You're An Undercover Addict: Nikeia Wyche v Antwain Wyche
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ย. 2023
- Nikeia says Antwain is the love of her life, but she says she can’t compete with his pill addiction. She says this is his last chance to get clean and save their marriage.
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She knew he was an addict. She pushed the envelope to get married too quickly. Her demand should have been he come to the relationship/marriage clean. She also knew he was trying to sell the drugs he uses. This is nuts.
I agree with you She knew he was selling drugs to get her bling. She’s an enabler
Exactly.
I'm sorry, but if a man has to go get his stomach pumped and then reconstructed because of his drug use, that's your cue to exit. 😂
Instead she kept pursuing him.
I don't feel sorry for her at all.
Right! I don’t believe for one second that she didn’t know what was up…how else could he bring thousands of dollars a week home 🙄
Exactly smh she created her own drama with this one
I mean yeah but when you love someone sometimes you’re in denial. For example my mom has a weed addiction all my life and I didn’t see it as addiction until now.
As a fellow recovering addict, his sobriety is his responsibility solely. He has to want sobriety more than anything else in the world. He has to take accountability period or he’ll never become clean.
As the ex wife of an addict I agree with this 100%. It doesn’t matter how much you want an addict to get better if they aren’t ready and willing.
Agree! No amount of pushing from his wife can keep him clean if he’s not ready. Recovery is a life-long commitment and requires absolute dedication.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 so glad you are in recovery ❤️🩹
He doesn't appear happy about his path
Now this is 100% accurate!! Blessings on your sobriety 🙏🏽
He's not lying when he was bringing home all that D boy money she cool with it, I believe that.
Hell yeah, she was lovin that shit! Bills paid and shopping 🛍 sprees!
Yeap, me too!
That’s usually how it goes smh
Why is she trying to play Mary Poppins she knew what life he was in.
Agree
Hell yeah! She know good and well she was spending with NO PROBLEM
Exactly she like that fast money
My heart breaks for him... Mental health issues is no joke. I wish him the best ❤
Sounds like past trauma
@@annettescroggins3905 yup sure do 😥
@Pineapplesrmyfriends no one is missing the fact that he is an addict but there is the bigger picture which leads to the behavior and that man is hurt and damaged. Nothing is wrong for having a little compassion for him.
This man confessing to his crimes and her pretending not to know he was hustling is crazy
I pray for his sobriety. 🙏
I hope he is praying as well.
She can't do anything to get him clean. HE has to want to be clean. She can take him and drop him off at any rehab clinic she wants. Until HE wants to do it, it ain't happening.
The exact same thing I said!!!
Let’s just pray that he wants to get better
Yes she can, by walking out there with him. " Because she wants this marriage"
I wish that young man a happy life - drug free / substance free. Rooting for him. Childhood trauma can have serious consequences and can dictate how we move as adults.
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I like him. He seems genuine and is crying a cry so of our black men cry. 😭 I pray that he can make it!
He sounds broken … I think he needs 30 days in-patients at least … my prayers are with them ❤
He seems like a good guy. He just needs to take the steps to face his trauma. And he has a good wife. He's gonna lose everything if he goes on like this. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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Good people don’t sell and use drugs. These people need to be held accountable.
I really like the defendant. He is speaking from the heart. May God heal him and may he redeem his happiness and marriage.
He needs to be listened to. Yes, he needs to go to rehab AND therapy!! Therapy! No, lady. I don't believe that she didn't know he was dealing. Who has a regular job and brings home 3k-4k a day?! She knew... my heart goes out to him. I lost a beloved due to overdose. ❤
Yes he needs therapy that’s who will listen to him… all that talking without action falls on deaf ears 💯
I just broke up with someone that was a bad alcoholic. He went to rehab, got sober for a few months and went right back to drinking… went back to rehab and went back to drinking and now he’s in rehab again only because I broke up with him… I hope he stays sober this time but either way he won’t be bringing me down anymore
Hope he gets sober. Glad you did the best thing for you
Addiction is powerful. Forgive, learn from the experience, and keep moving.
