This is a HUGE karmic lesson for both of you, in different ways.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- You're very confused by this man because you felt strongly for him and thought he felt the same for you. But then something about his words, actions, and decisions did not reflect that. You're now confused about him and what's really going on.
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That was the most eloquent and intricate way to describe a womanizer 😂😭
He grew up Jehovah’s Witness in a cult like mentality
I called him a womanizer in the weekend 😂
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@@yarrow.111mine was Muslim 🙄🤣
This came at the right time. I'm the soul mate saying goodbye. For anyone in that state of confusion described in this video, please believe in your own truth, your hugeness of spirit, and walk away to a healthier place. Leave him to his path and go celebrate yours.
😂😂😂 I did last month and I feel so much better. I'm so much happier.
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Praying for strength
Unfortunately some of us have children and we don't want to destroy their lives. Giving up hurts the whole family
I chose me 4 months ago and walked away when he couldn’t understand the way he was damaging my peace of mind. Once I found myself over explaining, over loving and over thinking I had to let him find himself on his own time. I could no longer fight the battle with his ego. He was definitely good at exploiting women and getting his way which he confused with really loving women. He kept women around to use them for what he needed done. I left him to his manipulating ways and blocked him for good.
I’ve been feeling that something was missing, and now I understand what’s missing is me being loved for who I really am. I am putting myself in a box, tiptoeing around, hoping this smaller version of me is more likeable to him. I am who I am, and I deserve life to its fullest.
I feel exactly this! I've been working on loving myself and I'm finally realizing this isn't acceptable. And I should never settle for crumbs.
Magnificent gratitude beautiful SOULS for being here and trying 2 understand....I left a 42.5 year narcissistic marriage don't wait....I learned to love myself and he actually said I quit loving him and loved myself wad SELFISH 😂😂😂 IT'S NOT....I always put him, our children and everyone before me, I felt balance was missing and I kept asking SPIRIT IF I WAS ASKING TOO MUCH AND IF I WAS WRONG.....He now is taking EVERYTHING INCLUDING OUR RESOURCES AND LEAVING MYSELF AND OUR DISABLED SON PENNIES, AND expecting help from me......Make a plan put yourself first U DESERVE IT❤
5:57 reminds me of the story of the man and the fish. He says I love fish and the other man replies if You love fish then why do you fish kill and eat them ? You love what fish can do for you ( ego ) genuinely loving fish means caring and setting them free. You love yourself not fish .
Such a great metaphor. Also speaks on how humans use animals today.
This is exactly why I'm vegan.
Thanks for sharing.
I get the analogy here and its a good one, but just bc someone likes to eat fish doesnt mean they genuinely dont love and respect fish as beings. Animals and humans are different and it is our job as humans to watch out for them. This includes population control as animals have multiple babies per litter and if the balance isnt kept then they could easily overpopulate us. They are also on a lower level spiritually, they do not have human brains and even the smartest ones like dolphins are not able to process things in the same way we are. There is a reason that some hunters pray and bless the animal before killing it, bc they know the animals soul is a true soul being. And the same reason for why some dont kill animals just to kill, there is reasoning behind the killings such as gathering food or preventing infestation in a home. Humans also kill each other in self defense, does it mean we dont truly love them? No. But sometimes we have to protect ourselves. Now if animals are kept in a cage, not allowed to roam around much then that is true lack of freedom. If they are roaming around and just happened to be caught for food well that is just the natural way of things and they still got to live in their freedom. It does not mean a lack of love.
@@ladybonezz8017 overpopulate "US" again . That's ego . Bc who's to say we should be considered more important? . Idk perspective comes to play a lot on this one .
@@sweethoneybee6783We cannot exist without ego. Ego is the individual's sense of self. If we just let that go completely, if we let others harm us, overpopulate us, take control over us, then we would cease to exist.
@@ladybonezz8017 starve the ego feed the soul .
I hope everyone who is going through this can flourish in the Jupiter in Taurus transit. The next year allows everyone to change and grow in positive ways. I wish for everyone to look within and find that love you were born within yourself. It hurts me as a woman, a mom, a daughter, a sister, and a wife to see women struggle to get their basic needs met by a partner. The best advice I got when I was many, many moons younger is to show up as the partner you want in a relationship. If you show up as the person you want to attract, you'll never have to fight for someone. They'll flock to you as you are the golden ticket to them. When you walk in the room their smile will knock people off their feet because he/she won't be able to hide it. When you talk on the phone you'll hear their smile beam through the phone. The world will glow brighter. Your heart will feel complete. I wish this for everyone who sees this. I send you the support you need to find the love you deserve. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ to all
This is so beautiful. Thank you!
Thank you for that beautiful level of sisterhood. Shining that wonderful light ❤
❤ it's a blessing to see a queen 👑 building her sister queens 👑 up not tearing them down;)
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Thank you ❤❤❤
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I had to walk away after 3 years. The push-pull was killing my heart. As much as it hurt me to let him go because I deeply, genuinely love him, I had to love me more. Hopefully some day he will see the light. Until then, I'll focus on me and walk my own path.
😢 same I how she grows into the person I thought she was
Me too. Walked away 3 months ago. Almost at the 3 year mark. I’m happier now that I don’t feel “not good enough”
Did we date the same man for 3 years? 😂
@@GoatieMama 🤣🤣 right?!!! It’s the collective low vibe DM, aka false TF aka the catalyst.
