If you have to debate or argue about sex or the lack thereof, just save your breath and move on. No sense in practically begging someone to show you affection. Find someone who will willfully.
Exactly. It is amazing to me how entitled women are. Men are failures too. But women are masterful at making sure that the man they CHOOSE will pay the price for their OWN insecurities. And also that they are not as good at understanding their feelings and communicating as they pride themselves on. I sound like a woman hater, but I’m not. I just see how hypocritical women are. SOMEONE has to pay the price, might as well be the person who committed their life and loyalty to you. Jesus. Also, women are absolutely turned on by stereotypical muscle men or money men…..while also telling the men out there in society that WE are stereotypical in our desires. Lies. But, here we are learning the forensic interpersonal skills to have sex. Women like sex too. They just use it against us. How frustrated do I sound?
I think this is the end game, but it's not going to serve you to disregard your role in it. Have you stopped dating your wife? IE giving her the attention she wants to feel loved? Have you put in the work to be attractive? IE lose the weight, dress your best, eat well and take care of yourself. Only once you've molded yourself into a high value man and out hasn't worked with your current woman is it time to move on.
Been Married for 26 years and have had a cold bed for 14 years. This video is about the last ditch effort to figure this out. She is an avoidant woman. My 21 year old son when to dinner with a friend and his parents (tonight). Came back saying that it was nice to go to dinner without the arguing. I have explained that this isn’t a normal relationship and something he should avoid. Sex isn’t the problem it’s a symptom of her avoidance and constant picking. I am fun, successful, and athletic The only time we had sex was around the 8 year mark. It was after we hadn’t had sex for 5-6 years that I had an affair. It lasted a couple months, it was inited by the other woman. She got us busted and then magically my wife decided we could now have sex. It lasted roughly 3-4 months and here we are today. I am at the end of my rope. I gave her back my wedding ring yesterday and said that I am done with a marriage of convenience. All advice is welcome
I guess I missed the part where you talked about emotional intimacy or the lack of it? I am not, and never have been interested in being "serviced". but I sure got tired of being completely ignored in favor of career, reading, exercise, or just about anything else. Sex problems are simply a barometer of relationship problems.
I think your video is one of the BEST and most helpful things I’ve been able to find in over 10 years of searching. I can’t afford the counseling that most people are able to. Your video here is pure gold for men. From what Ive learned, this condition is COMMON in relationships. Also, that it’s always men’s fault and we are to cater to our wives insecurities etc.. while some of that is true-it is this information that can be helpful if you are willing to compromise for the sake of the marriage. Thank you so much.
I tried both sides. Love the idea of flirting etc. Usually falls on deaf ears. I’ve also tried the lie low tactic. There was no positive feedback there either. Actually seemed ok with it. So it’s back to limbo land without a map. 😂
Unfortunately I normally lose attraction over time even for a so called supermodel, yet at the same time my love increases. Now if i am not in a committed relationship and I have variety available then i am into sex, much much more... Now, losing desire is not absolute and it can return but it's never the same as the beginning. Even though I have issues maintaining a burning desire with the same partner I do not cheat. i do not think one of my friends shares this phenomena when I have explained it. I am fortunate in that women have always been very easy to come by but the long term has been difficult for me. Now it seems i have a great situation but I still have desire. I work at it.
If you have to debate or argue about sex or the lack thereof, just save your breath and move on. No sense in practically begging someone to show you affection. Find someone who will willfully.
Exactly. It is amazing to me how entitled women are. Men are failures too. But women are masterful at making sure that the man they CHOOSE will pay the price for their OWN insecurities. And also that they are not as good at understanding their feelings and communicating as they pride themselves on. I sound like a woman hater, but I’m not. I just see how hypocritical women are. SOMEONE has to pay the price, might as well be the person who committed their life and loyalty to you. Jesus. Also, women are absolutely turned on by stereotypical muscle men or money men…..while also telling the men out there in society that WE are stereotypical in our desires. Lies.
But, here we are learning the forensic interpersonal skills to have sex. Women like sex too. They just use it against us. How frustrated do I sound?
I think this is the end game, but it's not going to serve you to disregard your role in it. Have you stopped dating your wife? IE giving her the attention she wants to feel loved? Have you put in the work to be attractive? IE lose the weight, dress your best, eat well and take care of yourself. Only once you've molded yourself into a high value man and out hasn't worked with your current woman is it time to move on.
@@cheerbeerification exactly.. get skilled get ripped and rich. Protect yourself at all times
Been Married for 26 years and have had a cold bed for 14 years. This video is about the last ditch effort to figure this out. She is an avoidant woman. My 21 year old son when to dinner with a friend and his parents (tonight). Came back saying that it was nice to go to dinner without the arguing. I have explained that this isn’t a normal relationship and something he should avoid. Sex isn’t the problem it’s a symptom of her avoidance and constant picking.
I am fun, successful, and athletic
The only time we had sex was around the 8 year mark. It was after we hadn’t had sex for 5-6 years that I had an affair. It lasted a couple months, it was inited by the other woman. She got us busted and then magically my wife decided we could now have sex. It lasted roughly 3-4 months and here we are today. I am at the end of my rope. I gave her back my wedding ring yesterday and said that I am done with a marriage of convenience. All advice is welcome
I guess I missed the part where you talked about emotional intimacy or the lack of it? I am not, and never have been interested in being "serviced". but I sure got tired of being completely ignored in favor of career, reading, exercise, or just about anything else. Sex problems are simply a barometer of relationship problems.
Ask yourself why that person detached that way. You may have been the problem that you created. How would I know that?? Yep.
Don’t get married. Biggest scam in the world
I think your video is one of the BEST and most helpful things I’ve been able to find in over 10 years of searching. I can’t afford the counseling that most people are able to. Your video here is pure gold for men. From what Ive learned, this condition is COMMON in relationships. Also, that it’s always men’s fault and we are to cater to our wives insecurities etc.. while some of that is true-it is this information that can be helpful if you are willing to compromise for the sake of the marriage. Thank you so much.
Man, I relate to this so much “Why do you never initiate sex with me?”
33 years in a sexless marriage. I’m afraid nothing will ever change!
This channel has a difficult message, but it feels like it's the truth. I don't understand why you don't get more views and comments.
This channel is incredibly wholesome and straight to the point. Subscribing
I tried both sides.
Love the idea of flirting etc. Usually falls on deaf ears.
I’ve also tried the lie low tactic. There was no positive feedback there either.
Actually seemed ok with it.
So it’s back to limbo land without a map.
😂
Should I stay or should I go now???
Unfortunately I normally lose attraction over time even for a so called supermodel, yet at the same time my love increases. Now if i am not in a committed relationship and I have variety available then i am into sex, much much more... Now, losing desire is not absolute and it can return but it's never the same as the beginning. Even though I have issues maintaining a burning desire with the same partner I do not cheat. i do not think one of my friends shares this phenomena when I have explained it. I am fortunate in that women have always been very easy to come by but the long term has been difficult for me. Now it seems i have a great situation but I still have desire. I work at it.