I remember meeting you at the hospital in July last year. You were extremely depressed but still had this aura of strength and beauty around you. I'm so glad to see you in healthy mental space, sending you my love ❤
True, for months I blamed myself until I realized that I'm actually giving him power to control my life. I'm happy to hear that there are success stories on the dating sites. Thank you for listening to my story❤
😮😮😮😮😮So are you condoning her going to meet a man she's never met with 3 of his friends.... Ngumbhedo lowo, ingane zisazofa ngenxa yezi comments zenu. Wrong is wrong & wrong doesn't come with BUTS
Kunzima mpela. But I get the feeling she is not giving us the full information. I think she was too drunk that’s the reason why she didn’t want to drive back. Again tinder from what I hear is not for long term relationships. It’s just to meet and smash. And the safest place for that is in a hotel.
It's a sad story indeed am very much sorry for what you went through😢😢😢 I thought maybe the guy on the site scam you or betrayed you. Meeting for the first time or 2nd time you need to meet in a public place. We must also not allowed to be with so many strangers for the first time in a house or public place. The other thing we must not go to people we never met before with your car nd sleeping at the guy's place on your first date. I wonder if you sent the guy's details and location to anyone close to you before going there as you also went there alone. Thanks so much for sharing with us. We'll share your video with others for awareness. Get well my sister i can see in your eyes you're still tramatuzed. My apology if i didn't put it in a nice way as i can see you're still fragile😢
Hi Dzivhu, you've put it in a nice way and thank you for commenting. I have learned my lesson. It hurts talking about it but its my way of healing I'm in a much better place right now both mentally and physically.
She knows dating sites state that meet people you don't know in public let alone that... Does she herself not tell her kid not to talk to strangers they don't know.... Why would she go to a strangers house?? A stranger that even told you he was drinking with their friend. Too irresponsible. I'm sorry girl mara truth has to be told as harsh as it is. Yes some do get lucky BUT some don't +what if you fall under the category of those one's that don't.
So you got drunk from half a glass of alchohol? And you drank. Water to flush the alchohol? Something doesn't add up here, i think these guys must have drugged you or something. That half a glass was spiked
One thing about being molested or rape.its a demon that follows you. It's like the next person can smell that you gave been through that before and they just want to assault you as well.
I just don't blv some of these comments, the odesity of someone saying there's more to what you're telling, and tinder is a sex thirsty entrapment, it'syour story to tell and own narrative, you owe no one anything. Young lady think discovered your channel few weeks now, yes never took time to watch all as I normally do. But hear me say this to you. All that you never concerned to happen isn't your fault, from the age of 6 to now, not your fault. Coming to this video, a word to the wise, when a guy dates you for the 1st time especially from internet connections even FB meet in public. As soon as you realized he had company, u should have left I know some situations in our lives devalues us. Your value doesn't depreciate because of your status, know that, believe that and please treat Fikile as such, even if you were negative, with your odds you might have kissed a couple of frogs until you asks your God and Ancestors to send you a man of your dreams, very few around, man of dignity and high morality and I pray your destiny helpers find him for you, stay blessed you are beautiful young and intelligent lady❤❤❤😊✌🏾
Wow I read your comment during the day and never had a chance to respond. I just want to say thank you for leaving this comment more especially to this video. This incident really showed me how much is important to value myself and treat Fikile as Fikile even if she's positive, nothing has changed in her. I've always thought that there's something wrong I've done to desrserve all the things I've experienced but I no I have not done anything wrong and I deserve to give consent. To also give you an update on this I'll be going to court in Aug for trial of the incident and I'm going to fight until justice is served not for me alone but for all women who lacked the courage to speak up and those that did not have a choice to fight for their rights. As for dating I've taken a step back and time will tell and when that time I will approach the process with caution. Thank you and love you❤
@@fikilemaroga Young lady it brings joy to my heart to hear you putting you first and no means, as women we thank you. Nothing to your should happen without your concernt otherwise it's crime period, good luck with your trial, God will carry through and justice must be served, love you more even for your courage I lack at my age, I'm your biggest fan, be happy you'll be okay, all of us eventually will be okay as women from all hurt regardless how, where and from whom it comes from dear young lady🤞🏽😊❤️🙌🏽
So sorry you had to go through this traumatic experience... this will definitely help other women out there
So so sorry for what you went through Fikile… Sending you endless prayers for total healing. You are a force indeed
Thank you so much❤
Sending you tight hug, strength and prayers. May God heal you ❤❤❤
I remember meeting you at the hospital in July last year. You were extremely depressed but still had this aura of strength and beauty around you.
I'm so glad to see you in healthy mental space, sending you my love ❤
Last year was a test for me, and I'm glad I survived. Thank for the love❤
You speaking out shows incredible strength.. It was not your fault, he was a monster. You are amazing❤ * I met my husband on Badoo.