You made the right choice
Smart move!👍😊
It’s giving manipulation. Yea we done with that!!!!
Sending prayers his way. Addiction is a hard battle. He has to take accountability
I actually like him. He seems down to earth, just needs to get help. I really pray for sobriety for him because they seem like a nice couple. But she seems like she’s already emotionally detached even though she says she will stick by him, something seems like she’s just saying it. But good luck to them. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What I can't figure out is why she decided to still marry him knowing that he's an addict
Because she thought she could change him.
@@Pinkypromise8812facts there are some women that really think they can do that
Rehab, therapy, and finding new hobbies will help him alot. I also don't believe that she didnt know he was an addict because he said it was worse before he got married.
He needs to surround himself with friends and family that are gonna support his recovery too
Star Jones just rolled right over when he said he has had insomnia since he was 12. If that's true, there😂is some trauma at the root of his addiction.
That’s why she brought in the Dr. that’s not her specialty
😂 Judge Starr be full of ish... When it was that woman addict on here not too long ago she was all sympathetic and trying to comfort her but now that it's a man her tolerance is low.... Nobody likes a person of authority who is bias....lol
Amen, she was talking more than listening.
He from the south and I know a lot of men all have the same issues. He don’t need to be married
Loving the new episodes!! Judge Star is letting them have it!!
HE CAN DO IT! I'M ROOTING FOR HIM🥳🎉🎊💖 You can tell he wants help he just doesn't know how to say it, I pray they stay together and get family counseling as well❤
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Bless him lord to get the help he needs to get clean from his drug addiction .
I pray this young man gets the help he needs. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽He seems like he has some major issues going on that he needs to address. He looks like he has a deep sadness inside him. 😢 you got this!! 🙏🏽💙
Follow up on this case please
Yes I wanna see how this case turns out.
He should have been gone once she found out about the girlfriend,, she ain't going nowhere and he knows that, SMH 💯
Low self-esteem will keep folks in situations they should've RAN from. Too many red flags to even think about a marriage.
She will eventually get frustrated it just takes time, plus it's hard watching someone you love not knowing when they could overdose
Why marry a person when you know he or she is an addict.
I like him and see why she likes him and loves him!!! He just needs help man.
He needs to change his location. It’s going to be hard to separate himself from his friends. However, addicts will find drugs anywhere.
I Pray 🙏🏽 that he gets clean and stays clean whether they're together or not!!!
Agree. I wish him well.
This is what I don't understand about some women. The brightest red flag is staring you in the face. You see the signs, know what's going on, but yet still get involved with a problematic man. She knew these things about him, and I truly believed him when he said when he was bringing all of the money in, she had nothing to say. Now she wants to complain. The dynamics in situations like this is weird. I will say this about him. He told the truth about his addiction, acknowledgement is the first step, and he's willing to get help. I feel sorry for him, and I hope whatever trauma he's been through to lead him to having a drug addiction, I hope he will get the help he need and save himself. God bless him.
Very well said! And honestly, I've seen this with women I know personally far too often. They ignore the major red flags because they're scared to be alone or don't have the confidence to face being alone, they place all their worth into a relationship. Hopefully he decides to want help and do better for himself, so she doesn't become another rehabilitation center for a broken man.
She outed him, about having pills and lean stored in their home🤦
The wife needs counseling she may not be an addict, but she is an enabler. Now she is complaining about what she has allowed. She needs to decide does she want to stay married? If she does she is in for a ride. But this is her choice. If not she needs to cut him off.
Ol girl just on there to bash him. She knew what he was doing from the jump. Now she wants him to change on her own time. She hasn't said anything about attempting to take him to rehab.
I said the same when she talking about, "and theres more" like girl we just heard this mn crying for help and you wanna keep talking about his problems like you a saint?!!
@@sydnitaylor3249 Facts
@sydnitaylor3249 as if she was enjoying humiliating him.
@@dukeyoungsworkout513 What is your experience living with or being an addict? Any?
