Koj hais yog tshaj li lawm os sister. Peb cov Niam txiv yeej tsis ncaj. Yog kuv tseem hu lawv ua niam thiab txiv no ces kuv yeej muaj cai cuag ib tug tub. Peb tseem mus txog twg los peb cov ntshav yeej yog lawv li. Hnub twg lawv pauv peb cov ntshav mus ua lwm tsev neeg cov lawm mas lawv thiaj hais tau tias peb tawm mus sab nrauv lawm. Tiam 21 no peb yuav tsis ua li ntawv rau peb tej me ntxhais lawm. Ua tsaug koj zaj neej neeg ua qhia peb ua Kiev lawm es thov kom cov niam cov txiv hloov lub hlwb ruam ruam thaum qub
Txhob tu siab, li cas los ua mus kom dlhau thiaj tsi thaum yus. Thaum yus li txhob coj li ntawd xwb ces ok lawm. Lwm hnub koj tus nus cov me nyuam yuav ua tsaws ntsaim ib yam li ntawd tsau nus.
Peb Hmoob txoj kev cai yeej tseem zoo li no niaj hnub tam sim no tos peb thiaj tsis vam meej peb cov hluas thuam cov laus tias old traditions tiam sis peb ib co hluas grow old just like the OG's. Niaj hnub tam sim no los tseem zoo li no ib yam thiab tej txhia poj yeej tseem ntsib tej xwm txheej zoo li no thiab tu siab kawg tiam sis tseem niaj hnub ua dev leg thiab xyov thaum twg peb hmoob mam li pauv os hmoob os hmoob aw!
Tus mi muam aw koj cov lus ces yog kawg li lawm os. Lub sij hawm no peb tuaj nyob rau teb chaws vam meej no lawm yog yuav hais tiag mas cov ntxhais tseem hlub cov niam thiab cov txiv tshaj cov tub thiab cov nyab lawm os. Qhov koj niam thiab koj txiv ua ntawd yeej tsis ncaj ncees rau neb ob viv ncaus lawm os. Niaj hnub niam no ces peb yeej pom coob leej cov niam cov txiv uas hlub hlub txwm tub nyab uas twb tsis hlub nws kiag li os. Ib qhov kuv xav kom neb ob tus viv uas ces yog tam sim no koj niam tseem ua neej nyob ces neb mus piav tej no rau nej cov dab laug nawb. Piav tias koj niam muaj ob tug life insurance policy es koj niam nkawv muab ua koj tus nus ib leeg npe lawm xwb. Li no es koj niam cov neej tsa thiaj nrog paub. Muaj ib hnub koj niam ho puv 120 xyoo los lawv thiaj paub tias neb ob viv ncaus tsis tau dab tsi ces neb tsis tuaj nyiaj los tsis ua cas no nawb. Tsis tas li ntawd xwb, tej zaum koj niam cov neej tsa yuav tuaj nrog koj niam tham thiab muab tej pov thawj sau tseg es lwm hnub thiaj tsis nyuab koj thiab koj tus niam hluas siab os mog.
Wow!!!! Koj tus mi nus thiab nyab muaj hmoo zoo tiag2 li os. Txawm koj tus nus Tau txhua yam los txhob tus siab mog, cov niag Laus yav thauv ruam2 qauj. Tag lauv phaum ntawv lawm ces peb mam hloov mog. Peb ua neej nyob ces yog nyob raws ciaj nyoog xwb. Koj saib xab maim 21 no tus twb tsis tshua muaj nqi npaum li ntxhais lawm ne.
Tus vivncaus, koj cov lus yeej hais yog kawg lawm! Koj niam thiab txiv yeej tsis hlub koj tus niam hluas neb yeej xav kom koj tus nus lub neej zoo tsis xav kom neb muaj thiab tau koob hmoov. Koj niam thiab koj txiv yeej tsis sawm zoo tsis xav tau kev hlub los ntawm neb nkawd thiaj coj tsis ncaj. Peb Hmoob txoj cai thaum ub cov tub yog cov tha thiab ua niam txiv lub cawv xeeb cawv lav tiam sis tiam 21 no txawv lawm. Peb txoj cai ib txwm cov ntxhais yeej tsis cuam tshuam txog niam txiv lub ntees. Yog li thaum tsis muaj koj niam lawm tsuav neb hais rau koj niam paub ua ntej xwb koj tus nus yuav tha thiab tsis tha los kom koj niam Txhob tu siab rau neb. koj niam twb pom tias koj tus Nyab tus nus twb tsis ua koj txiv lub ntees tab sis nws tseem tsis zeem nws tseem yuav tso txhua yam rau koj tus nus uas twb tsis hlub nws ces Kav liam. Kuv yog neb ob tug muam ces neb yuav tau hais ib tug neej tsa tuaj muaj tej no tham Nrog koj niam. Koj niam txawm ntshai tsam neb ob tug ntxhais ho tau nyiaj tim qab nws tuag lawm los kom nws qhov life insurance policy nws yuav tau pauv ib qho kom txaus ua nws lub ntees tso rau ib tug neej tsa los yog kwv tij kom txog hnub nws mus lawm los thiaj tau nyiaj los ua nws lub ntees vim nws yeej paub meej tias koj tus Nyab tus yuav tsis kam los tha nws. Yog koj niam tsis yeem li nws cov neej tsa hais ces tsuav kom lawv paub txog hnub ntawd lawv txhob hais neb ob tug ntxhais. Neb muab nyiaj ntau mus pab los yuav muaj teeb meem rau neb lub neej kev txij nkawm thiab vim neb niam thiab txiv twb tsis txhawb neb Nrog rau neb 2 tug txiv. Yog koj niam cov neej tsa hais tsis tau koj niam kom nkag siab los ua ib siab kav liam cia txoj hmoo mam coj koj niam txoj hau kev vim koj niam tsis yog ib tug neeg to taub. koj niam muaj txoj cai faib nws cov nyiaj life insurance rau leej twg thiab npaum li cas rau leej twg los yog npaum li cas yuav tsum muab los siv rau qhov twg Thaum nws tseem muaj txoj sia. Yuav tau kom nws muab ib qho los tso tseg hauv ntaub ntawv tias yuav tsum muab los ua nws lub ntees tom qab tsis muaj nws lawm. Qhov no Tsis tas nws yuav qhia thiab yuav hais koj tus nus yeem thiaj ua tau. Koj niam thiaj yog tus yuav pauv tau cov ntaub ntawv. Yog tos nws txoj sia twb tu lawm ces pab tsis tau, koj tus nus yuav tau txhua yam vim txoj cai yog txoj cai.
