Yes o. Women have learnt to be independent, taking good care of themselves and their children even under the man's roof. Women are the table nowadays, it's not a matter of what do you bring to the table anymore 😅
Do you appreciate it when they're treating you well?, you'll have A and still be looking B, when you're give B you'll go elsewhere to steal the A that has been provided and you hardly provide or treat the man well but always expecting to be treated nice, Nigerian women change your entitlement mentality because your son's wives will treat them same way you treated your husband , their father, wicked souls
@@opeyemiorisunmade4771Your son's will face the same type of wife you are in your life time, they'll be treated same way you treated their father it's called KARMA
Social media has actually exposed the way we Nigerians thinks. If the woman or the man has die in the marriage in the process of forcing it, then you will hear them saying they would have gone their separate ways. Why do we like complicating things for our fellow human beings? Domestic violence is life threatening and toxic, and such environment is not good for raising children.We are very quick to judge when we have not worked people's path. Please, let's try and respect people 's choice instead of name calling.
People say is completely finished. Guess what , some are happy with their newest partner. A good married is only by the grace of God as change is constant
Hummmm I wish I had gone through this route years ago..😢my ex show me shege until I filed for divorce 2019 ..I am still trying to get through that but thank God the children are all grown 2 still in the university,God has been faithful..women suffer more in Nigeria when it comes to divorce.
The man is very annoying. Madam move on very well. Forget about the man he is a very difficult man to deal with. I love how the woman moved on like a legend
Esan man with pride, I like how the woman is dragging him from court to court. With the way he is going, he will end up serving jail term before his eyes will be clear.
You can't pay 30k per month but you want full custody. This man is a joker. Isn't it commonsensical that it's usually whoever has full custody that spends more than the non-custodial parent. He thinks he's punishing the woman but his children have eyes and ears.
I don't like your comment you lady's are using this advantage on men. Upon what he has spent so far just needs guidance from above divorce is not good for the children
You shouldn't be placed on child support as a responsible man. You can go your separate ways as a couple and still take good care of your children without them feeling the impact. Remember, they didn't beg to be in this situation.
@@EricFrancis-x5u I'm yet to see any advantage this woman is enjoying from this man. She has been handling all of the children's expenses with the exception of school fees. How is that an advantage to her? I do not agree that a man should maintain a woman he's not married to just because she has children for him but by all means take full responsibility for your children. No one is doing their spouse a favour by taking care of the children they both share.
If a marriage doesn’t mirror God, dispute will arise. A lot of people are living together under one roof with deception. May marriage never be a thing of fear to intending ones who wants to marry 🙏
All men should learn their lessons,it is not how sweet a woman looks during dating or friendship she will be after, especially when she started fancying other men,any man who breaks a careless woman jackpot has won her heart,she will start giving unnecessary excuses to quit the marriage. Men and women should know that no family that doesn't not have crisis or some misunderstanding,we manage ourselves and the situation and apply quick reconciliation and start cooperating again.Marriage is not a bed of roses or sex galore .No marriage excellent but what makes it unique is a forgiven heart, contentment, admitting your wrong doings, endurance, managing one another emotional animalistic tendencies,etc. But when one can't endure or when there is domestic violence,it is better to go separate ways to avoid tragedy. The man should manage to take care of the children and their up keep,that is the sacrifice he should do,it is not easy,I know your pain,but you must take it,care for your children very soon they will be of age and be free to come to you.
Any man that lays his hand on his wife has lost all, if the woman forgives at that time, it's because she has no solution to the problem, once she finally decides to move, that's the end to everything. No one would enjoy staying with a wife beater especially the one that doesn't even now know how to care for their children. What's the essence of such marriage?
The man feels unhappy because his ego has been bruised. He obviously wanted the woman to remain at his mercy and she outsmarted him by taking his dowry to the customary court. Not him saying it should have been between both families so he would use it to punish her. Good riddance to bad rubbish girl, I must say!
Nothing better than being together to raise kids we brought into the world.lack of respect and arrogance and fault finding takes husband and wife nowhere.
That's true, they shouldn't give him any addresses nor even any bills to pay. They should not even have brought him to court too in the first place, una go dey like wahala pass peace but won't let another person rest.
@okubanjoifeoluwaadeyinka6885 you are the thief and daft one, a potential deadbeat. Order from court is binding from the day it was made. So if the woman wants, she can request for all the arrears.