@@sydnitaylor3249 You are so far off the base. You are in another totally different ballpark from where the game is being played. Trying to be "saint-like" has nothing to do with this issue. They are BOTH crying for help and neither knows how to effectively deal with the issue. They BOTH need help. Not from the people eating popcorn in the stands and enjoying the show.
Being with someone who has an addiction problem never ends well, he has an excuse for everything .
Excuses EXCUSEs excuses smh
Exactly - women need to run and stop trying to play rehabilitation houses for men who do not want to help themselves. It's unnecessary suffering to avoid temporary loneliness and self-reflection. There's a million thing we ALL can give an excuse for to condone our bad habits. He won't change unless he WANTS to.
@@inyourdreams444this the comment… women need to stop it and put self first. I was with an addict for 8 years, he put me through hell, even drugged me and stalked me. I got OUT. He’s 50 now and still fighting with is sobriety. He has dual diagnosis(alcohol/drugs/bipolar)
@@cdubya752 I'm glad you got away safe love. Women are not rehabilitation centers for bad behaved men with addictions. I wish more women would have the courage to step away from men who willingly continue to self-destruct. It bleeds over onto everyone around them. Good luck going forward!
Exactly
I hope he gets clean 🙏🏽
I really hope he gets the help he needs & makes it through!
Why some women won’t stopped the foolishness and stopped trying to save cracked heads,cheaters,prison buds,liars just know you can’t save them.put the good senses that god gave you to used
Can the church say amen 🙏.
Amen to that!
She was riding both didn't of the bench and wants to look innocent.
I feel for him. He has internal struggles and is coping with drugs.
We wish you to be victorious over your addictions. A lot of courage and love💖🌟
This is what desperate insecure women do , they get with fools like this .she should knw better to knw his actions were not suitable for him to be a husband, I don't knw we women think we can change a man it's frustrating to keep seeing these things
Honestly I don't feel bad for women who ignore the signs. He didn't even hide it, she wanted to save him and he gave her a run for her money fr
She knew about his drug... lifestyle, but married him. Hmm, I suggest In-Patient Detox care for him. His case seems extreme. I hope he gets clean for his health/livelihood. However, I am not a doctor.
Man he's being honest she's doing the most I don't like seeing a man being judged and belittled she knew the lifestyle he was in but she only cared about the benefits and when he decided to do what she asked and changed she wasn't willing to deal with the struggle. I pray he gets better frfr
I was looking for this comment. I believe him 100%. She was fine with all the money coming in, but like the saying goes, “Be careful what you wish for.”
Being an addict is sad. Trust and believe. I lost my big bro to a fentanyl OD in 2019. However, please stop lumping weed into the pile. Weed is not that boy’s issue.. She’s an enabler and he is addictive. They shouldn’t be together 💯 .
She was ok with him as long as he was bringing the street $$$ in. She new exactly what he was doing. I pray he gets the help he needs.
He needs therapy and rehab. His wife is playing naive
Judge ! Judge!
Your outfit Rocks!… and many more you wear..
He’s literally saying he needs an outlet to deal with his trauma. He’s saying just listen to me and the Judge is just dismissing what he’s asking for. Also, I feel like maybe she should’ve asked a Black Male substance abuse Counselor for familiarity.
He needs to talk to a psychologist not his wife. His wife listening to him won't help him. She doesn't have the tools to help him and to put that responsibility on her is unfair. That is a job for a psychologist. That's what the judge is saying.
As a wife, why wouldn’t I want to hear my husband out ? Of course she’s not skilled as a psychologist. But, he can’t vent to his wife about his childhood traumas or his feelings??
@@msp9810but I understand your point.
A man can vent to his wife but the other person has a valid point - allowing a man to vent while taking 0 action to help himself is asking yourself to become a rehabilitation center for broken men. He needs to WANT to seek therapy and professional help. If someone does not WANT to help themselves, prepare yourself for a long, hard, emotional & mental beat down. A wife cannot play every single role - that's why support groups, family, friends, therapy and professional help exist. You don't go to a dentist to fix a broken hip - you don't expect your wife/husband to play the roles of a professional mental health specialist or doctor. It's not fair to their own healthy state of being.