True, for months I blamed myself until I realized that I'm actually giving him power to control my life. I'm happy to hear that there are success stories on the dating sites. Thank you for listening to my story❤
😮😮😮😮😮So are you condoning her going to meet a man she's never met with 3 of his friends.... Ngumbhedo lowo, ingane zisazofa ngenxa yezi comments zenu. Wrong is wrong & wrong doesn't come with BUTS
I am so sorry. May God give you strength, you are so courageous to seek justice. Even I could never do that 😢
It's hard though I don't want to lie.
Kunzima mpela. But I get the feeling she is not giving us the full information. I think she was too drunk that’s the reason why she didn’t want to drive back. Again tinder from what I hear is not for long term relationships. It’s just to meet and smash. And the safest place for that is in a hotel.
It's a sad story indeed am very much sorry for what you went through😢😢😢 I thought maybe the guy on the site scam you or betrayed you. Meeting for the first time or 2nd time you need to meet in a public place. We must also not allowed to be with so many strangers for the first time in a house or public place. The other thing we must not go to people we never met before with your car nd sleeping at the guy's place on your first date. I wonder if you sent the guy's details and location to anyone close to you before going there as you also went there alone. Thanks so much for sharing with us. We'll share your video with others for awareness. Get well my sister i can see in your eyes you're still tramatuzed. My apology if i didn't put it in a nice way as i can see you're still fragile😢
Hi Dzivhu, you've put it in a nice way and thank you for commenting. I have learned my lesson. It hurts talking about it but its my way of healing I'm in a much better place right now both mentally and physically.
She knows dating sites state that meet people you don't know in public let alone that... Does she herself not tell her kid not to talk to strangers they don't know.... Why would she go to a strangers house?? A stranger that even told you he was drinking with their friend. Too irresponsible. I'm sorry girl mara truth has to be told as harsh as it is. Yes some do get lucky BUT some don't +what if you fall under the category of those one's that don't.
Oh no, so sorry this happened to you, Fikile. ❤
So sorry you had to go through that mama
Thank you I'm glad I'm alive that made me go through a lot
Sleeping in a house with 4 men who are strangers😮 I think worse could have happened
True, I don't know what I was thinking honestly and look where it got me😢
Askies @@fikilemaroga😢 I hope you heal from the experience
@@fikilemaroga do not blame yourself please. You will be okay.
@@KaGiLelakaaskies for ini though?? The next girl is gonna do this because you will say askies.
@@antonattachihombori9561😂😂😂😂No she must
Am so sorry that happened to you. #Hugs#
Thank you my love I'm okay now.
This is wild, I'm glad you left the house in one piece😢
Thank you❤
So you got drunk from half a glass of alchohol?
And you drank. Water to flush the alchohol?
Something doesn't add up here, i think these guys must have drugged you or something. That half a glass was spiked
I think so too, but no tests were done, i'm just glad that I survived.
One thing about being molested or rape.its a demon that follows you. It's like the next person can smell that you gave been through that before and they just want to assault you as well.
That's so true😥
lol you are brave. Imagine the audacity to ask to sleep there
My biggest regret
I’m so sorry 😔
😮😮😮
Hugs to you
🫂
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. As the adage goes.
Why voice over now??
My audio was not clear
You are brave
I just don't blv some of these comments, the odesity of someone saying there's more to what you're telling, and tinder is a sex thirsty entrapment, it'syour story to tell and own narrative, you owe no one anything. Young lady think discovered your channel few weeks now, yes never took time to watch all as I normally do. But hear me say this to you. All that you never concerned to happen isn't your fault, from the age of 6 to now, not your fault. Coming to this video, a word to the wise, when a guy dates you for the 1st time especially from internet connections even FB meet in public. As soon as you realized he had company, u should have left I know some situations in our lives devalues us. Your value doesn't depreciate because of your status, know that, believe that and please treat Fikile as such, even if you were negative, with your odds you might have kissed a couple of frogs until you asks your God and Ancestors to send you a man of your dreams, very few around, man of dignity and high morality and I pray your destiny helpers find him for you, stay blessed you are beautiful young and intelligent lady❤❤❤😊✌🏾
Wow I read your comment during the day and never had a chance to respond. I just want to say thank you for leaving this comment more especially to this video. This incident really showed me how much is important to value myself and treat Fikile as Fikile even if she's positive, nothing has changed in her. I've always thought that there's something wrong I've done to desrserve all the things I've experienced but I no I have not done anything wrong and I deserve to give consent. To also give you an update on this I'll be going to court in Aug for trial of the incident and I'm going to fight until justice is served not for me alone but for all women who lacked the courage to speak up and those that did not have a choice to fight for their rights. As for dating I've taken a step back and time will tell and when that time I will approach the process with caution. Thank you and love you❤
@@fikilemaroga Young lady it brings joy to my heart to hear you putting you first and no means, as women we thank you. Nothing to your should happen without your concernt otherwise it's crime period, good luck with your trial, God will carry through and justice must be served, love you more even for your courage I lack at my age, I'm your biggest fan, be happy you'll be okay, all of us eventually will be okay as women from all hurt regardless how, where and from whom it comes from dear young lady🤞🏽😊❤️🙌🏽
Listen to your story ,it seems you are desperate and gullible . How can you go to a place where you do not know anyone and decide to stay?