I came across Apostle Femi Lazarus on the last days of 2023. Since then, my life has changed drastically. I study the word of God everyday, pray everyday and now I fast 3 times a week. I have a consistent prayer life, something I was unable to do. I couldn't pray continously for one week, but now I have been consistent for a month now. May the grace of God continue to increase in me❤🙏.
Growing up close friends always pre-judged and betrayed me. For seven years I now I’ve build a defence mechanism for stay completely away from people to protect my peace.From this message I realise I truely never got over that hurt 😭 .So help me God 🙏
I was just weeping all thru out the message , l am important,l am a child of God , this message is just a deep well of healing ,wow thank u pastor Femi 😭😭😭😭
This is for me. God has told me that in the first quarter of 2024, I must find healing from childhood trauma so that I can shine. Thank you so much to the man of God and all partners and workers that made it possible for me to access this message. Thank you so much Apostle Femi and the Media team.
I have been emotionally traumatized ever since low self-esteem got the best of me,tried severally to outgrow it or better still,train my mind to have a stable emotion,but still stayed the same. So with time,I started fighting off love...here is what I mean,when someone professes love to me, due no self love,I always believed it was either a lie, or maybe a bet the person is willing to win with his friends (you know, just a random group of male friends, betting on who would have me to fall in love easily). I was always on the defense in everything,and hardened my heart from giving love...but coming across this video,I know there is help for me,I am healing,...I hope I fully do. Thank you so much pastor Femi.
I need to heal from the death of my daughter and forgive those who caused her death.i need to heal from all the miscarriages I have suffered after.i need to heal from the lost of my last miscarriage and those who caused it.jesus help me to rebuild my faith hope in you and humanity in Jesus name.this message is just on point
This man is of God will blessed abundantly he carry different kind of grace …since i prayed while listening to him .i felt weight lifted over my shoulders…I set myself free from childhood trauma and welcome happiness and love in my life in Jesus name Amen!!!
I came across this message while I was going through my instagram, it was really touching so I decided to watch the full message on TH-cam, I am glad I watched this , I’m so glad I heard this message at the moment I was about giving up on Christianity 😢😢😢
I grew up with my mum and my dad left us. Saw myself through school. My edge was paying my fees even before my coursemates with complete parents. Broke few times but very comfortable ❤. Didn’t let my trauma hold me down
It's interesting how we don't know how our actions project the wounds in our hearts. We might not know how the things we have experienced have shaped us. Thank you for this teaching. Very profound
I'M IMPORTANT!!! Listening to you apostle have made me realize how intentional God is toward me. Thank God for this healing process and thank you sir for being instrumental to this healing. God bless you sir
this sermon is for me, throughout the sermon my eyes have been opened and asked God i need to heal I have experienced trauma i became blind to al ot of things. thank you man of God and thank you Jesus for this timely message
By the declaration of the most powerful name of Jesus Christ, I refuse to be a failure, I'm not a product of my pasts. I'm awesome, I'm great, I'm not small. Thank you Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Arhh... This message pierced my soul😢😢...But how do I open my heart up to a man who just obviously wants sex and would leave when he's done??😢😢...No matter how nice and wifely I am , they always leave😢...How then do I open up when I meet someone new?😢😢...I just want God to send me a deserving man cuz I am done opening up to the wrong people 😢😢😢
Take your time with them. I watched a message by femi lazarus on this. Maybe I will find the like But scientifically speaking When male and female has sex we both secrete the oxytocin hormones(love hormone) but females secrete more and yours stays longer So you are more likely to still have those genuine feelings after sex Try to build on other areas in the relationship before sex Maybe then they will have stronger connections and more reasons to want to go on Even after oxytocin expires❤
Why all you think of is marriage and relationship?? Are you going into a relationship under any pressure? What is pushing you, despiration? Or family pressure? Because I know that, a well reserve human get his or her kind, 🐦 of same feaders flocks... Set your standards and check about what just say ... Remember - people call you the name you called your self... Shalom's
thank you for this message. I felt repeatedly like you were talking directly to me. God has brought me to a phase where I believe the only way forward is to heal from my childhood trauma. There is no longer any way up for me except through it. I believe this may be one of the reasons why God has brought me to your messages. Today, I finally found the words that spoke to my soul and equipped me to make the decision to move forward in an aspect where I have been stuck for years. Thank you. May God bless you and keep you.
