Katya Zamolodchikova Toxic Masculinity and Sexual Violence

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  • @amygdala9679
    @amygdala9679 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2032

    This human is so unbelievably kind and smart and compassionate. Everytime, I am baffled how he puts things into words and talks so openly. What happened to him was not okay. What happpens to men and women all over the world is not okay. No matter the circumstances - rape is not okay.
    There's so much I wish I could talk to him about.
    But if there is one thing I would want him to know, it's what is written on his shirt: "I love you so much"

    • @gloomyghosty
      @gloomyghosty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      i agree with everything you said

  • @_.mlik_
    @_.mlik_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2164

    it’s so nice to hear her talk without being interrupted 😭😭😭😭

  • @tammiedodgers2984
    @tammiedodgers2984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +896

    There needs to be more discussion about toxic masculinity, I'm so thankful that Katya is speaking up about it.

    • @TheSpaceman332211
      @TheSpaceman332211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I disagree. Ever since we started moaning about men acting like men (their natural behaviour) it has opened a can of worms. Their confidence, resilience and mental health has gone downhill big time. It's good for them to be strong, masculine & full of testosterone. It's makes coping with life easier.

    • @oliviavanallen9935
      @oliviavanallen9935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We also need to talk more about toxic femininity.

    • @abderraoufselmani
      @abderraoufselmani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@oliviavanallen9935 social toxic femininity.

    • @marieantoinette4816
      @marieantoinette4816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheSpaceman332211 I agree. Men are afraid to be men now and it saddens me

    • @tabbymoonshine5986
      @tabbymoonshine5986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Men aren’t afraid to be men 😂 they are terrified of being held accountable for deeply damaging behaviors that we have constructed and allowed to be framed as ‘masculine’.

  • @Unicornprincess2001
    @Unicornprincess2001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    The most intelligent, kind, and pure human. Thank you for speaking out and helping others. Our world needs to change; love you katya

  • @amazingolli
    @amazingolli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I want- no NEED- a book exclusively written by Katya. I'm continually amazed by her wisdom and ability to articulate issues without it sounding preachy.

    • @mar35962
      @mar35962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YES

  • @bgen8889
    @bgen8889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    i’m so happy he talked about this i’m very late but this makes people like me who didn’t get assaulted in a movie type of way feel validated because no MEANS NO NO MATTER WHAT and so many other things mean no as well ugh it makes me so sick and i hate that Brian had to experience it :(

  • @JocoloLP
    @JocoloLP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    0:40 I'm fully convinced that the full sentence would have been "I don't wanna get sidetracked and I have the attention span of a goldfish"
    But we got sidetracked LOL

  • @RoLee705
    @RoLee705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I love how she started by asking the chat how to hide the chat. 😂

  • @addangel
    @addangel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    oh my gods this spoke straight to my heart. could I admire Brian any more than I already do? his intelligence and emotional maturity seem to be never ending.

  • @oysterhunter276
    @oysterhunter276 7 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    He's so thoughtful and compassionate...

  • @llllll4077
    @llllll4077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    I love how he’s pouring out his soul AND BELCHING.

    • @QuinnCBeauty
      @QuinnCBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      whilst eating fried pickles

  • @franzliszt8090
    @franzliszt8090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    this is so relevant today. oh my god

  • @websurfer8041
    @websurfer8041 6 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    katya has such a kind soul. her and courtney have to be my fave queens, i respect both of them so much for always speaking out to help others.

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968
    @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    his story made my whole body tense up :( i wanna hug him for hours

  • @s_.777
    @s_.777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i could listen to katya talk about anything, she is seriously so smart

  • @beatrizvalentimcaria9280
    @beatrizvalentimcaria9280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    so sad to know that we’re still having those conversations today and so many people just cannot listen and try to understand

  • @rowan4308
    @rowan4308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    10.57 "I don't have any tattoos" haha if you could see yourself now.

    • @eternalconfusion6226
      @eternalconfusion6226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      yeah he put up with the pain for the sake of the aesthetics and self expression.. like wow

    • @Donyalicious
      @Donyalicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@eternalconfusion6226 i thought he said he got them while he was either relapsing or psychotic or something and didn't feel a single one of them

    • @eternalconfusion6226
      @eternalconfusion6226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Donyalicious interesting information... although it raises a few questions about the tattoo artist's work ethics. Well at least he was spared that pain... And I hope now he likes them and feels that they express his personality.

  • @twigthewonderk1d
    @twigthewonderk1d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    this made me so sad, too many people have been through these similar experiences and it's so gross. i just wish no one ever had to go through this.

  • @jeanbean921
    @jeanbean921 7 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Sweetest human being I swear💕

  • @paperseatbelt
    @paperseatbelt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Too many of us experience this. And too many of us never talk about it. This really is so important to talk about. ❤️

  • @GlitterNGlueGuns94
    @GlitterNGlueGuns94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I really enjoy listening to katya talk. Very calming and casual.

  • @isabeladarosa813
    @isabeladarosa813 6 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    he deserves the world❤

  • @CZ4E
    @CZ4E 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    So intelligent & every word carefully spoken

  • @batbabe1507
    @batbabe1507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I will love this human being until the day I die. Katya

  • @darcyadelle
    @darcyadelle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I love you Katya. Thank you for this.

  • @gloom0259
    @gloom0259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    The fact that this has to be discussed is disappointing and scary as hell..

    • @heather_857
      @heather_857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Still important for the conversation to be had, It is very disappointing though.

    • @gloom0259
      @gloom0259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@heather_857 most definitely. I hope these conversations are had more among parents and children in a healthy manner so we don’t have people disrespecting others, especially during sexual acts.

