GetReadyWithMe~OVER 70~My SURGERY 👩🏼
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- I'm 76 years old....it's a process and today it's about some recent surgery and why it's so very important to take care of our own health.
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I'm glad it worked out for you, Pattie. My ENT doctor told me my MRI result showed a non-cancerous brain tumor on the ear canal (acoustic schwannoma). He said it could be removed w/brain surg, or, radiation to shrink it. I asked him: if it was you or a loved one, what would you do? He didn't hesitate: "I'd hv it removed asap." I went home and waited a few days to get over the shock. Then I called a famous Boston hospital, & made an appt w/ a specialist, to get a 2nd opinion. His advice was, " It's benign, it's vy slow growing, and at your age (60), you may even outlive it. Brain surg will hv serious side effects. Radiation will only shrink it, but it'll still be there, & it has side effects, too. I think you shd just get an annual MRI to see if it's growing." I'm so grateful for that 2nd opinion! So far, so good 🙂.
You were VERY smart to get a 2nd opinion.
Im working on a 3rd opinion on my eye cataract. A brilliant eye surgeon made my other eye blind after surgery for a detaching retina 18 yrs ago. I would not do well blind in both eyes at 71.
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Pattie, when I had my hall bladder removed, I went in with a full face of makeup. I said just in case I don’t wake up, I’ll be already made up! The doctor and nurses cracked up!! Good to see you,!
Kate from Washington State.
You’re so funny!!
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I love that, I’ve had a few procedures under anaesthesia, and I always had to take my mascara off 😮 I have blonde eye lashes, at 77 I’m over that now 😂
Patty, watching you, is like watching me. I am 77 years old, and won’t even check my mail without my make up and hair done! You are absolutely beautiful, and I love watching your videos. Just knowing that someone cares about how they look, makes me realize that I am not alone. Plus, I am so happy that you are doing great. I went thru surgery, and ended up needing an ostomy bag! Believe it or not, I am happy that I went thru it, and life is good!!
I’m in my 50s and I think you are so beautiful! Thank you for encouraging us!
Thank you for being brave & vulnerable with us. You probably have saved some lives by shedding awareness on this important healthcare issue. Stay blessed 💕
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I happened to stumble upon your website and watched makeup being applied but the thing that got my attention was the growth within your body and how important colonoscopies are. As I listened to your story whi ch involved your thought process on what would be the right thing to you I couldn't help but feel the same way you did in your decision making. I am so thankful you made the right decision and you are healthy with no "what ifs" hanging over your head. Great decision! So glad everything worked out and hope you enjoyed your cruise. ❤
Patti I went through something similar. I'm 79 and had the Cologuard test like you did. It came back positive too. Then I had a colonoscopy which showed that right near the end of the colon it was torqued and the surgeon could not see in there. Otherwise my colon was fine and I only had one tiny polyp removed. Later I had a CT scan which showed that area normal. The surgeon wanted me to have a BE so he can see into that section to clear me but so far I have not done this. Funny I ran onto your video today thanks for making it.
Hello Nancy
Tears because of the stress of decision making process you must have endured. I'm grateful that you're okay and healed by the time I've seem this. God bless you!
Hi Patty. My name is Pat. I’ve recently found your channel. I’m 75 and less than 2 years ago I lost my Jim. We were together 57 years. We were married at 16 and 17 years old, raised a wonderful family together. He was my everything and it’s so difficult without him I enjoy your channel so much and thought u might like to know that! Sorry for your health scare. I had one too. A pacemaker is my new buddy.
Well first of all, I'm just so glad your results have made you in the clear! And now you can rest easy, because you know for sure. And, also, I just wanted to thank you for deciding to share this with your subscribers. You have done a really good public service, because you reach a lot of people. It alerts the rest of us NOT to neglect those colonoscopies! So thanks, again and keep on keeping on!
Amen....
Goodness, you have been so very BRAVE. Thank GOD the results were Benign! Prayers...
I am 58 and have never had one because of a bad experience having one at 20 years of age back In a military hospital where I am lucky they didn't kill me. I din't haven't any anesthesia, no twilight sleep, no valium not even a rag to bite down on. So I sat up in medias res due to the sheer pain. It traumatized me and I haven't done any testing since. A lot has changed since then for the better so I am going to schedule it immediately. Thank you!
Hello kaththee
I had the same experience when I was 21 at the Mayo Clinic. I always said I would die before I have another one.
Patty great to see all is well with you💕more elderly need to advocate for themselves like you did........so many just gullibly accept what the doctor says without questioning what other options they have! Bravo for you and God bless!🌟
Patti, I personally think that you are one very brave lady....and I mean that. Thank you for taking the time to explain all of this to us...what a stressful time it must have been for you honey. I'm so happy that it turned out well for you. You sooo deserve that cruise girl. Have a wonderful time with your sweet husband...🤗💞
Patti, you are fast becoming one of my favourite people on TH-cam. I am 47 from UK & I am so in awe of the wonderful, beautiful young lady you are. I need to take a huge leaf out of your book regarding loving my body! Am thrilled to hear you have such a fab recovery from surgery, thank you Lord .God bless you lovely lady xxx❤️🥰🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I lost my mother and best friend to colon cancer. She was 87 and had never had a colonoscopy, but the doctor suggested that it was time. She was anemic so let’s take this off the table. When they went in they perforated the bowel so she needed immediate surgery and they found out it was cancer and it had spread everywhere. My sister and I cared for mom her last months of her life.
