As a 50 year old woman who was abandoned by her mom around 6-7 y.o., this really hit home. Kids needs moms and dads both. To all the strong men trying their best, thank you!!
I am sorry and truly regret that your childhood was very bad. I hope and pray that may sweet and Gracious Great God take well care of you [and yours] even more than before. You deserve to have the best of family like every other person has. "When my father and mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up." Psalm 27:10
Perhaps I am not a father, I will mention that this story reminds me that not everyone has had the best of family. This is not the old America where folks would sit in the living room or at the dining table with suits, shirts, trousers, ties, dresses, blouses and skirts all together in just one place.
This happened to my husband. His first wife left him and their two children when they were one and three years old. He ended up losing his house to foreclosure and he and the kids moved back to his mom's. About four years later we met and I was a widow with a two year old. We raised our children together and it's been thirty five wonderful years. God really is good!
@@dmw1280 Thank you. The kids are all grown now with children of their own. I really miss those days of being a "mommy". They were the best years of my life. I can not understand how a woman could ever leave her babies.
After another hard day working, at 67 years of age, to support my 2 daughters after Mom took off...this brought me to tears. It also lifted me up and gave me a little more strength to keep on the Righteous Path. God Bless anyone who is left behind!
12 years ago my wife of 33 years after several affairs left as we were trying to help our mentally ill son live a normal life with us. She absconded with $20k and since the divorce she has had a downward spiral. Pretty sad.
As a proud father, I raised my two children from the ages of 13 (daughter) and 8 ( son) after gaining full custody back in 2005. My daughter and I became closer, whereas she wasn't afraid to come and talk to me about personal things. Raising my two children was the best thing that ever happened to me. As they are adults now, we have an even tighter bond.
@Fred Bergeron yeah imo you cannot be mad at the dude unless he knows you're in a relationship. If it's some random stranger you can be assured she told him she was single. That being said my respect was earned when he ended it when he realized he was stepping on another man's toes. Went out of his way to explain what happened and the Cherry on top was the job now he will be doing much better then the wife and she will be lonely with cats 🤷♂️
In the end that woman’s husband and date he took the job became successful real estate manager not only that he also made his wife’s date even more successful they become business partners and best friends his daughters got to go to private schools did well in their educations and had great career opportunities in the future then the mom regrets her decision.
@@bubazzubaz3841 shes trssh and thinks of what she wants forself what g9es ar9und comes around as soon as molly finds out in a tough way which she totally deserves no feel sorry for her God will bless the husbsnd and girls ran out on she gets just what shevdeserved
Usually the spouse/parent that leaves never was there anyways.They are usually miserable and withdrawn.That’s a process they do to make the leaving part become reality.They check out way before leaving
Kind of like me and my ex except he moved in with his current girlfriend of the time. She soon booted him out and stupid me took him back until he did it for the 3rd time.
This happened to a friend of mine. His wife talked him into leaving his job so they could move to the other side of the country she she could be closer to her parents.( or something like that) Turns out she had a boyfriend out there. So my pal and his wife and little girl pack up and move there. Not too long after that, the shoe fell. It was all a ruse. Had nothing to do with being closer to her parents. He was absolutely devastated. He moved back here and raised that little girl. It’s been almost 30 years and I still don’t think he’s really over it. He’ll never be. His wife ended up breaking up with this guy about a year later. And yes, she did ask for forgiveness and a second chance. The answer was no. I still feel sick thinking about that. This video stirred up some emotion for me. HOW could a person do something like this?
This happened to me years ago I was devastated thought I couldn't go on we had five children , but then an angel fell from heaven we got married and the sun shines every day now , my belief is never stop believing in your self.
I give my top respects to both of those guys, this is the top best stories I’ve heard when it comes to be dealing with a mom abandoning a family or another other parent. I’ll never forget this!
During my 28 year Police career, I personally witnessed this scenario many times. The pain that the departing spouse left behind was always disturbing to me. Never have I ever seen the person who left their family for someone else prosper, unless Domestic Violence was involved. I truly hope that all spouses in this real life situation remember their children.
Thank you...because the pain she has caused me and my 3 kids since leaving is really hurting me within. The lack of closure cause she disappeared and cut communication no birthday message for our youngest despite my offers that she can directly communicate with them have fallen on deaf ears. I don't want revenge and I do. She did this to us having planned it for months and even trying to set me up as an abusive husband...broke..such as making claims she is paying the bills...she has 2 accounts of her own and I found 6 figure amount withdrawal slips...and our savings is gone. She left us with nothing and now I have to start from scratch raising our 3 boys from broke. We are leaving our home and heading overseas to restart from suitcases and help from my parents. We will move into my aunts home and that is all we have toys and suitcases. I have to quit my job and retrain cause I can't work the hours I need to in my old job to get the kids to school...and find something where I can work from home or my own hours. My fear isn't what's coming....my fear is I can't fail or make a mistake...I have no space for error now.
@@camelo1495 hi I want to say never give up. At beginning it is very hard for you taking care of kids but layer you would definitely enjoy with your kids. You not leaving responsibilities, definitely god will bless you and show you path
@@camelo1495 mine had her boyfriend assault me after I had an accident after I begged her to stay with them just so they check me in hospital and come back I was ganged up on by her her bf cousin and aunt Infront of the kids despite all that I gave her access to the boys she chooses to pass with that very same guy by my gate time to time not checking on them she thinks she's better off o day good for her as long as I have my boys I'm good she left them now probably for the 11th or 12 time but after the assault she dug her grave time to let go and let God deal with it
Right because you kept track of every single person over 28 years and know how they turned out. Sorry kevin we don't buy your lies even for a nickel. Try again. Mist people who leave to find happiness are actually happier in the long run then staying with someone
Thank you for this video. As a father, I’m going through this same exact situation, two little girls, and it’s very hard. I wish this was real life but let be honest, most ppl don’t care if she’s married with family or not.
