I am 28 weeks pregnant now and my Boyfriend abandoned me when I was 16 weeks pregnant but I couldn't found myself to abort my baby. I got advise to Abort because am living in Europe without any family but I refused. I did a scam few weeks ago and saw my beautiful little girl in my belly smiling and Sucking the fingers. I can't wait to see my baby soon.
congratulations hun. My daighter's father left me but i kept my daughter and now she is 5 months and so beautiful and such a blessing! Jesus is the strength of your life. I am also in europe. If you ever need support contact me on delacruz23@hotmail.co.uk ♡
Gwen Sun please don't abort the baby...Keep it and enjoy motherhood have the Bestfriend u have never had, have Minnie you and share memories, I know it wouldn't be easy but You will be okay Sweetheart sending you hugs all the way...if u ever need someone to talk to Am always here
@@patiencewanjiru5612 thanks dr, I made up my mind to keep my baby since from the first day I knew am pregnant. She is not even out yet but just her kicking is making me feel so sweet.
I got pregnant when I was 19yrs and abortion was an option but I chose to keep my son!! 8yrs later I look at my son and he’s the best thing I have!! Each child comes with their blessings! Choose life!!
you are amazing gal, those are the testimony we want to hear, otherwise abortion is murder as much as we want to encourage these ladies. abortion should be condemned. Thats a Man of God you have right there.
I got pregnant at 16 in form 3 and i really felt like aborting because my parents had my baby daddy arrested but i just took courage and had my child ..she is 14 months now!...so far so good and i see God's blessings in my life for not aborting her
Life is unfair, some women abort babies even more than one but here i am I've been trying to fall pregnant for 10 years and still no luck 🤔 How sad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My heart breaks for her and all her children💔 You don't have to compromise, ever. A child is never a mistake, the relationship with a wrong person could be. My prayer for every young woman who has procured an abortion/abortions is complete healing and forgiveness from self and from God. Children are beautiful, wonderful wonderful gifts. Choose life even in the midst of chaos and confusion and lean on God. He will provide for you and your unborn child. Do not make any decision out of fear of judgment from anyone, because when you grieve, they won't grieve with you.
Amen. This is a great comment. Unfortunately we *compromise* and give in and children happen....but making our choices and then accepting our responsibility is what God wants us to do. Dont kill our oops babies. Abstinence is so important. Because these things happen. Date first marry first . Ask God to bless you guys and stay strong.
I would think after the second abortion You would think sexual awareness and protection would become a thought right?? I know we are not always careful but why so many???
People don't realize that she must have been having multiple abortions due to trauma it's all psychological... She is not stupid she just didn't understand the amount of emotional baggage she had then.
@@knightsalmon42 l never commented on a post that relates to abuse . Get a life gal. Abuse is a diffrent story. That was my opinion , that she should have used contraceptives to prevent unplanned pregnancies. Next time dont tell me not to talk cz this is an open discussion. I wouldnt have responded like that surely if the woman was abused. Anyway it's her life choices and her decisions. She did what was best for her at that time and it's her body only her has control over what happens to it.
Abortions are NOT the easy way out .. you see all the difficulties after the abortion .. She said she not on birth control because of religious reason ..????? What about them murders (abortion) ..?
What i dont get is why some people in audience were laughing, lack of sex education is a big issue and sad reality it is usually the girls who have the consequences.
@@ashablack2291 I think it's better if BOTH partners use something. Ive always used contraception AND the guy wears a condom EVERY time. No issues. If BC is not an option for some women then condoms AND pulling out while wearing the condom will work. If religion prevents BC, abstinence is the only way for the woman to protect herself, especially if unmarried. We have to put ourselves first.
If I ever open my legs for a man, there will be having my own so enough money for me to support may child, I will be having my own house to shelter my children, my own car to easily go where I want!! I will never accept any disrespect from a man, he can choose to stay and be humble and faithful or leave!! I will never kill no child
So amazing at how all fingers are pointing on ladies alone.i thought sex is btwn two people i think what triggers abortions mostly is because of this irresponsible guys.
time has come for responsibilities to be shared, this is the reason why even family planning has entirely been left to women alone such that if you get pregnant it is considered a woman's mistake.Noo.
@@sharonalwanyi8751 you're very right my dear and no one is saying men don't have a responsibility but as women if we don't commit to higher standards we have no one to blame but ourselves. As women we simply have to be more discerning and prepared to accept accountability. That is the definition of responsibility. Every thing else is blame shifting. Sex is not mandatory.
@@tsakanematjeke6732 tanx i had an abortion a while ago and nobody knows not even my boyfriend we have a 3 year old daughter very beautiful and intelligent but we had struggles raising her so when i fell pregnant i could bear to see my boyfriend go what he went through again its the first time im open about this and i feel a little closure tanx 4 making me open my chest and heal my soul im now a student teacher and this is just the beginning of life
People here on the comment section stop judging,the first girl chemutai,this things happen in our country,young women being misguided about relationships and sex.I applaud her for having the courage to tell her story,and being able to learn from her past
l got my virginity break and got pregnant when l was 14 yrs and give birth 15yrs due to bad advice of a friend. suddenly that friend of my mine died due to unsuccessful abortion she doing while my was 2yrs. l gave another birth at age of 19yrs with that same guy I gave birth with him with my first child, the guy did not accepted the second pregnancy he even ignore the first child but l got supported from my mom she look after me and my children till God open a change for me and l travel out side my country, and l met a divorce man with with two kids he explained his problem and l also explained mine and we agree to got married while l was 25 yrs and now God has blessed us with 2kids and I'm now 27yrs .and is my husband who looks after my two childrens l left with my mom.and first children l have are 11 and 8 yrs I'm happy in life because if I aborted those first /second child may be l could have lost my live but due to my the support of my mom now I'm alive and blessed. but l some times regret giving birth at early age turns ur world apart or lives different because l was not able to schooled again .but God richly bless my mom with all this my problem my mom did not left he encouraged me and always pray and fast for my problem as a real Christians. so no matter the circumstances or situation keep the pregnancy God time is the best but going in for abortion is a big son before God
Sio’s World “I’ve noticed that everyone that is for Abortions, has already been born already”. ~Ronald Reagan I understand that you can’t talk about what a person is doing with her body. But we not talking about her body are we? We talking about the body inside their body. It’s not the same thing.
