''Where is my mum? [Someone shouts to Gary] You don't sound like my mum... I'll take your love none the less. My mum is too shy to shout out but this is for my mum. It is not about my mum''
This song is special between me and my first (and only) love. Were not together, met in 06, parted in 11, met again in 17' in secrecy, she left again sadly 10/02/20 but she is my only experience of, knowledge of and memory of love..the words ring so true, from the times I've wondered if il.ever see her again to the times I've held her to the times she's once again disappeared. Jan il always love you x
This song is helping me get through my break up with my girlfriend of 3 years. She wasn't happy anymore in the relationship. And the only way to give her that happiness back is to let her go. And even know I love her dearly and it hurts me so much to this day, it was the right thing to do. "You could be happy, I hope you are."
I went through a similar experience. You'll never forget her but in time you will find someone that you make happy and makes you happy. I have , took three years. It gets better in time .
Fight Library You came all this way to say that? I'm sure you were trying to be jovial but hey ho, different people, different times, different emotions. I'd use the term 'grow a pair' to suggest you growing a pair of neurons that function in the capacity of sensitivity towards the plight of others. Be good, be happy.
+randyratamacue I feel you. My ex boyfriend broke up with me after 4 years and 11 months. A month before our 5th anniversary. He wanted to focus on himself and though it terribly hurts, I can't do anything but let him be. 'Without me there to hold you back, don't think, just do."
Ugh. Why did I do this to myself? This song ALWAYS makes me cry. It's such a sad song, but I like that it's about lost love and regret without being whiny or angry.
I am sitting here in a pub in rural France, as I need to use their wifi. The woman I had waited all my life for, ended our relationship yesterday. It's so hard listening to this song trying to hold back my tears, not bringing attention to myself. Not that I care too much. I don't care at all, in fact. You see, although I might have reached the lofty age of 50 years, finding and losing True Love in little over a year; which was caressed and nurtured by the only woman I have ever completely loved with my all of my heart and soul, is painful as hell. 'Old age' was never supposed to hurt like THIS... be like - THIS. If you ever happen to read this my sweet Kazzy, just remember YOU WERE MY ONE. I am not here to play the 'victim' - but I am here trying to tell you that you were, and always will be - the Love of my Life. I told you so many, many times. And despite all my failings, you will always know that. You will take your final breath, always knowing - THAT. I will take mine knowing the same. No one will ever love you like I loved you, my darling girl. You Made Me Happier, Than I'd Been - By Far. Perhaps now I'm gone and without me to hold you back, you might go on to one day find the happiness I couldn't give you. My only actual failing was that I loved you too much, and because of that, I sometimes got my love for you all bent out of shape. Now you're gone, I will never find a love to come anywhere as close. Not remotely. I'm not sure I have the heart to even try again. You showed me what life was like at the top of the mountain amongst the most rare and purified air, and I will never breathe it again. For from now on, I will only choke sharing what everyone else has to breathe. I Love You so much. I Miss You even more, if that is possible. 831 & 831, My Princess. xxxxxxx P.S. My tears come now. Hard.
Don't give up. Life is extremely hard; but it has been this way since forever. 2 years ago I went through a heartbroken moment where I crumbled. I didn't know what to do back then and after all these years I haven't figured out what's the path one must take in order to move on from these moments; the only thing I do know now is that it led to me better things because of the attitude I choose (even though I choose it a year later, but that was my case, not yours). That is to come stronger and survive from these things, for I wanted to pursue all the things that life offers. If this relationship didn't worked out is probably because you weren't ready. You need to understand that in order to love someone else you need to love yourself first, because otherwise, how can you give love to someone else if you don't even love yourself. You need to focus on yourself, on your dreams, on getting back on track to the meaning of your life; trust me is not another person the meaning of life but something bigger than me and you. I read that you said that you're only failing is that you loved her too much, but that sometimes can be suffocating and can kill a relationship. Forget all that Romeo and Juliet crap of loving someone so much you'll die for them. Those kind of relations only last for a few days. The real love is the where your couple is your life partner, someone with whom you'll learn to find a balance in order for you to explore all the aspects of life and not only the hollywood-shaped love part. You´re not depressed, you are distracted. Trust me, you'll find more. You just need to invest on yourself: read books, workout, learn new things, do some yoga, whatever but do something, in that way you'll find yourself crossing with other people. Learn to love them in the way that is not suffocating. Try to become more philanthropist. Work in all the other relationship you have with your family, with your friends. Take a look at Gianluca Vacchi for instances. That guy is in the same age as you are and is full of energy. Look at George Clooney, he just recently got married and he is older than you. Your age is not a problem nor a label that your life is over and from now on nothing special is coming now. Life is just beginning, John! Whatever you want in life will come to you if you change your attitude towards the bad moments. You could read these books: -Man's search for meaning (so you can see the experience of someone who went through the worst phase of mankind and still developed an optimist attitude in life) -The Secret (so you learn about the power of the mind) facebook.com/Walter-Riso-in-English-212783652171648/ Check this page. If you happen to know spanish you could read some of his books. “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning Good luck and please choose to move on and be happy. You can do it, mate!