Ntuj o cas peb 1 leeg muaj 1 txoj dab neej neeg tu siab ua luaj o kuv txoj los zoo koj txoj thiab o mog u yog 1 tug ntxhais ces yeej g muaj nuj nqi li o mog kav liam txhob xav ntau o mog
Yug los ua khaub ntxias ces yeej tus siab os niam laus aws niam thiab txiv ces yeej hlub tej tub duas xwb os yog los ua hmoob ces yeej tau taug txoj kev no xwb os tus siab kawg li os
Yog kawg peb cov moob yeej ua tau rau peb cov ntxhais tu siab heev tiamsis peb cov moob nyob thaib teb no kuv txiv yeej hais tias nwg yuav muab liaj teb faib rau tub thiab ntxhais ib yam nkaug nim no twb muab tas lawm puab cov tseem cem2 tias vim yog kuv txiv ua li ntaud lawv thiaj li tau muab lawv li faib thiab no peb cov ntxhais moob yeej tsis tau txoj kev ncaj nceeg tiag2 li tu siab kawg os
peb los twb taug ib txoj kev li koj thiab xav tias yog peb xwb tsis pom qab hais leej twg txhob tu siab tsis yog koj xwb os peb lub neej zoo li koj thiab os
cov niam txiv tsis tees koos loos ces coj li ko ntag los mas tsis paub txog qhov zoo , qhov phem . hlub tub , hlub ntxhais tsis sib luag tu siab ntau cov niam txiv tseem coj ruam ruam li ko qhov zoo ces thaum nej kawm tau lawm nej mus ua nej lub neej coj kom haum , hlub tub , hlub ntxhais kom sib luag thiaj yog nawb nws yog ib qho big lesson rau nej kawm thiab pauv hloov sorry
Yooj yim heev, yog koj pab koj niam thiab koj txiv lub ntees tas es koj yuav mob siab tias koj tsis tau nkawv qhov nyiaj Insurance ces txhob pab koj tus nus xwb.... let your brother take care of your parents funeral, don't get involved so you don't feel like you been cheated.....If you feel like you want to help, then just help as much as you can... don't over done it and feel like you have a part of the money.
Tus muam, koj yog tus ntxhais tawm sab nrauv lawm ces yeej muaj qhov tu siab los tseem hauj sim os. Kuv ces yog ib tug tub los kuv yeej tau nraim koj txoj kev no thiab. Puam chawj es ua siab loj nawb.
Yuav npam koj tus nus ib hnub xwb thaum laus thiab tus nyab ho mog. Vim nkawv yug muaj tub thiab ntxhais. Ntuj qis qis lawm. Pab koj tus siab mog tus muam.
Txhob tu siab os tus me niam tsev. Cov laus ces yeej coj li ko. Kuv niam & txiv nkawv coj ib yam li ko thiab. Txhua yam ces cia rau cov tub xwb. Peb cov ntxhais tub tsi muaj caij yuav ib yam dabtsi los pov hwm nkawv li. Sov yog thaum tsi muaj nkawv lawm sov yuav zoo li cas. Tseem tsi tau paub li thiab. Nws tsi yog koj ib leeg xwb thiaj li tu siab.
Tsis paub hais li os cov txiv neej tuag poj niam ob ceg. Peb cov ntxhais thiaj li hlub niam hlub txiv xwb os. Chim chim Los tseem hlub. Nrog koj chim tau koj tus nus kawg li os
Most Hmong people need to get with the new generation. I see now that a lot of sons are going towards their in-laws and neglecting their parents. All children are equal no matter what gender because once you die not only the sons will spend money, but the daughters as well. The daughters are the ones doing the physical work and sorry to say but they tend to love their parents more. Your parents are not being fair if they leave everything for their son especially because he doesn’t even love them or care for them. Your mom still have the chance to make the change, but she chose to be stubborn and let her son treat her like dirt. Honestly I think your parents owe your brother in their past life. Haven’t heard the other side of the story but it sounded like they almost never consider you and your sister. Sorry sister just do your best to love her that she gave birth to you, but stay away from anything and everything that has to do with money. Just love her and care for her. Don’t worry about the money if your brother don’t want to do your parents’ funeral then he is the one that has to live with all the guilt. When the day come for your mom, let’s hope he change his way. If not then the world will see and God will see that he is an ungrateful bastard.
Cov niam txiv coj tus cwj pwm phem2 li ntawd ces cia tuag liab qab xwb zoo dua os mog, txhob mus ua2 txiv rau tsam koj tus txiv ho tsis yuav koj ces koj haj yam txom nyem rau koj lub me neej os mog me muam aw
Mloog zaj no mas khib siab tshaj mob siab heev .... mloog zaj no ces yuav zoo li kv zaj thb tab si lwm hnub kv mam piav kv zaj nb...tub thb ntxhais los yeej nqa tau nej cov lau lub tob haus 6 hauv av ib yam.. tub ntxhais los yeej thas tau nej lub ntees ib yam... tab si cov lau yeej hlub cov tub dua tab si thaum tuag ces cov ntxhai yog cov sab dua... vi cov tub mas yog lawv g kam pab nyiaj ces lawv yeej hais no li no xb...tab si thaum pom tau tias niam txiv tuag tau nyiaj ntau ces cov tub yeej txeeb kiag xb g kam faib li ... leej twg g tau ntsib thb g tau pom mas nej yeej g tau xav txog tej qho kv hais li hnub twg nej ntsib kiag nej mam paub tias mob siab thb khib siab chim siab npaun li cas..
Koj hais yog kawg li lawm os tus mi viv ncaus. Peb cov ntxhais ces yeej tsis tau ntawm niam thiab txiv li. Kuv cov mi nyuam 9 leeg kuv yuav life insurance kuv yeej faib equal rau lawm. Vim lawv puav leej yog kuv yug tag nrho ne
Yus yug los ua ib leej ntxhais tsis tau txais leej niam tej lus zoo mas tu tu yus siab kawg. Thaum yus niam tsis tau-taub li yus tau-taub, yus niam tsis nkag siab li yus nkag siab.. Ntshaws yus niam lo lus zoo, xav hnov nws hais rau yus tias "kuv paub tias koj hlub thiab txhawj txog kuv es koj thiaj sablaj kom nthuav ntau txoj hauv kev rau kuv tau xaiv, Tabsis kuv txaus siab tsis xaiv.. Or cia muab lub sij huam rau kuv ib ntu tso". Ahh😥 Tabsis lo yus tau hnov tsis ua rau yus kajsiab vim lo lus teb tsis raug qhov yus trying hard to qhia nws. Niamlaus aws txhob tu siab os, hlub li yus hlub nws xwb es stay in your circle of control xwb. Remembering that you don't own all the problem in this world and that problem is one of them.
Txhob cia cia siab rau cov niag tub nyob tebchaws mekas no os. Tiam no cov ntxhais tseem hlub niam hlub txiv tshaj os!!! I wouldn't help bury anyone even if they're my parents if they treated me that way. I wouldn't even attend the funeral. They can all say what they want. They rely on their loser son so much that they leave everything to him then let him bury them.
Cov zoo li koj niam ces cias nw tuaj li dev xwb koj yuav cas kav liam nawb txhob mob siab vim koj pheej mus take care ces koj thiaj mob siab cov laus ntawv yeej coj tsis ncaj li mog.