Same exact situation. 3 years. Push pull killing me. Moving forward I have no choice.
Sad thing is, he destroyed it. So much love and investment in him and he destroyed it
FACTS
I feel for you, sending strength and love.
EXACTLY!
I felt this luv
Your better off they don’t deserve your love, fuck it if they don’t want it then find someone else who does!! ❤
Omg this is my Twinflame story!!! My guides keep sending me information so that I understand what happened with our connection! I was quick to stonewall him on the first try just like your video says haha I had learned my lesson with my Karmic and so I knew he wasn’t aligned with me so I had to let him go! I leave it up to the God and the universe! If he comes back healed and change we can talk about second chances if not, I’m ok, I deserve a man who is in alignment with me! 🙏
This ❤
Sameee ✨️
This is my contemplating with Mike he’s not a bad guy or even close to anything toxic but he is not in alignment, nor with himself or me and I can’t express anything to him and him full comprehend it he truly is emotionally in a 2D experience.
Crazy this came up on my feed RIGHT WHEN I needed to know whether I should continue trying with him. Crazy shit this is so real
So what have you decide dear? Just asking to understand things more deeply with other's perspective also :)
Yeah inquiring minds want to know
It came on my feed the day after I walked away from him & he didn’t put up a fight to make me stay 😏 confirmed it was the right choice lessons learnt and blessings on the way👌
Wtf me too. I almost didn't watch. But chills. His mom, her, me.......I need to detach
@donolivia7501 just because someone doesn't fight for you to stay doesn't mean that they don't love you. I helped the love of my life get her own place after we had lived together for over 8 years it killed me but she convinced me that she needed to be on her own so she could appreciate everything I did for her and I believed I always believed her ring up to the moment she blocked me on all her socials and changed her phone number, I could have been a dick and taken my car back or done any of the hundreds of things that crossed my mind when my would was flipped upside-down I had blindly trusted her from the beginning something that I have not done since the first time my heart got broken, but I had convinced myself that me withholding was what kept going wrong in my relationships so I completely went in and it was the most beautiful thing until IDK around Halloween of 22 she started just randomly disappearing and not responding to text or calls at first it was hours but by the spring of 23 she was going days to the point I had to threaten to call the cops to get her to respond and she had the worst excuses I ever heard in my life. Oh the car broke down and I ran into a couple of guys I know of course she would assure me that they were gay and that she couldn't manage to send a single message in 3 days while I was with her son trying not to freak out because this was so not the person I fell in love with. I won't go into all the details but I truly didn't believe she was cheating even after she couldn't look me in the eyes anymore and wouldn't even sleep in the same bed as me anymore before she had her breakdown and was hospitalized for 90 days all the while I'm still raising her son and then she had the nerve to say she thought I was just using her for sex. I had felt like she had just been using me for years but I kept telling myself it was all my own personal insecurities and that of course she loved me she would have never left her kid with me if she didn't love and trust me. And then after she went no contact I started looking into her behavior and seeing what I could possibly learn from the psychological aspect of things and I quickly determined she was some narcissistic sociopath but the I learned the more I understood what was happening she was interpreting my trauma responses as toxic attack tactics she was always telling me that I was trying to control her but I never once said she couldn't go anywhere or do anything she wanted I asked her to just let me know that you are safe and not dead somewhere or tell me ahead of time that you won't be home for a few days although I saw through that line of shit quickly it's always easier to ask forgiveness than to try to explain why you are going to disappear with a bunch of guys for an entire holiday weekend from the time you went to work at that non profit place that didn't pay you and only cost me all the time I was used to having with her and all the wear and tear on the car to drive over an hour away to the closest little city. And of course she never actually told me exactly what the name of that place was but she had to be there by 5pm and rarely made it home before I had to leave for work but I trusted completely even after she accidentally showed me someone else's 🍆pic and tried to convince me it was mine before she happened to remember her girlfriend from high-school had sent her a pic of her husband because he was having problems not that she was a doctor or had a any medical training but she was into spellwork and natural remedies and all that and I believed it right up until she changed her phone number not because I was bothering her because I didn't until her mail had gotten to the point it couldn't be ignored and then I sent a simple text asking if I should leave it in my car which is still under my insurance because she hadn't had a legal vehicle for 5 years when I met her and we live in the Stix you don't have a choice well she had gotten caught driving illegally that she was never going to get her license back on her own so I researched and found a way for her to get enough points off her license that she could actually get it back but nobody in their right mind would insure her so I never even listed her under my insurance I listed her son because he was trying to get his license and I probably should have gone and taken my car back I only let her keep it because she was going to need it without me there to do everything well I guess my brother ran into her at Walmart a few weeks ago and he said she must have wrecked the car atleast once because the entire front end is all smashed in the windshield is all cracked and both the passenger and drivers air bags were just hanging there I asked him if she was OK and he said she didn't look hurt or anything but she looked rough. I hope she's doing better than I am I still tell her ghost goodnight I burned the bed we shared about a month after the no contact started and I found out she had talked down all our pictures and changed her status to single that was what broke me because b4 I heard that I was under the impression that we weren't going to actually separate we were just taking a break from each other's