Yog kawg. Kuv nyiam tus neeg qhia yus ua neej zoo. Zaj no raug kuv siab. Kuv yug nyob teb chaws no thiab yog me nyuam hmoon mekas los ma. Tab si kuv ntseeg tias yus ua zoo tau zoo. Neeg yuav nyiam yus los yeej yog yus txawj coj
Yuav tau poj niam phem ces tseev zoo txiv neej yawg los yeej peem tsheej ua neeg loj leeb, yuav tau txiv siab coob ces tseev zoo niam tsev los yeej peem tsheej ua poj nrauj mog.
Twb tau 2 xyoos no lawm kuv nyuam qhuav mloog tau zaj no nawb. Kuv mas ntxub cov tib neeg zoo li tus poj niam nov kuv ntxub tshaj plaws. Ho txog ntawm tus aub los kuv yeej tsis nyiam tus aub thiab. Tus tswv aub los yuav tau saib xyuas nws tus aub kom zoo zoo nawb. Ho tus txiv tsev xaaj koj poj niam kom nws kho nws lub ntsej muag kom zoo zoo nyab tsam nws tsis muaj lub ntiaj teb cia nws lub ntsej muag no xwb mas
Koj yeej hais yog kawg, tsis hais Poj niam los yog txiv neej li yog yus tau ib niag txij nkawm es pheej ncauj sai2 thiab ncauj ncab2 es Tab caws ua teeb meem ua plaub ua ntug los yog coj lus tsis tus Es ua rau tus txiv los yog tus niam poob3 ntsej muag ces yeej ua neej tsis muaj nuj nqhis thiab ua2 ces tej kwv tij neej tsa yeej tsis nyiam yus, tsis hwm yus khub niag niam txiv os
Koj tug quas puj lub saab mi mi le, tus kwv aw qhov zoo zoo ces meb tsiv moog dleb dleb xwb yog tas koj tseem yuav ua neej ntxiv nrug nws moog. GOOD CHOICE 👍
Tsis yog ncauj ncab.hmoob txoj cai yog yus tsiaj tom luag ces yam xuab y yeej tau poob qaib poob qe hu luag plig.neeg poob plig muaj mob kho nyuaj nawb.
Mr the power is in ur hands if u put ur foot down to start with. .. she may never be like that n u both can live among friends n families. . It's a daily process so do ur part
1993 txog 1997 kuv nrog 1 lub koom haum Hmoob cov BOARD of DIRECTORS ces tos pom lawv twb muab cov scholarship fundraising nyiaj pub rau cov high school graduates tag, kuv twb tsis [aub...txhua lub koom haum Hmoob ces tsuas pom thov nyiaj uas yus tsis pom 1 daim recipts has been very PATHETIC, RIDICULOUS and ABSURD!
As every hmong women we got to know where to draw the lines.yog yus ncauj ntau taug xaiv ces yuav tau plaub tau ntug qhov tsim nyog hais mam.kuv los yeej raug cov muam cem thiab lecture kuv qhov hais lus.
Some Hmong people have big mouths, they like to gossip and spread rumors. I guess it is a form of entertainment and probably derives from back in the day where no technology exists. The wife is not wrong, she is just defending herself, she's just standing up for yourself. My wife is not a people pleaser. She's very normal, she's a feminist like most American women's are. She's definitely not a good Hmong wife but she's right for me and our way of life in America. According to Hmong standards, my wife is lazy, talking back, and have no respect to the ways of the Hmong. As we all know, being a Hmong house wife is very demanding. Cook, clean, shut up and do as you're told, bare children, have big heart, allow husband to have 2nd wife and to be patient with a big heart, love your family and clan, and everything else under the sun. The Hmong way of life in America is changing and changing very fast. And we are playing catch up. As much as we want to catch up in education and wealth, so must our mentality towards our women and we need to modernize our way of thinking so that it will meet or exceed modern time. The sooner we can change the better. It is inevitable and I'm only talking about Hmong in America or Hmong in other developed countries. Hmong Americans went from Imperial system, straight to a democratic way of life. Luckily we escaped communism. I am sure it was a shocking experience for our parents. We will get through this together and thrive. All you have to do is change the way you think!