Txhob tu siab os mog tus muam, luv yog Ib tug tub los kuv txiv thiab niam tshiab yeej pom cov niam yug xwb thiab os koj tham koj zaj tag lawm tseem tshuav kuv zaj tsis pom qab yuav tham qhia leej twg li os
Txhob tu siab peb cov ntxhais yeej tsis muaj cai.peb lub neej hmoob peb hlub peb cov tub tshaj tabsi thaum lawv muaj nyab lawv ua poj niam xwb nyab xaj lawc xwb.cov tub no tub hnav tiab xwb.xab maim no muaj ib pab tub los txhob cia siab thaum kawg ces kawg nyob tsev laus.peb tiam tshiab no tub ntxhais kom peb lub ib yam life insurance los tso lawv sawv daws npe.cov ntxhais hlub peb dua cov tub lam yug kom txhob poob noob xwb.koj txhob tu siab neb ob viv ncaus ua lineb ua rau xwb lub neej hmoob no yuav hloov mas nyuaj heev.cia phaum laus tuag tag peb tiam tshiab peb yuav tau hloov
My parents are the same. When my father passed away, us girl are like you. My mom didn't see that we are equal to my brothers. Everything was given to her son's only. Everything she said is sell this and split it with her sons. There are times when she would say things to make me feel sorry for her but at this point, I don't want to do anything for her. During the funeral my mom asked us to help pay for the funeral and at the end, we get nothing. Now whenever she call to ask for help...she only call us girls but none of the girls want to help because she is like this mother. In my experience, you do what you can for when that day comes and your mom goes that you do not have any regrets. If it means that you do nothing for her and you have no regrets then let it be. Your brother should understand that without his sisters, he is nothing. If your brother is willing to understand and stand up then he needs to stand up and be the brother he should be otherwise you and your sisters will have a distance relationship from your brother. I hope that your decision on what you want to do when it comes to your mom is chose wisely and confidently so that you do not have any regrets when she goes. Let us younger generation change this path for our kids so that they are loved equally.
Tsis pab los yeej tau vim koj niam thiab txiv yeej nyiam lis ntawm ces koj Tus nus ua tau li cas yuav li tawm xwb neeg yuav hais li cas los yeej tsis mob vim koj niam koj txiv yeej pom zoo li
Hmoob txoj kev hlub mas zoo heev rau cov ntxhais txhob tu siab. Koj zaj no hniaj hnub nim no yeej muaj puv ntuj. Hmoob lub neej yeej zoo li no. Tu siab kawg.
Tam sim no yog koj niam tseem nyob tseem pauv tau yog koj niam tsis kam thiab ces txog hnub nawd pab li cas pab li ntawd pab tsis tau los txhob pab xwb
kuv kuj yog ib tug ntxhais uas ntxub hmoob txoj cai zoo li no kawg li thiab yog ib txoj cai ua ruam xwb txawm ntxhais txawm tub los yeej yog yus yug ib yam yuav hlub kom sib npaug
Pab koj tu siab uas tau ib leej niam thiab txiv coj tau lub cwj pwm qub2 thiab selfishness li ntawm yeej yog li koj hais. Yog nws tseem nyob kuj hais kom nws cov neej tsa pab hais kom kaw lu cia rau lawv tuav tsi tas li nej tseem muaj sib hawm pauv tus beneficially los rau lwm tus. Los kuj hais rau koj niam tus nyab cov neej tsa kom nws txhob ua li, yog lawv yog neeg siab zoo paub cai Hmoob lawv yeej hais tau. Ntxub thiab tsi ntxub twb ntxub txog tab no why let it be?
Tus muam koj yeej xav, coj, thiab hais tau yog kawg lawm. Tu siab hais tias tej zaum koj tus niam hluas neeb tawm hauv qhov av los xwb. Tej zaum tsis yog ob tug neeg uas neb muab hu niam thiab txiv yug. Ntawv thiaj tsis hlub neb. Hos neb tus nus yog Yawm Saub tso saum ntuj los kav neeg ntiaj teb. Ntawv thiaj muab nws hawm cuag huab tais. Lwm tiam os tus muam thov ntawv los uas tus tub nawb.
Tus niam tsev aw pab koj tu siab kawg li os. Peb hmoob feem coob ces yeej hlub tub nyab dua. Yog koj niam nkawv thiab koj tus nus lawv tsis kam faib qub txeeg qub teg rau neb 2 viv ncaus los txhob ntshaw mog. Tab sis kaj tsij hlub koj niam li koj hlub tau, ua li koj ua tau los pauj niam txiv txoj kev hlub tu yus loj xwb. Qhov zoo thiab tsis zoo ntawv vim nkawv xaiv rau nkawv lawm. Koj ua tag koj txoj kev zoo lawm yuav tsis muaj neeg hais tau koj. Nco ntsoov tus neeg siab zoo muaj kev hlub thiaj yog tus tau koob hmoov. Cov neeg ntshaw2 luag tug tsis muaj lub siab hlub, nws txawm tau ib pob nyiaj los yeej tsis kav nws li os. Koj saib mus mas.
Cov niam txiv coj li no ces cia tuag liab qab los tau. Yus hlub nws tsis muaj nuj nqis dab tsi. Cia nws tus tub mam take care txhua yam. Yus mam mus hlub li tus qhua xwb.
Koj niam yog tus tswv insurance ces nws nyiam li cas ces ua li nws nyiam xwb mas, txog nws lub ntees los koj ua li koj ua tau xwb txhob khib, hos yog koj ua tsis tau los yeej tsis ua cas, txhob nyuab siab
Your mother is still alive. She need to do the right thing and go split that policy. Everyone, sons & daughters will hurt the same when she is gone. Every child will help financially because they want to send their parents off the right way. Your mom need to get it right before she leave otherwise, she is going to tear your siblings apart after she leave. Money is the ruler of all evil.
Txhob tu siab. Koj ua tau li cas los ua li ntawv xwb. Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv tseem coj cov niag kev cai qub qub puag thaum ub es nkawv thiaj li coj li ko rau neb ob viv ncaus. Peb cov ntxais ces yog qhov hlub ces peb yeej hlub tshaj. Tabsi, Koj Niam thiab Koj ho xav kom pab xwb, t sis xav kom qhia siab ces kav tsij tseg kiag rau koj tus nus saib seb nws ho yuav ua tau li cas
Tus niam tsev koj ua zoo li koj ua tau xwb os koj niam koj txiv yuav ua li cas los kav liam mog yog yus zoo lawm ces yis tsi txhob ua sib phim nawb mog muaj ib hnub tsi muaj koj niam lawm los koj pab li koj ua tau xwb os lwm tus yuav ua li cas los kam liam mog zoo siab tias koj yuav nkag siab zoo . Zam txim pub rau tus neeg tsi nkag siab thiab nawb mog es thiaj li zoo os tus muam awd
Viv ncaws aw peb cov ntxhais ces yeej raug li ko yuav luag txhua li os cov niag niam txiv uas tseem coj coj li koj niam thiab txiv ces ua rau yus mas dhuav dhuav siab kawg nws niag nyab twb tsis nyiam nws lu los nws yeej yeem yeem ces yus yog mtxhais qhua li nws hais ces kav liam nws tuag hnub twg ces nws cov neej tsa mam hais nws niag tub xwb
Nws twb yeem tuag li dev tuag no ne cia ua li nws hais mas nws ua txhua2 yam rau nws tus tub lawm ne ua cas koj ho pheej xav mus txeeb no ma nws nyiam li cas tso rau li nws hais yus yog tus ntxhaig mus saib nraud lawm koj zoo li tus qhua lawm xwb yog koj hlub2 koj niam ces kav tsij hlub thaum nws ciaj sia no xwb thaum tuag lawm koj yog tus qhua lawm xwb nawb koj niam koj txiv yog lawv xam pom koj ces lawv hlub lawv tsis cais thaum lawv tseem muaj sia lawv twb yeej cais meej lawm tias lawv yuav tseg koobmoov rau lawv tus tub no ces txav deb2 xwb lawv txoj kev hlub me tub me ntxhaig txawv koj nawb
Your story is EXACTLY mine. Fortunately, my mom is still alive but well in her 70s and may go anytime. My family is now divided boys/girls (And the boys don’t even get along with each other). There is no communication, no gatherings, we are just strangers. My mother (father passed away in Laos) also loves my brothers the most. Everything was given to the boys and us girls got nothing. My SILs have full control of my brothers. My mom bought a policy that she is paying herself and put it in one of my brother’s name. She also recorded a video that us girls will have to go in half with the brothers and whether they pay us back or not, we should just let it go. This is her final wish because she doesn’t want my brothers lives to be ruined. We girls discussed and concluded that we will leave our mother’s funeral up to her sons. Whether they do it good or bad, it is up to them. We will give what we can, but we are not obligated to give anything. It is sad, but it is what it is. There is nothing you can do. Just leave Karma for your brother. We do not foresee any reconciliations with our brothers even now or after our mother passes. We are strangers now and will always be strangers to the end.
