Pisces General - Resolving past HURT!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2024
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This reading is for the 1st Half of February.
But, may be valid at other times of the year for you.
After watching 3-4 minutes. You should be able to tell if this reading is valid for you, at this current moment.
I was done wrong by several people this year, but I have been working to remove myself from all these situations so I can get better.
However, I’m prepared to clear the air, and I will be even more so in that frame of mind the more I rebuild myself. So I’m taking the space I require now. But letting it all go is definitely my intention this year.
Things fall through. They just do, and a lot of that is because we all have our own issues to work out. But in the end, if you really want something- you make it right, and I have not seen that energy from the other side in a very long time... people just tend fall back into a loop with me, so I decide to move on from them. I think it’s fair and just for everyone involved, because sometimes it is just the healthiest thing to do. You can’t force something to work out if it just wasn’t going to work out. You let it happen naturally. That’s hard for someone that isn’t as carefree to understand. You cannot control everything, and every situation, and that includes a person (and yourself). You have to make mistakes, and you have to learn from them.
This new year is exactly what it is...a new YEAR! The number of the year changed (and always will!), but situations and decisions don't always happen so easily. Be gentle and loving with/on yourself my fellow Pisces. Process and organization (decluttering) your mind and space of things and people that no longer suit you is always mandatory. It's ok to be where you are and to accept what will happen unexpectedly and what you decide by choice. No matter what happens, remember, it's divine. Whether things happen now or later, your life, this world and people will move on and require change for the better or worst, if you continue to allow the latter due to complacency. Sending an abundance of love, light, and positivity your way and forever more. Continue to hang in there. You got this!
💜💜💜 @ 12:17 - 12:20, you said, "Just getting down the semantics of it... I don't know if I'm using the right word. I hope I am. ..." And, again at 14:09 - 14:11 "... semantics of the situation..." And, finally at 19:10.
Perfect word choice, and you used it accurately. That's one thing I love about you. You allow yourself to genuinely feel the emotions, point of view, and even the words of the energy coming through. I've noticed time and again how your word choices - those that sometimes, seemingly feel foreign to your day-to-day, turn out to trigger a situation, person, memory, event, or energy of some kind going on in my experience. Thank you for your courage in always standing up for your truth in your gift.
I felt drawn to this video and I gotta say you are on point. Thank you so much for your time and energy!
Amazing reading!!!! This actually happened this morning, hit the nail on the head! You rock!!!!
Thank you that made so much sense to me .x
thank you..Happy new year and more power !!!
It resonates with a situation from over 1.5 years ago. I have had the chance to see that person last year, but there was zero conversation and I was fine with it. Soon there will be another chance to see each other again, but I know that the person hasn't changed, plus they are not willing to talk it out. I am still fine with it and I don't think bad about him either. He did what he had to do back then, even it hurt me a lot. However, I am over it and forgiving someone doesn't mean to agree with what they did to you, but it is about finding peace in oneself. It's not easy to do, but if you have learned to really love yourself, you'll reach the point where you are able to meet that person and approach them just like someone you know (with no previous emotions of course).
Wow! This so resonated with me. Thanks fellow
Piscean.
James, you're so right. I'm not a Pisces, but I have been trying to get him to talk to me now for over 4 yrs, and nothing, and the reason I kept trying to make contact was to have "the conversation" so that it would help the healing process, but no, nothing, so now I have well and truly moved on. I did what I had to do at the time because my mental health was slipping negatively as a result.
You always make me smile! Pisces are intuitive to a T. My past holds a covert N, and I want nothing to do with him. Narcissists do not change. They are liars, cheaters, manipulators, and are extremely cunning con artists. (men/women) After months of research on Narcissism, I’m not mistaken. Thank you, James. (I resonated) ✌️ He would love another chance, but I hold zero interest. Nada.
Carol Vassallo Actually, Im relieved that I never became his permanent source of supply, fuel. No heartaches. I consider it a lesson learned.
SANDRA CARRINGTON Is it possible?? Lol.. I’m not feeling a heartache, but it does
anger me, because he was in denial of being a narc..
