She watches your Instagram stories but won't meet up

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  • @Ash_Wen-li
    @Ash_Wen-li 2 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    She's probably just quickly skipping through stories rather than selectively watching yours

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Could be it as well

    • @hardvibes
      @hardvibes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @TH&THN That is also a disgusting thing to do

    • @sillau9
      @sillau9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@hardvibes what..it ain't that deep tho,lol..it's just stories

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The ones who watch are definitely watching, as I have had girls reply to my stories.

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Furthermore if I put a story on which is busy , a screenshot plus a lot of my own writing. I find the ladies take much longer to go through my stories, so they are watching them .

  • @MMA-CLIPS2
    @MMA-CLIPS2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Boredom, smart phone addiction and morbid curiosity.
    Don't overthink it.

  • @waesteduniversity8538
    @waesteduniversity8538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Bruhh she's just on Instagram all day

    • @ryandrums2112
      @ryandrums2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Lol ikr. Can't believe this is even a question

    • @spookydude24
      @spookydude24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly! 9 times out of 10, she was probably just tapping through stories really quick, and barely noticed what you posted.

    • @blackout2430
      @blackout2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It doesn’t matter. A woman does something like this she should be disqualified.

    • @pb65preet
      @pb65preet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      manipulation tactics as well

  • @chris3341
    @chris3341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    They do it for validation. It's a power trip to mess you around and see if you'll message or react.

    • @BostonGrant444
      @BostonGrant444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Then I start flexing on my story 😂😂😂

    • @chris3341
      @chris3341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BostonGrant444 treat them mean to keep them keen.

  • @jon5833
    @jon5833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Ask them out once, if she says no or says "I'll let you know", move onto another girl that will hangout with you

    • @manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145
      @manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ask at least twice, I mean shit happens. I only go for a third time if I really like the girl

    • @jon5833
      @jon5833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 Mhhm if a girl likes you, she will talk to you, if she's interested in hanging out, she will make time or at least offer another time

    • @jon5833
      @jon5833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Cool Ruler right on!

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 once is enough for me .

    • @DominicGrindrod
      @DominicGrindrod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 she’ll move mountains for the guys she perceives as having higher value than herself but she’ll make rules for men she feels are less than her. My advice is to ask once and if she tries her mind games, walk away and never speak to her again. Don’t let a girl who has no pair-bonding get you down. Men are the prize.

  • @gigachad6162
    @gigachad6162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Always look at peoples actions, words are MEANINGLESS.

    • @brianbarit3091
      @brianbarit3091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen to that statement, @Doge Enthusiast! Actions speak louder than words!!! 🗣🏃🏻‍♀️💯

    • @redhoodie4111
      @redhoodie4111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      See this is why I'm co fused about the situation I'm in with this girl. We got into an arguement, and she took me off snapchat, but she made her account public when it wasn't previously (dont want to assume she went public so I could keep seeing stuff, but when I first added her I couldn't see her story and she didn't add me back until like 2 weeks later). Even though she took me off Snapchat, she still follows me on Instagram, and she looks at my stories about as regularly as she always did (which isn't super often, but the fact that she still looks after the argument was weird to me)

    • @gigachad6162
      @gigachad6162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@redhoodie4111 honestly at that point you just need to let her do 100% of the pursuing and if she doesn’t message you again oh well move on to the next girl. Next time never try to argue with a woman, they never fight fair and most of their arguments are emotional based. women in general are very emotional. You have to go by what they feel in the moment.

    • @kevper96
      @kevper96 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey man, are we still hodling?

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She is not that scared to meet up with the guy that she really wants. Trust me!

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @Masterofoppurtunity
      @Masterofoppurtunity 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yh ppl be saying anxiety.. wth? She has anxiety to meet up with you but doesn't have anxiety to go to parties or travel? Man get outta here

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Masterofoppurtunity The key is to just destroy your ego and admit that she DOESN'T WANT YOU. There are a lot of women out there that will want to meet you in person.

    • @Masterofoppurtunity
      @Masterofoppurtunity 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @CosminPerisan yh fosho brother ppl just need to realize this and leave the situation alone somethings are better left alone

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CosminPerisanyou’re mostly right, but some girls are actually conservative and don’t date often. Women watch true crime documentaries all day and worry about being murdered.

  • @manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145
    @manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    When it comes to women it all comes down to one thing: they either like you or they don't. If they like you, you can't say the wrong thing. But, if they don't, you can buy them everything and she still won't be interested. At the end of the day, if a girl is into you she'll help you, if she ain't helping, then she isn't into you. You don't have to go through hoops with a woman who likes you.