Echoing the voice of soo maany ladies...i know...the likes of me....am sure not every one has the courage to come out and speak like her, kudos to wilter chemutai!!!!!
Lucy Imbuga When she said she asked God for forgiveness I thanked Jesus for delivering her from her emotional and physical pain. God is a healer and deliverer. All you have to do is ask and turn away from that sin. I give God glory over Ms. Martha’s life! 💕
I'm not judging but honestly I don't think abortion is ever a way out ... Well I was raised by single mum we are 11 I'm the 10th and am so grateful to God that He gave my mum the strength to raise us up all by herself..
@@nhori7065 sorry dear you just didn't get my point... I said abortion is never a way out. When someone aborts they suffer more, and theres guilt, anger... Some fall into depression.
Judge them if your blood can wash their sins. Anyways, I'm selling pure water for those who came to read comments, and in case you want a chair, I can offer you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂let me be going 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
Can't judge...and the Lord will forgive them. Her circumstances were so critical. She was trying. She is so beautiful. But, abortion clinics don't tell these women how abortion chips at the woman's con science and heart afterwards because you will still experience the bareavement process.
OMG 😱😨 now after watching this it's time I sit my sister down and have a serious talk with her, since she's out of school and this year she will be starting a campus life can't Imgn this things happening to her. this word is so cruel if you not careful
Talk to her about contraceptives. That's the thing we NEVER address.. and the human body DOESN'T know to abstain. Hormones rule! Babies come into this world to be tortured where all this pain could've been avoided! Let's be real
Sometimes it's not about bringing up the baby its about the people you will disappoint your parents the society...if my daughter got pregnant i would Be supportive no matter what siwezi penda apitie what i went through
Shame on the doctor who performed an abortion without consent. That is a serious violation against women. Whether you felt relieved afterwards is not an excuse. The bottom line is You were violated and can seek justice.
I hate how people use the 'do not judge' scripture to excuse wrong behavior. Lets get real and stop explaining away sin in the name of not judging. I'm glad they admit they did wrong and are making ammends. Wish them all the best
Anyone can make an unwise choice. We're all human, but as women we MUST put ourselves first. Our health, our bodies, and our decisions must hold as much weight as the man's does. They talked these women into believing they HAVE to be sexually active to keep their relationship, knowing their religion is against it. No one wants to be alone so the woman gives in. If religion is the reason for not wanting children out of wedlock, these men must marry you first. Hold them accountable
braided chai No one wants to be alone? Wtff?! They ended up being alone even after the abortion. You think those men stayed with her through that abortion? Hell nah? Don’t be silly wrap your willy. Or just put the kid in a foster home. There is never a good reason to kill off your own newborn. You people are like these leftist Dem(on)crats , jus completely out of it, crazy asf.
This show is international...I love it. Tamima, you deserve an award. If men could be responsible enough, am sure even if not 100% these abortion cases would be rare, why do men neglect pregnancies? What on earth do you expect afterwards? To all ladies who encounter such scenarios, be strong and if possible keep the baby,,,am sure God will provide along the way.
@@cynthiacyndy9095 I respect your opinion,,,but truly speaking, if you follow carefully,,these abortions were either boyfriends advising or failing to own the pregnancy.I stand to be corrected.
@@MJ-ye7dd yes it was the boyfriend convincing them ....but no one forced them to do so for example they both have babies becouse they chose to keep the pregnancy
So many women having Abortions,and there are so many Childless Couples who would love to Adopt a Baby. Come on Give your child a Chance, later you will feel so much better that you made this choice GOD HELP THESE MOTHERS CHOOSE LIFE
@@Darkdemonoflite I Know ,I Was in that situation myself at 17,forty-nine years ago,at that time it was really looked down on and some Mothers had their Baby taken of Them.I got Married Which failed later,because i was to young.I know the Pressure and Desperation, but I never Regretted having my Son.God Help Those Women Going Through This Same Situation.
The second Woman Noel describes the aftermath and the trauma related to abortion. The depression is real and the demons are hard to deal with. I pray this helps somebody. Abortion isn't freedom, it is bondage; an abyss of darkness.
The guys I dated expressed to me they didn't want to have children so I always honored that. I used birth control FAITHFULLY for years until I met my now ex fiance. I went for a physical to prepare my body for motherhood. I was told that my condition (I have Sickle Cell Anemia) damaged my reproductive organs. Meanwhile these women have zero problems conceiving and they throw away the life that grows inside them. Life sure does have a way of cold clocking you square in the face. 🤦🏾♀️😥
When you get pregnant the 1st time and have your first abortion, surely by then you should be smart enough to know how babies are made. Use protection,when you have unprotected sex what do you think will happen. This makes me made, she's clearly not the sharpest tool in the shade. She was using abortion as a birth control method. People need to learn from their mistakes. After watching this, I appreciate the fact that she's using her experience to educate other girls out there. The fact that you spoke up shows that you're brave.