I’m finding this an interesting read. It kinda resonates (past heartache, poorly handled at the end). I know I do need to be in the right mindset to forgive, but it’s going to have to happen strictly through meditation. That’s the part of the reading where, you lost me because it felt like you were reading more for the other side, than for us Pisces. Remember Pisces is the mutable sign. We flow and give and get along far longer than most other signs would’ve put up with stuff because we love deeply. Having these conversations with my other person is a waste of time. For the entire very long duration of our badly frayed relationship he never wanted to take responsibility to own his fair share of any disagreement. I had been patient and open to working things out time and again, but the time for conflict resolution and discussion has long passed. So my forgiveness work - strictly for me, so I can move on - can’t include him into conversation. My intuitive Pisces side says protect myself from this person. I think forgiveness can happen on your own when you accept the parts of the situation you were responsible for and get what you need to learn from that and then, to accept the other side did what they did as the right decision for themselves for where they were at that time. Semantics without going through the emotional pepper grinder. And in my specific case I am not being blamed for everything that went wrong. And yes I am the Pisces and I too AM DONE.
Roxy Bolt Happy New Year to you as well sweetie! Yes, we’ve had some real winners didn’t we? Lol.. The new year will be a good one for Pisces. We just have to remain optimistic. Lots of love, and stay happy! xo
Carol Vassallo The best to you as well, Carol in 2018. If you find yourself getting weak in the knee’s, watch a few Narcissists video’s on TH-cam, as a reminder of what we dealt with. (It works for me) lol..
...im going to do what I have to do...
People who only interact with you in order to manipulate you are cancerous. I want to forgive. I am sure it would only be superficial. Letting this person back into my life would not benefit me at all. I would be opening myself to manipulation again. I will most likely keep them at arms length. It can never be as it was. Like James said, the emotion is cut off. Sad but true.
Nailed it. Thanks! We're both Pisces, same birthday. He's younger and I'm working on being patient. His alcoholic/addict mother moved in on him and to keep the peace he does what she demands. I understand. But if he can't get a handle on that I don't want to be more than friends.
I’m the Pisces moon, and this is my mother-in-law. I’m so over this situation now. I don’t trust her, and she’s in a very dysfunctional relationship with a man young enough to be her son, and is an opportunist. The signs have been there since day one, but she’d rather ignore them to not be alone. He’s not a good person-without getting too personal on here. I have small kids, and want nothing to do with this person, or their drama. My heart is now disconnected from this situation. We were friends. Now there’s nothing there. She’s a liar, and manipulative and mean-spirited. Again-you’re so talented James.👍🏻🙏🏼
Thank you James😊 This reading was very helpful. God bless. Happy New Year to you.
For this pisces I prefer to block them off because I find that continually talking to them just keeps the wound open and doesn’t let me move on. I don’t care how they feel about hurting me, the thing is they hurt me 😥
💜💜💜 You are a very good man, James.
James you’re right....
Yep narcissist in my life...carrying on with life as if nothing happened..oh my gosh..so much has just happened!!
Your pisces vids are always top of my list. Thank you! As for who, i dunno, I've been hurt plenty. Could be current, we will see.
I severed ties tonight with a relative. I may have to cross their path again. But I feel completely indifferent. They are dead to me.
I dated an Aquarius Male for 2 months and he ghosted me and moved away in spring of 2015. He I feel is a Narcissist and will never understand his behaviors. I have had to shut the door on that lesson in my life and will never forget what it taught me. For me it takes times to forgive and let go. My heart goes out to everyone dealing with people/ situations like this.
I have too many people that have hurt me so I guess we'll see who shows up .
Pisces sun&moon Yes..same here, I am confused about who is saying what..lol
Same lol
hello I love all of you readings and to be honest with you there's nothing wrong with you saying the way you feel because you weren't connecting with your higher self and other spirits. I believe this is how you listen to your intuition. we are all very proud of you
How can the other person own any responsibility if there was NEVER ANY CONVERSATION OR COMMUNICATION after whatever happened. Both parties could own up their part if there was communication, BUT THERE NEVER WAS ANY OF ANY KIND OF COMMUNICATION. FORGIVENESS was ALWAYS GIVEN by the other party, never a word from Pisces.
Marilyn Delaunay I don’t know your story, but once a Pisces is honestly done, they are done.
Susan Peters as a Pisces I can attest to that.
Marilyn Delaunay
Exactly
Marilyn Delaunay
Classic Pisces move .. hard. Im a Scorpio, I have a struggling impatience trait .. hard to keep balanced and free of resentment. Referring to emotions and baggage 😔😅 thank you James 🙏😇🌻
Marilyn and yet you have to add the "honestly" qualifier to that statement, lol... It's hard to know if you are one of those exceptions where s/he is not being honest with themselves. Gah!!
