My siblings and I suffered a lot, because my father wasn't a provider. Many times I would resent my father, and wished he had a decent job so I don't have to wear the same worn out shoes to school. I'd envy my friends who can afford ice cream after lunch time. Many days I can only afford to buy a small piece of biscuit for food with the coins my parents gave me. Basically, my childhood was a time of being deprived, hungry and resentful. My father tried, but his job just makes him earn a very meager amount. Meanwhile my mother, being the career woman, providing for most of our needs, would boss him around, and she was indeed the boss of the house. She lost her femininity and beauty (of course she's still beautiful but it makes me sad, she shouldn't have all these wrinkles like a 70 year old) because she toiled hard and muled it all took a toll on her. She's always stressed about work and aged faster than she should. Whenever someone shames you for wanting a high value man, think about all of these cautionary tales.
@@Liz-ic6jb Don't get me wrong I love him of course. But it's difficult to respect him. I don't harbor any hatred now. But I was FULL of anger and resentment growing up. When I said we SUFFERED, we really did. And even currently, he pretends to be ill so my mother has to work twice as hard. My mother just had COVID and has to get back to work right away after a week. Meanwhile he has COVID for three months now. How can I respect a father like that? I just can't. But I love him. Love and respect are two different things.
I'm sorry to hear this. He is at fault. But u should practice donation of food and other necessities to the needy. Poverty happens due to lack of donation. I'm a Buddhist and just wanted to help.❤️🥰💗
babes the “level up” is not for the weary 😰 you must develop DAILY habits. make 1-2 changes at a time and master those areas, before adding on. for instance, i always had a “nice feminine” voice BUT i find myself using my baby voice in almost all interactions with both men and women. it makes ppl melt and their defenses come down. now i can’t stop 😫 i started this journey 3-4 years ago. i work from home, so i got a lot of practice using my baby voice on the phone with my clients. when i noticed it effectively disarms ppl, i never looked back ✨
@Angerlyinn Greed hi there babe 🥂don’t talk so much when you meet your mark. answer his questions short and concise. mostly just speak to ask the “man” questions. they love to talk about themselves, so let them. he will reveal himself soon enough. best wishes 😘🤗
My thing is that I get soooo flirtatious. Like Betty book. Its ridiculous lol. I try to stop my self but the Double entrenched just drips out. I have to cool it in professional environment.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealingi’m a libra, so it’s in my libra nature to flirt with everyone LOL ✨ it doesn’t work as well on guys in my peer group. best done with older men 😘
Once I secure the bag, I’m gonna donate racks because you have changed my whole mindset, my whole life! I love you Shera!! I appreciate the effort you put in to these videos ❤️👏🔥
Since men want us to use our own money to meet our own needs and wants until he decides we are worth his time & money, then he should definitely be using his own hands to meet his own needs until he has invested enough to secure your place in his life after you give him a little sum sum.. If you don’t put yourself up first, you will be lookin stupid in the end..
@@user-hk8lk2lr2x If women quickly & unanimously come together and change the narrative of men moving on when they don’t get what you want, you men will have no choice accept to change.. unless you date another men or animals. Men should not feel like they can just go to a different woman simply bcs they refuse to treat women right! If all women are not giving it up until we get what we want, women can weed out dusties like you!!! Shera has been trying to tell these ladies and they won’t listen
@@user-hk8lk2lr2x The only one’s playing a game are dust mites like you. Nobody cares that you are moving on to a woman who doesn’t value herself.. we are not worried about you moving on to pickmesha bcs we know you will never treat her better and she will be the reason you remain a dust mite!!
babe the “level up” is not for the weary 😰 you must develop DAILY habits. make 1-2 changes at a time and master those areas, before adding on. for instance, i always had a “nice feminine” voice BUT i find myself using my baby voice in almost all interactions with both men and women. it makes ppl melt and their defenses come down. now i can’t stop 😫 i started my journey 3-4 years ago. i work from home, so i got a lot of practice using my baby voice on the phone with my clients. when i noticed it effectively disarms ppl, i never looked back ✨
@@mystique907 being taken advantage of, disrespected, abandoned, feeling like I need to be hyper aware a d controlling of my surroundings. Childhood trauma. I need a supportive community and a new therapist.
