Kuv xav li koj thiab zoo li nws khav tias nws ua neej zoo zog lawv tsis tsa nws ua tus loj nws thiaj khiav mus txeeb pab tom tus coj los ua los lawv tsis txhawb nws ces nws khiav dua lawm thiab
There's so many negative people on here who's talking about your story and have never been in your shoes. I've seen firsthand how hateful hmong people can be and I saw firsthand how people treated my dad as he got older. Everyone knows that when you are good others will step all over you because you're kind. It's sad that people look and say that it's your fault if everyone dislikes you. That is not always true when it comes to jealousy. If people can't use you then they will make you out to be the Bad Apple in the family. For everything that you have done for your community and your family, I can see why they are jealous of you. I was a kid and I saw my parents go through the same things you went through. I witnessed firsthand for twenty years how they treated my parents. This is the reason why I teach my children that hmong culture is a disgrace when it comes to leadership. I'm not hating, I just speak the facts. We all know that it has a lot to do with favoritism and everyone on here acts like they've never seen this happen before. This is the reason why hmong people have no country. Not only did I see this happened to my parents but I saw it happened to my in-laws too. It's sad that they had to convert to Christianity like you did just to have peace in their life too. We live in America now and those family who choose not to be a part of your life, let them be without you. Continue living your life the way you want to. You've done enough and you owe no one nothing. You don't need to explain anything to anyone, not even these negative people on here. The only people that understands what you've been through are the people that have been in your shoes. Tape care of yourself and your family.
Liked your comment up until you had to throw in the “this is why Hmong people have no country.” Stop with that crap. There are many bad people and they have a country. In life, it don’t matter what race you are, most will only like you for how much and how long they can use you or find you beneficial to them. No matter how many friends someone has, one friend is bound to get jealous and betray you or, if no one betrays you, just wait until you get sick, you’ll see that no one will be there but your immediate family members… and sometimes not even family will be there.
@@anntwin1301 I agree with your point. I didn't mean it literally about hmong has no country. I was tired of people not seeing a person's life for what it is. Doesn't matter if theirs to side of the story. Point is, the guy has been treated by family like he's a nobody. What i meant by that statement is to show that hmong don't love hmong and they rather destroy the very family they need than to support him for a better purpose. Yes I was wrong for that statement instead of saying what i needed to say. Sometimes itll open people's eyes to realize my statement was made is because we have no country, we should love each other as hmong people no matter family or not. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.
@@tengher2889 yeah, I hate the “there’s two sides to every story.” But the truth is, only one side is telling the truth or closer to the truth. And usually one party triggered or started it but people don’t want to acknowledge that.
Tbh, your comment is more negative than the negative comments u claimed bc you're gearing towards a larger group of people whereas many of the comments here only geared toward this particular individual.
Lol, when we still keep constantly advertise ourself to love one another, that mean we still having that very issue. We all should learn and listen and learn from both positive n negative comments. Remember, there's a solution because the it was solve from a problems. Just like 2+2=4 lol. But there's always 2 side of the story. Every action we made or take, there's always a consequence bad or good. It's good to take a good looks surrounding you and adapted to that environment.
Tus txiv ntxawm koj yuam kev lawm os koj cov tub yuav txawj ntsi npaum cas los koj nco ntsoov tias koj yog tus los sab nraud los thiab yog tus tawm mus lawm es rov los ces lawv khib es qhov zoo ces Nyob twj ywm xwb txhob mus nrog tej koos haum no sib do tsis txog twg os
I want to hear the other two side of the story too. I've seen and heard too many stories similar to this one and half the time the bad person usually plays the victim. They leave out all the bad stuff they do and only talk about the good stuff they "see" themselves do.
Agreed. I think there is more to the story. There is no way that he had the same problem from two different side of relatives. I believe he is part of the problem.
No you are wrong Hmong people work as a narcissistic cult. No matter what you do people will still abuse you especially if you have no blood family on your side. Thank goodness this father has sons to live him.
The best Kwv tij is money. Kwv tij only like you when you keep giving. When you run out of money to give them, you are non-existent to them. Nowadays kwv tij is mekas people that you hire to do work. My husband has 2 biological brothers and they never help out when we need them so don’t feel bad. Biological or not, it depends on the individual’s kindness.
Koj thiab Kuv ces zoo ib yam os tus nus aws. 🥲🥲 but you are much luckier than I am. Best wishes to you and myself. We only have ourselves to love, don’t depend on others.
I'm an orphan, and I learn to love myself and live with out relatives. Please don't run to be a leader among your relatives. No one will listen to you and only hate you for it.
Txhob tu siab ua neej nrog cov giav dub zoo dua mus nrog cov niag tab sab ov mog . Zoo uas koj mus ntsib vaj tswv lawd uas tsaug vaj tswv tau hu koj mus tau txoj sia ntev lawm
There's two side of a story! You and your family just too perfect . Seen like you want to run both family, that's why! both family dislike your family period. Xav ua tus loj xwb ces thiaj li raug ntxub
Tsis txhob tu siab os..... yus tej me tub me nyuam nyob khov kho lawv ua taus lawv txiv lawm lawv mam li hlub yus, yus tsev neeg hauv tsev thiaj li tseem ceeb tshaj os.....
