Owamie in today's world unlike before, a lot of men are being exposed with narcissism. And one of the main red flags of narcissism is control of everything around them. These men are so narcissistic and anyone challenging them becomes a threat and eventually if the culprit does not take control of the reigns he eliminates the threat..... So, so sad.
I met my ex and he didn't drink, we dated, got engaged, I fell pregnant and HE changed DRASTICALLY!!! We planned a healthy future and discussed things that are important for a good marriage but everything changed when he thought I'm not going anywhere. I left when I realized he's going to hit me now. He never hit me before but joked about killing me if I ever left. I trusted my gut and pulled a Khanye Mbau. Jumped 3 provinces when I left with just a small bag
all people in relationships .... even those not in them should go for monthly psychologist consulta its should be a national programme like feeding scheme this nation is going thru a lot of mental-psychological struggles
It's very sad to hear these kind of stories. It feels like it's now a normal part of life due to the many stories like this we hear everyday. My mother was killed in 2005 and we never got closure because the man also killed himself. Back then it was surprising when such happens. It's so heartbreaking that today it's just another story. If they had kids, I just hope they get strength to forgive and move on. It's difficult to live feeling like you were robbed of spending more time with your mother because of a stupid fool.
Rest in peace 🕊️🙏🏾 I hope mental health support becomes more accessible world over. People are walking around with a lot of unresolved trauma and end up doing the unthinkable. 🙏🏾
Queen ninja, your comment about the alcohol, spot on. Been through it with someone like that. Running away from many demons within him by alcohol. What a stressful situation. God removed them from my life and protected me
Doctors are dealing with a lot guys,A LOT,and here we are thinking they got it together kanti hai...I have a niece who's a counselor and sometimes she reaches a point where she can't take it anymore...sad story here
I just wanna say, a psychologist or even a psychiatrist might not be able to treat themselves even if they knew what was wrong with them and even if they help others with the same problem regularly. I do wish he had consulted with other professionals for help, but I do not think he was a fool. 'Mudengu ha di denguli' This is just very sad and scary 😓, May their souls rest in peace. I feel sorry for the woman especially, nobody deserves to have their life taken She was so young and gorgeous, now I am scared to fall in love.
U know u r not the first person saying. I have heard of quite a few psychologists committing to suicide. Exactly what u said is what the family members of those said. They could help others but not themselves....🥺
But sometimes we need to face the fact, you can date someone who never raised hand to any girl and who can never Harn a fly but evil spirits gets to that person with one mistake that person beat to you to death. Am just trying to say we also need to normalise praying and fight satan because these evil spirits gets to us easily because we do not pray, our generation does not pray am not gonna say most of us, am gonna say all of use because we spend our weekend's drunk every weekend, when do we get to have proper time to have time with the Lord without any disturbance as satan works 365 days 24 hours and 7 days. Whilst we only pray 2/3 days a weeks or once in a blue moon 😢 we need to do self introspection as this new generation
I have some empathy for him but my heart really breaks for her. It's so unfair! These men need to seek help for their mental issues so they can stop being so mentally fragile. If they're not cheating because their ego needs a boost, they're killing someone because they can't deal with their lives. Hayi sidiniwe. And you're right Owamie - money doesn't make a person emotionally stable and women need to stop ignoring the red flags. Rather overreact than under react. Don't let it be LITERALLY the hill you die on.
The subject/module "life skills" is needed out side of the subjects learned at school. When I was still in high school. Our school added an extra subject and it was called "life skills". I am not sure what is learned in "life orientation".
I feel This has nothing to do with education ,this is totally demonic and it can happen to any one irrespective of being educated or not.The devil is running rampage out there looking for someone to deviour. We just need to pray for marriages and relationships .usatana akafuni nto intle mntwini.
If you don't make Jesus your friend you will definitely make friends with the devil, he too whispers in many ears....I wish we can all see how comforting God is, the best friend one could ever ask for😊 I'm so sorry Wami
I'm so sorry sis ,my condolences. Tragedies like these leave those close with so many questions.What a sad video there is so much happening in our midst .Kubi maan ,kubi 😢.Sending hugs
Aaaaa😢😢😢😢wemaaaalooo😮😮😮😮😮 why am I thinking of all those years in school 🎒 for him to prove akananqhondo in the end 😭😮...iskole honestly doesn't mean konke uyakwazi. May their souls rest healing to the family
Leave the devil alone in this one. It’s the sick minded men who are raised to be entitled and to be comfortable in their toxic masculinity that are doing this.