Keep hustling. Keep moving forward. I’m 9 years in. Last daughter finally in college. Mom got dumped quickly then started sending me selfies and calling me honey. There was no coming back from leaving her kids. She moved out of state so I never had to share the kids
Just read this some months old, but I think your struggle will probably go on for years. But, please fight the fight, just for your girls, and I think they will love you dearly for it. I met with a single father last week, and his daughter was 15. He struggles, but you could also see love between them. Hang in there, not much else matters.
Wow this episode was very heart felt. The man told him in the end "God is going to bless you" God did bless him at that moment. He's going to give his girls a better life. God bless you Vid Chronicles for doing actual real life situations...
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I've been through this with my brother divorce. She left and didn't want the children. After a couple of years helping him out looking after my boys, they asked me to be their mother. I don't have biological children of my own, I'm their aunt, but I'm honored that they could see a mother in me.
Happened to my brother as well. Wife left him and didn't communicate with him or the daughter for years and then wanted back in her daughters life during her teen years. She now lives with her mother and my brother sees her on the weekend. But the daughter doesn't want to stay with her mother anymore.
This exact thing happened to my youngest brother, he was married 23 years with seven children. Our entire family was shocked. Her true self was revealed. Cares only about herself, more than her husband and children. Her life is now, wine, books, yoga and her girlfriends. Sad
“Always let love lead the way” and “Always put Family first.” What a great! video, it shows us how lies will never work in a relationship and how things may seem bad, but turns out being great for you. Thank you so much. 👏🏽👏🏽
My mama left me with 2 other siblings when I was 7 years old and our father had to raise us alone, I have never ever got over that and I'm 67 years old
@Paula Jones I'm sorry that happened to you...sometimes it is better that way... because the amount of damage you could of had if she stayed would be greater...there is no telling...try not to think of the bad, but think of the good. Sending you a hug to wherever your at. Have a great day!🙂
This happened to me, my wife left my 12yr old daughter and I and moved in with someone 2000 miles away after 20 yrs of marriage. I gave her everything and more in life. It messed with my head and really messed up my poor daughter (years of therapy). I hear now she is unhappy again with the new guy mistreating her and she is drinking heavy again. Some people are never happy. Karma I guess?
The way he's patient with the kid's is clearly Grace imbued All around them and humble about how he continues to serve his kid's and the guys brought together is also a blessing god's Grace always is merciful
Damn, it's what I Went through. I loved my family but she divorced me for no real reason. My second wife after 22 years just left one morning and never came back, that hurts more than I can explain. This film brought tears to my eyes because of the real way you produced it. Thanks.
This really hit home, because my mother left for the same reason, but my father stayed and loved us. I really miss her sometimes, but everytime I'm reminded of the feeling I had when she first left like that--I am angry with her once again. To anyone reading this whom are also going through the same situation, I want to let you know that it will be okay. 💜
Due respect have your father pray for her and you pray too Jesus will listen and make her come back because Jesus recognizes the first marriage according to 1 Corinthians 7:10 nothing is too hard for him. May God continue to bless you and your family. Stay encouraged and be blessed
@@itsjustme7487 Hi if you believe in Jesus you have no worry just pray and wait because God believes in the first marriage read 1 Corinthians 7:10. Stay focused stay encouraged and be blessed
@@respectfulwhatsup8117 I appreciate it, but I don't want her to come back. I've recently opened up to my therapist and my father about something very serious. I'm scared of her. I feel much safer around my stepmother. If anything, he gifted me a mother who wouldn't hurt me emotionally or physically. I'm very happy with my stepmother... she saved me when I was at the point when I would have hurt myself. I don't pray, though. I respect both sides of Jesus and Lucifer, as they both taught me important lessons about self-compassion. Like Hades has taught me more than Zeus or Poseidon. I'm just happier and safer with my stepmother.
I was crying reading your comment my parents don’t even care about me they take care of my selfish little brother more and they never give me any attention
Understand the moral message.. Helps me heal one step at a time.. 5 months ago my wife left me and take away my two boys. 10 and 3 years old. During this hard pandemic time when we struggle each and everyday, their faces are the only reason for me and made me going strong in paying the bills and tyring to survive, but maybe that's not enough, after having your world completely upside down, maybe the rough life isn't the life she wants. I've made my peace now and trying to restart over my life.. With the pains that still lives in me.. Heals takes time.. It's been rough 5 months.. Hope we all can strive anything in the future
I'm glad that Richard was still a man of very high moral standards and integrity despite Steve's wife flocking to him. I think he could see himself down the line when he met Steve and what his wife had done to him and their daughters had he continued dating her.
This happens all too often. Sad but true. Happened to me and my kids. It was very hard for a while there, but in the end we are doing great. I solo parent as a father, 3 amazing children and they are thriving. I couldn't be more proud. Looking for another relationship is not the right answer guys! As tough as it might be, it's time for you to be taking care of those kids and yourself only. Not all but most women now are lying cheating, terrible people. We have our society to blame for that. But you can and will rise above this! If you are at the beginning of this painful journey, I know it's very hard but it does get better. Remember that those kids are hurting too and they don't know how to cope. Be there 110% for them. I promise you the pain, suffering and effort you put in now will be well worth it soon!
@@je862 Right on Jeff! Sounds like you and I are a lot alike! I have a collage degree in Psychology and though I don't give collage degrees much merit these days, I do believe something that resonated with me one day in a class I was attending years ago. In the class, they mentioned that men are far more emotionally dependent on woman than woman are on men. I've found that to be very true in my experience. I am a car guy and I look at it like this, men are more apt in life to be the car guy that fixes up and maintains his car for as long as he possibly can, but woman take it to the junk yard and just get a new one. This hasn't always been the case. Before the destruction of the nuclear family starting in the 1960's, men and woman were statistically, much happier together and staying together. Our society has spent the last 60+ years teaching women that "they don't need a man" So we are disposable. To be used for convenience and tossed out and replaced when not any good to them any more. Lastly woman are also indoctrinated with this society telling them that they are entitled to things out of their reach, that they can get "any man they want." So today we see 80% of woman looking for a very specific (tall, dark, handsome and rich) 20% of men. This isn't working out for either side.