lives so we could learn to appreciate each other again. I don't know who this manipulative bitch is but she is definitely not the person I fell in love with. I don't even know if that person ever really existed anymore I have been rocked to my core because I was foolish enough to believe that I finally got the person I deserved halfway through life only to waste nearly a decade on the same relationship as I have always ended up in with different people. I think I finally understand why it keeps happening, it's because I convince them that there is nothing they can do to stop me from loving them and then they think that they have to go outside the relationship to get the validation that they need because they think I will just tell them anything that they want to hear. I guarantee if I ever end up in another relationship I will be putting up my boundaries and I won't make excuses or accept anyone's excuses for violating them. I wish this one all the best and I really hope she doesn't fuck me over by driving the car without the proper paperwork. I know the registration came in the mail in June so that inspection sticker probably went out on the last day of July if not I'm sure it will be up in August and from what my brother told me it definitely won't pass inspection without a bunch of work. I have been expecting her to prove to me once and for all that she was just using me for all those years. I helped her get disability what I should say is I did everything that needed to be done so that she could actually get it she said she had been trying for years but from my experience with her over the years she only ever managed to half ass do anything and then she would get distracted and start doing other shit and when she was getting her very first payment she was using it to get her own place now how am I not supposed to feel used. She had to move in with me very quickly after we started dating I mean within a week or 2 because of some shit with her landlord that was probably all a lie I really don't know anymore if she was ever honest with me, because I wanted to believe that she was just like me sick of getting into relationships with people who were just shitty I'm sorry I have to stop here I'm getting myself to upset and it's bedtime for me sorry I took off on your comment I didn't intend to vomiting all that shit back up because I have been trying to work through it and let it go so that I can finally heal hopefully before she needs me again and I end up back here in 6 months or a year or even worse 5 years so that I know I will most definitely die alone how many love stories you ever hear about men in their fifties finally finding the love of their life you don't because I have a very strong feeling that it never happens I was still in my 30s when we met and I was so glad that I finally found someone who I thought was my soul mate only to wind up wondering if she wasn't the devil herself
Sighs…I feel this deeply.. likes what he gets from women, but doesn’t like women.
It’s okay tho.
I can pack my feelings up for good. Cos I’m tired.
Thank you for this reading.❣️
When she said “ he even thinks he likes women “ me 👁️👃👁️
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Maybe he does
Ayeeyyooo 😂😂😂😂
@@allenboyden77 bro she's not talking boutt uhh... She's talking bout the prsn she wanted to mention(she's with) ...
And ain't no way he likes women or whatever so... Cuz, the reaction she had on listening to it explains it way more clearly... She wouldn't need to give such an expression if he would likee them...
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@@disha-xr3pi lmao he prolly doesnt just like women like you guys
this reading honestly set me free!! the confusion is gone- by really understanding the misunderstanding of this person and the dimensions in which he needs to learn which is none of our business to teach someone but ooof what a relief, just focusing on loving myself and standing on self worth
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My mind is blown!! Thank you! There is no "dark empath" present in my ex-husband's life nor my twin flame's life. Both are living together with the sweetest (but unaware and naive) young women. I was once like them. I will never again compromise my own emotions or mental health or give up my life for a man. I could never again be in a transactional relationship where I give and give while he takes and takes without never giving me anything in return. Once the scales has fallen from your eyes, there's no going back.
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Never thought I’d be this person but wow was I naive and played on vulnerably. Hard to not let it scar me and take the lessons .. the exhaustion is real
@themooncave “dark” doesn’t necessarily mean evil, it just means no light or no truth or ignorance or naïveté, as you put it. They’re in “the dark”. Not necessary they ARE dark.
my twin flame is going through this right now with someone. i am praying for her in positivity, but she will eventually get away from this situation soon. i miss her, and i'm hoping she starts seeing the mask come off.
He told me none of his relationships
ever work out. I can't imagine why?
I also just read about when a Devine
Feminine stops chasing her Devine
Masculine. The man goes into solitude
to find themselves and grow. So this
could be happening. I don't know?
“He is good at exploitation!” Whew! I love the logic in your journeyed message!
I always said he will learn his lesson when he meets himself in someone else ❤ thank you for clarifying my intuition so well
Oh my God…this describes my relationship right now. I believe we’re currently breaking up. I need more and he’s not willing to give it so I told him if he’s searching for more then he should go find it…although he depends on me for EVERYTHING, I have to beg for a bare minimum in return and I’m done. If he does end up getting into a karmic relationship it honestly wouldn’t surprise me. He thinks he’s the shit so I guess he needs to actually step in some smh
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This the one here...Narcissist😫
Giiirl I spit 🥺 literally.. Reading my life.. I'm sorry
I think this just helped me find closure. After years and years… thank you.
For me, this messenger (Jess)provided an authentic understanding of this process. I learned the phrase “Understanding replaces forgiveness…” from another speaker and understanding is a smoother energy than closure. Sending you a yummy wave of peace and soul shine☀️-KK
Definitely helping the healing process ❤️🩹
It’s crazy I’m seeing this 2months after posting. This is exactly what’s happening to me right now.
It’s such a disappointment after 16 years.. I’ve been distancing after his bad behavior .. now he’s secretly seeing that woman who mirrors him.
