Answering a vaccination question is tough for sure. My first daughter had a reaction to her first shots, so we delayed them, per pediatrician, for our 2nd & 3rd. When the second daughter got RSV, no one was allowed near our third. For sure, there are pro/cons on both sides.
I understand whatGarrick says about postpartum, as my hubby definitely felt it. The my body my choice I hear it but you are so right about the danger. I would take it as do I want more babies but not be present or be able to a mom, fully healthy for my current living kids. Which after losing my mom I would never do that to my young babies. Also the health risks even if you survive. Maybe several years later when your body is completely healed but I would say atleast 5 to 6 years as it takes a toll on body to be pregnant, give birth and the care for the baby too.
I love that hubby was honest about that because it’s true - our post partum DOES affect our partners in HUGE WAYS, which then affects our home life and kids lives. Acknowledging that is so healthy
I just love you guys. ❤ Your kids are so sweet. Please keep my family in your prayers my husband passed away Saturday evening and it's really been hard without him around. We were married almost 17 years.
Love the authenticity of your videos lately especially with Garricks response to pp feels. He’s really brave to express how he feels and it shows how much he’s grown !! And for you to accept and to include it in the video ❤ i love to see the growth
I respect you guys so much for listening to the doctor about not having anymore kyra from ok baby didn’t listen to her doctor and she had her baby early and she was bleeding a lot during the C-section
Garrick!!! Rofl... LOL.... You made my day with your facial antics. I could not stop laughing. You should do comedy. You and Zoe are very loving parents. God has been good to you both. Zoe, Your beautiful family is so blessed. Love you all! ❤ Hugs!!
Zoe, you and Garrick are doing an awesome job. You have what they call Millionaire's family times two. 2 boys and two girls. Your family needs their momma for years to come. Please listen to your doctor and your body about the health risk of getting pregnant again. I know it's hard when it's not your choice. I've lived through it. You'll adjust fine it will just take some time. What a blessing it is going to be to have your mom so close to you. I'm sure the kiddos are so excited 😊
I’m a new subscriber…..probably the oldest!😂 I have fell in love with your family. I pray Gods blessings on each and every one! My husband was 19 & I was 17 when we married. 51 years ago😊
I low key started crying when Garrick said it’s not your fault not very many males are understanding even when their not females that warmed my heart 💜
You have such a beautiful family and I love seeing you both thrive. Married young (or not) doesn't make the marriage. You both are doing amazing things and raising some wonderful kiddos. And you're making a difference out here from the goofy chats, the serious convos, and sharing a little bit of life with your viewers.
I know how you feel about having more kids and being your choice. At 28 I had to have my parts removed. I always wanted more kids but am so very grateful for the 3 I have. Know I get to enjoy my grandkids. Seeing her this Sunday for her 4th birthday. I don't really understand the question about good and polite kids. I raised 3 and got that question from strangers out in public and I would say what? I just raised them in a nice and polite way. I did not baby talk I would say please and thank you from day one I also respect my kids and the respect me. I just want to say I am proud of your mom. Our stories are a lot a like. The was a few years I had no contact with my daughter because I abused pain pills. I am in year 9 of recovery and have a relationship with all my kids and granddaughter.
It is not worth the risk at all. My friend’s bladder was cut on her 3rd c section. She thought she would be left with a bag for life but luckily it was taken out eventually. Xx.
You are very fortunate to have had the opportunity to have 4. I had blood clots in my leg and lungs with my 2nd. I got oldest boy and youngest girl. Developed blood clots at 7 months gestation, put on blood thinners and was put on bed rest. My mother decided to persuade me to get my tubes tied, it would have killed her to lose me if I tried for a 3rd and I died due to a blood clot. I didn’t fight her one bit due to her love for me and having a boy and a girl. Life was perfect as I knew it.
I wanted to have twins one boy and one girl and be done . Get want I want all at one time. But like you said God sometimes has different plans for us. I had my first son at 19 who is 39 . Then I had twin boys 7 years later who were 3 months premature and one passed away 7 days later. My youngest son is 32. Never got my litte girls but I would not trade my two sons for anything. I so very proud of who they are. And now God has blessed me with one grandson who is 7 now. And 2 step granddaughters who I always refer to as my granddaughters as if they were mine.❤
First I love you guys so much I’m currently 19 weeks pregnant and have been watching you since your first started you guys are such an inspiration and videos are so helpful. 🥰❤️
The ?about more kids . I was 26 when I had to have a hysterectomy and I've hated it ever since . There was no other options for me . I started my period when I was 11 and I think that play a huge roll in it . We did a partial but 2 mons later it had to all be removed . I remember it was such a huge loss for me . I always said kno one could stop me but GOD, unfortunately 😔 😪severe bleeding ,cysts , a few other major factors came into play . I had 2 healthy sons and fur babies . Glad you still may have the choice . But your kiddos need their momma so that's completely on you all to fig it out . YOUR JOTH AMAZING PARENTS REMEMBER TO GIVE THE OTHER THE GRACE YOU BOTH DESERVE 💯🇺🇲✌️
I hate that people always feel like they can't feel sad or upset about something because there's someone else in the world that might have it worse. There was a lot of hesitation when talking about feeling sad that you don't have a choice about having more kids, and I assume you were worried that you would sound ungrateful for the kids you do have, but that's not how it is at all. You're allowed to feel the things you feel and I wish more people felt comfortable discussing those feelings without worry about offending others who have nothing to do with the situation.