This is why men in the community will not seek help now - instead they go trauma dump onto another woman and sometimes it plays out in worser ways (them getting violent taking their anger out on her, etc). We have to stop this notion that we can be EVERYTHING to a man, it's not possible. We've lost too many women violently who tried to stick by addicts and men with mental health problems who would not seek help.
Hes using that as an excuse.
I wish them well. They seem like a good couple.
bless him LORD
Poor guy I feel for him 😢 wish him the best
God Bless Them Both
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This is heartbreaking
I really hope and pray he makes it
I want an update for them, especially him, man 🙏🏽
I’m not a star jones fan by any means and I haven’t watched her entire Raine on this show but I caught this episode and I’m glad I didn’t skip. This young man seems so ready for help you can hear the desperation in his voice. I hope his wife supports him as he helps himself
Most (if not all) addicts have that desperation in their voice and seem ready for help. Ambivalence is one of the biggest barriers they face. Many people who express the sympathy that I detect from you have been hurt because they don't understand the disease of addiction. There is definitely hope and I pray for both of them. However, IMO (as a mental health professional who works with addicts), he is talking a good game, and he believes what he's saying. But he has a long road ahead of him and it will progress, once his perspective changes. Because this is not it. He is not there yet.
😢 this makes me sad 😭, he seems like a nice guy, he just needs help, 🙏💪❤
I'm so happy and proud of you young man fight it🙏🏽
She knew he was a drug addict and drug dealer but she put that S on her chest thinking she could save him. You cannot save no one who doesn't want to save themselves.
Exactly, she knew. Cuz he not lying about him giving her money $2000-3000 every week. Look how she rolled her eyes and smirked. She knew
LET US KNOW HOW HE DOES
.PEOPLE DO CARE.❤❤❤
He simply can’t emotionally handle anything. If you’re sad, fearful or whatever go to a therapist and figure out the reason because your emotions ain’t going anywhere.
A Prayer for Anyone
Battling Addiction
Father God, thank You that nothing we struggle with is impossible for You to overcome. You are above all things, and in You, all things are held together.
This season is hard for all of us, but especially for our brothers and sisters battling addiction. Help them realize that their struggles do not define their identity or worth.
They are Your children, called by Your name, and set apart for Your purposes. Show them that their chains have been broken.
Help them to resist temptation so that they can embrace Your fullness of life. Give them Your strength to fight back when they feel overwhelmed, and place people in their lives who will support them.
Protect their bodies, hearts, and minds. Shield them from temptation, and deliver them from evil.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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Selah~
Amen ❤🙏🏾
this is one of the best episodes I’ve watched !
I LIKE this dude.
Blessings to Him, Her, Family and Community.
🎉 YOU GOT THIS SIR! 🎉
Great episode.......
Does anyone knows why the physical audience hasn't been returned to Divorce Court?
Just wondering why they still using the virtual audience and the places are opened back long ago.
Covid is still a thing and Star has heart problems she can’t afford to catch Covid. Especially in a society where folks would rather lie and put vulnerable people at risk than wash their hands and wear a mask.
Because Judge Star has a serious heart condition and getting CoVid may kill her. That’s one of the causes.
@@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 oh ok. I understand. Thanks for the clarification. Appreciated 🙏🏼
I plead the Blood of Jesus over him and that he seeks help. I just buried my niece 2weeks ago and still and always grieving terribly. I hate drugs!
I hope he gets clean. I would love an update a yr in the future
I love that red blazer and then the art on back was dope. Beautiful
Outpatient treatment is hard to make it work in the beginning he need inpatient treatment for most people
She has to safe herself and protect her own sanity. I hope this young man gets help. If he goes to jail, she will also. There should not have been a wedding.
