's so easy to watch this video, but if it was me as the girl in video, would have nervous breakdown and might not get over it for years. This was not fair at all. There are consequences of every action.
Right
I'm a girl still and i can understand your situation at that time it's very hard to accept things like this but I think it's better to not with someone who doesn't want you in his life. Maybe it's painful at that time but now You can see how happy you are in your life...and can you imagine asi sadi ho jadi to kya tum sahi me khus rahpati.. sayad wo sadi ko bachene ke liye khud ko kho deti ..kya wo sahi hota Ultimately divorce Hota. To its best to get married to someone who wants you in his life..han yahan bhi jhagda hoga Kain tarha ka issue hoga phir bhi ekdusre ka sath rehga ..It's not the person is wrong it's the situation. Han wo late me bola par bola to sahi agar sadi ke bad bolta to aur bhi galat hota. So jo bhi hota hai ache ke liye hi hota hai... Live happily stay blessed 😇
Breaking up with someone is yeah fine but not like this..... Totally relatable 😔
The way he made the decision was not correct ... the decision he made was rt
How to breakup then?
@@bibhishanhessa pehle bataa deta ki ni karna shaadi.... Jab parents ko bataa diya usko baad u don't have option to back off na
Absolutely . It's like one of those Ms universe award ceremonies where announcer announces the wrong name leading to immense humiliation .
It's a wedding not a trial room where you can try and reject afterwards after sudden realization .
Steve Harvey! He really messed it up!
Rhishi - what he did is unacceptable. His statement about "accepting the marriage" is sufficient enough to know the end result. I doubt whether he will be able to talk to people; he might just not show up. His reasoning shows his timid, self-centred, confused character. Will he ever have a successful career or life; doubtful.
Tanya - very typical girl; thinking of what will guests think, society day, what will happen to papa. In order to have a peaceful life, it is better that she doesn't marry a man like Rishi.
It is better to ruin one's moment rather than to ruin one's life. Whatever he did was absolutely right.
This guy always gets bad characters' role to play.😂
😂
This is because he's capable of portraying each kinda character with a perfect realistic touch, a perfect character improvisation....
Not always
Actual me abtk bn b gya hoga 😝
Yes rishi ne apne dil ki baat tanya ko bol kar sahi kiya. Lekin. Pehele woh gaadha soo raha tha. Sleeping?...
Shi kiya par tanya k dil ki bat sunna or smjhna to jruri nhi smjha tista kya sirf rishi bna rha tha tanya nhi thi kya
hahahha lmao!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the way you have said it is so funny
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
Crazy fellow! He could have known much before the engagement. It is so embarrassing for the girl & her parents. People will blame her. He is acting foolishly.
Logo ka kaam hai kahna.... Kch to log kahenge..... Never loose your life behind such foolish things..... Whatever you do people will say anything is that right or wrong.....
Sahi baat hai Greta
Rishi should say no at beginning
Such a idiot rishi
Rishi should differentiate the friendship between love at the beginning
Well said !
Abhi saadi nahi hui. Jindgi save ho sakti hai. Kya chahte ho shaadi karke dono ki jindgi barbad kar dete ghut-ghut kar jeene suru kar de. Agar shaadi ke baad aisa karta to aap hi ye kahte ki to phir shaadi kyon kiye nhi karni thi shaadi.
@@rajnikant4268 Lekin rishta hone se phle he usy mana krna chye tha ase hopes dekr ksi ko peeche hatna us insaan klye b bht heartbreaking hota hy Larkon ko to rishte mil jate hyn lkn lrki klye society yehi hmesha kehti hy k iski Shadi toot gyi hy zroor isi m koi burayi hogi or us k parents pr kiaaa guzrti hy ye socha ksi ny..
Bhai commitment de diya to de diya .its not a gudda guddi ka khel, people's life, expectations n everything is dependent on it. It's a cowardly job
He did the right thing
Perhaps he should have done this before but it was right instead of living your whole life with someone you don't love , it's difficult
He did the right thing, but shouldn’t have waited this long.
the reason is not clear , may be he not ready to take responsibility of marriage & future life. otherwise there is no any solid reason i found.
No means no.. Ladke nai no bolo isse samjo
The reason is that rishi doesn't want that any girl should forget his identity for his hubby or any one else...
Yeah.. Rishi scared from the responsibility... Otherwise everything is fine...
Yr khud me satisfaction hona chahiye..
Meeere sath bhi huwa h aisa
Reason is clear..1. "he is not in love with her" 2. He is not happy by this decision.. 3. He is feelings frustrating right now so he will be frustrated in future though. .
