I have to say I am very curious about you as a person. You don’t talk about your personal life too much, but I’m ok with it because I like what you show/upload. It’s very wise to not expose everything. Your personality is very likable and your videos are so cozy and enjoyable. Also, it is extremely admirable that you put you daughter first and did was was best for her by not moving her
You said that perfectly. I was single for 16 years raising my 2 boys. I am married now and I'm glad I waited bc I found out so much about myself. So good on you Marie ❤💚💜💙💛
I was single for 10 years after my divorce and i couldn’t stand people’s shock at that. It was annoying and rude. It was my decision and nobody’s business to judge. I don’t need no mans haha
I remember several years ago you mentioned in video (in your old house) that you were not open to dating because you wanted to be present in every moment of your daughter’s life. I always remember that moment, because I was overcome with absolute admiration and respect for you. And every video and day since then...you have proven what an incredible mom and woman you are. xo Amber
Craftygirl you don't owe anyone an explanation of your status. Being single is just a part of who you are. And no one should ever feel they have to explain who they are or why. I like you for you!
I genuinely hope you don't take this down. I know that you don't share a lot of your personal life and I completely respect that. But getting to know you like this is so wonderful. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us. I have been watching you for quite some time now (almost 4 years) and you're my favorite youtuber by a longshot. I have watched your channel grow and evolve. I was there when you stopped and came back. I saw what you went through. So, I know this is a big deal. So much love to you my sweet friend (I know we don't know each other but you feel like a friend to me) xo Allison
My dear your not alone about being single. I understand you do you. When you get into a place of happiness within yourself it doesn’t matter if you are single or not. I wish you the best, stay strong sister.
Thank you for being so open and real. I was single for 16 years, my choice, raising my kids. I don’t regret it at all. Met my soul mate at 58 and we have been together 8 years and couldn’t be happier. The best is yet to be!!
I give you SOOOOO much credit for raising a child on your own, I don’t think I would be strong enough to do it. And good for you for wanting to do something for you!!!! You go girl!!!!!
I am now single after 32 years of marriage. Our daughter is grown. Never thought Id be on my own BUT the past 14 months alone has been WONDERFUL! Yeah, its a struggle financially, but I can do what I want, when I want, no stress, just peacefulness. I won't remarry. Ill date; maybe at the max live with a man again but I live my independence. Dont be ashamed of being single! Take your time and do you! I'm in Marysville, so you can stay here! My Alexa does that too on occasion. Lol
Amen!!!!! I was a single mom when I was young, got married because society made me think this was the best plan. I am divorced now with two kids. My daughter is graduating university tomorrow and my son is 13. I so love my life now. I have my pets and my own place and bloody love it!!! Ty for the video!
Thank you for sharing. I was mom a 16 and it is very hard you give up so much but get so much too. Your decision to put your daughter first is one you'll never regret and I'm sure when she becomes a mom she will appreciate it even more. Hope you find the one and he appreciates you for the awesome person you are!
I think you made a great decision! I wouldn't want my daughter uncomfortable the last few years of living at home anyway! Let her enjoy these years! You're amazing Marie!
As Moms we always put our kids/families first. And we always put ourselves last There’s no guilt in looking after yourself. Take the time to look after YOU!
I admire how real you are. I have an only child also and really do love how you’ve put your daughter first to enjoy every moment with her. Your a great mom.
What an amazing women you are. A great example you are for your daughter. This is what a mother does. You are beautiful inside and out. God will bless you . Just relax Enjoy this time. Yes empty nest will come but it is also your time. Love you Marie . You are inspirational to many
It is so refreshing to see a woman put her child first & not desperately seeking to meet her own needs first! U should b very proud of yourself. Even though u are extremely independent it is nice to have someone that's got ur back,someone to Lebanon. Hope u find a great guy in the future-u deserve it!
I admire your devotion to your daughter. I was a single mom too! Motherhood is one of the most important jobs of all. Your happiness is what's important when you finish that job. Love you and your channels.
You are an amazing young women!! Strong and determined to live your life on your own terms! It appears you have been an amazing Mother and such a great example for your peers. You go girl!!!
I have never been able to just take care of me. My kids are grown, I met my husband in high school. He is great and all, but I crave independence. I live my life for him. You are a strong and amazing woman and mother!
I think it's great that you've taken this time to really get to "know who YOU are". You've been concentrating on your daughter and that is so admirable. I'm sorry that people feel entitled to know every detail of your personal life and that you now feel like you've been backed into the proverbial corner and have to give possibly more details than you otherwise would have. I agree that it wouldn't have been fair to the "new guy" to still be re-building your heart from the ex. You've come a long way....you've been hit pretty hard a couple times (that I've seen) through social media and you've come out so much stronger on the other side. Take care of you!
Yeah I noticed some commenters didn’t catch on during the initial vlog. I will say even I had an interest as to why you’re single when I saw the title but that’s because I relate to you in so many ways. I too am going through the single phase and my life revolves around my kids at the moment so I completely understand where you’re coming from. I had my 17-year-old at 20 and have a 9-year-old so it will be awhile before I open up and invest into another relationship. Not to mention my kids’ father completely traumatized me. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Hi lovey , I get it ! I had my daughter at 21 I never had those twenty’s fun ! I get that 100 percent! I separated from my daughters father when she was 3 ! And then had numerous failed relationships! And I too stopped dating for years ! She is now 25 and has her own child whom I just adore ! And I’ve met the man of my dreams and we are engaged! So I completely get this video ! And because of those choices you and I made I can tell you ! You will be great ! Trust me ! Your life is just beginning ♥️
You made me cry when you explained putting your daughter first. You are an amazing human being. You don't owe anyone any explanations. But thank you for your honesty. I really love your channels. ❤️ You also don't have an obligation to anyone to give details of your personal life.