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If a girl is into you, fo sure you will know.

    • @thecowboy9698
      @thecowboy9698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes. Women who GENUINELY like you, will NOT make it difficult for you. If they want to see you, they'll MAKE time for you. As people we make time for the things, and the people, that we like.
      If a girl shows through her actions, not her words alone that she likes you, then she's not worth your time.

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re mostly right, but it is also possible to win the girl over. If you’ve never been able to do this in your life, and you were only valued on your looks, then it means you need to improve your personality and lifestyle stats (job title, wealth, status).

    • @paulcolin9071
      @paulcolin9071 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @80skid83
    @80skid83 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have now realised the two types of women you should go for:
    1. High interest women
    2. Medium interest women
    High interest women will chat to you daily, will agree to go on dates , will sleep with you.
    Medium interest, same as above , except she will only chat to you on a weekly or monthly basis.
    Anything less than these , you're just getting crumbs. Put your time and energy into some other things in life

    • @kingdavid772
      @kingdavid772 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wrong. The problem is there’s a mathematics to it. The high interest are least attractive and medium interest slightly more attractive. The crumbs come from the girls slightly out of your league and most attractive.
      You have a defeatist mindset, because you’re basically saying only smash the girls you’re better than who are reaching for you. That’s pathetic and lazy.
      Getting the girls who are a little out of your league are the biggest accomplishments and obviously the most enjoyable to sleep with. They also require the most work and have attitude and are flaky, etc. They act this way because they’re better than you. Don’t be a defeatist. You can show them that you’re in their league and win over a percentage of them.

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@The.Harsh.Truths I get your philosophy and it's somewhat true in the majority of cases , but you can also get low interest from unattractive women too and high interest from attractive women too.
      Your last point about men going for women out of their league and then getting the typical games and rejection is the reason we now have dating coaches. If people dated their level , there would be less problems in dating in general and more easier to move on from and replace

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@80skid83 that’s a fair and valid response. Yes, very rarely, a girl who should know she’s better than you, is responsive and very open to dating. I agree and thank you for the level headed response despite my vitriolic comment.

  • @DominicGrindrod
    @DominicGrindrod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “I’ll let you know” = not interested, I just want the validation of your offer. Gents, let them hit the wall and move on.

  • @franckkamdem8750
    @franckkamdem8750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    If you look at the People who Seen your Stories just to Check if she’s on this List, she still live in your Head reantfree

    • @markymars
      @markymars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Guilty🥲

    • @CLA82529
      @CLA82529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Guilty as charge. I just hide my stories from her and somehow I feel more relieved lmao

    • @tripaloski_6971
      @tripaloski_6971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True... I do it.

    • @92CJLove
      @92CJLove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      NO, she has you on her mind, not the other way around, we're not stalking deez heauxs, they follow us, we dont follow them.

    • @Anth_D
      @Anth_D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Argh this is the worst, def not wrong about the rent free thing…

  • @winterhughe5495
    @winterhughe5495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They’re intrigued. Possibly even interested. But.. if they’re not liking your posts.. they’re in a relationship and don’t want attention drawn to their likes, and the rest are just above being seen “liking”. That’s an actual thing with weirdos today.. being worthy of their likes. Or they’re haters and just don’t like you.

  • @joecorochio2129
    @joecorochio2129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    It comes down to her being somewhat interested but not enough to actually meet up with you. Online flirting is zero commitment & is fun for attention + validation. But then meeting up is too much commitment/work/pressure. And yeah good chance she has a dude already and keeping you around as a backup. But I'd try to keep leveling up your insta brand. One trick is take pics with good looking girls… then they're usually down to meet up haha

    • @freddylimpster7137
      @freddylimpster7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      nah it's outdated as a trick, now they will only see you as a mysoginist and a player if you post pics like that

    • @JBprodJosephBae
      @JBprodJosephBae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Just do it with 100 girls at the same time 🤣

    • @Joseph237cro
      @Joseph237cro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JBprodJosephBae like dan bilzerian

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@freddylimpster7137 I agree , that shit don't work. Best just to live your life

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@80skid83it doesn’t work if you’re obvious about it. Most people have a low EQ and don’t get how obvious they’re being when they do this.
      If you happen to have a pretty friend and you guys actually vibe and hang out, you can show that in a way that isn’t tacky.