My husband is died 6 years ago, He was cancer and he was fighting for 10 years. I understand you John so, my heart was broken. But even in the darkest nights, the stars will always shine. Please don't give up. I write in my blog this is the link maybe you like it. Writing help me. elanemosdenorania.blogspot.com.es
Such a powerful song. We all face problems from time to time. To just lay here and let it all go and tell the world to GFY, even for a few minutes, is so important for individual sanity.
Quickly becoming one of my all time favourite Snow Patrol songs, saw them in Manchester and it was one of the best nights of my life. They didn't play Signal Fire then but it still remains my favourite emotion invoking Snow Patrol song. Also met Gary once in a bar in Ireland unbelievably nice person. Undoubtedly best band ever in my opinion.
this song is so special. I love it's process, the last verse. the acceptance. you could be happy, I hope you are. because I love you and you're not happy with me. I want you to go and be happy, because I love you. it gets me every single time. I love it.
I love Snow Patrol and aside from some songs by Sting, this must be the sweetest and saddest love song ever written. Parting ways with the love of your life yet genuinely wishing, hoping, and encouraging the best for them.
🥺🥹 every time. Brings back a very hard time in which my daughter our family home and didn't want anything to do with me this track the words thank you for not making me alone during that yime
You could be happy and I won't know But you weren't happy the day I watched you go And all the things that I wished I had not said Are played in loops 'till it's madness in my head Is it too late to remind you how we were But not our last days of silence, screaming, blur Most of what I remember makes me sure I should have stopped you from walking out the door You could be happy, I hope you are You made me happier than I'd been by far Somehow everything I own smells of you And for the tiniest moment it's all not true Do the things that you always wanted to Without me there to hold you back, don't think, just do More than anything I want to see you, girl Take a glorious bite out of the whole world
This is the only song that takes me right back...not physically...but inside to the depths of my heart and soul where it happened. That one soul tie (and then tear) that I have accepted that I will never recover or heal from. It just wasn't time.........maybe next lifetime.
This song...this version. It made me remember of my ex. She has been killed three years ago. Last time I saw her, we discussed, and she told me that I was the worst person she could ever find. All I remember are all her plans and future, that GLORIOUS BITE OF THE WHOLE WORLD she could not have. I will always love you...
The love of my life, my best friend left me last week and it's killing me. The pain I feel now is more than I can live with, and I can't live without her. All I pray is that we may reconnect but she's cut me out of her life. There's no light at the end of the tunnel for me but all I want is for her to be happy. Love is both wonderful and cruel and to all the others suffering I hope you all find the strength to carry on.
To be honest, I think the 50 persons that don't like this are crazy xD I really love this interpretation of a song I believe most of us can relate to. And I love how Gary jokes with people all over the concert.
This is like a manifestation song for me. Played it many years agi and an ex came back onto my life. A always visit this version of the song when i think of them and hope for the same agsin
I have heard this song for many years since I thought it was brilliant... but now, after all Had happen, this song takes part of this emotional breakdown I have been through. Somehow this song makes me recover what I left behind for a unfair love.