So weird because long ago he married a narcissist who outsmarted him at his own game.
Spot on with my twin flame. I confronted him about his distorted view and behaviour towards women, as well as his unhealthy relationship with segs. I know for sure that I shook his lifelong false foundation. He's now going through a Pluto/Moon cycle so I know wherever he is, he's reminded of my words. Thanks the message
I'm sure he is
This was the best After School Message and slap in the face I've ever listened to lol.... It makes 100% sense. He taught me about boundaries and self-love. Thank you for this reading.
Hopefully he's learning them 2
Yes, boundaries and self love is the lesson. A very painful lesson.
Did he teach you self worth!
Did he teach you that you are only worth what you know you're worth, not what other's think you're worth!
I gave him a chance to prove himself and surely enough he did. 😂
Wow, I just found you for the first time and this blew my mind. It's like finally getting the missing piece of the puzzle that I was searching for over the past year with this guy. I knew I was trying to fit a square peg in a round hole from the very beginning with him, but could never fully understand why. Until today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video.
Mee tooo. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart ❤️.
Same here!!
My first time too. And showed up so mysteriously on my timeline
Same!!
@@Rochelle-gg4vb Same!🌟
Wow I have invested 22 yrs in this man. All my achievements mean nothing unless I attend to him as a good wife should. I’m ready to walk away. She gives him what he wants. I know who she is. What she is. She thinks he has money but what he has has come from a lot of my hard work. I know what he wants from me but I’m no longer willing to sacrifice my self. I feel that it’s time to stop protecting him. He has hurt me horribly. Thank you
Same!
Same
14 years the last 6 on breadcrumbs and discharge... He's narcissistic, and project his actions on me, lies and cheating... I've been forgiving and loving... But no more, he's in prison now for a year so far, but hasn't changed, I'm done, and going no contact...
Yep very well explained, Thank you & be blessed !
You do not know how relevant and timely this reading is😲
Self awareness is the key to unlocking the soul, the purpose and the knowledge of individual existence and discernment is the greatest gift that spirit will ever give us, these women are mirrors of acceptance of toxic masculinity that he refuses to actually look at simply because he’s been fooled into thinking this is what a “real” women behave like due to what society forces young men to think, when in actuality a woman can be delicate and strong whilst upholding healthy boundaries and is allowed to say no to the things she’s knows isn’t in alignment with her soul as to not betray herself nor her journey without it seeming weak nor should it be taken advantage of, so insightful love these type of messages.
He's with the dark one now. Has been for years. She treats him like crap and admits to only wanting him for his $. He came to me for comfort, his words are he feels joy when we're together, yet he goes back to her. I fell in love with him while they were on a split...he went back to her. It's time for me to truly release him 😢... thank you so much for this message 🌹
Sadly I'm afraid I may have been with the dark one for years, I thought she was my tf I'm slowly coming to accept that she never loved me😢
Possible she may be talking about a split personality cluster B female
@@Sugarpop616 no, they had broken up
You helped me understand why he's doing this. It's easier to let him go knowing that I'm on the right path for me. Thank you Spirit.
It’s sad really that there are people out there in relationships that aren’t full of love and respect and that they like it that way. At least I am not one of them. 🙏
I’m tired of all of this ! Just would like to lay down and never get back up !
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Me too🥺💔
I feel the same sometimes. Plus, I lost my angel comfort cat during this time of trying to heal from what does seem like a narcissistic attack disguised as romance. 😢
Perfectly said
This video was chefs kisses. Your explanation hit me like a ton of bricks! I am eternally grateful that this message found me. I feel free! Thank you ❤
Wow, I needed to see this. Yes I have all the love in the world for him. He's single now, doesn't want anyone. He was with 2 karmics, one after the other, but the first one was very dark and didn't show him love or tell him, he's told me that. She was mentally and physically abusive to him and she was after me and still is because he keeps coming back to me, but stay with me. In and out. I can't do it anymore, but I'm really hurting atm letting him go because I know I have to now. He keeps hurting me. I hope he sorts himself out for himself and I hope I find someone for me who actually cares how I feel.
“okay so you’re this perfect little thing but why do you s d the way that you do”. story of my life dude ! thank you so much for this reading. it’s so liberating and provoking. Endless gratitude Jess like wow.
So glad I came across this explanation. Thank you so much!😊
Omg. You just read my whole situation. You brought me to tears. Even the bisexuality of the karmic! Which I read long ago
Omgoodness😢I needed to hear this. Just told my sister yesterday I felt like this is a karmic relationship and we’ve finished our contract. I’m married to this man and I’ve been praying for confirmation, help and guidance❤ thank you!
I fully understand who he is and who he was supposed to be for me, as well as who he chose to become instead.
That's why I want nothing more to do with any of this.
He made his choices.
I just want to move on with my life.
What you saw about the dark woman and him was spot on.
I’m actually going into gray rock mode with my partner because he has consistently put me on the back burner along with my career…thank you for some clarity.
I feel like I was just on an episode of Big Brother.
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God Bless you.
I am ABSOLUTELY BESIDE MYSELF.
Your Free Read saved my Eternal Soul.
I’m already very late in replying and assembly was the New Moon, I am catching THE CRACKS OF MY LIFE from guides and ancestors as I am blocking blessings and resisting the Creative’s Call…
Please continue the AWESOME WORK you are doing.