Amen mus Vajtswv zoo Tshaj li lawm os Tus nus aws mus Vajtswv es kj mus kj lub siab li kj pab kj cov Kwv tij ces Tseem zoo Tshaj kj nrog kj cov Kwv tij os mus Vajtswv lawm ces zoo heev li nawb.
Txhob tu siab mog kwvtij zoo qhov Koj los cuag VAajtswv tsev neeg lawm,Cov ntseeg mam pab koj kuv li lawv twb cem cem kom cia li mus ua xeem vaajtswv txhob ua lawv xeem lawm mas.yav no mus tom ntej Koj yuav tsi tu siab lawm
People can be so petty. It all boils down to jealousy but also sounds like you forgot how to be humble. From the sound of it, you are putting yourself on a pedestal too.
Hais tau Zoo thiab chim siab mob siab heev li vim hmoob txoj cai Txog 1000.000 Tiam neej los yeej tsis hloov Kav tsij ua kom npe hmoob ploj hauv lub ntiaj teb no mus nej cov hmoob mus nyob Meskas Feem coob mus nyob rau Meskas teb chaws tseg txoj kev cem neeg hmoob nyob ASIA lawm nawb nej pab pawg mus nyob rau sab ntuj tim ub twb tsis sib hlub lawm ces quav dev xwb
this story seems to be missing some thing... he's too perfect and his life is too good the way he speaks. i know conceited people like this. when everyone is against you... look at yourself. they love you and then they don't...hmmm...
He sounds too prefect in this story…he sounds like he wants everyone’s praises and when he doesn’t get it then everyone else is bad. I don’t think he can take criticism and opinions from others.
Vim kev khib yog ib tug lub neej zoo. Tsis muaj kev zoo siab hos muaj kev khib tsis xav kom lwm tus zoo. Hais txog yug ua neeg tsis muaj kwv tij thiab muam es yus ib leeg ntseeb ces kuv paub tias kev tu siab muaj ntau. Txhob tu siab....u found God anf you have your wife n kids who love you.
Txiv ntxawm, kev hlub tsis xam khib. Yog koj ua zoo rau lawv es lawv tsis ua zoo pauj los txhob tu siab vim yus yeej txaus siab ua. Yog yus ua tag yus pheej xam khib ces txhob ua.
If the first clan hate you, why did they nominated you for clan leader. Just because your step brother said a little hurt thing and you turn your back on the entire clan...no wonder they didn't eat your cow, they felt betrayed.
Xaj maim no ces tsis yog twm zeej thiaj zoo li ko os..peb cov niam txiv ib plab yug los yeej tseem zoo tib yam li koj hais ko thiab nws tsis tim lawv tsis yog yus kwv tij nws yog lub ntuj tiam no neeg lub siab phem ntau tshaj lub siab zoo lawm xwb txhob tu siab peb cov niam txiv ib plab los yeej zoo ib yam nkaus li os..😢
My family and I experienced this first hand.. ua zoo npaum li cas los yeej tsis txaus. At the end of the day, yus muaj yus tsev neeg xwb (as in tus phooj ywg cov menyuam nws yug lawm xwb). Tsis muaj leej twg xav yuav yus li.. ntshe yug tau Peb tsis ntxim hlub thiaj li tau los taug txoj kev Tu siab no os.. a lot of comments here are saying he is trying to be perfect and is a perfectionist.. it’s not true. We are just trying to be human and trying to nrhiav kev hlub vim yus ntshaw kom muaj kwv muaj tij thiab nkauj muam nraug nus nrog luag hu xwb.. I wish that this was not a major problem in this life.. xav kom Peb hmoob tsis txhob yug menyuam los zoo li no lawm os lawv es..
Yawg aw, tso tseg txoj kev ntshaw ntshaw ua tus loj os. Txhob coj coj tsab cai 1975 thia os. Txoj kev ntshaw ua tus loj tus kav thaib xav tias yus ntse txau lawm no ces thaum kawg luag thiaj tsis hlub yus los mo. Koj tsis txawj hlub koj cos me nyuam. Koj tseem mua koj tus tub thiab nyab hlob los ua lawm qhev thiab. Koj lub hlwb tseem nyob xyoo 1975. Thov hloov thia lau yawg aw.
Tus txiv tsev Niam hlob Niam yau cov me nyuam ces yeej zoo li no thiab thaum yus tau los ua Tus coj thiab Patha lawm txhuas Tus yeej khib2 thiab ntxub 2 yus kawg cov teem meem koj Hais peb cov ua thawj coj thiab Patha ces raug tag nro
Yog vim licas es nej pheej tseem ntshaw ua tus coj ma? Yus yog tus ntseeb ces nyob li tus ntseeb xwb thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab. Tsis ua tus coj los yeej tseem pab tau kev neej kev tsav na. Meej mom tsis muaj qab hau dab tsi li os!