I’m so happy you had a good outcome to your surgery and never put off a colonoscopy. I’m 72 and because my mother passed from colon cancer my brother’s and sister are checked every few years.🥰🇨🇦
I'm so glad you decided to share your story! Thank you! You have confirmed my thinking on how to handle my healthcare. In the past few years (I'm 60) I have been noticing how much we really need to question a doctors advice and do as much research as possible. Sometimes doctors don't explain stuff in enough detail to make you understand why they say what they say, and sometimes i think they are just going thru the motions. MANY do NOT keep up to date on their reading and just go with what the pharmaceutical company's give them for treatment, I have learned that big pharma does not want us to be healthy! If we are healthy they don't make money, right? I'm now finding myself trying to reverse osteoporosis as well as aging skin due to bad advice about my diet and hormone replacement therapy. Thank you for sharing!
@Judy S I so agree with everything you wrote! Wishing you health and good fortune in 2022
Thank God everything went well. It must have been awful going through all these decisions, but you were strong. I'm glad you shared this with us, thank you.
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Thank you for sharing your story Patti. I wasn't able to sleep too well tonight so I got on TH-cam and came across your channel, and I'm so happy I did. I have good intuition and I can feel the kindness you have in your heart ❤
I'm so thankful that this was found, you had the surgery and are now recovering. May God bless you and your family🙌❤
Patti, I have been putting off the whole colonguard thing for too long and will do it tomorrow just because of this video. Bless you, Patti!
I need to make the call!
I believe the Colonguard test does not tell you if you have polyps. If you have polyps and they go undetected they will eventually become malignant.
@@executiveboard7475 They CAN but that’s not a given.
In case anyone is trying to find it, it's Cologuard.
I have always kept up with mine- colonoscopies. However I know many friends that don’t just because of the prep. As nasty as the prep is, it can save your life and when you look at it that way it’s not so nasty. Thank you so much for sharing your story as this is a subject that too many people are embarrassed discussing- even with their doctor. Thank you for talking about the importance. It’s not embarrassing- and anyone who is embarrassed by it let me ask you: “Wouldn’t you rather be embarrassed than dead?” That’s exactly what it could boil down to. Thank you beautiful Patti- inside and out. God bless you. ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
God Bless everyone! I'm so happy your story turned out well. The major point I feel you made with me is that you have to be your own best advocate. It is wise to question recommendations made by professionals. I think if you hadn't questioned the surgeon, you might have lost 1/3 of your colon. Having had the other doctor's opinions and imput did matter in the long run. I have found myself in a similar position with asking the question, "What would you do if it were your mother or loved one?" It saved my loved one undue surgical intervention and added to the quality of life. And yes, sometimes it is better to do nothing. From personal experience I do know this to be an option that should be considered wisely. Bravo!
Patty, I applaud you for being on your toes with asking the questions and pursuing the right answer. My husband is your age and we have been going through some of the same issues and more with other parts of his body. I always take notes and go with him to make sure we know everything the doctors have told us. I would of made the same decision you did and not have one regret. I have taken care of a lot of people in my life and learned to never leave them in the hospital alone and as they do not comprehend all that is being done and told to them and they need an advocate. Thank you for this very informative video...you look very good! ❤️
Amen
Hello how are you doing today 💖
Great. Video and I-think the best advice you can give anyone is to be your own advocate and insist on more than one opinion, and do as you did and say no when they insist that you need more surgery than what you were told. Good job on being smart and learning all about what your options were. Most people sadly just think of doctors as God and do what they say without questioning their decision. I think you have helped many people with this video, and they will think twice about major decisions. Thank you for that.💕💕 and God bless you.
My baby sister & bf for 80 years. Similar story, but she did have to wear the bag. I had prayed so hard that the "mass" wasn't cancer...it wasn't. She went for the repair surgery and I totally understand that need. However, she had problems following the surgery and she is in Heaven. I miss her beyond words! I had stage IV throat cancer in 2001. I speak with a voice prostheses, and while I am not "normal," I still enjoy life at 82. Thank God and may He continue to bless you. Bon voyage!
I realize this was a year ago, but I think you made the right decision as lipomas can become invasive and thread through tissues causing irritations and problems. I hope you’ve regained your strength and appetite and are enjoying your new home planning. Wishing you the best.
Soooooooo glad you had a positive result.BIG HUG for you Patti.Your the greatest. We are all grateful for the INFORMATION too.Very very informative.
Hi Patti, I’m sure someone listening will get a colonoscopy because of this. Your story could save someone, maybe more than one. I’m glad you got a good report! You are kind to share this! Much love from my heart to you, Sharon ❤️
Hello how are you doing today 💖
God bless and keep you. May He heal you quickly and give you strength. Hugs. Love your stories!
Patti.. I just finished watching this video....my goodness ...so much has happened since January 2020..here it is September 19, 2020!! So glad you have recovered so well from this surgery! I have had more than my share of visits to doctors in ,the past 5 years and I am 77 years old!