Aww, I missed her Live. Shera, you look so pretty. Me too--you'd be proud. I breezed through my errands with folks waiting on me hand and foot & special parking spot. Full face makeup, bodycon maxi dress, shoulder-length wig & parfum. I practice my Level-Up mindset with Blue Collar worker's since I don't care about them. Nice day.
Guess I was doing the same, but didn’t realized it, it’s like going to work on top of work, getting my performance on as soon as I step into the building, crazy thing is he is half my age and gives me 1/3 of his check weekly , he also admitted to me that he is a virgin, I won’t make it worst for him so I won’t be the one to take his virginity, or it will be a harder task of shaking him loose.
Asking your children for money...wow smh are they wealthy ...rich...I send my kids money they send back to me...thankful I don't have to get money from my children
Add a couple new friends to your roster and tell them you're back to school and work part time....and watch all of sheras old videos to learn how to convert your current one.
I realised the game is more general and there some exceptions to the rule. I'm definitely not a exception to the rule so I don't care about Looks. Hygiene is must for me. Anything else. Idc 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just ask, if he calls or views you as a gold digger, you will not die. And if he doesn't then your good and know how much he loves you. Either way you know where you stand. win win ps, I was once like you.
You may need to work on getting rid of that mindset babe, a truly masculine man would never view you asking for his financial help as you being a gold digger. He would feel needed & take pride in providing for you.
@@saintk3893 honey,just because he's high value doesn't mean he'll give you money recklessly,he's high value so he didn't get there by being dumb, that's why strategy is key
Then pull back and make yourself less available..she always says don't close the door completely because you can always utilize a person at some point..but just make sure your hints are clear and that he is aware and if he acts nonchalant about it then pull back.
@@Shayvideos1 Thank you ! Actually i have found another one that offered to pay :) and i left the other one and ignored him he ended up sending money too 👌
Livra me colocar em situações humilhantes constrangimento pedinte Autossabotagem e vergonhosas e que colocam em baixo ou desvantagem ou sair a perder ! Ter aliados onde quer que eu vá pessoas a me apoiar
I want you to know I care about you a whole lot... I thought I lost you and it hit me hard that’s when I knew I cared about you. I don’t ever want you to leave me we may not ever talk but try to support me do some spells in my favor or something to help me out a little it’s hard I do a lot all by myself it’s difficult times but I’m showing you I need a little help
Love you always and my sex is good I’m telling uuuuuuuuuu but we have to work together not against each other babe I know we are soul mates but u gt to try new things there is never only one way to do something it’s been hard for me but I’m helping a lot by trying to be more consistent just help me don’t go against me love u always okay
My uncle just told me “ you better find you a husband or work for another 40 years” 😵💫
Road to the ring starts TODAY!!!👰🏽♀️💍
How old are you?
Ahhhggg I feel you
sprinkle sprinkle
Keep listening to this chick an tell me how it goes
@@JustTiyo 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ok?
My siblings and I suffered a lot, because my father wasn't a provider. Many times I would resent my father, and wished he had a decent job so I don't have to wear the same worn out shoes to school. I'd envy my friends who can afford ice cream after lunch time. Many days I can only afford to buy a small piece of biscuit for food with the coins my parents gave me. Basically, my childhood was a time of being deprived, hungry and resentful. My father tried, but his job just makes him earn a very meager amount. Meanwhile my mother, being the career woman, providing for most of our needs, would boss him around, and she was indeed the boss of the house. She lost her femininity and beauty (of course she's still beautiful but it makes me sad, she shouldn't have all these wrinkles like a 70 year old) because she toiled hard and muled it all took a toll on her. She's always stressed about work and aged faster than she should. Whenever someone shames you for wanting a high value man, think about all of these cautionary tales.
Literally it’s depressing
@@melteddarkchocolate000 girl where is the lie. 😔
I hope you still don't resent your father. Just accept this was out of your control. You will do better.