I made mistakes along the way, but I couldn't leave my children. After watching this I saw at times I lived for myself. Not anymore, I want to live for God and my family.
This video is spot on ad your family/children are everything. I went through something similar and had to work alone to keep the house and roof over my 2 kids heads. It was hard but I never left them and loved them like this dad. Anyone can be a father but real men are dads!!!
I know this is only a video but seriously the father and the other guy who offered the father a job, they are both legends. The father is such a legend as he stays with his kids doing any job he can to make sure they are alright, he is an inspirational father and an example of what father's should be like. And the other guy is awesome as he offers him a high paying job as a manger without wanting nothing in return.
Iam upset at the mom but the dad is awesome. Raising kids with a partner is hard on its own but raising them by yourself is extremely hard. I should know. I have 2 young men that I have been raising by myself and my youngest has health issues that can kill him ( seizures and asthma) . He will be 19 yrs. old next month. I 💘 your channel.
Oh my God I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes. I went through this with my kids father ( my ex fiance) been with him over 22yrs. Was separated but he got right into a relationship with a woman and she's pregnant. He didn't give me no clarity or answers. The reason he left or didn't want this family/home anymore. So yes God will bless you like the dad in this video/story. Because he close to the broken hearted. And people had done you wrong in relationship either marriage, engaged etc. They will Reap what they Sow. Nothing will come right in they lives leaving a family, and home behind because of they selfish desires into that world.
The father , unlike the mother, did not desert his 2 beautiful daughters, and the new boyfriend of the mother, ditched her as soon as he knew she was bad blood, and gave the father a high paying job at his company. This is a story of good overcoming evil. Never ditch your family for a piece on the side.
Thanks, it brought tears to my eyes as I re live the part of my live 30 years ago. The same problem, same 2 daughters ages 8 and 4 at that time. The last sentence was very true "be a good father, take good care of the girls and God will Bless you". True indeed I didn't need to struggle to bring up my daughters, I was able to retire at an early age 53 years (very young age for one who lives in a developed country). Both girls are now married and I'm living a free and happy life. More good stories like this please.
@@marvinpercival4820 It's pure evil to run off on children. And it's a very cowardly thing to do. No excuses. I'd rather die trying to help my children than run off on them. God help us.
A beautiful interpretation by the actors, a beautiful video portraying the naked and raw reality of a certain family and its drama. A family cannot be dissolved for merely selfish reasons. The kind man who offered help to the loving father of the little girls, unemployed and suffering from his partner's lack of love, the mother of his beautiful daughters, gave a great example of consideration for neighbour, putting himself in his place, offering a job in his company. It's a fiction, we know; but a fact of daily life. So I congratulate those responsible for this video that touched me, and I believe it touched many sensitive, human and common sense hearts. Thank you for reading this comment.
Namaste from India, initially I used to think that in the western world, true love is impossible to find, westerners like materialistic life instead of family and specially husband wife relationship they don't have true emotions, but I was wrong! I can proudly say that you guys are wonderful and divine! Love u, bless u
like a fish did not know it was wet, The Western way is materialism, and the water we swim in. I could not understand this until I heard of an outsider's perspective.
I have 2 boys whose mothers abandoned them,... I'm grateful everyday they have me and I have them, I work my own business and I'm a single father, just us 3.... Ill always be there for them, no matter what, I worry what impact it might have on the kids but I can only do my best, we do great, never want for anything, kids are dressed well, have everything they want ect.... Grateful is the word I'd use... And my love for my kids is unbreakable... Shout out to all the single dads out there, you guys are the real hero's of this day In age and your kids need you, so stay tough.
This is reality for some people and it honestly makes me so sad. I don't understand how some people can be so selfish and do that to their own family. Prayers and virtual hugs to anyone personally going through something like this. Everyone reading this, I hope life is good to you and if it's not right now, then be patient everything will be okay just don't give up.
This story made me cry 😢 sadly it’s a true reality for so many families. We need a charity called broken homes for cases like this, I’m so emotional I can’t stop crying 😭
I love this story. In a way it's relateable because I try to give back to my parents. I practically work everyday and everytime I get a chance...I like to give them money to help out a little. Even if it's not a lot, every little bit helps and it gives me satisfaction knowing that I'm helping them especially after all they done for my brothers and I.
Me too bro. It's great to be able to pay for everything around the house so parents can use their money to go on trips they couldn't go to when they were younger because of lack of money
Beautiful story. The father loves his daughters and he’s there for them no matter what. Thank GOD the father approached Molly and asked her how could she leave her children? Once her supposedly new boyfriend heard that he DUMPED her And gave her husband a better job. Good things come to those who are honest and have a loving heart. Good for the father and his girls. Just be strong and not take her back!
Finally a story line that shows what I I thought about some of my friends that split. People stop blaming the person you spouse is fooling around with. You didn't marry them.
The father got a good decision...whatever life maybe your obligation being the parents will always be the same and never ends...got a moral lesson.i love it.
This makes me sad, l could never leave my kids behind, l don’t know how the mother could do such thing like this. Luckily they have a great father who loves them and supports them. The father is a hero
So, they're both heroes, b/c they're good, honorable people. After all, courage isn't just about being brave in what could be extremely difficult, & potentially dangerous, situations. It's also about having principles & standing by them.
The gentleman that she was on a date with I must say that he handled his self courageously and professionally. He did the right thing by leaving her where she was, he broke it off right then and there. That woman is pure evil, and unfortunately this kind of scenario, is happening every second of the day.
