I am twice your age (Grandma) and you are teaching lessons I wish I knew many years ago. The people pleasing and no boundaries is self destructive. I use to attract massive narcissists. Clawing my way out of their webs.
He is wise indeed. I love his opinion on most videos and enjoy them thoroughly. Came out of a very dark place watching his resolve under fire. You can do it too
I’ve been there and through that at a grade school level age. My oldest brother skipping even elementary school and hitting me up for my recess money and even my lunch money. So he hits me up the next day for the same thing knowing he did it the day before and I would be left hungry and thirsty. Guess What, I said “no”. I thought creeps were just in the family so I went onto learn that isn’t so. I finally said “ no more”. I don’t fall into traps of fakers anymore. I just let them get caught up in their own webs of deception. I recognize fake people very well now. I attribute my naïvety to the lack of sibling love, respect and even consideration not being instilled. Why I am the odd one in that bunch I can only Thank Yeshua for it. There’s always one who seems to get what is going on. Those kind of people just disappear when they learn we aren’t door mats. Makes you the scapegoat too. I don’t apologize for being who I am either.
Those who think someone is weak because they are kind are the biggest fools. Kind doesn’t mean not capable, I’m capable of anything. My enemies are not, they aren’t capable of being a decent human.
Sometimes its not even a matter of being nice, we're simply tired. Tired of being targeted, tired of unnecessary stress, tired of the plottings, tired of the gang stalkings, tired of giving so much of us to others only to end up feeling empty so in most cases, chosen ones will likely ignore a lot of things for the sake of our emotional and mental health.
Im kind because god lives inside of me,however noone will walk all over me, disrespect me,bully me,or gaslight me. They think i dont know what time it is. I know exactly what time it is and noone is above me but GOD.
@@rachel0920I can’t imagine how older people would deal. (Mine was an ortho, but still) I don’t work in this office 😆 why am I getting assignments from someone I’m paying?!
I was too busy pleasing other people all my life. When I finally looked up and saw wtf was going on I was in my late 20s. I'm in my 30s now and I'm finally beginning to live my life and go after all the things that I want to achieve and things that need to get done in my life.
Strong men are more or less only kind but not nice, there is a difference between being a gentlemen and being "that nice guy" Sometimes you can have a bit of both, but when it comes down to it kindness is a more important virtue to live by.
Exactly... Why waste our words and loving energy on people who take it for granted. I do not waste my time on folks, everyone seems to want to manipulate a conversation, a situation any type of relation, cuz they don't have creative thoughts, or ideas in their mind, to be a better version of themselves. So they have to try and trick you out of your identity so they can have it.
I realized the dangers of letting them in...they don't understand some of us came from almost nothing, from utter devastation...its even biblical that diligent hands bless the one who has them. They don't understand cause and effect they only see you when you become a lion they don't see when you were broken and alone and crying yourself to sleep.
Two things I wish I knew as a young man: 1) developing and maintaining personal routines isn't optional (whether you are a physical person [fitness etc.] or an intellectual person [studying etc.], you have to be your own gym teacher and drill sergent [discipline trumps motivation]; it's use or get used. 2) Do not express yourself to anyone who hasn't earned your absolute trust, for people need you to be the absolute lowest common denominator in any situation, and they will take something you expressed in jest and make it a real reflection of what you are.
This is exactly why I had to stop being so nice. I use to go above and beyond to say hello to a neighbor and be kind t him. In return he was always very short and rude towards me. So I finally stopped going out of my way to say hello and would act like I didn't see him and now all of a sudden he wants to be nice as pie towards me. My have the tables have turned
Stay strong...positive...think on your feet..never be a doormat...but be kind ...or silent when necessary...as a christian we walk in the light...the dark entities will flee...stay true to yourself...have a blessed day Bro🙏🏼🧡🍂
Kindness to others is extremely important. Don't lose this part of yourself. The problem arises when it's done out of balance without setting boundaries or taking care of one's own needs.
Dude, you GET IT. Took me years to get where you are now at your age. Good on ya. Not sure how many other females sub to you, but THEY SHOULD. You are refreshing
Been there. I'v even acted dumb just to see how far a person would go to fool me. Oh boy they get shock when I straighten them out. No real human left.narcissist manipulaters
You just made me realize that being nice is a punishable act. I thought it was a noble thing to practice but society doesn't respect it. And as for a relationship it's impossible when Females only respect emotion.. not value. You indeed get used because of that and it is a waste of time for sure ! I'm walking my own path from now on.