The man isn’t accepting that his marriage is well and truly over. He needs to accept this and he’ll start to find peace and an amicable way of co-parenting with his ex wife
Let's always shine our eyes when taking decisions concerning marriage. So shock ed this beautiful lady ended up with such a man. The man is making himself look irresponsible
@@chineduokoli1 you obviously didn’t watch the first episode. She didn’t whisk anyone, she left with her kids - simple as that. And if you watch to understand you would have heard the Judge mention several times that the law requires the kids to be with the mother during their pubescent and teenage years- I don’t know why I’m explaining to you 🙄 English is hard
This man has no conscience at all . He could not even give permission to the HMO to the kids . This man is still bitter about the marriage . She cannot move back to your house so you can pay her rent . 😊😅😅😅😅😅
This guy doesn't seem to truly care for the children, he has no contact with them and offers no fatherly counsel to them. Wutless man he has no interest in their wellbeing - I'm glad she's moved on minus him.
Don't say that, he looked for them, she changed her phone number, how do you look for a person when you don't have her number, know where she packed to.?
I love that part that Judge Funmi collected the name of the children school immediately. God bless you ma. It's obvious the woman is denying the man access to the children
He is determined to take away every respite from her. He is a typical Nigerian man. When they fall out of love, they forget the past and even take it out on their children. He is refusing to take the dowry back not because he loves her, but to bind her hands and feet and make her life a living hell, while he goes about enjoying himself probably with his new found companion. They never think of meeting God one day. May God help us.
That is something I pray against on a daily basis for me to have a shattered home that will lead to this level cos I know myself, I'm all loving and fatherly in person but I see myself being worse than this man if I find myself in such situations.
Their Union was built on lies, sex and money. A woman don’t know her true spouse until you say “I do” and “give birth to his child” afterwards whichever one comes first, the mask comes off and the true representative of his characters comes out. This situation could be vice versa for the woman, too.
Very emotional situation...watch the last 2mins, you will see they still want to come together but forgiveness must be allowed. Its unfortunate what spouses go through in marriage. A little tolerance would have solved this issue.
Is obvious the man still loves the woman. It's a case of pride that men always have. He is afraid of losing his wife. He doesn't want divorce. He is just full of jealousy that his wife might be seeing the man he talks about 😂😂. I just pray that God should resolve this issue for them. I think they still love each other.
He doesn’t love her. It’s called, CONTROL. He has lost control over his wife whom he thinks is his property because of the bride price. He wants a slave wife.
No reasonable university ( state or federal)will admit a 15 years old child. The law guiding admissions into Nigerian universities states that a child must be minimum of 16 years old or at least 16 years old by October 1st of the year of admission.
God should have mercy on marriages around the world, A once happy family will now turned to cat and mouse and children are the one paying for the consequences.
This woman has the option of going back to the court that dissolved the marriage to institute a contempt proceeding against the man. He is clearly flouting the order of the court in respect of maintenance n not this court. Orders of the court are meant to be obeyed n any disobedience to such order is a slap to the court
She dotted her i´s and crossed her t´s.... WHEN A Nigerian Woman knows her value, she becomes SOOOOOOOO attraktive.....These are May Edochie Type of Queens...wow.....she Looks so beautiful
It's obvious the want her back but didn't know how to say it. He's to spend and be responsible for the children he cannot Play with now runs an errand for him. And the children can denied him later that he wasn't there for them.
Eri ikun bi igba pito Very arrogant man been on this issue since last year still not complying May God help we woman from all this horseband calling them self husband
Husband and wife matters ooooh wohala ooooh! People must really know and understand their partner before taking a final decision to settle down with them.
Both of them have issues. The woman can't continue to hide the children from the man and expect the same man to support them financially. Most women use children to terrorise/punish their former husband. He can file an appeal in order to vary the judgement. I always advise couples going through difficult times to seek counselling
She found out that her husband is aware of her aldultrous life, which is forbidden in esan land and she started having BP of over 240 you can go confirmed at Rishi hospital at Sango ota
@@emilyDeTech exactly. That child has no business being in a university classroom. That University should also be queried for giving admission to a ‘baby’.
Domestic violence is real,yet parents keep saying manage your situation.indeed women are passing through alot due to ego and nonchalant attitude of men...
Big for Nothing so he has to be dragged to court before he could take full responsibility of his own children but he enjoyed making them . Isn’t that shameful
the bad side of divorce is that though the man has left the former wife, he still maintains two families by way of children from the from the former wife and those from the the new wife.