  • @mwloos1
    @mwloos1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If a women is interested she’ll make sure to get your attention. She would’ve commented on your story if she was really interested. No matter what you posted.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    LOL... males, listen. Women DO NOT take viewing stories that seriously like you do. They are BORED 99% of the time, so they just watch to be entertained. If she is not reaching out to you, responding in some way to try get your attention, SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.

  • @shaharcohen3844
    @shaharcohen3844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Happened to me and I just hid my story from her because if she doesn’t want me I’d rather not watch if she seen my story, it’s hard but at the end of the day it’s a relief

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don't hide , just stop watching her stories.

    • @CLA82529
      @CLA82529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@80skid83 I did both, I hide my story from her, also remove her from the followers list.

  • @privateequityguy
    @privateequityguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    *“If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.” - Jim Rohn*

  • @kerryx5199
    @kerryx5199 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the advice! I needed to read between the lines. JUst because she watches your stories and likes your pictures, does not mean she wants you.

  • @Haktuar
    @Haktuar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I used to care about this kind of thing, but after acquiring real-world experience and getting good advice like Lloyd's, I've realized that the only thing that matters is if the girl is willing to spend time with you in person. Anything less than that is not true interest and therefore a waste of time and energy. I highly urge any guys currently worrying about girls like this to move on and find someone that IS willing to spend time with you.

  • @LuisArias-ui5dw
    @LuisArias-ui5dw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She's not into u bro move on simple as that

  • @WhitePillMan
    @WhitePillMan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    She could have a boyfriend and story watching is a great way to keep the guy hooked as a backup plan.

    • @freddylimpster7137
      @freddylimpster7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      that's shitty. i'm nobody's backup plan, if she watches my stories but doesn't invest more than that into me, i'll remove her from my followers

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@freddylimpster7137 if she's cute I will keep , if she's anything less she must go. I would say judge her on her looks, if you can get her in real life then I say you have a chance. If she's way out of your league tho then yeah I believe she's just fishing for validation.

    • @ahmaniwesley3316
      @ahmaniwesley3316 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@freddylimpster7137 I’m with you bro.. Because in these situations, always unfollow them to humble them a little. They’ll feel embarrassed for themselves that you had the audacity to unfollow them😂😂 Thus women getting unmatched/unfollowed from dating apps and social media might make them stop playing games and under-appreciating good dudes 👍🏽

  • @bilgiman7945
    @bilgiman7945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just subbed to you, thanks for posting this.

  • @carrocesta
    @carrocesta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so real! thanks for the video dude :)

  • @huntervuzzo964
    @huntervuzzo964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just don’t overthink it

  • @mr.flipstv
    @mr.flipstv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good point That definitely makes a lot of sense now that I think about it

  • @weirdchamp7790
    @weirdchamp7790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    move on she is not into you

  • @DrRodox.
    @DrRodox. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    In case of doubt, ill sugest you guys this:
    Remove her from the list of followers, if shes truly interested, she will ask to follow again and maybe send you a DM asking what happened. Just say your ig got in a bug, and bunch of friends got kick out too.
    Or there is another option:
    Talk for a little while, ask her out, if she didnt answer or did answer and then ghosted you, turn the page bro, the right girl its on its way, dont stall yourself with the wrong one.

    • @Iamlewis93
      @Iamlewis93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True gud idea

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tried that and the girl did follow again, but nothing more than that. No I didn't follow her back this time

    • @DrRodox.
      @DrRodox. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@80skid83 Nice job bro! Go focus on you and the right girl will appear eventually! Be the best you can be!

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DrRodox. done that with many girls and most did follow and add again, but it all ends up friendzone again . Many girls I have been successful with tho, just got to keep trying till a girl bites

  • @SD-he3pp
    @SD-he3pp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You could talk about how influence making an impact on the girl's choices. Like if her friends say something about the guy, like;
    "I don't like him" or "he doesn't look that good" most of the time the girl Will think twice and again about your chance. Iam 18, it's very popular among the girls in my age group. Just the influence, and fame, nothing else. Disgusting.

  • @MatthewRumble
    @MatthewRumble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She just accidently went through yours when scrolling through her other stories

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then she’d only watch the first story of many. If she watches all of them in a row, there’s some interesting there. Not even saying it’s romantic interest, but women know how to skip stories.

  • @abdu6588
    @abdu6588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Damn Lloyd the timing is perfect on this. Started texting to this girl and I said that we should meet up and she even agreed and said she would rather talk irl. I told her my days off and she said that she will tell me when she can link up. Yet she’s always the first 10 people that look at my story. Its hot and cold.
    Update: She took a day off so that we could meet and said to me that she was nervous at first, but said at the end that she was glad that we met. Any tips on how to initiate a 2nd date?