As Someone who stands for human rights and justice I do understand that people are emotionally paralyzed out there, damaged and all but it gives no one the right to take another's life. Regardless of how bitter or hurt one may be. One only needs to work on themselves and move on from the things that are a constant trigger for them. Mental well-being and peace are of paramount importance
As a woman living in SA I get reminded everyday that chances of me dying a natural death are slim when I see such reports😢😢 may her soul rest in peace 🕊️ 🕊️🕊️
@Ntombikayise Faith Majola It's sad because South Africa is blessed with very beautiful women, yet most of us are not happy with these men. Kanti sizobatholaphi aba right😔
I don't think it's Men only...I think in some way a lot of people are broken but for me personally, I think Social Media is going to harm even more lives. Just look at how the story/business of the people we don't know is out in the open and worse, we even get to make comments about it unlike in the past where it was just radio, tv and newspapers,etc. I don't think people realise the damage social media has in today's generation.
Women are raising these men, what are we teaching them about respecting women? I have 4 brothers who respects their wives, that was instilled by my father who respected his wife. I have 2 sons who wil never disrespect their wives, because that is our culture as a family. My sisters in law always respected my mother, because she was fair to everyone whenever there was a dispute. Even those who were divorced from her sons were always welcome in the family. During family functions them and their children were welcome. Just like AKA's mum, that is how my mother treated the mother of our grandchildren. Leave all the hatred and bitterness behind, because the children did not ask to come into this world. We need good fathers to lead our families. We have to teach our children to be able to walk away and accept it when a relationship does not. Leave the ego behind as it will mislead you. You can't own another human being. No means no.
Education or qualifications for the most part means you were able to pass or get through that hurdle. It definitely is no measure of being smart. We have come to realize that some people have obtained their qualifications fraudulently. Many have their assignments done by ghost writers, the list goes on. We should never use a piece of paper as a measure of intelligence these days. Nr two, u can be educated and still have behavioral issues, of personal demons, childhood traumas that cause defects in your behavior. There are so called educated people who are women abusers, bullies, u name it. If you are a pedophile, the fact that u are educated will not wash that off. Ey its a lot. Education means nothing really . who you are is what matters and with or without an education u can be a good person or an evil person. Your qualification is just that, text book knowledge that you go and prove to have understoof in a test or practicals
I am very educated and I know how to articulate my opinions very well, that comes from education. But I also know that everyone struggles with mental illness. It’s not because they are foolish 😊
Owamie in today's world unlike before, a lot of men are being exposed with narcissism. And one of the main red flags of narcissism is control of everything around them. These men are so narcissistic and anyone challenging them becomes a threat and eventually if the culprit does not take control of the reigns he eliminates the threat..... So, so sad.
This is accurate
you are very correct
@@Ceceboki10 😉
Very true education does not Mean intelligence or emotional intelligence.
Ladies, the moment you see the red flags don’t try and dye them pink. Run!
👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 This should be put in billboards across the world!!! Because we try so much to dye those red flags. We need to walk and never look back.
Run period
Dye them pink😅
Baleka Gijima ngezinyawo ezimbili.
@@PEACEJ1154 😅
I met my ex and he didn't drink, we dated, got engaged, I fell pregnant and HE changed DRASTICALLY!!! We planned a healthy future and discussed things that are important for a good marriage but everything changed when he thought I'm not going anywhere. I left when I realized he's going to hit me now. He never hit me before but joked about killing me if I ever left. I trusted my gut and pulled a Khanye Mbau. Jumped 3 provinces when I left with just a small bag
Good for u babe.
Im really glad you followed your gut. Hope you're safe❤️
all people in relationships .... even those not in them
should go for monthly psychologist consulta
its should be a national programme like feeding scheme
this nation is going thru a lot of mental-psychological struggles
It's very sad to hear these kind of stories. It feels like it's now a normal part of life due to the many stories like this we hear everyday. My mother was killed in 2005 and we never got closure because the man also killed himself. Back then it was surprising when such happens. It's so heartbreaking that today it's just another story. If they had kids, I just hope they get strength to forgive and move on. It's difficult to live feeling like you were robbed of spending more time with your mother because of a stupid fool.