Your wife isn’t wrong about questioning where the money was really spent on. I have always been curious about those “koom haum” and how they operate, where money goes etc. especially those “xam maj khoos.” My in laws always make my spouse and I pay into xam maj khoos when a relative passes. I don’t trust Hmong people who asks for donations bc I’ve no idea where the money really goes towards. Snakes!!! 🐍🐍🐍
It's tough buddy. When have a spouse like this, you try to tell her or him be a little more decency and have a little more commonsense but they gonna say they are your spouse why you be on other peoples side. Tau spouse zoo li no mas mob taub hau tiag2. Feel for you man
I know it’s not suppose to be funny but omg 😆. The wife remind me of mother in-law. This is what she needs so she can stop running her mouth and wear the pant of father in-laws. 😅 Good story! Thank you for sharing.
Cas koj tus poj niam no phem thiab heev qias neeg yog hlo npaum niag niam txhim vwm thiab na. Cov poj niam ncauj cab uas nyiam ua plaub nrog neeg thoob ntiaj teb li no mas phim ncaws taw xwb. Cov txiv tsev uas khoo tsis tau yus tus maum dev li no ces zoo li niag poj niam thiab thag.
It's your wife's fault too, she shouldn't have hit the dog. Half the bill should be hers. Your wife is over exaggerated. I wouldn't be her friend either.
Peb hmoob mas khav ntawm ntug cub xwb tsuas zoo ua phem rau yus haiv neeg xwb yeej tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau sab rauv tus niam tsev no tsis yog strong woman yeej yog tus neeg siab me thiab neeg ncauj nca tsis paub qab paub haus tsuas twj lus puv ncauj es hais xwb tsis mam xav mam hais muaj cais mam hais yeej tsis lig
We need people like your wife. When your relatives need a strong woman, they'll see her strength. Hmong just want women to be submissive. She is right about people taking kindness as weakness. She's a good asset and you should appreciate her. If she was meek, you would be stressful trying to handle everything yourself.
You’re wrong. There is a right way and a wrong way to show strength. The wife is just a straight up b****. She didn’t need to beat the dog. I would’ve sued her for beating my dog. Wish she would do that to a meeka persons dog and see if her a** gets taken to court or not. Wife has no communication skills and only likes to listen to her own opinion. From the story she seems aggressive and not someone I would want to be around either.
Most us modern hmong men don’t want submissive weak wives like the feminist hmong women want everyone to think. But we also don’t want bitches with no manners!! We want regular wives who are smart and know how to think for themselves. Also we like our wives to be good natured and have good attitude/manners towards others, that’s just common sense, like they’d want us to have manners and good hearts too.
Aub nws nyob nws leej twg kom koj niag poj niam mus thab dev kuj tom xwb cov nuj nqi los koj yuav tau them koj vim koj ntaus dev dev thiaj tom neb niag poj niam ruam tshaj dev lawm os
I’m sorry but your wife deserved it she hit the dog so the dog just protected him on herself from your wife she should’ve been the one in trouble for hinting the dog! The dog had done nothing wrong but just being friendly dog!
Koj niag pojniam ruam tiag2. Yus mus ntawm luag tej tsev es ua cas nplhu yuav tuab thiab yuav muaj ntsej muag ua li o. Ib niag txiv es hnav tiab xwb es tseem coj tuaj hais rau sawv daws thiab very stupidest
Yog kawg. Kuv nyiam tus neeg qhia yus ua neej zoo. Zaj no raug kuv siab. Kuv yug nyob teb chaws no thiab yog me nyuam hmoon mekas los ma. Tab si kuv ntseeg tias yus ua zoo tau zoo. Neeg yuav nyiam yus los yeej yog yus txawj coj
Koj hais neej neeg zoo kawg. Kav tsij hais rau peb mloog nawb.