It's their choice. Even when married to 1st wife, man rarely sticks to that one. They always carry some attachments in form of side chickens. As you lay your bed so you lie on it.
Rules of marriage 1; As a man always pay ur children's school fees my yourself ,go to the school and do the payment 2 : don't always give there mummy gifts to give to ur children,, give them by yourself 3:Read number one rule again 4: always maintain number 1, rules it get why
Why do courts in Nigeria allow men to pay so little to almost nothing as monthly up keep of their kids???30k naira is just nothing?what can 20 dollars do for a family for the whole month??? Nigeria courts should get serious... you are allowing women abuse in under your watch.
Saying 30k is too small, just $20 ,do you know his income? How many people make that income in Nigeria, and those the curt knows his income before passing the judgment? If that is too small, you might as well step up to help the woman.
You guys use your common sense. Dont punish your kids just bcoz your wife went away most properly bcoz of your bad behaviours. Give them a decent life just like u would if they were to be staying with you period.
If you love a woman treat her well. Women don't fear divorce anymore; know this and know peace
True....the abuse of authority from these men as husbands has become too much.
Yes o. Women have learnt to be independent, taking good care of themselves and their children even under the man's roof. Women are the table nowadays, it's not a matter of what do you bring to the table anymore 😅
@@bolanletoyinolaniyan1596 especially Nigerian men
Do you appreciate it when they're treating you well?, you'll have A and still be looking B, when you're give B you'll go elsewhere to steal the A that has been provided and you hardly provide or treat the man well but always expecting to be treated nice, Nigerian women change your entitlement mentality because your son's wives will treat them same way you treated your husband , their father, wicked souls
@@opeyemiorisunmade4771Your son's will face the same type of wife you are in your life time, they'll be treated same way you treated their father it's called KARMA
Social media has actually exposed the way we Nigerians thinks. If the woman or the man has die in the marriage in the process of forcing it, then you will hear them saying they would have gone their separate ways.
Why do we like complicating things for our fellow human beings?
Domestic violence is life threatening and toxic, and such environment is not good for raising children.We are very quick to judge when we have not worked people's path. Please, let's try and respect people 's choice instead of name calling.
God bless you
True talk, Greater height IJN
Why is everything Naija this and that? There are demond in all countries and cultures
Thank you very much
@@herstory1012but they call the women in the west evil women for leaving their abusive and neglected marriages.
Am not happy when I see husband and wife who were once happily married with children battling in court😢😢😢
That's the reality of life
People underestimate how children can shake a marriage
Excalty, or draggy themselves on social media
Were they really happy?
Better place to go is Evangelist Ebuka Obi because most cases are not normal. Is only painful how can the children leave happily
When u make a wrong marital choice, you are finished! Only God can save you
I made the wrong decision but I am yet to be finished. May God give me grace
People say is completely finished. Guess what , some are happy with their newest partner. A good married is only by the grace of God as change is constant
How did you do it bro?
Video was uploaded 31 minutes ago and you've watched the video to comment 20 minutes ago. You watch am at all?
@@CEOETechnologyGod will see you through
Hummmm I wish I had gone through this route years ago..😢my ex show me shege until I filed for divorce 2019 ..I am still trying to get through that but thank God the children are all grown 2 still in the university,God has been faithful..women suffer more in Nigeria when it comes to divorce.
The man is very annoying. Madam move on very well. Forget about the man he is a very difficult man to deal with. I love how the woman moved on like a legend
Esan man with pride,
I like how the woman is dragging him from court to court. With the way he is going, he will end up serving jail term before his eyes will be clear.
You sense infidelity? She has already divorced him via the Courts. She is no longer bound to him.
You can't pay 30k per month but you want full custody. This man is a joker. Isn't it commonsensical that it's usually whoever has full custody that spends more than the non-custodial parent. He thinks he's punishing the woman but his children have eyes and ears.
I don't like your comment you lady's are using this advantage on men. Upon what he has spent so far just needs guidance from above divorce is not good for the children
You shouldn't be placed on child support as a responsible man. You can go your separate ways as a couple and still take good care of your children without them feeling the impact. Remember, they didn't beg to be in this situation.
@@EricFrancis-x5uHow much as he spent since the last 15k he gave the last child in 2021? Has he not eaten since 2021?
Can you imagine he was even refusing to pay the 30k. A man child!
