Dear Steph, I've been watching you for some time now and as a 63 year old Aussie nan, I just want you to know that you are amazing. Your girls light up when you're with them, you are such a great mum, and its so obvious the love between you and Ryan. For someone so young to have achieved so much just proves that you are strong, focused and reliable, I know it gets hard sometimes and I certainly don't know what is happening in your world behind the scenes, but don't give up, it will get better (I wish I could give you a big hug)you have the support of a wonderful husband and 2 beautiful little girls and of course all of us. I'm so proud of you Steph, look at you, you're incredible and beautiful and humble and clever and funny and I could go on and on, ( as you can probably guess, I'm in awe of you)❤❤❤. I want you to stand in front of the mirror and say these things to you ,I would love to say them to you myself face to face but im yelling at the phone right now , hoping that you realize who you are. I'm so impressed by you and your achievements. Head up girl, look ahead, and keep moving forward. It only gets better.
Stay strong Steph, even though this seems a tough time, and change is tough! You’ve just got to ride the waves, and what doesn’t get done, it doesn’t matter! We all have tough times, some more than others, so hang in there, you have a whole platform of support and people who love you! So glad you shared, it’s important you do, for your own mental health, and tears are good! 😢hang in their ❤❤❤
Watching you in that season reminds me of myself in early motherhood. It broke me. I had never felt so perpetually sad in all my life, during a time I was consistently reminded “would go so fast, and to enjoy it”. But I did smile again - I belly laugh again, and I am so proud to have always put my responsibility of being the best mum I can be, first. I can see you are doing the same with you girls and Ryan, even though you are hurting. You are so resilient! There is a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s going to shine SO bright for you xx Take care
I understand you so well Steph ! I ve been running my small business for 20 years , working 18 hours a day, sleeping on a couch 1 to 2 nights a week cause i felt too tired and sleepy to drive 35 min to go back home ... The financial pressure of being the provider of the family ? I know everything about it, as much as the pressure of making the right decisions ALL THE TIME, as much as the loneliness of being in charge of everything all the time cause, you re the boss ! I ve spent hours to cry some nights, wondering if it was worth it too ... At least you have 2 beautiful girls and Ryan who seems to be a good and supportive hubby :) Life has been very difficult for you during the last 2 years and it s all natural that you re felling overwhelmed bit please focus on the positive and on all the things you accomplished till now ! It s amazing Steph, so cheer up and don't feel bad or sorry to be emotional, for your sake, you Need to talk and express your difficulties and i m sure that all the people like me who are following your story for years will support you and give you strength Never forget that YOU RE DOING A GREAT JOB STEPH, as a mother, as a wife, as an entrepreneur !
You are so amazing and inspiring and it breaks my heart seeing you so sad and overwhelmed and working so much. Working nights can get lonely and you’re doing well just to survive right now. You’ve helped so many of us as has your business. Thanks for all your creations and your honesty and vulnerability. ❤
Matthew 11:28-30 kjv Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. ❤🙏
Girl, thank you for showing up how you do, tears and all. For giving your community a look into the behind the scenes of what it takes, physically and mentally, to run your incredible business 🙌 You show up as you are, and I know that your honesty and vulnerability cuts that invisible line between being on social media and the real world audience. You have shown up as authentically as possible and I can only thank you for those days where life feels really lonely, hard and sad, knowing that other people are going through the same motions. Cannot wait to see what the universe has for you after these 💩💩 years!! Sending love ❤️
Your such a lovely person sometimes you need to express yourself and show your feelings and let it out over all you’ve achieved hell of a lot well done steph❤👍
Small business owner here too and relate 💛 It's a journey not for the feint of heart. Let your team support you and piece by piece you'll reclaim your personal life.