Gonna focus on working toward my next update/ upgrade so I can start earning my Gift…
With the fast approaching $#!ft in the temporal grid facilitating direct access to higher dementions; It must be, “All hands to your duty station. All hands report for duty.”
You are such a blessing, I am inspired to answer the Call so I may find my purpose to best serve my community and make good use of my Gift, just as you have willingly done so here.
Nui ka mahalo iā ‘oe no nēia wanana, he mea ho’opomaika’i ho’i.
Aloha nō
me ka ha’aha’a
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This randomly showed up in my feed and my God. I've never had anything, even myself, state so clearly what's been playing out in my life. Thank you for alleviating the almost crippling confusion that's dominated my life the past almost 4 years. Thank you 🥺🩵💜
Right!?!? I’m seeing this right now also and it’s like a torch being shone on my exxxaaacccct situation 😮😅😮
Yep. Me too almost exactly 4 years this Leo with a Libra
@jenifernadeau leo and Gemini. He's a libra moon though. We're right at 3.5 years.
Me too 😢
Beautiful! 'A soul in her body first and a woman second' 💕💕💕
I resonated with this anyone else?🙂
Hello, I just found this page today and I'm thrilled I did, because I have seen this woman manipulating this man and every time I try to speak out I am not heard or listened to. This is the exact situation. I can see she is holding him back in life.
Wow, this was very insightful. I’m the soulmate who is a sweetheart but he has greatly disrespected me in every way. I’ve been on my healing journey for couple of years and I’m done with him.
Yup, mine disrespected me so badly that he made it so I could never go back. Unless I wanted to die!
Lol
Such a timely and inspirational reading that resonates with my past situation. So appreciate this as it continues to give me clarity as to his behavior but sad that we can’t be together since I have ascended so much spiritually from this connection. Until he can meet me at my level, I will continue my lessons on self-love and setting boundaries. I have so much abundance in my life and wouldn’t change anything except for the pain we have to go through in healing!
Agreed I hope we can meet on a higher level and I really don't enjoy the separation pain
Discovered this by accident and listened. Blimey. Not sure if this is him but he's doing my head in, I've tried to walk away but I can't. I'm just glad I haven't succumbed to his lust lol. I'm on my own spiritual journey this year. Thank you. X
Holy shit this spoke to me about a situation I dealt with today. I was definitely so confused until I heard this message. Thank you sooo much for laying this out in such an understanding way!! I feel SO SO much better now.👏🏼
What's disgusting is how the reason he's so good at Exploiting women is because he was one for the past two thousand years 🙄
Lol are you stoned
Seeing this two months after it's posted is nothing short of devine timing. Unfortunately, it resonated all too well. But it gave me insight into the missing piece that I just couldn't quite put my finger on. Thank you for such an intellectual and indepth reading. 💜✨️
Thanks, Jess! I can’t seem to stop circling back around and around to my heartbreak - want to heal but still it hurts. And it is what it is. Just gotta keep going. Thanks for the pep talk. 🙏🏻
You got this!
They do have an arrangement, absolutely, I’m commenting as I listen to the reading. Yeah he got real meanafter she came into the picture, like he thought so poorly of me.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽thanks- that is my ex-husband and he’s trying to shame my daughter in the same way he shames me…biggest gift I can give her is helping her understand that he looks at the world in “john-shaped glasses.” If what he sees doesn’t fit him he judges it… biggest waste of time is thinking you have to convince him of anything… you can never fit in those glasses… maybe the new wife can - it was a big lesson-
Omg....you put everything into words. This is EXACTLY what I have been thinking and going through and thought, and I didn't even know it was a real thing! Thank you God thank you for channeling!❤
You are so welcome 🤗
OMG Are you seriously SO SPOT ON with SO many of us THIS is SO Ironic! WOW! Love it!
It resonates and I just feel so much like I want to distance. Like, I’m not sitting around waiting for someone who tries to categorize me and treat me as an option. ✌️
😔 Its so sad that there is so many others going through similar experiences... the cunfusion is the worst...
The love is there... mine is emotionally unavailable due to his core wound trama... thats not an excuse either, we all have a core wound, then add ancetral and karmic...
We aslo need to remember, if you been together long enough theyll also mirror you...
So much bullshit i went through... my head says one thing...my heart says another...
He fears abandonment and i fear being controlled... those are the two core energies that make the polarity of our core wound trauma...
I feel leaving him is the catalyst needed for him to break through with his music😮💨... and leaving him will help me to remember who i am...
Hes not a full on narcissist either i know he loves me hes just not mindful to the needs of his partner ... and his daughter is a psychopathic narcissist that will never stop... i refuse to let that energy near me... and she calls herself Bee, Queen Bee for her made up name Beezus... and shes 33, very dark empath... he will not control me, i will no longer make myself small for the sake of others, she will not abuse me or any other in my presence ever...
His alcohol overuse dictated our journey together until I walked away … I have loved him for 24 years and will continue to … from a distance
25 years together and 13 years married.I hear you💕💕
Just wrappin-up 10 years here, with an alcoholic. 25 years before that with a sociopathic Narc. Stick me with a fork, I'm overdone done like an over baked 🥔 potato. I don't even know the sober guy underneath all that garbage.