Yes rishi did good thing he act brave for what he want to be ...nowadays everyone damaging their lives and causing depression due to loosing them selves he bravely did what he want for himself he did right thing
Story is incomplete.
What happens next?
Yes apne thik bola
Tanya gym jaane lgiii... Figure maintain krliya... Phir yeah peeche-2 ghumne lga uske...
@@samunderdhaker4188 Mujhe bhi yhi Lga tha
@sheetal thapa....... Aisa hi hota h aksar.... Thukra k mera pyaar ab mera intkaam dekhega
Exactly ....why did he run away ?
Kya surety hai pyar mil hi jyega.........he was wrong???
When 2 ppl understand each other thts what really matters!!!
Exactly , mutual understanding is far more better than that love-coated infatuation...
He's right but he should have told in the beginning
I think under some inevitable circumstances Rishi had to take such mammoth decision, otherwise there seemed nothing any sign to do break-up.... What do u think ?
Exactly popi
Never late
Stupid guy driven by his own thinking
The boy is Ruthless, he can't ditch her at the last moment, he says it's pure freindship between them, good freinds think many times before hurting
He did the best he could
Sometimes you try and make others happy and in turn suffer. And when you are unhappy you will automatically make others around you unhappy. It's better to have taken this decision a minute before also. Yes it's painful and v hurtful in the short run. But in the long run it saves them from years of adjusting. Marriage should be a 100% commitment to happiness ..and then adjusting becomes easier
But it it starts as a compromise ...it becomes a liability
He's absolutely wrong........backing out at last moments.......
Yes he did right its better to be honest
@@DarshanaShah But he did right thing at the wrong time..
If he didn't want to marry her, why didn't he say so before.? On the day of engagement? Seriously!
If u think that ur not happy in a relation then its right,,,but the timing of confessing it was wrong....U can't insult a friend and her family...
Absolutely!
He is such a spineless. He can tell her before it started. That's why I've a trust issue in men.
Rinki ji ye story bakwass h. Aap faaltu me trust kho rahi ho men pe se, saare men ek jaise nahi hote.....Aakhir aapke brother and father bhi to men hi h😊😊
Not all are same
Yes our brother and father are men but how we know how they are with other ladies
So in short its a high possibility that all men are same(dog)
You are right it is better to be safe than sorry....
Yes.. I also agree ... I have also trust issue with men ..
He is making a bad decision, though in reality it makes sense. It is easy to love somebody but its a destiny to get unconditional love from someone.
Relationship's were always complicated . So need to be clear before we commit for it ...Saying "no" at last moment definitely not a right thing to do or getting engaged and then thinking about marriage after engagement is also not a right to do . So being clear at the initial steps itself is the right way of commitment .
I'm missing that south Indian girl..
If you also want her...
Hit like..
He is right and she is just being in an illusion ...she is not wrong at her place but is in shock...not every guy or girl has such guts ...she is lucky
What about a relationship which begins from Facebook "friendship"?
@@sujayreddyv I don't know..i just said my opinion in "this" situation where if one of the person is not ready to get married yet agree for other person's happiness... that's not right because it will not be for good all the time...mostly it will be in negative
Rishi has to say before last movement . Girl parents is also in trouble. Just say i am sorry you have no right to play with some other emotions.
Deepthi reddy a small homework. Try searching the following in oxford dictionary:-
1. Adjustment- because partner is not your Uber driver.
2. Tolerance- it’s more humane of kind
3. Patience- it’s not a nature’s call. But marriage.
4. Sensitivity- it’s an innocent girl. not a whore!
Last but not least marriage in India is a collusion of 2 souls, families and their aspirations. New relations start with a marriage. And it’s not like what’s the gap between (tinder-oyo) and shaadi.com app.
If rishi didn't wanted to marry tanya then he should have taken this decision before.. now all arrangements r done and everything is set then suddenly saying no is not a gud option.. rishi has played with an emotion of tanya and her family
1-Story mein dum nahi hai,
2- ladki ke acting bhi Interesting nahi hai.
3-end is not proper.
4- even dialogues are not much attractive ..
5-we dont know exact reason why rishi breakup ?
Bare ayee....