After 3 times listening to this I laughed so hard at the “you did that I did that” hahaa
If I were to tell you the story, you would understand what you are saying more clearly ! Just know that you are right on so many levels and have given me a new perspective about a couple of people in a situation. Thank you !
Well, idk why they thought inviting me and another girl he was seeing at the same place at the same time and acting like it was ok would be ok. Any logical person knows it's stupid. I'm over them. Don't want them back and I hope they don't try to come back. They never tried to commutate and even when they apologized they still never tried and expect me to forgive them... I think not!!! Good riddance. I've done nothing to them. This was all them
Elliecute8 wow, we have similar story, he will never commit and now I wear my emotion on my sleeve, it been 7months it happened and he contact me for Christmas and NY but he still wouldn’t commit 🌚so no need but we’ve both quash our beef now am moving on.
It'll be okay. It's always nice to get things out in the open. I can easily understand where people are coming from. I just want to hear it from them. That way I can avoid those same pitfalls. That doesn't mean we will be buddies, but it gives closure.
Its been too long Dont want to re-open old wounds that I managed to heal so now no discussion welcomed
I know this sounds stubborn... but the only defense or stance that a Pisces can have against narcissists and manipulators, users...is to not let them off the hook by even being heard. They are incapable of seeing or taking any degree of responsibility. It kills them that they can no longer suck life energy and accolades from us or get stroked by their Pisces buddies that fed them. They actually are that stupid to think that some half assed apology or almost apology could do anything to help or repair the damage and the hurt they caused but I’m not that stupid. As a younger Pisces I would have and have fallen for it and let him be heard. But I am much wiser and older now - and unfortunately through the school of hard knocks and some devastations dealing with and attracting more of these narcissists - it will not happen to me again nor will I let a narcissist off the hook - it is our only method of self-respect for teaching a lesson that maybe will carry this person into the next life if they are lucky. It’s really good to hear all of these opinions in the comments that validate the way I feel in hearing James’ guided reading. He is just passing along information and who knows - that reading could have been for just a couple of people that were not dealing with narcissist but were dealing with an emotional situation that actually is repairable. So I guess it’s fair to say that if the person that the Pisces crossed paths with and that was hurt by is a narcissist and manipulator - don’t bother letting them be heard..... but if not - his message has validity.
KEC amen to that thank You! I'm pisces dealing with a narcissist Libra and he's not hearing what I have to say because it doesn't resonate with him so I gave up no more wasting my time and energy. Although I'm only dealing with 2 Libra, same drama, but I'm not going to stereotype that all Libra are the same like some folks here bashing on Pisces. They have no idea the shit (excuse the language) we put up with. Always trying to see the goods in people only to have them taking us for granted.
Your talking about my husband it's mirroring what he is going through with his ex from school your a very gifted person and thank you for the insight now I can understand what he is feeling and why it's happening thank you very much
This is occurring dually for me.
Nailed it! As usual...
I completely get what you're saying James. We both water sign and we don't communicate about the situation, but I can feel and understand why the person did what they did so I reciprocate. We didn't need talking and the outcome wouldn't change if we did. It would have made thing a little easier if it was handle differently. Thank you for the reading and happy New year.
Its soo tiref for being a pisces huh...i love to bei g inlove but end up heart myself later...
I'm sliding into your email to take this further offline... I don't care that I'm not the only one saying this... This was 💯 for me to see. This is exactly how my beef with a Pisces needs to be approached. But this Capricorn earth is not gonna be the one to reach out for closure. Because it is what I had to do... It was gonna turn out this way... No matter how I did it. ;-) Very complex situation though for sure. Not surprising it was difficult for you to work through.
He wants to come clean but his damn Narcissitic Ego wont let him hold himself accountable due to his resentment and jealousy he only feels bad that his image was destroyed by the lie of being happy married man to me the honorable perfect husband he used that as cover! He not sorry because he not only hurt me but he stuck the knife in deep to the core of wound by being cold cruel and ruthless AFTER HE ALREADY DECEIVED ME
Yea she did hurt me in the past she's a Leo
You nailed it man I got that going on
James, he is a stranger, he stole of me. To be honest, I don't want to see him again, I don't have to forgive an arragant low life. Pisces
Hi James am same am a Pisces here myself and find hard to forgive so I know on aabout Caroline
Im exactly that type of picses. Take alot for me to forgive. But i know what your talking bout too . Its hard to work it out in a talk with two of the same signs lol
Very interesting ty ❤
Yes he was very Spiteful and Nasty on top of cheated and violated our marriage causing my family shock and humiliation by not even seeing it coming he lied to my face and pretended to be something he WAS NOT WHICH WAS A HONEST MAN he knew he had made a baby but yet treated me like all his misery was because of me when in all actuality he had been cheating and planning to be with somebody of his past the whole time he was with me when he could have just been honest and left without degrading me
Accurate 💯 even with the I DONT LIKE YOU .. cause ugh I can’t stand her yuck 🤢
hi I just thought I would let you know my situation in my life . day before Christmas I said to him regarding a song that it sounds sad and he abused me and went off his tree same to me that it just shows what sort of Fu**** person that I am . and because I said in return that's Ball****. he started swearing again at me saying I said he is b******* and that's his opinion about me counts.
