If I'm the FL I won't deal with this heartless ex-bf. He was the cause of her depression when she was abroad. She must be madly in love with him that she degrades herself in front of him. The best she can do is to stay away from him (forever). I wonder why she came back from abroad. The ex-bf isn't worth coming back to. He exchanged her love for him with apathy. So why does she has to humble herself to him?
She knew the world wasn’t fair to him and knew how bruised and broken he was and she loves him unconditionally knowing very well that she was the only one for him. It’s hard but the choice was hers.
I totally agree!! It's definitely a common thing with an istp x enfj pairing. li xun is a dismissive avoidant while zhu Yun has anxious attachment. I realised that throughout the drama, it seems like she's always the one chasing him while he pulls away. Li xun is severely emotionally constipated. In many scenes where zhu Yun asks for open communication, he literally tells her that being honest is a bad thing, which was so frustrating to watch. I understand that it's hard for him to open up due to his personality, but he could at least try(?) The worst thing is he said that to her even after knowing that she has severe anxiety cos of him, which makes me wonder how much he really loves her... The way I see it, li xun prioritises himself over anybody. While I do acknowledge he made certain sacrifices for her along the way, I find it difficult to empathise with him. He's selfish and arrogant. Honestly, I can see the allure of this pair, like "you're the only one for me" , and "it's us against the world." But unless lixun fixed his emotional constipation and avoidancy, they would likely still run into the same problems in the future, and then the on and off thing between them would keep going on... Which is just so toxic 💀💀💀 Before anyone comes at me, YES I watched the entire drama and I know the beginning and ending.
In Li Xun's head Zhu Yun just suffer a little and the comeback her Princess world... three years of distance between them 😢😢😢 but at least is the beginning them could make up
The one thing I dislike about Chinese and Japanese shows is their treatment of the female leads, it’s so entrenched in patriarchy that I lose all sense of empathy or respect for both ML and FL and just feel apathy, if not disgust.
Yes, it's a common thing that happens , but not all Asian dramas are like that. Go check out "meet yourself" starring liu yi fei and li Xian. Toxic free drama that's really positive and the male lead definitely respects her.
It's a common thing, but not all dramas are like that. Check out meet yourself starring liu yi fei and li Xian. Very mature, positive and toxic free drama.
I *LOVE* all of the monster movies... some are not the best, but it still helps give a sense of adventure. I think that it would be great if there were minster movies with like giant bugs, like giant praying mantises, and giant ants, and giant spiders, and giant hornets, things like that, just going from building to building seeing some creepy-crawly at every turn, and fighting to get through. Things like that.
She says correctly, wonderful people to work with, good small group of people who cares about each other’s well being, it’s worth it.
This emotions i feel this moment 🥹💜
If I'm the FL I won't deal with this heartless ex-bf. He was the cause of her depression when she was abroad. She must be madly in love with him that she degrades herself in front of him. The best she can do is to stay away from him (forever). I wonder why she came back from abroad. The ex-bf isn't worth coming back to. He exchanged her love for him with apathy. So why does she has to humble herself to him?
She knew the world wasn’t fair to him and knew how bruised and broken he was and she loves him unconditionally knowing very well that she was the only one for him. It’s hard but the choice was hers.
I totally agree!! It's definitely a common thing with an istp x enfj pairing. li xun is a dismissive avoidant while zhu Yun has anxious attachment. I realised that throughout the drama, it seems like she's always the one chasing him while he pulls away.
Li xun is severely emotionally constipated. In many scenes where zhu Yun asks for open communication, he literally tells her that being honest is a bad thing, which was so frustrating to watch. I understand that it's hard for him to open up due to his personality, but he could at least try(?) The worst thing is he said that to her even after knowing that she has severe anxiety cos of him, which makes me wonder how much he really loves her...
The way I see it, li xun prioritises himself over anybody. While I do acknowledge he made certain sacrifices for her along the way, I find it difficult to empathise with him. He's selfish and arrogant.
Honestly, I can see the allure of this pair, like "you're the only one for me" , and "it's us against the world." But unless lixun fixed his emotional constipation and avoidancy, they would likely still run into the same problems in the future, and then the on and off thing between them would keep going on... Which is just so toxic 💀💀💀
Before anyone comes at me, YES I watched the entire drama and I know the beginning and ending.
Its a cdrama trope where the guy is a total ahole bc he has decided whats best for her and the girl is endlessly forgiving bc 'thats love'
Don't agree that Li Xun is cold and heartless towards Zhu Yun. He just doesn't know how to handle his feelings. He's a gruff macho man.
In Li Xun's head Zhu Yun just suffer a little and the comeback her Princess world... three years of distance between them 😢😢😢 but at least is the beginning them could make up
He notice she cares about him, won’t let him lower his head.
Not sure why they both are still distant from falling for each other.
Episode?
@@DidiDidi-hg4kg best to watch the whole series.
@@DidiDidi-hg4kg think it’s epi 28 or 27.
The one thing I dislike about Chinese and Japanese shows is their treatment of the female leads, it’s so entrenched in patriarchy that I lose all sense of empathy or respect for both ML and FL and just feel apathy, if not disgust.
Yes, it's a common thing that happens , but not all Asian dramas are like that. Go check out "meet yourself" starring liu yi fei and li Xian. Toxic free drama that's really positive and the male lead definitely respects her.
It's a common thing, but not all dramas are like that. Check out meet yourself starring liu yi fei and li Xian. Very mature, positive and toxic free drama.
I *LOVE* all of the monster movies... some are not the best, but it still helps give a sense of adventure. I think that it would be great if there were minster movies with like giant bugs, like giant praying mantises, and giant ants, and giant spiders, and giant hornets, things like that, just going from building to building seeing some creepy-crawly at every turn, and fighting to get through. Things like that.
3:27 a common colleague they said
pfffffftttt 😂
that they failed to "achieved" hahaha