I Dressed Like My Indian Grandmother For A Week

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  • @MichelleKhare
    @MichelleKhare  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4120

    I am so proud of how this video turned out. Originally it was just going to be a video following trends..and turned into such a special video with dadi ma. isn't she the cutest? :) hope you guys loved it!! tell me what u think!

    • @urja5118
      @urja5118 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Michelle Khare Dress for 9days of navratri, the Indian festival

    • @marisagill123
      @marisagill123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I absolutely loved it!

    • @sujitsharma4255
      @sujitsharma4255 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      VERY BEAUTYFULL VIDEO.. AND YOUR DADI MAA TOO

    • @smyasrgm
      @smyasrgm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hi Michelle, while watching the video I saw at 14:12 there's Basti house written on one of the photographs. Were your grandparents originally from Basti, Uttar Pradesh, India??? That's where I belong to as well! Let me know soon! And i loved how you are so eager to learn about your ancestry. Much love from India 😘😘😘

    • @deangelakhan5415
      @deangelakhan5415 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i love this! i'm a Caucasian mutt and my husband is from Pakistan. our two daughters are so different from one another I sometimes wonder that one takes after me more and the other takes after him. genetics are so fascinating!

  • @aliyanoorani283
    @aliyanoorani283 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3890

    “What is home? Home is your family. So this became our home.” Preach Dadi Ma

    • @ins34
      @ins34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes Home, The place where mama beats me with a slipper to discipline me :D Asian4life

    • @lana-tk8xz
      @lana-tk8xz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ins34 i feel you, i feel you.

    • @shryab15
      @shryab15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mann....is it just me or are all Dadis deep af?

    • @addie3147
      @addie3147 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i hate my family so i 100% disagree

    • @Emiko-x8s
      @Emiko-x8s ปีที่แล้ว

      @@addie3147 I'm an orphan... does this mean i'm homeless?

  • @minasbaguette889
    @minasbaguette889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1483

    Your dadi ma is such an angel, I miss my desi family seeing this 😭

    • @minasbaguette889
      @minasbaguette889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My mom doesn't measure either while cooking lol

  • @surekhak8748
    @surekhak8748 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4479

    She is lovely, but seems lonely. You should spend more time with her. Grandmothers are the best.

    • @otomackena7610
      @otomackena7610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      i felt that too

    • @ellieparfitt752
      @ellieparfitt752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Wish I could’ve known my grandmother. She died when i was only 5. I never got to know who she really was.

    • @tirzxh
      @tirzxh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@ellieparfitt752 My dad's parents died before I was born so I only have 2 grandparents I wish I could have met them

    • @flclub54
      @flclub54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯💯💯

    • @jennamachain
      @jennamachain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Altair I felt that same feeling she seems like a great person 💕

  • @dms9858
    @dms9858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    I love when Indian women wear their traditional clothing!! One of my friends is Indian and she only wears her saris for special occasions but she looks so beautiful when she does wear them!

  • @yourbookladykatie
    @yourbookladykatie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    This made me cry. I’m adopted and don’t really have any sense of culture. Seeing you put on that first outfit literally made me cry, and it was all downhill from there. I love this video.

    • @katia6289
      @katia6289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aw :( please don’t cry
      I know you feel like you lost a part of your identity
      But maybe it was for good who knows what could’ve happened
      God has plans for you
      ALWAYS SMILE AND THINK POSITIVE💗

    • @vinitasingh378
      @vinitasingh378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Take a DNA test

    • @blueupgreendown6402
      @blueupgreendown6402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Its a natural question to ask what could have been, but it can hurt us to linger there. A better question is what can still be. think it’s important to remember that your identity is not where you come from, but who you are in character, skills, interests, and what you choose to embrace. My niece is struggling with this right now. My nephews and niece are adopted, mixed race kiddos. Their parents are fully Caucasian and bilingual in the kiddos dna language. But the traditions of their bio parents are coping habits of drugs and alcohol, and unstable romantic relationships. The kids would have missed out on many cultural traditions because we already know at age 2, McDonald’s was an everyday meal, and childcare was provided by headstart. The emotional culture their adoptive parents gave them of being loved, learning to cope in healthy ways, not being around substances and revolving door paying men and prison, and uncertainty of continually being around different fathers, as they are in and out of prison for dealing and violence. Sometimes life is about making the best of what you have, and being thankful for what you have. If you want to know a culture you feel you missed out on, make some friends, do a cultural experience, read about it. You can add traditions. Nobody loves all the traditions their parents have. We all have to find our way to some extent. If you’re still a minor, maybe your parents can help find second culture people to connect you with, a language teacher, a traditional outfit, a cooking class. If you don’t ask, they won’t know what you need/want. Go get it!

    • @Nayz13
      @Nayz13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mum is adopted too, it’s hard to not have that sense of family or culture

  • @rozieperera9880
    @rozieperera9880 6 ปีที่แล้ว +966

    Dude your dadi ma’s skin is ageless?!! Wtf!! Absolutely beautiful!!

    • @no-vw9ib
      @no-vw9ib 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Krysuna i lived in India for a while if your not tanned then your living in the dark

    • @claire-ic1uk
      @claire-ic1uk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I guess it’s the melanin

    • @aah296
      @aah296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Asians don't raisin

    • @lunafox45
      @lunafox45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr! Her skin is amazing!

    • @poetriv
      @poetriv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abby Pitre India is part of Asia

  • @megantandhika2161
    @megantandhika2161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    your grandmother is such a sweetheart! and she's a fashion ICON

    • @MichelleKhare
      @MichelleKhare  6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I KNOWWWWW I LOVE HER SO MUCH

    • @RonzaMN
      @RonzaMN ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MichelleKhare hi Michelle I have been watching u for a long time and I love u!