I always tell people DO NOT mistake my niceness for weakness or u will see my very very mean side !! Jesus was obviously pissed when he flipped over the money changers table at the temple !!!
No good deed goes unpunished. I was telling my mother last night that I am getting sick of people and society as a whole excluding close friends and family.
I've always been too nice and I finally realized that could be my weakness and the enemy will try to take advantage of it! I've been deceived many times because I was being too nice.
What I struggle with the most is shaking the feeling that I’m the one being the asshole when I set boundaries with people. My whole life my parents told me that I was never allowed to say no to any adults because adults knew best and kids should obey them. If I ever told anybody no, I got either beat or grounded. I grew into my adult years keeping those same toxic beliefs and becoming a “yes man”. My family also expected me to stay the same way even into adulthood and they would treat me like a kid even after I moved out of the house. When I got to be in my mid-twenties I just stopped caring what any of them thought. Of course the gaslighting, manipulation, and even threats started after that, but today, I don’t associate with any of them. They’re almost all a bunch of hypocritical control-freaks that want to get their kicks from boosting their own egos. I have no patience for it anymore.
Been putting up with a so called friend who was dissing me thru music he was playing but also was being a friend who helps, what we don't realise is that we are some sort of golden ticket for them and are using us.
There’s a great quote from that movie Gran Tarino during the barber shop scene: “Be respectful but Don’t kiss ass” I heard that a while back, it stuck with me ever since.
You whould think they whould learn from there mistakes. But they never do I'm still standing head up moving forward like yourself and meny others. Stay strong.
Wow how spot on i was just telling a friend about being too nice to people who don't see vaule in you see alot of people take your kindness as a weakness which is why i stand my ground and set my boundaries down im not a doormat to think you can walk all over on nope stay strong and take your power back! Great video!
You know this is a hundred percent accurate I have been letting everyone think whatever they gotta think And I have been continuing to walk towards my goals Turns out every single day And your right I do refuse that for anything to stop me 100 percent accurate
You are 1000000% right my man. I have to be honest, I invited many loser "friends" into my life because of low self esteem. But it always turned out that I was objectively better than them. I excelled at things because I accepted that hard work is needed to move forward while they were always too lazy and eventually became parasites. I guess it's one of those life lessons you have to learn the hard way. Because if you're naturally well-meaning towards your friends you don't expect them to turn on you or not care about you. I'm ice cold now.
Listening to you is like getting a pep talk from my younger self. Most people don't like no nonsense people bc their realness isn't literally with social nicities and games. It exposes things. I'd rather be real. I sleep better at night.
“3 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: 2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; 3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; 7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. 9 What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboureth? 10 I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it. 11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end. 12 I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life. 13 And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-13 KJV)
I agree that we should not be people pleasers, especially with abusive family or friends. However, as a Christian, we are instructed to love our neighbor (everyone). Do get me wrong, I’ve gone no contact with my entire narcissistic family cult, but I still love them, and pray for their eternal soul. I believe it’s the end times, and we were selected, chosen to be here as believers during these end times, to let His light shine through us, thus, attracting others towards Jesus. God bless, and let others see the joy that Jesus has put in your heart. Also the lack of fear, anxiety, anger, materialism, and just being free of sin, and happy. ❤
Terry I understand exactly what you’re saying… it’s kinda like ppl respect ppl they KNOW who don’t give a damn about them, then someone who cares about em… and nowadays they take niceness as you “caring to much” which will cause them to lose respect for you bcuz nowadays the “thing” is if you aren’t nice like that, you seem to be more respected bcuz ppl take that as strength vs as you said if you’re nice and especially to everybody you must be weak, and some may even see you as someone who lack self esteem and confidence; it seems like they subconsciously may think of a nice person as being desperate… just my opinion, it’s kinda sad bro
For real ! Literally everyone takes kindness for weakness nowadays , that’s the dark side of some people , I’ll still be nice but yeah literally most relationships I’ve been in I’ve seen the devil in some of the most angelic faces ! Then there’s some who can’t hide it at all . Mad world , your message resonates with me so much because I’ve went through a shit storm lately . Peace my man ✌️