Not hard to find except women today are choosing men based on frivolous qualities of what arouses their emotions or thinks her friends will approve of, not substance, integrity or ability to provide, protect and lead his family. My sister is an example of this.
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This story is so true to life i have seen it play out in peoples lifes I know. I got divorced over 30yrs. ago. Had three beautiful children two boys one girl. They're all very successful two RN'S and Engineer. Glad I stayed in their lifes to experience their success. Happy to me is knowing you did right by your children. Be Safe And God bless
I'm so grateful how you make a bunch of videos everyday and come up with different ideas for us to enjoy and learn life lessons thank you vid chronicles
As a 50 year old woman who was abandoned by her mom around 6-7 y.o., this really hit home. Kids needs moms and dads both. To all the strong men trying their best, thank you!!
Yes this is the punch in the gut reminder that we needed
I am sorry and truly regret that your childhood was very bad. I hope and pray that may sweet and Gracious Great God take well care of you [and yours] even more than before. You deserve to have the best of family like every other person has. "When my father and mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up." Psalm 27:10
The very things that Satan intended for my destruction God used those same things and worked it(as Only He Will) for my Exultation - Genesis 50:20
Perhaps I am not a father, I will mention that this story reminds me that not everyone has had the best of family. This is not the old America where folks would sit in the living room or at the dining table with suits, shirts, trousers, ties, dresses, blouses and skirts all together in just one place.
You fee mails attacked good fathers in the divorce courts. You are all the same.
This happened to my husband. His first wife left him and their two children when they were one and three years old. He ended up losing his house to foreclosure and he and the kids moved back to his mom's. About four years later we met and I was a widow with a two year old. We raised our children together and it's been thirty five wonderful years. God really is good!
Wow in so happy for you.
God bless you all
@Melissa Fraser Thank you!
@@patriciasloan5122 the story you told brought a tear to me eye.
@@dmw1280 Thank you. The kids are all grown now with children of their own. I really miss those days of being a "mommy". They were the best years of my life. I can not understand how a woman could ever leave her babies.
Women like her with no remorse deserves wtf they get, no excuses 💯💯
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My mom left me and my brother with our dad and went to texas
Women like that, deserve the streets.
True this made me tear up
She is a traitor.
These two gentlemen are real men,demonstratiing Love through respect and forgiveness.
Donowa, for sure these two men are real men and I’m sure they’ll be the best of friends.
@@judybabcock7591 aaàaa
@Dash Nash meeeeeee tooooooo
He good guy
He says that she has something to do more like some one has her to do
“A woman who leaves her husband and kids to please herself is not the woman I want to be with.” Pure Evil.
The woman is pure evil, not the man who said this. He hit the nail right on the head. He was absolutely correct.
The lowest of the low.
I know someone who’s going through a similar situation
Why she cannot accept the life she have why i can't do that no way i will never leave my kids and became a person unresponsibility
Man just watching this poor man I mean what a selfish woman
After another hard day working, at 67 years of age, to support my 2 daughters after Mom took off...this brought me to tears.
It also lifted me up and gave me a little more strength to keep on the Righteous Path. God Bless anyone who is left behind!
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Keep going King!!
God love you, Tom. 🙏🙏
12 years ago my wife of 33 years after several affairs left as we were trying to help our mentally ill son live a normal life with us. She absconded with $20k and since the divorce she has had a downward spiral. Pretty sad.
God bless
As a proud father, I raised my two children from the ages of 13 (daughter) and 8 ( son) after gaining full custody back in 2005. My daughter and I became closer, whereas she wasn't afraid to come and talk to me about personal things. Raising my two children was the best thing that ever happened to me. As they are adults now, we have an even tighter bond.
They should be working together to make sure their children are good!😇
kingadgr8- glad to hear that.🙏🏿
Bravo dobri covece. 👏👏👏👏😄😄😄😄
That is Awesome!
Right on 👌
Proud father? The correct term is proud Dad! Bless your heart!
I have mad respect for that dude
And the dude that offered him the job!
@Fred Bergeron yeah imo you cannot be mad at the dude unless he knows you're in a relationship. If it's some random stranger you can be assured she told him she was single. That being said my respect was earned when he ended it when he realized he was stepping on another man's toes. Went out of his way to explain what happened and the Cherry on top was the job now he will be doing much better then the wife and she will be lonely with cats 🤷♂️
In the end that woman’s husband and date he took the job became successful real estate manager not only that he also made his wife’s date even more successful they become business partners and best friends his daughters got to go to private schools did well in their educations and had great career opportunities in the future then the mom regrets her decision.
When a wife leaves her husband, It can be sad, but when a mother leaves her kids, that's an unpardonable sin, and totally unforgivable..
It's still a grave sin when a wife leaves her husband.
I was 16 when that happened to me. She left with my stepfather, only saw her 3 times in 41 years. Still feels strange talking about it.
@@tonyl6385 what a $%itch
@@tonyl6385 damn this is rough, its not ur fault tho, some people are just sadly to say dumb and selfish.
@@bubazzubaz3841 shes trssh and thinks of what she wants forself what g9es ar9und comes around as soon as molly finds out in a tough way which she totally deserves no feel sorry for her God will bless the husbsnd and girls ran out on she gets just what shevdeserved
Love the way the father was there for his daughters.
Usually the spouse/parent that leaves never was there anyways.They are usually miserable and withdrawn.That’s a process they do to make the leaving part become reality.They check out way before leaving
Two good men meet by fate. God bless these guys.
@@ericwilkerson6363 wha-
@@mhmd.bstki9 he’s the actor of the dad
Kind of like me and my ex except he moved in with his current girlfriend of the time. She soon booted him out and stupid me took him back until he did it for the 3rd time.
Hi how
Yes indeed
It’s bad enough to abandon your husband but leaving your kids unforgivable
My wife just did this. I feel what a selfish person.