Thank you for sharing what you did. This year I've lost my grandmother to cancer - she and I were so very close as we are similar. I feel a responsibility to check in with my grandad and make sure he's doing okay as they were married for 60 years this year. It's surreal to think I can't just call her and hear her voice. On top of that it's flat out at work and I've come to realise that it's not a career I want and I'm now deciding I need to embark on a uni degree so that I can set myself up where I want to be in 5 years. I leave home before 6am and get home after 7pm. I get about 20min of 1 on 1 time with my son on those days. It's hard and it makes you question whether it's worth it. in 5 years he will be a teenager....in 10 years he will potentially be moving out. On top of this, I lost my dad to cancer in 2018 and finally my mum found another love, who is now terminal with cancer. Life sucks sometimes. Build in those 5min breathing sessions for you. In this vlog I saw a present mum! There are mums that stay at home but are distracted on their phones etc - but you make those moments count! that's what they will remember! They'll also remember climbing on the shelving at the warehouse. They will see how strong their mum is. They will see what a supportive husband looks like. They see you! You are doing great! You do dis! From...another Steph
Dear Steph, I thought something was up. You are amazing. Please maybe reach out for some help, maybe some close girlfriends to pull together. Please don’t be too hard on yourself. If I could help, I would be there for you. ❤
Grief and loss is so hard. I lost my sister 4 years ago and I’ve been trapped in a psychological prison since. She was my best friend. I’ve been raising her daughter and have 3 kids of my own, two very young and have decided I just can’t do it anymore. I feel this massive sense of obligation to my sister. My mum is very unsupportive and has caused me a lot of trauma. I know how hard life can be. Sending hugs ❤
I wish I could give you a hug in person but since I can't....a virtual hug will have to do 🫂 I've been watching your content for the last 3 years and you are doing amazing things. We're never 100% all the time and that is okay, I think as humans we put to much pressure on ourselves and often times think its not okay to fail, to be sad, or show emotions. My mom passed in December and I haven't been the same since, I wake up everyday and make a conscious effort to just carry on. Just know that you're not alone, life throws us some curve balls but you're strong and you have an amazing support system (no matter how small) This community appreciates you and all that you do ❤💜
You might not think it but your doing such an amazing job! Your kids will look back and want to be just like you! 💪🏼 Was wondering where the sensory/fidget stuff is from? Would love to make up a calming book for my son also xx
Steph I think you're amazing!! An amazing mum, wife, businesswoman and human being. Everything you create is beautiful 😊. Your hard work is going to be rewarded, and your Dad and Nan are smiling down on you. Hang in there, sending big hugs 💜
Just think of it as hurdle and it's a big one, stay strong and you'll conqueror it. Hope it all unfolds really soon know how you feel. Also at the moment I think sleep is overrated to get things done....keep going !!!!!!!!!❤
Sending much love steph and big hugs.❤ Sweetheart you have to put you and your little family first don't worry about letting others down. (Love you Steph)
Huge hug from me. I’ve been wanting to just come over and help you out at work 😄 I feel for you and we all love you (your YT Steph Fam)!! It’s beautiful to see your genuine self, never apologise for that. Stay strong and we’re here for you 🥰💕☕️
Sending my love to you and your family Steph! It’s a season and you will get through it and come out stronger on the other side. Those girls will see all the work you are putting in and although they might not appreciate it now they will one day see how your hard work was all for them xx
Stick with the craziness Steph, I worked with 2 kids and it was a real balancing act but they are now 18 and 20 and working themselves and everything is so much easier ❤
Take care of yourself Steph we all love you and are behind you all the way. The girls have grown so much my goodness so full of beans they’re just darling. ❤😊
Hey Steph, , I understand you more than you will ever know I have had to make those hard decisions witch break your heart but trust me you will come out the other side much stronger you are doing a great job love one another and be kind to yourself ❤❤
Big hugs for you lovely your girls will look back at you and be so proud of how hard you’ve worked and juggled it all you are the most amazing mum I feel you with loosing a nan that’s like your mum it’s heartbreaking ❤ we’re all here for you xo
You are so strong and such an amazing person from the inside, out! I hope you know just how inspiring you are. I know 'keep going' sounds so much easier in theory so thankyou for being honest and relatable on so many levels xxx