  • @geethumuru7499
    @geethumuru7499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2234

    "I don't measure, that's Indian cooking" omg so true hahaha!

    • @tirzxh
      @tirzxh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      African too

    • @brizacamacho5920
      @brizacamacho5920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Mexican too

    • @anniea1408
      @anniea1408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tirzxh just about to say that lol

    • @anniea1408
      @anniea1408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Black people too lol, I just made a gravy I can only tell you that there are seasonings in it lol

    • @runia1889
      @runia1889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Malaysian too

  • @exocodm9327
    @exocodm9327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    LOL IM INDIAN SO WHEN SHE SAID HOW YOU NEED A NEW OUTFIT FOR A NEW EVENT SHE WAS NOT LYING💀💀💀

    • @kheetikasookharry3747
      @kheetikasookharry3747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOL that's so true

    • @zaynabhijou5995
      @zaynabhijou5995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yess here in morocco too 🤣 i see i lot of similarities between us 😀😸

    • @pratikkarnik5
      @pratikkarnik5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not true

    • @kheetikasookharry3747
      @kheetikasookharry3747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pratikkarnik5 oh come on I'm pretty sure you don't even celebrate any festivals

    • @pratikkarnik5
      @pratikkarnik5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@kheetikasookharry3747 No no! We do celebrate almost all festivals, go to all functions, and we are also not financially bad, but we consider buying new clothes every time as a wastage of resource. Rather buy good quality at higher prices and use for multiple similar occasions(this goes more to males than females)

  • @Liz-vs8hx
    @Liz-vs8hx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +500

    I'm a Hindu myself and seeing this video made me really appreciate my ancestors. It was quite shocking to see that Michelle not able to speak Hindi but I'm sure she'll learn it soon. Also, her grandmother is so sweet. My grandmother is staying with me and my parents now and she always makes me eat Indian food and she also taught me Tamil.

    • @bullseye6969
      @bullseye6969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Not just that, she cant pronounce even pooja, cant walk like women wearing traditional attire, and she need a yourube video to encourage her to visit grandma after years.
      we never let our grandparents live alone.

    • @royalsshorts65
      @royalsshorts65 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi five✋

    • @peiyentsai6430
      @peiyentsai6430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@bullseye6969 it's not her fault that she struggles to pronounce certain words. my mother is from Taiwan, and of course, mum had grown up speaking Chinese. I never learnt Chinese properly until we actually moved to Taiwan, when I was seven. It took me seven years to actually learn the language, and only because I had to, not exactly out of choice. Now I realise how great of an opportunity it was, and I'm ever so grateful now. kids just find it hard to adapt, especially if the child is biracial. I understand that she isn't a child, but there must be a reason for her not speaking Hindi. She is biracial and said herself that she struggled with her identitity and never embraced the Indian blood in her until now. If both of her parents were Indian and she never learnt - then that's different. But you have to understand that growing up in America and not India must be a contributing factor to that.

    • @thisisdumblewhore
      @thisisdumblewhore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Well not just hindus wear saree in india😅. Most of every indian belonging to different religion wear it too. 🙂

    • @markusjohnson6558
      @markusjohnson6558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bullseye6969 Fuck off

  • @florindalucero3236
    @florindalucero3236 6 ปีที่แล้ว +836

    The way she hugged you at the door... I got choked up, and missed my Grandma so so much

    • @goldenageofdinosaurs7192
      @goldenageofdinosaurs7192 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Florinda Lucero I immediately thought, “I’ll never get to hug my nonna like that again.” It made me very sad, yet really happy for her at the same time. 😊

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My Oma(German for grandma) died in 2012 and even before that she had Alzheimer and sometimes it seemed like she was gone a long time before she died. I still have my paternal grandmother but she was never nearly as close to me as my maternal one who was such a kind hearted person and loved everyone. My paternal grandmother isn't the nicest person and I really miss my Oma a lot. I don't have or want children but I named my cat Emma after her. We rescued Emma when she was a small feral kitten that was about to be killed by some assholes. As soon as I saw her I knew that Emma would be the perfect name for her because they have the same eye color.

    • @naomimosby5575
      @naomimosby5575 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DieAlteistwiederda aww🥺

  • @paiaullasantosh6038
    @paiaullasantosh6038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    That old lady represents India.. irrespective of where she is .. She is still rooted to her culture.god bless you with healthy life.

    • @rat5800
      @rat5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Paiaulla Santosh Allah

    • @pradipta9345
      @pradipta9345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rat5800 ae gandu

    • @naveenarora6467
      @naveenarora6467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Karina Wow we thought allah means pigeon! U stupid India has the largest muslim population we know Islam more than many muslims do themselves he was just asking where did Allah come in between suddenly?

  • @keertivenkat5711
    @keertivenkat5711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2957

    The words every immigrant parent and grandparent tells us: "We wanted to give you a better life." :')

    • @thekashow2462
      @thekashow2462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Except my grandma 😂 she came here because her dad had to come to the US for his job for a little while then my grandma fell in love with my grandpa so she stayed and lived here. Although my great grandparents probably told my grandma that because they immigrated from Germany to South Africa

    • @gnislia
      @gnislia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      America is built from immigrants. Important to always remember that.

    • @zuboy4272
      @zuboy4272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Shows that how fked up home country is !

    • @emily.d1
      @emily.d1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I KNOW RIGHT!!!!!!

    • @vxytle
      @vxytle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m ur 999th like

  • @taniarodrigues2564
    @taniarodrigues2564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I'm really glad micelle is acnolging her indian roots and sharing that with the world.
    There are not many youtubers that will do this.
    Also who else is watching this during quarantine?