You're our friend, I think that's why we get so curious about your life. You're a friend we 'visit' with but then we don't really know what's going on with you. I completely understand and respect not wanting intimate details of your life where anyone can see. I have followed you since almost the beginning, and you've worked hard and been responsible, but it's getting about time for you to have some fun. Do it.
Marie, it was neat to hear you open up a little more. You did it beautifully where you still stayed private but shared your heart. It’s ok to take time finding you and getting yourself grounded first to avoid future mishaps. A family member of mine was single for 16 years. Then found someone and been remarried for over 20 years now. So don’t worry about the time line. It’ll happen when it’s supposed too if you desire that. :)
I admire you for making this choice. As a single parent of 2 boys I went thru the boyfriend thing and it was not healthy for my boys. Eventually I just stopped and I enjoyed the independence of not having to deal with all their ba. You go girl! You are an amazing, intelligent and beautiful woman. I wish you all the happiness you deserve. Big love!
I love that you took the time to makes this video. One of the many reasons I follow you is b/c you are such a devoted Mom, just like me. Its not an easy job but I know our kids appreciate all we do for them. Enjoy your Mother’s Day weekend! 💐
You are absolutely an amazing mother. Everything you said was so heartfelt. Your daughter is so lucky to have a carrying mom and putting her first will surely show in her future. ❤️. You’re awesome girl! You’re a beautiful person inside and out.
Thanks for sharing. Your reasons make perfect sense to me. I think it's really smart to know yourself and be clear about what you want your life to look like. You are still young and have lots of life left to live. And you're so right about not being able to get those years back with your daughter.
As a single mom for over 10 years in the past, I know exactly what you are feeling. It can be very difficult and you are so much stronger than you might think you are. When I look back, I often wonder... "how did I do it"? But you just do what you have to do for your child. My daughter is now 35 and has 4 kids. You are so open about most of your life so whatever you want to keep private is up to you. But know this... you are an awesome, honest, giving person. You keep doing you and being the fantastic example to your daughter that you are!! much love and blessings! xo
Marie, that was .... very intimate. Very intimate and thank you so very much for sharing your story. I can tell even before this video, you have such self respect, love, confidence. You have standards and beliefs. And you seem to stick by them. And just those qualities alone, people will respect you for it. You absolutely did not have to explain why you’re single. It’s also not easy when being in a relationship with your baby’s father and still feeling like you’re a single mom. That’s how I felt with my first born’s father. Definitely not comparable to actually being a single parent! And I commend you and any single moms/fathers out there. It’s hard work. Love you and love your vlogs. You are one of the most interesting, eccentric vlogger on TH-cam land lol. Which has me coming back for more and looking forward to the next. Keep up the good work, Marie! Ps. Happy Mother’s day ❤️ and I’m sure your daughter knows how hard working and committed you are.
You are such a Amazing person. Thank you for opening up about your personal life. I've been with your channels for a very long time so I totally get why you pick and choose what to share. You are the a prime example of a great mother. I love your content and look forward to all your videos on both channels. You are my favorite TH-camr ❤️❤️❤️ love ya girl.
Marie, I love learning about you more! I think it is wonderful you chose to make your daughter the priority like that. I hope you enjoy all the fun to come too.
I think people look at me strangely. I'm 25 and am single and have no big desires to get married or have kids. If I meet someone and it happens, then it happens. However, I'm so content 99% of the time on my own.
Preach on..i can totally relate to you. I am a single mom of two boys. I been single for five years by choice as well to focus on my boys. Now that Am ready to date again, it's like I want a relationship having our own living space..i love my independence, cook when I wanna, watch what I like and come and go as I please. Thank you for sharing this because am happy to see someone that has my own views.
In this day and age when every youtuber shares every aspect of their lives with everybody, I find you completely refreshing and relatable. I watch because you're silly and funny. I completely understand why you would want to dedicate your time to your child. I wish I had been more like that when my children were growing up as they now are grown men with kids of their own and they had to teach themselves how to be good parents as they learned none of that from me. I love your regular content mostly because you don't vomit up every aspect of your life. But this was nice and concise. Best of luck to you in your life choices.
Sweet girl...you don't have to explain yourself. But we are honored to be here to listen any time. You are beautiful inside and out. Truly. Big Hugs from Napa my friend 🤗♥️
You are a very mature young lady and a very good mother. I am glad you felt you could share with us but you are right it is not anybody else's business. There is someone out there who is just right for you. I pray you can find him.
Okay, I have to say girl that you just blew me away with this video!!! I was soooo NOT expecting this to turn up here in your channel. This must have taken you a looong time to even consider speaking about it to all of us. Your story touched my heart. You know what? I really have to say Thank You. Thank you for sharing such a personal and intimate part of your life with all of us. I was so in tuned in every word you were saying. Almost as if I was there. Hey... I totally get it. I understood every detail of your life. You did a very selfless thing to raise your last 4 years of your daughters life with you in the same household by yourself without any interference. You needed to be totally just focused on her. And that's okay. It's more than okay it's a healthy awesome step you took. You can call it a breather. You took a breather from the whole "men chaos" to regroup yourself and concentrate on what was important to you. I like that. I more than like that, I think that was a very humble step to take for your daughters sake. Your just a very caring, and giving person. And that one word you used which describes me too..... LOYAL. That's right I'm loyal too. So I get it. I'm known to very loyal and trustworthy with others. My one true word is TRUST for me. I have a hard time trusting others. Probably because I've been burned so much, so I tip toe carefully around who I let in my circle. But you know what? I like you Marie. I never thought in a million years that I would yet get to see someone like me out there in this world. And you just proved me wrong. I would make a TH-cam channel but I don't know how. I wish someone could teach me. But then again I don't know if I could put myself out there. Like I said I got trust issues. Well, one little question sticks out in my mind... should I ask it? I don't want to push the envelope after you just spilled the beans with so much because I don't want to get pushy or greedy. But.... darn it! I'm nervous asking....let's see... how should I phrase this... well there's simply no other way to say but just to say it I guess. Okay, crap I'm nervous now..... Okay I'll ask it but you don't have to answer it of course, but I want to ask it so you'll know it's on my mind. Is the guy you thought was the one was he your daughters father? If not who's your daughters father and what happened there? I know , I know I'm asking to much. But hey at least I'm being honest with you. Okay I'm done, this is way too long and I'm so sorry for that but I just had to get my words across to you. Loved this video. It makes me feel like I know were your coming from a little more. Blessing and prayers to you, Yvette
Such a real video! Thank you for sharing that part of your life with us. If you ever desire to get married, I think the guy will hit the jackpot with you! Committing to yourself and your daughter has given you the awesome gift of a preserved heart. Your decision possibly kept you from a few broken hearts along the way. Again, great video.