I so love watching you on TH-cam! You help me with my own makeup challenge! ❤️
Patti thanks for sharing and so glad you got good results. My sister was told 2 weeks before Christmas she had stage 4 cancer. rushed to surgery and long story short she was given 6 months. They will not do any treatment, too far gone. Please pray for my sister and my family. Love you Patti and pray for you.
My heart is with you and your family Sheila....peace to you. xoxo patti
Prayers for comfort for your sister, and all of you family.
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You were missed Patti, glad you are back and in the mend. I think you did the absolute right thing. ( I'm an RN, surgical nurse) . Your piece of mind is priceless. Blessings to you. XOXO
Amen
My dear Patti, I’m so glad to hear you are doing well. Having to deal with a health issue at any age is a terrible thing to deal with. I found out a couple of years ago my kidneys were only at 43% and should be above 60%! I was beside myself since my mom died from kidney disease secondary to uncontrolled hypertension at the age of 74. Also my dad passed at 90 from kidney disease as well. Blood pressure issues also. So where does that leave me? At risk for the above mentioned. Well, I took my health into my own hands and did what was recommended by my kidney doctor of eating right, exercising, lose weight, watch sodium and drinking 8 glasses of 8 oz. of water everyday. Well my next visit I was above the 60 range, which was 3 months later! Bam! I was so proud and so was my doctor. So let me explain that lab work can vary day to day. Im still being followed by a kidney specialist and that is one thing I don’t want Togo through bc my mom was on dialysis. That was terrible for her and I still ache for her God rest her soul. My dad was too far gone for dialysis at 90. Point I’m getting to, not having a colon is much easier to live with than being on dialysis 3X a week. The reason I know is bc my son had to have his removed at the age of 41 I believe. He went through hell trying to keep his colon. He fought so hard and my heart ached for him too. He finally gave in and had it removed come to find out he had Crohn’s disease! It was terrible but the good thing is, he’s doing soooo good now and without a bag! He has a J pouch and leading an almost normal life. He has to take a med once a month but better than being dialyzed 3X a week. The way he found out was he ate some Chinese food and got sick and had to go to the ER. A colonoscopy was done at a later date and found that his colon was extremely inflamed. We took him to Hopkins and tried his best to avoid a colectomy but later had to. There are a lot of people that are in the same boat and or have no colon. It’s amazing.
We have to take care of ourselves bc we’re our only advocate. God bless you
So many people have some type of health issue and we’re afraid to face the truth about it. Bottom line is, take care of it ASAP but I’m a true believer in second opinions. Being an RN, I’ve seen a few things.
Thank you for all that information. And i am so glad you are doing better.
@bubbamell50 would you mind me asking you some questions about Crohn's disease and your son's experience? My stepdaughter was recently diagnosed with Crohn's; she has had 3 infusion's (at $7,000 each) and still is not able to get through a week feeling well or normal. She is getting married today, and while I'm so excited for her new beginnings, I am so very worried about her too. I believe experience and sharing wisdom is just as good as any doctor and I look forward to learning more if you are willing to share. TIA
@@ltstroud3 certainly and will try my best to answer
Personally, I am so PROUD of your being such a remarkably wonderful advocate for your own health! Everything you considered and did was totally spot on. I am a medico, put my husband through medical school and began my lifetime of medical learning and being married to a doctor - but I did not assert my self advocacy until catastrophic consequences dictated that botched procedures and surgeries were going to take my life. These days I dedicate time to attend friends' and referrals' medical/surgical consults as an active listener to function as those 'extra ears'. Too often important details are missed because one's ears are still hearing one point and missing the next. Please, please encourage your podcast pals to take an active listener to accompany them and perhaps avoid tragic avoidable consequences. 😇🙏
Hello Rosemary
My husband died from cancer that was right in that spot where your growth was. He didn’t even know about it until it was way too late. I completely agree that the surgery was worth it for peace of mind. I will tell you that getting your strength back fully after surgery takes a while, at least for me it did even when I was in my early thirties. Took a little longer when I was in my late 60s.