    • @xo4747
      @xo4747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @xo4747
      @xo4747 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @L obviously

    • @thatcrazybookworm5818
      @thatcrazybookworm5818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hon, it's acknowledging not acnolging. sorry, couldn't help myself. comes with being an Indian perfectionist writer, FYI, it's soo true, a lot of people won't really visit their ancestry and be proud of it.

  • @ethancroft2560
    @ethancroft2560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    "I myself am drawn to color." Wearing all black with black lipstick.

  • @sudheekshas7092
    @sudheekshas7092 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1707

    I feel like Safiya Nygaard should do a similar video!☺️

    • @brendakarna6174
      @brendakarna6174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Sweatshirt scorpio SAMMMEEE. I feel like Michelle and Safiya have both, somehow, similar taste in videos and the way they think.

    • @jenellsaphid
      @jenellsaphid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I thought that too!

    • @melonyznoj7927
      @melonyznoj7927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She did

    • @Rosemallow
      @Rosemallow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melonyznoj7927 when

    • @goldenetn8981
      @goldenetn8981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brenda Karna they both came from buzzfeed

  • @bryanahmarais1513
    @bryanahmarais1513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    My granny is half mauritian- Indian and she passed away two weeks ago. This video really warmed my heart and made me miss moments with her ❤

    • @archangel1547
      @archangel1547 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bryanah Marais sorry for your loss.

    • @ace-zy4rb
      @ace-zy4rb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bryanah Marais The saddest moments are the happiest moments later on ❤️ Have a great day! ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you

    • @amylia2217
      @amylia2217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am mauritian ..lol..

    • @jasleenkaur3422
      @jasleenkaur3422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bryanah Marais sorry for your loss. ❤❤❤❤

    • @Meeeeeee37
      @Meeeeeee37 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls keep the indian in you alve dont shy away from it ..
      Just a suggestion

  • @katsukibakugoofficial3873
    @katsukibakugoofficial3873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1989

    (back in elementary)
    My friend classified his Ethnicity as Grey cuz his mom Black and his Dad White. No joke

    • @blueblue1251
      @blueblue1251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @peytonwright1625
      @peytonwright1625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      just repying to this because i love your name

    • @boiswedidit6383
      @boiswedidit6383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      God bless him lol

    • @paytonwilson5076
      @paytonwilson5076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      i mean he’s right! 😂😂😂😂

    • @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa790
      @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa790 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I've wondered sometimes if I should call myself "pink" being red mixed with white...

  • @YokoshimaOfficial
    @YokoshimaOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This lady is so unique. She has features like no other. Her own personality and beauty :)
    And I've never seen a smile as bright as hers before (both in colour and expression).

  • @writajachakravarty9443
    @writajachakravarty9443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Michelle you look like a traditional Indian ❤️
    Love from a fellow Indian 🇮🇳
    EDIT : Michelle, you're so lucky to have your dadi. I have no grandparents and watching you bond with her so beautifully made me tear up.
    I wish I was that lucky. I wish so much.

  • @yoanna2118
    @yoanna2118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    WOW. The Indian culture is amazing, the clothes are so unique and beautifull!
    Cheers from Romania! 🇷🇴💜🇮🇳

    • @kimgyeong-na6902
      @kimgyeong-na6902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It really is amazing, but easily misunderstood. I’m half Indian, half Korean. It’s hard when you have a multi-racial background. I remember having trouble finding out my identity.
      Whenever someone asked me my race, I always replied “it’s complicated” 🤣💜

    • @Anonymous-pp8fc
      @Anonymous-pp8fc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kimgyeong-na6902 reply I'm asian if they as k where from say I'm indorean

    • @R1miruuu
      @R1miruuu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kim Gyeong-na idiesebel

    • @ajgorkha58
      @ajgorkha58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know many of the original Gypsy families of Romania are bound by blood with India, they hold many treasured history of India with them. Your first home will always welcome you back. Love from India.

    • @FryingPan76
      @FryingPan76 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ajgorkha58 y'know, being Roma isn't confined to the borders of romania. One doesn't really have to do with the other.

  • @b2ksflyhoney
    @b2ksflyhoney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    Your dadi ma needs to drop a skincare routine ! That skin is flawless!

    • @rj2boo87
      @rj2boo87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      b2ksflyhoney yes, I noticed that also. She’s very pretty.

    • @everydayprint445
      @everydayprint445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Hugh Jassel Women who lose their husbands don't usually wear bindis..

    • @beebikinis
      @beebikinis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's probably melanin 😂

    • @Lena_Kaur
      @Lena_Kaur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Indian and instead of saying "your dadi ma" say auntie ji that's what we call our elders its considered respectful.

    • @b2ksflyhoney
      @b2ksflyhoney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lena_Kaur I was unaware so I used what was said in the video

  • @-atroobah-4176
    @-atroobah-4176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    Your grandmother had such a great fashion sense.

    • @maplemaliha32
      @maplemaliha32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      All Indians wear that stupid

    • @Ds-yy5or
      @Ds-yy5or 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is still alive

    • @evacookie913
      @evacookie913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@maplemaliha32 I think they meant the colors and patterns. No need to be insulting...

    • @nm9688
      @nm9688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My grandma is clearly older than hers. She dressed like this 3:53

    • @seeraygo8658
      @seeraygo8658 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ds-yy5or I think they meant in the past

  • @desharalove
    @desharalove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    " I don't measure that's the main ingredient in Indian cooking" 😂😂😂
    Same black people don't measure nothing you taste it til it's right

    • @MicukoFelton
      @MicukoFelton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with white people (in my country at least) lol who even measures in cooking 😂 you just know by look and scent.