And your right we don't care Even though I am a good person in general I'm not getting involved with anything or anyone else Your right it's how someone creates how they wanna live That's what I have been doing Being niave doesn't make you dumb - im a extremely generous caring gentle beautiful hearted individual in general but the thing is I know people way too much even though I don't say anything about them or anyone else Basically what I've been doing is focusing with myself at this time You know trying to get where I need to be You know continue to do what's best for myself at this time Nothing at all to trigger anyone else I just need a bit more patience and a bit more time until I'm ready to accept these type of individuals back into my world nothing to do with how they are or how they look at things
Hey Joe I'm watching your video man about people pissing us off and these energy vampires that's real talk man the hard part of it is it's my mother she knows how to piss me off I just want to snap it's not easy dealing with a narcissist thank you big bro oh and by the way we are the chosen ones whatever they do they put their mouths on us they're going to wish they were never born love you brother hollering at you from Gary Indiana
But at the same time I'm not the type of individual who will let anyone run around circles with me or play games with my head as well - I will just turn the other direction and walk away and deal with them at another time that best fits because I am the type of individual who doesn't like to get involved with too much drama
You were blessed early on Bro. 2 Corinthians 6:17. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye seperate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing: and I will receive you. No one can soul murder you or crush you're heart EVER bc you can see who they are. 👀😃💝💝💝
The people I went to school with used me. They thought I was their entertainment play thing nothing more. They threw me aside when they had no further use of me. I think I’m better off being alone for the rest of my life than to waste any more of my time with them. I thought they were my friends but obviously not. None of them even invited me to their weddings.
I definitely know how to handle my own ways through boundaries - if someone understands to accept and respect my feelings through why I feel need to exit anything they feel need to get me involved it I grew how to avoid it and to keep away from it
I get you point though Joel Fully appreciated It's about not getting used or getting taken advantage of I agree I'm sick of it too but I understand it and know how to handle it even though if I feel need to walk away and not be part of it It's called strength- it's my strength that others know not to walk all over me anymore Get you Peace Joel
You are awesome You can do this but you really have to keep your eyes on Jesus.. that’s where the freedom to be you imitate. Him . He overcame so that you could overcome… He’s happy when you believe him. Don’t let them win. Keep them in suspense not loose you peace Christ died for that peace… He’s proud of you.make you father God pleased..
Ima have to disagree on this one. Be secure enough in your own skin to not let the world turn you cold. I’m nice and I know my value. If people think they’re above me because I’m a good guy they’re welcome to that delusion. Idgaf about their opinion. “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society”.
With all due respect, my parents were peasants in the literal sense. Poor farmers from the USSR. They are extremely hardworking and now we're middle/upper middle class in the USA. My peasant sister is now a doctor and my brother owns a trucking company. I'm on my way to being an engineer. I guess what I'm saying is, the people you're talking about are scum of the Earth. Bums, not peasants. Like you said, backstabbing bums. Peasants are the hardworking people who given a chance will work hard and focus on improving their next of kin.
I need to disagree on this one. I'm nice and it pays off. Once, in a convenience store, I left my wallet at home. Because I'm always nice in the store, the clerk allowed me to leave with the merchandise without paying upfront. And on my birthday, because I'm a good tipper, the Thai restaurant I frequent drew happy birthday images on my delivery cartons and the entire kitchen staff signed it. And my kindness resulted in my making friends with cast members of NBC's "Friday Night Lights". They'd call me late at night, during the football game shoots, and pass the phone around to the Dillon Panthers to say hi to Matt in LA. Also, my kindness resulted in one of the recurring stars of "Breaking Bad" to invite me out for coffee. Can't forget the same occurred with some of the cast from "Battlestar Galactica". Being nice can be a great strength.
@@Newshustle It's been my superpower. Couple kindness with a skill very few people have, 'Active Listening'. You control the narrative when you know how to use 'Active Listening'.
I am twice your age (Grandma) and you are teaching lessons I wish I knew many years ago. The people pleasing and no boundaries is self destructive. I use to attract massive narcissists. Clawing my way out of their webs.