Ntawm kuv tus kheej uas yog ib leej tub kuv kuj pab nej cov muam los yog cov phauj tus siab kawg koj niam thiab koj txiv lawv yeej coj tsis tsuam ncaj puas tsawg rau nej cov ntxhais yog kuv ces yeej tseg nws tus tub mam ua nws lub ntees rau nws kuv yeej tsis raus tes rau. Ntawm kuv tus kheej kuv txoj kev ntsheeg ces yog yuav sib hlub sib pab ces tsuas yog thaum ua neej nyob xwb yog tos thaum twb tuag lawm ces kuv yeej yuav tsis tos tej nyuag kev koob moov tej no ces yog kev dag neeg lub siab xwb.
Koj hais yog lawm os tu me sister aws.
Yg lawm os
This is what happens when families think so highly of their sons.
Yog lawm nawb kuv niam kuv txiv los yeej coj kiag li koj hais ko
I agreed.
Tu siab tshaj yug los hnav daim tiab e nim ua zoo npaum cas los tsis muaj nqi.
Kj hai yog kawg os yeej yog li kj hai os
Viv ncaus aw..koj niam mas cas zoo li kuv niam kiag os...tu siab tshaj li os....
Oh yes
Koj hais yog tshaj li lawm os sister. Peb cov Niam txiv yeej tsis ncaj. Yog kuv tseem hu lawv ua niam thiab txiv no ces kuv yeej muaj cai cuag ib tug tub. Peb tseem mus txog twg los peb cov ntshav yeej yog lawv li. Hnub twg lawv pauv peb cov ntshav mus ua lwm tsev neeg cov lawm mas lawv thiaj hais tau tias peb tawm mus sab nrauv lawm. Tiam 21 no peb yuav tsis ua li ntawv rau peb tej me ntxhais lawm. Ua tsaug koj zaj neej neeg ua qhia peb ua Kiev lawm es thov kom cov niam cov txiv hloov lub hlwb ruam ruam thaum qub
Yos lis koj hais lawm
Txhob tu siab, li cas los ua mus kom dlhau thiaj tsi thaum yus. Thaum yus li txhob coj li ntawd xwb ces ok lawm. Lwm hnub koj tus nus cov me nyuam yuav ua tsaws ntsaim ib yam li ntawd tsau nus.
Let it be. Watch afar.....
Yog le tug nam txiv has lawm. Peb hmoob yuav txum tseg txuj cai zoo le nuav tseg.
Tiam 21 no ntxhai hlub yus tshaj tub ces hnub yuav nyab lawm ces txhob tos
Peb Hmoob txoj kev cai yeej tseem zoo li no niaj hnub tam sim no tos peb thiaj tsis vam meej peb cov hluas thuam cov laus tias old traditions tiam sis peb ib co hluas grow old just like the OG's. Niaj hnub tam sim no los tseem zoo li no ib yam thiab tej txhia poj yeej tseem ntsib tej xwm txheej zoo li no thiab tu siab kawg tiam sis tseem niaj hnub ua dev leg thiab xyov thaum twg peb hmoob mam li pauv os hmoob os hmoob aw!
Tus mi muam aw koj cov lus ces yog kawg li lawm os. Lub sij hawm no peb tuaj nyob rau teb chaws vam meej no lawm yog yuav hais tiag mas cov ntxhais tseem hlub cov niam thiab cov txiv tshaj cov tub thiab cov nyab lawm os.
Qhov koj niam thiab koj txiv ua ntawd yeej tsis ncaj ncees rau neb ob viv ncaus lawm os. Niaj hnub niam no ces peb yeej pom coob leej cov niam cov txiv uas hlub hlub txwm tub nyab uas twb tsis hlub nws kiag li os.
Ib qhov kuv xav kom neb ob tus viv uas ces yog tam sim no koj niam tseem ua neej nyob ces neb mus piav tej no rau nej cov dab laug nawb. Piav tias koj niam muaj ob tug life insurance policy es koj niam nkawv muab ua koj tus nus ib leeg npe lawm xwb. Li no es koj niam cov neej tsa thiaj nrog paub. Muaj ib hnub koj niam ho puv 120 xyoo los lawv thiaj paub tias neb ob viv ncaus tsis tau dab tsi ces neb tsis tuaj nyiaj los tsis ua cas no nawb.
Tsis tas li ntawd xwb, tej zaum koj niam cov neej tsa yuav tuaj nrog koj niam tham thiab muab tej pov thawj sau tseg es lwm hnub thiaj tsis nyuab koj thiab koj tus niam hluas siab os mog.
Wow!!!! Koj tus mi nus thiab nyab muaj hmoo zoo tiag2 li os. Txawm koj tus nus Tau txhua yam los txhob tus siab mog, cov niag Laus yav thauv ruam2 qauj. Tag lauv phaum ntawv lawm ces peb mam hloov mog. Peb ua neej nyob ces yog nyob raws ciaj nyoog xwb. Koj saib xab maim 21 no tus twb tsis tshua muaj nqi npaum li ntxhais lawm ne.
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Tus vivncaus, koj cov lus yeej hais yog kawg lawm!
Koj niam thiab txiv yeej tsis hlub koj tus niam hluas neb yeej xav kom koj tus nus lub neej zoo tsis xav kom neb muaj thiab tau koob hmoov. Koj niam thiab koj txiv yeej tsis sawm zoo tsis xav tau kev hlub los ntawm neb nkawd thiaj coj tsis ncaj.