I'm in a relationship with an alcoholic...and I do love him but...he consistently isn't showing up for me ...and I'm tired of showing up for him when he's not doing the same...I think I need to let him go 😢 I can't get myself stuck in that type of energy
Your perspectives are refreshing.
Yup. I've disconnected from the connection because he put those traits onto me, and I'm over it. I love him deeply, but I'm tired of playing these games and being disrespected. He is absolutely accusing me of being the karmic lesson (which I have never intended to be with him). I'm not interested in being treated this way anymore. So I'm doing my own thing now. If he chooses to change, he can find me. Until then, he gets stonewalled.
Very happy for you. Im glad we are finding our own strength outside of these nasty partnerships. God wants you to be happy not miserable.
Why are women stupid?
Why give your love away to a Jerk?
Same ..
Cat food, invest
Just wow!! So on point.
7 years and I've been thrown in and out of the two categories multiple times... For the last year ive been in the Madonna category and have been put of the bedroom.
A few days ago, out of the blue, he said and did something incredibly callous, cold and unkind (he otherwise "tries his best" to treat me with respect, now that I'm in the Madonna category 🙄). I felt super hurt but kept my cool and went home. He has reached out and texted some half-as**ed apology, that reflect no accountability, and for the first time on our many year-dance, I've simply just kept silent and have no desire to talk anything over with him, as I know we can't get to the meat and bones of things. And now I know why. This video has validated and confirmed what I have been aware of all along.
If there is a dark-soul mate in the picture, it isn't someone I know about.
He'll have to figure it out. Or not. I'm shifting my energy back onto what I'm building in my life. I'm sad, but not angry and will probably get back in touch in a few days, but the desire to continue our close friendship has evaporated. That last callous and careless treatment of me showed the true colour of his underlying character/values/believes about women. And it isn't pretty.
Holy crap. I have never seen your channel before but it popped up on my feed and ooohhhhh my damn. You just described my life & the situation I am currently going through. So oh my........I'm speechless. THANK YOU!!!
The universe is smacking him with the truth around his ears and he just doesn't get it. His life, his health, his money, his children, his "love life" - everything is SCREAMING this hypocrisy in his face and he just doesn't get it. He bears down even more stubbornly, plays the victim, doesn't feel his feelings and holds on and on. He's losing everything in his life and is a couple of years from heart attack and HE JUST DOESN'T GET IT. His father didn’t get it either during his life time and like father like son... He died last year and I think he "managed" me from the other side to get in his path and to not fawn, not settle and instead show the truth in his face.
The problem is he destroyed my love life because I was so abused. I had so many terrible relationships. I am now too old to recover and overcome anymore. I wish he hadn’t wasted my last chance at love, but he will never care because he is too busy labeling me as a Shmore.
I feel the same way
People can do nothing to us they can only do things for us. It's all meant for our own growth and evolution. To reflect back to us what needed healing within ourselves. So there is actually no destruction, it's really a chance for growth and removal of toxicity to allow better to come in. We must become everything we seek, as whole and complete as we can and then like attracts like..... because we are energetic beings first and foremost.... so we attract the same frequencies that we are at. The level of healing they have to do is equal to the level of healing we have to do, although it may show up in different ways in the physical world❤
What someone is doing saying or thinking, ever..... is of no relevance and has nothing to do with us. It is merely a projection of themselves and the level of healing that they are at. Just as our Judgment of the world around us you can only be a judgment of ourselves. As within, so without. You are still breathing and above ground. When you release expectation or a particular idea of how something is supposed to show up, amazing things can come in.❤
We chose these human suits and we chose to Incarnate here for lessons and to have fun and experience the flow of emotions through our human bodies since this is the only planet that can be done on. This third dimensional heavy density planet, although the energies are shifting into the fourth and fifth dimensions and we are stepping out of Duality mindset thank goodness.... that's what the age of Aquarius is for.❤ if you don't do what you decided to do here before you incarnated here, you will just come back and do it again.😊
@@jenifernadeauI have only been on this journey for a little over 6 months but I hope to achieve the level of clarity I get from your messages.
Well then why the fuck am I gonna keep seeing the dude? If he's gonna just hurt me
This entire video honestly sounds like a collective message. Really, it sounds very like the general discourse between the genders that I've been hearing all over the internet. Men with microphones talking about "women should be more feminine and allow the men to be masculine" or "women want a masculine man who can provide - ergo all women are [insert backhanded compliment here]" vs a lot of women trying to disabuse their men of these notions, or outright choosing to be single rather than deal with the stress of a relationship with such a person.
Men doing the same thing just saying guess we meant to be single
@@allenboyden77 honestly I don't think we're all meant to be single; But I do feel strongly that there is value in taking time to be single, so we can spend time going within and examine ourselves, grow ourselves as a person through self-reflection - maybe re-evaluate our thoughts and beliefs. Most of all, I feel that it's important for all of us to be able to be comfortable being on our own, not reliant on the presence of others, romantic or otherwise.
@@constanceblanchard7608 I feel the same way I'm currently working on myself and trying to put my heart back together very difficult when I still have such strong feelings still and I swear I feel her like maybe she's not happy about it either
@@allenboyden77 heartbreak is never an easy thing to deal with. Just be kind to yourself, and stay safe
@@constanceblanchard7608 ty I'm doing my best
I think this has happened to many many people everywhere.