Ginny Burley it often takes so much longer than we think, doesn’t it ? I was in my early 40s when I had two separate laparoscopic procedures to remove recurring blood-filled cysts in both of my ovaries as well as endometriosis all over me, and I was maybe about 46 when I finally had to have a complete hysterectomy, including both ovaries taken out. Then I had knee surgery just a couple of years after that. I bounced back quickly from all of those (although knee surgery took a bit longer), but I have a distinct feeling now that I’m almost 60 yrs old, any kind of surgery I may have from here on (which I do need - I’ve put off knee surgery on my other knee for far too many yrs now), I know that recovery will likely take longer than it did back when I was in my 40s or even just 50. It’s a weird feeling bc I’m sure I’m just like everyone else in that I don’t always FEEL old, but unfortunately my body literally IS “old” (relatively speaking!) and will obviously only get older ..... so my recovery times after surgery (or after illness in general) will likely take longer. But hey, as long as we are able to fully recover, that’s the most important part, right ?? We’re mighty fortunate in that regard ..🙏🏼
I'm a mother and wife.I never take time for myself. It took a head-on collision for me to find out that I had stage 3 ovarian cancer. We women need to take better care of ourselves. After a total hysterectomy and 8 rounds of chemo I am cancer-free
@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 can i ask what happens with cysts on ovaries. I have one and hydrosalpinx on tube.im going thro menopause and said to a dr will the cyst or cysts not be causing bad sweats and they said they didn't know.lve been having day or night or any time soaking sweats.id been on HRT patch 15 years and had to stop it due to high cholesterol after 15 they put me back on and i bled so i was given no bleed one but i didnt persevere. Now im getting menopause tablets.could it be the cyst causing sweats.l get IV magnesium as days iam soaking .the sweats start on head and soak my clothes.none underarms or hands.x
@@elliegoldie6140 I’m not really sure what might happen (or what you might regularly experience) when ovarian cysts are left untreated. Mine were taken out and I didn’t have them in while I was experiencing menopause. I had recurring huge blood-filled cysts in one ovary and thousands of recurring smaller ones in the other ovary. My only symptoms (in my early 40’s) were heavy bleeding and breakthrough bleeding in between my periods. I knew something wasn’t quite right & that’s what caused me to go to the dr to begin with. And it’s when they found the cysts. Like I mentioned, the cysts were at first just removed laparoscopically in a procedure but were back again in full force just months later. That’s when I was told I’d need to have both ovaries completely removed (bc cysts would just continue to grow and cause all kinds of problems otherwise) along with my uterus, tubes, cervix, etc (which were covered with endometriosis). So, because I didn’t live with the cysts for an extended period of time beyond my mid 40’s (and hadn’t experienced any menopause symptoms up until that point), I really can’t say what it feels like to experience cysts in menopause, or how they might affect or even possibly exacerbate menopause symptoms. I don’t know about that, I’m sorry. IF you’re not happy with how your doctor is handling your health issues though, I’d strongly encourage you to find another doctor. Menopause is (or at least certainly can be) tough to go through, even under the very best of circumstances. It’s worth the extra effort to find a good doctor who’ll really listen and pay attention to your individual health concerns ..
@@elliegoldie6140 I would get another medical opinion from at least one other MD, not in the same medical practice or admitting to the same hospital. If that opinion differs, I'd get a third (best two out of three). Are you going to a gynecologist, primary care, or surgeon? They will all probably have a different opinion.
MDs do sometimes talk to each other,, especially if they are in the same practice and can pull up the other MDs notes. They do not like to disagree as it opens them up for having to testify in a malpractice lawsuit against their colleague.
With my ovarian cysts, I was told for years there was nothing wrong except my diet and I needed to eat more fiber. They even prescribed high-fiber biscuits at an outrageous price! My primary care MD didn't want to over rule the OB/Gyn. Until, that is, one of they cysts abscessed and burst and I was in Intensive Care.
My insurance wouldn't let me go to another hospital where these two didn't practice and i couldn't afford to self-pay. Needless to say, I had surgery and a very bad recovery. This left me unable to have children.
I worked in healthcare for 20+ years and come from a large family of medical professionals. I really suggest you go out of town, if possible, and get another opinion. Be sure to take someone with you into the appointment to "take notes." That almost always sharpens the MDs attention as a witness is something to be feared if something goes wrong.
I'd almost be willing to bet that Patty's surgeon was reading someone else's chart when he started talking about a colostomy. Either that, or he may perform unnecessary surgery to get higher Medicare reimbursement. If all three people in a small cul-de-sac all had (proposed) major surgery I'd be interested in a medical records and pathology review of need.
Patti: I just saw this one (I'm somewhat new to your channel) and I want to thank and commend you for talking about your brush with colon cancer. You cannot estimate how much good this kind of message does for your audience. A lot of women think of colon cancer as a "man's disease" but it certainly is not. Early detection is so very important and being a cancer survivor (twice) myself, I talk about my experience with people when I can to reassure others that the regular tests are so important and that a positive diagnosis is not necessarily a death sentence. Usually it is NOT, especially when there's early detection. I admire you and thank you so very much for sharing your very personal experience with us.
Cologuard saved my husband's life. They took 18" of his Colin. He had lost 30 lbs. Talking about false/pos, mine was pos but I was bleeding from irritated from years of tummy issues with IBS. I'm so happy you made thus decision. You look amazing! Praying for you still! Do those colonoscopies people!
I’m so glad you are ok , I lost 3 siblings at a really young age , 2 from cancer, (colon and breast)- 1 from a heart attack , and I lost both parents to cancer, I am 65 and have been so good about my mammograms and check ups with the cardiologist, but I have let my colonoscopy lapse , thank you from the bottom of my heart, I’m calling my gastroenterologist tomorrow- God Bless You ( I just started watching you a couple of days ago, I’m so glad) I pray whoever needs to get their colonoscopies done , makes an appointment. 💜
Thank you for sharing your experience, and why you chose the option that you did. Truthfully if that doctors did not have a conference with the other doctors or did not order additional testing, I would have found a new doctor. It was good you and your husband protested about what you were expecting to happen. That doctors listen to you and got the complete information to recommed the correct surgery. My physician order some test for me and I had put them off. I just turned 68, and I need this to live a healthy senior life. May God bless you and watch over you. ❤️
I am glad you had a positive result, praying for a speedy recovery.
I’m an RN of 50 years. U seemed to have done well with the RIGHT peaple, and good decisions. The only reason u can be in hosp is for nursing care. You have done well.
I don't think you had surgery for nothing. I would want it out of my body no matter what. You gained peace of mind and that is worth it. Thank you for sharing.