Bless your soul! 👼
Completely renewed
Same same
He is wise indeed. I love his opinion on most videos and enjoy them thoroughly. Came out of a very dark place watching his resolve under fire. You can do it too
I’ve been there and through that at a grade school level age. My oldest brother skipping even elementary school and hitting me up for my recess money and even my lunch money. So he hits me up the next day for the same thing knowing he did it the day before and I would be left hungry and thirsty. Guess What, I said “no”.
I thought creeps were just in the family so I went onto learn that isn’t so. I finally said “ no more”. I don’t fall into traps of fakers anymore. I just let them get caught up in their own webs of deception.
I recognize fake people very well now.
I attribute my naïvety to the lack of sibling love, respect and even consideration not being instilled. Why I am the odd one in that bunch I can only Thank Yeshua for it. There’s always one who seems to get what is going on.
Those kind of people just disappear when they learn we aren’t door mats.
Makes you the scapegoat too.
I don’t apologize for being who I am either.
When you're constantly nice all the time. It's basically saying come here and step all over me.
Nice people get messed over the most …
Only if you bring nice to narcs
Well he is expecting women to be nice and submissive and let men dominate them
Mostly everyone's been having an attitude lately .... lots of dark energy around
lol so true, backstabbers come into your life when they know you have something. so many losers out there, just stay away.
Shin Tzu art of war quote: "When you are strong make them think you are weak and when you are weak make them think you are strong."
Yes but not at your own expense
I’m a kind person not a nice one. Massive difference that they are blissfully unaware of.
Agree!
Those who think someone is weak because they are kind are the biggest fools. Kind doesn’t mean not capable, I’m capable of anything. My enemies are not, they aren’t capable of being a decent human.
Sometimes its not even a matter of being nice, we're simply tired. Tired of being targeted, tired of unnecessary stress, tired of the plottings, tired of the gang stalkings, tired of giving so much of us to others only to end up feeling empty so in most cases, chosen ones will likely ignore a lot of things for the sake of our emotional and mental health.
💗People ain't shit, people abuse what they can't use... you are not allowed to be yourself as long as it doesn't benefit me...
God tells us to be harmless as doves and as wise as serpants. Also to love our neighbors as ourselves . also to bless our enemies and not curse them .
Im kind because god lives inside of me,however noone will walk all over me, disrespect me,bully me,or gaslight me. They think i dont know what time it is. I know exactly what time it is and noone is above me but GOD.
He is who we need to focus on.. everything else is just distraction.
Just said No to this doc office cause I wouldn't do their electronic forms at home. Ummm this is not my job.
I swear I was just talking about this yesterday with my grandma, she did the same thing, she was sick of it and said no
@@rachel0920I can’t imagine how older people would deal. (Mine was an ortho, but still) I don’t work in this office 😆 why am I getting assignments from someone I’m paying?!
@@RubyRings12 right! all of it is getting out of hand. There needs to be more push back
I was too busy pleasing other people all my life. When I finally looked up and saw wtf was going on I was in my late 20s. I'm in my 30s now and I'm finally beginning to live my life and go after all the things that I want to achieve and things that need to get done in my life.
Same I am 38 unfortunately I wasted years people pleasing
Strong men are more or less only kind but not nice, there is a difference between being a gentlemen and being "that nice guy"
Sometimes you can have a bit of both, but when it comes down to it kindness is a more important virtue to live by.
Exactly... Why waste our words and loving energy on people who take it for granted. I do not waste my time on folks, everyone seems to want to manipulate a conversation, a situation any type of relation, cuz they don't have creative thoughts, or ideas in their mind, to be a better version of themselves. So they have to try and trick you out of your identity so they can have it.
Going through a difficult time in my life that only God and your videos are truly helping me to stay focus & to remain on my goals. Thank you❤
God will get you through the difficult times.
💯 straight facts 📬 bumbs.. Keep to your self stay Quiet
I realized the dangers of letting them in...they don't understand some of us came from almost nothing, from utter devastation...its even biblical that diligent hands bless the one who has them. They don't understand cause and effect they only see you when you become a lion they don't see when you were broken and alone and crying yourself to sleep.