This is too sad,I don't know what I can say,I was thinking that uneducated people are the only ones who fall in this trap?so this demon of sex before marriage haichagui😭
Dear Switch Tv, there is a possibility to disable comments on youtube videos and such here is an example where this would be very necessary. She is brave for sharing her story to EDUCATE the nation about the dangers of these back street treatments PLUS she also represents millions of women who are going through/went through this. She should not be bashed in the comments for it. She is fully aware that it was wrong, but she is sharing to educate and enlighten.
May the Lord give you many children, why is life this unfair, someone flashing like one after another n others r praying day n night to have just one, one only. God of mercy.
Uria nyikwa nidarutire ya thoguo 🤣🤣🤣 why are you catching feelings tho? like it's their life. Mind yours. Reke thie ngahaice thoguo tondu nyukwa niaremirwo nyangoni. That's probably how you know I panua legs, right? 🤣🤣🤣 Turus 🚮🚮
@@Starlynn25 spoken like a true river road langa in their native language..and btw you are the one who should mind your bizness.. did i address your comment or you're the one who came for me in my comment for voicing my opinion? girl bye! sorry i came down to your level..fight with a pig and you will get dirty.. let me go wash off the stench. shiish
Actually I have a friend who has procured 5 abortions, all with the help of her mum. Her mum be like, "you can't keep that baby, the dad looks irresponsible" Well she is now into alcohol plus cigarettes full time. A once celebrated Kenyan FYI.
I am 100% pro choice. Being a woman is hard guys, all the men she got pregnant by walk around with no issues mmhhh. The interviewer is great. She was really trying to probe without judgement and still show compassion.
As women who are pro-choice say that they have a right to choose whatever with their bodies, they should realize that it comes with responsibility. It is unfortunate that men don't carry pregnancy but we women know that is the burden we carry as women, so we can't just live careless sexual lives
I had my first child when I was 18yrs,second when I was 20yrs,3rd when I was 24yrs and forth 26....it is sad to see women going through so much. ...um in tears right now .abortion was never an option for me and luckily all 4 of my children are from the same father and we r married now.I pray for all the women who can't fall pregnant to fall pregnant. ...
once I can understand, 3, 4, 5 times.... that's an evil spirit. the devil is at work. May we be forgiven for all the babies lives we have denied. God is merciful
To each her own. Being Pro-life doesn’t automatically get you a ticket to heaven just like being Pro-Choice won’t send you to straight to hell. The only decision you will ever regret is letting someone else shame you into having a child you can’t care for or force you to have an abortion you can’t forgive yourself for. Do YOU.
Thank you soooo much...this is what Marie Stopes and Planned Parenthood will not tell you, the side effects of abortion...Our African values count...do not remove the ancient landmark!
Some cultures in Africa allowed for abortion. Don't glorify what you've not fully researched. The Bible should be our moral compass, regardless of how religious one is.
It is the womans choice to do as she will with her body. It is her life, her body, and her situation. You will complain if she has the child and gets on government assistance and shame her. If she gives it away how does she know it will live a happy life. The majority of adopted children are abused and unaccepted eventually. She was young and telling her story and apparently from a place that is not educated on sex. It is Gods job alone to judge her not mine or any others in the comments.
God is indeed so merciful! He is a loving Father. He loves us despite and in spite of ourselves. I identify with all these ladies. I have been through this path. God had mercy on me! He is full of grace. He makes us new!
At the abortion clinic it seems like a relief but hell breaks loose immediately afterwards 😔 you have to live with the knowledge that you killed your baby a helpless ,inoccent soul 😓
God i confess to u 🙏🙏I aborted😢😢 3 pregnancy I did it coz the guy was not ready to marry me lastily he told me to abort my 4th baby I refused and now am proud of my dota mutesi Irene destiny she's in p. 4 class she's very clever guys I thank God 4 protecting me and my dota her daddy never cared 4 her now am asingle mom am praying to God to bless me wiz God fearing n caring man who can love me wiz my dota n I settle down n I give birth to other children .prayer is my daily food amen 🙏🙏🙏☝😍
😲...... no judgement. The devil is a liar, parents expect a lot from their children & fear of parents & the unknown can lead to many bad choices that one regrets later in life. Glad that she lived to tell the story. A baby is a gift and while the woman is an adult & can make decisions for herself- the baby cannot yet.
Ooh my I never and I'll never think about killing innocent Angle I was married but when after one yr old gul my ex husband advise me to do abortion I refused n we separated am proud to be single Mum of two kids and the one he was saying to do a abortions was a boy am lucky now the boy is 15 yrs better to give birth n give some lady's who are crying for babies or sell most of Kenyan men like so much to enjoy sex but when its come to get the fruit thy hit n run
you r really brave and confident. I can't judge ur actions since it is the past and it happened due to certain reasons. God knew what u wld go through b4 he created u.God is good always and he gave a second Chance in life.Forgive urself since it is the past and give glory to God always.
I am 28 weeks pregnant now and my Boyfriend abandoned me when I was 16 weeks pregnant but I couldn't found myself to abort my baby. I got advise to Abort because am living in Europe without any family but I refused.