    • @ryangriffiths8329
      @ryangriffiths8329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just wasting your time move on. She knows when she is free and when she is not!!

    • @GuitarGangsterArmi
      @GuitarGangsterArmi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This situation was long distance but I was messaging a girl for awhile and she told me she wanted me to visit. When I was there in her state she used work as an excuse when I tried to set up a day to see her.... and didn’t offer a different day. Why talk about meeting me when all she wanted was non sexual attention? Because they’ll tell whatever lie they have to tell to keep getting validation from you.

    • @ryangriffiths8329
      @ryangriffiths8329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GuitarGangsterArmi million %

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryangriffiths8329 he did well to even get a date tbh . Anything else really is a bonus

  • @Anth_D
    @Anth_D 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fuck yeah, great video!

  • @melissaposmore9371
    @melissaposmore9371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Best option for more fáńś
    in'sta'crease
    00:51 -what music did you use?- -jizz fizz jeux-
    We are here because we love this

  • @ballsupm.v.k4756
    @ballsupm.v.k4756 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Chances are high she likes you but she is in a relationship or she thinks u are way out of her league or she definitely like you but shes doubtful if your interests are aligned, or she knows for a fact if u meet up u wont be impressed because in real life she is not as good looking as her ig pictures, she don want to lose u because u kinder lowkey chasing her 😂 either way she is 85+ % into you don buy the whole scrolling thru ig stories especially if she follows 000+ people and she always the first to view bro give her a call put an extra effort😂

  • @mediasawdust2458
    @mediasawdust2458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Habit, and probably checking up on your status in life, seeing if you've moved up.

  • @drose6815
    @drose6815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Lloyd, can you make a video on a girl potentially using a guy? For example, only talking to them for their looks and body...

  • @SuperYtc1
    @SuperYtc1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s cringey how he always says “I’m not the single guy”. What is the point of that bit?

    • @cashmoney6935
      @cashmoney6935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GF gonna beat that ass

  • @mjohnson6703
    @mjohnson6703 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do ladies who I used to date watch every one of my stories even though they are married now? I don't even follow them on Instagram. It seems weird to me.

  • @waynescaller8833
    @waynescaller8833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The women that spend there time on Instagram are mostly time wasters just move on and find a women out there in the real world

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Big timewasters , never ever ask a girl out on insta that you haven't met in real life

    • @waynescaller8833
      @waynescaller8833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@80skid83 I totally agree with you lloyd

  • @wisdom-sage1109
    @wisdom-sage1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah that's true we have to give attention to girls who are willing to text us back and are interested in us.

  • @illswagr1
    @illswagr1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She might just be nosy lol

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hide my stories from the ppl who are obviously being nosy

  • @bhushannasre6489
    @bhushannasre6489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just happen with few days ago ...she didn't follow me back but she still see my stories

  • @CLA82529
    @CLA82529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you want to fuck around, just post Jeff The Killer on your IG story at midnight lol

  • @michaelm.3510
    @michaelm.3510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that the truth ..

  • @juanalferez
    @juanalferez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what about the badass music in the end?

  • @ryanbales8116
    @ryanbales8116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like the part where he said to invite her out for definite plans. If she doesn't show or hems and haws about it, you can get her out of your mind easily and move on.

  • @danielbarath2649
    @danielbarath2649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just delete and block her, problem solved.

    • @GodsProphet23
      @GodsProphet23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you waste of time

  • @ballifjulien9640
    @ballifjulien9640 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly!

  • @ryanbarker3978
    @ryanbarker3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Instagram stories aren't personalized love notes. 99% of people are going to be mindlessly clicking through all available stories when they open the app. Sure certain names might catch their attention while they're doing that, but somebody watching your story does not have any correlation with how interested they are in you. The only thing that will give you an accurate gauge of that is her actions in your one on one interactions.
    The fact this is a question really highlights the fact that interpersonal communication skills are on a steep decline.

  • @frankiegaliffa3850
    @frankiegaliffa3850 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She’s a realtor and bartender. So we met twice and she took a trip down to Florida to visit a friend of hers. She tends to watch my Snapchat stories and instagram stories.