@@Liz-ic6jb Don't get me wrong I love him of course. But it's difficult to respect him. I don't harbor any hatred now. But I was FULL of anger and resentment growing up. When I said we SUFFERED, we really did. And even currently, he pretends to be ill so my mother has to work twice as hard. My mother just had COVID and has to get back to work right away after a week. Meanwhile he has COVID for three months now. How can I respect a father like that? I just can't. But I love him. Love and respect are two different things.
I'm sorry to hear this. He is at fault. But u should practice donation of food and other necessities to the needy. Poverty happens due to lack of donation. I'm a Buddhist and just wanted to help.❤️🥰💗
I’m not afraid to ask what I want anymore. I told him I wanted flowers after our 4th date and he made an excuse so I dumped him
Flowers are dead in a week..
babes the “level up” is not for the weary 😰 you must develop DAILY habits. make 1-2 changes at a time and master those areas, before adding on. for instance, i always had a “nice feminine” voice BUT i find myself using my baby voice in almost all interactions with both men and women. it makes ppl melt and their defenses come down. now i can’t stop 😫 i started this journey 3-4 years ago. i work from home, so i got a lot of practice using my baby voice on the phone with my clients. when i noticed it effectively disarms ppl, i never looked back ✨
@Angerlyinn Greed hi there babe 🥂don’t talk so much when you meet your mark. answer his questions short and concise. mostly just speak to ask the “man” questions. they love to talk about themselves, so let them. he will reveal himself soon enough. best wishes 😘🤗
@An Your comment made me chuckle!
I am practicing a softer voice.
My thing is that I get soooo flirtatious. Like Betty book. Its ridiculous lol. I try to stop my self but the Double entrenched just drips out. I have to cool it in professional environment.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealingi’m a libra, so it’s in my libra nature to flirt with everyone LOL ✨ it doesn’t work as well on guys in my peer group. best done with older men 😘
Once I secure the bag, I’m gonna donate racks because you have changed my whole mindset, my whole life! I love you Shera!! I appreciate the effort you put in to these videos ❤️👏🔥
I swear it feels like how can I repay her!?
Actually securing multiple bags ❤️ Shera is the best 💖
@@ShayLamere facts!! Her knowledge is priceless
@@miss_sprinkle yesss multiple bags 🔥
How do you apply these into your life if you’re in your early 20’s
Since men want us to use our own money to meet our own needs and wants until he decides we are worth his time & money, then he should definitely be using his own hands to meet his own needs until he has invested enough to secure your place in his life after you give him a little sum sum.. If you don’t put yourself up first, you will be lookin stupid in the end..
Don't give it up unless you're married
@@user-hk8lk2lr2x
If women quickly & unanimously come together and change the narrative of men moving on when they don’t get what you want, you men will have no choice accept to change.. unless you date another men or animals.
Men should not feel like they can just go to a different woman simply bcs they refuse to treat women right! If all women are not giving it up until we get what we want, women can weed out dusties like you!!! Shera has been trying to tell these ladies and they won’t listen
@@user-hk8lk2lr2x
The only one’s playing a game are dust mites like you. Nobody cares that you are moving on to a woman who doesn’t value herself..
we are not worried about you moving on to pickmesha bcs we know you will never treat her better and she will be the reason you remain a dust mite!!
@@user-hk8lk2lr2x Brotha, you want a woman that's not easy.
@@1111ScorpQn lol so that would mean a man has to marry 4 woman.... are you for polygamy if so I totally agree...
I am struggling so hard to break through the masculine shield I put up. So exhausting...I want to level up!!!!!!
Sis what are your fears that have led up to you putting up this shield?
You will be able to; just put the shield down 😌
babe the “level up” is not for the weary 😰 you must develop DAILY habits. make 1-2 changes at a time and master those areas, before adding on. for instance, i always had a “nice feminine” voice BUT i find myself using my baby voice in almost all interactions with both men and women. it makes ppl melt and their defenses come down. now i can’t stop 😫 i started my journey 3-4 years ago. i work from home, so i got a lot of practice using my baby voice on the phone with my clients. when i noticed it effectively disarms ppl, i never looked back ✨
@@mystique907 being taken advantage of, disrespected, abandoned, feeling like I need to be hyper aware a d controlling of my surroundings. Childhood trauma. I need a supportive community and a new therapist.