I did a scam few weeks ago and saw my beautiful little girl in my belly smiling and Sucking the fingers. I can't wait to see my baby soon.
gwen Sun all the best mami
congratulations hun. My daighter's father left me but i kept my daughter and now she is 5 months and so beautiful and such a blessing! Jesus is the strength of your life. I am also in europe. If you ever need support contact me on delacruz23@hotmail.co.uk ♡
Gwen Sun please don't abort the baby...Keep it and enjoy motherhood have the Bestfriend u have never had, have Minnie you and share memories, I know it wouldn't be easy but You will be okay Sweetheart sending you hugs all the way...if u ever need someone to talk to Am always here
@@patiencewanjiru5612 thanks dr, I made up my mind to keep my baby since from the first day I knew am pregnant. She is not even out yet but just her kicking is making me feel so sweet.
@@sanaaray8121 thanks dr. That is so lovely of you.
I got pregnant when I was 19yrs and abortion was an option but I chose to keep my son!! 8yrs later I look at my son and he’s the best thing I have!! Each child comes with their blessings! Choose life!!
you are amazing gal, those are the testimony we want to hear, otherwise abortion is murder as much as we want to encourage these ladies. abortion should be condemned. Thats a Man of God you have right there.
Indeed
Naya Michaela ..
I'm glad you never abort the baby back then.
@@sylvianyambura3668 exactly abortion should be condemned that's what am gonna be talking about on my next video
Its not even about getting pregnant but don't people fear HIV n STDs
Pre exposure pills
Exactly, I don't get why people are not scared about HIV, AIDS, HERPES, HEPATITIS A B etc etc!!!
My question is.. Aren't there Condoms available to prevent such incidences?
I got pregnant at 16 in form 3 and i really felt like aborting because my parents had my baby daddy arrested but i just took courage and had my child ..she is 14 months now!...so far so good and i see God's blessings in my life for not aborting her
God always provides! Babies are Miracles from God.✝️🕊❤️🙏🏻
@@meganslonesingsnot really
Life is unfair, some women abort babies even more than one but here i am I've been trying to fall pregnant for 10 years and still no luck 🤔
How sad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
May God see u thru this my dear n bless ur womb with children
God will hear your prayers.Believe in Him
Adopt
Psalm 65:11. Believe
Am with you dear
We women need to pray for one another.
My heart breaks for her and all her children💔
You don't have to compromise, ever.
A child is never a mistake, the relationship with a wrong person could be.
My prayer for every young woman who has procured an abortion/abortions is complete healing and forgiveness from self and from God.
Children are beautiful, wonderful wonderful gifts. Choose life even in the midst of chaos and confusion and lean on God. He will provide for you and your unborn child.
Do not make any decision out of fear of judgment from anyone, because when you grieve, they won't grieve with you.
Amen. This is a great comment. Unfortunately we *compromise* and give in and children happen....but making our choices and then accepting our responsibility is what God wants us to do. Dont kill our oops babies. Abstinence is so important. Because these things happen. Date first marry first . Ask God to bless you guys and stay strong.
I would think after the second abortion You would think sexual awareness and protection would become a thought right?? I know we are not always careful but why so many???
So true
You didn't listen , did you?
She said she was just a naive young girl who was always being betrayed and fooled by a deceitful man.
don't judge what you don't know or haven't experienced
This is so sad. Kudos to the ladies for being brave enough to share their stories.
Brave? She is Pathetic
People don't realize that she must have been having multiple abortions due to trauma it's all psychological... She is not stupid she just didn't understand the amount of emotional baggage she had then.
She could have used contraceptives tho
@@cleopatranoko4538 4 of her pregnancies were wanted initially.
Spirit is willing. Flesh is weak.
@@cleopatranoko4538 Unless you've been abused or disadvantaged please don't talk.
@@knightsalmon42 l never commented on a post that relates to abuse . Get a life gal. Abuse is a diffrent story. That was my opinion , that she should have used contraceptives to prevent unplanned pregnancies. Next time dont tell me not to talk cz this is an open discussion. I wouldnt have responded like that surely if the woman was abused. Anyway it's her life choices and her decisions. She did what was best for her at that time and it's her body only her has control over what happens to it.
Abortions are NOT the easy way out .. you see all the difficulties after the abortion ..
She said she not on birth control because of religious reason ..????? What about them murders (abortion) ..?
What i dont get is why some people in audience were laughing, lack of sex education is a big issue and sad reality it is usually the girls who have the consequences.
Agree this is why I've been very open qith my kids abiut sex and diseases
We need to be honest about how often birth control doesn't work.
@@ashablack2291 I think it's better if BOTH partners use something. Ive always used contraception AND the guy wears a condom EVERY time. No issues. If BC is not an option for some women then condoms AND pulling out while wearing the condom will work. If religion prevents BC, abstinence is the only way for the woman to protect herself, especially if unmarried. We have to put ourselves first.
@ braided chai It is. Both parties should use something.
I applaud all these women who've shared their stories. - thank you!!!!
You've really helped someone including me.
Where sin abounds, grace abounds even more. It is well.
True
and evey sin has a consequence
Amen
Spoken as a person who knows Christ- intimately
You are a believer a true follower of Jesus christ
Men should also take fault in all this i mean the sperms are theres
Ha ha 😂😂😂😂 the sperm indeed caused the pregnancy.