I really feel you! I've been single since my divorce in 2004 and I love it. I also love my independence. I was married for 25 years and didn't marry him until I was 35...first time for me and for him. It all went downhill when he got out of the military and we came back home to Florida. Other women sealed the deal for me. I will never get married again and I don't date. I like my single life just fine. It suits me! What ever your future holds I hope it's absolutely the best! I loved this one Marie! Alexa was being rude!
Wow - our stories are similar. My son is 19. I am a single mom - father not in his life at all. Totally can relate to the mule in the dessert. I decided early on not to date cause I needed to do what was best for him. Thank you sharing your story. Nice to know they are other women out there. - Crystal
I'm not a single mother, but I am a young mother... You made me tear up.. because I feel the same way about my 10 month old little girl, You are such a wonderful person..inside, outside... Talking about your daughter the way you do.. my heart ♥️
Relationships are definitely hard and a lot of work for everyone, I think. It takes the right person to be willing to go through it all. Good for you. Making yourself happy is really all that matters. I’ve got to admit I’m a little jealous of your new found freedom. Your adventure starts now!
It’s not easy being a single mother. I remember going to my children’s school and I know exactly what you mean about feeling like an outsider. It takes great strength to be a single mom and you seem like a very caring mom. I agree that you have a right to keep your private life private: People are naturally curious but if you don’t want to share then everyone will have to deal with it. Love your videos.
Girl just say it, you want to party, travel, and live it up! I think what you are saying makes perfect sense! I had my first at 19, second at 21. Even though their father and I are still together, I totally get what you are saying. Us young moms didn't get any "me" time to live it up and have fun. My kids will be 9 and 11 this summer. As much as I love my family I am a little excited to have some fun too!
After my divorce I was single for 6 years and I chose that. I wanted to focus on my kids and most importantly myself. My marriage was a nightmare and caused a lot of trauma. There is nothing wrong with choosing to be single. Good for you!!!
Thank you so much Maria for sharing this very personal part of your life. My friends girls are in college and she is now dating a man who has 2 very small children. He didn't have his kids until he was in his late late thirties. She tells him that she will not move in with him or marry him until his kids are older. She told him that as much as she loves his kids she doesn't want to do the parental thing again. She told him that she raised her children while she was young and now is ready to have a life without having to worry about small children. He is so alright with that. Their relationship works. He loves her and she loves him. They allow each other to be who they are. It is great. She does go places with him and his children but she doesn't have to do all the things that come with being a live in parent. I have been divorced for 5 years and still have not dated. My ex was the love of my life and I can't imagine dating. I am so independent now. I still wear my wedding rings so that no one will hit on me. You do you girl...and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. It is great that you put your daughter first. Thank you again, God bless
I loved this vlog! Your story was very touching. I know it can’t be easy opening up on you tube, but I do enjoy your stories. I hope you have an amazing Mother’s Day!
You don't owe anyone any explanation 💗 thanks for being so sweet and honest! I'm wishing and praying all wonderful and happy things for you and your daughter!!!!
Same doll. I just turned 30 and have never been an adult without a child. My first came at age 16 and my 3rd came at age 27. And my husband wants another. I adore your story. Your sacrifice. You are 100% my mom idol!!!!
I’ve been married for almost 40 years, sometimes I don’t know why!. But do what’s best and right for your daughter and you, but thanks for sharing a little about you.. But whatever you decide to do I wish you the very best!!
I relate to this story on so many levels. I was always told you have to have a man. I've been single the last 3 years and I must say I LOVE IT ❤ my son graduates next year.
You don’t owe us anything personal, but it was a very nice video. I’ve always been single (no kids), and I LOVE having my own space. I wouldn’t give that up now, as I’m approaching retirement, but I might have if I’d met someone when I was younger like you are. I hope you stay on TH-cam as you proceed with your next life adventure. TFS!
You do not owe us anything!! Its ok for you to be single !! Very honorable of you to live for your daughter !! You will have a great life single or not you are a beautiful person inside and out!! Love your Videos!! Wishing you all the best!!
It's nice to hear of your dedication to your daughter. Wise plan. It's refreshing to know you feel worthy of yourself & you are not going to settle for less. By the way, "Settle for more" is a good book by Megyn Kelly. ( yes, the book is at dollar tree!)
Aww it's so good that you did that for your daughter..a true role model. Often times I see people who date while their kids are young and it's just sad since most of the time that person doesn't remain consistently in their life. You are so sweet to share your story. I'd love to see you do TH-cam forever ;)
Thanks Marie for sharing your personal life with us which you were not obligated to do. I've been married n had my only daughter @ 26 years of age. I was divorced n a single Mom for years. I'm already a grandmother n I have never had a desire to marry or date for over 20 years. I'm a practicing Evangelical Christian n I luv being single and the freedom that comes with it. I've seen friends get married for the 2nd time n their marriages turned out worse than the first one. But being independent n single has worked greatly for me n my life is a happy one too. But I agree totally with your thinking. May the Lord guide you n keep you n your daughter always. Wish you all the best.