    • @MicukoFelton
      @MicukoFelton 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ ??

    • @LilithLorenz
      @LilithLorenz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MicukoFelton Measuring isn't fun. It's more fun just throwing things in and seeing how it turns out

    • @sophielessore8155
      @sophielessore8155 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      we don’t measure either, especially with ethnic cultural dishes
      we all just know 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @laylarhodes8959
      @laylarhodes8959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Filipinos don’t either, I think it’s just white people who measure

  • @shadowangel3995
    @shadowangel3995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The blanket on your Grandmother’s couch is identical to one my parents had with the exception that the colors are different. I loved that blanket growing up. I completely agree with your grandmother when she said home is where your family is.

  • @mehulrachelkullu6056
    @mehulrachelkullu6056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    The immigration book was so good! I loved how your Dadi had put in so much effort to document all her experiences :)

    • @the-Mina
      @the-Mina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know right... I'm so jealous, I don't even have a lot of pictures of my grand parents let alone our immigration story 😱🙈

  • @hardrockyodeling2629
    @hardrockyodeling2629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    In China, we have a saying, "民族的就是世界的" which means what's unique for a nation is also precious for the world. You should be proud of your own culture.

  • @finaljamm
    @finaljamm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    This is so beyond dressing like your grandmother.... this video was very special ❤️❤️

  • @goose_e8788
    @goose_e8788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    Well I’m asian and the biggest thing about asian is:
    Weapon: broom stick
    Cooking: never measures
    Food: rice
    Starving? No problem!
    Rice,lettauce,water,scramble eggs,soup, meat NEVER STARVE
    Discipline?
    Mom: WHY DID U DO THAT!
    Kid: I’m sorry
    Mom: JDJDHFHHEJJWISYDHWBNWKSICUHEBWJSIXUDGGEHEHSISIYDGDGRHFIFIFHHDBDH
    Oml why 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Abcdefghhhh292
      @Abcdefghhhh292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Let me add to that
      Grades?
      A for acceptable
      Shoes
      Not in the house
      School work
      That’s not enough let me give you more
      Future jobs
      Doctor
      *speaks to you in their language wether you know it or not*

    • @Liz-vs8hx
      @Liz-vs8hx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      #Relatable

    • @mk-vk7kz
      @mk-vk7kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol,same!

    • @vendetta5768
      @vendetta5768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sahna Mulligan B for Begone :’)

    • @starlightcammy
      @starlightcammy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sahna Mulligan god the only future job being doctor 😭 oh that hURT

  • @parthep
    @parthep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My dad said "when me and your mom dies, i hope you remember one thing about us and share it to your children and grandchildren" i was like, im on a quest.

  • @sportygirlfan33
    @sportygirlfan33 6 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    This needs to be on the trending page! This was so sweet and just the cultural history between you and your grandmother is amazing :)

  • @MidnightHedgehog365
    @MidnightHedgehog365 6 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    I love how she scrapbooked her entire experience moving to the US. That's something I think I'd ask my grandma to do while she's still here with us.

  • @kb9847
    @kb9847 6 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    Your dadi ma is beautiful!! Thanks for sharing this side of your heritage. I make Bhindi Masala, it is one of my favourites too. I hope you also make a video on the other half of your heritage. Everyone has migrated to the USA from somewhere. Looking forward to hearing about your ancestry results.

  • @ChitaaRitaa
    @ChitaaRitaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This made me realize i need to spend more time with my grandparents.

  • @MayimHastings
    @MayimHastings 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    12:29 Why did I just start crying? You said you felt as though you were taking ownership in that moment, and that’s so frighteningly important. My family came from Sicily to Mississippi in the year 1900. They started out strong, proud, fairly affluent. Then they were systematically beat down and told if they were to be here they must forget where they came from, their Catholic faith, and even their familiar food. It all came to a head when a KKK member raped my great-great Aunt, then came into my family’s store bragging about it to her husband. My uncle pulled out a shotgun and blew him away. What happened after that was fuzzy in my great grandmother’s memory, but the whole family had to escape that night and leave the state. The money was gone, home was gone, and more importantly, their pride was gone. As every good cook knows, color means flavor, and if we forget our heritage, how bland this melting pot will be! Sorry for the soapbox moment 😳. 💚

    • @r.p.schlett8397
      @r.p.schlett8397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MS is one of those states, in this beautiful country, that has been so abused and kept captive on the wrong side of history, even to this day. Baby steps have been made, but we’ve a long way to go.
      My paternal great grandparents were both Italian immigrants who came to the US in the early 1900s. Breaks my heart to think that they would even be considered “unworthy” of living here.

  • @LoreeesssV
    @LoreeesssV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I love Indian movies... I was surpised you didn't know Om Jai Jagdish praying, because by films I learned it years ago even though I don't have Indian roots... you are blessed with beautiful ancient roots 🙂

    • @marinanikolic5717
      @marinanikolic5717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me too!! Exactly the same thing. I love bollywood movies and know the whole "om jai jagdish" bc of it!

    • @moongoddessjikook
      @moongoddessjikook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here. I learnt "Om Jai Jagdish" from a Bollywood movie too 😊

  • @rais14
    @rais14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    "for every event you have to have a brand new outfit" FAX.
    also loooove the blue sari on you!

    • @Alice2035
      @Alice2035 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      sigh... yup just other thing that i am figuring out about the India Culture that i am not likeing, yet i go to a temple?!!

  • @ladyeerie713
    @ladyeerie713 6 ปีที่แล้ว +593

    Great video! Im half Indian as well. Unfortunately, my father died when I was very young and his family stayed back in India.. Never met them. Though I was raised primarily by my puerto rican mother, I find myself drawn to my brown side. Maybe one day I'll get the chance to visit India.