Happened to me two girls to look after I was 31. My girls were 11 and 9 at the time 🤧
This happened to a friend of mine. His wife talked him into leaving his job so they could move to the other side of the country she she could be closer to her parents.( or something like that) Turns out she had a boyfriend out there. So my pal and his wife and little girl pack up and move there. Not too long after that, the shoe fell. It was all a ruse. Had nothing to do with being closer to her parents. He was absolutely devastated.
He moved back here and raised that little girl. It’s been almost 30 years and I still don’t think he’s really over it. He’ll never be. His wife ended up breaking up with this guy about a year later. And yes, she did ask for forgiveness and a second chance. The answer was no. I still feel sick thinking about that. This video stirred up some emotion for me. HOW could a person do something like this?
thats women for you. never satisfied
Glad he never accepted her forgiveness.
Have you ever shared this story?
It's called selfishness, vanity, and narcissism. Feminism for short.
This happened to me years ago I was devastated thought I couldn't go on we had five children , but then an angel fell from heaven we got married and the sun shines every day now , my belief is never stop believing in your self.
God always sends what's best for his children.
I’m very happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
God bless you I hope everything goes well with my family too
Well when you get cheated on, remember this "There's plenty of fish in the sea".
Now you have a better life, blessed.
She left...
FIVE KIDS?
no cause she's actually disgusting
Both of these men are class acts! Loved the message. Thank you.
I give my top respects to both of those guys, this is the top best stories I’ve heard when it comes to be dealing with a mom abandoning a family or another other parent. I’ll never forget this!
During my 28 year Police career, I personally witnessed this scenario many times. The pain that the departing spouse left behind was always disturbing to me. Never have I ever seen the person who left their family for someone else prosper, unless Domestic Violence was involved. I truly hope that all spouses in this real life situation remember their children.
Thank you...because the pain she has caused me and my 3 kids since leaving is really hurting me within. The lack of closure cause she disappeared and cut communication no birthday message for our youngest despite my offers that she can directly communicate with them have fallen on deaf ears. I don't want revenge and I do. She did this to us having planned it for months and even trying to set me up as an abusive husband...broke..such as making claims she is paying the bills...she has 2 accounts of her own and I found 6 figure amount withdrawal slips...and our savings is gone. She left us with nothing and now I have to start from scratch raising our 3 boys from broke. We are leaving our home and heading overseas to restart from suitcases and help from my parents. We will move into my aunts home and that is all we have toys and suitcases. I have to quit my job and retrain cause I can't work the hours I need to in my old job to get the kids to school...and find something where I can work from home or my own hours. My fear isn't what's coming....my fear is I can't fail or make a mistake...I have no space for error now.
@@camelo1495 hi I want to say never give up. At beginning it is very hard for you taking care of kids but layer you would definitely enjoy with your kids. You not leaving responsibilities, definitely god will bless you and show you path
@@camelo1495 mine had her boyfriend assault me after I had an accident after I begged her to stay with them just so they check me in hospital and come back I was ganged up on by her her bf cousin and aunt Infront of the kids despite all that I gave her access to the boys she chooses to pass with that very same guy by my gate time to time not checking on them she thinks she's better off o day good for her as long as I have my boys I'm good she left them now probably for the 11th or 12 time but after the assault she dug her grave time to let go and let God deal with it
@@camelo1495 I'm going through the exact same thing.
Right because you kept track of every single person over 28 years and know how they turned out. Sorry kevin we don't buy your lies even for a nickel. Try again. Mist people who leave to find happiness are actually happier in the long run then staying with someone
Thank you for this video. As a father, I’m going through this same exact situation, two little girls, and it’s very hard. I wish this was real life but let be honest, most ppl don’t care if she’s married with family or not.
God bless you, you’re so awesome. You’re going to do amazing things!
Keep hustling. Keep moving forward. I’m 9 years in. Last daughter finally in college. Mom got dumped quickly then started sending me selfies and calling me honey. There was no coming back from leaving her kids. She moved out of state so I never had to share the kids
Just read this some months old, but I think your struggle will probably go on for years. But, please fight the fight, just for your girls, and I think they will love you dearly for it. I met with a single father last week, and his daughter was 15. He struggles, but you could also see love between them. Hang in there, not much else matters.
Wow this episode was very heart felt. The man told him in the end "God is going to bless you" God did bless him at that moment. He's going to give his girls a better life. God bless you Vid Chronicles for doing actual real life situations...
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She says she loves them all and Steve is a great man , obviously her love wasn't enough ,all she cares for is herself
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I've been through this with my brother divorce. She left and didn't want the children. After a couple of years helping him out looking after my boys, they asked me to be their mother. I don't have biological children of my own, I'm their aunt, but I'm honored that they could see a mother in me.
God bless you
Happened to my brother as well. Wife left him and didn't communicate with him or the daughter for years and then wanted back in her daughters life during her teen years. She now lives with her mother and my brother sees her on the weekend. But the daughter doesn't want to stay with her mother anymore.
No matter how hard life is, you should never walk away from your kids or husband. Family is the most important thing in my life.
Well actually you should never walk away from your kids, husband or wife.
If they are dysfunctional you must.
MEN abandon families, and you think that is perfectly acceptable. Misogynist.
I am so glad these guys did the right thing by talking instead of fighting each other over a worthless woman.
yeah this is rare
This exact thing happened to my youngest brother, he was married 23 years with seven children. Our entire family was shocked. Her true self was revealed. Cares only about herself, more than her husband and children. Her life is now, wine, books, yoga and her girlfriends. Sad
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“Always let love lead the way” and “Always put Family first.” What a great! video, it shows us how lies will never work in a relationship and how things may seem bad, but turns out being great for you. Thank you so much. 👏🏽👏🏽
I Agree With You One Hundred Percent
So sad,for those baby girls, when they realize their mommy doesn't love them. Don't hurt the babies, they're precious.