Interesting wale😅😅😅
Sahi bat heiii totally sahi hei kuch dam nahi hei
It’s better late than never. Rishi was really looking out for Tanya but she was just concerned about what others would think. My brother asked this same question when he was about to marry .....and I was in the same place as Tanya ....what would people think? when two people marry .....the relationship is between those two people ....not the people who came to the wedding. We worry way too much about what others will think .....and get in to situations we regret in years to come
If or Else...#Rishi isn't a gay...He must have married
Being a Boy I have thought of it something same if occurs either in my marriage or my Sister's marriage & it makes girl's life terrible.... Usually still in #India..Girls are dependent not by financial needs but f emotions.
*Intention should justify Action*
Either way,the girl has to bear the brunt!
Not only imotionally, socially but also financially!
Hmm
What is the reason of breaking the marriage 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
That he doesn't want to.. simply
Everyone's commenting about the timing being wrong like there is a right time to break up with someone. He did the right thing.
He could have postponed the marriage.... And taken some time.... Love happens even after marriage as well....
N the gal knows him since years so it is easy with her...
Telling at this moment... Wrong absolutely wrong...
What abt that girl... Her emotions.. Her family... Will her parents be able to take it?? Will it be easy for her to get her life back on track..
Rishi is just running from. The situation... He should have taken time... That was better...
If something happens to the gal or her parents... Who. Is answerable... There is always a solution mr rishi.. Think wisely.... India h movie nahi chal ri... Last min koi b dulha change ho jayega... Ya kuch b
N rishi if it was ur daughter or ur sister then???
@Sheila Roy yes timing is wrong... But now he should not leave her...
Now the family will have so go thru so much humiliation...
Nimisha Arora I felt like slapping him on his face very tightly!!!!!!
Such an irresponsible and shameless dumb person....😕😑
Gadhe ko itne years m samajh hi ni aaya ki what kind of relationship was he sharing with her??....aur janaab seedhe shaadi krne chl diye......😕 But if he was clear about their relationship, then why he kept quiet for so long?????
@@kavyatripathi4450 n last moment pe order de raha ki main shaddi nahi kar sakta... Koi tumhari sis ko bolta na...tab smajh aata...
Nimisha Arora exactly!!..😑
Hello give conclusion about this series yar y dng like diz all vedios we are waiting conclusion for diz vedio
What Rishi did was right. I saw this video twice. Initially even I thought he was wrong but after watching for the second time I realized y he did so.
He just wanted to have a life partner who would have an opinion or liking of her own n not a partner who would forget her own pehchaan n live only as per Rishi's liking.
Piyush Sharma to phle Kya so raha ta
Such an idiot
In our male oriented society girls always need to bear consequences not a man
The girl was ready to do everything according to his likes, both before and after marriage. Where will you find such a nice life partner?
Joooo b hy lekin isse kiaa asr prega un k parents pr specially lrki k wo ye sb kese brdasht krenge or wo lrki wo khd kese kregi uska pyar ya dosti se bhrosa alg uth jayega or phr usy b sbki batein jo sunni prengi wo alg or sb arrangements hogyi thi paise ki wastage alg i'm sorry lekin uskoo ye sb q pehle yad nhi aya hmesha end moment pe q sbkooo yad ata hy..
I will take my final decision atleast few days before ceremony and before sending invitations to people. Rishi did it wrong
Engagement ke baad ldki se 1 mahine baat krke mujhe realize ho gya tha meri uski kabhi bnegi nhi ...
Isliye Maine shadi ke 2 mahine phle backout kiya
@@simpyguptaofficial what were reasons you feel apki nahi bnegi...
Curiosity ho rhi jaanne ki..
This rishi's types of boys are such as dumbo and above all they r the biggest coward in the world. If u r not happy with any decision tell it at the very beginning because at the last hour when everything is ready this is a huge lose for anybody. The character of Rishi is a very typical selfish boy. Hate this type of character... But love ❤😘for lifetaak.... Want more episodes regarding this story @lifetaak
Yeah i am so agree with you..
This girl looks egoistical dominant.kudos to the guy for leaving her before marriage or his life would be screwed forever.very brave and self respecting decision.
For all feminists out their who dont agree i have only one question.if this decision was taken by girl and you support ed her..then ur feminist..
Its just that the guy took the right step
@@scorpiongag the guy is an idiot for running away from responsibility....
Agree with you madam
Mamani Das is see many girls who broke there marriage at the moment what are they then?🤔
Doing this on the engagement day and that too without telling the real reason (HIV or some other serious disease detected)...he would shatter her
Bach gaye dono . Varna society k chakkar me life kharab ho jati. Sometimes need practical decision and need to avoid emotional drama
right
Right bach to gye but this incedent can traumatized the girl and their family
Not 100% true
Yess he is correct but.....he should have think bit early on it.....because ...i know we should not think of the oeople but its hard to face them .....and unfortunately we don't have any other option......