    • @harshrajsinhjhala6281
      @harshrajsinhjhala6281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      India shall always welcome you with open arms as you are of its children.
      🇮🇳 Love From India.!

    • @AdityaSingh-gb2lk
      @AdityaSingh-gb2lk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you ❤️

    • @AdityaSingh-gb2lk
      @AdityaSingh-gb2lk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @bye girl shut up

    • @rakeshbhende3269
      @rakeshbhende3269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @bye girlkindly get lost😊

    • @krisvin7761
      @krisvin7761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @bye girl That is not true, there are all shades of skin colors in India, and only narrow-minded people are bothered by your skin color. Someone has given you a wrong impression of India, don't let a person's opinion influence your thoughts about all Indians

  • @nayanbhatt9144
    @nayanbhatt9144 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a half Russian and Indian myself, I can relate to this video in an emotional level. LOVE THIS!!!!

  • @juniperdovah
    @juniperdovah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My nana passed away last month and I only wish to have a video like this with her. It was very nice of you to make this not only to share with us but to have for you and your family down the road. This was a beautiful video. Thank you for allowing us to see your family's story.

  • @andrealuissaa
    @andrealuissaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I love the sort of child likeness Michelle had in this, like pointing out “that’s me”, asking to try on all the clothes or saying what she wanted to cook. It made the video so genuine and sorta highlighted the relationship one has with their grandparents :)

  • @jalabi99
    @jalabi99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I low-key teared up when your dadi ma brought out the "immigration" book. What a blessing to be able to have those stories documented so that they can be passed down to future generations. She is such a gift!

  • @SolysMonster
    @SolysMonster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    8:36 it's so funny! I knew the pooja by heart and I am not even Hindu, I am an east african girl that grew up in germany hahahaha :D the power of bollywood

  • @ethancroft2560
    @ethancroft2560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    The most beautiful girls are the ones who embrace their heritage.

    • @severussnape8040
      @severussnape8040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True. Her grandmother's thoughts on arranged marriage stuck with me the most.

    • @HipBeeWitch
      @HipBeeWitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *The most beautiful women, is every single woman on the planet.

  • @VSM101
    @VSM101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Your Grandmother arti the meaning
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Mighty Lord of the whole Universe
    The troubles of devotees
    The troubles of servants (of God)
    In an instant, thou removest
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    He who's immersed in devotion
    His mind's sadness ceases
    Lord, his mind's sadness ceases
    Joy, prosperity enter the home
    Joy, prosperity enter the home
    A body free of problems
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Thou art my mother and father
    Whom should I take refuge with
    Lord, whom should I take refuge with
    Without thee, there is no other
    Without thee, there is no other
    For whom I would wish
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Thou art the ancient great soul
    Thou art the omnipotent master
    Lord, thou art the omnipotent master
    Perfect, Absolute, Supreme God
    Perfect, Absolute, Supreme God
    Thou art the Lord of everything and everyone
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Thou art an ocean of mercy
    Thou art the protector
    Lord, thou art the protector
    I am a simpleton with vain desires
    I am a servant and thou art the Lord
    Oh Lord, grant me thy divine grace
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    You are the one unseen
    Of all living beings
    The Lord of all living beings
    Grant me a glimpse
    Grant me a glimpse
    Guide me along the path to thee
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Friend of the helpless and feeble
    You are my noble
    Lord, you are my noble
    Lift up your hand
    Offer me thy refuge
    At thy feet
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Remove the corruption of the mind
    Defeat evil, Supreme Soul
    Lord, defeat evil
    Grow my faith and devotion
    Oh Lord, grow my faith and devotion
    So I may serve the saints
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Body, mind, and wealth
    Everything is yours
    Oh Lord, everything is yours
    I present you with what is yours
    I present you with what is yours
    Nothing is mine
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Oh Lord of the Universe
    Mighty Lord of the whole Universe
    The troubles of devotees
    The troubles of servants
    In an instant, thou removest
    Oh Lord of the Universe

    • @moongoddessjikook
      @moongoddessjikook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🕉 Jai Jagdish Hare 🙏🏼

    • @Lena_Kaur
      @Lena_Kaur 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wahigru gi ka kalsa wahigru ji ka fathi 🙏🏼

    • @dev_peace_soul
      @dev_peace_soul 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am hindu a way of life not so called religion.
      It takes my to another level 😌

  • @emilyhsieh9028
    @emilyhsieh9028 6 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I agree. Hinduism is a beautiful religion. My friend actually invited my to go to the local temple for garba and dress up in traditional clothes. It was a really fun and interesting experience :)

  • @ctnty1204
    @ctnty1204 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    U made me cry, this was so beautiful. My grandmother passed away when i was 11. I wish i was close to my family so i could ask questions amd learn from my grandmother

  • @victoriamares4904
    @victoriamares4904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    My boyfriend is full West Indian (Gujarat) our daughter will be half white half Indian she is due in April and we are so excited 💕💕💕

    • @akhiljoy3928
      @akhiljoy3928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Congratulations

    • @SaraB77779
      @SaraB77779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Congratulations! Stay strong!

    • @ninakynde7971
      @ninakynde7971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Whats her name?

    • @fardareismai4495
      @fardareismai4495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations! Wishing you the best

    • @rat5800
      @rat5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats 💖

  • @WarvelsWarvengers
    @WarvelsWarvengers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm learning a lot about Hindi in this video since we learn about different cultures and religions and maybe a bit of history of the other countries and their beliefs in school and it's so intriguing...