@@EricFrancis-x5u I'm yet to see any advantage this woman is enjoying from this man. She has been handling all of the children's expenses with the exception of school fees. How is that an advantage to her? I do not agree that a man should maintain a woman he's not married to just because she has children for him but by all means take full responsibility for your children. No one is doing their spouse a favour by taking care of the children they both share.
If a marriage doesn’t mirror God, dispute will arise. A lot of people are living together under one roof with deception. May marriage never be a thing of fear to intending ones who wants to marry 🙏
God bless your wisdom and insight.
Once again God I’m here thanking you for my parents . Marriage isn’t easy
So also for my own marriage and I pray for peace in marriages going through storms.
All men should learn their lessons,it is not how sweet a woman looks during dating or friendship she will be after, especially when she started fancying other men,any man who breaks a careless woman jackpot has won her heart,she will start giving unnecessary excuses to quit the marriage.
Men and women should know that no family that doesn't not have crisis or some misunderstanding,we manage ourselves and the situation and apply quick reconciliation and start cooperating again.Marriage is not a bed of roses or sex galore .No marriage excellent but what makes it unique is a forgiven heart, contentment, admitting your wrong doings, endurance, managing one another emotional animalistic tendencies,etc. But when one can't endure or when there is domestic violence,it is better to go separate ways to avoid tragedy.
The man should manage to take care of the children and their up keep,that is the sacrifice he should do,it is not easy,I know your pain,but you must take it,care for your children very soon they will be of age and be free to come to you.
Any man that lays his hand on his wife has lost all, if the woman forgives at that time, it's because she has no solution to the problem, once she finally decides to move, that's the end to everything. No one would enjoy staying with a wife beater especially the one that doesn't even now know how to care for their children. What's the essence of such marriage?
Werey talking about marriage
@@ShemAbu-cr8od Only a werey like you beat women and would still expect the woman to be at her best.
@@tejudaniels3109 If it happens as a result of an infidelity from the wife, only then can it be justifiable.
@@Swedbase Even then, it is not justifiable, better you tell her to leave or you leave, is she your daughter?
What about a wife that lays her hand on her man ? What do you have to say about that?
The man feels unhappy because his ego has been bruised. He obviously wanted the woman to remain at his mercy and she outsmarted him by taking his dowry to the customary court. Not him saying it should have been between both families so he would use it to punish her. Good riddance to bad rubbish girl, I must say!
You can't pay feeding 30k but you want free access to them. Mad edo men
This man is not ready, he doesn’t know that it is his children that is suffering it
If this man no chop prison he no go get sense.
If na me I go like prison. Na the judge go de pay. Mumu
The woman has actually moved on maturely but the man is still gaslighting.....Please take up ur responsibility mr man
By their word we shall know them
We know such women by their word
@@kennethedo164590% of them are like that nowadays
He's immature and irresponsible. I wonder how he managed to get such a pretty and reasonable wife!
Nothing better than being together to raise kids we brought into the world.lack of respect and arrogance and fault finding takes husband and wife nowhere.
Rightly said
Thank you Judge Asaolu for ordering them to take parenting classes. I hope it improves their communication for the sake of the children
This man is very abusive… thank god the wife left him. I don’t know why they gave him her address.
That's true, they shouldn't give him any addresses nor even any bills to pay.
They should not even have brought him to court too in the first place, una go dey like wahala pass peace but won't let another person rest.
I thought they gave him the children school address
@princearinze2511 But he needs to pay school fees and feed his kids.
The woman has been doing it for sometimes now.
Jesus!!! U are wicked
@@PatriciaAkinyombo now that he has that address he will find where they are living.
He should be made to pay all tha arrears from when the order was made!
Exactly
Ole ni ee
@okubanjoifeoluwaadeyinka6885 you are the thief and daft one, a potential deadbeat. Order from court is binding from the day it was made. So if the woman wants, she can request for all the arrears.
@okubanjoifeoluwaadeyinka6885 he is the one that is ole!.
Exactly
He is simply a narcissist. He wants to punish the woman mentally and pyschologically for daring to leave him. He needs to work on himself.