God bless you sir. I saw your message for the first time first week of January, my marriage was at a point of break cause of trauma...... I can't wait for the series on dealing with a partner from a dysfunctional background. God bless you sir
Thank you so much.....a generation that doesn't question it's leaders will in itself raise up a generation of leaders that have no accountability.....layer of the heart 🎉🎉🎉so many gems where dropped here yoh🙏🙏🙏
Thank you pastor, thank you for this teaching. I have been scared of loving people with all my heart because of the trauma of the past. I'm delivered from that fear and trauma. everything is restored. THANK YOU
Good day. I’m really connecting with your messages, especially this one because it comes close to home both on a family life and professional life levels. I feel you so much in this message, with lots of tears and giggles! The exposure to my profession as a psychotherapist has drawn me into a lot of healing of my own heart, the missing piece is that I’m not broken enough over others’ trauma experiences. I do my job, and I needed to have God-‘heart.’ This message has me undone!!!
Pregate insieme in CRISTO GESÙ per CIRO chiedo SAPIENZA governo prosperità spirituale economica fisica autorità potere potenza totale in CRISTO GESÙ amen❤
Sir,you mentioned my situation.I have a father who till date I don't know what I did to attract his hate,it is like his life's mission is to stiffle anything that will make me succeed.lets not talk about the plethora of rape incidents.i gave faced rejection,retrogression and shame.i have lived in survival mode since I knew how to breathe.last year,I vowed not to have any family but God,I'll do everything with and through him.i don't know what it means to have friends,just very few.i am nervous around people cuz something tells me,I will always do wrong around people so my safest is to isolate.i okay God heals my wounds,they are too many,too many for 1 person to bear.
Jesus loves you, God loves you and I love you, God will heal you and I pray God sends awesome people into your life and helps you heal , God bless you my sister
Sis, may the Holy Spirit strengthen you. I can totally relate to your story, except that in my case, it's the relationship with my mother. A toxic parent causes trauma to children 😔
This is just like my toxic ex we just broke up she did me bad and bitter but I sit down and try to know where all of this came from I was at first hating on her but I had to realize she did what she had to do for survival, she knew I loved her so much but yet she did me wrong, I look deep into her storyline and where she came from her family, the way she was been treated at home now I know why she did me bad, I hope we can really reconcile and be of help to her but she also need to help herself….. all the lies I know it was a coping mechanisms for her
I was touched by this message This is my first time I’m watching full message from this platform And indeed I felt the message it was talking to me directly and I felt the healing that came with message It’s message has help to for start a new beginning.. I am not disadvantaged I am not ordinary
God bless you sir,for this wonderful message sir. Am really at a point in my life, where am scared of trusting anyone,but I know God will heal me wholly.
A balm to the downtrodden and broken-hearted...thank you Pastor!!! Im saving this and would come back to it every month till my spirit is one with this message.
First time I saw your video was a shared one. After listening to it, I searched the youtube and when found, I subscribed, and followed. Since then, I never regretted it. Though, it may take time to adjust but I will get it right.