    • @frankiegaliffa3850
      @frankiegaliffa3850 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When she went on the vacation to Florida is when the texting got very little which I get cause she’s with friends and stuff. But she seemed still interested but after

  • @mythocrat
    @mythocrat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And what is the reasoning behind a girl who had a 1 tinder date with me, she didn't like our date, then two days later wrote me saying she found someone already (clearly not, because she was still in Tinder, and stayed there for a year longer with new photos).
    Then after some time, I stopped following her, and she stopped following me. After more than a year she keeps popping up in my story watchers. I have big experience with women, but I gotta admit it is the confusing to me recently.
    Notice: I know the response for this if it is an ex, or a girl you dated for a few times (they all approved you and were attracted to you in the past), or if you had increase in wealth or power (in some way), BUT a girl who probably hated the date and 2 days later created BS to reject me, stopped following me and more than a year later is back (without following) but knows when I post stories (it needs constant search for the profile in the explore tab, because you don't follow the person).

  • @cameronstutts7257
    @cameronstutts7257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What about a girl who just swipes up on all of your Snapchat stories, but when you ask her to hangout, she always declines

    • @09lonedrone
      @09lonedrone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same thing bra

  • @ThatShitGood
    @ThatShitGood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A girl ghosted me while ago on both telegram and Instagram, but she's still up in my ass still having me on her followings and she's one of the first ones to ever watch my stories, idk man she's just weird lol

    • @markymars
      @markymars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yo I feel that same situation here atm but we was just messaging each other last week too so idk wtf is goin on 🤣

    • @parthmirgal2697
      @parthmirgal2697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Move on

    • @ThatShitGood
      @ThatShitGood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@markymars lol yea these chicks are weird, the fun thing about my situation is that i happened exactly a year ago this mouth that she ghosted me but she's still in my ass lol, she was also very hot and cold sometimes and she was the kind of girl literally surrounded by an army of "guy friends" after my redpills i noticed she's just a damaged girl with a decent job and still a very broken life lol

    • @ThatShitGood
      @ThatShitGood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@parthmirgal2697 i just kept her to see my shit getting better and goin well to make her feel terrible about herself and her rejection on me lol, girls hate that when the guy they reject gets a decent life going together

    • @markymars
      @markymars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ThatShitGood yea that’s tough bro they just be stranglers hopefully you’ve moved on brother show her you livin yo best life!

  • @TheRoamingHistoryador
    @TheRoamingHistoryador 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now, you should demand clarity whenever she checks your IG/FB story. That would help you to know if she's interested on you.

    • @thaaffguy
      @thaaffguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Left on read

    • @raskult
      @raskult ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thaaffguy 💀💀💀

  • @vinayakagarwal7470
    @vinayakagarwal7470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lloyd what are your thoughts on Redpill??

  • @TheSingleGuy
    @TheSingleGuy  2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This happening to anyone right now?

    • @wrench8699
      @wrench8699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yessir, no lie its kinda of annoying but funny at the same time

    • @johnlopez9014
      @johnlopez9014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup. She’s always the first to see my stories. I’ll post it around midnight n at 6 am she sees it. She also respond to my text fairly quickly, 15 minutes top but it is usually me initiating. But to b honest, lately I’m busy n trying to get back to school. When things truly get back to normal… we will see. But I’m definitely not texting anymore

    • @shaharcohen3844
      @shaharcohen3844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah and she not even following me (public profile)

    • @DanielLopez-wj5qk
      @DanielLopez-wj5qk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yess many times. I’ve always felt like women are still Curious with whatever you got going on... even after they ghosted you.

    • @DanielLopez-wj5qk
      @DanielLopez-wj5qk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And another thing when they see something they like in your story they will immediately text you back or no longer drag to text you back. Moral of the story always level up and document your life.

  • @wasimh2104
    @wasimh2104 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same happened to me. I don't understand, why should I connect with someone on instagram who doesnt want to meet up? I'm not her source of entertainment...maybe it's better to block what do you think?

  • @andrewjohnson9044
    @andrewjohnson9044 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex unfollowed me a few weeks ago but will still occasionally pop in and view my stories. Shes kind of being a stalker. I am still following her though. Do you think she is still interested or just curious on what I'm up to? I've been in no contact for a month.

  • @matimus100
    @matimus100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Listen to the eyebrows word.

  • @juwanwilliams3400
    @juwanwilliams3400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Theres a girl that won’t follow me back but she looks at my story

    • @gentlebabarian
      @gentlebabarian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why would you care? Let her she can watch all she want. Just don't bother with her.

    • @juwanwilliams3400
      @juwanwilliams3400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have no interest in her anymore i just thought that was weird .

