Sizwe Mdlalose Opens Up: The Heartbreaking Story of Being Denied Access to His Child

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  • @XolaniNombika
    @XolaniNombika 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Mf2 nami ngidlule kulesosimo for years ngizama ngomthetho but ngilahlwa ngibe ngiyondla ingane so thina madoda asilalelwa odabeni lwezingane nhlobo but kwangcina kusize ingane yayikhethela ukuzohlala nami, so qina ndoda silithwele idombolo e South Africa

  • @scelombokazi674
    @scelombokazi674 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Guys akekho yini ongasiza lana? Organizations, departments, etc. I keep seeing people saying as a social worker, can anyone do anything, please?
    If we are serious about social ills, GBV, etc. These are the issues leading to those things. Can relevant parties tackle this, please

  • @NkhangeleniRosalarothe
    @NkhangeleniRosalarothe หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Don't even cry ku zo hlula u boy when he turn boy 11 yrs he will start to look for you and he will find you she can insult you but she will never get piece mire especially she hunted parents as well.God saw your tears sizwe it's enough God did it for you.2025 is year of piece and restoration for you boy is your son

  • @thamsanqahadebe282
    @thamsanqahadebe282 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😢 am sorry my brother, it's hurting your sorry. kodwa DNA is the must🤞

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Uyindoda Emadodpeni abantu bayazibalekela izingane zabo kodwa wena ufuna ukondla.Bhuthi i respect you 100 percent for you. You are a really man

  • @nompumelelomdlalose9556
    @nompumelelomdlalose9556 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ey Nyanda yephahla.. Dikane....awuwedwa....my brother is going through the samething ...yena ke wavele was givapha kakhulu the day ethi ufonela ingane eskoleni as usual as ubaba...one day yavele yathi angikufuni Wena ngifuna uMa...ya spoon feedwa uMawayo Loko ...she was cutting off i communication yamfowethu nengane....ey kunzima nje ..but one day things will fall into place ,just trust I law of justice cos Wena you're trying to do the right thing....ey u Sizwe mesekhala vele wangiphatha Kabi😭😭😭...phephisa khehla you're a good guy❤

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Imithetho yase Mzansi; iyabhidliza ayakhi. 😊😊

    • @NomgqibeloVilakazi
      @NomgqibeloVilakazi 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry bhuti igazi lakho leli liyobuya kuwe angeke ukholwe ngaleyomini

  • @noxiek
    @noxiek หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I remember her drama yoooo.kade efisa ukukuwisa lo cc😢

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ngaze ngiyakuzwela my Brother. Ibuhlungu into obhekene nayo.Yini kangaka ngomama wengane
    Ufunani kanti loSisi

  • @musawenkosimakhathini6849
    @musawenkosimakhathini6849 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Uyaphila kahle ekhanda lakhe loyontombazane. Mmmmmh kwabuhlungu 😢😢😢😮

  • @BoitumeloMhlanga-od4ru
    @BoitumeloMhlanga-od4ru หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry Sizwe you son will come back to you more especially he is a boy.

  • @Mbusowabalondo
    @Mbusowabalondo หลายเดือนก่อน

    My first here qoqoqo zesingaphakathi yiza nazo Siwe uzoba strong ndoda happy new year 💪😢🙏

  • @EmmahMtshwene
    @EmmahMtshwene 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You keep safe the video for ingane yakho because lapho ikhona ifunzwa amanga ngawe

  • @thembigwala2282
    @thembigwala2282 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amadoda ayacindezelwa eMzansi umthetho ubheda strong. Phephisa Nyanda ukukhala kwakho kuyadabukisa

  • @bonganikhoza8194
    @bonganikhoza8194 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Be strong buddy you are not alone, one thing for sure bazobuya relax 💚✌️

  • @SibusisoVilakazi-uc7gw
    @SibusisoVilakazi-uc7gw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mfowami bonke ubuhlungu buya enhliziyweni khala makuthi khala kuzolunga

  • @mpufudiana3746
    @mpufudiana3746 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yazi Sizwe ndoda awuwedwa Nathi sinenkinga enjalo laykhaya

  • @mpufudiana3746
    @mpufudiana3746 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Khona abantu akhohlakele

  • @xoliswa2934
    @xoliswa2934 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sori Sizwe waba nebhadi wathola intombi engasile ekhanda

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kungenzeka 😊😊😊😊.These breaks kuma relationships😊😊😊

  • @Userde989
    @Userde989 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Angeke nje ngondle ingane ngiphinde ngitshelwe ukuti angingayiboni ,yooo udoti lowo

  • @EmmahMtshwene
    @EmmahMtshwene 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😭😭😭😭😭nxese ngane yakwethu kuzolunga

  • @XolisileNgxongo
    @XolisileNgxongo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Angive ngikuthando mfana wami ❤

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Eyemindeni asiyihloniphe bakithi.