Been watching since Wilder was a baby! So happy for your new addition to the van clan ❤ 4 is a perfect amount, especially all being so close in age. Only advice id like to give is definitely do your own research with the vaccines! If you have time to watch the movie vaxxed its on TH-cam. Good luck adjusting to a family of 6, looks lime ya'll are doing an amazing job💕🙏🙏🙏
I have been watching you since I was 15 and I just recently had my 4th boy mom here so watching your story and your life has given me sanity and made me feel less alone
Love seeing Garrick along with everyone in the videos. Do you guys still have your animals? Can’t wait for the next video. Love you all and this channel ❤️🥰
I am sorry you can’t have anymore kids but I am struggling over her trying to have my second baby I have a 12 year old and have been trying and struggling since it’s so hard. I have pcos so it’s so difficult.
I live in Saskatchewan. First full day of high school a girl threw some kind of gas on a girl and lite her on fire. She's in bad condition as well as a few teacher's trying to save her they got serious burns too. Good bless the girl and hope she recovers
I sure hope you guys are packing up and leaving due to the hurricane coming right straight for you. I’m here in Bradenton Florida and I’m watching the report and I see that it’s coming towards Panama City so please be safe and travel northwest or north east to stay out of the line of the storms
My first baby was stillborn my drs told me if I got pregnant again it was a possibility I would have another stillborn however 5 years later I had a healthy baby boy. After I had him I ended up with a severe heart condition and the drs told me if I got pregnant again it could potentially kill me. I didn’t want to risk it so I got my tubes tied and now I always wonder what if but I’m very happy with the child I have plus I have 2 bonus daughters so my life is definitely blessed
My doctor told me when I became pregnant with my 4th son, absolutely no more babies. I had 3 c sections and would have to have a 4th, and he said I want you to be here to raise the babies you do have than no more babies. I am grateful I chose to allow my tubes to be shut down lol while I'm already in there for the c section bc I almost didn't make it through my last c section. All of us are different, and all our bodies are different. When your health is being jeopardized and being here for the babies you have had is super important. I fully understand, though, when it wasn't a choice you made. I could go on and on about this topic and the health care system. I'll leave it at that. Sending ❤️ to you and your family.
Zoe, I'm writing here because I'm so concerned about you all and the hurricane Helene and you guys live at the path in the panhandle. My prayers for you all❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Be safe if you want more kids use a host surrogate like the stars do it like that way it’s your kid just you just don’t have the risk of carrying the baby.
I had 6 kids. On my 3rd i had to have a c section and my bladder got cut! I had to have bladder repair surgery that same night! I had 3 more c sections after that!
Glad you are both and the kids are doing good . Correct me if I’m wrong but from what I understood is you can’t have any more pregnancies but could possibly have a baby through a surrogate if you wanted too??
Look into taking legal action against the doctor. I feel there may be something the drs are trying to cover up. Hopefully not but get that bag for emotional sake.
Take it from a person now in her 60’s with horrendous bladder pressure listen to your doctor, I’ve never been so uncomfortable in my life , I feel like I have a UTI everyday and it’s not fun 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
I had 4 c section 2 girls 2 boys and I can't have anymore like you said it sucks we didn't have a say what goes on with our body they said where they cut me it's getting to thin my last baby is 5 months 😢they grow 2 fast
I’ve been watching your family since you’ve been pregnant with Hazel and I truly feel like this is God’s plan and if you and your family still feel like God is calling you to have more kids, it may be time to circle back around to adoption ? I feel like this could be His way of calling you back to adoption
I loved, respected Garricks raw and real responses in this video. I always wonder how both feel. Its nice to hear it. Thank you both. ❤
Answering a vaccination question is tough for sure. My first daughter had a reaction to her first shots, so we delayed them, per pediatrician, for our 2nd & 3rd. When the second daughter got RSV, no one was allowed near our third. For sure, there are pro/cons on both sides.