Peb Hmoob txoj cai thaum ub cov tub yog cov tha thiab ua niam txiv lub cawv xeeb cawv lav tiam sis tiam 21 no txawv lawm. Peb txoj cai ib txwm cov ntxhais yeej tsis cuam tshuam txog niam txiv lub ntees. Yog li thaum tsis muaj koj niam lawm tsuav neb hais rau koj niam paub ua ntej xwb koj tus nus yuav tha thiab tsis tha los kom koj niam Txhob tu siab rau neb.
koj niam twb pom tias koj tus Nyab tus nus twb tsis ua koj txiv lub ntees tab sis nws tseem tsis zeem nws tseem yuav tso txhua yam rau koj tus nus uas twb tsis hlub nws ces Kav liam.
Kuv yog neb ob tug muam ces neb yuav tau hais ib tug neej tsa tuaj muaj tej no tham Nrog koj niam. Koj niam txawm ntshai tsam neb ob tug ntxhais ho tau nyiaj tim qab nws tuag lawm los kom nws qhov life insurance policy nws yuav tau pauv ib qho kom txaus ua nws lub ntees tso rau ib tug neej tsa los yog kwv tij kom txog hnub nws mus lawm los thiaj tau nyiaj los ua nws lub ntees vim nws yeej paub meej tias koj tus Nyab tus yuav tsis kam los tha nws. Yog koj niam tsis yeem li nws cov neej tsa hais ces tsuav kom lawv paub txog hnub ntawd lawv txhob hais neb ob tug ntxhais. Neb muab nyiaj ntau mus pab los yuav muaj teeb meem rau neb lub neej kev txij nkawm thiab vim neb niam thiab txiv twb tsis txhawb neb Nrog rau neb 2 tug txiv. Yog koj niam cov neej tsa hais tsis tau koj niam kom nkag siab los ua ib siab kav liam cia txoj hmoo mam coj koj niam txoj hau kev vim koj niam tsis yog ib tug neeg to taub.
koj niam muaj txoj cai faib nws cov nyiaj life insurance rau leej twg thiab npaum li cas rau leej twg los yog npaum li cas yuav tsum muab los siv rau qhov twg Thaum nws tseem muaj txoj sia. Yuav tau kom nws muab ib qho los tso tseg hauv ntaub ntawv tias yuav tsum muab los ua nws lub ntees tom qab tsis muaj nws lawm. Qhov no Tsis tas nws yuav qhia thiab yuav hais koj tus nus yeem thiaj ua tau. Koj niam thiaj yog tus yuav pauv tau cov ntaub ntawv. Yog tos nws txoj sia twb tu lawm ces pab tsis tau, koj tus nus yuav tau txhua yam vim txoj cai yog txoj cai.
Ntuj o cas peb 1 leeg muaj 1 txoj dab neej neeg tu siab ua luaj o kuv txoj los zoo koj txoj thiab o mog u yog 1 tug ntxhais ces yeej g muaj nuj nqi li o mog kav liam txhob xav ntau o mog
Yug los ua khaub ntxias ces yeej tus siab os niam laus aws niam thiab txiv ces yeej hlub tej tub duas xwb os yog los ua hmoob ces yeej tau taug txoj kev no xwb os tus siab kawg li os
Cas yuav khib koj ua muam ua luaj. Lets listen to your nyab side.
Cov niag nus yaim poj niam ces yeej zoo li no ntag mas peb los ib yam thiab
Yog kawg peb cov moob yeej ua tau rau peb cov ntxhais tu siab heev tiamsis peb cov moob nyob thaib teb no kuv txiv yeej hais tias nwg yuav muab liaj teb faib rau tub thiab ntxhais ib yam nkaug nim no twb muab tas lawm puab cov tseem cem2 tias vim yog kuv txiv ua li ntaud lawv thiaj li tau muab lawv li faib thiab no peb cov ntxhais moob yeej tsis tau txoj kev ncaj nceeg tiag2 li tu siab kawg os
peb los twb taug ib txoj kev li koj thiab xav tias yog peb xwb tsis pom qab hais leej twg txhob tu siab tsis yog koj xwb os peb lub neej zoo li koj thiab os
Koj niam thiab txiv ua tau kuv ntshav siab kawg
cov niam txiv tsis tees koos loos ces coj li ko ntag los mas tsis paub txog qhov zoo , qhov phem . hlub tub , hlub ntxhais tsis sib luag tu siab ntau cov niam txiv tseem coj ruam ruam li ko qhov zoo ces thaum nej kawm tau lawm nej mus ua nej lub neej coj kom haum , hlub tub , hlub ntxhais kom sib luag thiaj yog nawb nws yog ib qho big lesson rau nej kawm thiab pauv hloov sorry
Donate their bodies.
Tus sister, Kuv tau taub koj zaj neej neeg no kawg. Kuv yeej tau taug koj txoj kev ntawm ko lawm tab sis kuv xav hais peb cov niam txiv thaum ub; lawv tsis muaj hlwb hais txog kev hlub. Lawv tsuas pom hais tias lawv cov tub thiaj muaj nuj nqe rau lawv xwb. Lawv yeej tsis pom peb cov ntxais kev hlub li. Txhob nkim koj lub zog tu siab rau lawv. kav tsij hlub koj cov me es kom lawv txhob coj qhov niv xaim no yav tom ntej. Love yourself.
Yooj yim heev, yog koj pab koj niam thiab koj txiv lub ntees tas es koj yuav mob siab tias koj tsis tau nkawv qhov nyiaj Insurance ces txhob pab koj tus nus xwb.... let your brother take care of your parents funeral, don't get involved so you don't feel like you been cheated.....If you feel like you want to help, then just help as much as you can... don't over done it and feel like you have a part of the money.
Tus muam, koj yog tus ntxhais tawm sab nrauv lawm ces yeej muaj qhov tu siab los tseem hauj sim os. Kuv ces yog ib tug tub los kuv yeej tau nraim koj txoj kev no thiab. Puam chawj es ua siab loj nawb.
Kuv yog ib leej niam thiab kuv yeej hlub tub thiab ntxhais ib yam kuv tsis ua li koj niam ua nawb
Yuav npam koj tus nus ib hnub xwb thaum laus thiab tus nyab ho mog. Vim nkawv yug muaj tub thiab ntxhais. Ntuj qis qis lawm. Pab koj tus siab mog tus muam.
Txhob tu siab os tus me niam tsev. Cov laus ces yeej coj li ko. Kuv niam & txiv nkawv coj ib yam li ko thiab. Txhua yam ces cia rau cov tub xwb. Peb cov ntxhais tub tsi muaj caij yuav ib yam dabtsi los pov hwm nkawv li. Sov yog thaum tsi muaj nkawv lawm sov yuav zoo li cas. Tseem tsi tau paub li thiab. Nws tsi yog koj ib leeg xwb thiaj li tu siab.
Tsis paub hais li os cov txiv neej tuag poj niam ob ceg. Peb cov ntxhais thiaj li hlub niam hlub txiv xwb os. Chim chim Los tseem hlub. Nrog koj chim tau koj tus nus kawg li os
G zoo kiag li g ncaj ncees siv g tau mloog ntau ua 6 mob siab mob paj hlwb g yuav.
Lub neej tamsim no cov ntxhais hlub niam thiab txiv dua cov tub lawm os, koj hais yog lawm tus niam tsev tub thiab ntxhais los yuav tsum hlub thiab faib kom ncaj nruab nrab thiaj yog, koj niam thiab koj txiv ua tsis ncaj thiab tsis yog lawm nawb
Yes i want to know what everyone thinks too. Glad im not the only one going through this.