  • @morganbabineaux5550
    @morganbabineaux5550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    i didnt think i could have any more love and respect for this man but wow, r e s p e c t

  • @siennamccarthy-d9z
    @siennamccarthy-d9z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "the show is crunk, and lit, and turnt" i love it here xxx

  • @vanshikakar1501
    @vanshikakar1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    We've got some real talks here
    Appreciate Katya for his honesty and purity💓

  • @monikavec
    @monikavec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    this is so important. all the love.

  • @phoebejones8572
    @phoebejones8572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    This made me so angry I’m literally on the verge of crying.

  • @ashandspirit9736
    @ashandspirit9736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Understand and relate to so much in this without sharing my horror stories. Such a wise and relatable person.

  • @penguinworm
    @penguinworm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Katya is so introspective and kind

  • @Chibihugs
    @Chibihugs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love you, Katya! You are an amazing, inspiring human being! HUGS

  • @jimmytwo3998
    @jimmytwo3998 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Very intelligent , honest and helpful . Thankyou that really helped to solidify my values around sex xxx

  • @demondownpour4908
    @demondownpour4908 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Thank you katya.

  • @gabrielkolim
    @gabrielkolim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Such an important conversation!!

  • @clementine9810
    @clementine9810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i love him. what a wonderful human being

  • @pickybitch2707
    @pickybitch2707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love her so much and she is so right xxx

  • @lkcullen1918
    @lkcullen1918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    how am I *just now* seeing this what the heck

  • @wolfmoon9816
    @wolfmoon9816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Its only getting worse
    This disposable sex and being used as sex toy and being instantly expected as a traumatised person to instantly have sex without any sort of effort or support or even friendship with that scumbag person its so sick and I am beyond traumatised

  • @JacobSnell1998
    @JacobSnell1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love him so much. I really do.

  • @SusanDelgado1177
    @SusanDelgado1177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    i could listen to Katya read the phone book

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968
    @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ugh i love katya so much pls

  • @JojoOttey
    @JojoOttey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Your on it !!..We All need to take control of our selves ...

  • @OoohWeeeDoe
    @OoohWeeeDoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Goddamn this was super good! She is absolutely right!

  • @mar35962
    @mar35962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    isnt she the prettiest and the most amazing human to exist

  • @inayahcee3131
    @inayahcee3131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love him so much.

  • @brittlynwoods3314
    @brittlynwoods3314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yep. This happens way to often especially in the women community 😪

  • @daniellesoy
    @daniellesoy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this was awesome!

  • @insanusorbis1684
    @insanusorbis1684 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    he's so fucking right

  • @thepouletbrothers4711
    @thepouletbrothers4711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I fucking love Brian ❤️

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "I don't have any tattoos"
    Well that sure changed!

  • @a.b3748
    @a.b3748 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Relatable

  • @alexjohn1202
    @alexjohn1202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love him sm

  • @RainHavok1111
    @RainHavok1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    love ya Brian! Aka Katya

  • @faithpattison767
    @faithpattison767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this beautiful person

  • @zanicuh
    @zanicuh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would’ve started crying

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said 'hit it and compassionate quit it'

  • @danaekoloka9819
    @danaekoloka9819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Truest words

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I fkn love her

  • @harshumadhu22
    @harshumadhu22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Katya for president!... Of the world.. whatever..

  • @cultofdisbelief
    @cultofdisbelief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Adore Strangers with Candy!

  • @Ecutt
    @Ecutt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She went on to get so many tattoos after this :/

  • @ArielGemin1987
    @ArielGemin1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Try CBQ method program to help quit smoking after 20 years I was able to quit smoking with this program

  • @mirotiny
    @mirotiny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    10:51 the 69 tattoos on his body: ❓👄❓

  • @Cplm92017
    @Cplm92017 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crunk n Lit n Turnt 😂

  • @lola.cruz916
    @lola.cruz916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg that's awful😢

  • @dansuduhast1051
    @dansuduhast1051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I dont have any tattoos"???? Wait what ?

  • @keeleysmith911
    @keeleysmith911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “fried pickles”

  • @phoenyxbyrne2041
    @phoenyxbyrne2041 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I don’t have any tattoos”… girl, give it a few years.

  • @patricktrainor4959
    @patricktrainor4959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:10

  • @lailaalmasalkhi3151
    @lailaalmasalkhi3151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    MULAN!!

  • @karlt134
    @karlt134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Something for the Droolies in the home audience complaining:
    Watch Untouchable
    Jimmy Savile sexually abused children and adults
    Gary Glitter was arrested

  • @lornamiller1991
    @lornamiller1991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😍

  • @MrMountainchris
    @MrMountainchris 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hurt people hurt people.

  • @nope_no_nunya.
    @nope_no_nunya. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:06

  • @michaeljacksin9367
    @michaeljacksin9367 ปีที่แล้ว

    loves in need of love today

  • @persassyjackson1688
    @persassyjackson1688 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖

  • @Emjolein
    @Emjolein ปีที่แล้ว

    Fried pickles

  • @karlt134
    @karlt134 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    More stuff for the Droolies in the home audience complaining:
    News of the World was gone
    Watch Doctor Who Confidential
    Go to War

  • @sooddthisman
    @sooddthisman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    send samara ,,,evil comments will disappear ...mmwhahahah..

  • @alexandrajablon4190
    @alexandrajablon4190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MULAN😩

  • @brittanycrowe9167
    @brittanycrowe9167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awful 😣

  • @kyramainer3315
    @kyramainer3315 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    « Blue balls »

  • @casseyanzio2568
    @casseyanzio2568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg. 10 mins to get to the point. A long way to get to the point. Definitely a story teller.

    • @neu_dae
      @neu_dae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      the whole video was the point.

  • @Stefanbites85
    @Stefanbites85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    UGH so vulgar