One thing in the story is correct that if you marry without liking life becomes hell so better to stop it
But he did the right thing at the wrong time
Rishi could have taken the decision before not on engagement date
Yaar yea thik Nehi hei kisika dil todna.....uss ladki ko kitna hurt hoga pata Nehi hei uss insaan jisne dhoka diya hei.....😭😭😭😭😭
He is right 100%
How mediocre this man is.He indeed took the wrong call.Killing ones happiness,dreams and everyones expectations where not only you,other persons life and both of the families are involved in pursuit of what you're thinking "will happen" is just cowardness.
Nice
@nagesh jutta Lekin ap ye to maan lo k sbko end moment pe q yad ata hy Shadi tornaa ye sb wo phle krletaaa to asa na hota or log kiaa kahenge uska dar nhi lekin Specially lrki klye rehna mushkil hojata hy un logon k beech m ap ny srf Rishi k point of view se socha pr kiaa unki families ka socha is k bd kiaa hota hy parents ye sb brdasht kr nhi pate or unhy b kch hojata hy ye sb b hota hy or sb arrangements pe bad jo paise ki b brbadi hoti hy apko kiaa pata k unki families ny kis tarah se Shadi klye sb arrangements ki m srf ktnaa kahungi k usne kaam theek kia lekin galat time pr kia usko phle krna chye tha ab uski wja se ksi ka pyar se ya dosti se bhrosa uth jayega phr log kahenge k hr larka 1 jesa nhi hota waah..
What on earth made him ready for engagement and marriage. He has a rotten mind. The girl would be in depression and people will ask questions about her. Accepting her for marriage by another family would be most difficult. If she had a brother he could harm this stupid guy.
In 90% relations love start after the marriage so he should either tell at beginning or move towards marriage waise bhi 90% best friend hi crush hoti h if best one is of opposite gender
So much relatable in this generation.i made same mistake in differentiating between friendship and love.but realised it within 6 months and broke up.the other person dint understood but I knew if I could not generate any feeling in these months means I don't have any feeling of lover . Only the person who have been in place of Rishi like me can only relate to his story .and it happens to make your friends happy u commit to them but that is not how feelings, love generate . realised later soon after met my soulmate and found a bond of love which was absolutely perfect.that was best decision of my whole life.i feel so blessed to take that strong step which saved many life. 😊
Finally someone who got what the video is actually trying to show. Others r just blaming the boy. But he just didn't wanted to hurt her feelings so agreed to marry but now realized that it's wrong for both. I agree it's not right time but definately gonna save boths life
He took right decision. But not in a right way. He could postponed it and could have made her realise the things.
I have seen people regreting n making their life hell after marriage just because they thought their frndship was love.
Even after watching the whole video i don't understand why rishi denied to marry.....? 😟 Hit like if you also agree with this. And please reply the one who understood..!
I don't think it's a good move by Rishi, Tanya is a decent girl,He should marry her.Life has problems,we should Fight them ,not just throw away in the last time
Not a good a girl will ofcourse break yrr.. if u dont want to marry her u should nt say yes earlier... it would break her heart definitely
what was the reason behind breakup at this moment😢
Noo... Who will pay for the father who is going to have a heart attack and who is going to pay for the mother and the brother ??? And what about the girls depression after that. Her trust issues? Dealt with that. I know what it feel like. Itni der se ussko khush krne k liye ye sb kr raha tha toh ussko abhi b khush krta. Ya ye jo so called enlightenment huyi hai. Vo pehle ho jati ussko. Atleast girl ko itna face na krna pddta. Even if she move on. People will never let her forget it.
Best decision, at least he was mature enough to take a stand for what he thought was right. Nobody cares of "log kya kahenge". This is 2019. Reason is not necessary, maybe it was his work, maybe it was his ambitions, maybe he was not ready..But it takes guts to take such a call.
It is OK to take the decision but not on the day of the engagement.
Some people are saying bomb should have defused before it was even planted ... He didn't knew if he loved her or wanted to stay frnds unitill..
Rishi just fused the bomb mins before it took 2 lives.. What do you call this ? Courage or stupidity ?