Marie, I can't wait to see what the future holds for you and where you land!!! You are an amazing woman, and have done a wonderful job raising your daughter and supporting yourself and her, and look how much you have accomplished! Be proud! And as far as feeling the depth of a wonderful love....count yourself blessed! There are many people in the world who never experience it! I pray that there is a special someone out there for you who completely knocks your socks off and will allow you to be the strong independent woman you are! Love you much!!!💙💙💙
Your truthfulness will be a blessing to many. I love that you sacrificed for your daughter and you did a good job. Now is time to live for you. Please don’t stop TH-cam 😀. Proud of you and I don’t know you for real 😀. Happy Mother’s Day to you because you are a great mom and I pray your daughter realizes it💕
Hey my love.....I also hear you....I'm 47....very very similar situation...as women we need our time...as we see fit...not anyone else. ...or on societies time....thanks for sharing.....keep smiling!
I can totally relate. I had my first son at 17 and raised him as a single parent. However I started over when he was 24! Girl!! It’s HARD. I’ve STILL have never been to Europe. Boo! Come he’ll or high water I’m going in the next 24 months!
Your such an inspiration to me. So real , so brave, such a good mom. You are such a powerful woman. Alot of women put themselves last until they loose who they are or who they want to be. Its exhausting. Thank you for sharing this with us even though you didn't need to. Listening to your story helps me so much with my life. I wish I could be more like you. I'm 31 and really look up to you and your values. Xoxo
I totally know where you're coming from , I was a single mother at 21 and did the same you did . As my son went into High school I decided to focus on him for the last 4 years. I volunteered for every booster club event , football games , Wrestling and track. When he was 12thgrade wasn't looking but found the love of my love. I love you and your channel. Thanks for sharing part of your life that you didn't have to do. 😁
Hi Marie, I needed a smile today! I lost my Fur baby on Tues. Baby Blue just turned 10 on 4.30.19... I was not a single mom, but I was a mom at 16. That was over 46 years ago. I married my husband few months before our son was born. Few years later we had a daughter. So they are now 46 and 44. I know if I did not have my kids then, I would not of had any kids. I had a Hysterectomy at 21 my daughter was 18 months then. Things happen for a reason. I know God had a plan for us all. So here's to you doing such a great job on raising your daughter and to a great beginning for your new and future life. You have a lot of years ahead and you will be fine wherever you choose. Here's to wishing you the best in your future! Take care Kathy from California! ❤
Thank you for sharing, I know that was hard for you. There are a lot of us single moms doing the same thing. My first priority is my daughter and then maybe dating when she’s all grown up. I as well enjoy being able to do what I want and not have to worry what someone else would think. I look at it this way God will give me what he thinks I need and I’ll go from there but right now I’m enjoying my little girl.
Marie, you don’t have to explain yourself about being single. It’s fine! I enjoy your videos and you’re so sweet, funny, and down to earth. You put your daughter first and you’re such a good mom. Maybe when she is off at college, you’ll have time to do a few more things you dream of doing. Take it day by day, sometimes when you least expect it, love happens. For now, do what you feel in your heart. I love what you share with us. It’s enough. I have a daughter your age and I feel motherly towards you. You’re a beautiful lady inside and out....hugs and blessings....p.s. I know how some people perceive a young single mom, put it behind you. Look how far you’ve come. Keep your sense of humor and being single has many perks...give it time, it will come...travel now, don’t wait till you’re older...stay on TH-cam, love you! 🥰 I have weird relationship with Alexa, too, lol...
It's so cool to learn more about you. Your my TH-cam friend haha. But I do love all your videos and your personality. Your real and just you, I'm glad to have that in a very fake world. 😁
Nothing wrong with that. I am on my second marriage and we have been married for 22 years. But now my youngest is 17 and will be graduating soon and out on her own. It will now be time for me and my husband to really focus on us. When you have children, your life is completely wrapped around your children and all of their activities and lives but now that your daughter will be going off to college and being on her own this will give you time to reevaluate and focus on yourself. When our children are grown and living their own lives it will be nice to have someone to grow old with and enjoy doing things together. Even though I may be sad that my daughters are pretty much all grown up, I really do look forward to being able to do the things I want to do with my husband and having our time together as well.
Love your true and honest personality, good to know a little more about you not everyone is that open with there personal things. I think we are all beautiful in and out. Thanks for your opening to all of us.
It’s perfectly ok to be single. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.
I have to say I am very curious about you as a person. You don’t talk about your personal life too much, but I’m ok with it because I like what you show/upload. It’s very wise to not expose everything. Your personality is very likable and your videos are so cozy and enjoyable. Also, it is extremely admirable that you put you daughter first and did was was best for her by not moving her
You said that perfectly. I was single for 16 years raising my 2 boys. I am married now and I'm glad I waited bc I found out so much about myself. So good on you Marie ❤💚💜💙💛
You said everything I was thinking!!! Thanks for sharing Marie.
I was single for 10 years after my divorce and i couldn’t stand people’s shock at that. It was annoying and rude. It was my decision and nobody’s business to judge. I don’t need no mans haha
Paula Vlogs It I was single 10 years too after my divorce. Best 10 years of my life for sure.
I'm a single mom...my only child is 18 also!...I made the same decision as you!....I put him first!...I admire you for that!❤
I remember several years ago you mentioned in video (in your old house) that you were not open to dating because you wanted to be present in every moment of your daughter’s life. I always remember that moment, because I was overcome with absolute admiration and respect for you. And every video and day since then...you have proven what an incredible mom and woman you are.
xo Amber
Craftygirl you don't owe anyone an explanation of your status. Being single is just a part of who you are. And no one should ever feel they have to explain who they are or why. I like you for you!