  • @WesHoe
    @WesHoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don’t watch my story imma think she wanna have my kids 🥵🥵😭💕🔥🌎

  • @juliusbenter2369
    @juliusbenter2369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    People in this day and age really got hung up on being followed online or viewed? What about talking on the phone or if possible in person. This guy might get the wrong idea if a girl just says to him "excuse me" because he is in the way.

  • @solution42
    @solution42 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In my case (I'm a woman) I wanted to get to know this guy but he just said let's just meet I said ok when ? he said now and I said I can't meet now he said fine. Just fine !! I was thinking ok whatever and with time our conversations got boring so he stopped texting me and I also stopped. We follow each other for 2 years now. Not a single move. He just hides his stories from me from time to time and I continue watching his story cause why not ? and still follow him in hopes for potential come-back but he still doesn't take a move so I don't either because I'm afraid of rejection and I started to think that I am maybe not his type of girl. I don't know why he still follows me and still watches my stories tho. Maybe he thinks we are just friends now.

  • @danzena4059
    @danzena4059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You know what guys, I've NEVER done an Instagram story and I've had Instagram for almost 10 years. Is it even worth doing to gain more followers? Asking because I am thinking of doing a new Instagram page.

    • @freddylimpster7137
      @freddylimpster7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i think it's a must nowadays if you want to find interesting girls online. IG is king of social media right now

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@freddylimpster7137 I would say stories keeps your account relevant

  • @t.r.everstone7
    @t.r.everstone7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if she looks and stories but actually swipes up on the stories and replies to them?

  • @fevernova89
    @fevernova89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have her watching my shit daily , i don't watch her stopped actually for about over a month now completely, but i do manage to kinda make out what her stories are about in the little preview bubble, with that being said, I'm a sucker for selfies her at least (her face is what I like the most physically) she just recently (yesterday not 24 yet tho) posted one which I'm not gonna lie want to see (she doesn't post herself much but when she does man sure it's a sight for sore eyes), should I watch this one snap of hers? (With no intention of talking of course well at least not me starting a conversation) i was thinking more of taking a screenshot (and see where it goes from there) maybe that will make her say something actually, idk it's all on my mind yes but im sure you get my idea, also i wanna mention that we stopped talking/seeing each other cuz of thirds (both sides) although I not seeing anyone at the moment but her it's unclear she told me she would get back to me (eventually) when she solves her stuff with her third i kept my word of not reaching out until she does but like i mentioned it's been over a month and it's possible that she's over with her third or maybe not, she told me when she does she wants to get to know each better than ever before and to take it slow (her relationships haven't been the best hence why she's in the situation she's in), so going back to the screenshot part should I go outta my way and watch the selfie in her story and maybe screenshot it, again i haven't seen her stories since out last encounter (one month) but she does look at mine everyday I'm sure she knows i don't look at her stories, sorry for the long comment but a bit of insight would be much appreciated thank you so much

  • @rageman2150
    @rageman2150 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have this girl who send me a friend reques after i asked her friend to add me, after i accsepted she is not replaying, no hi no let's go out on date no nothing, put she is the first one to watch my story. i'm very confused!
    I Felt like i was plan B if her Plan A didn't work out!

  • @iamgabriel003
    @iamgabriel003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what if she doesn’t views the story and seems to be interested on me (my case)

  • @value2887
    @value2887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude your hairline is so good is it natural?

  • @rickysbrutal
    @rickysbrutal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she went to a concert while she was at this concert she was viewing my stories lol the concert must have been bad

  • @jakeshoe3727
    @jakeshoe3727 ปีที่แล้ว

    im in the same situation but i havent messaged her at all and when i added her on snapchat she instantly added be back but other than that we havent talk at all

  • @avisabag872
    @avisabag872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What does it mean if she replies to all my stories? lol

  • @moviegeek1111
    @moviegeek1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ? she's just going through insta like she always does? I dont think it's that deep

  • @daylanbrawley631
    @daylanbrawley631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    1. Mos def dealing with another guy but still wants it to be known that they haven’t forgotten about you...only you’re just a backup plan but hey.....in this day and age....females always have those 😬
    OR
    2. Sometimes and just sometimes, the females continue to watch your stories after they curved you/won’t meet up are simply just waiting for you to level up...And I don’t mean literally pine’ing their days away just waiting JUST for YOU per say but they see you as one of the guys on their “that guy I’d totally get with/bang if only he _______” list.
    Trust me.....they have those lists.
    Either way fellas...level up. God knows I need to 🤣

    • @JJsProductionx
      @JJsProductionx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This seems more likely than not