Sister you have the right to be upset!!
Tia no lawm ma txawm yog tub lo ntxhai yeej muaj vaj fua lo hlub niam hlub txiv ib yam nkau.muaj jai lo tau niam txiv qub txeej qub teg ib yam nkau.
Yuav tsum hlub tug nxhais in yaam le koj hlub koj tug tub hab ma txhaj le fair
Most Hmong people need to get with the new generation. I see now that a lot of sons are going towards their in-laws and neglecting their parents. All children are equal no matter what gender because once you die not only the sons will spend money, but the daughters as well. The daughters are the ones doing the physical work and sorry to say but they tend to love their parents more. Your parents are not being fair if they leave everything for their son especially because he doesn’t even love them or care for them. Your mom still have the chance to make the change, but she chose to be stubborn and let her son treat her like dirt. Honestly I think your parents owe your brother in their past life. Haven’t heard the other side of the story but it sounded like they almost never consider you and your sister. Sorry sister just do your best to love her that she gave birth to you, but stay away from anything and everything that has to do with money. Just love her and care for her. Don’t worry about the money if your brother don’t want to do your parents’ funeral then he is the one that has to live with all the guilt. When the day come for your mom, let’s hope he change his way. If not then the world will see and God will see that he is an ungrateful bastard.
Cov niam txiv coj tus cwj pwm phem2 li ntawd ces cia tuag liab qab xwb zoo dua os mog, txhob mus ua2 txiv rau tsam koj tus txiv ho tsis yuav koj ces koj haj yam txom nyem rau koj lub me neej os mog me muam aw
Ua cas yuav txaus ntshai ua luaj ne kuv muaj ib tug tub xwb tiag cia xav tso hihi txhob tu siab o vim txoj kev hlub ne
Mloog zaj no mas khib siab tshaj mob siab heev .... mloog zaj no ces yuav zoo li kv zaj thb tab si lwm hnub kv mam piav kv zaj nb...tub thb ntxhais los yeej nqa tau nej cov lau lub tob haus 6 hauv av ib yam.. tub ntxhais los yeej thas tau nej lub ntees ib yam... tab si cov lau yeej hlub cov tub dua tab si thaum tuag ces cov ntxhai yog cov sab dua... vi cov tub mas yog lawv g kam pab nyiaj ces lawv yeej hais no li no xb...tab si thaum pom tau tias niam txiv tuag tau nyiaj ntau ces cov tub yeej txeeb kiag xb g kam faib li ... leej twg g tau ntsib thb g tau pom mas nej yeej g tau xav txog tej qho kv hais li hnub twg nej ntsib kiag nej mam paub tias mob siab thb khib siab chim siab npaun li cas..
Koj hais yog kawg li lawm os tus mi viv ncaus. Peb cov ntxhais ces yeej tsis tau ntawm niam thiab txiv li. Kuv cov mi nyuam 9 leeg kuv yuav life insurance kuv yeej faib equal rau lawm. Vim lawv puav leej yog kuv yug tag nrho ne
Niam thiab txiv hlub tub tseg ntxhais hlub tsis ncaj ncees ces txog hnub niam thiab txiv ib pas nqus tsis tuaj ces tsis tas pab 1 duas li os
Yeej yog li tus sister no hais kawg li os
Tub thiab ntxhais yeej yog tib neeg ib yam kaus, muaj peev xwm ib yam thiab. Everyone shares the same responsibilities regardless of gender. Hmong folks needs to change their mentality.
niam txiv tsi k yus ces thaum lawv tuag yus tsuas ua tau li yus yog ntxhais vauv xwb tsi need to ua tshaj los kom tau ntsej tau muag
cov niag nus zoo no ces ua neej nyob rau poj niam qab tiab xwb thiaj zoo no
Yus yug los ua ib leej ntxhais tsis tau txais leej niam tej lus zoo mas tu tu yus siab kawg. Thaum yus niam tsis tau-taub li yus tau-taub, yus niam tsis nkag siab li yus nkag siab..
Ntshaws yus niam lo lus zoo, xav hnov nws hais rau yus tias "kuv paub tias koj hlub thiab txhawj txog kuv es koj thiaj sablaj kom nthuav ntau txoj hauv kev rau kuv tau xaiv, Tabsis kuv txaus siab tsis xaiv.. Or cia muab lub sij huam rau kuv ib ntu tso". Ahh😥 Tabsis lo yus tau hnov tsis ua rau yus kajsiab vim lo lus teb tsis raug qhov yus trying hard to qhia nws.
Niamlaus aws txhob tu siab os, hlub li yus hlub nws xwb es stay in your circle of control xwb.
Remembering that you don't own all the problem in this world and that problem is one of them.
Kuv mas ntxhub tus txiv neej ua tsis muaj peev xwm li no dhuav siab tshaj
Txhob sib khib xwb os kev khib ces yog kev tu siab os. Cia rau yus mob xwb txhob hais tawm thiaj tsis zoo ov. Kev zam txim yog yog txoj kev rau yus taug nkaus nawb.
Txhob cia cia siab rau cov niag tub nyob tebchaws mekas no os. Tiam no cov ntxhais tseem hlub niam hlub txiv tshaj os!!! I wouldn't help bury anyone even if they're my parents if they treated me that way. I wouldn't even attend the funeral. They can all say what they want. They rely on their loser son so much that they leave everything to him then let him bury them.
Cas kuv mloog kuv tshav siab tsis tsim nyog hlub koj niam lawm thiab kavliam xwb tau ua siab loj thiaj tau ntuj ntoo
Cov zoo li koj niam ces cias nw tuaj li dev xwb koj yuav cas kav liam nawb txhob mob siab vim koj pheej mus take care ces koj thiaj mob siab cov laus ntawv yeej coj tsis ncaj li mog.
Koj niam thiab koj txiv ua tsis yog lawm. Cov kaus tseem muaj tej tug coj li no. Koj hais yog kawg li lawm os.
Txhob tu siab os mog tus muam, luv yog Ib tug tub los kuv txiv thiab niam tshiab yeej pom cov niam yug xwb thiab os koj tham koj zaj tag lawm tseem tshuav kuv zaj tsis pom qab yuav tham qhia leej twg li os
Cov niag laus ces yeej coj tus cuj p wm qia dub nawb
Txhob tu siab peb cov ntxhais yeej tsis muaj cai.peb lub neej hmoob peb hlub peb cov tub tshaj tabsi thaum lawv muaj nyab lawv ua poj niam xwb nyab xaj lawc xwb.cov tub no tub hnav tiab xwb.xab maim no muaj ib pab tub los txhob cia siab thaum kawg ces kawg nyob tsev laus.peb tiam tshiab no tub ntxhais kom peb lub ib yam life insurance los tso lawv sawv daws npe.cov ntxhais hlub peb dua cov tub lam yug kom txhob poob noob xwb.koj txhob tu siab neb ob viv ncaus ua lineb ua rau xwb lub neej hmoob no yuav hloov mas nyuaj heev.cia phaum laus tuag tag peb tiam tshiab peb yuav tau hloov
Yog lawm nawb,,tub ntxhais lo yeej muaj nqi 1 yam nkaus nawb tiam 21 no lawm cov ntxhais tseem hlub niam thiab txiv dua lawm yuav tau hlub kom sib npaug thiaj yog nawb
Thaum nyiaj npog qhov muag lawm, Niam txiv ib plab yug los yeej sib tua tau.