I genuinely hope you don't take this down. I know that you don't share a lot of your personal life and I completely respect that. But getting to know you like this is so wonderful. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us. I have been watching you for quite some time now (almost 4 years) and you're my favorite youtuber by a longshot. I have watched your channel grow and evolve. I was there when you stopped and came back. I saw what you went through. So, I know this is a big deal. So much love to you my sweet friend (I know we don't know each other but you feel like a friend to me) xo Allison
My dear your not alone about being single. I understand you do you. When you get into a place of happiness within yourself it doesn’t matter if you are single or not. I wish you the best, stay strong sister.
I knew it was by choice. if you do become unsingle, he has hit the jackpot getting you. Love your channel. 💕 🐕 💕
Thank you for being so open and real. I was single for 16 years, my choice, raising my kids. I don’t regret it at all. Met my soul mate at 58 and we have been together 8 years and couldn’t be happier. The best is yet to be!!
I give you SOOOOO much credit for raising a child on your own, I don’t think I would be strong enough to do it. And good for you for wanting to do something for you!!!! You go girl!!!!!
We all know you’re moving to whatever state has the best $1 stores 🤣😂
Being single isn’t a bad thing! You are an amazing mother, you tuber, and person!! TFS.❤️
You are a very sweet and truthful beautiful person. Thanks for sharing what you did not have to. 🤗
It okey to be single!! I’m single for18yrs now! And I’m happy to be single love it.....😊
Loved your openness . There is nothing wrong with being single . That perfect person will come along if you so chose
it. I admire you ❤️
I am now single after 32 years of marriage. Our daughter is grown. Never thought Id be on my own BUT the past 14 months alone has been WONDERFUL! Yeah, its a struggle financially, but I can do what I want, when I want, no stress, just peacefulness. I won't remarry. Ill date; maybe at the max live with a man again but I live my independence. Dont be ashamed of being single! Take your time and do you! I'm in Marysville, so you can stay here!
My Alexa does that too on occasion. Lol
32 yrs tho!!!!!
Bless your heart, that's a hard road...
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Amen!!!!! I was a single mom when I was young, got married because society made me think this was the best plan. I am divorced now with two kids. My daughter is graduating university tomorrow and my son is 13. I so love my life now. I have my pets and my own place and bloody love it!!! Ty for the video!
Thank you for sharing. I was mom a 16 and it is very hard you give up so much but get so much too. Your decision to put your daughter first is one you'll never regret and I'm sure when she becomes a mom she will appreciate it even more. Hope you find the one and he appreciates you for the awesome person you are!
I think you made a great decision! I wouldn't want my daughter uncomfortable the last few years of living at home anyway! Let her enjoy these years! You're amazing Marie!
As Moms we always put our kids/families first. And we always put ourselves last
There’s no guilt in looking after yourself. Take the time to look after YOU!
You have a right to be single. We don't have a right to know anything you don't want to share. The very best to you!!!!!
I admire how real you are. I have an only child also and really do love how you’ve put your daughter first to enjoy every moment with her. Your a great mom.
I needed this as a newly single mom. ❤ Thank you for sharing.
What an amazing women you are. A great example you are for your daughter. This is what a mother does. You are beautiful inside and out. God will bless you . Just relax Enjoy this time. Yes empty nest will come but it is also your time. Love you Marie . You are inspirational to many
It is so refreshing to see a woman put her child first & not desperately seeking to meet her own needs first! U should b very proud of yourself. Even though u are extremely independent it is nice to have someone that's got ur back,someone to Lebanon. Hope u find a great guy in the future-u deserve it!
I admire your devotion to your daughter. I was a single mom too! Motherhood is one of the most important jobs of all. Your happiness is what's important when you finish that job. Love you and your channels.
I hope you continue you tube after your daughter graduates!! I would love to see what you do next!! I love your personality!! You Rock !
You are an amazing young women!! Strong and determined to live your life on your own terms! It appears you have been an amazing Mother and such a great example for your peers. You go girl!!!
Congrats for putting your child first. You earned your freedom and I wish you the best .
Nice of you to want to answer questions, but you don’t owe anyone anything. Just keep being you!
You did and are doing EXACTLY what Dr. Laura says is best for you and your child. Kudos - well done.
I have never been able to just take care of me. My kids are grown, I met my husband in high school. He is great and all, but I crave independence. I live my life for him. You are a strong and amazing woman and mother!
I think it's great that you've taken this time to really get to "know who YOU are". You've been concentrating on your daughter and that is so admirable. I'm sorry that people feel entitled to know every detail of your personal life and that you now feel like you've been backed into the proverbial corner and have to give possibly more details than you otherwise would have. I agree that it wouldn't have been fair to the "new guy" to still be re-building your heart from the ex. You've come a long way....you've been hit pretty hard a couple times (that I've seen) through social media and you've come out so much stronger on the other side. Take care of you!
Yeah I noticed some commenters didn’t catch on during the initial vlog. I will say even I had an interest as to why you’re single when I saw the title but that’s because I relate to you in so many ways. I too am going through the single phase and my life revolves around my kids at the moment so I completely understand where you’re coming from. I had my 17-year-old at 20 and have a 9-year-old so it will be awhile before I open up and invest into another relationship. Not to mention my kids’ father completely traumatized me. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Hi lovey , I get it ! I had my daughter at 21 I never had those twenty’s fun ! I get that 100 percent! I separated from my daughters father when she was 3 ! And then had numerous failed relationships! And I too stopped dating for years ! She is now 25 and has her own child whom I just adore ! And I’ve met the man of my dreams and we are engaged! So I completely get this video ! And because of those choices you and I made I can tell you ! You will be great ! Trust me ! Your life is just beginning ♥️
You made me cry when you explained putting your daughter first. You are an amazing human being. You don't owe anyone any explanations. But thank you for your honesty. I really love your channels. ❤️ You also don't have an obligation to anyone to give details of your personal life.
Your life your business. You don’t have explain , as long as you are happy with your life that’s all that matters.