I feel like this is spot on, I’ve been 3 yrs with this person , I am an empath.. idk if I’m the dark one .. I’m doing self work also and have been through a lot of trauma but the whole time I’ve felt unbalanced , confused . I can’t read him he has no emotion to show except anger . He’s closed off and disconnected . he can’t make himself vulnerable to me or show me any type of affection. I feel like sometimes he loves me but not enough to talk to me or answer any questions 😮I have or talk about feelings . it will start a fight like just because I wanna talk about how I’m feeling and why it pisses him off . He will literally shut completely down and just look at me like I’m stupid and he can’t hear me . He takes no accountability . I’m trying to see things I’m trying to analyze everything because I don’t want to make the same mistakes I’ve made before him . I’m scared to make a decision because what if I’m wrong and I’m the closed off one because I can’t get past the words and actions he’s trying to add together . I stay confused . I am not opposed to say I may be the problem but right now all I see and have seen is his unwillingness to put work in of himself into us and give back
What a sad way to live.
You deserve much more!
What do you think you're worth?
Learn to love yourself, so you can determine if this is what you want in life.
If he is a narcissist, he will keep repeating the same things. Years tick by like snowflakes on a drift of wind. Nothing continues to change but they get worse. Before ya know it, 35 years went by!!!👀 Yes Honey. I'm m so sorry for your loss.....of precious time.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Blessed 🐝
I recognise this and the ‘players’ exactly. They destroyed what was there, so I turned away years ago. So he’s stirring from his slumber …. meh. Thank you for the insight ❤
Love when you said- Let her be her expression of her soul first, and a woman second - resonates massively Thank you 🙏🏼
I just so needed to hear this now. He came onto me a year ago then ran away and ghosted me because he did not understand the Queen Bee and did not know how to handle me. He went to the Little Mermaid instead. Yes they exploited him so now he wants to come back to me. She doesn't want to lose him because he has money and he is an animal in bed. I have to be strong and not be tempted to run to him. He is an actor too.
Have money and be an animal in bed, you'll never need him again
Same here..
Ditto
Sounds like my story
Whois the actor
Stumbled on this and grateful- explains what I’ve just been thru. Became attached to someone with deep potential who ultimately chose shallow and limiting path, or as you describe a karmic path that will teach him the hard way. And I go on, more solid in my self worth, but sad.
It resonates so much with what is going on with my life ... just pointed all this to him 3 weeks ago 😊
The way my jaw dropped listening to this, wow spot on 😅
This reading is so my world. Its funny how you have described the situation. I called the dark empath out and all hell has broken lose. She is also a lady lover. Haha. She got an older man to give her his property. Then she wanted my life. I said, oh hunny I got your number. She does hang put in the woods, waiting for him. Asking all wildlife questions. Lol Too real bull. He's a fool and has a lot of learning. He believes, after 30+ years together, all the garbage she spews about me. He wants me to be submissive, but no way. He's on the verge of losing everything. I demand respect he hates it. You are right on with everything you said. Im a strong woman and im not putting up with it. He needs to be my partner, pull up his big boy pants and stop acting like a teenaged boy with no responsibilities running around the neighborhood with his friends and stirring up sh.. with the want a be in the woods. Lmao but a little heart broken too.
Thank you for the clarity. I just walked away from this type of circumstance.
Whoa ! Too close to my experience. Thank you!
The timing of this video is insane 🤯thank you
This was very helpful on many levels. Thank you😊
This was spot on! We've known each other most of our lives, but started seeing each otehr 2 years ago. We were long distance, and he met a karmic and swore he was in love with her. Told him no one could be in love so quickly, and I told him she was faking. He got diagnosed with prostate cancer at 47, and thats when she bailed, but somehow, he srill feels like he loves her. We both admit we've got some sruff between us from anotehr lifetime, but I had to let him go to save myself. I know my worth and how much love I have to offer someone who can show up in my experience as a healthy and whole partner. Thanks for this video.❤
Omg img omg omg I have never heard of Madonna whore syndrome in my life but you described my twin flame to a T . He put me on a pedestal as a good girl but gets confused by the ability of agood girl to as you call it SD and throw down lol….you said it. He can not see a woman in her entirety. He has called me whore so so so many times I lost count in an ugly way . My sexuality on one hand triggers him and on the other hand I do blelieve he idolizes me and REFUSES to let me go. I’m shook by this description and floored that no one ever talks about the man that only sees in 2d and can’t believe a good girl would also be a dirty girl behind closed doors . I can’t express enough gratitude for you and spirit and this information!!!!!!!! This helps me so much not to personalize all the name calling and verbal abuse . Not in any way say I’m sticking around for more… just to say this tremendously helps me heal from all the harsh words and namecalling . I will never internalize those words again so thank you. I’m a Virgo sun and moon Leo rising so I fit into both “Madonna” and “whore” category according to the sedition of this disorder . Ok I have to finish the video but it was too good to not express my gratitude ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love
@@dacriemcfadin768 same club here… at one point
Whoa.....that was the message I needed. Thank you!
