My both the sons are American citizens. I went only once for 5months.to look after our Grand children. But i did not like USA at all including my wife. Their life style is different ours is totally different. We have decided not to Go again and lead our life in india happily. Main reason is we have no freedom. Our children think we r only servants . Most of the people go to USA for doing Ayaa service only
When their children are well grown, to be on their own , they don't need you, by the time you are much older getting lots of ailments, they will say it's very costly to have medical advice and treatment, they will go go quite and expect you stay in India. God seen in my close relatives and friends. Part of the blame lies with the greedy parents also. Fifty / Fifty
பிள்ளைகள் எங்கு இருந்தாலும் நல்வழியில் நன்றாக வாழவேண்டும் என்ற பிராரத்தனைகளுடன் நாம் யாரையும் கை 8:38 ஏந்தி நிற்காத உடல் நலமும் ,பண பலமும் ,திருப்தி என்ற மன பலமும் உள்ள வாழ்க்கை அமைந்தால் இருக்கும் இந்தியாவே சொர்க்கம்! ஒரடி விலகி attachment with detachment என்று இருப்பதே எல்லோருக்கும் நல்லது! MV.Muthukannapiran. 8:38
This is routine life story of most parents znd children who stay abroad and parents hopping here and there with affection and sentiments...can't help..life has to go on..whether children stay close by or far of..
I greatly appreciate the way the story has been presented, for we are in the same boat as the parents in this story with a large number of children in our families settled abroad. If we are prepared for the way the world is changing and accept the reality of life, then we will be happy.
Our Elder son settled in Bangalore. Developer. Younger with his wife in LA. Both working and no kids. I myself was in Africa and Middle East countries and in construction hence tough life for 30 years. We are in - 78/72 Years. I had many houses in different cities. But Now two in Bangalore, we live in one and the other for elder son's family. First floor of the house kept for younger son, where we live . We went to US in 2006 and 2008. Taking care of assets also important. Work pressure more for younger son and his wife. We will have to accept the reality.
For once a happy story. Children and daughters in law did not turn out to be wicked. A story showcasing a happy family. Please upload more stories like this.
Our children r also in USA. 21 hours difficult to travelling. No freedom in US. Difficult to get appointment for Dr.. golden jail .What ever India is Best
Thangachi, weather conditions are so extreme in USA and it's not possible even for middle-aged ones to get adjusted there.. in old age they cant adjust at all.. very few may be one in 100 can adjust but not all.. this is the fact..koozhukkum aasai meesaikkum aasai na kashtamdhaan.. these days children priority is Money and a comfortable life.. who bothers about aged parents ..
@@meenakshi1991vijaytv You are absolutely right. It could be too late for them. Best thing would have been not to come here at all. The question is, did we end up giving better life for our children? What is “better”? 🤔🤔
Hi ,Our life (parents) depends upon how we are taking the present situation &happenings in day to day life,When I was working in the Chennai port ,I never expected that my both the sons will be going to abroad ,So this is the future secret,no body can predict, As we get older we have to adjust many things,with our children &daughter in laws, my policy is think positive &good things will happen,
I too feel the same way. Next trip I am eligible for getting citizenship but I am going to forego my green card because I feel living in India is preferable to me
My parents were in the same boat, but decided that they will live in their own house till they died. They visited children away from home when they were able to. Then, we visited them frequently till they died. We were fortunate that we had a beautiful lady who took care of them till they died. Sadly, she died from cancer a year after my parents died. Like this story concludes, there is no right or wrong answer. It depends how we face the reality. 🙏❤️
It is gud to hear but the fact is something different.sonsthough live in India but far from parents care.These all common in life.No sympathy norappreciation.
Narrator voice is good. But tamil pronunciation to be improved. This is the problem with most of the tamils They are the only people who can not spell their own language properly.
My parents were in the same boat, but decided that they will live in their own house till they died. They visited children away from home when they were able to. Then, we visited them frequently till they died. We were fortunate that we had a beautiful lady who took care of them till they died. Sadly, she died from cancer a year after my parents died. Like this story concludes, there is no right or wrong answer. It depends how we face the reality. 🙏❤️
Very nice story and very practical one.👌👌. enjoyed
Story reflects the sentiments of most of Indian parents. Perfectly agree with what is told .