Well done thanks you for sharing your story with us hmoob we all waiting for the side of her story 😀
Jenny I love your beginning and ending music ❤️❤️very soothing ❤️❤️. Keep up the good work!!!
thank you!
Nrog tus tus sisb kawg.
Yuav tau poj niam phem ces tseev zoo txiv neej yawg los yeej peem tsheej ua neeg loj leeb, yuav tau txiv siab coob ces tseev zoo niam tsev los yeej peem tsheej ua poj nrauj mog.
Tell more story. I love all your stories
nyob źoo os me nìam hluas aw kuv tuaj mloog koj tham tau zoo heev li os
Luag tias pojniam nyiam lus Xaiv thiab Tsis paub hais lus ces yog zoo li mas.. cov niam tsev coj liko mas yeej nyuaj kawg nkaus yeej Tsis mloog tus txiv qhia li, tos paub twb tsim teebmeem tuaj lawm… hais ntaus nws tseem tias nws ntse thiab paub Tshaj no xwb mas poob tsim kawg li. Zaj neejneeg no zoo rau peb kawm kawg li nawd…
Cov poj niam ncauj ncab thiaj yog cov muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv nws tus kheej thiab nws tsev neeg nawb yeej zoo thiab mas. Hos cov lus tsawg tsawg li peb cov no ces raug txhuas tus neeg muab luam cuag li luam nyom xwb hos tu siab dhaus lawm thiab os.
Yog kawg os, cov tai2 cau ces luav noj yu ntau xwb ho😁
Twb tau 2 xyoos no lawm kuv nyuam qhuav mloog tau zaj no nawb. Kuv mas ntxub cov tib neeg zoo li tus poj niam nov kuv ntxub tshaj plaws. Ho txog ntawm tus aub los kuv yeej tsis nyiam tus aub thiab. Tus tswv aub los yuav tau saib xyuas nws tus aub kom zoo zoo nawb. Ho tus txiv tsev xaaj koj poj niam kom nws kho nws lub ntsej muag kom zoo zoo nyab tsam nws tsis muaj lub ntiaj teb cia nws lub ntsej muag no xwb mas
Koj yeej hais yog kawg, tsis hais Poj niam los yog txiv neej li yog yus tau ib niag txij nkawm es pheej ncauj sai2 thiab ncauj ncab2 es Tab caws ua teeb meem ua plaub ua ntug los yog coj lus tsis tus Es ua rau tus txiv los yog tus niam poob3 ntsej muag ces yeej ua neej tsis muaj nuj nqhis thiab ua2 ces tej kwv tij neej tsa yeej tsis nyiam yus, tsis hwm yus khub niag niam txiv os
Great story 👏
Koj tug quas puj lub saab mi mi le, tus kwv aw qhov zoo zoo ces meb tsiv moog dleb dleb xwb yog tas koj tseem yuav ua neej ntxiv nrug nws moog. GOOD CHOICE 👍
Tsis yog ncauj ncab.hmoob txoj cai yog yus tsiaj tom luag ces yam xuab y yeej tau poob qaib poob qe hu luag plig.neeg poob plig muaj mob kho nyuaj nawb.
Kuv xav tias lo lus tsov luag no yog tiger laugh 😂, tsis yog tiger drag dab. 🤣😂
Haha…ib tsev neeg yeej muaj ib tus niam ncaus coj tus xeebceem li nod os. Peb los twb muaj ib tus thiab
Yog peb pojniam hmoob mas qee tus nyiam taug xaiv heev!
Lol...yog kawg...neeg ncauj ncab poj niam txiv neej yeej muaj drama li no! This is why we live in solitude.
Thanks for sharing brother
Sounds like Your wife really just a troubled maker!😂
Mr the power is in ur hands if u put ur foot down to start with. .. she may never be like that n u both can live among friends n families. . It's a daily process so do ur part
Laj tsoob txog hnub tuag...
1993 txog 1997 kuv nrog 1 lub koom haum Hmoob cov BOARD of DIRECTORS ces tos pom lawv twb muab cov scholarship fundraising nyiaj pub rau cov high school graduates tag, kuv twb tsis [aub...txhua lub koom haum Hmoob ces tsuas pom thov nyiaj uas yus tsis pom 1 daim recipts has been very PATHETIC, RIDICULOUS and ABSURD!