I absolutely loved this. Even Alexa joined the tea party.
You're our friend, I think that's why we get so curious about your life. You're a friend we 'visit' with but then we don't really know what's going on with you. I completely understand and respect not wanting intimate details of your life where anyone can see. I have followed you since almost the beginning, and you've worked hard and been responsible, but it's getting about time for you to have some fun. Do it.
Your story just touched me! You have no idea how much you just helped me clarify things in my life. You have been great to follow. Thank you!
Marie, it was neat to hear you open up a little more. You did it beautifully where you still stayed private but shared your heart. It’s ok to take time finding you and getting yourself grounded first to avoid future mishaps. A family member of mine was single for 16 years. Then found someone and been remarried for over 20 years now. So don’t worry about the time line. It’ll happen when it’s supposed too if you desire that. :)
I admire you for making this choice. As a single parent of 2 boys I went thru the boyfriend thing and it was not healthy for my boys. Eventually I just stopped and I enjoyed the independence of not having to deal with all their ba. You go girl! You are an amazing, intelligent and beautiful woman. I wish you all the happiness you deserve. Big love!
I love that you took the time to makes this video. One of the many reasons I follow you is b/c you are such a devoted Mom, just like me. Its not an easy job but I know our kids appreciate all we do for them. Enjoy your Mother’s Day weekend! 💐
You are absolutely an amazing mother. Everything you said was so heartfelt. Your daughter is so lucky to have a carrying mom and putting her first will surely show in her future. ❤️. You’re awesome girl! You’re a beautiful person inside and out.
Thanks for sharing. Your reasons make perfect sense to me. I think it's really smart to know yourself and be clear about what you want your life to look like. You are still young and have lots of life left to live. And you're so right about not being able to get those years back with your daughter.
As a single mom for over 10 years in the past, I know exactly what you are feeling. It can be very difficult and you are so much stronger than you might think you are. When I look back, I often wonder... "how did I do it"? But you just do what you have to do for your child. My daughter is now 35 and has 4 kids. You are so open about most of your life so whatever you want to keep private is up to you. But know this... you are an awesome, honest, giving person. You keep doing you and being the fantastic example to your daughter that you are!! much love and blessings! xo
I was a young mom too and I totally understand what you meant by your exhausted. I really thought I was the only one.
Marie, that was .... very intimate. Very intimate and thank you so very much for sharing your story. I can tell even before this video, you have such self respect, love, confidence. You have standards and beliefs. And you seem to stick by them. And just those qualities alone, people will respect you for it. You absolutely did not have to explain why you’re single.
It’s also not easy when being in a relationship with your baby’s father and still feeling like you’re a single mom. That’s how I felt with my first born’s father. Definitely not comparable to actually being a single parent! And I commend you and any single moms/fathers out there. It’s hard work.
Love you and love your vlogs. You are one of the most interesting, eccentric vlogger on TH-cam land lol. Which has me coming back for more and looking forward to the next. Keep up the good work, Marie!
Ps. Happy Mother’s day ❤️ and I’m sure your daughter knows how hard working and committed you are.
You are such a Amazing person. Thank you for opening up about your personal life. I've been with your channels for a very long time so I totally get why you pick and choose what to share. You are the a prime example of a great mother. I love your content and look forward to all your videos on both channels. You are my favorite TH-camr ❤️❤️❤️ love ya girl.
Marie, I love learning about you more! I think it is wonderful you chose to make your daughter the priority like that. I hope you enjoy all the fun to come too.
I think people look at me strangely. I'm 25 and am single and have no big desires to get married or have kids. If I meet someone and it happens, then it happens. However, I'm so content 99% of the time on my own.
I liked your openness. I’m glad you decided to spend these years with your daughter. It’s exciting to anticipate what is next. Enjoy your life.
Preach on..i can totally relate to you. I am a single mom of two boys. I been single for five years by choice as well to focus on my boys. Now that Am ready to date again, it's like I want a relationship having our own living space..i love my independence, cook when I wanna, watch what I like and come and go as I please. Thank you for sharing this because am happy to see someone that has my own views.
Heck!! As a single mom, you nailed it!!!!!What about the career when you move??
C'mon..... more please...
In this day and age when every youtuber shares every aspect of their lives with everybody, I find you completely refreshing and relatable. I watch because you're silly and funny. I completely understand why you would want to dedicate your time to your child. I wish I had been more like that when my children were growing up as they now are grown men with kids of their own and they had to teach themselves how to be good parents as they learned none of that from me. I love your regular content mostly because you don't vomit up every aspect of your life. But this was nice and concise. Best of luck to you in your life choices.
At the end of the day, it’s your life, make it one you love! You deserve it! Best wishes to you and your daughter!
All the best to you in the next steps of your journey! You really do deserve it~
Sweet girl...you don't have to explain yourself. But we are honored to be here to listen any time. You are beautiful inside and out. Truly. Big Hugs from Napa my friend 🤗♥️
Girl! Just share what you are comfortable with! We just love you and we see what a wonderful person you are and all the love you have to offer.
You are a very mature young lady and a very good mother. I am glad you felt you could share with us but you are right it is not anybody else's business. There is someone out there who is just right for you. I pray you can find him.