Nice one.
My both the sons are American citizens. I went only once for 5months.to look after our Grand children. But i did not like USA at all including my wife. Their life style is different ours is totally different. We have decided not to Go again and lead our life in india happily. Main reason is we have no freedom. Our children think we r only servants . Most of the people go to USA for doing Ayaa service only
Yes. Once in six months turn duty parkathan two side parents thevai most of the person ku
When their children are well grown, to be on their own , they don't need you, by the time you are much older getting lots of ailments, they will say it's very costly to have medical advice and treatment, they will go go quite and expect you stay in India.
God seen in my close relatives and friends.
Part of the blame lies with the greedy parents also.
Fifty / Fifty
Super very nice example for parents who's children are in foreign countries.
Thank you very much 💐💐💐
Super super we r also like them only
பிள்ளைகள் எங்கு இருந்தாலும் நல்வழியில் நன்றாக வாழவேண்டும் என்ற பிராரத்தனைகளுடன் நாம் யாரையும் கை 8:38 ஏந்தி நிற்காத உடல் நலமும் ,பண பலமும் ,திருப்தி என்ற மன பலமும் உள்ள வாழ்க்கை அமைந்தால் இருக்கும் இந்தியாவே சொர்க்கம்!
ஒரடி விலகி attachment with detachment என்று இருப்பதே எல்லோருக்கும் நல்லது!
MV.Muthukannapiran. 8:38
மிக்க நன்றி 🙏🙏🙏
Very beautiful story. Thorpughly enjoyed❤😊
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
100% true. I am sailing the same boat
அவரவர்கள் பெட்டியை எடுத்துக்கொண்டு உங்கள் நாட்டுக்கு போங்கள் என்று சொல்லும் காலம் வரப்போகிறது.
This mindset is necessary for all the parents whose children are abroad.. As we parents are in the same situation…
பக்கத்துத் தோட்டத்தை நோக்கிக் கற்றுக்கொள்ள வேர்கள் மரத்தைத் தாங்கும் போது, பழங்கள் மறுபுறம் விழும் என்பதை வேர்கள் ஏற்றுக்கொள்ள வேண்டும்.
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Very beautiful story
I really appreciate🙏
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Very nice
Story Valthukal 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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I appreciate his wife's forethought and the way of consoling her husband for their pleasure trip to sons' family.
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This is routine life story of most parents znd children who stay abroad and parents hopping here and there with affection and sentiments...can't help..life has to go on..whether children stay close by or far of..
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I greatly appreciate the way the story has been presented, for we are in the same boat as the parents in this story with a large number of children in our families settled abroad. If we are prepared for the way the world is changing and accept the reality of life, then we will be happy.
Thank you sir🙏🙏🙏
Superb it’s very true the elders we should make up our minds in this regard
Thanks for your comment 🙏🙏🙏
Our Elder son settled in Bangalore. Developer. Younger with his wife in LA. Both working and no kids. I myself was in Africa and Middle East countries and in construction hence tough life for 30 years. We are in - 78/72 Years. I had many houses in different cities. But Now two in Bangalore, we live in one and the other for elder son's family. First floor of the house kept for younger son, where we live . We went to US in 2006 and 2008. Taking care of assets also important. Work pressure more for younger son and his wife. We will have to accept the reality.
எவ்வளவு எதார்த்தம் !!
நல்ல பதிவு
நன்றி 🙏🙏🙏
For once a happy story. Children and daughters in law did not turn out to be wicked. A story showcasing a happy family. Please upload more stories like this.
Thank you so much🙏🙏🙏
எங்களை அப்படியே பிரதிபலிக்கும் பதிவு.
நன்றி 🙏🙏🙏
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Typical realistic expressive reality, being faced by many aging parents, whose children are settled in US.👍
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அருமை .
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Super sister
Thank you
Lovely story 🎉❤❤❤
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Well thoughtout and presented.