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Siyakubonga Bhuti ngokuvela eshashalazini; ukhulumela nabanye abafowenu. Wenze ubudoda ukuvela obala. Ubuqhawe Lobo.
    Mhlawumbe unesizathu. 😊😊. Khulula uMoya wakho bhuti; sad as it i; ;izolungiswa aBAKHULU. ❤😂

  • @donotlie3384
    @donotlie3384 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sizwe as a social worker, I think the behaviour of the child towards you at court is the one that may have affected the decision of court concerning denial to access.
    The Children’s Act does provides for the child to have a voice on whether she prefers visiting or staying with you as a parent.
    The social worker also had to listen to the child and give recommendations to court accordingly.
    Mina I’d advice that you wait for your daughter to grow up first and decide on her own. Atleast, she knows that you tried to fight for her.

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ngelungelo lengane ngisho ukuthi; idinga both parents. Ngoba konke okushoyo; ngendawo yokuthi the best place yengane; kukwagogo- kubo; a stable family environment;kunoma ,ibe lapho ekhona. Zahlupheka izingane webakithi.

  • @LangaXaba-bf1po
    @LangaXaba-bf1po หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ihumushe ngendlela othanda ngakhona okhokho bethu babembatha izikhumba(omkhulu) kungathiwa babengafundilele
    Abazange behlulwa abantu besifazane nayizingane,we never inherited amastreet kid,omahosha,abafazi abangophuma silwe abangazithobile,alisekho ibandla la okwakuthungelwa khona izinjobo,yisizwe (amadoda)esizikhiqizela abesifazane babo
    Sinjenjenje kwafa isiko,sinjenjenje umthetho wezizwe
    Azibuye emasisweni,madoda hlanganini nenze izinkundla lapho nizobhodla khona,nikhande imithetho ezolawula imizi yenu
    Okhokho bakwenza abahlulekanga
    Ngixolisa ngokwelula
    Yimina okhathazekileyo

  • @hlengiwemthalane8751
    @hlengiwemthalane8751 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Phephisa sizwe mfethu kwaze kwabuhlungu, 🥹

  • @mbalenhlemakhubo5472
    @mbalenhlemakhubo5472 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ngaze ngakhala kwaze kwabuhlungu, kungani silwa ngezingane kodwa zoneni kungani sifuna ukuhluleka kwethu kuthikameze impilo yezingane zethu. Silwe lani ngempela ngezingane.

  • @slowjammusic5611
    @slowjammusic5611 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ncese Sizwe thina sinawe kuzolunga ngelinye ilanga ngekhe kuhlale kunje

  • @Thee-v9t
    @Thee-v9t หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Askies Sizwe - kuzonceda ukwenza I DNA ufe kanye and the truth shall set you FREE!

  • @sikhumbuzongcobo4242
    @sikhumbuzongcobo4242 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    IYAGULA LEGENDER NOKUTHI UMTHETHO UVUNA ABANTU BESFAZANE KUNZIMA KUTHINA MADODA KAZE UBANI OYISILWELA THINA MADODA😭😭

  • @beebee2409
    @beebee2409 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh its history repeating its self. Eish sorry buthi kuzolunga, aku ichili lelazi Kota emhlana😢

  • @NkhangeleniRosalarothe
    @NkhangeleniRosalarothe หลายเดือนก่อน

    If God provide you with better job meaning he saw that there us a way to get boy back home and support him.be patient boy will come to you

  • @zasendlunkulumalimela4998
    @zasendlunkulumalimela4998 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The girl never loved you

  • @buyiswagija8299
    @buyiswagija8299 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ngxesi mntan'am kuzolunga bhuti😢

  • @ZolaNgemntu-v8t
    @ZolaNgemntu-v8t 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh shama maan

  • @Userde989
    @Userde989 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Weee ikaGumede kanti ,ai

  • @NokuthulaMtshali-n6x
    @NokuthulaMtshali-n6x 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Phephisa mfana wami, amanye amantombazane ayalwa nezingane, kanti baphuca zingane amalungelo

  • @JunaidMthimkhulu
    @JunaidMthimkhulu หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hhayi kabi kodwa are you sure ingane eyakho DNA my brother

  • @bonniek-bikwayo8937
    @bonniek-bikwayo8937 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But Why our Government is doing this to our Brothers who are willing to take care of their kids????

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Isizwe sonke sidinga ukwelashwa.

  • @siphesihlemqiniseni3013
    @siphesihlemqiniseni3013 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Go to family court baba or uye ku family advocate

    • @bonganikhoza8194
      @bonganikhoza8194 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm going through the same thing they failed, High Court failed to help. Family advocate, parenting plan, Court order still

  • @ThandekileMncwanga
    @ThandekileMncwanga 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry

  • @gugumpanza3665
    @gugumpanza3665 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ncooooo pakithi kwaze kwabuhlungu 🤦🤦

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ahlukumezekile Amadoda Yyini kangaka

  • @NompumeleloXulu-qw1iu
    @NompumeleloXulu-qw1iu 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very sad coz ingane ubuyondla umthetho wase SA uvuna abantu besifazane ngisho be wrong 😏😏😏yimbi lento yomthetho thatha ama side 😏😏😏

  • @bongumusaprincebiyela4031
    @bongumusaprincebiyela4031 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do DNA test and get certificate confirmation

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amalungelo engane wona athini emzansi. Zilimele izingane lapha phandle. Sengathi ingasukunyelwa.