Ha Thank God for Apostle Lazarus for bringing all this difficult situations to Limelight; so on point and needed at this time, It helps me understand how I have been hurt with my trauma and how to work towards healing 🙃
Chai! What a message. Thanks Apostle. This message is mind renewing. " To love is to be vulnerable" More grace and divine provision to u and your team . Shalom
God bless you so much sir🙏 I was actually going through some trauma until a friend of mine shared this link for me.. I'm important and am healed in Jesus name 🙏
What is truama? * An injury to the mind or emotion *An unforgettable experience that scares the soul *A disturbing or distressing experience *An emotional wound leading to psychological injury (Luke 4:18-) Suffering tries to give you a new identity/perspective Never admire people so much that you will abandon your uniquness. It's a sign that you are seeing men as trees. If God wanted only them, He wouldn't have created you. Psalms 11:2-3 * You can win and still don't want to go through the process again cause of the pain. Love is its essence is vulnerability not stupidity. (Fear and pain has made us have conversations but no heart connection.) People with childhood traumas: *Can't stand up for theirselevs *People pleasers * Often shy cause they're use to disappearing in the midst of people * It make people blame themselves of what they're not wrong about. * They believe people are doing them Favour for loving them.(privilege to be loved) *Trauma makes you abuse yourself (by using people's hurtful words on yourself) Rom 8:1
I came across Apostle Femi Lazarus on the last days of 2023. Since then, my life has changed drastically. I study the word of God everyday, pray everyday and now I fast 3 times a week. I have a consistent prayer life, something I was unable to do. I couldn't pray continously for one week, but now I have been consistent for a month now. May the grace of God continue to increase in me❤🙏.
Amen
Amen!!! 🔥🔥🔥
I tap grom this grace
AMEN!
Miss Paola I can relate verily!! He is indeed sent for these end times 🥺❤️🩹
Growing up close friends always pre-judged and betrayed me. For seven years I now I’ve build a defence mechanism for stay completely away from people to protect my peace.From this message I realise I truely never got over that hurt 😭 .So help me God 🙏
I'm no longer a slave to fear, I am a child of God. Hallelujah!
This feels like a therapy with God 🥺🥺🥺😭 Glory
I was just weeping all thru out the message , l am important,l am a child of God , this message is just a deep well of healing ,wow thank u pastor Femi 😭😭😭😭
I refuse to look down on myself. I am dusting my cv to apply to multinationals. I will share my testimony soon
That's the spirit 💯
Congratulations in advance, May this testimony come earlier than expected🙏🏽.
Amen
We're rooting for you
Amen, God will do it for you. 1 Corinthians 2:9
This is for me. God has told me that in the first quarter of 2024, I must find healing from childhood trauma so that I can shine. Thank you so much to the man of God and all partners and workers that made it possible for me to access this message. Thank you so much Apostle Femi and the Media team.
God bless you
"don't give people the feeling that you are privileged to be around them", "never admire people so much that you abandon your uniqueness" 🥺🔥🔥🔥
My God! This message is so deep...hmmm! Mercy Lord !!!!
I have been emotionally traumatized ever since low self-esteem got the best of me,tried severally to outgrow it or better still,train my mind to have a stable emotion,but still stayed the same.
So with time,I started fighting off love...here is what I mean,when someone professes love to me, due no self love,I always believed it was either a lie, or maybe a bet the person is willing to win with his friends (you know, just a random group of male friends, betting on who would have me to fall in love easily).
I was always on the defense in everything,and hardened my heart from giving love...but coming across this video,I know there is help for me,I am healing,...I hope I fully do.
Thank you so much pastor Femi.
Can I chat with you?
I can relate sis, it was same with me
I can totally relate
You are strong
When people know you are privileged to be around them,they will manipulate you..
I need to heal from the death of my daughter and forgive those who caused her death.i need to heal from all the miscarriages I have suffered after.i need to heal from the lost of my last miscarriage and those who caused it.jesus help me to rebuild my faith hope in you and humanity in Jesus name.this message is just on point
❤❤
I pray for you
It is well with you ma
This man is of God will blessed abundantly he carry different kind of grace …since i prayed while listening to him .i felt weight lifted over my shoulders…I set myself free from childhood trauma and welcome happiness and love in my life in Jesus name Amen!!!
I came across this message while I was going through my instagram, it was really touching so I decided to watch the full message on TH-cam, I am glad I watched this , I’m so glad I heard this message at the moment I was about giving up on Christianity 😢😢😢
I pray God heal my heart and emotions so I can love the next person again 😢😢
Amen🙏 God will heal your heart
Same here...I was on Instagram.
I grew up with my mum and my dad left us. Saw myself through school. My edge was paying my fees even before my coursemates with complete parents. Broke few times but very comfortable ❤. Didn’t let my trauma hold me down
What a message!