If I ever open my legs for a man, there will be having my own so enough money for me to support may child, I will be having my own house to shelter my children, my own car to easily go where I want!! I will never accept any disrespect from a man, he can choose to stay and be humble and faithful or leave!! I will never kill no child
Yep
Men don’t get the abortions
They will NEVER see it that way. At the end of it all its the WOMANS responsibility she carries the baby
I can see saints here in the comment section but before you judge Kno that no one is righteous and everyone have sinned
I agree and anyway a spontaneous abortion is a miscarriage, it isn't the same as deliberately ending a pregnancy.
So amazing at how all fingers are pointing on ladies alone.i thought sex is btwn two people i think what triggers abortions mostly is because of this irresponsible guys.
It's not "amazing". As women we are responsible for our own bodies. We want "rights" without responsibilities.
time has come for responsibilities to be shared, this is the reason why even family planning has entirely been left to women alone such that if you get pregnant it is considered a woman's mistake.Noo.
@@sharonalwanyi8751 you're very right my dear and no one is saying men don't have a responsibility but as women if we don't commit to higher standards we have no one to blame but ourselves. As women we simply have to be more discerning and prepared to accept accountability. That is the definition of responsibility. Every thing else is blame shifting. Sex is not mandatory.
Dead beat mothers choose dead beat fathers.
True. That's the journey we are ALL on in the equality struggle between men and women.
If you have never been in this situation don't talk..I know what they felt its not easy.
i wish i cud share my story
Fatima Ngidi please share
@@tsakanematjeke6732 tanx i had an abortion a while ago and nobody knows not even my boyfriend we have a 3 year old daughter very beautiful and intelligent but we had struggles raising her so when i fell pregnant i could bear to see my boyfriend go what he went through again its the first time im open about this and i feel a little closure tanx 4 making me open my chest and heal my soul im now a student teacher and this is just the beginning of life
Really not easy
Mary sweetheart254 “I’ve noticed that everyone that is for Abortions, has already been born”. ~Ronald Reagan
People here on the comment section stop judging,the first girl chemutai,this things happen in our country,young women being misguided about relationships and sex.I applaud her for having the courage to tell her story,and being able to learn from her past
I absolutely agree. The courage to tell her story is everything. Those are their pearls. And God has restored them. That's all that matters
I agree. Very courageous
Tamima you are so amazing ..i like the way you conduct your interview....and your geust are so much corresponding...
Great show indeed👍
Yes Tamima is very professional.
l got my virginity break and got pregnant when l was 14 yrs and give birth 15yrs due to bad advice of a friend. suddenly that friend of my mine died due to unsuccessful abortion she doing while my was 2yrs. l gave another birth at age of 19yrs with that same guy I gave birth with him with my first child, the guy did not accepted the second pregnancy he even ignore the first child but l got supported from my mom she look after me and my children till God open a change for me and l travel out side my country, and l met a divorce man with with two kids he explained his problem and l also explained mine and we agree to got married while l was 25 yrs and now God has blessed us with 2kids and I'm now 27yrs .and is my husband who looks after my two childrens l left with my mom.and first children l have are 11 and 8 yrs
I'm happy in life because if I aborted those first /second child may be l could have lost my live but due to my the support of my mom now I'm alive and blessed.
but l some times regret giving birth at early age turns ur world apart or lives different because l was not able to schooled again .but God richly bless my mom with all this my problem my mom did not left he encouraged me and always pray and fast for my problem as a real Christians.
so no matter the circumstances or situation keep the pregnancy God time is the best but going in for abortion is a big son before God
I am proud of you for choosing life no matter what circumstance you are in. Continue to choose life
Unless you aren’t in these ladies shoes you lot who is angels and saints should shut your faces.
Sio’s World “I’ve noticed that everyone that is for Abortions, has already been born already”. ~Ronald Reagan I understand that you can’t talk about what a person is doing with her body. But we not talking about her body are we? We talking about the body inside their body. It’s not the same thing.
This show has taught me not to judge people regardless.
Hey, I make kenya based vlog , niaje ukinistalk na USUBSCRIBE
True
Tindi Saggy calling a person who killed someone a murderer is not judging.
Echoing the voice of soo maany ladies...i know...the likes of me....am sure not every one has the courage to come out and speak like her, kudos to wilter chemutai!!!!!
This is a great show Tamima. I applaud the ladies for sharing for they will heal as well as speak to many young ladies.
It takes a bold soul to talk about such.bravo ladies no sin is big.
Real talk Tamima doing great work.
Lindah Oguok Nyamera taking live is a big sin
msee okuta Hehe sin is sin .. No big sin or small.what matters have u reconcile with GOD and ur soul..
It's quite shocking what some girls go through because of lack of information and guidance
Is the that
God bless you for getting these conversations going. So many people need to listen to you
How men treat women, its sad that karma catches up with their kids and not them..
I have worked with Martha Ann and she has a heart of gold. I thank God for meeting her
Lucy Imbuga When she said she asked God for forgiveness I thanked Jesus for delivering her from her emotional and physical pain. God is a healer and deliverer. All you have to do is ask and turn away from that sin. I give God glory over Ms. Martha’s life! 💕
@@TheeMrsChampion Hallelujah.
Hi Tamina, kindly bring for us men who their girlfriends have done an abortion. We hear their side of story. Thanks
Speak the truth and shame the devil. The truth does set you free. Ni sawa.
I'm crying really 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I'm glad i was never in these kind of positions but thank you ladies for sharing y'all stories 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 i love you all
I'm not judging but honestly I don't think abortion is ever a way out ... Well I was raised by single mum we are 11 I'm the 10th and am so grateful to God that He gave my mum the strength to raise us up all by herself..