As every hmong women we got to know where to draw the lines.yog yus ncauj ntau taug xaiv ces yuav tau plaub tau ntug qhov tsim nyog hais mam.kuv los yeej raug cov muam cem thiab lecture kuv qhov hais lus.
Some Hmong people have big mouths, they like to gossip and spread rumors. I guess it is a form of entertainment and probably derives from back in the day where no technology exists. The wife is not wrong, she is just defending herself, she's just standing up for yourself.
My wife is not a people pleaser. She's very normal, she's a feminist like most American women's are. She's definitely not a good Hmong wife but she's right for me and our way of life in America. According to Hmong standards, my wife is lazy, talking back, and have no respect to the ways of the Hmong. As we all know, being a Hmong house wife is very demanding. Cook, clean, shut up and do as you're told, bare children, have big heart, allow husband to have 2nd wife and to be patient with a big heart, love your family and clan, and everything else under the sun.
The Hmong way of life in America is changing and changing very fast. And we are playing catch up. As much as we want to catch up in education and wealth, so must our mentality towards our women and we need to modernize our way of thinking so that it will meet or exceed modern time. The sooner we can change the better. It is inevitable and I'm only talking about Hmong in America or Hmong in other developed countries. Hmong Americans went from Imperial system, straight to a democratic way of life. Luckily we escaped communism. I am sure it was a shocking experience for our parents. We will get through this together and thrive. All you have to do is change the way you think!
The wife is and has been very HONEST being a STRONG ADVOCATE WOMAN!
No, you didn't get the point. What the hubby was saying is have some manners, don't open her mouth when it's not necessary.
Lmao! She advocates for herself only to benefit her only. She's not strong, shes rude and has no respect for anyone and admits no fault
Your wife isn’t wrong about questioning where the money was really spent on. I have always been curious about those “koom haum” and how they operate, where money goes etc. especially those “xam maj khoos.” My in laws always make my spouse and I pay into xam maj khoos when a relative passes.
I don’t trust Hmong people who asks for donations bc I’ve no idea where the money really goes towards. Snakes!!! 🐍🐍🐍
Lol, Love this story
She’s a smart woman. Just learn to shut up that’s all. Your time to talk will come. Your opinion does matter just not now.
I like the title 😃
It's tough buddy. When have a spouse like this, you try to tell her or him be a little more decency and have a little more commonsense but they gonna say they are your spouse why you be on other peoples side. Tau spouse zoo li no mas mob taub hau tiag2. Feel for you man
Welcome Jenny.
Tus poj niam ncauj ncab.Tsis yog neeg ntse > Tus txiv los tsis yog neeg ntse
Vim tswj tsis tau tus poj niam
Pom lub title xwb kuv twv luag tsis taus lawm os Jenny aw.... 🤣🤣
Your wife better start seeing her errors and change that behavior or else she'll lose you for sure.
😁😁😁
I know it’s not suppose to be funny but omg 😆. The wife remind me of mother in-law. This is what she needs so she can stop running her mouth and wear the pant of father in-laws. 😅 Good story! Thank you for sharing.
Yog tias tus aub tsis tau ua phem rau tus menyuam es nws ntshai xwb no mas tsis tsim nyog koj poj niam ntaus tus aub laiv.
qhv no tss yg ncauj ncab, yg ncauj ntau thb ncauj nrawm xb, tub sab thj yg ncauj ncab ov.
Tsis yog cov kwv-tij koom haum no xwb, kuv kuj xav pom cov RECEIPTS uas txhua lub koom haum Hmoob nyob USA muab tej nyiaj NEW YEAR CELEBRATIONS and FESTIVALS dua twg lawm thiab siv li cas? Kuv tsis pom zoo mus koom nrog lawv thiab feem coob Hmoob tsis wear facemask!
txhua txhua zaus txawm yuav sib tham thiab siv nyiaj li cas ces KAV TSIJ YAIS NTAWV EXPENSES TUAJ RAU SAWV DAWS THIAJ TSIS MUAJ TEEB MEEM NAWB!