Hate how this song makes you cry every single time. Been six years since first hearing it with so many different lives but it will always hit home with the first instance that it reminds you of.
this song reminds me of my ex. a narcissist, who I walked away from and more painfully my son. you could be happy reminds of when I gave her everything but it just wasn't enough to fulfill her ego. I look back and it was the right thing to do now that I am happy and I have quality time with my beautiful little boy.. she never will be happy but could of been
I know that you have been watching this angel cake ever since I sent it to you. It has been my way of closing my eye's and picturing us for over a decade now. I wish I had sent it to you sooner! Always your muffin! xxxxxxxx
simplesmente linda, minha favorita a anos e eu nunca me canso de ouvir ela... triste mais retrata muitas realidades nas quais estamos sujeitos a partir..
Listening in 2024; the best track to fall asleep to; much love ❤
One of the most underrated songs ever
''Where is my mum? [Someone shouts to Gary] You don't sound like my mum... I'll take your love none the less. My mum is too shy to shout out but this is for my mum. It is not about my mum''
Epic.
Yes all boys love their mums.....a good thing (btw I have a son) so I know..especially since he is an only child
This song is special between me and my first (and only) love. Were not together, met in 06, parted in 11, met again in 17' in secrecy, she left again sadly 10/02/20 but she is my only experience of, knowledge of and memory of love..the words ring so true, from the times I've wondered if il.ever see her again to the times I've held her to the times she's once again disappeared. Jan il always love you x
So very sweet ❤
ry sse
2022 and still listening- no sadder words than "you could be happy and I won't know"
Still true in 2023
Still true in 2024 and we aren't even in that year just yet.
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@@jesua_chvgar we are now... and they still are.
@@jorgecuevas3786 and yet they still are in these very moments, saw something shattering.
The complete silence of the audience speaks volumes. So much respect and emotion.
Here in Brazil, the people will sing loudly until the troat hurt and lungs explode. 🤣
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"you could be happy and I won't know" saddest line..hands down snow patrol
Yeah
It's 2020. Still listening to this great song.
I mean, it’s still good lol.
2021 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
And in 2021
2021
I found this song coz of Gavin and Stacey
Some songs capture a very specific mindset/emotion in everyone's lives. This is one of them
This song's got me missing exes I don't even have
Ha ha :D
:)
It happens u.u
Dom Shaw haha, I only miss my ex boyfriend, but I get what you are saying.
Rofl
2023. Heartbreak brought me back.
This song is helping me get through my break up with my girlfriend of 3 years. She wasn't happy anymore in the relationship. And the only way to give her that happiness back is to let her go. And even know I love her dearly and it hurts me so much to this day, it was the right thing to do. "You could be happy, I hope you are."
Top man. Had a similar experience.
Thanks man. Hope you manage to find peace and get over your own break up.
I went through a similar experience. You'll never forget her but in time you will find someone that you make happy and makes you happy. I have , took three years. It gets better in time .
Fight Library You came all this way to say that? I'm sure you were trying to be jovial but hey ho, different people, different times, different emotions. I'd use the term 'grow a pair' to suggest you growing a pair of neurons that function in the capacity of sensitivity towards the plight of others. Be good, be happy.
+randyratamacue I feel you. My ex boyfriend broke up with me after 4 years and 11 months. A month before our 5th anniversary. He wanted to focus on himself and though it terribly hurts, I can't do anything but let him be. 'Without me there to hold you back, don't think, just do."
This song killed me years ago, I avoided it to stop thinking about someone now far away
2024 anyone else here?
No
2024, 2025, 2026, 2027…
Yes
Yeah, am here
Je suis là !!!
Ugh. Why did I do this to myself? This song ALWAYS makes me cry. It's such a sad song, but I like that it's about lost love and regret without being whiny or angry.