Same. I just can't relax and feel comfortable. It's so exhausting
I like that you turning over a new leaf! I can hear the transformation. Gives Dusty no time and no words
Aww, I missed her Live. Shera, you look so pretty. Me too--you'd be proud. I breezed through my errands with folks waiting on me hand and foot & special parking spot. Full face makeup, bodycon maxi dress, shoulder-length wig & parfum. I practice my Level-Up mindset with Blue Collar worker's since I don't care about them. Nice day.
I do that too. I’ll practice my backstory/lines on them in passing too. It’s helped me to perfect my image and game.
Guess I was doing the same, but didn’t realized it, it’s like going to work on top of work, getting my performance on as soon as I step into the building, crazy thing is he is half my age and gives me 1/3 of his check weekly , he also admitted to me that he is a virgin, I won’t make it worst for him so I won’t be the one to take his virginity, or it will be a harder task of shaking him loose.
"Shera, you look so pretty. Me too." Yes you do Ms Cici!🤗
@@kiawas1 the realistic, boo!!
@@Aquemini888 💅🏽😀
Shera out here schooling on this real ish!!💕💕💕💕u soooo much for speaking facts and giving game!
Shera looks dangerous. Like in the best way, a real bad bitch. And she looks better and better each time I see her, she is my role model
She's not self actualized.
Makes so much sense they way you explain it. Energy is everything an dhow you treat people is what you get back
I adore her background ❤️
You are such an amazing woman. You take my breath away. Hugs
Thank you so much!! You are AMAZING!!! May the UNIVERSE SHINE ON US WITHOUT COMMON SENSE! MY MOMMASITA ALWAYS SAID -I DON'T HAVE "COMMON SENSE!
Shera you have spoken truth
Its not indeed just agood men but how you make of him
This video full of knowledge for we ladies
Asking your children for money...wow smh are they wealthy ...rich...I send my kids money they send back to me...thankful I don't have to get money from my children
I’m undercover 😂😂😂 I’m definitely using this one !!
Thank you $hera!❤👑
Back to rewatch I missed the beginning 😀😀😀
I Love this channel and all who loves it too: Sherra said The one that can grow the Beard! Funny as Hell- So True though. WOW!!
First time ever I caught you live ✅
Everybody cant start a business. They teach this in college economics. The number of businesses that go bankrupt .
Timestamping my notes
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He knows I work so I think he knows I don’t need him so he never offers to do anything for me
Add a couple new friends to your roster and tell them you're back to school and work part time....and watch all of sheras old videos to learn how to convert your current one.
Thank yooooou shera❤️
@33:41 I reported a sexual harassment at a big corporation and they proved me to be a liar and laid me off lol better never report a harassment
you speaking of sexual harassment, thats what happened to me... men banded together, labelled me troublemaker, ruined my career
Can you please write the whole story? I was already very cautious around them, now I'm almost terrifi3d.
You mean they did your job? Lol
@@ellyqueen8504 explain?
@@anyamiranda9452 hmm ill tell it as a storytime, make a channel for it
@@absolute3112it’s been two years girl where’s the video
You are the best Shera 😍😘
I realised the game is more general and there some exceptions to the rule. I'm definitely not a exception to the rule so I don't care about Looks. Hygiene is must for me. Anything else. Idc 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hygeine is a must for me too..they can't have any diseases.
I'm 25 n I live in nyc I would love to find women that want to level up n step into their divine femininity. I'd love to meet you guys
From Harlem but live in HTX now sis 👀
@@neekneek4703 oh we can still talk love
Hey! I'm Akanksha! I'm from Mumbai
Hey Xenia! I’m from New Jersey!
@@veronicajata3121 Oh! Thank you 😘
3:45 Like stroke his ego.