She does love them she just wanted a better life
@@jacobsworld7573 Then Why Would She Marry Him In The First Place, And Pack Her Bag's With Her He Does Have A Point.
@꧁✌︎︎Senpai_Abby✌︎︎꧂ oh ok
@@je862 yeah good point.
My mama left me with 2 other siblings when I was 7 years old and our father had to raise us alone, I have never ever got over that and I'm 67 years old
Auburn hair, blue eyes from Cali? Hmm... It would be a funny coincidence.
@Paula Jones I'm sorry that happened to you...sometimes it is better that way... because the amount of damage you could of had if she stayed would be greater...there is no telling...try not to think of the bad, but think of the good. Sending you a hug to wherever your at. Have a great day!🙂
My wife left me 2 sons and 4 daughters ages 5-12yrs old 2yrs ago. She wasn't 'happy'. Did you and your siblings remain close throughout life?
May God heal your wounds.
This happened to me, my wife left my 12yr old daughter and I and moved in with someone 2000 miles away after 20 yrs of marriage. I gave her everything and more in life. It messed with my head and really messed up my poor daughter (years of therapy). I hear now she is unhappy again with the new guy mistreating her and she is drinking heavy again. Some people are never happy. Karma I guess?
It happens sadly it's the children that pay the price for the grownups it's sad but its life
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I’m sorry you and ur child had to go through that. I pray and hope you’re doing better now 🙏🏾
What goes around comes around thou 😏
What goes around. Comes around
Ladies, never leave your family behind to please a man. I really like how dad story amazes his kids
You got to give Richard props for coming up and trying to make it right, that's how most men are we abide by the unwritten rules aka the man code
I like the way this guy put his best foot forward for his kids in spite of what happened.
@Roderic Gray
And I'm happy he was offered a job.
YUMMY SPRITE
Shane the coolest
Yeah there's no government assistance for men
Turns out the ap wasn't a bad guy at all, just the cheating ex wife.
This is a story that most people can relate to. Please keep up the great work. God bless you all
Same to you 💗💗
Same to you.
You too💕💕
That's the type of father I wanna be I'll put my life for my kid /kids
I'll do the same also!
So am i
Same here.
If you not a father yet do better find a God fearing woman and I mean God fearing
No wonder God says pray for your enemies. The one we imagine is an enemy could be used of God to Bless You.
The way he's patient with the kid's is clearly Grace imbued All around them and humble about how he continues to serve his kid's and the guys brought together is also a blessing god's Grace always is merciful
As single fathet of 2 kids my self and i can relate to this my kids were 10 months and 2 yrs and i am doing my best for my kids who are now 5 and 7
Damn, it's what I Went through. I loved my family but she divorced me for no real reason. My second wife after 22 years just left one morning and never came back, that hurts more than I can explain. This film brought tears to my eyes because of the real way you produced it. Thanks.
to know reasons - you need to communicate more
Quote of the day:
''If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far
you can't hear them anymore.''
-Michele Ruiz
This really hit home, because my mother left for the same reason, but my father stayed and loved us. I really miss her sometimes, but everytime I'm reminded of the feeling I had when she first left like that--I am angry with her once again.
To anyone reading this whom are also going through the same situation, I want to let you know that it will be okay. 💜
My cousins lived through that and they never saw their mother and 2nd husband and family never knew about my uncle and cousins.
Due respect have your father pray for her and you pray too Jesus will listen and make her come back because Jesus recognizes the first marriage according to 1 Corinthians 7:10 nothing is too hard for him. May God continue to bless you and your family. Stay encouraged and be blessed
@@itsjustme7487 Hi if you believe in Jesus you have no worry just pray and wait because God believes in the first marriage read 1 Corinthians 7:10. Stay focused stay encouraged and be blessed
@@respectfulwhatsup8117 I appreciate it, but I don't want her to come back. I've recently opened up to my therapist and my father about something very serious. I'm scared of her. I feel much safer around my stepmother. If anything, he gifted me a mother who wouldn't hurt me emotionally or physically.
I'm very happy with my stepmother... she saved me when I was at the point when I would have hurt myself.
I don't pray, though. I respect both sides of Jesus and Lucifer, as they both taught me important lessons about self-compassion. Like Hades has taught me more than Zeus or Poseidon.
I'm just happier and safer with my stepmother.
I was crying reading your comment my parents don’t even care about me they take care of my selfish little brother more and they never give me any attention
Understand the moral message.. Helps me heal one step at a time.. 5 months ago my wife left me and take away my two boys. 10 and 3 years old. During this hard pandemic time when we struggle each and everyday, their faces are the only reason for me and made me going strong in paying the bills and tyring to survive, but maybe that's not enough, after having your world completely upside down, maybe the rough life isn't the life she wants. I've made my peace now and trying to restart over my life.. With the pains that still lives in me.. Heals takes time.. It's been rough 5 months.. Hope we all can strive anything in the future
Oh I'm so sorry to hear that
Thank you for the sympathy
This man puts foods and drinks on the table my dad still does it I'm 12 and he will always be my hero thank u vid chronicles
I'm glad that Richard was still a man of very high moral standards and integrity despite Steve's wife flocking to him. I think he could see himself down the line when he met Steve and what his wife had done to him and their daughters had he continued dating her.
This happens all too often. Sad but true. Happened to me and my kids. It was very hard for a while there, but in the end we are doing great. I solo parent as a father, 3 amazing children and they are thriving. I couldn't be more proud. Looking for another relationship is not the right answer guys! As tough as it might be, it's time for you to be taking care of those kids and yourself only. Not all but most women now are lying cheating, terrible people. We have our society to blame for that. But you can and will rise above this! If you are at the beginning of this painful journey, I know it's very hard but it does get better. Remember that those kids are hurting too and they don't know how to cope. Be there 110% for them. I promise you the pain, suffering and effort you put in now will be well worth it soon!