Its sad to see so many people think he is being a victim bc two side hates him. But I have witnessed similar issues like this happen because everyone has their own agenda. People can be this mean from multiple groups, it’s not impossible for this to happen to one family. How many stories can there be when neither sides was able to say or do the right thing… Hmong people are still uneducated Freckle and prideful. Disrespect from other people is all it takes to have a problem like this. You will not know until you meet it, trust me. When you learn people’s real motives, you’ll be surprised to learn who will stand by you and who want you to die. Lol Love can go a long way.
Brother, by seeking God in your life was the right decision and I respect you for that. If someone truly love you, no matter what your beliefs is they will still support you. Just enjoy your life and don’t worry too much about cousin politics.
You make one mistake after another and never seem to learn. You run away from your problems and burn bridges behind you. Church is about the most cowardly solution because it doesn’t not solve anything but breed more discourse for you and your kids. If you want love, know where you should stand and not where you think you ought to stand. It’s takes more intelligence to be humble.
Big brother, u are like me...just want to help other, so when you need help they in turn help you....but it doesn't work like that........fawk them.....some one told me hmong Olds ways are dog and pigs way....and it stuck.....I love my hmong ppl but they way hmong ppl think sucks
Brother, You dnt need anyone's love but your wife and kids. You are the odd child. Children of many wives and one father have the same problem regardless of boy or girl. Be happy with your family.
Wow sounds like you easy to help others but easy to peaky too yog ntshaw ua hmong tus pab tha baum g works ces mus xf hauv 3 lub Church 3 g xaiv koj twm zeej koj lub clan g tas li koj tseem muaj nqe zog 6 tus tsim koj thiab nawb
If you are not a lao pa don't become patha, it is a waste of time cause if you broke you will be looked down if you have no support from your own clan its even worse. 💯
Txiv ntxawm hmoob aw txhob txhaw txhaw ua nom mas ua nom tej chaw me kas no ua nom poob nyiaj xwb .nyob teb me kas no kev khwv noj cem yog txoj hauj lwm yus nim hnub mus ua tau nyiaj yug yus tsev neeg xwb
Cas koj pheej hais tias koj neej zoo dua lawv es lawv ntxub koj koj thiaj khiav cas khiav txog twg los yus pheej yuav mus ua tus coj xwb mas tim koj lawm yus ib leeg xwb mas yus yog tus yuav tsum mus pab cov coob xwb yog yus yuav kom lawv cov coob los txhawb yus xwb ces kawg lawv muab yus nraws tom thoob khib nyawb xwb tiag
This is soo sad. I can say my Dad is kind of the same way. Because it's only him and his younger brother, and since he says his younger brother doesn't love him, he tries to seek love from his other relatives/cousins. But I can see they don't really love him either. They use him when it's convenient, they ask for money when they need it, and my Dad, being his dumb self, always tries to satisfy all of them as much as he can. But now, he's older and can't really help others anymore. I wish my Dad knew in the beginning that he should have just out his FAMILY first, and not others. My Dad always seemed to put my Mom and us Children last, and put the needs of others first. Now, he's kind of regretting it. 🤷♀️
Tus kwv tij Aw... Txhob tu siab os lub neej hmoob ces zoo li ko vim yog koj yog ib tug neeg zoo thiab koj tsev neeg yog ib co me nyuam zoo ces lawv thiaj khib khib koj cov kwv tij qub kwv tij tshiab los lawv thiaj khib koj tag nrho xwb os tsis yog lawv tsis nyiam koj yog koj ua tau zoo lawv txhua tus khib koj xwb nas
Pab los txhaum, tsis pab los txhaum. Pab tus pab yus, hlub tus hlub yus xwb. Koj ua tag koj lub peev xwm lawm ces so koj lub daj lub zog, so lub siab lub ntsws es nrhiav kwv tij tshiab. Txhob tu siab os...
First of all, you don’t owe your half brother money and it’s not your responsibility to bury his son. Giving him 5k is already too generous. Secondly, It’s all about Jealousy and competition with your family. They want you to be underneath them all the time. Nowadays family literally means immediate siblings, not half-siblings or step-siblings. They are all your haters. The people that love you are your REAL 💯 blood siblings only. You don’t need these people. Live happily and forget them
Ntuj aw...kwv tij zoo li koj cov tom koj ces quav dev xwb os. Nyob teb chaws mes kas no, yog koj cov mes nyuam twb ntxawj ntse lawm ces kwb tij zoo li koj cov xwb ces tsis k os. Thaum koj tuag koj cov kwb tij nim yuav faus koj nas. Yog koj cov mes nyuam xwb nas.
If all your brothers didn’t eat your cow I think something is wrong with you and you expected to high to became the clan leader. Your son is right about the decision. This is want they called Ruam tsab ntse.