Nailed it
Me too😢😊
Its hard to find quality music today but snow patrol is an exemption. Pure class .Thanks guys
I am sitting here in a pub in rural France, as I need to use their wifi. The woman I had waited all my life for, ended our relationship yesterday. It's so hard listening to this song trying to hold back my tears, not bringing attention to myself. Not that I care too much. I don't care at all, in fact. You see, although I might have reached the lofty age of 50 years, finding and losing True Love in little over a year; which was caressed and nurtured by the only woman I have ever completely loved with my all of my heart and soul, is painful as hell. 'Old age' was never supposed to hurt like THIS... be like - THIS. If you ever happen to read this my sweet Kazzy, just remember YOU WERE MY ONE. I am not here to play the 'victim' - but I am here trying to tell you that you were, and always will be - the Love of my Life. I told you so many, many times. And despite all my failings, you will always know that. You will take your final breath, always knowing - THAT. I will take mine knowing the same. No one will ever love you like I loved you, my darling girl. You Made Me Happier, Than I'd Been - By Far. Perhaps now I'm gone and without me to hold you back, you might go on to one day find the happiness I couldn't give you. My only actual failing was that I loved you too much, and because of that, I sometimes got my love for you all bent out of shape. Now you're gone, I will never find a love to come anywhere as close. Not remotely. I'm not sure I have the heart to even try again. You showed me what life was like at the top of the mountain amongst the most rare and purified air, and I will never breathe it again. For from now on, I will only choke sharing what everyone else has to breathe. I Love You so much. I Miss You even more, if that is possible. 831 & 831, My Princess. xxxxxxx P.S. My tears come now. Hard.
such lovely words & sad xx
Lovely words and sad. I know the way you are feeling, but Don't give up
I have all but given up, Toni. I am walking around like I am alive but it's an illusion because inside, I have died.
Don't give up. Life is extremely hard; but it has been this way since forever. 2 years ago I went through a heartbroken moment where I crumbled. I didn't know what to do back then and after all these years I haven't figured out what's the path one must take in order to move on from these moments; the only thing I do know now is that it led to me better things because of the attitude I choose (even though I choose it a year later, but that was my case, not yours). That is to come stronger and survive from these things, for I wanted to pursue all the things that life offers. If this relationship didn't worked out is probably because you weren't ready. You need to understand that in order to love someone else you need to love yourself first, because otherwise, how can you give love to someone else if you don't even love yourself. You need to focus on yourself, on your dreams, on getting back on track to the meaning of your life; trust me is not another person the meaning of life but something bigger than me and you. I read that you said that you're only failing is that you loved her too much, but that sometimes can be suffocating and can kill a relationship. Forget all that Romeo and Juliet crap of loving someone so much you'll die for them. Those kind of relations only last for a few days. The real love is the where your couple is your life partner, someone with whom you'll learn to find a balance in order for you to explore all the aspects of life and not only the hollywood-shaped love part. You´re not depressed, you are distracted. Trust me, you'll find more. You just need to invest on yourself: read books, workout, learn new things, do some yoga, whatever but do something, in that way you'll find yourself crossing with other people. Learn to love them in the way that is not suffocating. Try to become more philanthropist. Work in all the other relationship you have with your family, with your friends. Take a look at Gianluca Vacchi for instances. That guy is in the same age as you are and is full of energy. Look at George Clooney, he just recently got married and he is older than you. Your age is not a problem nor a label that your life is over and from now on nothing special is coming now. Life is just beginning, John! Whatever you want in life will come to you if you change your attitude towards the bad moments.
You could read these books: -Man's search for meaning (so you can see the experience of someone who went through the worst phase of mankind and still developed an optimist attitude in life)
-The Secret (so you learn about the power of the mind)
facebook.com/Walter-Riso-in-English-212783652171648/ Check this page. If you happen to know spanish you could read some of his books.
“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Good luck and please choose to move on and be happy. You can do it, mate!
My husband is died 6 years ago, He was cancer and he was fighting for 10 years. I understand you John so, my heart was broken. But even in the darkest nights, the stars will always shine. Please don't give up. I write in my blog this is the link maybe you like it. Writing help me. elanemosdenorania.blogspot.com.es
Everyone is posting stuff about their boyfriends or girlfriends,im just here like well this is a great song.
Joselyn Ramirez it is because almost everyone can relate to it. And yeah it is a truly awesome song
Such a powerful song. We all face problems from time to time. To just lay here and let it all go and tell the world to GFY, even for a few minutes, is so important for individual sanity.
Still listening to this beautiful song 2023😅.