She knew he was an addict and still married him. I also find it hard to believe that she didn’t know what he was doing to get money. If he didn’t have a job but brought in that much money…. SHE KNEW!!!!
EXCELLENT SHOW. BRAVO STAR!!!!
She was awesome as usual.
Funny that the jury showed more emotion for this man's pain than his own wife. I think they need a brake from each other.
She looks as if she doesn’t care!!😮
I hope he follow through and get the help he needs 🙏🏾
I pray for him to get that off back and life for good
If he doesn't get help he'll be another Fentanyl victim.
His illness is not about her it’s about him and his trauma
I feel for him. I think he really wants to get clean. Let's hope he takes the help.
He look like Chris from Everybody Hates Chris
Oh no😢, the lady in the galley who is crying just made me cry. I pray this young man finds a good male therapist. I know the struggle of not having anyone to talk to and having insomnia 😢. He gotta do this alone unfortunately. I pray he can pull through the long and consistent way❤
Homie think he the next lil Wayne 😂. I also thinks he’s right. When women see the money flow is coming short, they start complaining. No win situation. That’s why I stay single 😂
I agree with what the judge says however there's also one thing that she failed to mention or perhaps agree with. The fiance knew what he was doing or at least had an idea regarding how he was bringing in 2k-3k (if he's telling the truth). A week. That put you at roughly 100k and above.
- unless he had multiple streams of income that were legit including investments or something. let's be honest here.
-I think she was being intentionally obtuse so therefore she couldn't declare that she knew what he was doing..
- His health is COMPLETELY on him. She has to decide if she is going to help and in what fashion or leave.
Upload the other episodes please
I pray he can make it, I was an addict and the Lord Jesus Christ delivered me at the age of 20 and now I'm 60 and I never ever desired or touched another drug. Hallelujah, the love of my life, my Child's father lost the battle with crack addiction but at least he was saved, God had to take him while he was clean. The wages of sin is death.
Wishing hin the best
As soon as he opened his mouth it sounded like addict
Yep
Honestly I read her body language. Not only is his friends toxic, she is to. Because Judge Star was right. Take him to rehab, demand accountability. She don't want him doing drugs, but she don't mind him selling them to get what SHE wants. Girl bye!!!
As soon as he gets sober if he gets sober, he might realize she not worth nothing as well. I read right through that I don't care. . Cut her off sir!!!!!
And take your life serious !!!!
I hope he genuinely gets sober. But she is a enabler. She not it. At all.
She definitely seems like she doesn’t care!!😮
Wow
I've seen so many young people OD and die including in my own family within the past 3-4 years. He has to choose life or death.
I’m sick of people claiming red flags red flags. Ain’t a relationship on earth that never had a red flag. Bt people still can have healthy relationships. She knew what dude was on. He bringing 2 or 3 bands home with no job. Yeah she tired bt they just exposed dude as a drug dealer slash junkie. Some stuff to me is private
Some people need in house treatment for at least 30 days to get away from people places and things. .I hope he gets the help he needs 💜🙏💜
separate and allow him to clean himself up, meanwhile she should move on with her life., otherwise she will be strung along - waste her energy and power. Been there, wasted 10 years of husband going back and forth with abusing me. His focus must be on him, period. Not a wife. Patriarchy at its best, condition the women to give her energy, focus and powers to a male that is not worth it.
When does she listen to his problems. If she just let him talk things out. He won't use that much.
Judge Star is everything please stay your honor we love you Star Jones❤❤❤❤!!!! Please stay you and Judge Toller fan favorites glory❤❤🎉🎉
Ok Judge Star. Back to normal with their hair and style of dress. I love it you look extremely, professionally, beautiful.😊
So sad! 😢
First off, she can't and will not lie. About her not knowing ‼️ Secondly he need to chill, before he really be on ice. It's fentanyl poisoning out here. ONE PILL CAN KILL ‼️ Lean on GOD and not on cough syrup. Blessings in ya journey 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾
I hope everything worked out for this couple
This reminds me of the movie "Why do fools fall in love"
He can play the husband.