Steph how do you pull off looking so pretty while your crying 😅. Aside from that i literally wanted to reach through and give you a massive hug. I hope you get some you time soon. Sending so much love xx
I promise it will get easier. Hang in there and try and stay strong. Don’t take work with you on your cruise, it will do you good to switch off for a while (I know it is hard to do, but it is needed) 💕
You have achieved so much, being a great mum of two gorgeous girls, a wonderful wife to a great man, and an owner of a successful business. You are going through grief as well. Be kind to yourself as you are going through so much. You are going to get through this. Sending hugs.❤❤❤
You deserve all the amazing things coming your way. Excited to see you come out of the other side of this challenging time and get to enjoy some time with your beautiful family that you and Ryan have created ❤
Awww I just wanted to give you the biggest hug.. your so blessed to have such a supportive husband to help you through it all and your beautiful daughters. My daughter is also 8 and gosh they are the best
I cried with you, Steph. My heart breaks for you. I really does. You are such an amazing and beautiful person. Keep going and give yourself grace. Everything is all worth it and it will all work out in the end. Look after YOU. First and foremost ❤🥹
Steph grief is so hard. Add parenting to the mix and it’s a blessing and curse all at once. You’re so busy you don’t have time to grieve then it catches up with up. Stay strong ❤
Dear Steph, I've been watching you for some time now and as a 63 year old Aussie nan, I just want you to know that you are amazing. Your girls light up when you're with them, you are such a great mum, and its so obvious the love between you and Ryan. For someone so young to have achieved so much just proves that you are strong, focused and reliable, I know it gets hard sometimes and I certainly don't know what is happening in your world behind the scenes, but don't give up, it will get better (I wish I could give you a big hug)you have the support of a wonderful husband and 2 beautiful little girls and of course all of us. I'm so proud of you Steph, look at you, you're incredible and beautiful and humble and clever and funny and I could go on and on, ( as you can probably guess, I'm in awe of you)❤❤❤. I want you to stand in front of the mirror and say these things to you ,I would love to say them to you myself face to face but im yelling at the phone right now , hoping that you realize who you are. I'm so impressed by you and your achievements. Head up girl, look ahead, and keep moving forward. It only gets better.
I second all of that steph. You are truly amazing. ❤
Does Ryan not work anymore. Why is it all on your shoulders?
Stay strong Steph, even though this seems a tough time, and change is tough! You’ve just got to ride the waves, and what doesn’t get done, it doesn’t matter! We all have tough times, some more than others, so hang in there, you have a whole platform of support and people who love you! So glad you shared, it’s important you do, for your own mental health, and tears are good! 😢hang in their ❤❤❤
Thankyou so much 🥹
Watching you in that season reminds me of myself in early motherhood. It broke me. I had never felt so perpetually sad in all my life, during a time I was consistently reminded “would go so fast, and to enjoy it”. But I did smile again - I belly laugh again, and I am so proud to have always put my responsibility of being the best mum I can be, first. I can see you are doing the same with you girls and Ryan, even though you are hurting. You are so resilient! There is a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s going to shine SO bright for you xx Take care
I understand you so well Steph !
I ve been running my small business for 20 years , working 18 hours a day, sleeping on a couch 1 to 2 nights a week cause i felt too tired and sleepy to drive 35 min to go back home ...
The financial pressure of being the provider of the family ? I know everything about it, as much as the pressure of making the right decisions ALL THE TIME, as much as the loneliness of being in charge of everything all the time cause, you re the boss !
I ve spent hours to cry some nights, wondering if it was worth it too ...
At least you have 2 beautiful girls and Ryan who seems to be a good and supportive hubby :)
Life has been very difficult for you during the last 2 years and it s all natural that you re felling overwhelmed bit please focus on the positive and on all the things you accomplished till now !
It s amazing Steph, so cheer up and don't feel bad or sorry to be emotional, for your sake, you Need to talk and express your difficulties and i m sure that all the people like me who are following your story for years will support you and give you strength
Never forget that YOU RE DOING A GREAT JOB STEPH, as a mother, as a wife, as an entrepreneur !
Thank you for being so down to earth. Not sugar coating life. Thanks for being amazing!
I appreciate that!🥹
You’re amazing steph, thanks for sharing and I hope these new team members help to take some pressure off you!!