Okay, I have to say girl that you just blew me away with this video!!! I was soooo NOT expecting this to turn up here in your channel. This must have taken you a looong time to even consider speaking about it to all of us. Your story touched my heart. You know what? I really have to say Thank You. Thank you for sharing such a personal and intimate part of your life with all of us. I was so in tuned in every word you were saying. Almost as if I was there. Hey... I totally get it. I understood every detail of your life. You did a very selfless thing to raise your last 4 years of your daughters life with you in the same household by yourself without any interference. You needed to be totally just focused on her. And that's okay. It's more than okay it's a healthy awesome step you took. You can call it a breather. You took a breather from the whole "men chaos" to regroup yourself and concentrate on what was important to you. I like that. I more than like that, I think that was a very humble step to take for your daughters sake. Your just a very caring, and giving person. And that one word you used which describes me too..... LOYAL. That's right I'm loyal too. So I get it. I'm known to very loyal and trustworthy with others. My one true word is TRUST for me. I have a hard time trusting others. Probably because I've been burned so much, so I tip toe carefully around who I let in my circle. But you know what? I like you Marie. I never thought in a million years that I would yet get to see someone like me out there in this world. And you just proved me wrong. I would make a TH-cam channel but I don't know how. I wish someone could teach me. But then again I don't know if I could put myself out there. Like I said I got trust issues. Well, one little question sticks out in my mind... should I ask it? I don't want to push the envelope after you just spilled the beans with so much because I don't want to get pushy or greedy. But.... darn it! I'm nervous asking....let's see... how should I phrase this... well there's simply no other way to say but just to say it I guess. Okay, crap I'm nervous now..... Okay I'll ask it but you don't have to answer it of course, but I want to ask it so you'll know it's on my mind. Is the guy you thought was the one was he your daughters father? If not who's your daughters father and what happened there? I know , I know I'm asking to much. But hey at least I'm being honest with you. Okay I'm done, this is way too long and I'm so sorry for that but I just had to get my words across to you. Loved this video. It makes me feel like I know were your coming from a little more. Blessing and prayers to you, Yvette
Late thought......if all goes according to plan, TRAVEL VLOGS! Loving It.
Such a real video! Thank you for sharing that part of your life with us. If you ever desire to get married, I think the guy will hit the jackpot with you! Committing to yourself and your daughter has given you the awesome gift of a preserved heart. Your decision possibly kept you from a few broken hearts along the way. Again, great video.
This might sound wierd, because we don't know each other. I'm proud of your decision in life. Thanks for sharing.
You know the convo's getting real when you throw out the f-bmob...lol...
I really feel you! I've been single since my divorce in 2004 and I love it. I also love my independence. I was married for 25 years and didn't marry him until I was 35...first time for me and for him. It all went downhill when he got out of the military and we came back home to Florida. Other women sealed the deal for me. I will never get married again and I don't date. I like my single life just fine. It suits me! What ever your future holds I hope it's absolutely the best! I loved this one Marie! Alexa was being rude!
I know it's hard for you to open up and as a viewer I really appreciate your openness it's lovely to know more about you love this side of you!
Wow - our stories are similar. My son is 19. I am a single mom - father not in his life at all. Totally can relate to the mule in the dessert. I decided early on not to date cause I needed to do what was best for him. Thank you sharing your story. Nice to know they are other women out there. - Crystal
I'm not a single mother, but I am a young mother... You made me tear up.. because I feel the same way about my 10 month old little girl, You are such a wonderful person..inside, outside... Talking about your daughter the way you do.. my heart ♥️
Relationships are definitely hard and a lot of work for everyone, I think. It takes the right person to be willing to go through it all. Good for you. Making yourself happy is really all that matters. I’ve got to admit I’m a little jealous of your new found freedom. Your adventure starts now!
It’s not easy being a single mother. I remember going to my children’s school and I know exactly what you mean about feeling like an outsider. It takes great strength to be a single mom and you seem like a very caring mom. I agree that you have a right to keep your private life private: People are naturally curious but if you don’t want to share then everyone will have to deal with it. Love your videos.
Girl just say it, you want to party, travel, and live it up! I think what you are saying makes perfect sense! I had my first at 19, second at 21. Even though their father and I are still together, I totally get what you are saying. Us young moms didn't get any "me" time to live it up and have fun. My kids will be 9 and 11 this summer. As much as I love my family I am a little excited to have some fun too!
After my divorce I was single for 6 years and I chose that. I wanted to focus on my kids and most importantly myself. My marriage was a nightmare and caused a lot of trauma. There is nothing wrong with choosing to be single. Good for you!!!
Thank you so much Maria for sharing this very personal part of your life. My friends girls are in college and she is now dating a man who has 2 very small children. He didn't have his kids until he was in his late late thirties. She tells him that she will not move in with him or marry him until his kids are older. She told him that as much as she loves his kids she doesn't want to do the parental thing again. She told him that she raised her children while she was young and now is ready to have a life without having to worry about small children. He is so alright with that. Their relationship works. He loves her and she loves him. They allow each other to be who they are. It is great. She does go places with him and his children but she doesn't have to do all the things that come with being a live in parent. I have been divorced for 5 years and still have not dated. My ex was the love of my life and I can't imagine dating. I am so independent now. I still wear my wedding rings so that no one will hit on me. You do you girl...and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. It is great that you put your daughter first. Thank you again, God bless
I loved this vlog! Your story was very touching. I know it can’t be easy opening up on you tube, but I do enjoy your stories. I hope you have an amazing Mother’s Day!
You don't owe anyone any explanation 💗 thanks for being so sweet and honest! I'm wishing and praying all wonderful and happy things for you and your daughter!!!!
Also you're beautiful and hilarious and like my TH-cam BFF 😂
Same doll. I just turned 30 and have never been an adult without a child. My first came at age 16 and my 3rd came at age 27. And my husband wants another.
I adore your story. Your sacrifice. You are 100% my mom idol!!!!
I’ve been married for almost 40 years, sometimes I don’t know why!. But do what’s best and right for your daughter and you, but thanks for sharing a little about you.. But whatever you decide to do I wish you the very best!!
I relate to this story on so many levels. I was always told you have to have a man. I've been single the last 3 years and I must say I LOVE IT ❤ my son graduates next year.
You don’t owe us anything personal, but it was a very nice video. I’ve always been single (no kids), and I LOVE having my own space. I wouldn’t give that up now, as I’m approaching retirement, but I might have if I’d met someone when I was younger like you are. I hope you stay on TH-cam as you proceed with your next life adventure. TFS!
