Falling out of love with your partner

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  • @rainsupertramp5806
    @rainsupertramp5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Can I just say that Mikael is the most articulate and rational person I've heard when it comes to relationship. Sarap kausap ng ganitong klaseng tao.

  • @nikkibells314
    @nikkibells314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Listening to this just after a break-up from an 8 year relationship (a few weeks ago) and it still hurts like hell, especially when one claims to have fallen out of love, started liking someone else and even question his love for you in the first place... and you're the only one who wants to hold on.
    Hoping for healing and peace soon. Thank you Megan and Mikael, I love your relationship maturity.

    • @MeganMikaelPodcast
      @MeganMikaelPodcast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sending you love Nikki!!! ❤️

    • @viancapanagsagan6749
      @viancapanagsagan6749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you're okay. I just experienced a break-up after a 5 year relationship. it was also because he fell out of love, even after trying to rekindle it ( without me knowing). I wonder how are you after 3 months? This is really difficult.

  • @annocampo-semacon4977
    @annocampo-semacon4977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    That’s why we cannot trust our hearts, as even the bible says, the heart is more deceitful than all things (Jeremiah 17:9). We cannot trust in our feelings alone because they can change like seasons. And the sole reason for the need of marriage to be God-centered. Because honestly, we cannot make it successful on our own. We are all doomed to fail and hate each other because of our differences. We truly need God for wisdom, strength, and guidance to protect our marriage. It is also important to understand that it is a sacred covenant rooted in commitments that promise to stand against every storm, not merely to emotionally feel and stay in love forever.
    I always listen to your podcast and I always learn a lot from #BehindRelationShipGoals. Thanks for always sharing your personal experiences! :)

  • @andreiprudencio
    @andreiprudencio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    For me, love is simply how you two are willing to make things work. Regardless of the challenges you both face. Also letting each other grow individually while supporting one another

  • @annamarieaverion7186
    @annamarieaverion7186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "living in the present rather than being scared about the future" - Madam Bonez

  • @stefstephs4333
    @stefstephs4333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Living in the present rather than being scared about the future or regretting your past is the best kind of decision that anybody can make" ~ Fofo & Bonez

  • @narane3674
    @narane3674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I really love that you, guys, can openly talk about things because most members of today's society have totally lack that. I'd love and genuinely pray to have a partner whom I can openly talk with and resolve issues pertaining to us and others in a calm and mature way.

  • @avymarielalcantara
    @avymarielalcantara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Watching your podcast while I'm still single so I could be prepared for the right person, learn things and grow alone until I could grow with someone too! :) Thank you for making these podcasts!

  • @jezzelehernane2120
    @jezzelehernane2120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Hindi ako naniniwala sa falling out of love, yes nawawalan ng spark pero anjan paden ang love natakpan lang. nagiging worst lang sya once nagpapasok ka ng ibang tao sa puso mo, pero kong e try nyu mag bonding ulit gawin ang mga bagay ba hindi nyu na magagawa and open sa isat isa masi save pa ang relationship

    • @racelandangat9260
      @racelandangat9260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I AGREE 👍

    • @keharahelwana172
      @keharahelwana172 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✔️✔️✔️💯💯💯

    • @jeremiahmlc8523
      @jeremiahmlc8523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      did you even watched the video

    • @jezzelehernane2120
      @jezzelehernane2120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeremiahmlc8523 actually yes, ang comment ko jan ay ini explain ko lang yung about sa pwd ma fall out of love ang tao. ☺️

  • @marisgalinea8740
    @marisgalinea8740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I admire you for having the guts to discuss future possibilities, yes there are bumps along the way, but if you communicate it and do something about it, love will still prevails. Love do comes in many ways as we grow older, but as long as theres respect and understanding, it will prosper. Stay in love sweet couple and may GOD bless you more ❤

  • @fafeace8498
    @fafeace8498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We used to listen to your podcast, sharing opinions about your content. She broke up with me 4 months ago, without telling me the real truth behind the break up. She just told me she's not ready.
    Listening at Megan. Yes, falling out of love is possible in every relationship. But thinking about it and being in that state of feeling frightens you. DAMN that's true love.
    It's really up to the couple if they stay in love and look back to the reason why you love the person. Mekail is a very a lucky guy. Kakaingit. :(

    • @vam777
      @vam777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll have in the right time..just pray and wait..it's basically unexpected..