  • @elijahnlindaallen383
    @elijahnlindaallen383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My family is mostly European so we don't really have any special practices or ways of dress. It's so touching to see you share that with your Dadi ma. I don't understand why anyone would ever shame someone for having special traditions or different cultural practices. Thank you so much for taking us on this journey with you😊💕 I absolutely loved it!!

    • @Broadside175
      @Broadside175 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m also European. I’m a pretty serious Christian but my family has no super special practice or dressings. I wish we did, because it’s so beautiful to know culture. I struggle finding our heritage beautiful :(

    • @GyanTvAmit
      @GyanTvAmit ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you europians also had those practice but christians distroyed them And kill them who opposed jesus,but now its time to reclaim your culture which was brought by indians to europe

  • @coffeeaddict2075
    @coffeeaddict2075 6 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I can’t express how much I relate to this. Both my parents are Indian but I grew up in Australia. I feel constantly split between the two cultures and it’s been draining but watching this...
    Honestly can’t describe how I feel.
    Edit: OMg Thank you soo much for noticing my comment. You put so much thought into all your videos; this one really got me. I feel misunderstood and alone most of the time, however, watching this makes realise that my struggles are probably shared by many people from different places. Once again thank you for all these amazing videos that you make!!

  • @MissDreamerGTO
    @MissDreamerGTO 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I cried watching this video. It was very beautiful and special to watch you spend time with your grandmother. Its beyond special and heartwarming to share moments like this with our elders. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

  • @ukstudent1
    @ukstudent1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m an Indian, Hindu and I’m so amazed about another perspective about the religion and you know how they really felt while coming to the US… it’s so amazing to have a conversation like this, it’s precious.

  • @ainsleyzirkle2485
    @ainsleyzirkle2485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “Home is where the family is” I love that 🤗

  • @hindudoll4721
    @hindudoll4721 6 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    As a hindu, I found the puja part the most touching. Dadi ma is a sweetheart!

    • @trueseeker5221
      @trueseeker5221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U r sooo beautiful🙋‍♂️

  • @ghidorahs1fan209
    @ghidorahs1fan209 6 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Your dadi ma is absolutely beautiful and has a beautiful singing voice. I am so happy you were able to do this and find out so much about your Indian side from your dadi ma. I have been looking into my Romani side of my family of late but I don't have anyone still alive in Australia who knows much of it and Romani tradition is pretty much all oral so it's hard to find good information.

  • @AndyGaskin
    @AndyGaskin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Beautiful video. There is something special about connecting with something bigger than yourself-- in this case, your family. Years from now, you and your descendents will treasure the raw footage you filmed.

  • @sweetyummat322
    @sweetyummat322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are an Indian and I am so proud of myself cause I’m also an Indian keep up your effort and keep making videos😘😘🥰🥰
    I love your videos!😘😘😘😘😘

  • @subrinaally3
    @subrinaally3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Her puja room is so well kept! I don't have an actual room, I just have an altar in my living room
    Edit: ahhh yoga is my favorite pastime

  • @lifeasmarina44
    @lifeasmarina44 5 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    I'm not Hindu but my neighbours are Hindu so I knew the puja song by heart 😊😊😊 Perks of being a #Trini 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @fibbleglumpf
    @fibbleglumpf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Aw, your grandma is a very pretty lady.

  • @Sam-fw8pw
    @Sam-fw8pw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I can relate to this so much! I’m half African American and South/south East Asian. My mom is Thai and Indian and my dad is black. I just want to say that seeing a fellow half south asian who grew up in America just like me talking about her identity really means a lot! Thank you 💕✨

  • @shashankshekhar160
    @shashankshekhar160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my god!! Michelle is reciting slokas in a way kids use to repeat after their grandmother. I can say this because my grandmother( Dadi Ma) made me remember a lot of slokas. I remember as a kid, I use to recite Hanuman Chalisha in dark.

  • @maren8467
    @maren8467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The saris are BEAUTIFUL! Michelle, I love how delicate you are with them and how careful you are with your dadi ma.

  • @cynthiamacaringue5650
    @cynthiamacaringue5650 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I find it a bit sad that our parents don't teach us our home language that well...
    I loved this video, you looked beautiful with everything
    Your grandma's the cutest

  • @ellemurano6276
    @ellemurano6276 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    When you both did pooja together it resonated with me a little bit. I'm not Hindu but my mom is Indian, and my dad is half Indian and I did attend a Hindu school. I remember when we had functions that was one of the songs we always sang. I even remembered a few words (though I suck very much at Hindi) and it made me feel all warm remembering that part of me. Thank you.

    • @incubusk8r
      @incubusk8r 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am an atheist and been that way ever since I can remember. I say this only so that to emphasise there is no motive behind my question, but curiosity.
      I am beginning to see a pattern here, and i am genuinely wondering why.
      If there is an inter-religious marriage between a Hindu and Muslim or Christian, the child usually doesn't follow
      Hinduism but the other religion (Islam Christianity etc)
      Why is that?
      Is Hinduism a horrible religion?
      Is it easy to be Christian in America?
      ARe Christians more stronger in their faith than Hindus?
      What is it?
      I know you can't speak for everyone, but I am seeing a pattern here.

    • @vijaythasathyanarayanan2486
      @vijaythasathyanarayanan2486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@incubusk8r Hindus also don't have a conversion policy. There's more tolerance.

    • @ZedEditz31z
      @ZedEditz31z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elle Murano I’m Hindu and I do puja

    • @viciousraccoon7094
      @viciousraccoon7094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@incubusk8r Because a muslim or most christian father will make sure his child will become what he is , where most hindu father will lose most of the religion when he is married to someone from other religion and he respect her beliefs too.Also most of them dont even know what real sanatana dharma is , they think our religion is all about pooja (worship idols and chanting ) its only bakti yoga ,which is one of the path ,there are many more according to ones temperament.