You are so amazing and inspiring and it breaks my heart seeing you so sad and overwhelmed and working so much. Working nights can get lonely and you’re doing well just to survive right now. You’ve helped so many of us as has your business. Thanks for all your creations and your honesty and vulnerability. ❤
Matthew 11:28-30 kjv
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
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Girl, thank you for showing up how you do, tears and all. For giving your community a look into the behind the scenes of what it takes, physically and mentally, to run your incredible business 🙌
You show up as you are, and I know that your honesty and vulnerability cuts that invisible line between being on social media and the real world audience. You have shown up as authentically as possible and I can only thank you for those days where life feels really lonely, hard and sad, knowing that other people are going through the same motions.
Cannot wait to see what the universe has for you after these 💩💩 years!! Sending love ❤️
Aww love you 🥹🥹🥹
please go see a therapist I should've gone sooner losing family is hard...
Keep your chin up. You’re doing a great job.
Your such a lovely person sometimes you need to express yourself and show your feelings and let it out over all you’ve achieved hell of a lot well done steph❤👍
Small business owner here too and relate 💛 It's a journey not for the feint of heart. Let your team support you and piece by piece you'll reclaim your personal life.
If I lived in Sydney I would love to work for you Steph 🥰
Thank you for sharing what you did. This year I've lost my grandmother to cancer - she and I were so very close as we are similar. I feel a responsibility to check in with my grandad and make sure he's doing okay as they were married for 60 years this year. It's surreal to think I can't just call her and hear her voice. On top of that it's flat out at work and I've come to realise that it's not a career I want and I'm now deciding I need to embark on a uni degree so that I can set myself up where I want to be in 5 years. I leave home before 6am and get home after 7pm. I get about 20min of 1 on 1 time with my son on those days. It's hard and it makes you question whether it's worth it. in 5 years he will be a teenager....in 10 years he will potentially be moving out. On top of this, I lost my dad to cancer in 2018 and finally my mum found another love, who is now terminal with cancer. Life sucks sometimes. Build in those 5min breathing sessions for you. In this vlog I saw a present mum! There are mums that stay at home but are distracted on their phones etc - but you make those moments count! that's what they will remember! They'll also remember climbing on the shelving at the warehouse. They will see how strong their mum is. They will see what a supportive husband looks like. They see you! You are doing great! You do dis! From...another Steph
Dear Steph, I thought something was up. You are amazing. Please maybe reach out for some help, maybe some close girlfriends to pull together. Please don’t be too hard on yourself. If I could help, I would be there for you. ❤
Grief and loss is so hard. I lost my sister 4 years ago and I’ve been trapped in a psychological prison since. She was my best friend. I’ve been raising her daughter and have 3 kids of my own, two very young and have decided I just can’t do it anymore. I feel this massive sense of obligation to my sister. My mum is very unsupportive and has caused me a lot of trauma. I know how hard life can be. Sending hugs ❤
I wish I could give you a hug in person but since I can't....a virtual hug will have to do 🫂 I've been watching your content for the last 3 years and you are doing amazing things. We're never 100% all the time and that is okay, I think as humans we put to much pressure on ourselves and often times think its not okay to fail, to be sad, or show emotions. My mom passed in December and I haven't been the same since, I wake up everyday and make a conscious effort to just carry on. Just know that you're not alone, life throws us some curve balls but you're strong and you have an amazing support system (no matter how small) This community appreciates you and all that you do ❤💜
You might not think it but your doing such an amazing job! Your kids will look back and want to be just like you! 💪🏼
Was wondering where the sensory/fidget stuff is from? Would love to make up a calming book for my son also xx
Loved seeing your brother and seeing how you organise stuff xx
Thank you!! 😊
Steph I think you're amazing!! An amazing mum, wife, businesswoman and human being. Everything you create is beautiful 😊.
Your hard work is going to be rewarded, and your Dad and Nan are smiling down on you.
Hang in there, sending big hugs 💜
Just think of it as hurdle and it's a big one, stay strong and you'll conqueror it. Hope it all unfolds really soon know how you feel. Also at the moment I think sleep is overrated to get things done....keep going !!!!!!!!!❤
Sending much love steph and big hugs.❤
Sweetheart you have to put you and your little family first don't worry about letting others down. (Love you Steph)
Huge hug from me. I’ve been wanting to just come over and help you out at work 😄 I feel for you and we all love you (your YT Steph Fam)!! It’s beautiful to see your genuine self, never apologise for that.