@@je862 Right on Jeff! Sounds like you and I are a lot alike! I have a collage degree in Psychology and though I don't give collage degrees much merit these days, I do believe something that resonated with me one day in a class I was attending years ago. In the class, they mentioned that men are far more emotionally dependent on woman than woman are on men. I've found that to be very true in my experience. I am a car guy and I look at it like this, men are more apt in life to be the car guy that fixes up and maintains his car for as long as he possibly can, but woman take it to the junk yard and just get a new one. This hasn't always been the case. Before the destruction of the nuclear family starting in the 1960's, men and woman were statistically, much happier together and staying together. Our society has spent the last 60+ years teaching women that "they don't need a man" So we are disposable. To be used for convenience and tossed out and replaced when not any good to them any more. Lastly woman are also indoctrinated with this society telling them that they are entitled to things out of their reach, that they can get "any man they want." So today we see 80% of woman looking for a very specific (tall, dark, handsome and rich) 20% of men. This isn't working out for either side.
I made mistakes along the way, but I couldn't leave my children. After watching this I saw at times I lived for myself. Not anymore, I want to live for God and my family.
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
Stay strong, stay God, stay Family. Keep your head up.
This video is spot on ad your family/children are everything. I went through something similar and had to work alone to keep the house and roof over my 2 kids heads. It was hard but I never left them and loved them like this dad. Anyone can be a father but real men are dads!!!
I remember this again like yesterday, the fulfilment is watching the children grow but the damage leaves scars time cannot heal
Such a good father. He deserves better
I second that.
Good on the father for not giving up on the children when time's got tuff I really enjoyed that video
This guy was a god send to this father
Yeah, he really was.
I am so happy that the guy she left her family for realized what was happening and that is was wrong and decided to dump her!!
I know this is only a video but seriously the father and the other guy who offered the father a job, they are both legends. The father is such a legend as he stays with his kids doing any job he can to make sure they are alright, he is an inspirational father and an example of what father's should be like. And the other guy is awesome as he offers him a high paying job as a manger without wanting nothing in return.
I loved the ending when the guy came back to help that poor husband.
This dad is a model of what I wish I had he is understanding calm and so gentle.
Dad's love is the greatest joy in the world....
God bless the father's who takes care of their families!!!
Never give up...
God is always on time Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
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No matter what life throws at you, always take your children or baggage’s what ever you choose to call the kids. Never leave them.
That's kidnapping and parental alienation
Hello Sweety
Iam upset at the mom but the dad is awesome. Raising kids with a partner is hard on its own but raising them by yourself is extremely hard. I should know. I have 2 young men that I have been raising by myself and my youngest has health issues that can kill him ( seizures and asthma) . He will be 19 yrs. old next month. I 💘 your channel.
Take good care of them
Hello Melanie hope everything goes go with your kids
@@leslieking5836 Hi ms leslie. The young men are doing fine. Thank you for asking
How are you and yours.
@@melaniesilas9313 I am doing good I got 2 grand babies they are also doing good glad that you all are doing good
Oh my God I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes. I went through this with my kids father ( my ex fiance) been with him over 22yrs. Was separated but he got right into a relationship with a woman and she's pregnant. He didn't give me no clarity or answers. The reason he left or didn't want this family/home anymore. So yes God will bless you like the dad in this video/story. Because he close to the broken hearted. And people had done you wrong in relationship either marriage, engaged etc. They will Reap what they Sow. Nothing will come right in they lives leaving a family, and home behind because of they selfish desires into that world.
The father , unlike the mother, did not desert his 2 beautiful daughters, and the new boyfriend of the mother, ditched her as soon as he knew she was bad blood, and gave the father a high paying job at his company. This is a story of good overcoming evil. Never ditch your family for a piece on the side.
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Thanks, it brought tears to my eyes as I re live the part of my live 30 years ago. The same problem, same 2 daughters ages 8 and 4 at that time. The last sentence was very true "be a good father, take good care of the girls and God will Bless you". True indeed I didn't need to struggle to bring up my daughters, I was able to retire at an early age 53 years (very young age for one who lives in a developed country). Both girls are now married and I'm living a free and happy life. More good stories like this please.
Love this life lesson & video. Well played by 2 men with big hearts & lots of morals.
He's a real gentleman, we need more men like him today, she lie to him that she had no kids
Yes. Richard is a real gentleman
If I ever get married I would never do that
But there is cold blooded people out there
Hopefully u guys can help change the world
Props to the dad for keeping his composure together. He could've easily shouted and yelled at his wife. But he just spoke reasonably.
I've never understood how people could run off on their children. This is such a great evil.😥
Life its just life.sometimes it better for the children u see me.
@@marvinpercival4820 It's pure evil to run off on children. And it's a very cowardly thing to do. No excuses. I'd rather die trying to help my children than run off on them. God help us.
@@vernaharris4700 god made the birds bees luons and sharks.u r overly emotional.every soul have its contract and sone dont includes parents.
@@vernaharris4700 lots of great excuses to leave. Mental illness drugs alcohol. Not sticking around a complete crazy lunatic for anybody.
When he offered him that job!! It made me tear up in joy!!!
Hello Nancy
How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe
Totally sad. Long as these kids have a loving parent. Life can continue on my prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I love how two men dating the same woman became great friends in the end
A beautiful interpretation by the actors, a beautiful video portraying the naked and raw reality of a certain family and its drama. A family cannot be dissolved for merely selfish reasons. The kind man who offered help to the loving father of the little girls, unemployed and suffering from his partner's lack of love, the mother of his beautiful daughters, gave a great example of consideration for neighbour, putting himself in his place, offering a job in his company. It's a fiction, we know; but a fact of daily life. So I congratulate those responsible for this video that touched me, and I believe it touched many sensitive, human and common sense hearts. Thank you for reading this comment.
Been through this Tunnel with 3 children, Stay strong us single dads! I have 4 grandchildren now and I`m the centre of their world & They mine.