RAW??? That’s hilarious!! You do realize that they are on camera!!?
All beautiful… all healthy.
Count your blessing…
1…2…3…4
Loved seeing Garick so much in this vlog! We haven’t seen him in a while. So so glad you guys are doing great❤
I can’t have kids and I did foster care and adoption. It’s an amazing experience and I hope yall look into those options if you still want more 🖤
I understand whatGarrick says about postpartum, as my hubby definitely felt it. The my body my choice I hear it but you are so right about the danger. I would take it as do I want more babies but not be present or be able to a mom, fully healthy for my current living kids. Which after losing my mom I would never do that to my young babies. Also the health risks even if you survive. Maybe several years later when your body is completely healed but I would say atleast 5 to 6 years as it takes a toll on body to be pregnant, give birth and the care for the baby too.
Trust me it is not worth the risk, the babies you already have need their healthy mama 💕 God has blessed ya’ll with 4 precious souls!
That’s her and her drs decision to make. Not yours
I love that hubby was honest about that because it’s true - our post partum DOES affect our partners in HUGE WAYS, which then affects our home life and kids lives. Acknowledging that is so healthy
Thank you for honestly answering questions. Wilder is looking more and more like Garrick.
Glad for you that Ocean is an easy baby so far, i hope she stays that way.
I just love you guys. ❤ Your kids are so sweet. Please keep my family in your prayers my husband passed away Saturday evening and it's really been hard without him around. We were married almost 17 years.
I’m so sorry for your loss
Sending love ❤❤❤
Love the authenticity of your videos lately especially with Garricks response to pp feels. He’s really brave to express how he feels and it shows how much he’s grown !! And for you to accept and to include it in the video ❤ i love to see the growth
@@Ksyla 🥹 thank you
I respect you guys so much for listening to the doctor about not having anymore kyra from ok baby didn’t listen to her doctor and she had her baby early and she was bleeding a lot during the C-section
Happy 1 month ocean 🌊 ✨❤
Garrick!!! Rofl... LOL.... You made my day with your facial antics. I could not stop laughing. You should do comedy. You and Zoe are very loving parents. God has been good to you both. Zoe, Your beautiful family is so blessed. Love you all! ❤ Hugs!!
Zoe, you and Garrick are doing an awesome job. You have what they call Millionaire's family times two. 2 boys and two girls. Your family needs their momma for years to come. Please listen to your doctor and your body about the health risk of getting pregnant again. I know it's hard when it's not your choice. I've lived through it. You'll adjust fine it will just take some time. What a blessing it is going to be to have your mom so close to you. I'm sure the kiddos are so excited 😊
Are the goats OK? Haven’t seen them in a while. 🐐 🐐
I’m a new subscriber…..probably the oldest!😂 I have fell in love with your family. I pray Gods blessings on each and every one! My husband was 19 & I was 17 when we married. 51 years ago😊
I think your husband is absolutely hilarious!
I low key started crying when Garrick said it’s not your fault not very many males are understanding even when their not females that warmed my heart 💜
Happy 1 month Ocean ❤ derrick was so into the question, nice to see , love you guys
The kids are so incredible, they’re all so well behaved and appreciate the little things 🩷 you guys are doing such a great job raising the kiddos !
Hazie bazie is getting so big I remember when she was born she is so cute and it's hard to believe that she is that big already
Hey vanclan,I was waiting patiently for your new vlog!! Love you guys ❤
You're the best!
You are a beautiful family and your doing a great job with those kids. They are absolutely adorable. And Wylder is so much Like Garick! So cute! ❤️😃
God bless you and your beautiful family . 🙏🏻❤️
You have such a beautiful family and I love seeing you both thrive. Married young (or not) doesn't make the marriage. You both are doing amazing things and raising some wonderful kiddos. And you're making a difference out here from the goofy chats, the serious convos, and sharing a little bit of life with your viewers.
I know how you feel about having more kids and being your choice. At 28 I had to have my parts removed. I always wanted more kids but am so very grateful for the 3 I have. Know I get to enjoy my grandkids. Seeing her this Sunday for her 4th birthday.
I don't really understand the question about good and polite kids. I raised 3 and got that question from strangers out in public and I would say what? I just raised them in a nice and polite way. I did not baby talk I would say please and thank you from day one I also respect my kids and the respect me.
I just want to say I am proud of your mom. Our stories are a lot a like. The was a few years I had no contact with my daughter because I abused pain pills. I am in year 9 of recovery and have a relationship with all my kids and granddaughter.
u should do a day in the life with 4 kids for the next video
It is not worth the risk at all. My friend’s bladder was cut on her 3rd c section. She thought she would be left with a bag for life but luckily it was taken out eventually. Xx.