I'm so glad you've shared your story about this situation! I just turned 70 on Jan 10th, so I related! My husband has always been just like yours very supportive & there to take care of me, as I have for him! (We've been married 52yrs) So that would never be a concern! But we NEED to know what happens in this kind of situation & what kinds of steps, concerns & procedures to consider! How to handle Doctors etc. We need to have heard a story like yours! It means everything to be educated about Health issues so we can actually make good decisions concerning them! Once Again, Thank You! You look good for what you've been thru & it's impressive that you are out walking 2x daily & now walking alone, too! I pray that your total recovery is continual & complete, soon!
God Bless!
LGT p
Thank you for sharing such a personal story. It does help keep everyone to be mindful of the things we all need to do to stay healthy. Often things are put off for various reasons, but hearing your story is impressive. I’m so happy everything turned out well. Thoughts and prayers 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
HI Patti, I am so glad you are doing well. I know you don't know me but you are the first you tuber I started to watched some years back. I don't know how I found you but you have been very dear to my heart. God is always watching over you. I am so glad you have a nice husband that can be there for you....We all love you very much...stay beautiful, stay healthy and continue been that angel of light that you are.............hugs.....MINDY
I always recognize your name Mindy and yes, you've been with me for a very long time and I appreciate you more than you know. xoxo p
My hero. It will take about six months to get all the anesthesia out of your system. After several surgeries I would jump out of bed and feel wonderful for a couple of hours and then just fall over in a dead heap and sleep for a couple of hours and start the cycle all over again. So glad you are Ok.
I’m so glad everything turned out well for you! You were very lucky and I would have done the same thing...just for peace of mind! You look great and in no time you’ll be back to your rock-star self! Much love!💕💕💕💕💕
Piece of mind....is priceless. Not ever knowing would have given me stress that perhaps could have caused something else. Healing thoughts being sent your way♥️
Good advice to get your colonoscopy. My daughter, at age 50, found out she had colorectal cancer and was diagnosed as incurable, which was so hard to take in. The first few months of chemo was frightening (I was so worried she would give up), but 18 months later, she has gained back the 50 pounds lost, and she has chemo every other week...she’s doing very well, considering the possible lifetime of chemo. I’m proud of how strong she has been.....GET YOUR COLON CHECKED...my daughter had no symptoms...a problem with her ovaries was why they found it....thank you, Patti, for sharing your story...💜😷☯️
What a lady. she took charge of her health, she researched and educated and informed herself to make an informed decision and weighed her options. My hat is out to you! And the best part of it: peace of mind. You know you did the right thing, took no chances with your health and your life. Kudos! My name is Jennifer and I'm a nurse too.
Patti, I'm so happy that you shared your experience with us! You are a brave person for coming forward. I'm sure this will inspire people to get a check up. We are happy that you took the test, and wish the best of heath to you! You are so sweet , and pretty! You've got great skin. I just found you and subscribed to your channel. Thanks again for sharing your story with us! Big hugs sent your way!
I’m glad your surgery was successful and that you no longer have to worry about the lipoma. Hope you will soon be feeling more like yourself and enjoying some traveling. 😍
My husband received a positive and is scheduled Feb. 13th for colonospy. Please pray. Will be praying for you. God Bless.
Patty, I am so happy you are OK. I for years after my mother died from colon cancer, I would tell my son to get. a test. He would ignore my plea. He passed from colon cancer 3 year ago (50 yr old) I am hoping that everyone who watches this gets the test and their loved ones to do so too. I know this was hard to do this, but you are helping someone out there. God Bless
I am so happy everything went well dear Patty. Such a great reminder to all of us that health can take a different turn at any point. Its a great reminder to treasure our loved ones and not take any family moments for granted. Make everything right with God, get to know Him, and treasure our personal relationship with our creator. Much love to you Patty.
I am so glad you are alright!! We missed you. Thank you for sharing all of this.❤️
I am sitting here crying watching you and realize how strong you are and that old age is a nightmare that never stops till you no longer exist.
My BIL had a tumor in his pancreas, which after 11 hour surgery was determined to be benign. However, the doctors had been watching it and it was growing. He is glad he decided to have it removed as it could have become cancerous or causing other problems. Each situation is different. I'm glad that you made an informed choice and that everything seems to be ok.
My goodness Patti I am so sorry you had to go through this! I am so happy your doing better! Sounds like it was quite an ordeal but I'm glad your back! I listen to you and appreciate your thoughts on many subjects! I'm several years younger than you but you give me hope on my journey of 'aging'! God bless you! XOXO
You absolutely made the right decision doing what u did. Otherwise you would have had a little black cloud hanging over you & every time you had a little discomfort or tummy ache you’d be wondering. Now it’s over with & you got good news. I was one of those people who never went for my colonoscopy. I felt cancer didn’t run in my family so I didn’t need to worry about it. So at 64 my doctor suggested my husband & i do the cologuard test. My husband’s came back negative but mine was positive. My doctor called me immediately & referred me to a gastroenterologist to set up a colonoscopy. And he told me this was not negotiable. This had to be done ASAP. And I’m glad I did because they found 3 large polyps & one was pre cancerous. So I’ll be having another colonoscopy done around my 67th Birthday. If it hadn’t been for that cologuard test I’m certain I would have never gone for a colonoscopy. Very foolish on my part. But because that cologuard was so much less invasive to me I took it. The gastroenterologist said it saved my life. And I am very grateful for the technology. I’m glad you’re back & on the mend. Don’t rush it & expect too much of yourself. Take care & God bless. 🙏🏻💕
You are just so beautiful and inspiring! I'm 63 and never before went out in public or work without makeup. NEVER! Since covid though, and working from hom for almost 2 years now, I have not been wearing any makeup even out in public. You have not only inspired to start wearing makeup again, but have given an impotant lession in being your own advacate with health related issues. In my case, had it not been for me insisting that something was wrong with me (I was 46 at the time), I would not be here today sending this message. I am a survivor of ovarian cancer-stage 3. I am going to keep watching your wonderful videos.