Seems you are using a word you don’t even know the meaning
Exactly
@@samsonasesmost abusers have narcissist traits. Maybe you don't understand
@@samsonasesmost abusers have narcissistic traits. Maybe you don't understand
The man isn’t accepting that his marriage is well and truly over. He needs to accept this and he’ll start to find peace and an amicable way of co-parenting with his ex wife
I pray am as peaceful as Judge Funmi once I become a Judge. Her charisma is charming ❤
Let's always shine our eyes when taking decisions concerning marriage. So shock ed this beautiful lady ended up with such a man. The man is making himself look irresponsible
I think she’s worried that he would come to the school and whisk them away. That’s a rational fear for a mother
Very valid
But she can whisk them from their father right?
I@@chineduokoli1 I tire oooo
@@chineduokoli1 you obviously didn’t watch the first episode. She didn’t whisk anyone, she left with her kids - simple as that. And if you watch to understand you would have heard the Judge mention several times that the law requires the kids to be with the mother during their pubescent and teenage years-
I don’t know why I’m explaining to you 🙄
English is hard
@@Gray_Studytube so the man cannot leave with his kids right?
The man is obviously not telling the truth
How? The woman sounds like the liar
Every time you all will be blaming man even you as a man,, Nawa ooh
@@kelvindavid9099😂😂😂😂.
Kelvin no vex 😅😅😅😅
@@kelvindavid9099uncle the court is not a place for sentiment, he makes claims he can’t back, fine we believe where is the proof.
How will she divorce him without his notice? Reason first, his a liar....@@christianayusuf1954
This man is something else.
If he isn't supporting his children financially then he shouldn't be able to see them.
This man is not serious
Exactly.
He has alot of pride in him 😊
Are you serious?
He knows very well he has been irresponsible
When you don't value and love your wife, this what you get. A lot of men don't love their wives.
True but a man who doesn't love and value himself can never truly love and value a woman
This man has no conscience at all . He could not even give permission to the HMO to the kids . This man is still bitter about the marriage . She cannot move back to your house so you can pay her rent . 😊😅😅😅😅😅
Caption of this video is so funny so he was marrying his self
This guy doesn't seem to truly care for the children, he has no contact with them and offers no fatherly counsel to them. Wutless man he has no interest in their wellbeing - I'm glad she's moved on minus him.
Don't say that, he looked for them, she changed her phone number, how do you look for a person when you don't have her number, know where she packed to.?
I love that part that Judge Funmi collected the name of the children school immediately. God bless you ma. It's obvious the woman is denying the man access to the children
Honestly bro
I don’t think so, if not why would she be demanding for their up keep
This mam is not serious....he can't pay 30k , he doesn't know they will feed, clothes??? Children always have needs.
He is determined to take away every respite from her. He is a typical Nigerian man. When they fall out of love, they forget the past and even take it out on their children. He is refusing to take the dowry back not because he loves her, but to bind her hands and feet and make her life a living hell, while he goes about enjoying himself probably with his new found companion. They never think of meeting God one day. May God help us.
I love this cool, calm and calculated Court Judge FUNMI too much.
I'm suspicious of this man. Something fishy going on.
He didn't sent her away from marriage because of cheating is in the lady's eyes fools
Go eat the fish..ITK.
@@petermadu1171 Thank you sir, I was waiting for your permission before proceeding.
@sariat2307 😂😂😂😂 good answer to a nonsense talk kudos to you jare iru iro n orun won same bird of same feathers
Like what?
Why is it that when couples fall out of love and bring themselves to court instead of saying the simple truth they will be accusing themselves falsely
That is something I pray against on a daily basis for me to have a shattered home that will lead to this level cos I know myself, I'm all loving and fatherly in person but I see myself being worse than this man if I find myself in such situations.
Lol because nobody wants to be the bad person. They want to have their cake and eat it by doing bad and looking like the good person
Their Union was built on lies, sex and money. A woman don’t know her true spouse until you say “I do” and “give birth to his child” afterwards whichever one comes first, the mask comes off and the true representative of his characters comes out. This situation could be vice versa for the woman, too.
Men will mostly accuse a woman of infidelity to gain pity.
Dis man is a lier no sch will change d name of a student without informing the mother they r familar with
Divorce is not normal,the trauma is too much the kids because of parents misunderstanding
❤ still dey their eyes mehnnnnn.... settle oooooo out na hivand sti full am
Very emotional situation...watch the last 2mins, you will see they still want to come together but forgiveness must be allowed. Its unfortunate what spouses go through in marriage. A little tolerance would have solved this issue.
She committed adultery it's against our culture
Imagine that the woman was good enough to have your adopted daughter.