Alexa, play Lit To Me by Laura Marano!
the some women grow beards thing made me holler 😹😹😹😭😭🤣😹😹😹😹😹😹😹🤣🤣😹😹 so freaking funny 😹😹😹🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I want want to ask him for something I feel like he will view me as cheap or as a gold digger.
How can I uncondition this thinking?
By affirmations each day
@@nourhanebn69 you don't have to ask. If he's a real HMV he will freely give what you want and need when you give him a hint
Just ask, if he calls or views you as a gold digger, you will not die. And if he doesn't then your good and know how much he loves you. Either way you know where you stand. win win
ps, I was once like you.
You may need to work on getting rid of that mindset babe, a truly masculine man would never view you asking for his financial help as you being a gold digger. He would feel needed & take pride in providing for you.
@@saintk3893 honey,just because he's high value doesn't mean he'll give you money recklessly,he's high value so he didn't get there by being dumb, that's why strategy is key
51:00 her confidenc❤
He gave me $5 to read it 🤣
I laughed hard at the man who wanted to smell shera’s coffee ☕️ breath 😂😅😂 For real though! And yes at least he gave her 5 $ 😃👍🏼
I prefer rich men of color.
I missed you shera .
It is very immature to take hours to text him back and u r 21 years old. Thats what he gets for not picking someone his own age..if hes almost 50..
Looking like this 😂😂😂 sprinkle delulu
Don’t have any leftovers 😂😂😂 ❤
How do you make him pay for your luxuries?
39:30😂😂 ✨✨her
what are you going to do when social credit comes and you need your jab pass?
Shera ur so pretty 💖💖
I wish I could have had my friend(friend only) invest but it did not happen
49:52 😂😂 simple
19:25 truth!
Love you 😍
What if he doesn’t offer to pay what should we do ?
Then pull back and make yourself less available..she always says don't close the door completely because you can always utilize a person at some point..but just make sure your hints are clear and that he is aware and if he acts nonchalant about it then pull back.
@@Shayvideos1 Thank you ! Actually i have found another one that offered to pay :) and i left the other one and ignored him he ended up sending money too 👌
Auntie Shera also said find another one that will 😂🤣🥰
@@CoCo-yv3hl more like 4 😭 each one pays for certain things she knew what she was talking about 😂😂
@@Leev012 yass girl
I love you.
Broo coffee breath David is a stalker for reallll. He posted the same comment in her recent live 😩😭
1:09:43 competition
Yuck..she got an infection. She needs to go to the dr. Id break up with him..thats just nasty.
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Livra me colocar em situações humilhantes constrangimento pedinte Autossabotagem e vergonhosas e que colocam em baixo ou desvantagem ou sair a perder ! Ter aliados onde quer que eu vá pessoas a me apoiar
Shera, I get the ads but can you please make it with the option for subscribers to skip? Thanks.
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I want you to know I care about you a whole lot... I thought I lost you and it hit me hard that’s when I knew I cared about you. I don’t ever want you to leave me we may not ever talk but try to support me do some spells in my favor or something to help me out a little it’s hard I do a lot all by myself it’s difficult times but I’m showing you I need a little help
If i guy asks about your body count. Just be honest..what r u ashamed about.
i cant comment on chat :(
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Stocks are good to
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That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like Expert Kevin Harris
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Lol 😂😂
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PLEASE Baby 💋😉💯
lol or just work like everyone else
Love you always and my sex is good I’m telling uuuuuuuuuu but we have to work together not against each other babe I know we are soul mates but u gt to try new things there is never only one way to do something it’s been hard for me but I’m helping a lot by trying to be more consistent just help me don’t go against me love u always okay
U r having premarital sex..I don't wanna hear yall r soul mates not with you fornicating.
I don't date to get something OUT of someone. And I don't expect that from them either.
Shut up
Then you're missing out girl 😂
**High value men will never invest in women over 30: delusional
erm wrong im 38 and mine bought me a Porsche
@@naureenwalji485 she's not talking about a car she's talking about a business.
34:00 tell him they harass you in work
Yeah😂
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