Thank goodness youre on the clear patti, thanks for jighlighting this its so important like you say to br in charge of our own health. Ypu look radiant ✨️ xxxxxxxx
Patti, thank you so much for your honesty and I am sure it was difficult to talk about. I was in a similar place and I also had similar surgery.
Patti, first of all I want to say you look beautiful! And .. I absolutely love your nails!! I'm so happy to hear you're on the mend and doing great! I'm sure that was quite an ordeal you faced and you absolutely made the right decision. As another poster said, your peace of mind is priceless! I believe with your positive attitude and great health, that that will go a long way to your healing and recovery. Just the fact that you wanted to get out and walk says a lot! You have a great supportive husband, and family, and Biscuit, of course! It touched my heart that he wanted to lay by you! Sweet baby! I missed your videos and am so happy all is well and I know all will continue to be well with you. Thank you so much for sharing your story! Looking forward to more videos :)
Patti...so happy for you that your surgery had a happy ending. Thank you for your sharing this. It always makes a huge difference in the world she. We share ourselves. As a cancer survivor, I understand the emotional rollercoaster that a surgery like yours creates. Kudos to your beautiful self for being a voice for the Importance of colonoscopy. ...Continued health and healing in 2020!
Patti: What a VERY brave woman you are for sharing this with us “older, but smarter” women! THANK YOU!!! P. S. I wish I could make my eyes look as lovely as yours!
Patti: Would you please tell us the eyeshadow colors you used so we can attempt (🤪) to achieve your beautiful look??? THANK YOU!!!
I am so glad to see your face! Glad everything turned out well. Sorry you had to go through all that. I wish doctors would stop looking at their laptops when they see patients and start making eye contact again. Enjoy your cruise! God bless.
Lois Bryant Yes, unfortunately, the more federalized health care becomes, the more this will happen. Docs get PAID based on their attention to their laptop checksheets. They don’t like it but if they leave something off, are inaccurate in any way, they are NOT paid.
Hello how are you doing today 💖
You are so right about wanting the doctor to make eye contact.
@@MTknitter22 doctors should get paid by the commentsafter each visit. after all we are paying them by means of our insurance many of us pay on our own not from a work place. if comments are not good no pay, if patient happy with visit than they get paid.
So glad you're feeling better. Praying for a speedy recovery and you've been missed.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Your wisdom in questioning the doctors was the best thing you could have done. So happy for you all is well with you now. God bless!
Patti, Hi from Ocala, Florida! I will be 72 this year. I love watching you on TH-cam!
Hi Patty, I am so glad you are back and doing well! Thank you for sharing your story, you are such a sweet lady and I love to watch you. My prayers to you for a speedy recovery and enjoy your cruise. My husband and I just started cruising and we love it, the sunshine will definitely will make u feel much better. Happy cruising and let’s us know how it was☺️❤️🛳🥂
Oh no....missed you and so sorry you had surgery. I so understand. By you doing this video, I am sure you will save lives. Thank you for sharing. Love you 💗Patti!
I have just started watching you and I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I’m so glad you are ok. I’ve had a colonoscopy many times since I was 32 because the doctors left a surgical sponge in me after a c section with my 3rd son. During the last colonoscopy they punctured a hole in my colon and two days after it I was in a coma for three weeks because I had to have two emergency surgeries and 3/4 of my large intestine was removed because they exposed it to too much air and I woke up with a colostomy and boy did it change my very active lifestyle. Eighteen months later I had a reversal. That has changed my life forever and I am doing great now and I am so grateful to God. I truly believe in colonoscopies but I am so glad they do have other tests available now that’s not so invasive. God bless you!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
I’m so glad that you are ok, and recovering nicely! Thank you for sharing this! 💕
OHHHHH! So happy to see you again and WELL!!!!! May the rest of your recovery be speedy and may you be overtaken by even greater health and wellness!
Hello how are you doing today 💖
So glad you got a good report! You will be back to your old self in no time, and you look absolutely beautiful. Good Luck💕💕🦋
Hurricane Michael survivor here! Are you in the Panhandle? You are a beautiful and strong woman and I’m so glad you’re ok. I LOVE your product recommendations ❤️❤️🙏🙏
Bless you, Patty, for doing this video. I could tell it was emotional for you but you did this for others. You continue to be amazing. Hugs and prayers coming your way.