You're judgemental my dear
@@nhori7065 sorry dear you just didn't get my point... I said abortion is never a way out. When someone aborts they suffer more, and theres guilt, anger... Some fall into depression.
+Monica Wanjiku..👍
@Samantha Lewis this is Kenya not the US
Speedy that is your mum's own situation so stop judging
God loved her so much. He did not give up on her. Kept blessing her. Gave her a chance after another until she could get it right.
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Judge them if your blood can wash their sins. Anyways, I'm selling pure water for those who came to read comments, and in case you want a chair, I can offer you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂let me be going 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
sophie akumu chair please n water on my way out whould be great 🤣🤣🤣
@@zinithazingelwayo2935 you got it darling 😂😂😂
Can't judge...and the Lord will forgive them. Her circumstances were so critical. She was trying. She is so beautiful. But, abortion clinics don't tell these women how abortion chips at the woman's con science and heart afterwards because you will still experience the bareavement process.
You got jokes!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂 you so funny.... Human beings are at judging others.
OMG 😱😨 now after watching this it's time I sit my sister down and have a serious talk with her, since she's out of school and this year she will be starting a campus life can't Imgn this things happening to her.
this word is so cruel if you not careful
Talk to her about contraceptives. That's the thing we NEVER address.. and the human body DOESN'T know to abstain. Hormones rule! Babies come into this world to be tortured where all this pain could've been avoided! Let's be real
please
@@AggieInVideos I assure you am gonna be real with her
My bf left me when i was 8 weeks pregnant but i thank God for my best friend she kept on advising me and till now am growing strong
Sometimes it's not about bringing up the baby its about the people you will disappoint your parents the society...if my daughter got pregnant i would Be supportive no matter what siwezi penda apitie what i went through
True
Shame on the doctor who performed an abortion without consent. That is a serious violation against women. Whether you felt relieved afterwards is not an excuse. The bottom line is You were violated and can seek justice.
I don't mean to judge but why don't people use condoms???
Condoms do break. 😏
I said the same thing.
Primitive people
They have to be used at least. I've used condoms for 20 years and had one year.
@@czarinaczar not all the time the failure rate is less than 5% with proper use. Also these women didn't use condoms or birth control.
I hate how people use the 'do not judge' scripture to excuse wrong behavior. Lets get real and stop explaining away sin in the name of not judging. I'm glad they admit they did wrong and are making ammends. Wish them all the best
Anyone can make an unwise choice. We're all human, but as women we MUST put ourselves first. Our health, our bodies, and our decisions must hold as much weight as the man's does. They talked these women into believing they HAVE to be sexually active to keep their relationship, knowing their religion is against it. No one wants to be alone so the woman gives in. If religion is the reason for not wanting children out of wedlock, these men must marry you first. Hold them accountable
braided chai No one wants to be alone? Wtff?! They ended up being alone even after the abortion. You think those men stayed with her through that abortion? Hell nah? Don’t be silly wrap your willy. Or just put the kid in a foster home. There is never a good reason to kill off your own newborn. You people are like these leftist Dem(on)crats , jus completely out of it, crazy asf.
Until you hear other peoples stories.... people have baggage! God bless you for sharing
God forgives anyone who humbles themselves and repent of there sin
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May God forgive me
This show is international...I love it. Tamima, you deserve an award. If men could be responsible enough, am sure even if not 100% these abortion cases would be rare, why do men neglect pregnancies? What on earth do you expect afterwards? To all ladies who encounter such scenarios, be strong and if possible keep the baby,,,am sure God will provide along the way.
This is not all abt men,,,if it's men then you should learn from the first mistake... this is just us LADIES playing damp.
@@cynthiacyndy9095 I respect your opinion,,,but truly speaking, if you follow carefully,,these abortions were either boyfriends advising or failing to own the pregnancy.I stand to be corrected.
@@MJ-ye7dd yes it was the boyfriend convincing them ....but no one forced them to do so for example they both have babies becouse they chose to keep the pregnancy
Thanks Mwihaki John. Here are more episodes'www.switchtv.ke/showdetails/3-Real-Talk
Dont ever judge any woman who gets an arbotion. Sometimes there is reason behind..
Sure
one time even two times its ok but after that now i'm judging..contraceptives are accessible to everyone.
carlette harriet There is always a reason.It is not up to us to judge.God is the only one to judge.Her body, her choices.
@@delimothiba4436 well said...ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE.
She’s a murder period. She just paid a Dr to do the dirty work.
So many women having Abortions,and there are so many Childless Couples who would love to Adopt a Baby. Come on Give your child a Chance, later you will feel so much better that you made this choice GOD HELP THESE MOTHERS CHOOSE LIFE
Some women cant think that far, they r scared
Preach
Kerry M it's not that easy!
Kerry M...Amen Amen👏👏
@@Darkdemonoflite I Know ,I Was in that situation myself at 17,forty-nine years ago,at that time it was really looked down on and some Mothers had their Baby taken of Them.I got Married Which failed later,because i was to young.I know the Pressure and Desperation, but I never Regretted having my Son.God Help Those Women Going Through This Same Situation.
The second Woman Noel describes the aftermath and the trauma related to abortion. The depression is real and the demons are hard to deal with. I pray this helps somebody. Abortion isn't freedom, it is bondage; an abyss of darkness.