Txhob Tus Siab ...yus hlub lawv ..es txhob VAM lawv hlub yus qov qab mog
Yus yuav tsaum hlub yus Tus keej xwb mog ..txhob mus mloog leej twg hais thiaj Li nyuab yus lub Siab mog
Raws li kuv mloog koj ntshe yuav yog tim koj ntau dua lawm nawb txiv ntxawm.
Kuv xav li koj thiab zoo li nws khav tias nws ua neej zoo zog lawv tsis tsa nws ua tus loj nws thiaj khiav mus txeeb pab tom tus coj los ua los lawv tsis txhawb nws ces nws khiav dua lawm thiab
Neeg khav theeb thiab neeg xav ua nom ces yog koj ntag ma tos luag tias hmoob xav xav ua no ces yog koj ma
Tej txiv neej hmoob mas ntshaw2 niam hlob niam yau thiab ntshaw2 kom muaj tub coob2 xwb tab sis lawv tsis paub os, niam hlob niam yau menyuam ces yog yeeb ncuab xwb os
Yug los ua ib leeg tub mas ntxim tu siab kawg li os tij laug..kuv los zoo ib yam li koj thiab os tij laug
There's so many negative people on here who's talking about your story and have never been in your shoes. I've seen firsthand how hateful hmong people can be and I saw firsthand how people treated my dad as he got older. Everyone knows that when you are good others will step all over you because you're kind. It's sad that people look and say that it's your fault if everyone dislikes you. That is not always true when it comes to jealousy. If people can't use you then they will make you out to be the Bad Apple in the family. For everything that you have done for your community and your family, I can see why they are jealous of you. I was a kid and I saw my parents go through the same things you went through. I witnessed firsthand for twenty years how they treated my parents. This is the reason why I teach my children that hmong culture is a disgrace when it comes to leadership. I'm not hating, I just speak the facts. We all know that it has a lot to do with favoritism and everyone on here acts like they've never seen this happen before. This is the reason why hmong people have no country. Not only did I see this happened to my parents but I saw it happened to my in-laws too. It's sad that they had to convert to Christianity like you did just to have peace in their life too. We live in America now and those family who choose not to be a part of your life, let them be without you. Continue living your life the way you want to. You've done enough and you owe no one nothing. You don't need to explain anything to anyone, not even these negative people on here. The only people that understands what you've been through are the people that have been in your shoes. Tape care of yourself and your family.
Liked your comment up until you had to throw in the “this is why Hmong people have no country.” Stop with that crap. There are many bad people and they have a country. In life, it don’t matter what race you are, most will only like you for how much and how long they can use you or find you beneficial to them. No matter how many friends someone has, one friend is bound to get jealous and betray you or, if no one betrays you, just wait until you get sick, you’ll see that no one will be there but your immediate family members… and sometimes not even family will be there.
@@anntwin1301 I agree with your point. I didn't mean it literally about hmong has no country. I was tired of people not seeing a person's life for what it is. Doesn't matter if theirs to side of the story. Point is, the guy has been treated by family like he's a nobody. What i meant by that statement is to show that hmong don't love hmong and they rather destroy the very family they need than to support him for a better purpose. Yes I was wrong for that statement instead of saying what i needed to say. Sometimes itll open people's eyes to realize my statement was made is because we have no country, we should love each other as hmong people no matter family or not. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.
@@tengher2889 yeah, I hate the “there’s two sides to every story.” But the truth is, only one side is telling the truth or closer to the truth. And usually one party triggered or started it but people don’t want to acknowledge that.
Tbh, your comment is more negative than the negative comments u claimed bc you're gearing towards a larger group of people whereas many of the comments here only geared toward this particular individual.
Lol, when we still keep constantly advertise ourself to love one another, that mean we still having that very issue. We all should learn and listen and learn from both positive n negative comments. Remember, there's a solution because the it was solve from a problems. Just like 2+2=4 lol. But there's always 2 side of the story. Every action we made or take, there's always a consequence bad or good. It's good to take a good looks surrounding you and adapted to that environment.
May koj kuj txawj ntshaw kev hlub thiab lov😃😃😃😃😃😃
Cas ntshaw ua tus loj ua luaj. Tsuav yus muaj kev zoo siab hauv yus lub Neej ces yuav li ntawv xwb
Zoo kawg lawm nawb mog
Txhob tu siab os txaus siab nrog koj cov tub thiab koj tsev neeg xwb txhob ntsaw kwv tij kev hlub lawm peb nyob mekas ces ua neej nrog mekas xwb thiaj muaj kev ncaj ncees
Tus txiv ntxawm koj yuam kev lawm os koj cov tub yuav txawj ntsi npaum cas los koj nco ntsoov tias koj yog tus los sab nraud los thiab yog tus tawm mus lawm es rov los ces lawv khib es qhov zoo ces Nyob twj ywm xwb txhob mus nrog tej koos haum no sib do tsis txog twg os
I want to hear the other two side of the story too. I've seen and heard too many stories similar to this one and half the time the bad person usually plays the victim. They leave out all the bad stuff they do and only talk about the good stuff they "see" themselves do.