Rest in peace 🕊️🙏🏾
I hope mental health support becomes more accessible world over. People are walking around with a lot of unresolved trauma and end up doing the unthinkable. 🙏🏾
Queen ninja, your comment about the alcohol, spot on. Been through it with someone like that. Running away from many demons within him by alcohol. What a stressful situation. God removed them from my life and protected me
Doctors are dealing with a lot guys,A LOT,and here we are thinking they got it together kanti hai...I have a niece who's a counselor and sometimes she reaches a point where she can't take it anymore...sad story here
I just wanna say, a psychologist or even a psychiatrist might not be able to treat themselves even if they knew what was wrong with them and even if they help others with the same problem regularly. I do wish he had consulted with other professionals for help, but I do not think he was a fool. 'Mudengu ha di denguli' This is just very sad and scary 😓, May their souls rest in peace. I feel sorry for the woman especially, nobody deserves to have their life taken She was so young and gorgeous, now I am scared to fall in love.
U know u r not the first person saying. I have heard of quite a few psychologists committing to suicide. Exactly what u said is what the family members of those said. They could help others but not themselves....🥺
But sometimes we need to face the fact, you can date someone who never raised hand to any girl and who can never Harn a fly but evil spirits gets to that person with one mistake that person beat to you to death.
Am just trying to say we also need to normalise praying and fight satan because these evil spirits gets to us easily because we do not pray, our generation does not pray am not gonna say most of us, am gonna say all of use because we spend our weekend's drunk every weekend, when do we get to have proper time to have time with the Lord without any disturbance as satan works 365 days 24 hours and 7 days. Whilst we only pray 2/3 days a weeks or once in a blue moon 😢 we need to do self introspection as this new generation
My baby daddy chased me out of his car in the middle of the night and right there I knew it was over. I left without thinking twice
I have some empathy for him but my heart really breaks for her. It's so unfair! These men need to seek help for their mental issues so they can stop being so mentally fragile. If they're not cheating because their ego needs a boost, they're killing someone because they can't deal with their lives. Hayi sidiniwe. And you're right Owamie - money doesn't make a person emotionally stable and women need to stop ignoring the red flags. Rather overreact than under react. Don't let it be LITERALLY the hill you die on.
This is so sad and to think that be ke phela ke ba bona ko savannah mall... heartbreaking
The subject/module "life skills" is needed out side of the subjects learned at school.
When I was still in high school. Our school added an extra subject and it was called "life skills". I am not sure what is learned in "life orientation".
I feel This has nothing to do with education ,this is totally demonic and it can happen to any one irrespective of being educated or not.The devil is running rampage out there looking for someone to deviour. We just need to pray for marriages and relationships .usatana akafuni nto intle mntwini.
Condolences to their family 💐 nowadays we are not safe with people we sleep with everyday
😢
😔😔😔 I am lost for words, this is very hard to comprehend.
If you don't make Jesus your friend you will definitely make friends with the devil, he too whispers in many ears....I wish we can all see how comforting God is, the best friend one could ever ask for😊
I'm so sorry Wami
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen Tric 🙏
Heart warming ❤
Oh God, No, people who are friends with Jesus get killed and more abused than the average person. Surely this can't be a solution
I'm so sorry sis ,my condolences. Tragedies like these leave those close with so many questions.What a sad video there is so much happening in our midst .Kubi maan ,kubi 😢.Sending hugs
Any kind of relationship involves a lot of emotions. If you do not fast and pray to tone the emotions down, it will not be well with you.
I’m sorry for your loss 😢
prople have gone thru a lot but ki££ing someone is beyond understanding
She was my intern in paediatrics 😢😭🙆♀️
So sad
I am sorry so Owamie💔💔 this is sad. Sending you a big hug💕💕💕💕
Aaaaa😢😢😢😢wemaaaalooo😮😮😮😮😮 why am I thinking of all those years in school 🎒 for him to prove akananqhondo in the end 😭😮...iskole honestly doesn't mean konke uyakwazi. May their souls rest healing to the family
Unfortunately many doctors have committed murder suicide before 😓. Very smart people, huge egos but underlying problems💔
@@PrincessVelaryon so sad 😭😭😭😭
Doctors are the most depressed people ,imagine declaring people dead on a daily basis
Akanangqondo? Sifike nini lapho? Depression means fool nowadays?