❤️❤️Patti, it's so good to see you here again!❤️❤️ You've been such a real trouper through this whole, sometimes very frightening, ordeal, and your attitude is a real inspiration. I'm so glad you reminded everyone to get a colonoscopy per one's doctor's recommendations ❤️ My three have been clear, for which I'm so grateful. I'm sorry you had to endure the stress of the miscommunication among the doctors, but your surgeon really does sound excellent. Glad you were up and walking so soon! What determination ❤️...and how sweet of Jim to arrange another cruise. Thinking of you and hoping for your ongoing healing.
So glad things turned out well for you!!! You are so blessed to have Jim!!! This gives me a big push to schedule my overdue colonoscopy!!!!
Been so busy with Hubs and his maladies it’s easy to forget about me!!!
Keep looking UP!!
You are precious. I am sure your sharing your bravery, questions, courage, etc. helped someone else. It did my heart. Prayers for a speedy recovery.
Oh Patti, that must have been so scary. I can't believe no one informed you about your test being positive in a first place and then the shock of the surgeon telling you what they have to do. I loved that you told him "you do what you would do for your mother" I am glad you are feeling better and I wish you a speedy recovery, just take your time and take it easy. Also thank you for making this video and spreading awareness, it is so important to take charge of your own health. Love you lots xoxoNisha
Thank you Nisha...every day it gets better - in fact I think I may drive for the first time !!!! Yes, awareness is so important and it's up to our "sisterhood" to encourage each other to take care of our health too. Love ya..xo p
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Oh SugarPuffandFluff, I must have found this page through you!🥰 This is my second time watching Rxstrmom 🥰, I must have found her through you and I’m so glad I did. Oh Dear Rxstrmom, I’m so glad it was benign it did remind me to go do both a mammogram and a colonoscopy. Think I will skip ColonGuard. I’m glad you were able to get all your doctors to communicate together. I think it might have been better when we just brought our records and scans with us rather than relying on computers, I showed up at Cleveland Clinic thinking they had my full records sent and they hadn’t. It basically wasted all our time including the doctors there and we later had to make the exact same trip again since my illness is rare. My son and husband took time off both times. Sighs. I’m just glad they got it right eventually for you 🤩 Rxstrmom.
Your a star Patti keep on keeping on Smile 😊 and keep positive 🌷💕🌷I have had a similar experience and am with you you have to do what you have to do xx
God Bless you for
telling your story I pray you will be safe💓🙏🙏🙏
Patty, I am almost 75. In 2013, I had a colectomy-all of my colon and large intestine were removed. I had a wonderful surgeon. He was able to pull my small intestine down to my rectum and make, what I call, a “Designer Butt!” I do not have a colostomy; however, I have had quite a life-change! There are certain foods my body cannot absorb; therefore, diet is very important. I was recently transported to a hospital for kinks in my small intestine-I was a very sick ole lady! I was in the hospital for 6 1/2 days with a tube up my nose going down to my stomach-very sick.
Please, please continue your walking, do not lift, and (for now) do not eat raw vegetables. Let your body heal. You are very lucky! God Bless You. Take care of yourself. 💓💓💓
I am 5o and have a designer butt also,
Nancy Louks My mother had her colon resected and would occasionally eat the wrong food (popcorn)and get a kink in her colon. She had to have another surgery. The only thing that helped avoid the hospital was taking a child laxative, Castoria at the first sign of symptoms. You can purchase at Walgreens. 1/2 teaspoon every 20 minutes seemed to do the trick for her.
ArchitecturalDetails Thank you. I am seeing my surgeon on Thursday as I was transported to a hospital my surgeon was not associated. I had no symptoms-the extreme pain and vomiting just started without warning. Very scary.
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Nancy Loukas, although you seem to have a sense of humor about your experience you went through an awful lot and it seems you are still enduring an awful lot. . I hope that as more time elapses between that surgery and the present time, your new digestive tract will adjust. Take care, my Dear🌹
Now that it's over, you can rest assured that you made the right decision, because now you know it was benign and you can have peace of mind and carry on with your life. :) As a 10 year breast cancer and 6 year ovarian cancer survivor, I can relate. :)
Congratulations! I am also an ovarian cancer survivor.
I am also a breast cancer survivor, one year since my diagnosis, still healing from my revision surgery.
BRCA2 here
Francine Carr hi , I am 25 years womb and ovarian cancer stage 3 , survivor , enjoying life so much ,xx
Francine, You've been through so much ! God bless you.I'm a colon cancer warrior,6 years free ! I love every day !
Hope you have recuperated. Take care of yourself cutie. May God continue to keep you in his care.
This is the first time I’ve seen you and listened to your story.
Praying for healing strength and may God keep you strong! ❤️❤️❤️
Jesus Bless you sweetie‼️ I am sooo grateful that everything turned out wonderful 😘
♡ Calling my NP tomorrow for cologuard. Thank you for giving me the push I needed. 🙏
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I only recently discovered your channel. I'm hoping that many people who see this will take your advice. I lost a friend to colon cancer in 2020. She was only 48. She didn't trust the doctors' advice because they too had messed up her paperwork. She refused treatment and let the cancer run its course. Her friends and family have been wondering if the treatment would have extended her life, but she wanted to concentrate on her quality of life. She was a great person and the world is a little darker without her in it. I'm so happy that you are doing well and recovering swiftly. Take care.