Is obvious the man still loves the woman.
It's a case of pride that men always have.
He is afraid of losing his wife. He doesn't want divorce.
He is just full of jealousy that his wife might be seeing the man he talks about 😂😂.
I just pray that God should resolve this issue for them.
I think they still love each other.
I think this issue can be resolved out of court. It would be nice to reunite this couple by marriage counselors.
Pride is the key word, he doesn't want to accept he has wronged the woman and apologize.
The issue is the children, men always consider children's future but women don't
@@obinao.o5819😅😅😅
He doesn’t love her. It’s called, CONTROL. He has lost control over his wife whom he thinks is his property because of the bride price. He wants a slave wife.
It breaks my heart to see things like this. What a pity.
Judge Funmi, you are the best. God bless you and the legal team. Amen!🙏
The 15 yr child is in university already wow
E shock me too
@nondochirau9664 she is doing an amazing job as a a parent irregardless of the "father"
Am also wondering.
No reasonable university ( state or federal)will admit a 15 years old child.
The law guiding admissions into Nigerian universities states that a child must be minimum of 16 years old or at least 16 years old by October 1st of the year of admission.
You are right but parents lie about their kids age just they can get admission 😅😅@OladeleadekunleKunle
The woman is also trying to punish the man but that's not the issue the issue is the well-being and future of the children for a better society
Both of them are full of pride, and ready to keep their stands at the detriment of their children.
The woman looks better than before. Omo marriage is not a do or die affair. If it's not working, just take a walk.
You wish that for yourself?
@@KingdomPrincipleyou wish that for your sister and mother right... nonsense... marriage isn't the final destination in the Bible.
There is pain, bitterness, resentment and anger in their hearts. The man needs to move on, the has lost love for him.
How do two people who were once in love end up becoming eněmies...
God Abeg oo love is not enough
These two are still mad at each other and they taking it out on the kids. I can’t believe their level of thinking
It's so sad when you see adult who started very well with children, then suddenly become enemies washing their dirty linens in public 😕 😢 😞
Behind every successful man there is a woman. But who is behind an unsuccessful man
😂😂😂😂😂, nobody😂
Well done ooo oracle😮
😂😂😂😂
Sidechick and family lolz......... The man will claim the wife left because he's unsuccessful.
Pride, ego and foolishness is behind an unsuccessful man
This kind matter used to be family matter back in the days...Where have we got it all wrong God? 😢
Injustice to women, women are waking up.
God should have mercy on marriages around the world, A once happy family will now turned to cat and mouse and children are the one paying for the consequences.
Understanding in marriage matters alot
The judge is full of wisdom
Judge Fumi, my prayer for you is that, you will make heaven. You are so nice in addressing issues with wisdom.
This woman has the option of going back to the court that dissolved the marriage to institute a contempt proceeding against the man. He is clearly flouting the order of the court in respect of maintenance n not this court. Orders of the court are meant to be obeyed n any disobedience to such order is a slap to the court
Go to the court on her behalf. Over sabi.
Hmm ogahoooo
So he is sent to jail, then what? Is the court going to start paying her upkeep for the kids?
She dotted her i´s and crossed her t´s.... WHEN A Nigerian Woman knows her value, she becomes SOOOOOOOO attraktive.....These are May Edochie Type of Queens...wow.....she Looks so beautiful
Go and check her kids... You will see the difference
This man is foolishly stubborn. The can be used to solve all his worries.
It's obvious the want her back but didn't know how to say it.
He's to spend and be responsible for the children he cannot Play with now runs an errand for him.
And the children can denied him later that he wasn't there for them.
Eri ikun bi igba pito
Very arrogant man been on this issue since last year still not complying May God help we woman from all this horseband calling them self husband
Judge Funmi should have asked him to write the name of the hospital the same way he got the names of the school.
Difficult man.He wants to punish his children because of his wife
Marriage is the worst thing that ever happened to man because animals have kids and they live together in peace
Easy to get married than to divorce . The reason why you take your time before you say I do . 😊
May God not let a woman disgrace me like this in public.
No one can disgrace anyone with a reason, no smoke without fire
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No one will disgrace you when you are doing the right thing
Shaa don’t invite disgrace to yourself unknowingly, most of these things are lack of quality communications
Best Judge ever, i can't wait my case should be handled by her bt am not in Naija
Husband and wife matters ooooh wohala ooooh!
People must really know and understand their partner before taking a final decision to settle down with them.