Stay strong and we’re here for you 🥰💕☕️
Sending my love to you and your family Steph! It’s a season and you will get through it and come out stronger on the other side. Those girls will see all the work you are putting in and although they might not appreciate it now they will one day see how your hard work was all for them xx
I see a different you, but I know why. You are greate, what others think is not importent. Concentrate on you and the family, amd you all will be ok❤
Stick with the craziness Steph, I worked with 2 kids and it was a real balancing act but they are now 18 and 20 and working themselves and everything is so much easier ❤
Take care of yourself Steph we all love you and are behind you all the way. The girls have grown so much my goodness so full of beans they’re just darling. ❤😊
You're amazing with everything you do! Very inspiring! Love listening to your podcasts too 🥰
Hey Steph, , I understand you more than you will ever know I have had to make those hard decisions witch break your heart but trust me you will come out the other side much stronger you are doing a great job love one another and be kind to yourself ❤❤
You are doing amazing, hopefully there’s light at the end of the tunnel now you have some extra help at work. Take care x
Oh please stay strong, I'm so happy you have said this it's helping me. Love your posts we are all here for you 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Big hugs for you lovely your girls will look back at you and be so proud of how hard you’ve worked and juggled it all you are the most amazing mum I feel you with loosing a nan that’s like your mum it’s heartbreaking ❤ we’re all here for you xo
You are so strong and such an amazing person from the inside, out!
I hope you know just how inspiring you are. I know 'keep going' sounds so much easier in theory so thankyou for being honest and relatable on so many levels xxx
Steph how do you pull off looking so pretty while your crying 😅. Aside from that i literally wanted to reach through and give you a massive hug. I hope you get some you time soon. Sending so much love xx
Aww Steph I just want to give you a big hug. ❤ Feeling it all too for complete polar opposite reasons but glad I’m not alone!
Enjoy your cruise.
I promise it will get easier. Hang in there and try and stay strong. Don’t take work with you on your cruise, it will do you good to switch off for a while (I know it is hard to do, but it is needed) 💕
You have achieved so much, being a great mum of two gorgeous girls, a wonderful wife to a great man, and an owner of a successful business. You are going through grief as well. Be kind to yourself as you are going through so much. You are going to get through this. Sending hugs.❤❤❤
You deserve all the amazing things coming your way. Excited to see you come out of the other side of this challenging time and get to enjoy some time with your beautiful family that you and Ryan have created ❤
Does Ryan not work any more, I thought he had a building business? So sorry you’re going through this ❤
Awww I just wanted to give you the biggest hug.. your so blessed to have such a supportive husband to help you through it all and your beautiful daughters. My daughter is also 8 and gosh they are the best
Keep up the good work Steph everything does happen for a reason sometimes it baffles us but keep the chin up the light is at the end of the tunnel ❤❤❤
Where is that bookshelf from behind your desk! i love it
I was worried and thinking I missed an update on your dog and then finally saw the dog in like minute 20 and felt so relieved! ❤
She’s here she blends in lol she’s old but 😢
Hold your head up high Steph! You’re doing great and quite an inspiration to a lot of us ❤
Sending you lots of love Steph. ♥♥♥. This too shall pass.
Love you Steph, sending lots of love and strength xx
Im so sorry you are going through this season. You are doing a great job xx
The water between Australia and NZ is so rough, be prepared with sick medications. We did it a few years ago 🫣🤢
Particularly this time of year
Thanks for your authenticity and sharing with us. You are appreciated and doing so well
I appreciate that!🥹🥹
Look after yourself x
Steph, you got this 😘 Just remember, this too will pass... Just keep the end goal in sight, you can get there.. Love from Northern Ireland 😍
You need a t shirt
It's not all sunshine and daisies
Haha yess
I cried with you, Steph. My heart breaks for you. I really does. You are such an amazing and beautiful person. Keep going and give yourself grace. Everything is all worth it and it will all work out in the end. Look after YOU. First and foremost ❤🥹
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Good job Steph your doing an amazing job with your business and family. You will get through this and come out stronger 🧡🤍💙
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Steph grief is so hard. Add parenting to the mix and it’s a blessing and curse all at once. You’re so busy you don’t have time to grieve then it catches up with up. Stay strong ❤