  • @jcagunda
    @jcagunda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys Are my favorite!! Learning a lot. Thanks for sharing.

  • @lorenzerosales338
    @lorenzerosales338 ปีที่แล้ว

    Topic it self would be Uncomfortable for People commited in a Long time relationship pero Mikael discuss it so Light, ganito yung maganda sa Relationship, for real you see a Genuine maturity.💯💗

  • @Audrey-mc4zp
    @Audrey-mc4zp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People change, things change and as you go through life and take in these experiences - they affect you in ways you can’t really predict. “I control my life and decisions” yes to a certain extent. But experiences also change you and you can’t completely control and dictate the experiences you go through. - Mikael

  • @raya5549
    @raya5549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This conversation can be very uncomfortable and very scary to people in a long term relationship. But you guys discussed it fairly and even used your relationship as example 🙈👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Admiring your wisdom and courage on matters like this. PS i knocked hard on wood for you Megan because love you guys together & even if there’s a chance for anything, long lasting love still exists!!!

  • @johnickag91900
    @johnickag91900 ปีที่แล้ว

    living in the present rather than getting fear in the future or regretting your past💯 such a good reminder for us✨ thank you so much💗

  • @razvylkitznoguera1837
    @razvylkitznoguera1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Falling out of love is a decision. Since, love itself is a decision as well :)

  • @reyesanaclaries872
    @reyesanaclaries872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When both of you are matured enough to handle things in your relationship even though you don’t know what will happen in the future will make your relationship even more strong and healthy.

  • @dagasdaspatriciaannem.8575
    @dagasdaspatriciaannem.8575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this Ms. Bonez and Mr. Fofo!! I learn so many things to your vlog. Stay strong you two. 🥺❤️

  • @rosalinamedenceles127
    @rosalinamedenceles127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is what I am waiting for. Thanks Boneze and Fofo.

  • @dtgprinting4838
    @dtgprinting4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing with us...Mikael and Megan....God bless you both today and all throughout the year

  • @melfiesaldonido5339
    @melfiesaldonido5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm just a new fan here and wishing your married life be at its best in any aspects. God bless you both Megan & Mikael 😍

  • @milacastillo8172
    @milacastillo8172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very good sharing of ideas and very good ending or final words for this podcast Bonez and Fofo.

  • @ravenfaith5411
    @ravenfaith5411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are both such an inspiration for young couples and all types of couple.

  • @nurainiever4126
    @nurainiever4126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Open communication is key to let relationship prosper and understanding on both parties' perspective is another vital attribute to be accepting on one's view because we are unique kind of being who thinks and feels differently.

  • @retchelldelemos3075
    @retchelldelemos3075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A relationship consists of 2 people and more and basically, to work it out In any way possible is for all parties to be willing to step up and put effort to work it out.

  • @mariateresaterrado4346
    @mariateresaterrado4346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage is a commitment and love is being commited to love each other no matyer what.. and most importantly place God at the center of the marriage

  • @justbelle1987
    @justbelle1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For people to fall out of love is possibly when one has outgrown the other and like what you said people constantly change and grow and sadly other couple fail to grow in the same level together and tendency is, insecurities arises and the other slowly loses that spark or liking or even that attraction or interest or probably just got tired with each other as sometimes this imbalance could create friction and because they don't have that same level of thinking their arguments most likely don't benefit the relationship but harming it and without realising the relationship is going downhill and it's too late to do something and suddenly realises that it has reached the bottom

    • @nica6440
      @nica6440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i totally agree with you. Thank you.
      Im married with an opposite personality and goal sa life but i've learn to humble myself and see life as simple and beautiful no need to rush or to be perfect. Marriage, it's always a give and take and sometimes we need to ask counseling to correct our hearts and expectations. HOLD YOUR HORSES and COMMUNICATE WELL.