Both of them have issues. The woman can't continue to hide the children from the man and expect the same man to support them financially.
Most women use children to terrorise/punish their former husband.
He can file an appeal in order to vary the judgement.
I always advise couples going through difficult times to seek counselling
Nobody is talking about the beating he gave her that landed her at the hospital for 2 months.
She found out that her husband is aware of her aldultrous life, which is forbidden in esan land and she started having BP of over 240 you can go confirmed at Rishi hospital at Sango ota
@@EmhonyonUyi-zp3ljSo that justifies the beating
@@hephzibahfamubode3686 nobody beat her
what about mouth terrorism the man suffers? beatings is bad but something must lead to other.
How can they co parent when they don't communicate
The first child in the university at age 15? Why the rush now? Parents should not push their children too hard.
15, or 14 year, according to the mother, the child will be 15 in September
@@emilyDeTech exactly. That child has no business being in a university classroom. That University should also be queried for giving admission to a ‘baby’.
Y’all acting like Nigeria schools don’t give double promotion skipping primary to js1 or js2 to ss1 or ss2 to university
@@liveevent3646 what we’re saying is that it is not right for a 14 year old to already be in the university.
What kind of forest is this country sef???!
This man is a yahoo!!
What am learning from here now is that marriage can be dissolved without the concept / knowledge of the other party this is serious.
Yes, if the other party refuses to show up after court invite, the court can dissolve such marriage
Yes
Domestic violence is real,yet parents keep saying manage your situation.indeed women are passing through alot due to ego and nonchalant attitude of men...
Who is the violent one here?
Why does a woman have to return dowry when she did not leave right away? She actually stayed long enough and had children
Beautiful Judge FUNMI God bless you for your intelligence.
Terminix, there you are in Family Court. .🙏🏿♥️💯
I love your name is it Italian?
Men, to avoid this problem, be very careful when chosing black women. A man will understand this man better as a great man.
Big for Nothing so he has to be dragged to court before he could take full responsibility of his own children but he enjoyed making them . Isn’t that shameful
Did man really have children ask your self this question use your head children belong to woman
The man is bitter.
the bad side of divorce is that though the man has left the former wife, he still maintains two families by way of children from the from the former wife and those from the the new wife.
It's their choice. Even when married to 1st wife, man rarely sticks to that one. They always carry some attachments in form of side chickens. As you lay your bed so you lie on it.
Judge Funmi is a true mother! God bless you ma!! 🎉
Justice Funmi, thanks for promoting marital restoration
Wicked soul!
You don't want him to know the children's whereabouts but you need him to be giving you money?
She just wants to be extorting the man.
The woman looks better now compared to the previous episode ❤
Looks better Bcus of makeup n clothes 😂
Infidelity will make her feel better, money wey u no work for dey sweet for body.
I don't agree she looked better in the previous episode
You guy, take it easy ooo. Leaving your family after 17 years?. Una dey try. I can’t do that to my family, i love them too much.
You don’t know what you will do. Never say never.
This man should just sideline this woman and deal directly with the children. The woman seems to be putting obstacles
Queen Judge FUNMI you are really reasonable, no doubt about that🎉.
He will surely regret it not now but later you better take care of ur children
Rules of marriage
1; As a man always pay ur children's school fees my yourself ,go to the school and do the payment
2 : don't always give there mummy gifts to give to ur children,, give them by yourself
3:Read number one rule again
4: always maintain number 1, rules it get why
Why do courts in Nigeria allow men to pay so little to almost nothing as monthly up keep of their kids???30k naira is just nothing?what can 20 dollars do for a family for the whole month???
Nigeria courts should get serious... you are allowing women abuse in under your watch.
How much is the minimum wage in Nigeria,you think Nigeria is america?
@@edialeprecious5348Very good question.
Saying 30k is too small, just $20 ,do you know his income? How many people make that income in Nigeria, and those the curt knows his income before passing the judgment? If that is too small, you might as well step up to help the woman.
If your wife leaves you today will you be happy to pay child support and accommodation where you are in the state?
You guys use your common sense.
Dont punish your kids just bcoz your wife went away most properly bcoz of your bad behaviours.
Give them a decent life just like u would if they were to be staying with you period.
I’m just so mad watching this club because I don’t understand why two adults will be fighting and the kids will be suffering for their stability
For clarity some of the children needs to be in court because women are experts in manipulating public opinion