Thank you 💐💐💐💐
மகளுக்கு மனசு இல்லை அவர்களுக்கு அந்த வாழ்க்கை பிடித்து விட்டது தங்கை தான் என்னை பார்த்துக்கொள்கிறாள்
Super story
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Very nice
நன்றி 🙏🙏🙏
Very nice. I think all of us are facing the same situation. A very positive approach.
Thanks 💐💐💐
Super
நன்றி
Our children r also in USA. 21 hours difficult to travelling. No freedom in US. Difficult to get appointment for Dr.. golden jail .What ever India is Best
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Thangachi, weather conditions are so extreme in USA and it's not possible even for middle-aged ones to get adjusted there.. in old age they cant adjust at all.. very few may be one in 100 can adjust but not all.. this is the fact..koozhukkum aasai meesaikkum aasai na kashtamdhaan.. these days children priority is Money and a comfortable life.. who bothers about aged parents ..
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I’m a Sridhar or Sriram. When they retire they will long for India. That is life..
By then will their parents be alive to be with them - just a very simple question....??🤔
@@meenakshi1991vijaytv You are absolutely right. It could be too late for them. Best thing would have been not to come here at all. The question is, did we end up giving better life for our children? What is “better”? 🤔🤔
Good story
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Very nice 👌
Thank you 💐💐💐
Super Good story
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அங்குச் சென்றபிறகுதான் அவரகளின் கதி என்ன என்று தெரியப்போகிறது் 😮அதைப் பற்றி எப்போது போடுவார்கள்? நன்றாய் இருந்தால் கடவுளுக்கு நன்றி 😊
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Very nice story
Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Super story.
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Hi ,Our life (parents) depends upon how we are taking the present situation &happenings in day to day life,When I was working in the Chennai port ,I never expected that my both the sons will be going to abroad ,So this is the future secret,no body can predict, As we get older we have to adjust many things,with our children &daughter in laws, my policy is think positive &good things will happen,
In which department you worked in ChPT , I also worked there.
Super 🎉
Thank you 💐💐💐
காலத்திற்கேத்த கதை ✈️
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All depends on financial strength
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We have to adjust in life and compromising everything to get peace and happiness. Nothing to say more
I too feel the same way. Next trip I am eligible for getting citizenship but I am going to forego my green card because I feel living in India is preferable to me
Thanks 👍👍👍
Kuuzlukum aasai
Meesaikum aasai
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My parents were in the same boat, but decided that they will live in their own house till they died. They visited children away from home when they were able to. Then, we visited them frequently till they died. We were fortunate that we had a beautiful lady who took care of them till they died. Sadly, she died from cancer a year after my parents died. Like this story concludes, there is no right or wrong answer. It depends how we face the reality. 🙏❤️
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Materlli
Single parent enna seivadu children nambi irukka vendi irukiradu
தங்களது கருத்துக்களை கூறியமைக்கு மிக்க நன்றி 🙏🙏🙏
அருமை
நன்றி
Storey does not reflect several other sore episodes. 90% of parents are used as extra luggage only.
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I too want to narrate stories like this. My Tamil pronounciation will be good
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It is gud to hear but the fact is something different.sonsthough live in India but far from parents care.These all common in life.No sympathy norappreciation.
நன்றி 🙏🙏🙏
After 12th make your children to sit in jobless so that take care of you
Idhu kadhai illai nijam
Don't join your children in college
ஏறி…. Not ஏரி
Narrator voice is good.
But tamil pronunciation to be improved.
This is the problem with most of the tamils
They are the only people who can not spell their own language properly.
Landanil.konnduvandha.edli.yedhu.poi.solla.alavuillaia
Somany spelling mistakes pleasecorrect let Tamil live
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அய்யோ அய்யோ பெரிய கதை சொல்லிட்டாங்கலாம்😂😂😂
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Story reflects the sentiments of most of Indian parents. Perfectly agree with what is told .
Nice one.
Super
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My parents were in the same boat, but decided that they will live in their own house till they died. They visited children away from home when they were able to. Then, we visited them frequently till they died. We were fortunate that we had a beautiful lady who took care of them till they died. Sadly, she died from cancer a year after my parents died. Like this story concludes, there is no right or wrong answer. It depends how we face the reality. 🙏❤️
Super
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