This kind of a rejection is irritating. What is more bothering is not just the timing, but most importantly, being rejected for a baseless/workable issue. The male character in the video reminded me of my Ex, this kind of a person won't be giving you more details other than 1 or 2 statements that convey that they are not sure/not feeling love that too after knowing you so deeply for a significant amount of time even after exhausting your patience, love, care, time, etc. Just sharing an excerpt from my experience.. It sounds obvious, but my hard learning is that, knowledge doesn't guarantee wisdom and maturity. Some people are avid readers of vast genres, binge watch plenty of documentaries, movies, etc. while some of them grow up as a person with better maturity & clarity, some do it superficially for sounding intelligent or just to fit into a situation, etc. Although its painful in general, its devastating for somebody who is very straightforward, flexible and honest to get betrayed only to realize that the SO had no spine. These kind of people start off in a way that makes you feel compatible with them & if its happening in a very short period of time, better be cautious!
Especially if it's happening from somebody you already find yourself liking, please, I repeat, please take time and take it slow, one step at a time! Of course, the amount of time it requires to know each other enough to analyze compatibility based on mutual requirements would entirely depend on the individuals orientation, intellectuality, transparency and so on (you should know what to expect, what to ask, what not to compromise, what parameters are flexible, etc). Also, do not ignore red flags at any stage in a relationship, especially in the very beginning. Guess what, my ex ended things with me for the exact reasons he shared with me in the very beginning (BTW, he neither made the relationship nor the rejection clear/official to me, I had to give myself the closure that I deserved). He was scared of attachment and stated that he was commitment phobic, that's exactly what happened between us, what else would happen when you love somebody? So, please listen & believe if they are opening up about stuff like that to you, so that you will know beforehand about your boundaries, what works for you and what doesn't etc. Take care, be strong, be confident, don't give away the power of your self-esteem to anybody!
In a way, I am glad that I had an experience with this kind of a person, because that drove me to build myself emotionally & intellectually (both are life-time WIP, but I am making sure that I won't stop learning). I realized that some connections are better off as friendship only, a bare minimum common sense would give you that intuitive feeling, just need to trust that and take that connection only to that level and not beyond (if its meant to be beyond, you will know with time. That is exactly why patience in any aspect of life is essential, do not rush things unless its a lethal situation). Even if the other person has the ability to destroy you and still put no effort to have a decent communication (ghosting), please know that it's always better to level up for shielding our own self than expect the other to know better. We can only control ourselves (sounds easy, but it's not), but maybe our orientation can motivate somebody to re-think or re-calibrate themselves for the good of all, but these kind of experiences, if perceived correctly, could offer great learning curves. So keep yourself mentally and physically fit to enjoy this journey of life!
Itna 10 marks ka answer q likhna
Currently stuck in this situation... But in my life roles are oppo... He said that maybe he is being selfish... But I told that he is not.. we have to live life together not our parents have to... If anyone one of us is not happy then this marriage is useless...Stuck because.. he is still confused.. but I will never marry someone who isn't ready for the marriage.
It's the god gifted nature of human beings when he/she gets everything,there after he's expecting to gets more ,because human wants are unlimited.
In this case, Rishi's decision are extremely going on the worng way..( Rishi should have thinked these thing before say yes to that girl!)
in marriage not only two couples met with each other, it's relationship between two family, emotiona, faith and most of thing #sacrifice, not only our happiness is mandatory, we should be thinked about all not only us.
Are uh a commerce student
Yesh! why?
@@ParitoshPushkar becaz uh said that human wants are unlimited and all na so I asked uh
@@manthenaramyasri1695 Ooo, than may be you are also commerce student. m i right?
@@ParitoshPushkar yeah bro
Rishi is right
If anybody feels that he or she can't handle whole situation after marriage than quit it
Toh pehla he Bol deta 4 din pehle ladki ko chutiya bna gaya
I want 2nd part where rishi will regret about it when taniya become successful in life and marry someone else . 😠
I understand how everyone is talking about the boy being very late in breaking this off. But I have a different take on it. It was surprising how clueless the girl was when he walked in. She seemed a little self-absorbed where she didn't pick up on his voice, his tone. She was fiddling with her hair, bangles. And it is strange how she didn't immediately ask what went wrong and why the marriage wouldn't work. But yes, good that it happened before things got more complicated.
True, the girl was v self absorbed, kind of not concerned with the boy ,not sensing anything . May be she is a dumbo ,that's why Rishi finds it better not to go for it..
Friendship & responsibility with adaptability makes bettet couple..
Not always.....
He was right....But not really good for the girl at that moment if she can overcome that single moment then her life will be awesome trust me....
O my god. I also have a friend last 5 years.