They don’t want you to get better 💯
The force is strong with this one
Two things I wish I knew as a young man: 1) developing and maintaining personal routines isn't optional (whether you are a physical person [fitness etc.] or an intellectual person [studying etc.], you have to be your own gym teacher and drill sergent [discipline trumps motivation]; it's use or get used. 2) Do not express yourself to anyone who hasn't earned your absolute trust, for people need you to be the absolute lowest common denominator in any situation, and they will take something you expressed in jest and make it a real reflection of what you are.
Your correct Terry. You can't develop or act on a strategy affectively until you discover that you're in war
This is exactly why I had to stop being so nice. I use to go above and beyond to say hello to a neighbor and be kind t him. In return he was always very short and rude towards me. So I finally stopped going out of my way to say hello and would act like I didn't see him and now all of a sudden he wants to be nice as pie towards me. My have the tables have turned
Same
Stay strong...positive...think on your feet..never be a doormat...but be kind ...or silent when necessary...as a christian we walk in the light...the dark entities will flee...stay true to yourself...have a blessed day Bro🙏🏼🧡🍂
Kindness to others is extremely important. Don't lose this part of yourself. The problem arises when it's done out of balance without setting boundaries or taking care of one's own needs.
Reminder......every doormat says welcome........
Dude, you GET IT. Took me years to get where you are now at your age. Good on ya. Not sure how many other females sub to you, but THEY SHOULD. You are refreshing
My life story is priceless.
Don’t be too nice, in this world people take it for granted, thinking your to dumb to know better. (Refused to be used)
Better to be righteous than nice
Been there. I'v even acted dumb just to see how far a person would go to fool me. Oh boy they get shock when I straighten them out. No real human left.narcissist manipulaters
No one is holding them accountable to be good
You just made me realize that being nice is a punishable act. I thought it was a noble thing to practice but society doesn't respect it. And as for a relationship it's impossible when Females only respect emotion.. not value.
You indeed get used because of that and it is a waste of time for sure !
I'm walking my own path from now on.
I always tell people DO NOT mistake my niceness for weakness or u will see my very very mean side !! Jesus was obviously pissed when he flipped over the money changers table at the temple !!!
100
No good deed goes unpunished. I was telling my mother last night that I am getting sick of people and society as a whole excluding close friends and family.
I've always been too nice and I finally realized that could be my weakness and the enemy will try to take advantage of it! I've been deceived many times because I was being too nice.
What I struggle with the most is shaking the feeling that I’m the one being the asshole when I set boundaries with people. My whole life my parents told me that I was never allowed to say no to any adults because adults knew best and kids should obey them. If I ever told anybody no, I got either beat or grounded. I grew into my adult years keeping those same toxic beliefs and becoming a “yes man”. My family also expected me to stay the same way even into adulthood and they would treat me like a kid even after I moved out of the house. When I got to be in my mid-twenties I just stopped caring what any of them thought. Of course the gaslighting, manipulation, and even threats started after that, but today, I don’t associate with any of them. They’re almost all a bunch of hypocritical control-freaks that want to get their kicks from boosting their own egos. I have no patience for it anymore.
I’m grateful for you Terry. I finally am taking action and quitting weed, and your channel pops up in my feed. God sent you to me brother
Jesus does say to love your enemy and pray for them, Pray for discernment with people. Put that armor on everyday brother
Been putting up with a so called friend who was dissing me thru music he was playing but also was being a friend who helps, what we don't realise is that we are some sort of golden ticket for them and are using us.
There’s a great quote from that movie Gran Tarino during the barber shop scene:
“Be respectful but Don’t kiss ass”
I heard that a while back, it stuck with me ever since.
Gotta keep to myself, 5 people in my life max if any at all
This man must have gone through hell to get all of this wisdom condensed down to this, at such a young age.
You whould think they whould learn from there mistakes. But they never do I'm still standing head up moving forward like yourself and meny others. Stay strong.
Wow how spot on i was just telling a friend about being too nice to people who don't see vaule in you see alot of people take your kindness as a weakness which is why i stand my ground and set my boundaries down im not a doormat to think you can walk all over on nope stay strong and take your power back! Great video!
u have to do what the bible say overcome evil with good dont think about there responese the lord will reward u for your faithfulness to him
I needed to hear this ! I have to stop to try to please everybody. Enought is enought .