    • @freddylimpster7137
      @freddylimpster7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      define "level up". i do my levelling up based on myself, not on other people's wishes

    • @ryanyoung6689
      @ryanyoung6689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@freddylimpster7137 Getting in the gym and showing your hard work off, Displaying a good lifestyle (travel and food etc), Looking like you are enjoying life

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@freddylimpster7137 as Ryan has it

    • @freddylimpster7137
      @freddylimpster7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryanyoung6689 oh well I do enjoy life. only thing is that she probably doesn't see herself enjoying it with me with the things I do and the things I like to fill my days with. that doesn't necessarily mean I need to level up somewhere

  • @babayagaagaming
    @babayagaagaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If she responds to stories, Does that mean she is interested?

  • @blayne9182
    @blayne9182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This happens to me on FB and Snapchat I know a girl who is the first to watch my stories but she'll never message lol kinda creepy

  • @MrPureManure
    @MrPureManure 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex keeps doing this on her alt account and it makes me laugh

    • @andrewlawson2688
      @andrewlawson2688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. We broke up when I found her following and DMing other dudes. She blocked me then created a new account to watch my stories-occasionally commenting on them. She randomly texts me about memories of us, then yesterday called to tell me she isn’t dating anyone, having lots of sex with the same guys who I caught her following, but not dating. She pressed about my dating life, sex life, etc. I gave the bare minimum then made my accounts private.

  • @sarahkh1405
    @sarahkh1405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    he fine

  • @KaliPuppies
    @KaliPuppies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am a girl. i turned down men but still watched their stories / put likes because I thought the guy was interesting but out of my league, so I knew that meeting that person won't be easy at least for now (maybe in the future yes)

    • @paulovenz8037
      @paulovenz8037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've heard 'comfort' is as important to women as 'sexual attraction' is, is that true? whats your advice from womens perspective

    • @bluedream2493
      @bluedream2493 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@paulovenz8037 never ask a fish about how other fishes think

    • @charlee2470
      @charlee2470 ปีที่แล้ว

      Out of your league like lower quality than you or higher quality?

    • @space.midnight.cowboy
      @space.midnight.cowboy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      LoL in other words you misguide people on purpose.

    • @solution42
      @solution42 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@charlee2470 prpbably higher because I'm the same

  • @thatmetalchiick
    @thatmetalchiick ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is different for a girl. I watch a guy's story cuz I like him a lot. that's actually true for me. I'm wondering the reason for the guy? why do guys do this?

    • @fevernova89
      @fevernova89 ปีที่แล้ว

      I personally don't do it I'm not a "boy" , i like to talk on the phone better or video call if there's no chance of being in person , but with this being said I have her watching my shit daily , i don't watch her stopped actually for about over a month now completely, but i do manage to kinda make out what her stories are about in the little preview bubble, with that being said, I'm a sucker for selfies her at least (her face is what I like the most physically) she just recently (yesterday not 24 yet tho) posted one which I'm not gonna lie want to see (she doesn't post herself much but when she does man sure it's a sight for sore eyes), should I watch this one snap of hers? (With no intention of talking of course well at least not me starting a conversation) i was thinking more of taking a screenshot (and see where it goes from there) maybe that will make her say something actually, idk it's all on my mind yes but im sure you get my idea, also i wanna mention that we stopped talking/seeing each other cuz of thirds (both sides) although I not seeing anyone at the moment but her it's unclear she told me she would get back to me (eventually) when she solves her stuff with her third i kept my word of not reaching out until she does but like i mentioned it's been over a month and it's possible that she's over with her third or maybe not, she told me when she does she wants to get to know each better than ever before and to take it slow (her relationships haven't been the best hence why she's in the situation she's in), so going back to the screenshot part should I go outta my way and watch the selfie in her story and maybe screenshot it, again i haven't seen her stories since out last encounter (one month) but she does look at mine everyday I'm sure she knows i don't look at her stories, sorry for the long comment but a bit of insight would be much appreciated thank you so much

  • @ayushh1001
    @ayushh1001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She might be talking to Tyrone who's in her following list. Period.

  • @KrisMcCauley
    @KrisMcCauley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do this all the time to chicks lol

  • @ForWhatItsWorth_
    @ForWhatItsWorth_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This shit happened to me. I unfollowed her.