I thought i tell him that i love him. But this vedio make me nurvas. If he rejected me.... I don’t wanna lost him
Rishi is TOTALLY WRONG. From my point of view
Don't know what problems Tanya's family will face. Rishi's family too will break down. No one is perfect and no couple r perfect. Life is full of mysteries. Why to hurt anyone's heart after commitment. What will be Rishi's next commitment's guarantee?
Commitment dene se pahale sochana chahiye tha rishi ko
Pran jaye par vachan n jaye
All shit, Unfortunately people don't understand the meaning of love they think that they don't have emotions for the particular one.
and this becomes a circle like one day Rishi will face this situation because that one will not like Rishi but Rishi will Like her 😇😇😇
Yes..it is true
Iska part 2 bhi ayga kya
same here i m also wont marry but i m engaged ... just bcz of my family 😕😥
Its ok dear...mine is also arranged marraige...i got married on 26th may...its just 1.5 month...i m very happy...trust me...
same here
@@nikkusharma2588 this isnt a way to talk to anyone
Jindegi main sare problem solve ho sakte hai, yodi aapka echha hai, aap positive hai, aap fighter hai
Rishi realized that they both were doing everything for other person's happiness, ignoring their own individualities. Such relations become toxic and unbearable with time, when persons involved become subconsciously conscious of their inner self and their own personality that they had unconsciously covered (which cannot be held for too long) to please their affectionate. He was a little late to realize it, but at least took a bold to decision to save two people from the torments of an unsuccessful marriage.
He can deny for the marriage at first. Bt before 4days of marriage its wrong....
Story is so incomplete.
None of the guys have proper point for their say.
The guy is wrong to realise close to engagement. Unnecessary expenses n inconvenience to guests n family..
Rishi ne galat kara use pehle hi bata dena tha jab uski marriage ki bat chal rahi thi
He has taken a bold step which saved both the lives from getting ruined. The decision could be taken at last moment but it has to be correct. Marriage is a sacred bond it cannot be mounted on the pillars of compromises and unhappiness. A temporary wound is always better than a permanent Sorrow.
This have happened to me.. He back stepped after 6 months of courtship
I will never end up any relationship like this ...if he can be a good friend of hers,he can also become a good husband too
Naa\aa
Glat soch hai apki
It is not easy to place oneself in someone else's position, condition, situation .It is better to communicate one's mind before going into a permanent, lifelong relationship
Thanks for making a video on the best decision of my life. feeling more gud to take strong decisions.
Its a very critical time for a woman to handle this ... She must be with her supporters to support her ....
Rishi should say no at the beginning!
Please please please tell us...won't prapti be back???? We want to see her in videos of life tak.
Some Guys are like this! If they dont want to marry why not saying at the beginning! Thats why it is right to keep boundaries in the beginning.
Some guys just make place in heart of girls and when the girls falls in love with them they ran away.
her sari was a disaster😫😩
True
Usne sari wear nhi kr rakhi h
Its lahenga..not saree
@@reena1606 sari hi lg rhi thi..whatever it is but the colour combo is terrible
Well I just felt that he shouldn't have kept her in dark as it was about important decision of life. But we humans make things complex. Rest things like having an opinion of own mattered to him but that's not the reason of saying no to marriage. He just used that as an weapon.
yes, he did the right thing....one should get married happily and out of full consent.....it should not be a compromise or for family or for society.... marriage is a lifetime partnership Journey....else it can turn out to be a bad marriage.... Happiness is more important than what others think about you....go for Happiness...
mai khud aise situation me fsii hui hun...meri love story ko arrange marriage kra rhi hun ..but mai ab khus nhi hun..pta nhi kyaa horha hai..kuch v thik nhi hai..mai ye abb kisiko v nhi bol parhi hun..sayad ye uuse v aisa feel horha hoga..what i do?
Ya he is right becoze shadi means luv ❤😘understanding between then he is just compromise that...
I think you should complete the video by second part. Please think about it.
Ditching at the last moment vry painful
This same thing happened with me just a month ago.. And still I am in depression. The only reason I get that his didi bhaiya didn't liked me.. And his brother got a very good job in big 4, so they just left me out this way.. Even my father got an attack but they didn't contacted me neither a boy nor his family.
Omg..dear...kaise log hai shi...pls take care of urself
Don't lose ur confidence proof urself that u r stronger and u can achieve ur best
Sare arrangements ho gye h... 😅😅😌M ready to take responsibility 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😊😊😊😜😜
I think you should make a video on marriage with friend