Tus niam tsev, Koj yog ib tus neeg zoo thiab muaj lus siab loj. Tiam sis koj Niam koj txiv yeej tsis txawj hlub nej cov nug muag sib npaug. Yus niam yus txiv ncaim lub ntiaj teb no yeej mob yus tshaj. Tiam sis vim koj Niam koj txiv tseem tseem kev coj qub qab, txawm koj ua ntxhais ua vauv tseem pab npaum cas los tsis muaj nqi rau lawv vim koj tsis yog ib leej tug cag. Ces cia li os mog. Hnub twg koj Niam puv 120 xyoo, yeej paub tias koj yuav mob siab tiam sis es cia li os, tsis txhob pab nyiaj pab txiaj. Nkim zog & nkim koj lub siab dawb xwb os mog. Koj Niam koj txiv twb tsis quav ntsej koj es koj pheej tshum lawv tag zog ces lawv tias koj yog neeg phem. Txawm koj pab ib pob nyiaj los lawm tsuas tias koj zoo koj siab pab zwb cav tsis muaj leej twg yuam koj. Nrog koj tu siab tiam sis ua ib siab kav liam lawm ua lawm os.
My parents are the same. When my father passed away, us girl are like you. My mom didn't see that we are equal to my brothers. Everything was given to her son's only. Everything she said is sell this and split it with her sons. There are times when she would say things to make me feel sorry for her but at this point, I don't want to do anything for her. During the funeral my mom asked us to help pay for the funeral and at the end, we get nothing. Now whenever she call to ask for help...she only call us girls but none of the girls want to help because she is like this mother. In my experience, you do what you can for when that day comes and your mom goes that you do not have any regrets. If it means that you do nothing for her and you have no regrets then let it be. Your brother should understand that without his sisters, he is nothing. If your brother is willing to understand and stand up then he needs to stand up and be the brother he should be otherwise you and your sisters will have a distance relationship from your brother. I hope that your decision on what you want to do when it comes to your mom is chose wisely and confidently so that you do not have any regrets when she goes. Let us younger generation change this path for our kids so that they are loved equally.
Hmong old parent always never make if far. When your mom pass away leave everything for your brother.
Ua neeg nyob yeej tsi sawm zoo.
Ua li no mas tsis ntog lawm nyog yus niam thiab yus txiv lawv uA li no mas tsisnyog
Tsis pab los yeej tau vim koj niam thiab txiv yeej nyiam lis ntawm ces koj Tus nus ua tau li cas yuav li tawm xwb neeg yuav hais li cas los yeej tsis mob vim koj niam koj txiv yeej pom zoo li
Hmoob txoj kev hlub mas zoo heev rau cov ntxhais txhob tu siab. Koj zaj no hniaj hnub nim no yeej muaj puv ntuj. Hmoob lub neej yeej zoo li no. Tu siab kawg.
Tam sim no yog koj niam tseem nyob tseem pauv tau yog koj niam tsis kam thiab ces txog hnub nawd pab li cas pab li ntawd pab tsis tau los txhob pab xwb
Mloog Nej lub neej tag Xav tias yuav los hais me ntsis lus los tshe yuav hais nyav ces kavliam Tsis Txhob hais zoo dua.
kuv kuj yog ib tug ntxhais uas ntxub hmoob txoj cai zoo li no kawg li thiab yog ib txoj cai ua ruam xwb txawm ntxhais txawm tub los yeej yog yus yug ib yam yuav hlub kom sib npaug
Npam tus niam thiab txiv thiab tub thiab nyab, nej ces yeej npam ua ke tham li zoo li ntawd.
Mloog tag mob siab heev li vim peb yog ib leej ntxhai
Tsis tas tuaj nyiaj cia nws tus tub man tha wb los yeej tsis txhaum lios
Pab koj tu siab uas tau ib leej niam thiab txiv coj tau lub cwj pwm qub2 thiab selfishness li ntawm yeej yog li koj hais. Yog nws tseem nyob kuj hais kom nws cov neej tsa pab hais kom kaw lu cia rau lawv tuav tsi tas li nej tseem muaj sib hawm pauv tus beneficially los rau lwm tus. Los kuj hais rau koj niam tus nyab cov neej tsa kom nws txhob ua li, yog lawv yog neeg siab zoo paub cai Hmoob lawv yeej hais tau. Ntxub thiab tsi ntxub twb ntxub txog tab no why let it be?
Cov tub ces yeej zoo li no xwb mas kuv xav tias cov zoo li no ces coob dua xwb os
Tus me Viv ncaus txhob tu siab mog peb yug Los ua ib tug khaub ntxhais ces yeej kawg yuav nkag kis no vim peb niam txiv tsis tso lawv lub siab phem tseg, tab muaj ib txhia lawv yug tau ib tug tub twm zeej kiag xwb twb coj tau ib yam li koj niam thiab txiv, ces kawg peb cov hluas yeej txom nyem siab, twg niam thiab txiv txawj xav siab zoo coj zoo lawv tsis tau taug txoj kev no tsis paub, peb cov hluas no yuav tau xav zoo es hloov xwb mog nco tias yug yeej mob plab yug cov me nyuam ib yam ces txhob coj li lawm mog
Koj niam nkawv yeej hlub nej tsis sib npaug xwb os. Kuv tus txiv wb mas tub ntxhais Los yeej faib sib npaug li nawb.
Tus muam koj yeej xav, coj, thiab hais tau yog kawg lawm. Tu siab hais tias tej zaum koj tus niam hluas neeb tawm hauv qhov av los xwb. Tej zaum tsis yog ob tug neeg uas neb muab hu niam thiab txiv yug. Ntawv thiaj tsis hlub neb. Hos neb tus nus yog Yawm Saub tso saum ntuj los kav neeg ntiaj teb. Ntawv thiaj muab nws hawm cuag huab tais. Lwm tiam os tus muam thov ntawv los uas tus tub nawb.
Yog o tu me viv ncau aw nm thiab txiv yeej ib txwv g hlub peb cov me ntxai li o mog
Cov niam txiv yeej ua g yog lawm ..tus tub twb g hlub ua cas pheej yuav ua kom zoo tus tub lub siab ...niaj tub twb g hlub niam thiab txiv
Tus niam tsev aw pab koj tu siab kawg li os. Peb hmoob feem coob ces yeej hlub tub nyab dua. Yog koj niam nkawv thiab koj tus nus lawv tsis kam faib qub txeeg qub teg rau neb 2 viv ncaus los txhob ntshaw mog. Tab sis kaj tsij hlub koj niam li koj hlub tau, ua li koj ua tau los pauj niam txiv txoj kev hlub tu yus loj xwb. Qhov zoo thiab tsis zoo ntawv vim nkawv xaiv rau nkawv lawm. Koj ua tag koj txoj kev zoo lawm yuav tsis muaj neeg hais tau koj. Nco ntsoov tus neeg siab zoo muaj kev hlub thiaj yog tus tau koob hmoov. Cov neeg ntshaw2 luag tug tsis muaj lub siab hlub, nws txawm tau ib pob nyiaj los yeej tsis kav nws li os. Koj saib mus mas.
