FTM - Combating Transphobia

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
  • Someone asked me: "How do you combat transphobia? How difficult is it to keep your cool when others erase the validity of your identity?"
    This is my answer.
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  • @jacobaeden
    @jacobaeden 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    just found your channel today, you are serving me nico tortorella vibes. also, you're helping me go thru this bs with my family, thanks for putting yourself out here. - your fellow nb transmasc boy, Aeden

    • @jacobaeden
      @jacobaeden 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dead Horses transmasculine

    • @jacobaeden
      @jacobaeden 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dead Horses it's just falling on the spectrum of what I am comfortable identifying with. that's like the best way to describe how I feel in a more specific way

    • @jacobaeden
      @jacobaeden 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dead Horses idk how to explain it but like that's all I can say, it's just a feeling. I do identify as transman too. to me it's more the masculine part but to others it may be different. I'll normally tell ppl that I identify as a transboy to save the hassle, but I do identify more in the nb spectrum and I only tell ppl I'm transmasc in like a more safe space and where ppl who understand. I simply have limitations to express how I truly feel and that's it. you're like my bro who always want to talk more of a black and white situation which I'm tired of because I just can't explain, it's just like "love" it's complex and everyone has different definition that they connect with

    • @jacobaeden
      @jacobaeden 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dead Horses presenting as masculine and do whatever is masculine. it feels uncomfortable to me when ppl call me a girl or woman, miss, etc. to me, relationships are still gay when it's with a guy or girl, that's why nb. it's just on the spectrum of nb how I present, how I want to be referred to is normally a guy, he/him, etc. it's just the relationship part and something inside me doesn't feel completely male and I know I'm definitely not a girl. it's just making however I feel more tangible with the things I do, I definitely associate masculine with the primary and secondary sex characteristics I want. sometimes gender norms help me pass better, it just make me happy

  • @hayhayfickle
    @hayhayfickle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay. So I just finished writing a paper on transphobia and biphobia for my LGBT+ studies class and then your video pops up in my feed. I wrote about exactly what your bringing up. I’m happy that I can share a similar view with a trans person (with me being a cis person). Keep on being you❤️

    • @hayhayfickle
      @hayhayfickle 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dead Horses yes I am actually studying that. I wanna understand more about myself and other people in the community. And I’m paying for my own schooling, thank you very much. If you don’t like what I do, don’t waste your time judging my life. Let me life and do what I want. 🤙🏼

  • @IdahoDali
    @IdahoDali 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the video, Jett! You're right on. Can you make a video discussing how to cope with people staring at you, for the people who don't pass 100%? As one of these people it's very disturbing having never fewer than 50% of strangers make wide-eyed, prolonged stares every single time I leave the house. This is especially difficult when in a situation I can't or don't want to leave, like in a cafe.

  • @anthonyjames4648
    @anthonyjames4648 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG Youre sooo good looking!

  • @simplyspencer8434
    @simplyspencer8434 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    #operationgetriddythetiddy