The Day of Christmas when I asked him if he can park at the front of the gate after I shut them he parts right at the other end of the street knowing that I'm 8 and half months pregnant and on the way to the car I stay in there calmly and reminded him what I asked of him and then he was swearing and carrying on at me saying I'm wrong and he's right and in return I stated that it's ok that we're only human sometimes people can misunderstand things and it's ok, but it wasn't good enough for him. as he was driving off and on the way to the doctors and Christmas day to take me he said to me that I could get out the car and find a way back home knowing that my phone wasnt charged to call anyone. then I demanded for him to take me home talk about 15 minutes before he did didn't think he was going to but he did take me home and when you drop me home he ended up driving out and then stopping the car and then reversing over the present really fast that he made me and threw out of the backseat of the car.
about 3 days after that and I wasn't home you come to the house at the back door and left my perfume there along with a little love heart charm for a bracelet hanging on the back door but when I arrived time he was out the back at the granny flat not at the tenant store and made him sit outside with him and he bad mouth me to the tenant. even though he knows that he's not allowed to go up behind the granny flat and be friends to tenant like he did because he thinks the granny flat belongs to my parents. when I arrived home that day my mum was with me and he ended up calling my mum as slut as well as me. because he didn't want to listen to my mum when she said to him that he has to start paying his way because he does not want to pay any power and water whatsoever and yet he wants me to have a room for his 3 kids again even though he refuses to pay anything towards expenses. he earns $750 a week and also just bought a car with a loan about 3 weeks ago for $6,200 and a half thousand dollars which left him with 1300 plus $750 of his wages that week
and also week before he got his car my mum gave him $350 just to do a little bit of mowing and a little bit of hedge trimming.
last night I finally met up with him and asked him if he wanted to have a shower with me before we go and see his son and when we got out the shower he wanted sex I said no but I ended up giving in everything was ok and we went to Spotlight but when we come back he gave me a massage and wanting more sex which I didn't end up giving him. he was supposed to ring my mum and apologize for what happened that day but I think he was trying to avoid it because he says he was right to talk to us that way and do what he did with the Tennant.
but after the massage she kinda gave me I had a cigarette with him but when I asked him to borrow a lighter he abused me and told me I had to get my own because it is his even though he stays here rent free and power free and water free and I was about to cook him dinner with my food again. so he was swearing and yelling at me and calling me everything under the sun because he says it's his lighter so he left and still to this day he is adamant that he doesn't need to share anything but yet he still wants the room for his kids even though he's the one that keeps moving in and out over the smallest little things and has even threatened to cheat on me many times because of me wanting to use a little bit of his butter or because I asked to borrow his lighter even before the pregnancy I have tried to get in to give up smoking but he doesn't want to and it seems much easier not to argue with him about giving up smoking to help me. he has also set on the phone last year and lined up to see a girl right in front of me and she lives in Cairns and he lives in Adelaide and it broke my heart when he did say he ended up moving out a couple of weeks later totally finally get a place first time in his life just to have her sent over it so they could have sex for a couple of days later on we ended up getting back together and I only found out that she was sent over not long ago which I thought we had worked out at but still there is lots of issues regarding the smallest little things and still can't get him to pay his way unfortunately
he says that I don't love him or want him as much if I don't let him treat me the way he does and apparently I have to watch my tongue and also I don't love or wanting apparently if he has to pay his way. in the last 10 months he has paid 5 x. he is never apologize to me for anything that is done not even when he's kicked me out the car for absolutely nothing unfortunately
users tire me out..........seen it. been there..nearly bored to death with them. being vindictive isnt good for karma. his brother is dying and im caring for him and he cant wait untill he is dead...ive had it with him. ugly. He has done nothing but continue to lie about his life..disaster/
How much are your personal, generalized readings?
You missed Cap
As I'm going in? Where? Have no idea what you're talking about..