Beautiful song. Beautiful voice. Beautiful man. A kind-hearted one he is.
🥰💌💌💌 Hi pretty
My daughter Lexi loved this song and I am sure she still does
xo mom
"I'll take your love none the less..." 😁😍💓👍
🥰🥰🥰
Quickly becoming one of my all time favourite Snow Patrol songs, saw them in Manchester and it was one of the best nights of my life. They didn't play Signal Fire then but it still remains my favourite emotion invoking Snow Patrol song. Also met Gary once in a bar in Ireland unbelievably nice person. Undoubtedly best band ever in my opinion.
Thunderpunch77 I so envy you for getting the chance to meet Gary. So cool you had that experience. And I love Signal Fire too, also Dark Roman Wine.
Oh man I just love this song. This so touches my heart..I need love in my life and deserve to be happy..I just love Gary's voice..just love him ❤️
Brings back a very hard time in which my daughter our family home didn't want anything to do with me and mom
The version of this amazing song is the most beautiful and touching thing I have EVER heard!
this song is so special.
I love it's process,
the last verse.
the acceptance.
you could be happy, I hope you are.
because I love you and you're not happy with me. I want you to go and be happy, because I love you.
it gets me every single time. I love it.
I love Snow Patrol and aside from some songs by Sting, this must be the sweetest and saddest love song ever written. Parting ways with the love of your life yet genuinely wishing, hoping, and encouraging the best for them.
Gary is super charming.
It's so painful when you hope your ex is happy, even though you know you can't be the one to make them happy anymore
🥺🥹 every time. Brings back a very hard time in which my daughter our family home and didn't want anything to do with me this track the words thank you for not making me alone during that yime
this is one of the saddest love songs ever...I love it.
😍😍😍💌💌 hi friend
This will never get old, 2018 and still feels like the first time I’ve heard this song, love Snow Patrol
Juste , mon meilleur moment musical en ce moment ! Merci
You fellas make Jesus look GOOD!!! HOLY KISS BELOVEDS 🥲
This is the best version of this song!
This show would be the most wonderful show of my lifetime 😊
You could be happy and I won't know
But you weren't happy the day I watched you go
And all the things that I wished I had not said
Are played in loops 'till it's madness in my head
Is it too late to remind you how we were
But not our last days of silence, screaming, blur
Most of what I remember makes me sure
I should have stopped you from walking out the door
You could be happy, I hope you are
You made me happier than I'd been by far
Somehow everything I own smells of you
And for the tiniest moment it's all not true
Do the things that you always wanted to
Without me there to hold you back, don't think, just do
More than anything I want to see you, girl
Take a glorious bite out of the whole world
This song makes me cry a lot. Love conquers all. No regrets
I love this song and Gary's version is fantastic, so sweet, and soothing. Thank you for sharing!
😍😍😍💗
I think this is my favorite recording of this song so far.
🥰🥰😘💗
it's 2023. i'm still listening to this. forever sp x
This is really a beautiful song and I am amazed that more people do not know it !
This is the only song that takes me right back...not physically...but inside to the depths of my heart and soul where it happened. That one soul tie (and then tear) that I have accepted that I will never recover or heal from. It just wasn't time.........maybe next lifetime.
So relevant to me right now 💔😓
this song made me have an emotional breakdown once. lol
me too 😘
First time I heard lost cause by Beck I had to pull over my car and sob for my gf who had ruined her life with heroin
Dirk Diggler :c
This song...this version. It made me remember of my ex. She has been killed three years ago. Last time I saw her, we discussed, and she told me that I was the worst person she could ever find. All I remember are all her plans and future, that GLORIOUS BITE OF THE WHOLE WORLD she could not have. I will always love you...
Makes me cry. Emotions are very powerful. Better to love unconditionally than live in regret.
The love of my life, my best friend left me last week and it's killing me. The pain I feel now is more than I can live with, and I can't live without her. All I pray is that we may reconnect but she's cut me out of her life. There's no light at the end of the tunnel for me but all I want is for her to be happy. Love is both wonderful and cruel and to all the others suffering I hope you all find the strength to carry on.