@@nosiphomngoma7288 kahle wena ubani othe be depressed ... Usukwazi ukubhula manje wena ... You in the wrong place 😂 weSangoma
Lapho umuntu athi uyakuthanda 😢 😢
We need to pray more- the Devi is living amongst us 💔
The devil is people's crooked hearts
Leave the devil alone in this one. It’s the sick minded men who are raised to be entitled and to be comfortable in their toxic masculinity that are doing this.
As Someone who stands for human rights and justice I do understand that people are emotionally paralyzed out there, damaged and all but it gives no one the right to take another's life. Regardless of how bitter or hurt one may be.
One only needs to work on themselves and move on from the things that are a constant trigger for them. Mental well-being and peace are of paramount importance
As a woman living in SA I get reminded everyday that chances of me dying a natural death are slim when I see such reports😢😢 may her soul rest in peace 🕊️ 🕊️🕊️
What is happening with doctors this days
Jah neh. So we don't die by natural cause or accident anymore. Either suicide or being unalived by someone 😢
Love and light to you and families of the deceased ❤❤
My friend Musa Khawula once said Zyakhala manje and ziku loud speaker 💯😫🍾
Most of the time ppl who are educated operate from Knowledge and not wisdom are born with it. So I hear you Owamie.
Sorry for your loss 🕊
What is going on with South African men?
@Ntombikayise Faith Majola It's sad because South Africa is blessed with very beautiful women, yet most of us are not happy with these men. Kanti sizobatholaphi aba right😔
It is so scary
I don't think it's Men only...I think in some way a lot of people are broken but for me personally, I think Social Media is going to harm even more lives. Just look at how the story/business of the people we don't know is out in the open and worse, we even get to make comments about it unlike in the past where it was just radio, tv and newspapers,etc. I don't think people realise the damage social media has in today's generation.
Men and boys need to be taught to accept rejection…not only alcohol 🍺 even over indulging foods,is a red flag.
Yoh this is sad did they have kids😢
There is a difference between being certificated and being educated. He was certificated but not educated.
Lady Owamie you have a great skin. Maybe she wanted to divorce him then he got angry
That’s so true ninja, you can be an educated fool💯 Most people especially in the medical field were just cramming to pass.
Yoh, they both had over R1m annual salaries
An educated fool😢 i believe it.
south africans we ...mist of us do not have CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS
This broke my heart 😢
What is going on in South Africa ? It's the rise in crime, it's the pandemic of GBV. Why? What is going on ??? no man. Something is off
I think you could’ve just said mental health affects everyone and a doctor cannot heal himself.
I thought these doctors died in a car accident, I saw the story on E.N.C.A
Omg I heard of that the other day! 😪
Uphi uLebo u r not saying nothing about her I hope u r still good , condolences to the families of the deceased
Women are raising these men, what are we teaching them about respecting women? I have 4 brothers who respects their wives, that was instilled by my father who respected his wife. I have 2 sons who wil never disrespect their wives, because that is our culture as a family. My sisters in law always respected my mother, because she was fair to everyone whenever there was a dispute. Even those who were divorced from her sons were always welcome in the family. During family functions them and their children were welcome. Just like AKA's mum, that is how my mother treated the mother of our grandchildren. Leave all the hatred and bitterness behind, because the children did not ask to come into this world. We need good fathers to lead our families. We have to teach our children to be able to walk away and accept it when a relationship does not. Leave the ego behind as it will mislead you. You can't own another human being. No means no.
Omg😢😢
Education or qualifications for the most part means you were able to pass or get through that hurdle. It definitely is no measure of being smart. We have come to realize that some people have obtained their qualifications fraudulently. Many have their assignments done by ghost writers, the list goes on. We should never use a piece of paper as a measure of intelligence these days. Nr two, u can be educated and still have behavioral issues, of personal demons, childhood traumas that cause defects in your behavior. There are so called educated people who are women abusers, bullies, u name it. If you are a pedophile, the fact that u are educated will not wash that off. Ey its a lot. Education means nothing really . who you are is what matters and with or without an education u can be a good person or an evil person. Your qualification is just that, text book knowledge that you go and prove to have understoof in a test or practicals
Nicely put 🎉
Oh my God 💔, did they have kids
Yeah babe, education does not measure mental capacity ❤
I say this to babydad he don't like it buuut...and fortunately we as women should stop worshipping THEIR honours and masters
This is bad love you Ninja
This is really sad
Hi Ninjas
I am very educated and I know how to articulate my opinions very well, that comes from education. But I also know that everyone struggles with mental illness. It’s not because they are foolish 😊
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