You know this is a hundred percent accurate
I have been letting everyone think whatever they gotta think
And I have been continuing to walk towards my goals
Turns out every single day
And your right
I do refuse that for anything to stop me
100 percent accurate
You are 1000000% right my man. I have to be honest, I invited many loser "friends" into my life because of low self esteem. But it always turned out that I was objectively better than them. I excelled at things because I accepted that hard work is needed to move forward while they were always too lazy and eventually became parasites. I guess it's one of those life lessons you have to learn the hard way. Because if you're naturally well-meaning towards your friends you don't expect them to turn on you or not care about you. I'm ice cold now.
Focus is the key.
I'm never kind to people and don't have to be ,if I am that's not good for you.and respect "only" who respects you. That's how it goes male or female
How?
Listening to you is like getting a pep talk from my younger self. Most people don't like no nonsense people bc their realness isn't literally with social nicities and games. It exposes things. I'd rather be real. I sleep better at night.
“3 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
9 What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboureth?
10 I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.
11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.
12 I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life.
13 And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.”
(Ecclesiastes 3:1-13 KJV)
There's a reason I'm chosen and they aren't. We are told to let God handle it.
I think its time to go in and close the door !!! Casting pearls is an understatement
I agree that we should not be people pleasers, especially with abusive family or friends. However, as a Christian, we are instructed to love our neighbor (everyone). Do get me wrong, I’ve gone no contact with my entire narcissistic family cult, but I still love them, and pray for their eternal soul.
I believe it’s the end times, and we were selected, chosen to be here as believers during these end times, to let His light shine through us, thus, attracting others towards Jesus. God bless, and let others see the joy that Jesus has put in your heart. Also the lack of fear, anxiety, anger, materialism, and just being free of sin, and happy. ❤
Terry I understand exactly what you’re saying… it’s kinda like ppl respect ppl they KNOW who don’t give a damn about them, then someone who cares about em… and nowadays they take niceness as you “caring to much” which will cause them to lose respect for you bcuz nowadays the “thing” is if you aren’t nice like that, you seem to be more respected bcuz ppl take that as strength vs as you said if you’re nice and especially to everybody you must be weak, and some may even see you as someone who lack self esteem and confidence; it seems like they subconsciously may think of a nice person as being desperate… just my opinion, it’s kinda sad bro
I DEFINITELY THINK THEY WEAKER TOO
For real ! Literally everyone takes kindness for weakness nowadays , that’s the dark side of some people , I’ll still be nice but yeah literally most relationships I’ve been in I’ve seen the devil in some of the most angelic faces ! Then there’s some who can’t hide it at all . Mad world , your message resonates with me so much because I’ve went through a shit storm lately . Peace my man ✌️
Yup you said the right thing
Focus on yourself.
Had to learn this the hard way
And your right we don't care
Even though I am a good person in general
I'm not getting involved with anything or anyone else
Your right it's how someone creates how they wanna live
That's what I have been doing
Being niave doesn't make you dumb - im a extremely generous caring gentle beautiful hearted individual in general but the thing is I know people way too much even though I don't say anything about them or anyone else
Basically what I've been doing is focusing with myself at this time
You know trying to get where I need to be
You know continue to do what's best for myself at this time
Nothing at all to trigger anyone else
I just need a bit more patience and a bit more time until I'm ready to accept these type of individuals back into my world nothing to do with how they are or how they look at things
This is the greatest video on this platform.
If you get what I'm trying to say
All I am saying it's all good
I got myself
Hey Joe I'm watching your video man about people pissing us off and these energy vampires that's real talk man the hard part of it is it's my mother she knows how to piss me off I just want to snap it's not easy dealing with a narcissist thank you big bro oh and by the way we are the chosen ones whatever they do they put their mouths on us they're going to wish they were never born love you brother hollering at you from Gary Indiana
Never to late to start thanks Jr. GOD bless your life
Yep.
Never understood why I shouldn't use Fabric scissors ✂️ to cut Paper. My mom said I could Ruin the scissors. We're Designed for Tougher Jobs.