    • @viciousraccoon7094
      @viciousraccoon7094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If hinduism was horrible than there would'nt be many western peoples doing bhakti yoga in Iskcon

  • @juliecohngreene
    @juliecohngreene 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I’m actually Jewish, and this was so interesting and awesome to see different key parts of different cultures!

    • @SG-ix7sl
      @SG-ix7sl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Always welcomed in India 🙏🏻

    • @Broadside175
      @Broadside175 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m a Christian and I agree!

  • @waddlez1824
    @waddlez1824 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm Bengali and watching this reminds me a lot of my culture and its so interesting to see the similarities and differences. Great video ❤❤❤

  • @tinamos4411
    @tinamos4411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The last part of your video made me emotional. I remember my own grandma. You are lucky for having her. Love your vids Michelle. More power!

  • @divya83
    @divya83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    this was so incredibly cute. reminded me of my time with my grandma before she passed away :) also learning how to Indian is always fun lol.

    • @divya83
      @divya83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      haha it wasn't a grammatical mistake. That was just my sarcasm out and about making bad jokes. lol :) thanks for laughing anyway....even if i'm only a mediocre level of funny in my comments!!

  • @lorainethomas9379
    @lorainethomas9379 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Your story is so beautiful. My mother is Caribbean with Arawak Indian back grown and my dad is dutch European. I'm now married and my husband who is Indian and Chinese. So my children have a world off history in them. BTW I got my first Sari last year and love it.

    • @otomackena7610
      @otomackena7610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you got me confused , are you talking about East Indian or Native American (Indian)?

    • @nyuklyncchung7744
      @nyuklyncchung7744 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am also born in The Netherlands, and I am half chinese and half indian😅🤣

    • @nyuklyncchung7744
      @nyuklyncchung7744 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

    • @TheSunshinefee
      @TheSunshinefee 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      your husband must be surinamese indian

    • @KakashiHatake-sw2sy
      @KakashiHatake-sw2sy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nyuklyncchung7744 Do you know what your name means in Hindi?.

  • @nicky3800
    @nicky3800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The start of the Puja when Dadi Ma starting singing the prayer I actually found that was familiar because of my family being Hindu and have heard them singing that when we attended Pujas 😁😍😭

  • @nazmunnahar9184
    @nazmunnahar9184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm from Bangladesh and all of that culture in this video is just our normal life. The fact that MK looks so much like she is from my neighbourhood, and yet indian ways are new and surprising to her, surprises me somehow. "Apna lagte ho" MK 😍

    • @cvry2813
      @cvry2813 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your culture is different than ours

    • @tejug1161
      @tejug1161 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask your muslim people to stop desecrating Hindu temples and attacking Hindu people especially women.

  • @Threektwookonk
    @Threektwookonk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I almost choked on my cookie when she said she moved to Birmingham Al. Omg I live in Birmingham and it’s really cool there’s a connection between your family and my hometown

  • @christinaaa1311
    @christinaaa1311 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Your dadi ma is so kind:) I love this video, it makes me miss my Yiayia (Greek for Grandmother) who me and my siblings were very close to. I really liked the point she made of home being where your family is. Whoever that may be for you, wherever those you care about the most are, that is home.

    • @LucGPTnki
      @LucGPTnki 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you pronounce Yiayia? Is it Yeeeahhyeeeahh or are the "i"s silent?

    • @christinaaa1311
      @christinaaa1311 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LucGPTnki it's kind of like like "yah-yah." the i's are there but barely ya know? lol in Greek it's Γιαγια (with an accent on the second ya but idk how to do the accent mark on this keyboard).

  • @maya_moto
    @maya_moto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    *I bond with and live like my Indian grandmother for 1 week

  • @bhavyasrivastava8072
    @bhavyasrivastava8072 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Your grandma is so organized! And the way she is explaining everything is so precise. She is adorable like any other grandma♥️

  • @manjifera
    @manjifera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm following you after looking your surname. Sounds related to Maharashtra, India.

    • @akasht7452
      @akasht7452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually she is coz her grandma keeps saying baba word which is usually find in Maharashtratian n Bengali family

  • @elvergudo678
    @elvergudo678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When we lose an elder not only do we lose a loved one but we lose a guide to life,a guardian angel we kind of lose our sense of direction in life when they're gone. Cherish their advice and if they call you out dont argue just listen to them

  • @paintbrush0300
    @paintbrush0300 6 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    Grandmas don't measure, be it Italian American Indian African :D

  • @urja5118
    @urja5118 6 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Dress for 9days of navratri, the Indian festival

    • @kinalakhani
      @kinalakhani 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Urja Mangukia yess Navratri is the best!

  • @Sha-Ne-Ru
    @Sha-Ne-Ru 6 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    i never knew you were half white tbh lol
    But i loved this video!
    would be good to see a version of you having a moment with your white side too ^^

    • @latronqui
      @latronqui 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes, I would like that too. On some of her old buzzfeed videos she appeared with her mom and talked about how kids at school used to tease her because she was brown and her mother white and they said that should mean she was adopted. When they actually have the same facial features. If you want you can try and find those, but you're right, it would be nice to see more family content on this channel.

  • @CraigAnderson-h2h
    @CraigAnderson-h2h หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a young woman with so much natural grace and charm, the blending of cultures has worked perfectly in you!

  • @1lovemycats
    @1lovemycats 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Michelle: i love color
    Me: uhhh
    Michelle: wearing black
    Me:I thought you loved color

  • @BriannaaGracee
    @BriannaaGracee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    This made me so emotional and I cried a lot. I’m not sure why, I’m extremely white and I don’t have a culture to connect to like this. It makes me just appreciate our world and the people in it.