You should never leave the people who inspired you to become who you are today, because sometimes there is no turning back.
OMGG tyy for the likes 💕
@MrCool_KID AND GANG you're good
I just knew the wife was gonna regret leaving
@MrCool_KID AND GANG 👍
Of course
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Who wants to wipe my tears? 🙈 This story is so touchful😍❤️
I'll give you a tissue ;.(.
@@ahandfulofpain. thank you so much😊
Namaste from India, initially I used to think that in the western world, true love is impossible to find, westerners like materialistic life instead of family and specially husband wife relationship they don't have true emotions, but I was wrong! I can proudly say that you guys are wonderful and divine! Love u, bless u
like a fish did not know it was wet, The Western way is materialism, and the water we swim in. I could not understand this until I heard of an outsider's perspective.
I could never leave THE people that love YOU the most family. Just seeing a family member that died, is heartbreaking as well. FAMILY first.
That's heartbreaking, I love how the say sorry not wanting anything in return
God loves you 😎
@@makeouthill2007 no God loves you my frends🥲🖕
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I have 2 boys whose mothers abandoned them,... I'm grateful everyday they have me and I have them, I work my own business and I'm a single father, just us 3.... Ill always be there for them, no matter what, I worry what impact it might have on the kids but I can only do my best, we do great, never want for anything, kids are dressed well, have everything they want ect.... Grateful is the word I'd use... And my love for my kids is unbreakable... Shout out to all the single dads out there, you guys are the real hero's of this day In age and your kids need you, so stay tough.
Thanks for sharing your story, I wish you all the best mate. Sounds like your kids will be ok 👍
Love this one! Blessings to you and your team! Continue to make more inspirational ones
This is reality for some people and it honestly makes me so sad. I don't understand how some people can be so selfish and do that to their own family. Prayers and virtual hugs to anyone personally going through something like this. Everyone reading this, I hope life is good to you and if it's not right now, then be patient everything will be okay just don't give up.
Hey, you keep being a great father! Great dad! Great video. Keep going.
God is GOOD 🙌🏽... This one had me in tears!
Yess
@@gabrielleelliott500 , AMEN!!!
True Love & Commitment!! To His Children! No Matter What Happened! That's The Real Definition Of....Father!!
This story made me cry 😢 sadly it’s a true reality for so many families. We need a charity called broken homes for cases like this, I’m so emotional I can’t stop crying 😭
Such a good message!
I love this story. In a way it's relateable because I try to give back to my parents. I practically work everyday and everytime I get a chance...I like to give them money to help out a little. Even if it's not a lot, every little bit helps and it gives me satisfaction knowing that I'm helping them especially after all they done for my brothers and I.
God bless you tremendously.
Me too bro. It's great to be able to pay for everything around the house so parents can use their money to go on trips they couldn't go to when they were younger because of lack of money
Don't be conceited
Jk good job
Richard is a REAL REAL one. He apologized and gave our hero a job! MAD PROPS!
Sometimes the other person doesn’t know about the family don’t get mad at them. But be mad at the ones who knows and didn’t care
Wow! This is a phenomenal story‼️ I am so glad I came across Vid Chronicles. I am so proud to be a new subscriber.
Doing great job, spreading morality what we lack today very much.may God bless you all.
Beautiful story. The father loves his daughters and he’s there for them no matter what. Thank GOD the father approached Molly and asked her how could she leave her children? Once her supposedly new boyfriend heard that he DUMPED her And gave her husband a better job. Good things come to those who are honest and have a loving heart. Good for the father and his girls. Just be strong and not take her back!
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Finally a story line that shows what I I thought about some of my friends that split. People stop blaming the person you spouse is fooling around with. You didn't marry them.
The father got a good decision...whatever life maybe your obligation being the
parents will always be the same and never ends...got a moral lesson.i love it.
This makes me sad, l could never leave my kids behind, l don’t know how the mother could do such thing like this. Luckily they have a great father who loves them and supports them. The father is a hero
And it's Good How They Talked it Out Like Grown Men And She Was Made A Fool of
And his new boss is a hero, too. Not many people would have such a big heart.
So, they're both heroes, b/c they're good, honorable people. After all, courage isn't just about being brave in what could be extremely difficult, & potentially dangerous, situations. It's also about having principles & standing by them.
That's right for the treat people the way you want to be treated love and respect goes a long way. 💙
The gentleman that she was on a date with I must say that he handled his self courageously and professionally. He did the right thing by leaving her where she was, he broke it off right then and there. That woman is pure evil, and unfortunately this kind of scenario, is happening every second of the day.
No she is a Villainous Benchmark as she doesn’t even pass the baseline for villainy
Men with conscience are rare to find. Good job boss!
Not hard to find except women today are choosing men based on frivolous qualities of what arouses their emotions or thinks her friends will approve of, not substance, integrity or ability to provide, protect and lead his family. My sister is an example of this.
Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks
@@benfine2328 good for you buddy!
@@aliceenyenihiankwai1552 Hy baby how are you doing now baby please find time to talk to me and let's get to know each other very well and I will be pleased if you have me on Facebook
@@benfine2328 excuse me! Let me ask my husband about that.
"This belly wont feed itself"
Ok... I see how it is...
Wow , I have been totally blessed by this , no words , just tears of joy and humility of spirit .
Thats the best dad I've ever seen👀
Going to say this again THEY HEARD MY PLEA FOR A VIDEO TODAY
This story is so true to life i have seen it play out in peoples lifes I know. I got divorced over 30yrs. ago. Had three beautiful children two boys one girl. They're all very successful two RN'S and Engineer. Glad I stayed in their lifes to experience their success. Happy to me is knowing you did right by your children. Be Safe And God bless
I'm so grateful how you make a bunch of videos everyday and come up with different ideas for us to enjoy and learn life lessons thank you vid chronicles