I've been trying to find my love after she left it's been 3 years and I'm thinking I need to let go
A song that both breaks me and heals me
After 12 years with the only women I've ever loved it came to an end. 18 months on I still can't let go off her, this song sums everythin up.
That one hit hard 💔To love is to live. Don’t stop living ❤️
Great track from a great band, very emotional song and always worth a view
This is so beautiful and my favorite song of all times andi I'm old .but the best ever❤
Uy no saben cuánto lo amo, tengo 15 años escuchando su música ❤ LO AMOOO
This song makes me cry so much. I think that whoever listens to this song; the person they care for comes to mind..
Still listening ❤
To be honest, I think the 50 persons that don't like this are crazy xD I really love this interpretation of a song I believe most of us can relate to. And I love how Gary jokes with people all over the concert.
2021.. and still this :)
Hi pretty, nice to meet you
I miss you.
The extended version of this song just... perfects a great song.
I hope you are happy. I'll always love you, John.
I'm literally crying right now
If you ever Happen to see this
2913...🖤
Awesome song by an awesome and underrated group - Snow Patrol.
Those words touched my heart 😩💔.
toujours un plaisir de redécouvrir cette magnifique musique
Невероятно красиво. Просто нет слов.
Not A Sound Of A Pin Drop From The Audience As We Listen To The Lyrics of This Song...👏👍🏼....Love Snow Patrol Music
This is like a manifestation song for me. Played it many years agi and an ex came back onto my life. A always visit this version of the song when i think of them and hope for the same agsin
Listening to this and feeling like crap. I miss you so much and wish we were still together.
It hurts so bad, it always hurts. I feel dead inside.
Spent the entire day crying playing this song over and over and over. I'll always Love you Maddie and hope you set the world on fire 💔
🥰🥰🥰💌
I have heard this song for many years since I thought it was brilliant... but now, after all Had happen, this song takes part of this emotional breakdown I have been through. Somehow this song makes me recover what I left behind for a unfair love.
Hate how this song makes you cry every single time. Been six years since first hearing it with so many different lives but it will always hit home with the first instance that it reminds you of.
Yes evertime Iisten to this I cry
Yes crying
Yes..😢
Can't shake that it's been 12 years and this has 1.4 million views. I mean feel sorry for the world !
My Awesome son Tavis J Taylor shared his fv song & group Snow Patrol with me. Love love Love it:)
I love this song! It has helped me through some difficult times
Hi pretty 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I could be happy, but the pain my love would always be there. I bleed for you
Hi pretty 😘😘😘💗
I'll take your love none the less, love that he opens with this for such a beautiful sad song. Thankyou xx
Gives me goosebumps. WOW
The melody is so gooooood
All hat off. Silent reverence before such creative miracle.. Thank you for all SNOW
Omg that voice.... Xxx
So pretty😊💕🌟
Hi pretty, nice to meet you
My heart beat loves this song. We take for granted the simplicity of love.
Such a ludicrously sad song
Beautiful
Beautiful song
I really don't know how can he sing this song and not cry a lot like me when i listen to it.
never gets old cuz it is so good... dear lord...
Hi pretty friend 🥰🥰🥰
this song reminds me of my ex. a narcissist, who I walked away from and more painfully my son. you could be happy reminds of when I gave her everything but it just wasn't enough to fulfill her ego. I look back and it was the right thing to do now that I am happy and I have quality time with my beautiful little boy.. she never will be happy but could of been
am in same situation. good luck with everything
Heard this on Gavin & Stacey and OMG! such a lovely song
I'm in love with this song.
Really, beautiful...
Mmmm , this song is awesome. Youth . ❤
Amooo essa música ❤❤
You could be happy, I hope you are... love u
I know that you have been watching this angel cake ever since I sent it to you. It has been my way of closing my eye's and picturing us for over a decade now. I wish I had sent it to you sooner! Always your muffin! xxxxxxxx
If you are coming home i will leave a light on❤
You could be happy, I will always love you
Oh gosh this is the best version I have ever heard 😭
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💗💗💗💗💌
simplesmente linda, minha favorita a anos e eu nunca me canso de ouvir ela... triste mais retrata muitas realidades nas quais estamos sujeitos a partir..
🤗🤝🤝💌