  • @rovierovieanne_8060
    @rovierovieanne_8060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love this two my inspiration couple. 💓

  • @ysacarreon9018
    @ysacarreon9018 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    11:50 I love how he choose to think and focus on that way. 💖💖💖

  • @sarahgiiii
    @sarahgiiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you are married and suddenly you fall out of love with your partner, the thing you should do is to remain faithful to your partner and do your responsibilities as a husband or wife and be open to him/her sa lahat ng bagay esp. talk to him/her why na fall out of love ka bigla. Try to think why you marry that person? Is it because of love only? Try to think the pros and cons if you will jump to a conclusion na iwan mo siya dahil lang na fall out of love ka. Maraming mangyayari. For me, it’s a choice but the important thing to do is to remain as a husband or wife to her/him. Continue your relationship with your partner hindi dahil sa anak nyo kundi in the beginning, siya ang pinili mo na pakasalan. Siya ang gusto mong anakan o magkaroon ng anak na marami coz the main purpose kung bakit ang couple ay nag-asawa is to procreate offspring and help each other to get to heaven. Iyan lang naman talaga ang pinakaimportante sa lahat. Once you tied a knot, no one can separates you with your partner in the eyes of God. Dahil it’s a law of God. It’s a mortal sin you know pag piliin mo ang magkasala o iwan ang iyong partner dahil lang nawala na love mo sa kanya. Isa pa, pwede naman tayong mag-asawa kahit hindi mo love ang partner mo. Ang marriage ay isang big responsibility sa mag-asawa. Hindi yung pinakasalan mo ang yung partner pero ayaw mong anakan ka niya and you want him to understand you sa desisyon mo sa bagay na yan. Hindi gano’n. Iba na kasi ang kahulugan ng marriage sa makabagong henerasyon ngayon, they forget what’s the real essence and meaning of holy matrimony. Ang panandalian lang ang iniisip hindi ang eternal life. We should think of the salvation of our souls first. 😉

  • @gmora1978
    @gmora1978 ปีที่แล้ว

    love is not a feeling. its an act of the will. u CHOOSE to love. its a decision. happily married for 17 yrs with all the ups and downs. and the secret ingredient to that is God- theres three of us in this marriage. we treat it as a covenant not only between partners but with God as well. its a promise for life. the "feeling" of love comes and goes. inspite of everything (ups and downs) we are happy.

  • @kendy152
    @kendy152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you guys are so realistic kahit nakakatakot. :)

  • @gigiazcuna1799
    @gigiazcuna1799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't love this couple enough. Got me to subscribe!

  • @elleelleravanorr1779
    @elleelleravanorr1779 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Ms Megan and Mikael.. pls post new podcast.. keep d love alive always.. God bless

  • @melisafalco4660
    @melisafalco4660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So far as a new fan of Fofo and Bonez marami na akong napanuod na podcast nila.,,Fofo kind of strict person✌✌(pananaw ko lang)but i love his word of wisdom..we dont know wat happend next but i hope and pray na Forever na talaga si Fofo and Boneezy❤❤❤i love you both godbless

  • @lololollololol1103
    @lololollololol1103 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nakakatakam ang milktea huhu! ordered the cream cheese oreo and ugh! ANG SARAP!! ORDER NA KAYO!!!!

  • @loveurselfirst8375
    @loveurselfirst8375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi . I need your help. :( Recently lang yung live in partner ko mag 8 years na kme. Sinabe niyang na fall out of love na siya saken.. na hndi na niya ako mahal. :( Na may nagugustuhan na syang iba. :( I asked him why? AMINADO AKONG MALI/KASALANAN KO BAKIT TO NANGYARE SA KNYA/SAMEN.
    I have to be honest. Para mas ma advisan mpo ako ng maayos.. ako yung tipo ng babae na napakaselosa ko. Napaka praning ko.. lahat nalang gingawa niya pinapakialaman ko. Cellphone niya as in lahat.. Tiniis niya yun ng ilang taon kasi mahal niya ako.. Pero nawala yun dahil ang pakiramdam niya hndi ko sya nirerespeto at pinapahalagan.. Sobrang nagsisisi ako ngayon kasi sumobra ako ng pagmamahal to the point na diko napapansin na nasasakal ko na pala sya.. :(
    So sabe ko MAHAL KO SIYA AT BABAGUHIN KO LAHAT, ITATAMA KO LAHAT NG PAGKAKAMALI KO.. nag ask din ako mag hihiwalay naba tayo? He replied NO. HINDI KA AALIS DITO SA BAHAY, MAHALAGA KA SAKEN. :( Minsan snsabe niya MAHAL KITA DAHIL MAHALAGA KA SAKEN.
    Sabe niya baguhin ko daw ang ugali ko at aayusin niya ang problema niya dun sa babae... hndi niya maipapangako hanggang kailan pero sabe niya MAGTIWALA TIWALA TIWALA LANG DAW AKO :(
    Ang gngawa ko ngayon is Inaasikaso ko sya, mas lalo ko syang minahal kahit nakikita ko sa mata niya na hndi na niya ako Mahal.. Masakit pero kailangan kong gawin dahil may mali ako at MAHAL KO SIYA :( Ngayon inaayos padin niya at walang kasiguraduhan kailan.
    I love him so much buong puso po tlaga.. nagsisisi nako at ginawa ko na ang part ko ngayon.. Ang problema is nasa knya na kung paano niya aayusin ang problema niya.. basta ako ginawa ko na ano ang dpat... ginawa ko na ang part ko..
    Sobrang sakit sa araw2 halos namamanhid nko :( PLEASE GUSTO KO NG ADVISE
    MAY PAG ASA PA PO BA ANG RELASYON NAMIN? HANGGANG KAILAN PO AKO MAG AANTAY :(