I'm so blessed. Thank you Jesus. 🙏
It's interesting how we don't know how our actions project the wounds in our hearts. We might not know how the things we have experienced have shaped us. Thank you for this teaching. Very profound
I'M IMPORTANT!!! Listening to you apostle have made me realize how intentional God is toward me. Thank God for this healing process and thank you sir for being instrumental to this healing. God bless you sir
YOU KNOW THE MAN IS BROKEN WHEN HE SWITCHES FROM ASKING FOR FREEDOM TO FOOD😭😭
I need to listen to this message everyday to remind myself of who and whose I am 🙏🏾
PTSD in ministry has happened to me, and now there are times I don't know if I can continue to work for God in the same church.
Wow... What an eye opener... God bless you sir....
Kudos to all the media team in the Body of Christ. God bless you all.
I am blessed by this sermon 🙏😩.
God bless you so much Sir 🙏😩.
😢😢😢😢please can anyone seeing this like my comment l want to always come back here
Please do,and get engrossed here for a life transforming word of God
Come back 🥹
@@chika_7111 thank you l have came back
You can now 😅
You can now 😅
I'm so touched by this msg thank you Servant of God
this sermon is for me, throughout the sermon my eyes have been opened and asked God i need to heal I have experienced trauma i became blind to al ot of things. thank you man of God and thank you Jesus for this timely message
I’m grateful to God. I found a man like you. You’re a blessing to our generation. Thank you sir
This message blessed me richly. Glued to my screen at 2am. I receive the grace to apply these teachings. Amen
What channel please?
On this channel, youtube or short clips on his Instagram page
I’m in awe of how this man is a gift from God for my generation 😭😭😭❤
I was found my self after listening to this preaching today!! I feel so blessed
God bless you Apostle. This message came at the right time. You've helped me in ways you can't imagine.
By the declaration of the most powerful name of Jesus Christ, I refuse to be a failure, I'm not a product of my pasts. I'm awesome, I'm great, I'm not small. Thank you Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I wish I saw this message earlier but still no difference 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭. Please God please heal me
I didn't realise how much trauma I had until I listened to this message😢. Holy Spirit, thank you! I AM IMPORTANT!
27:49 Amen. This is my year of healing. I'm not my trauma or what I went through.
God bless you apostle. This is my second time listening to this message
Wow...this is the most needed message for our generation 😢😢😢... God bless and keep you Pastor Femi.🙏🏽
Arhh... This message pierced my soul😢😢...But how do I open my heart up to a man who just obviously wants sex and would leave when he's done??😢😢...No matter how nice and wifely I am , they always leave😢...How then do I open up when I meet someone new?😢😢...I just want God to send me a deserving man cuz I am done opening up to the wrong people 😢😢😢
Hmmm! This is an attraction issue you are drawn towards certain people cause of what is in you I am not at liberty to speak freely.
Take your time with them. I watched a message by femi lazarus on this. Maybe I will find the like
But scientifically speaking
When male and female has sex we both secrete the oxytocin hormones(love hormone) but females secrete more and yours stays longer
So you are more likely to still have those genuine feelings after sex
Try to build on other areas in the relationship before sex
Maybe then they will have stronger connections and more reasons to want to go on
Even after oxytocin expires❤
Why all you think of is marriage and relationship?? Are you going into a relationship under any pressure? What is pushing you, despiration? Or family pressure? Because I know that, a well reserve human get his or her kind, 🐦 of same feaders flocks... Set your standards and check about what just say ... Remember - people call you the name you called your self... Shalom's
thank you for this message. I felt repeatedly like you were talking directly to me. God has brought me to a phase where I believe the only way forward is to heal from my childhood trauma. There is no longer any way up for me except through it. I believe this may be one of the reasons why God has brought me to your messages. Today, I finally found the words that spoke to my soul and equipped me to make the decision to move forward in an aspect where I have been stuck for years. Thank you. May God bless you and keep you.