    • @DieAlteistwiederda
      @DieAlteistwiederda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Even if you are white, if you live in the US there is some European heritage to learn about. Europe isn't that big but packed full of different countries with vastly different cultures.

    • @HudsonGirl14
      @HudsonGirl14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Everyone comes from from somewhere. You may not have traditional representations of your "culture" like food and dress, but you have a heritage of so many people that lived full and beautiful lives of hardship and joy for you to exist. For me personally, finding those stories through genealogy has helped me build my relationships with my living relatives and connect with the people I'll never meet.

    • @nelsonth
      @nelsonth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      C'mon, America has been around for so long. That is your heritage.

    • @Sophiiixoxo
      @Sophiiixoxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      White people DO have culture, you eejit.

    • @SplitWasTaken
      @SplitWasTaken 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The reason why you have no culture is not because you're white, but because you're from the United States

  • @SanjayPulver
    @SanjayPulver 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was born in India but was adopted by a white family in San Diego when I was 13 months. Watching this video made me so happy that you can connect with that part of your heritage in a way that I probably won't be able to. So thank you for bringing that representation into the media.

  • @АнастасияШалимова-х2к
    @АнастасияШалимова-х2к 6 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Wow..you videos really leveled up.. you've grown so much..
    Love you!

  • @yours2901
    @yours2901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    We need a skincare routine from Dadi , her skin is ageless

  • @abelaryan7796
    @abelaryan7796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    " I don't measure " I'm pretty sure that's literally the asian way of cooking, asians rarely measure it's only with thought LOL 😂 😂 😍

  • @georgiasono5869
    @georgiasono5869 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Would you please do a video on your parents' interracial marriage? Being from a conservative culture myself, I would love to see how other families have accepted someone different from them. Love the work you are doing and have been rooting for you since your early buzzfeed videos. Keep it up!

  • @ShivCreates
    @ShivCreates 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Do all indian grandmas have the same flowers roses and marigolds 😂😂😂😂

    • @samruddhipatil6212
      @samruddhipatil6212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha yes

    • @AparnaBL
      @AparnaBL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And different varieties of jasmines and gardenia

    • @sudharanikb4331
      @sudharanikb4331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Marigolds and roses are widely used in Pooja and other Traditional Rituals so it's common I guess.

    • @AparnaBL
      @AparnaBL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sudharanikb4331 even Jasmines are used and marigolds come in diff colors too

  • @gamingwithalyssa466
    @gamingwithalyssa466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m Indian Canadian mix! :D
    I love it in Canada but India is a huge part of my life, I live in India and I am not Hindi in India I’m just India :) I’ve been in Canada my whole life I’ve never been able to visit my family and cousins I’ve only visited the Canadian ones.. it’s hard for me but y’know it’ll happen eventually

  • @svsproductions1
    @svsproductions1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best trip of my life was to India for a few weeks. I love everything about the culture and food and history

  • @nin4906
    @nin4906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video is lovely, I'm half Thai and in two weeks i'll be going to thailand with my grandparents and i'm so excited to learn more about Thai culture. We go to temples and the small local Thai festivals here, but I am so excited to experience things like my gandmother did and like my mom did when she was young. I would always ask my mom what her life was like in Thailand and what it was like moving here, how hard it was for her being in high/middle school and having to learn English and grow accustomed to a new life, especially living in the southern states. i've never asked my grandmother what it was like because for some reason, I never knew how to, but I want to ask her about everything :)

    • @xo4747
      @xo4747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This has nothing to do with the video.

  • @vireshchopra8471
    @vireshchopra8471 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It was kinda fresh to see things from someone's perspective when you do the same things. Like going to the temple is something that I don't do anymore and seeing her excited to go there made me so happy. I don't really give much thought to like the food that I eat like the bhindi masala that I love and aloo gobhi(cauliflower) but seeing her experiencing them as a new thing made me kinda happy that I have these things

  • @jheevanesh
    @jheevanesh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I thought my Tamil was bad until I heard her Hindi but good job Michelle!!!👍🏾 You're trying your best to learn your heritage

    • @surajsingh1161
      @surajsingh1161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I hope you'll learn it soon..it would be really sad if your future generations wouldn't understand a single word of Tamil! Just don't forget your roots

    • @jheevanesh
      @jheevanesh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@surajsingh1161 owh ive TRIED. So in Malaysia, *SOME* primary school have extra People's Origin Language (POL) on Fridays while the Muslims have prayers for an hour weekly, and I've been going for 4 YEARS yet nothing enters my head LMAO. I'm 18 now but I can only read in kindergarten standard lol but I'll definitely work more on it

    • @karinakapoor884
      @karinakapoor884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I speak Tamil too ! i live abroad but still cant read or write it but speak and understand it fluently

    • @jinkies2609
      @jinkies2609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      tamil!! my tamil is super palakkad but it’s Fine

    • @KakashiHatake-sw2sy
      @KakashiHatake-sw2sy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jheevanesh Please learn Tamil , it's one of the oldest Indian languages . You are a Tamil , it's your responsibility to take your language forward so that it may live for another 5000 years.

  • @siddhireddy3066
    @siddhireddy3066 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m an Indian and it’s so nice to see you wearing those beautiful dresses ❤

  • @ladianaify
    @ladianaify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it is a huge shame that you didn't learn hindi as a child and sort of maintained it through life. it is a beautiful ancient language. i also regret not working on my heritage language, as a second gen. immigrant. i recall being rebellious and refusing to speak it as a kid because l was bullied at school for being a different nationality.

  • @malicar.406
    @malicar.406 6 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    OMG I’VE NEVER CLICKED SO FAST LOL
    LOVE YOU 😍