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Agreed. I think there is more to the story. There is no way that he had the same problem from two different side of relatives. I believe he is part of the problem.
No you are wrong Hmong people work as a narcissistic cult. No matter what you do people will still abuse you especially if you have no blood family on your side. Thank goodness this father has sons to live him.
Totally agree with you
The best Kwv tij is money. Kwv tij only like you when you keep giving. When you run out of money to give them, you are non-existent to them. Nowadays kwv tij is mekas people that you hire to do work. My husband has 2 biological brothers and they never help out when we need them so don’t feel bad. Biological or not, it depends on the individual’s kindness.
Agreed . Money and green & red light is my kwv tij. 🤣😂
@@bosslady8498 - LOL @ teeb liab, teeb ntsuab.
@@_milly Yog! Everyone for themselves! Haha
Amen!
Koj thiab Kuv ces zoo ib yam os tus nus aws. 🥲🥲 but you are much luckier than I am.
Best wishes to you and myself. We only have ourselves to love, don’t depend on others.
Hmong people can b so petty. Too much emphasis on clan, blood, patriarchal rules, gender roles, etc.
Hmoob os hmoob
I'm an orphan, and I learn to love myself and live with out relatives. Please don't run to be a leader among your relatives. No one will listen to you and only hate you for it.
I'm in your shoes Mathieu Yang.
Peb ua neeg nyob ces yeej muaj kev khib zoo li no tabsis txhob tu siab, vim yus zoo tshaj luag lawm ntau.
Txhob tu siab ua neej nrog cov giav dub zoo dua mus nrog cov niag tab sab ov mog . Zoo uas koj mus ntsib vaj tswv lawd uas tsaug vaj tswv tau hu koj mus tau txoj sia ntev lawm
Zaj dab no hai tau tu siab hev 😭😭😭
Peb cov tsi muaj kwv tij ces yeej ntshau kom yuag hlub yus e thiaj li ua zoo lo tsi tau zoo os tus me nus aw
There's two side of a story! You and your family just too perfect . Seen like you want to run both family, that's why! both family dislike your family period. Xav ua tus loj xwb ces thiaj li raug ntxub
I agree
Vim koj pheej xav ua tus loj kav ob tsev neeg ntawd xwb koj thiaj tsaug lawv ntxub.
Tsis txhob tu siab os..... yus tej me tub me nyuam nyob khov kho lawv ua taus lawv txiv lawm lawv mam li hlub yus, yus tsev neeg hauv tsev thiaj li tseem ceeb tshaj os.....
Amen mus Vajtswv zoo Tshaj li lawm os Tus nus aws mus Vajtswv es kj mus kj lub siab li kj pab kj cov Kwv tij ces Tseem zoo Tshaj kj nrog kj cov Kwv tij os mus Vajtswv lawm ces zoo heev li nawb.
Txhob tu siab mog kwvtij zoo qhov Koj los cuag VAajtswv tsev neeg lawm,Cov ntseeg mam pab koj kuv li lawv twb cem cem kom cia li mus ua xeem vaajtswv txhob ua lawv xeem lawm mas.yav no mus tom ntej Koj yuav tsi tu siab lawm
Ngob zoo o niam laug aw
Leej twg hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub nws li ntawv xwb mas, hmoob ces yeej ib txwm khib
Puas yog thaum koj pib zoo es koj pib khav tseeb mas es lawv thiaj ntxub koj pob.
Tus me nus, txhob mus nrog lawv sib sib txeeb ua tus coj es thiaj li haum kev tij mog vim ib txhia yeej khib khib tiag thiab.
Zoo qhov koj ntseeg Vaaj Tswv os kwv tij
People can be so petty. It all boils down to jealousy but also sounds like you forgot how to be humble. From the sound of it, you are putting yourself on a pedestal too.
Me too brother,sad 😭🤣😭
Hais tau Zoo thiab chim siab mob siab heev li vim hmoob txoj cai Txog 1000.000 Tiam neej los yeej tsis hloov Kav tsij ua kom npe hmoob ploj hauv lub ntiaj teb no mus nej cov hmoob mus nyob Meskas Feem coob mus nyob rau Meskas teb chaws tseg txoj kev cem neeg hmoob nyob ASIA lawm nawb nej pab pawg mus nyob rau sab ntuj tim ub twb tsis sib hlub lawm ces quav dev xwb
this story seems to be missing some thing... he's too perfect and his life is too good the way he speaks. i know conceited people like this. when everyone is against you... look at yourself. they love you and then they don't...hmmm...
He sounds too prefect in this story…he sounds like he wants everyone’s praises and when he doesn’t get it then everyone else is bad. I don’t think he can take criticism and opinions from others.
@@myssxyooj is
Pua Yang - I agree with you. Reminds me of the story from Jenny Vang channel "Dr, Dr, Dr, Cas Yuav Laj Mloog Ua Luaj 7/23/2021"
Agreed, I know so many people like this. They never admit that fault. He thinks he is too perfect lol.