Wow... I don't feel insane anymore
Ohhh this makes a lot of sense, my TF, 13 yrs on and off. I keep walking away because my intuition tells me the truth each time he comes back into my world. The fact that you said "actions matching words" I LITERALLY shut him back out with those words a few days ago. He definitely put me in the wrong category a while ago and I can feel he's starting to shift..... I'm doing me, loving me and if he gets it together and can show up, great but I don't need him or anyone to love me. I love me and love the life I've created. ❤ thank you for this eye opener!!!! It really helps A LOT!
I finally realized that I needed to love myself after my last heartache it opened my eyes
Thank you for the confirmation ❤ i had to walk away after almost 3 years i learned my lesson with him and love myself more than my love for the relationship even though i love him dearly i had to leave him where he stays and go on my ay❤
Thank you. As a Cancer man I feel totally called out.. 😅
Also a cancer man I know I have issue's I'm working on then
This perfectly describes my former Cancer boyfriend
That seriously described my relationship with my husband
This was brilliant. I couldn't have said it better. Thank you !❤
It resonates with my current situation. We have a soul connection, he couldn't handle it so he runed away but still wants the physical connection. So I cut with him, even though I still love him and want to be with him. I want the old him, when he was a wonderful guy and not this f... player that I can't stand
Sounds like my situation
You have no idea how on time you are with this message thank you❤
Holy moly spirit is always on time. Talk about a mirror. 🤯🤯🤯
Queen Bee is his own mother! Shes twice divorced from decent husbands, wants attention and has a social media channel singing . A narcissistic woman that keeps my ex single so she can live with him. He adores his mum but she only cares about herself and not her oown son. He was already divorced before we met . It was because of his mother, but he obviously blames his ex wife to protect his mother.
MEN LIKE THAT ARE WEAK AND NASTY! THE BIBLE SAYS THAT A MAN MUST LEAVE HIS MOMMY AND DADDY TO GO BE WITH HIS WIFE. THIS INCLUDES EMOTIONALLY AS WELL IN ORDER TO BECOME A REAL MAN.
Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.- Genesis 2:24
Hi!
We are in the same boat I think I hate my MIL.
She is evil and his true wife. He gives her my $$ I have no control
@bridgetsieger2261 it's really sad how selfish some mothers are..taking full advantage and emotionally blackmailing their sons.
@@gopal108b5 he had a tbi at age 12 huge bus accident.
He won $ from the bus company. His mom insisted on being in the trust for 2000/month for the rest of her life she gets that because “it was hard to watch him in the hospital I had to sit by his side”.
So is he her burden or husband.
According to how he acts…. Husband. She çan do NO wrong. Yet she does…. daily.
Her other $$ comes from stealing another sons trust $$ as he is disabled from epilepsy.
She is really into crown chakra alignment and “good energy”.
She is so full of shit. She didn’t know the voicemail was recording and her voice was low and mean asking for $$ , and we are in a spot not her she is on vacation!!…
instead of the baby voice she’s usually uses. Fake voice.
Don't blame his Mother for how he's turning out. Maybe she's learned how to care about herself just as the rest of us have had to learn, the hard way. If he can't leave his Mother with the respect she deserves and also with respect for himself, then you'll be the one he does rinse and repeat with. Gron women often stay close to their mothers for life. What makes you think men also don't need that? Do you WANT to be his mother? Do you want to take her place? Think carefully before you answer that. This rejection of the MIL is the wrong way to go.
This just made me cry. Wow. Thank you!
what u said at the end is SO BEAUTIFUL. it’s gotta be worthwhile for him to be conscious and to be a partner !! wow!!! love u jess always!!!
Aww, thank you!
OMG! This video found me divinely! I am the Libra ♎️ woman ... this hits soooooo hard!!!
💜💗💙
Listening to this it seems to be about men who hate women and women who hate men. Is this correct?
Sounds like my ex. I'm actually celebrating my one year anniversary of breaking away from him July 11. This was right on point with the relationship I had with him 🎯
To some extent, these two are a match
Crazy how spot on, wow!
Im utterly amazed @ how many others are experiencing this same situation as i have in the past had this sort of dynamic with men but not on this level as usually they are aware of their toxic masculinity catagorizing and admitting of thinking women are one way or another however this man being unaware was blowing my mind thanks for putting it in perspective this is profound clarity that i had been struggling with even though we'd had conversations about traditional man/woman roles. I had seen this "toxic" (I really do hate that word but its appropriate here) trait early on over a comment he made and i thought wow hes really underestimating my intelligence & all women for that matter this should be fun. Well ibstopped having fun quite awhile ago and i know he doesnt wanna lose me but enough is enough when you cannot feel free to ne yourself and feel like you have to hide parts of who you are its no good at least not for me i know there are others who live whole married lives like this & perhaps its the reason the stereotype for toxicmasculinity or the "slutshaming" of women but not being your true self is hurtful to everyone in the long run while not knowing your true self, well that's a whole different conversation
Sometimes I wish I could understand women better I feel clueless most of the time
I CRYING FOR HIM NOW , as soon I pick the phne up look pictures buildings by water empty I took pictures just burst tears 11.30 a.m he love my life, I didnt know wat Love was till I meant Gordon getting Feelings. I was married 42 years I DIDNT WAT LOVE was I was Shy .I love love your pictures.
When you said the Madonna complex is reminded me of a convo I had with his ex who said those words to me about his behavior.