God bless you sir. I saw your message for the first time first week of January, my marriage was at a point of break cause of trauma...... I can't wait for the series on dealing with a partner from a dysfunctional background. God bless you sir
This message came at the right time. Thanks so much Apostle Femi Lazarus
❤❤ this sermon is very powerful I am blessed , this is what I have expected for long
My whole life reflected on pastor Femi Lazarus's
Thank you so much.....a generation that doesn't question it's leaders will in itself raise up a generation of leaders that have no accountability.....layer of the heart 🎉🎉🎉so many gems where dropped here yoh🙏🙏🙏
Love this gospel about healing from dysfunction.
Thank you pastor, thank you for this teaching.
I have been scared of loving people with all my heart because of the trauma of the past. I'm delivered from that fear and trauma.
everything is restored.
THANK YOU
I hope to heal completely from this pain, I can’t wait to experience GENUINE , TRUE. And INTENTIONAL love again
Apostle Femi Lazarus, you told me more about my life than I know about
Thank you so much sir, thank you for yielding to God’s call🥺
This message hits really deep. I receive grace to begin to see myself as important and heal from trauma😢
Thank you Jesus Christ for this message
Hmmmmmm, thank you Jesus for this message.
Healing coming to the church again
God bless you Apostle , I'm blessed to hear this!
This Apostle has reminded me of God.
Why didn't this message do before now ooooo God 😢😢😢😢😢, God have mercy on my soul, thank you very much sir
God bless you Apostle. This is what I needed right now, I am healed. ❤
Good day. I’m really connecting with your messages, especially this one because it comes close to home both on a family life and professional life levels. I feel you so much in this message, with lots of tears and giggles! The exposure to my profession as a psychotherapist has drawn me into a lot of healing of my own heart, the missing piece is that I’m not broken enough over others’ trauma experiences. I do my job, and I needed to have God-‘heart.’ This message has me undone!!!
Pregate insieme in CRISTO GESÙ per CIRO chiedo SAPIENZA governo prosperità spirituale economica fisica autorità potere potenza totale in CRISTO GESÙ amen❤
Sir,you mentioned my situation.I have a father who till date I don't know what I did to attract his hate,it is like his life's mission is to stiffle anything that will make me succeed.lets not talk about the plethora of rape incidents.i gave faced rejection,retrogression and shame.i have lived in survival mode since I knew how to breathe.last year,I vowed not to have any family but God,I'll do everything with and through him.i don't know what it means to have friends,just very few.i am nervous around people cuz something tells me,I will always do wrong around people so my safest is to isolate.i okay God heals my wounds,they are too many,too many for 1 person to bear.
Jesus loves you, God loves you and I love you, God will heal you and I pray God sends awesome people into your life and helps you heal , God bless you my sister
You are made for a purpose. You will not just heal but God will help you heal others too in Jesus name amen
Sis, may the Holy Spirit strengthen you. I can totally relate to your story, except that in my case, it's the relationship with my mother. A toxic parent causes trauma to children 😔
This is just like my toxic ex we just broke up she did me bad and bitter but I sit down and try to know where all of this came from I was at first hating on her but I had to realize she did what she had to do for survival, she knew I loved her so much but yet she did me wrong, I look deep into her storyline and where she came from her family, the way she was been treated at home now I know why she did me bad, I hope we can really reconcile and be of help to her but she also need to help herself….. all the lies I know it was a coping mechanisms for her
😢
I was touched by this message
This is my first time I’m watching full message from this platform
And indeed I felt the message it was talking to me directly and I felt the healing that came with message
It’s message has help to for start a new beginning..
I am not disadvantaged
I am not ordinary
Was blessed by this massage.
Made me realized how important I was,thank you sir🙏 more grace
I never thought I have trauma ever in my life.. but today I discovered I have. Ahhhh.. May God heal me
You can't look at your advantage and talk down at others. I am no longer a slave to fear, I am a child of God. Thank you Father.
God bless you sir,for this wonderful message sir.
Am really at a point in my life, where am scared of trusting anyone,but I know God will heal me wholly.