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What a dreadful thing you’ve been through. I am so pleased it all turned out ok. This must be an old video as you talk about Christmas and going on a cruise so maybe even before Covid. You are so good doing your makeup. It brings out the beautiful colour of your eyes. I do enjoy your Chanel ❤️
Thank you for urging people to have a colonoscopy. I had one recently and I was absolutely terrified as I had never been sedated before. I walked into the room and there were 3 men in white coats wearing masks waiting for me. (I am also not in my home country) I couldn’t see any warm smiles and felt very scared. They put a tube in my arm and told me to count and - you know what - I had the best sleep of my life! I woke up and it was all over. I wanted to carry on enjoying the wonderful sleep I’d just had! It was incredible! So please, everybody, don’t worry at all about a colonoscopy or being sedated. I’m almost looking forward to the next time! :o)
Patty you look fantastic!! Thank you for sharing this journey. Blessings to you, Biscuit and Jim!!
Patti, just saw this, THANK YOU for sharing this personal story. You’ve made a HUGE difference to all of us
Hi Nancy, how are you doing?
You did the best thing-you were your own best advocate. Many people, unfortunately, don’t ask questions and don’t stick up for themselves.
Thank you for sharing your story Patti. Know that you are a positive blessing in my and countless others ‘ lives. Continued healing and mighty love.
I’m so glad you’re ok! I would have done the surgery too. Peace of mind is everything!!! Bless your heart and get well soon. XO
I'm glad your back Patty and that your surgery was a success. My problem is that I have very little faith in the medical profession. Mostly because of the attitude that you experienced with the knowledge that is not conveyed to specialist that we are suggested to see. I only see the medical industry getting worst not better. Glad you are doing well❤️
Mary yes, I agree. However, we are all adults (I’m presuming) and I see no earthly reason why we can’t just speak honestly to the doctors.
I had a primary who spent his allotted 15 minutes with me, working diligently on his computer. I had ovarian cancer over 20 yrs ago and I always had a specific blood test done. He repeatedly kept forgetting to order it. I quit that practice and found a doctor who actually looks at me and talks to me eye to eye. What a difference. I have talked to her about this today’s doctors and realize they bow and kneel to their insurance providers. This doctor is a godsend and I’m thankful for having found her. I did speak to my previous doc and told him exactly why I was leaving.
I have been cancer free and healthy for over 20yrs. My best advice is to become an active advocate for your own health.
Mary It certainly is not!
Mary you have to be your own advocate. That is exactly what Patty did....if you are not happy, keep searching and ask questions...I have a fabulous Internist bit that was after firing a doctor.
I now fear the medical profession so that I’m neglecting so much. Thank you all for helping me to realize that I’m not the only one who has trust issues with doctors... I’m going to get busy and find a good pcp because of Patti and I realize I must be my own advocate. Thank you Ladies and God bless your health.
Agree!!!! Seems many doctors today take their jobs as a business and not as a vocation to help and sincerely care for people.
Patti you are so wise and so blessed that there was no cancer. I’m so thankful for that and I’m praying for you now because I want you to stay healthy.
Now I am so blessed to have found you at four o’clock THIS VERY MORNING. I’ve been very neglectful of my health since my beautiful mother passed away. That was 6 years ago. I have become very fearful of doctors and medical professionals, especially regarding surgery. I have the RA and I’m so tired all the time and there are so many issues with my health because of the autoimmune diseases. Thank you so much for giving me courage and motivation to take better care of myself all the way around.
You are beautiful and wise. What a beautiful blessing to find you. I am thankful.
Stay safe and healthy. I pray that if you took your Caribbean Cruise 🚢 you had a safe and fabulous trip. If you weren’t able to go, I hope you did go somewhere safe that was sunny ☀️ and had a fabulous beach. God bless you, Patti and your family. 💗🙏
So happy this is over for you, that results all good and I will pray your strength returns soon🙏. God be with you dear Patty❤️
Bless you, Patti, for reminding us the importance of being our own health care advocates. Also, thank you for sharing your own personal experience. I hope you are feeling much, much better. I am a new subscriber and I am so happy I found you! To me, beauty does not have an age and there is no price on peace of mind! Bravo to you for being an example of that! Love and light, Sarah - Boston🌺
I had missed you and I'm so glad you are going to be ok. Looking forward to your next video.
Luv you. I came upon you by accident. You are someone I aspire to be now and when I am older. Xo
Patti,So glad you had the surgery and it was benign. I had the surgery,it was stage 2 cancer, I had 6 months of Chemo.,I'm 6 years cancer free.I begged my husband to have a colonoscopy after my illness,he said NO! Six years later he was diagnosed with stage 3 rectal cancer.He is receiving Chemo., radiation, and than surgery.It's a long haul,and I pray that he will have the great results that I was lucky enough to have.My 2 sons are aware that they are high risk,so they will have to be tested before age 50.Please anyone reading this urge your loved ones to have the colonoscopy, don't waste time,and money on Colo Guard,"Just Do It" ! It doesn't hurt.I'm 66 years old,and I love every day ! Hugs to you ! Cindy
Glad all is well with you. Take good care of yourself. I’m 76 myself and I’m trying hard to take care of me and my husband. It’s not easy but with God’s help, I’ll do it. Love your makeup videos. Gives me ideas for myself on other products. Do keep making the videos and I’ll keep watching. 😊