  • @monkeydkong3399
    @monkeydkong3399 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr morj

  • @kc270352
    @kc270352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    keeping tabs on you lmao

  • @toddbr5959
    @toddbr5959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Let's agree that maybe she is looking if you are getting more valuable guy! Or maybe it's just nothing. Maybe she is just skipping your story! Anyways guys i was dating a girl that she lost interest on me and she doesn't send first, should i delete her from Instagram or just keep her there? We don't talk if I don't send a message on Instagram! I'm thinking what's yhe point having her but from the other hand if i delete her maybe she will believe that i had the problem with her! What should i do?

    • @lorenzotuletta7713
      @lorenzotuletta7713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd say do what feels best for you and not what's based on what she might think of you. By her only replying she's already lost interest. Women put in effort when they're interested. I used to unfollow but at this point I feel like it's unnecessary and something I won't do anymore. It's better if you focus on meeting new women because it's really unlikely for a woman to return once she's lost interest, and if she does it's probably out of boredom or for an ego boost. That's how it's been from my experience, just remember that there are lots of other great women out there to meet bro 👌🏼

    • @ThatShitGood
      @ThatShitGood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she ghosted you act like a high value guy and pretend she didn't even existed in the first place, barely even watch her stories (but not completely) or like her photos and probably a good chance of her trying to hit you up again, but just removing her at least as far as i know it's probably a good chance of her thinking he got over your balls and she completely stomped you so keep her but barely give her any signs of caring, less and less.

    • @toddbr5959
      @toddbr5959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThatShitGood I'm thinking what's the point of having her without not even talking to her? She told me that if i want something she will be there for me etc. To be honest i still like her,or i was thinking if maybe we can be friends with benefits or something like that but if she doesn't interact with me and she now is more like friend to me there is no point...I don't want a new friend.I don't know,most of my friends advice me to keep following her on Instagram but block her stories so that doesn't upset me.

    • @ThatShitGood
      @ThatShitGood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@toddbr5959 same, I'm in a situation when a girl ghosted me on telegram and instagram but still keeping me on her followings didn't even blocked me on telegram yet, and I'm still dealing with myself to get over my crush on her sometimes i watch her stories and barely even liking her photos just downgraded her on my friendzone and after taking redpills i noticed she's just a damaged girl with a decent job (smokes alot, an army of guy friends very little amount of female friends, daddy/brother issues, dyed hair purple and red all time) it's just sad to see her situation because she's very very creative and productive, also me and her talked alot and had a shit ton of same interests like norse mythology, philosophy, metal, cars and etc. I'm just pretending she didn't even existed just to make her feel sorry for herself for my rejection after seeing my life keeps asskicking and grinding, still have a very little feelings for her tho.

    • @toddbr5959
      @toddbr5959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThatShitGood So you feel me mate! I know that we must keep going on and never look back cause those girls are heartless mate! See said before one month she still cares about me but see doesn't do nothing to prove that! Even now she doesn't speak much.I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she passed the answer and said something else...ffs they're more heartless than us mate,i know that one day she will send me a message but i hope I'm going to be with another girl! She even told me that it was a bad timing that is why it didn't worked between us! Heartless to the bone!

  • @antwandarellefenton
    @antwandarellefenton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🇬🇧 🇬🇧

  • @duke45jp
    @duke45jp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All the guys deflecting must don't attract many women lol. Women are the best FBI agents. It baffles me how it's 2022 and men still can't spot choosing signals versus general viewers. Get out more.

    • @fevernova89
      @fevernova89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please elaborate some some the signals part, i talk and see many girls but there's this one bro , could you please give some insight

  • @marioottaiano475
    @marioottaiano475 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come on guys, people watch Instagram stories just because they go on automatic reproduction, they watch all the stories, not just yours and they do it for 1 second with a very fast reproduction. Is this girl always the first to watch your stories? Sure, Instagram algorithm works in this way, it shows first the stories of the person you interact more, you click on the first and that's it. Guys don't rely on social media, don't rely on Instagram, I completed deleted my Instagram app for my phone, it's a useless and self-destroying social media. A girl likes you only if she wants to go out with you period

  • @taylorsampson5434
    @taylorsampson5434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who cares. You're not a fortune teller.

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Or she prolly accidently clicked on your stories

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If by accident then she would only see the first slide. Not the multiple slides that one puts up. They're watching

  • @zoilaperna457
    @zoilaperna457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "BEST OPTION FOR MORE FANS" PosTiy.BeSt PosTiy.BeSt -tale lace pear city- (00:35)

  • @lucieshadrick9942
    @lucieshadrick9942 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "BEST OPTION FOR MORE FANS" PosTio.BeSt PosTio.BeSt -plow meet fire boom- (00:50)