You been through some stuff
Appreciate your journey and strength :)
But at the same time I'm not the type of individual who will let anyone run around circles with me or play games with my head as well - I will just turn the other direction and walk away and deal with them at another time that best fits because I am the type of individual who doesn't like to get involved with too much drama
I’m starting to feel normal again so don’t jinx it please
I’m going out for the third time this year next weekend which is big progress ☺️
Feeling finally in Peace now 🕊 the Angels Archangels are here there❣️...look at pay attention of their signs❣️🍀🕊
Amen Bro Thank you for encouraging righteousness and being nice to yourself first from now on.💝💝💝
speaking hard facts
The thing is the secret truth is a person doesn't feel punished unless they let another let or allow them feel that way
Be as gentle as doves, and as cunning as serpents
You were blessed early on Bro. 2 Corinthians 6:17. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye seperate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing: and I will receive you. No one can soul murder you or crush you're heart EVER bc you can see who they are. 👀😃💝💝💝
Nice people finish last but it is predictable.
Supply they need supply.
And yes your correct I'm extremely smart - too smart then realized
The Art 🖼️ o War .
Perfect timing bro
It takes to much energy being mean bro, I can only be myself lml
Great talk 👏
The people I went to school with used me. They thought I was their entertainment play thing nothing more. They threw me aside when they had no further use of me. I think I’m better off being alone for the rest of my life than to waste any more of my time with them. I thought they were my friends but obviously not. None of them even invited me to their weddings.
I definitely know how to handle my own ways through boundaries - if someone understands to accept and respect my feelings through why I feel need to exit anything they feel need to get me involved it
I grew how to avoid it and to keep away from it
Meaning anything from another person's negativity that I may feel start getting put on me
I get you point though Joel
Fully appreciated
It's about not getting used or getting taken advantage of
I agree I'm sick of it too but I understand it and know how to handle it even though if I feel need to walk away and not be part of it
It's called strength- it's my strength that others know not to walk all over me anymore
Get you
Peace Joel
Two of the oldest words “yes” and “no” are the two words that require the most thought. Stop being a pushover
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True i used to be nice not anymore
Great vid terry
You are awesome You can do this but you really have to keep your eyes on Jesus.. that’s where the freedom to be you imitate. Him . He overcame so that you could overcome… He’s happy when you believe him. Don’t let them win. Keep them in suspense not loose you peace Christ died for that peace… He’s proud of you.make you father God pleased..
Thankyouuuuuuu ☺️
Awesome video again.
BACKFIRES .......
Ima have to disagree on this one. Be secure enough in your own skin to not let the world turn you cold. I’m nice and I know my value. If people think they’re above me because I’m a good guy they’re welcome to that delusion. Idgaf about their opinion.
“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society”.
Needed this
Love your videos. I hate that you are a Cowboy’s fan!
Go Eagles 🦅
I got hurt a lot😢
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Facts
❤❤❤👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿 ... Yes ...
Who cares what they think!
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With all due respect, my parents were peasants in the literal sense. Poor farmers from the USSR. They are extremely hardworking and now we're middle/upper middle class in the USA. My peasant sister is now a doctor and my brother owns a trucking company. I'm on my way to being an engineer. I guess what I'm saying is, the people you're talking about are scum of the Earth. Bums, not peasants. Like you said, backstabbing bums. Peasants are the hardworking people who given a chance will work hard and focus on improving their next of kin.
I need to disagree on this one. I'm nice and it pays off. Once, in a convenience store, I left my wallet at home. Because I'm always nice in the store, the clerk allowed me to leave with the merchandise without paying upfront. And on my birthday, because I'm a good tipper, the Thai restaurant I frequent drew happy birthday images on my delivery cartons and the entire kitchen staff signed it. And my kindness resulted in my making friends with cast members of NBC's "Friday Night Lights". They'd call me late at night, during the football game shoots, and pass the phone around to the Dillon Panthers to say hi to Matt in LA. Also, my kindness resulted in one of the recurring stars of "Breaking Bad" to invite me out for coffee. Can't forget the same occurred with some of the cast from "Battlestar Galactica". Being nice can be a great strength.
being nice can be a great act depending on the situation but being nice is still a mask that needs to be worn
@@Newshustle It's been my superpower. Couple kindness with a skill very few people have, 'Active Listening'. You control the narrative when you know how to use 'Active Listening'.
nice man definitely sounds like a super power you have@@MattGrossChannel