You do not owe us anything!! Its ok for you to be single !! Very honorable of you to live for your daughter !! You will have a great life single or not you are a beautiful person inside and out!! Love your Videos!! Wishing you all the best!!
It's nice to hear of your dedication to your daughter. Wise plan. It's refreshing to know you feel worthy of yourself & you are not going to settle for less. By the way, "Settle for more" is a good book by Megyn Kelly. ( yes, the book is at dollar tree!)
Aww it's so good that you did that for your daughter..a true role model. Often times I see people who date while their kids are young and it's just sad since most of the time that person doesn't remain consistently in their life. You are so sweet to share your story. I'd love to see you do TH-cam forever ;)
Thanks Marie for sharing your personal life with us which you were not obligated to do. I've been married n had my only daughter @ 26 years of age. I was divorced n a single Mom for years. I'm already a grandmother n I have never had a desire to marry or date for over 20 years. I'm a practicing Evangelical Christian n I luv being single and the freedom that comes with it. I've seen friends get married for the 2nd time n their marriages turned out worse than the first one. But being independent n single has worked greatly for me n my life is a happy one too. But I agree totally with your thinking. May the Lord guide you n keep you n your daughter always. Wish you all the best.
Marie, I can't wait to see what the future holds for you and where you land!!! You are an amazing woman, and have done a wonderful job raising your daughter and supporting yourself and her, and look how much you have accomplished! Be proud! And as far as feeling the depth of a wonderful love....count yourself blessed! There are many people in the world who never experience it! I pray that there is a special someone out there for you who completely knocks your socks off and will allow you to be the strong independent woman you are! Love you much!!!💙💙💙
You are beautiful and have a great personality ! I was shocked that you are single. I am glad you did the video.
Your truthfulness will be a blessing to many. I love that you sacrificed for your daughter and you did a good job. Now is time to live for you. Please don’t stop TH-cam 😀. Proud of you and I don’t know you for real 😀. Happy Mother’s Day to you because you are a great mom and I pray your daughter realizes it💕
Hey my love.....I also hear you....I'm 47....very very similar situation...as women we need our time...as we see fit...not anyone else. ...or on societies time....thanks for sharing.....keep smiling!
I can totally relate. I had my first son at 17 and raised him as a single parent. However I started over when he was 24! Girl!! It’s HARD. I’ve STILL have never been to Europe. Boo! Come he’ll or high water I’m going in the next 24 months!
Your such an inspiration to me. So real , so brave, such a good mom. You are such a powerful woman. Alot of women put themselves last until they loose who they are or who they want to be. Its exhausting. Thank you for sharing this with us even though you didn't need to. Listening to your story helps me so much with my life. I wish I could be more like you. I'm 31 and really look up to you and your values. Xoxo
It is your time! The hard work is done have some fun!
I totally know where you're coming from , I was a single mother at 21 and did the same you did . As my son went into High school I decided to focus on him for the last 4 years. I volunteered for every booster club event , football games , Wrestling and track. When he was 12thgrade wasn't looking but found the love of my love. I love you and your channel. Thanks for sharing part of your life that you didn't have to do. 😁
Hi Marie, I needed a smile today! I lost my Fur baby on Tues. Baby Blue just turned 10 on 4.30.19... I was not a single mom, but I was a mom at 16. That was over 46 years ago. I married my husband few months before our son was born. Few years later we had a daughter. So they are now 46 and 44. I know if I did not have my kids then, I would not of had any kids. I had a Hysterectomy at 21 my daughter was 18 months then. Things happen for a reason. I know God had a plan for us all. So here's to you doing such a great job on raising your daughter and to a great beginning for your new and future life. You have a lot of years ahead and you will be fine wherever you choose. Here's to wishing you the best in your future! Take care Kathy from California! ❤
Thank you for sharing, I know that was hard for you. There are a lot of us single moms doing the same thing. My first priority is my daughter and then maybe dating when she’s all grown up. I as well enjoy being able to do what I want and not have to worry what someone else would think. I look at it this way God will give me what he thinks I need and I’ll go from there but right now I’m enjoying my little girl.
Marie, I adored your delivery of this video. May you be blessed with every happiness whether it be in yourself or yourself and someone else!💜
Marie, you don’t have to explain yourself about being single. It’s fine! I enjoy your videos and you’re so sweet, funny, and down to earth. You put your daughter first and you’re such a good mom. Maybe when she is off at college, you’ll have time to do a few more things you dream of doing. Take it day by day, sometimes when you least expect it, love happens. For now, do what you feel in your heart. I love what you share with us. It’s enough. I have a daughter your age and I feel motherly towards you. You’re a beautiful lady inside and out....hugs and blessings....p.s. I know how some people perceive a young single mom, put it behind you. Look how far you’ve come. Keep your sense of humor and being single has many perks...give it time, it will come...travel now, don’t wait till you’re older...stay on TH-cam, love you! 🥰 I have weird relationship with Alexa, too, lol...
It's so cool to learn more about you. Your my TH-cam friend haha. But I do love all your videos and your personality. Your real and just you, I'm glad to have that in a very fake world. 😁
Nothing wrong with that. I am on my second marriage and we have been married for 22 years. But now my youngest is 17 and will be graduating soon and out on her own. It will now be time for me and my husband to really focus on us. When you have children, your life is completely wrapped around your children and all of their activities and lives but now that your daughter will be going off to college and being on her own this will give you time to reevaluate and focus on yourself. When our children are grown and living their own lives it will be nice to have someone to grow old with and enjoy doing things together. Even though I may be sad that my daughters are pretty much all grown up, I really do look forward to being able to do the things I want to do with my husband and having our time together as well.
Love your true and honest personality, good to know a little more about you not everyone is that open with there personal things. I think we are all beautiful in and out. Thanks for your opening to all of us.