  • @luyandasanele1537
    @luyandasanele1537 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shuthi akuyona eyakho ingane my bru

  • @ThulisiweKhuzwayo
    @ThulisiweKhuzwayo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Askies ngane yam. Mina ngizibuza ukuthi kaze kuthini kulendoda asezwana nayo ngoba cishe iyambona ukuthi uyasangana,

  • @joshm3791
    @joshm3791 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The child's mother is hiding something, Please you will have to do a DNA, it doesn't matter what your mother said about the child's resemblance.

  • @lungilebhengu7454
    @lungilebhengu7454 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kuvumele ukukhala; kuzokwelapha. Indaba ethi indoda ayikhali liphutha.
    Ngisebenza nokwelashwa kwemiphefumulo; Ave zilimele izingane ngalezizimo. Kakhulukazi sengathi thina besimame singasukuma ukuze selashwe bese kulapheke nesizwe. Ingane idinga bonke. Asingabi selfish.😂😂

  • @ntokozozikalala9193
    @ntokozozikalala9193 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nkosi yami kwaze kwabuhlungu

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Waze wakhohlakala untombazane.wenza kahle wamlahla wangamenzi umfazi.
    Z

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Uqinisile loSisi akuyona eyakho ingane .Wathola umuntu engafuni ukuthi ubone ingane. Yazi lahle ukuthi ingane akuyona eyakho

  • @nokuthulachonco8256
    @nokuthulachonco8256 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry mfana wami, njengomama omdala ngiyazwelana nawe
    Abandile abafana abanjengawe abalwela ukondla izingane zabo
    Ngicela ungadikibali inkosi iyokusiza ugcine uxhumene nengane yakho
    Nami ngibona sengathi kubalulekile ukwenza iDNA test to start with ngoba iyasolisa into yalentombazane

  • @MandisaDlakiya
    @MandisaDlakiya 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Umama wontwana ikhona into ayaziyo yona social worker ngeyicele I DNA xakunje kuba ngekhe angafuni kondlelwa uxolo Zama kufuna IDNA

  • @jabulilenkabinde1060
    @jabulilenkabinde1060 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Une bipolar lomuntu wakho Sizwe sorry ngane yami. Wayefisa engathi ingane eye boyfriend

  • @seanmyers8380
    @seanmyers8380 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yah right

    • @OnlyRandi
      @OnlyRandi หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂 I also want to laugh.

    • @ZiphoMajola
      @ZiphoMajola หลายเดือนก่อน

      Demanda iDNA through the courts boy.
      Mama knows what you don't know.

  • @cyadlamini858
    @cyadlamini858 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kanti akekho nje 🌈 🏳️‍🌈?
    Or uyikho kokubili?

  • @MPENDULOMTHEMBU-w2y
    @MPENDULOMTHEMBU-w2y 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ai bafowethu ibuhlungu lento kabaf coz umthetho uyasifeyila thina umuntu wesilisa akanalungelo la e mzansi ibuhlungu lento kabaf kakhulu mfoka mdlalose khula udlondlobale wakhe ikusasa lakho

  • @NonhlanhlaNkwanyana-ch9up
    @NonhlanhlaNkwanyana-ch9up หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bonga Sizwe ukuthi uhlukane lalethutha Ingane izozibuyela

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My i don't think is your child. .Yingani eyibalekisa kangaka

  • @OnlyRandi
    @OnlyRandi หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know i understand the pain .....but in reality the issue here you the family wanted you ukuthi ulobola ingane uhlawule futhi first....also it seemed as if you consulted to many people around you for your child you could have been hands on yourself bowuthumezela too much.....yoh sorry the reality nawe bowudlala nge ngane yabantu nawe how dare you make someone preggers then you still was waiting....to find a new partner who is dignified 😂😂😂😂😂😂 now u want pity on SM? Both of you were wrong nje.

    • @n.hmahlaba465
      @n.hmahlaba465 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How you gonna consult someone someone who is not willing to communicate with you? And constantly change her the baby father. Cha kudlaliwe ngo Sizwe 🤞

    • @OnlyRandi
      @OnlyRandi หลายเดือนก่อน

      @n.hmahlaba465 haibo I didn't say ubaby mama uryt but in my neutral view they were both wrong nje.

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My Brother I don't think is your child. Uyazi ukuthi ngowaphi lomntwana .Kudingeka i DNA test ukusolva lento yengane

  • @mpufudiana3746
    @mpufudiana3746 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yazi Sizwe ndoda awuwedwa Nathi sinenkinga enjalo laykhaya