You already know "its my story so I'm always the hero". That's how ppl always tell their stories.
Hmong people like to compete who is better but when one is better than the others. The others start to get jealous and say mean things.
Neb ob niam txiv txiav txim siab Yog lawm mog! Thov Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau neb tsevneeg!
Ua neeg nyob es yog yus ho nruam npaum li kov lawm ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb lau, 😭😭😭
Vim kev khib yog ib tug lub neej zoo. Tsis muaj kev zoo siab hos muaj kev khib tsis xav kom lwm tus zoo. Hais txog yug ua neeg tsis muaj kwv tij thiab muam es yus ib leeg ntseeb ces kuv paub tias kev tu siab muaj ntau. Txhob tu siab....u found God anf you have your wife n kids who love you.
Tsis muaj nyiaj txais rau es tseem txhaum thiab mas neeg phem dhau ua tsis nyog kwv tij mog tsis k leej twg mog tsis muaj neeg plhis mog yeej txawj tuag tag tus nawb mus vaj tswv ces zoo mog
Hmoob yeej ib txwm sib khib . Yus yov me nyuam ntsuag ces yus yuav tsum pluag dua lawv xwb lawv thiab luag taus thiab zoo siab hos yog yus muaj dua lawm ces yus yeej nyob tsis tshua tau nrog lawv
Piav txawj teeb neb zaj dab neeg neb yuav thaub laus pog laus tuaj USA 🇺🇸peb hmoog ma
Hmoob txoj haujlwm duav dev os yom. Ca hmoob tso tsi tau tseg li os
Cov neej neeg no feem coob yog neeg tuaj khav theeb ntau xwb
Txiv ntxawm, kev hlub tsis xam khib. Yog koj ua zoo rau lawv es lawv tsis ua zoo pauj los txhob tu siab vim yus yeej txaus siab ua. Yog yus ua tag yus pheej xam khib ces txhob ua.
If the first clan hate you, why did they nominated you for clan leader. Just because your step brother said a little hurt thing and you turn your back on the entire clan...no wonder they didn't eat your cow, they felt betrayed.
Xaj maim no ces tsis yog twm zeej thiaj zoo li ko os..peb cov niam txiv ib plab yug los yeej tseem zoo tib yam li koj hais ko thiab nws tsis tim lawv tsis yog yus kwv tij nws yog lub ntuj tiam no neeg lub siab phem ntau tshaj lub siab zoo lawm xwb txhob tu siab peb cov niam txiv ib plab los yeej zoo ib yam nkaus li os..😢
OG mind set!!
Omg peb Hmoob cov การเมือง ib txwm yog kev sib khib sib txeeb sib sib tua,, kav tsij pab yus cov txiv tub yog qhov the best haha
His kids is right...only do what u can...don't play politics. N when u give, give without expectation.
My family and I experienced this first hand.. ua zoo npaum li cas los yeej tsis txaus. At the end of the day, yus muaj yus tsev neeg xwb (as in tus phooj ywg cov menyuam nws yug lawm xwb). Tsis muaj leej twg xav yuav yus li.. ntshe yug tau Peb tsis ntxim hlub thiaj li tau los taug txoj kev Tu siab no os.. a lot of comments here are saying he is trying to be perfect and is a perfectionist.. it’s not true. We are just trying to be human and trying to nrhiav kev hlub vim yus ntshaw kom muaj kwv muaj tij thiab nkauj muam nraug nus nrog luag hu xwb.. I wish that this was not a major problem in this life.. xav kom Peb hmoob tsis txhob yug menyuam los zoo li no lawm os lawv es..
Vuag cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj os! Vaj tswv yog tus zoo cawm tib neeg txoj sia thiab es mus los yeej zoo kawg os mog.. txhua yam yog koj cov menyuam hais lawm.. koj hlub lawv tag nrho koj lyb siab ntsws kom lawv hlub koj li koj hlub lawv tabsis lawv tsuas ntshaw koj lub zog thaum koj muaj nyiaj xwb! Koj xav mas yog koj lub neej txom nyem lawv twb tsis quav ntsej koj lawv tseem ntxhub koj tshaj qhov koj zoo dua lawv na! Es zoo siab rau koj lub neej mog..! Txawn tsis muaj kwv tij los twb muaj vaj tswv peb twb tsis thov lawv noj haus kev pab ne txhob ntshaw txhob tu siab mog!
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Yawg aw, tso tseg txoj kev ntshaw ntshaw ua tus loj os. Txhob coj coj tsab cai 1975 thia os. Txoj kev ntshaw ua tus loj tus kav thaib xav tias yus ntse txau lawm no ces thaum kawg luag thiaj tsis hlub yus los mo. Koj tsis txawj hlub koj cos me nyuam. Koj tseem mua koj tus tub thiab nyab hlob los ua lawm qhev thiab. Koj lub hlwb tseem nyob xyoo 1975. Thov hloov thia lau yawg aw.
The son decision is right the dad do too much ..ua zoo tau Pham..