Teeb qhov ib yog txoj kev cai cais tub cais ntxhais; qhov ob: nej sawv daws puav leej xav txog nyiaj xwb; nej yeej tsis muaj kev sib hlub.
Cov nyab no ces yeej ntshaw nyiaj Xb os thiab cov niam txiv no yeej ua Tsis nyaj rau cov ntxhais kiag li lawm os
Cov niam txiv coj li no ces cia tuag liab qab los tau. Yus hlub nws tsis muaj nuj nqis dab tsi. Cia nws tus tub mam take care txhua yam. Yus mam mus hlub li tus qhua xwb.
Koj niam yog tus tswv insurance ces nws nyiam li cas ces ua li nws nyiam xwb mas, txog nws lub ntees los koj ua li koj ua tau xwb txhob khib, hos yog koj ua tsis tau los yeej tsis ua cas, txhob nyuab siab
Sister, koj yeej hais yog lawm, now on ces ua ntxoo teg saib lawm xwb los mas, ob tug laus ntawd tsi sawm zoo os; thiab npam tsi taug koj lawm es
Your mother is still alive. She need to do the right thing and go split that policy. Everyone, sons & daughters will hurt the same when she is gone. Every child will help financially because they want to send their parents off the right way. Your mom need to get it right before she leave otherwise, she is going to tear your siblings apart after she leave. Money is the ruler of all evil.
Tamsi ni yog niam nyob ces kav tsij mus hloov niam tus policy xwb. Niam tsi kam thiab ces kom niam txhob tusiab.
Txhob tu siab. Koj ua tau li cas los ua li ntawv xwb. Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv tseem coj cov niag kev cai qub qub puag thaum ub es nkawv thiaj li coj li ko rau neb ob viv ncaus. Peb cov ntxais ces yog qhov hlub ces peb yeej hlub tshaj. Tabsi, Koj Niam thiab Koj ho xav kom pab xwb, t sis xav kom qhia siab ces kav tsij tseg kiag rau koj tus nus saib seb nws ho yuav ua tau li cas
Tus niam tsev koj ua zoo li koj ua tau xwb os koj niam koj txiv yuav ua li cas los kav liam mog yog yus zoo lawm ces yis tsi txhob ua sib phim nawb mog muaj ib hnub tsi muaj koj niam lawm los koj pab li koj ua tau xwb os lwm tus yuav ua li cas los kam liam mog zoo siab tias koj yuav nkag siab zoo . Zam txim pub rau tus neeg tsi nkag siab thiab nawb mog es thiaj li zoo os tus muam awd
Hmoob txoj cai siv tswv yim thiaj tsis ruaj khov li no tub no koj qhov ko yuav tsum siv sib txhig zov thiaj yog nruab nrab os
Cov laws ce yeej ruam li no os tus tsis hlub nws los nws hlub lawv tshaj
Viv ncaws aw peb cov ntxhais ces yeej raug li ko yuav luag txhua li os cov niag niam txiv uas tseem coj coj li koj niam thiab txiv ces ua rau yus mas dhuav dhuav siab kawg nws niag nyab twb tsis nyiam nws lu los nws yeej yeem yeem ces yus yog mtxhais qhua li nws hais ces kav liam nws tuag hnub twg ces nws cov neej tsa mam hais nws niag tub xwb
Tim yus xwb os. Luag tsis khes yus los yus pheej mus khes2 luag ne ces kuj mob yus xwb.
Nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no txoj kev ncaj ncees tsawg heev li nawb
Nws twb yeem tuag li dev tuag no ne cia ua li nws hais mas nws ua txhua2 yam rau nws tus tub lawm ne ua cas koj ho pheej xav mus txeeb no ma nws nyiam li cas tso rau li nws hais yus yog tus ntxhaig mus saib nraud lawm koj zoo li tus qhua lawm xwb yog koj hlub2 koj niam ces kav tsij hlub thaum nws ciaj sia no xwb thaum tuag lawm koj yog tus qhua lawm xwb nawb koj niam koj txiv yog lawv xam pom koj ces lawv hlub lawv tsis cais thaum lawv tseem muaj sia lawv twb yeej cais meej lawm tias lawv yuav tseg koobmoov rau lawv tus tub no ces txav deb2 xwb lawv txoj kev hlub me tub me ntxhaig txawv koj nawb
Nyias qhua ntxim rau on niag laus....
Kuv loj hlob kuv niam lawv yeej tsis hlub peb cov ntxhais niaj hnub no lawv txi peb cov ntxhais cov vauv...kuv ua tus hlob kuv yeej hais rau kuv niam kuv txiv tias lawv muab peb qhuas rau yim hmoob lwm lub xeem lawm kom lawv hais lawv cov tub cag hauv tsev tso...
Ib sim neej peb plaub viv ncaus kuv niam lawv yeej tsis txhaws peb kev kawm....lub tsheb...lo tsis yuav rau ib leej ntxhais qhov twg...thov siv lawv tej tsheb lo lawv twb cem peb cov muam tshob.... kuv ris siab tsis khes khes li os
Your story is EXACTLY mine. Fortunately, my mom is still alive but well in her 70s and may go anytime. My family is now divided boys/girls (And the boys don’t even get along with each other). There is no communication, no gatherings, we are just strangers. My mother (father passed away in Laos) also loves my brothers the most. Everything was given to the boys and us girls got nothing. My SILs have full control of my brothers. My mom bought a policy that she is paying herself and put it in one of my brother’s name. She also recorded a video that us girls will have to go in half with the brothers and whether they pay us back or not, we should just let it go. This is her final wish because she doesn’t want my brothers lives to be ruined. We girls discussed and concluded that we will leave our mother’s funeral up to her sons. Whether they do it good or bad, it is up to them. We will give what we can, but we are not obligated to give anything. It is sad, but it is what it is. There is nothing you can do. Just leave Karma for your brother. We do not foresee any reconciliations with our brothers even now or after our mother passes. We are strangers now and will always be strangers to the end.
yog muaj tiag li hais muab koj txiv laub rau tom thoob kib nyiab xwb mas rau qhov koj txiv yog dev tsoob muaj xwb txawm yog tub yog ntxhais los yeej yog yus me nyuam ib yam
Ntawm kuv tus kheej uas yog ib leej tub kuv kuj pab nej cov muam los yog cov phauj tus siab kawg koj niam thiab koj txiv lawv yeej coj tsis tsuam ncaj puas tsawg rau nej cov ntxhais yog kuv ces yeej tseg nws tus tub mam ua nws lub ntees rau nws kuv yeej tsis raus tes rau. Ntawm kuv tus kheej kuv txoj kev ntsheeg ces yog yuav sib hlub sib pab ces tsuas yog thaum ua neej nyob xwb yog tos thaum twb tuag lawm ces kuv yeej yuav tsis tos tej nyuag kev koob moov tej no ces yog kev dag neeg lub siab xwb.