  • @jeanestrellon3975
    @jeanestrellon3975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can stay here and listen to you all day.

  • @steffilim292
    @steffilim292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t believe in falling out of love. We just love the person in a different way. Like, you care less.

  • @larraonarev7094
    @larraonarev7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls continue to do podcast 💜

  • @raquelangelaquitain13
    @raquelangelaquitain13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waiting mag start 🤞💕

  • @marywanjiru2319
    @marywanjiru2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much love from Kenya
    Thanks for speaking in English

  • @bartholomewchungusgingersn9027
    @bartholomewchungusgingersn9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Bonez and Fofo! I really love your podcast. Actually, I just randomly stumbled upon #BehindRelationshipGoals on Spotify and got hooked without even knowing you were the celebrities Megan Young and Mikael Daez. It was after the 2nd episode, I think, before I realized that LOL. I guess that just shows how I genuinely love the content haha I have been binge-listening ever since the first episode.
    Anyways... I would like to suggest an episode where you would talk about physical intimacy in premarital relationships. This topic also kinda leans on sex-ed I guess since this would tackle issues regarding chastity, sex, multiple partners, slut-shaming, etc. Since we are living in a conservative country where sex is taboo especially when it comes to young couples, I think this would have great significance in today's times. There are also people who would make such a big deal regarding the past sexual relationships of their significant other. I think this is one of the issues that couples in the early stages have been facing.
    I know that this is quite a sensitive topic and I am aware of you keeping your podcast PG. I am suggesting that you don't have to be explicit about it and you may not talk about your personal experiences in order to give respect to your private lives. It would be nice just to have your stand or principle regarding the said topic since not many Filipino content creators are honest and bold enough, unlike you guys, to talk about issues like this in romantic relationships.
    Thank you and I hope this comment reaches out to you guys. XOXO

  • @lesliemaye6846
    @lesliemaye6846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ang ganda ng topic! Medyo na sad lang ako kasi parang ibig sabihin naka set sa mind mo na mangyayari yung bagay na yun in the future? Kahit dapat ang thinking mo is hindi mangyayari yun kasi nga love mo siya dba. Or sadyang wala talagang poreber? Lol. Malulungkot ako pag nangyari yun kay bonez and fofo, so hindi ko na lang pala iisipin haha

    • @taengoonim
      @taengoonim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not really naka set but realistically it can happen, the good thing about being open and aware of the possibility is you make decisions and choices to prevent that from happening.

  • @michellefontillas492
    @michellefontillas492 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much to learned on your podcast😊
    Godbless you both❤

  • @maxdel3185
    @maxdel3185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you both are so cute..by the way, this topic is indeed interesting..

  • @ritza2395
    @ritza2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love these two so much. I learnt a lot from you two 😘😘😘

  • @anggew4624
    @anggew4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is possible to fall out of love but hope when that happens and I hope it wont happen to both of you, find out or try your best to find how to fall back in love again. 😍

  • @kasandrabensig4268
    @kasandrabensig4268 ปีที่แล้ว

    Falling out of love yes its a gradual accomulations of lies.. Pain.. Mistakes.. And taking for granted the partner. In my case.. I was trying so hard to get into my partners mind.. And trying to talk. But I can't get what I wanted.. Until I just keep silent and 1 day.. I WAs just not feeling him. Like I don't talk.. And just smile. Then.. Eventually parted ways.