Sad 😭😭😭😭
Brother, all I have to say is that " you have too high expectations but at least you finally learn your lesson."
Tus txiv tsev Niam hlob Niam yau cov me nyuam ces yeej zoo li no thiab thaum yus tau los ua Tus coj thiab Patha lawm txhuas Tus yeej khib2 thiab ntxub 2 yus kawg cov teem meem koj Hais peb cov ua thawj coj thiab Patha ces raug tag nro
Tsis mloog zaj sib txeeb Hmoob cov pob thas
2 separate bloodline disliked you? I think there’s more to this story than his perfect side 😅
Couldn’t finish this story. We need to change this patriarchal, petty power, and people pleasing system.
Xav ua tus loj xav yog tus kom nai kav luag txhob khav khav theeb lawm mog
Yog vim licas es nej pheej tseem ntshaw ua tus coj ma? Yus yog tus ntseeb ces nyob li tus ntseeb xwb thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab. Tsis ua tus coj los yeej tseem pab tau kev neej kev tsav na. Meej mom tsis muaj qab hau dab tsi li os!
Tus txiv tsev aws,
Koj qhov teeb meem nyob hauv koj lub siab thiab kev xav xwb.
Koj tsev kwvtij tshiab los tsis phem , cov qub los tsis phem ,
Kho koj lub siab xwb os nawb brother.
Zoo Siab Ua koj los Ua Vajtswv haiv neeg.
1- Ua zoo tsam koj ho muab xib fwb thiab vajtswv nkawd pawg ntseeg hlawv kub nyhiab tag thiab os.
2- vim koj pheej yog ua zoo zoo kom neeg hlub thiab nyiam koj xwb, nws tsis yog koj yog ib tug neeg coj zoo es ua txoj kev zoo ne...koj thiaj li tsis haum 1 pab pawg neeg twg li. Koj twb tws kev lawm los koj tseem qhuas tias koj zoo xwb mas koj yuav laj ua neej nyob heev li os.
Txhob tu siab os me tij laug muaj lawm yuav tau koj txoj kev mog
Its sad to see so many people think he is being a victim bc two side hates him. But I have witnessed similar issues like this happen because everyone has their own agenda. People can be this mean from multiple groups, it’s not impossible for this to happen to one family. How many stories can there be when neither sides was able to say or do the right thing… Hmong people are still uneducated Freckle and prideful. Disrespect from other people is all it takes to have a problem like this. You will not know until you meet it, trust me. When you learn people’s real motives, you’ll be surprised to learn who will stand by you and who want you to die. Lol Love can go a long way.
That's how hmong people treat other kid that is not their blood line back in the old day.
Brother, by seeking God in your life was the right decision and I respect you for that. If someone truly love you, no matter what your beliefs is they will still support you. Just enjoy your life and don’t worry too much about cousin politics.
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You make one mistake after another and never seem to learn. You run away from your problems and burn bridges behind you. Church is about the most cowardly solution because it doesn’t not solve anything but breed more discourse for you and your kids. If you want love, know where you should stand and not where you think you ought to stand. It’s takes more intelligence to be humble.
Tus me brother txhob tus siab zaum no koj twb kawm tiav lawm ces koj txoj kev ntseeg vajtswv yuav ruaj khov os mog
Txhob tu siab txhob ua pob tha.vim lawv khib koj.cia lawv ua nom vim koj hle ces lawv tsis nkag siab koj lawv tias koj ntxeev siab...txhob k lawv kav tsij hlub koj poj niam menyuam xwb zoo dua koj cov kwv tij los niam loj niam yau yug xwb yog lawv tsis txawj xav ces lawv yeej tsis hlub koj thiab
The problem is the story teller only ….hahaha
Big brother, u are like me...just want to help other, so when you need help they in turn help you....but it doesn't work like that........fawk them.....some one told me hmong Olds ways are dog and pigs way....and it stuck.....I love my hmong ppl but they way hmong ppl think sucks
Lo hai kom ntau ntau rau peb mloog ma kv xav xav hai koj hai li koj hai tau zoo mloog heev li
Tijlaug, peb Hmoob lub siab me2, nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj kwvtij mas "txhob" sawv ua thawj coj siav thiaj ntev. Thaum ub Nyob Laos coob tus ntse siab zoo, raug tua povtseg vim tsis muaj kwvtij xwb.
Hmong me kas phem tiag tiag li o
Hmoob dab tsis los phem ib yam os
Cov Neeg phem ces tsis ntev Vajtswv twb yuav muab lim tawm hauv ntiajteb mus nyob rau hauv phau Bible Psalm 37:9 and 10 tias cov neeg siab phem Vajtswv yuav muab tshem tawm hauv ntiajteb mus.
Brother, You dnt need anyone's love but your wife and kids. You are the odd child. Children of many wives and one father have the same problem regardless of boy or girl. Be happy with your family.
Txhob tusiab koj coj koj tsev neeg mus ntseeg Vajtswv lawm ces yog qhov tshaj plaws lawm os Vajtswv thiaj yog tus hlub xwb .