You are very fortunate to have had the opportunity to have 4. I had blood clots in my leg and lungs with my 2nd. I got oldest boy and youngest girl. Developed blood clots at 7 months gestation, put on blood thinners and was put on bed rest. My mother decided to persuade me to get my tubes tied, it would have killed her to lose me if I tried for a 3rd and I died due to a blood clot. I didn’t fight her one bit due to her love for me and having a boy and a girl. Life was perfect as I knew it.
I wanted to have twins one boy and one girl and be done . Get want I want all at one time. But like you said God sometimes has different plans for us. I had my first son at 19 who is 39 . Then I had twin boys 7 years later who were 3 months premature and one passed away 7 days later. My youngest son is 32. Never got my litte girls but I would not trade my two sons for anything. I so very proud of who they are. And now God has blessed me with one grandson who is 7 now. And 2 step granddaughters who I always refer to as my granddaughters as if they were mine.❤
It’s all about positive reinforcement!
First I love you guys so much I’m currently 19 weeks pregnant and have been watching you since your first started you guys are such an inspiration and videos are so helpful. 🥰❤️
The ?about more kids . I was 26 when I had to have a hysterectomy and I've hated it ever since . There was no other options for me . I started my period when I was 11 and I think that play a huge roll in it . We did a partial but 2 mons later it had to all be removed . I remember it was such a huge loss for me . I always said kno one could stop me but GOD, unfortunately 😔 😪severe bleeding ,cysts , a few other major factors came into play . I had 2 healthy sons and fur babies . Glad you still may have the choice . But your kiddos need their momma so that's completely on you all to fig it out . YOUR JOTH AMAZING PARENTS REMEMBER TO GIVE THE OTHER THE GRACE YOU BOTH DESERVE 💯🇺🇲✌️
I hate that people always feel like they can't feel sad or upset about something because there's someone else in the world that might have it worse. There was a lot of hesitation when talking about feeling sad that you don't have a choice about having more kids, and I assume you were worried that you would sound ungrateful for the kids you do have, but that's not how it is at all. You're allowed to feel the things you feel and I wish more people felt comfortable discussing those feelings without worry about offending others who have nothing to do with the situation.
I'm so glad Hazel is liking tumbling I was thinking what about horse back lessons she seems to ❤animals she may like it😊
4 is plenty.
Been watching since Wilder was a baby! So happy for your new addition to the van clan ❤ 4 is a perfect amount, especially all being so close in age. Only advice id like to give is definitely do your own research with the vaccines! If you have time to watch the movie vaxxed its on TH-cam. Good luck adjusting to a family of 6, looks lime ya'll are doing an amazing job💕🙏🙏🙏
You should look into pelvic floor physiotherapy it can help so much not only for recovering moms but women in general
That Must Be Really Sad And A Very Big Decision I Am Proud Of You Guys
Hazel: 'Its Wednesday' Zoe: Your Tricking Me 😂
They could always adopt if they want one more❤
For Sure!
I have been watching you since I was 15 and I just recently had my 4th boy mom here so watching your story and your life has given me sanity and made me feel less alone
Love seeing Garrick along with everyone in the videos. Do you guys still have your animals? Can’t wait for the next video. Love you all and this channel ❤️🥰
Just my opinion, I think if you want more, it’s up to you. Just be careful.
I am sorry you can’t have anymore kids but I am struggling over her trying to have my second baby I have a 12 year old and have been trying and struggling since it’s so hard. I have pcos so it’s so difficult.
Awwww I love you guys and am so happy your is going to be around yall❤
Hazel Basil ❤is adorable
looove the mini me's of ur kids 😊😊 and i love the name ocean for the new baby
Garrick is a sweet guy and good daddy, Zoe you are a lovely mama to. Take care of each other to ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel you for the no more kids! I’m dealing a lot this pregnancy and it’s safer for me not to have more
I have been here since baby wilder and I hope everything goes well and ily god won’t give you anything u can’t handle
I live in Saskatchewan. First full day of high school a girl threw some kind of gas on a girl and lite her on fire. She's in bad condition as well as a few teacher's trying to save her they got serious burns too. Good bless the girl and hope she recovers
Hazel is so adorable. Good idea for gloves at the gas station
Theres always the option to adopt. I was adopted at 4 yrs old❤
Good morning all happy Tuesday morning to you and I enjoy your channel and you all amazing supporter
what happened to the chickens and goats?