Some people are judging so harshly u mighty think they are holier than God
wanjiru Njoki calling someone who murdered someone a murder is not judging. You have no idea what judging actually is.
The guys I dated expressed to me they didn't want to have children so I always honored that. I used birth control FAITHFULLY for years until I met my now ex fiance. I went for a physical to prepare my body for motherhood. I was told that my condition (I have Sickle Cell Anemia) damaged my reproductive organs. Meanwhile these women have zero problems conceiving and they throw away the life that grows inside them. Life sure does have a way of cold clocking you square in the face. 🤦🏾♀️😥
Life can be cruel...I'm so sorry for you. I feel you 😥
Hugs my dear, keep trying... You'll be surprised!
You don't know the reason why people do whatever they do. Just don't judge
When you get pregnant the 1st time and have your first abortion, surely by then you should be smart enough to know how babies are made. Use protection,when you have unprotected sex what do you think will happen. This makes me made, she's clearly not the sharpest tool in the shade. She was using abortion as a birth control method. People need to learn from their mistakes.
After watching this, I appreciate the fact that she's using her experience to educate other girls out there. The fact that you spoke up shows that you're brave.
someone just told me abortion will haunt you forever if you don't forgive yourself and ask the babies to forgive you
This is the best show ever. I've learnt a lot through this. Thanks Tamima
This is too sad,I don't know what I can say,I was thinking that uneducated people are the only ones who fall in this trap?so this demon of sex before marriage haichagui😭
its not a demon, sex is beautiful
@@trepauwriting7454 it's beautiful for married couples only.
Kazi ya shetani!!
Such saints!!!God is proud
@@gloriousmelody8207 Agreed! At least someone isn't afraid to speak the truth!
Dear Switch Tv, there is a possibility to disable comments on youtube videos and such here is an example where this would be very necessary. She is brave for sharing her story to EDUCATE the nation about the dangers of these back street treatments PLUS she also represents millions of women who are going through/went through this. She should not be bashed in the comments for it. She is fully aware that it was wrong, but she is sharing to educate and enlighten.
When I hear this n I'm hear praying to God to bless me with a baby I feel like destroying someone . But who I'm I to judge.
@Wambo Wambo Our season is coming God will bless us . His time is the best
You will hold your own baby in Jesus Name
Yu are in ma prayers dear have Faith and its gonna get well..
Same here,, it really hurts seeing many doing abortions n here i am waiting to test positive aki.. But God is ever watchful
May the Lord give you many children, why is life this unfair, someone flashing like one after another n others r praying day n night to have just one, one only. God of mercy.
Correction. “I couldn’t keep my legs closed, so I killed 6 people”.
If only we could go back to clear the mistakes we did most of us would.
I don't believe in just letting a guy walk out...let them man up and take responsibility....i wish they were the ones getting pregnant😑
Thanks my friend 4 talking about it, the courage...most pple wud not talk about it.
I FEEL LIKE SCREAMING "HOW ABOUT GETTING A PERMANENT FAMILY PLANNING METHOD"??! GEEZ..SMH
scream you are allowed, hope usijipate hapo
@@Starlynn25 sipanuangi miguu ovyo ovyo kwanza bila protection..we are i a different era love, get with the program!
again, scream all you want. we will be here for you mama. 😂😂😂
Uria nyikwa nidarutire ya thoguo 🤣🤣🤣 why are you catching feelings tho? like it's their life. Mind yours. Reke thie ngahaice thoguo tondu nyukwa niaremirwo nyangoni. That's probably how you know I panua legs, right? 🤣🤣🤣 Turus 🚮🚮
@@Starlynn25 spoken like a true river road langa in their native language..and btw you are the one who should mind your bizness.. did i address your comment or you're the one who came for me in my comment for voicing my opinion? girl bye! sorry i came down to your level..fight with a pig and you will get dirty.. let me go wash off the stench. shiish
Nani mwingine ameona "oh mayselfu" 😂😂
Actually I have a friend who has procured 5 abortions, all with the help of her mum.
Her mum be like, "you can't keep that baby, the dad looks irresponsible"
Well she is now into alcohol plus cigarettes full time. A once celebrated Kenyan FYI.
That mum hates her daughter.
I am 100% pro choice. Being a woman is hard guys, all the men she got pregnant by walk around with no issues mmhhh. The interviewer is great. She was really trying to probe without judgement and still show compassion.
As women who are pro-choice say that they have a right to choose whatever with their bodies, they should realize that it comes with responsibility. It is unfortunate that men don't carry pregnancy but we women know that is the burden we carry as women, so we can't just live careless sexual lives
Don't you have contraception pills over there? Condoms?
@@Selly247 it's after 11pm go yo bed good night
@@just_es8369 hahahaha you can say that again
@@Selly247 Respect yourself. Go read a book then come ask well thought out questions.
How some ladies are very lucky, falling pregnant like snap of finger
Every abortion has a story behind it, No abortion without a story.
Women go through sooo much. Watching this brings tears to my eyes. The burdens that women bear, only God knows.
This is so sick to listen to . This lady needs psychological help to copy with her issues
I had my first child when I was 18yrs,second when I was 20yrs,3rd when I was 24yrs and forth 26....it is sad to see women going through so much. ...um in tears right now .abortion was never an option for me and luckily all 4 of my children are from the same father and we r married now.I pray for all the women who can't fall pregnant to fall pregnant. ...
lessons learnt ..thanks for sharing this stories.