  • @decierosegijan5167
    @decierosegijan5167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you happen to fell out of love to someone. Would you rather tell them or just keep it yourself?

  • @ranloresca8735
    @ranloresca8735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It would be easier if both of you fell out of love, but what if one of you is still in love. Thats too painful to bear most especially to the one who’s still holding on.

  • @hannahbabessarangani6635
    @hannahbabessarangani6635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wonder what THE situation they were talking about..

  • @janemagsayo3997
    @janemagsayo3997 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite couple ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @aramanansala1811
    @aramanansala1811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I did knock on wood for you guys. Hahahahha it would break my heart if you guys fall out of love.

  • @MicahEdem
    @MicahEdem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it really does happen for no reason at all. People do fall out of love but still commitment is a choice.

  • @rowenamagbual6568
    @rowenamagbual6568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But above all else.... LOVE ....

  • @eb9123
    @eb9123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello to all of you watching from australia😃

  • @mariatheresacabanilla6344
    @mariatheresacabanilla6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...you cant control the future but definitely you can take control of your future

  • @trishd3383
    @trishd3383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hindi ko na kinaya inggit ko sa Chatime-- I'm going to get one of their Cream Cheese PB Drinks through Foodpanda! 😂

  • @glorialegaspi665
    @glorialegaspi665 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love is always a decision that you will make

  • @jessymendoza6722
    @jessymendoza6722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Naramdaman ko yan Ang sakit kasi may nasasaktan Kang tao hirap Kasi pag na out of love ka😢

  • @lexistuazon486
    @lexistuazon486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch. Hearing this hurts because the realization is real! 🙂

  • @gemma531
    @gemma531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We don't really know what will happen next but.....it's between you both how to manage your relationship......

  • @Rae-windy
    @Rae-windy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if the other person shows lack of interest in u? Should u not get out of the relationship ?

  • @OG-lt4et
    @OG-lt4et 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I have a question please, why did you decided not to have a bridesmaids and groomsmen? Thank you. Who brought the wedding symbols? Are they in partner as well?

    • @MeganMikaelPodcast
      @MeganMikaelPodcast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not a requirement for the church :) at para hindi ma stress kung hindi dumating ang entourage or kung late sila 🤣

  • @nen7493
    @nen7493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Today is tomorrow... just think about it.

  • @0401412740
    @0401412740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    9:30 I laughed so hard my prostate started hurting.

    • @0401412740
      @0401412740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      10:38 Caveat emptor! Should have dated longer before putting a ring on it.

  • @solerum_02
    @solerum_02 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @soy444
    @soy444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cutie the new intro :>

  • @kareenlicop2062
    @kareenlicop2062 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    27 minutes never felt so short. 😉
    amazing how mature time made you. but also gave me the feeling of fear and felt something deeper. x-rayed the facade.
    “interstellar” feels 🥺

  • @OhKaye786
    @OhKaye786 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was sad 😥

  • @marilyngalleto2851
    @marilyngalleto2851 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lalim niyo dalawa,...marami matutunan

  • @larizatil-adan6273
    @larizatil-adan6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💕

  • @klondon8234
    @klondon8234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im hoping that will filipino will check out yung page nila coz u will learn alot of things than pranking.

    • @Sofie219
      @Sofie219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeahh truee

  • @mariannesantos9289
    @mariannesantos9289 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ~I must forgive you, you must forgive me too, if we want to try to put things back the way they used to be🎶🤪

  • @gesaarboleda
    @gesaarboleda 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @patriciamariefallar7039
    @patriciamariefallar7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰

  • @tammbellyna
    @tammbellyna 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💚💚💚

  • @sheancasiocovers
    @sheancasiocovers 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭

  • @jcsigua
    @jcsigua 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally knock on wood for you Bones😂😂😂

  • @journie620
    @journie620 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hopefully not happen😢

  • @purplel0ver16
    @purplel0ver16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Knocked on wood for you, Madam Bones!! haha. Love the topic for this week's podcast, I like how you guys are realistic and honest in expressing your opinions.

  • @hannahbabessarangani6635
    @hannahbabessarangani6635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i know im not the only one who learns A LOT of things from them 🥺🤍 goalsssss

  • @kathlyntingatinga9638
    @kathlyntingatinga9638 3 ปีที่แล้ว