Cas koj tus poj niam no phem thiab heev qias neeg yog hlo npaum niag niam txhim vwm thiab na. Cov poj niam ncauj cab uas nyiam ua plaub nrog neeg thoob ntiaj teb li no mas phim ncaws taw xwb. Cov txiv tsev uas khoo tsis tau yus tus maum dev li no ces zoo li niag poj niam thiab thag.
Tua nroog koj ua py pua tau me py
Tus niam tsev yeej muaj txog caiv los hais kom lawm muab cov bills los rau nws saib. Qhov no tsis txaum. Lawm yuav tsum tsis muaj kev chim rau tus niam tsev tsawm yog nws muab ua tau dlau heev zog. Qhov nws ua tsis yog ces nws hais tau nyaum zog xwb. Ib tug member yeej muaj caiv nug txog cov bills tawd nws lub koom haum. Yog lawv tseem chim rau nws ces yog lawv coj tsis caj xwb...
Can’t stand those types.
It's your wife's fault too, she shouldn't have hit the dog. Half the bill should be hers. Your wife is over exaggerated. I wouldn't be her friend either.
Sib phim xwb os
Lol this is 99% of Hmong women
Loud spicy mouth
Peb hmoob mas khav ntawm ntug cub xwb tsuas zoo ua phem rau yus haiv neeg xwb yeej tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau sab rauv tus niam tsev no tsis yog strong woman yeej yog tus neeg siab me thiab neeg ncauj nca tsis paub qab paub haus tsuas twj lus puv ncauj es hais xwb tsis mam xav mam hais muaj cais mam hais yeej tsis lig
Thaub aw!… koj ces twb nav tiab tau ntau xyoo laus tas li ko lawm ces tsis tas yuav complain li lawm os!…kav tsij nav tiab ntxhiv mus xwb mas….
We need people like your wife. When your relatives need a strong woman, they'll see her strength. Hmong just want women to be submissive. She is right about people taking kindness as weakness. She's a good asset and you should appreciate her. If she was meek, you would be stressful trying to handle everything yourself.
You’re wrong. There is a right way and a wrong way to show strength. The wife is just a straight up b****. She didn’t need to beat the dog. I would’ve sued her for beating my dog. Wish she would do that to a meeka persons dog and see if her a** gets taken to court or not. Wife has no communication skills and only likes to listen to her own opinion. From the story she seems aggressive and not someone I would want to be around either.
@@hx7161 that's true too, she was aggressive. She has the potential to make a difference, just needs a good balance to be more effective.
Most us modern hmong men don’t want submissive weak wives like the feminist hmong women want everyone to think. But we also don’t want bitches with no manners!! We want regular wives who are smart and know how to think for themselves. Also we like our wives to be good natured and have good attitude/manners towards others, that’s just common sense, like they’d want us to have manners and good hearts too.
I disagree. I respect strong Hmong women, but this lady is not strong. She is just a trouble maker, and a b...... No respect there.
@@sindielee8129 agree with you
I think your wife is doing too much. She should not have hit the dog since the dog did not bite the little girl.
Aub nws nyob nws leej twg kom koj niag poj niam mus thab dev kuj tom xwb cov nuj nqi los koj yuav tau them koj vim koj ntaus dev dev thiaj tom neb niag poj niam ruam tshaj dev lawm os
I’m sorry but your wife deserved it she hit the dog so the dog just protected him on herself from your wife she should’ve been the one in trouble for hinting the dog! The dog had done nothing wrong but just being friendly dog!
It’s a freaking Nyab Karen smh 🤦🏻♀️
Koj niag pojniam ruam tiag2. Yus mus ntawm luag tej tsev es ua cas nplhu yuav tuab thiab yuav muaj ntsej muag ua li o. Ib niag txiv es hnav tiab xwb es tseem coj tuaj hais rau sawv daws thiab very stupidest