Six months after giving birth and you get pregnant again? Kweli kuna Madame wanapenda mjulus and they like it raw.
Hahaha like it raw!!! Hehe
Six months after giving birth of course you can become pregnant if you are not taking birth control
Six months ata ni mob
kumbe kuna wenye wanapenda mjuls kuniliku 😂😂😂😊
Hahaha
Dont judge please
once I can understand, 3, 4, 5 times.... that's an evil spirit. the devil is at work. May we be forgiven for all the babies lives we have denied. God is merciful
To each her own. Being Pro-life doesn’t automatically get you a ticket to heaven just like being Pro-Choice won’t send you to straight to hell. The only decision you will ever regret is letting someone else shame you into having a child you can’t care for or force you to have an abortion you can’t forgive yourself for. Do YOU.
Thank you soooo much...this is what Marie Stopes and Planned Parenthood will not tell you, the side effects of abortion...Our African values count...do not remove the ancient landmark!
Some cultures in Africa allowed for abortion. Don't glorify what you've not fully researched. The Bible should be our moral compass, regardless of how religious one is.
Well this courage to come out and share your story is unmatched. may God meet you once more 👏
I also have a story to tell😢
Please tell.
Same here how i wish i could let it out😢😢
@@joycewaithera4152don't worry swee our time will come 😢
@Therese Williams how i wish aki
And its a scar most women bare a story
It is the womans choice to do as she will with her body. It is her life, her body, and her situation. You will complain if she has the child and gets on government assistance and shame her. If she gives it away how does she know it will live a happy life. The majority of adopted children are abused and unaccepted eventually. She was young and telling her story and apparently from a place that is not educated on sex. It is Gods job alone to judge her not mine or any others in the comments.
😂😂😂huyu dame wa perfect match amekuja kutafutia babu yake ngombe huku....oohhh myself
😂😂😂😂ako wee
Nmemuona amemulikwa 😂😂😂...mama liam
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I would love to share my story Also
Tell it to those who won't condemn you. You gonna feel worst telling the righteous.
I sorry for your hurt but the men need to be blame also for not being their for you.
God is indeed so merciful! He is a loving Father. He loves us despite and in spite of ourselves. I identify with all these ladies. I have been through this path. God had mercy on me! He is full of grace. He makes us new!
Please don't condemn a girl who has had an abortion ☹️ it is the hardest decision I had to make it still gives me tearful eyes and sleepless nights 😩
Yes but 5? You cant make that mistake 5 times
All these ladies sharing their experiences are really beautiful tho daamn it's sad that some don't really know their value
Realized the same thing. Ladies are all stunning especially no. 2
At the abortion clinic it seems like a relief but hell breaks loose immediately afterwards 😔 you have to live with the knowledge that you killed your baby a helpless ,inoccent soul 😓
So true😢
Tears on my biscuit 😂😂 I’m sorry hilarious
Tears *were my biscuits
The host is stunning. Wow. Kenyans 🔥
God i confess to u 🙏🙏I aborted😢😢 3 pregnancy I did it coz the guy was not ready to marry me lastily he told me to abort my 4th baby I refused and now am proud of my dota mutesi Irene destiny she's in p. 4 class she's very clever guys I thank God 4 protecting me and my dota her daddy never cared 4 her now am asingle mom am praying to God to bless me wiz God fearing n caring man who can love me wiz my dota n I settle down n I give birth to other children .prayer is my daily food amen 🙏🙏🙏☝😍
Wow
Amen💯
God bless you 🙏🙏😇
😲...... no judgement. The devil is a liar, parents expect a lot from their children & fear of parents & the unknown can lead to many bad choices that one regrets later in life. Glad that she lived to tell the story. A baby is a gift and while the woman is an adult & can make decisions for herself- the baby cannot yet.
Jo M. exactly!!
the second woman reminds me exactly of the situation i went through
I love this show....Tamina u r awasome
This interviewer is on point.
Ooh my I never and I'll never think about killing innocent Angle I was married but when after one yr old gul my ex husband advise me to do abortion I refused n we separated am proud to be single Mum of two kids and the one he was saying to do a abortions was a boy am lucky now the boy is 15 yrs better to give birth n give some lady's who are crying for babies or sell most of Kenyan men like so much to enjoy sex but when its come to get the fruit thy hit n run
keep up.God will bless you
Josephine Wairimu Amen I see better to save my baby coz man we cnt stay forever but my blood tutaachaniashwa m kifo thanks sis
mimsbaibe mimskim safi sana umefanya vizuri
Angela Laizer Thanks in God we trust n everything happens with a reason am Proud of my kid's
Congratulations God you and your beautiful family keep it up❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Anyone who gets an abortion deserves a medal. Stand up for people deciding for themselves
After watching this I'm left with no words
you r really brave and confident. I can't judge ur actions since it is the past and it happened due to certain reasons. God knew what u wld go through b4 he created u.God is good always and he gave a second Chance in life.Forgive urself since it is the past and give glory to God always.
Some women are very fertile even family planning may not work.
Aki these friends🙆🙆🙆. God have mercy and forgive us
That’s so sad. God have mercy on this woman’s soul.
kuna shida na sisi waluhya. we are way too open.. aki Noel Khasandi sounds like me.. i would say absolutely everything😫😂
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😂😂😂😂kabisa all details bila kuwacha anything out
Hehehe chameni
Extra tea for everyone. 😂😂😂😂
Me too!mimi am so open kumbe shida huwa tribe!!😂😂