I used to greet that way moreover when I see dignitaries
From now on I greet with Not seeing MEN AS TREES
Minister FEMI, thank You because You HEALED
Thank you Lord Jesus. I am free now 😭😭🙏🙏
My God! This is profound, this is both timely and refreshing, I'm on my 2nd listen @FemiLazarus, God bless you sir!
Thank you pastor
May God bless you for being a different pastor
And I love you.
I had to take breaks in between to take a deep breath. The pain is deep, and this message touched me
God bless you sir for this awesome Sermon
Now I understand why I can't seem to love my God given partner with my whole heart.
God help me 😢
Thankful for the gift of Apostle femi Lazarus....i couldn't hold my tears.....i am important and a love being🙏
Apostle thank you for saying yes to the move of God.
A balm to the downtrodden and broken-hearted...thank you Pastor!!! Im saving this and would come back to it every month till my spirit is one with this message.
I'm blessed by this powerful message. Trauma has no hold on me 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I was really blessed by this message .I really thank God for you Sir....much love from Zimbabwe
I receive grace to heal from my terrible experiences 🙏🥺
First time I saw your video was a shared one. After listening to it, I searched the youtube and when found, I subscribed, and followed. Since then, I never regretted it. Though, it may take time to adjust but I will get it right.
I can’t get over this message
It’s so powerful and relatable
Wish I saw this much earlier but thank God for freedom 🙏
Amazing. Thank you Apostle.
This ministry has been a timely blessing in my life! 🤍 God bless you Apostle. I am blessed, I am healed, I am loved, and I am free!
God bless you
Your messages are now my therapy. I don’t know why but you speak directly into my heart . I’m beginning to think differently. Thank you so much sir 🙏🏼
Ha Thank God for Apostle Lazarus for bringing all this difficult situations to Limelight; so on point and needed at this time, It helps me understand how I have been hurt with my trauma and how to work towards healing 🙃
What an impactful message. Thank you for allowing me to let go of the past.
Thank you Jesus for speaking to me through this. 😢
Chai! What a message. Thanks Apostle. This message is mind renewing. " To love is to be vulnerable"
More grace and divine provision to u and your team . Shalom
God bless you so much sir🙏
I was actually going through some trauma until a friend of mine shared this link for me.. I'm important and am healed in Jesus name 🙏
Thank you Apostle, may my God bless you. Every time I listen to your preaching I heal from pain that was never my fault to begin with
What is truama?
* An injury to the mind or emotion
*An unforgettable experience that scares the soul
*A disturbing or distressing experience
*An emotional wound leading to psychological injury
(Luke 4:18-)
Suffering tries to give you a new identity/perspective
Never admire people so much that you will abandon your uniquness. It's a sign that you are seeing men as trees. If God wanted only them, He wouldn't have created you.
Psalms 11:2-3
* You can win and still don't want to go through the process again cause of the pain.
Love is its essence is vulnerability not stupidity. (Fear and pain has made us have conversations but no heart connection.)
People with childhood traumas:
*Can't stand up for theirselevs
*People pleasers
* Often shy cause they're use to disappearing in the midst of people
* It make people blame themselves of what they're not wrong about.
* They believe people are doing them Favour for loving them.(privilege to be loved)
*Trauma makes you abuse yourself (by using people's hurtful words on yourself)
Rom 8:1
Good student of the word. Thank you! 😊
A timely message. Thank you Apostle
Thank you Holy Spirit for this message
I love Apostle Femi. I say it with tears in my eyes.
Thank you sir
Your word has impacted me in a way and I pray it will again in so many ways ❤
I pray for the grace of God over my life this year. I pray God grants me a divine turn around in my finance and bless the works of my hand
Amen
Thank you very much, sir, for delivering such a profound message. God bless you abundantly
Your teachings blesses me sir. Thanks
May this message have a significant impact in my life....amen🙏
Waow!!! Did Pastor just go there... Am so so touched. Thank you sir ❤❤❤
Wow.... this message has blessed me immensely. Thank very much, Apostle Femi
Powerful message
This is such a powerful message and I can testify yo it. More power to your elbow, sir.