Wow sounds like you easy to help others but easy to peaky too yog ntshaw ua hmong tus pab tha baum g works ces mus xf hauv 3 lub Church 3 g xaiv koj twm zeej koj lub clan g tas li koj tseem muaj nqe zog 6 tus tsim koj thiab nawb
May forgiveness be in everyone hearts and love still grows. You have 2 family and you shouldn't have to choose.
Hmoob people have too much jealousy. if you are smart stay under the radar..hmoob tus coj yeej tsis txog qhov twg li os.
Exactly!!! Tiam 21 no peb hmoob tsis nij tus coj lawm na. Tej niag hauj lwm quav dev li no pub kuv los kuv yeej tsis ua.
@@etee8361 hais yog kawg
Tus txiv tsev zoo aw, koj xaiv txoj kev yog lawm. Vaj tswv mam hlub koj. Nws hlub txhua Tus sib npaug zos. Kav tsij raws vaj tswv txog hnub kawg. Nws puag raws koj hauv nws xub ntiag txhua lub caij. Nws hlub koj thiab koj tsev neeg heev. God bless you
If you are not a lao pa don't become patha, it is a waste of time cause if you broke you will be looked down if you have no support from your own clan its even worse. 💯
Brother it’s every good to come join God family nothing to worry anything anymore Yexus love you and we love you
Saib zoo2, ua twb zoo xav. Tej zaum thaum koj tsev neeg txawj ntse lawm, koj tus cwj pwm txawv lawm.
Love you, your wife, your kids, your parents, and your in laws.
Agreed 👍
Txiv ntxawm hmoob aw txhob txhaw txhaw ua nom mas ua nom tej chaw me kas no ua nom poob nyiaj xwb .nyob teb me kas no kev khwv noj cem yog txoj hauj lwm yus nim hnub mus ua tau nyiaj yug yus tsev neeg xwb
Cas koj pheej hais tias koj neej zoo dua lawv es lawv ntxub koj koj thiaj khiav cas khiav txog twg los yus pheej yuav mus ua tus coj xwb mas tim koj lawm yus ib leeg xwb mas yus yog tus yuav tsum mus pab cov coob xwb yog yus yuav kom lawv cov coob los txhawb yus xwb ces kawg lawv muab yus nraws tom thoob khib nyawb xwb tiag
This is soo sad. I can say my Dad is kind of the same way. Because it's only him and his younger brother, and since he says his younger brother doesn't love him, he tries to seek love from his other relatives/cousins. But I can see they don't really love him either. They use him when it's convenient, they ask for money when they need it, and my Dad, being his dumb self, always tries to satisfy all of them as much as he can. But now, he's older and can't really help others anymore. I wish my Dad knew in the beginning that he should have just out his FAMILY first, and not others. My Dad always seemed to put my Mom and us Children last, and put the needs of others first. Now, he's kind of regretting it. 🤷♀️
Tus kwv tij Aw... Txhob tu siab os lub neej hmoob ces zoo li ko vim yog koj yog ib tug neeg zoo thiab koj tsev neeg yog ib co me nyuam zoo ces lawv thiaj khib khib koj cov kwv tij qub kwv tij tshiab los lawv thiaj khib koj tag nrho xwb os tsis yog lawv tsis nyiam koj yog koj ua tau zoo lawv txhua tus khib koj xwb nas
Pab los txhaum, tsis pab los txhaum. Pab tus pab yus, hlub tus hlub yus xwb. Koj ua tag koj lub peev xwm lawm ces so koj lub daj lub zog, so lub siab lub ntsws es nrhiav kwv tij tshiab. Txhob tu siab os...
First of all, you don’t owe your half brother money and it’s not your responsibility to bury his son. Giving him 5k is already too generous. Secondly, It’s all about Jealousy and competition with your family. They want you to be underneath them all the time. Nowadays family literally means immediate siblings, not half-siblings or step-siblings. They are all your haters. The people that love you are your REAL 💯 blood siblings only. You don’t need these people. Live happily and forget them
Ntuj aw...kwv tij zoo li koj cov tom koj ces quav dev xwb os. Nyob teb chaws mes kas no, yog koj cov mes nyuam twb ntxawj ntse lawm ces kwb tij zoo li koj cov xwb ces tsis k os. Thaum koj tuag koj cov kwb tij nim yuav faus koj nas. Yog koj cov mes nyuam xwb nas.
Thaum twg kwv tij phem zoo lis no rau yus ces mus ntseeg Vajtswv lawb dab xwb mas.
Rise and shine
Good morning !!!!☀️
Xyov ua cas hmoob yuav ntshaw ua tus coj ua luaj li as.
If all your brothers didn’t eat your cow I think something is wrong with you and you expected to high to became the clan leader. Your son is right about the decision. This is want they called Ruam tsab ntse.
KOJ yog tu phem lawm os. You too focus on prestige and being better than others. You need to focus on your small circle.