I sure hope you guys are packing up and leaving due to the hurricane coming right straight for you. I’m here in Bradenton Florida and I’m watching the report and I see that it’s coming towards Panama City so please be safe and travel northwest or north east to stay out of the line of the storms
My first baby was stillborn my drs told me if I got pregnant again it was a possibility I would have another stillborn however 5 years later I had a healthy baby boy. After I had him I ended up with a severe heart condition and the drs told me if I got pregnant again it could potentially kill me. I didn’t want to risk it so I got my tubes tied and now I always wonder what if but I’m very happy with the child I have plus I have 2 bonus daughters so my life is definitely blessed
With my last baby the doctor cut my Bladder and had to put stitches in it.
That sounds painful..what was that for? I didn’t really understand what she was talking about
During my C-section she cut too deep and cut my bladder. It was a hard delivery because I was bleeding alot and my son was hard to pull out.
@@PinkPaws88 and it was a painful recovery
Ohh my gosh Garrick is soooo danggg funny my husband is sooo funny too lol 😅😂❤
This is a totally out of the blue question but did they ever tell what happened to the goats and chickens??? Did I miss something?
Love your vlogs!! 😊
As far as I know they've never said. Others are wondering too...
Hazey baze is such a little princess ❤️
I enjoy your vlogs. Beautiful family.
I had five csections. After my fifth, the doctor said, “Should we put a zipper in?” Lol!
Did you have any “windows” in your uterus?
I LOVE LOVE LOVEEE your blue sweater/shirt here, would you mind linking or just telling me where you bought it??? 😍😍😍💜
My doctor told me when I became pregnant with my 4th son, absolutely no more babies. I had 3 c sections and would have to have a 4th, and he said I want you to be here to raise the babies you do have than no more babies. I am grateful I chose to allow my tubes to be shut down lol while I'm already in there for the c section bc I almost didn't make it through my last c section. All of us are different, and all our bodies are different. When your health is being jeopardized and being here for the babies you have had is super important. I fully understand, though, when it wasn't a choice you made. I could go on and on about this topic and the health care system. I'll leave it at that. Sending ❤️ to you and your family.
2 boys 2 girls here sibling wise ❤
What happened to all your animals? Goats etc…
Zoe, I'm writing here because I'm so concerned about you all and the hurricane Helene and you guys live at the path in the panhandle. My prayers for you all❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I hope you are all ok after the hurricane. I don't know what part of FL you are in. I am praying for your family's safety. 🙂💜🍀🧚🌅🌈
I had 2 boys then my 2 girls. You have a perfect family
Love your family.
Garrick Cracks Me Up
Hahahaha your husband is funny 🤣
There’s numbing cream that you can bring to the tattoo shop so it won’t hurt on the bone
I just love you guys.
I LOVEE y'alls tattoos btw🖤
Hazel is so stinkin' cute 🥰❤
Be safe if you want more kids use a host surrogate like the stars do it like that way it’s your kid just you just don’t have the risk of carrying the baby.
Garrick’s so funny dude
lol the goofy Garrick vibes
I had 6 kids. On my 3rd i had to have a c section and my bladder got cut! I had to have bladder repair surgery that same night! I had 3 more c sections after that!
Soooo danggg cute love y'all' ❤😂
Glad you are both and the kids are doing good .
Correct me if I’m wrong but from what I understood is you can’t have any more pregnancies but could possibly have a baby through a surrogate if you wanted too??
Your kids r soadorable so kissable❤❤
How are your animals adjusting to the new baby
Hazel touching pads 😂😂
Look into taking legal action against the doctor. I feel there may be something the drs are trying to cover up. Hopefully not but get that bag for emotional sake.
If you get this are you and your family alright we are concerned in Michigan prays for and your family talk to us let us know if you're okay 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🎉🎉
Both she happy what you got hun now
You guys could wear masks in public
Take it from a person now in her 60’s with horrendous bladder pressure listen to your doctor, I’ve never been so uncomfortable in my life , I feel like I have a UTI everyday and it’s not fun 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
After my first baby was born a year ago I had to have an emergency hysterectomy right after she was born.
Garrick is so funny...
I had 4 c section 2 girls 2 boys and I can't have anymore like you said it sucks we didn't have a say what goes on with our body they said where they cut me it's getting to thin my last baby is 5 months 😢they grow 2 fast
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Yeahh I wan't another boy for my son 😢❤
Love ❤️ your videos
Love ya guy's
I’ve been watching your family since you’ve been pregnant with Hazel and I truly feel like this is God’s plan and if you and your family still feel like God is calling you to have more kids, it may be time to circle back around to adoption ? I feel like this could be His way of calling you back to adoption