@@harveyhankerson8359passport holder since 2006 I have been traveling. My son graduates in June . I’ll have more free time to travel since my son will be 18 years old.
It’s simple. If she has a list where she won’t go, then X her off your list. If you start off taking her to fancy restaurants, she will expect that all the time and use you for free meals. Honestly, if she’s really into you, it won’t really matter where you go. I took my girlfriend to places she hated and places she loved. We just learn and move on
There was a TV show, called Blind Date, they'd pair people up,to see what happens, this one BW, was so toxic, the went out with her, did an activity, and because of her attitude 😤, he took her to a McDonald's drive thru, and kicked her out of his car....he was like, glad to be rid of her 😅😅😆😆😂😂 poetic justice, this was back in the late 90's early 2000, look at how screwed up, entitled attitude of these Ratchet women.
Tbh I like honest women. You are left with 3 choices: 1. Let her pay where she wants to go. 2. Go to the park (free) 3. Go to a cheap bar They have made “dating” much easier, assuming this isn’t all satire.
That part about single mothers. If you get attached to her child or children and she decides to leave she’s taking her kids and you’ll never see them again. Don’t consider a serious or long term relationship with a single mother unless you’re absolutely certain she’s the one and you’re willing to take that risk.
Word up B ,they'll be lucky as hell if I bought them a snack pack " 3pcchicken dinner breast,thigh,wing and 2 potato wedges and a roll " lucky as hell!!!
If a woman can not go with me to any of those places while dating me, they will not be around me. The higher end restaurants are earned and are not given. Also, nothing on this list should apply to high school or college students.
IHop could be someone just coming from a late concert or club and want to go ahead and sit down. Ice Cream would be like a fair date or a walk in the park date.
Ice cream and a walk in a park cause you need both to consider it a date. I hop is a great morning date date. Most of all avoid club and concert dates.
😅😅😅😅 you ain't lying, a lot of them can't....because men control relationships and wmn control sex ....and a lot of them ain't no relationship material
Think of how a scammer works, and it makes sense. They're interested in selling men a bridge. EDIT: I mean the men they're only pretending to be interested in, because the guys they really like get free access to their beds.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Before my son really didn't understand why i was tenacious about them getting them their passports, now they truly begining to understand, and they both finally accept and are embracing what they need and must do, get off/out of this toxic situation of the west
A lot of these chicks just don't like the idea of restaurants that a lot of people have become very familiar with. That's why some of them don't like places like the Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, and Olive Garden for example.
the more and more i see these videos make me realise that being single is a blessing in disguise God didn't want me to have these problems they might aswell collect food stamps if their looking for a meal ticket 😂😂😂
Some of those women who think like that be the main ones who are broke and have a negative balance in there bank account but act like there too good to go to red lobster or the cheese cake factory.
Everything you have said Phil is 100% correct and as a woman I will go to most of those places except the few that you’ve mentioned as well. ❤❤❤ you are an amazing host. Please keep up the great work you do. I watch your show every day.
Great video coverage, Phillip 💯 You said it you're getting to know the person any respectful sit-down restaurant should do. If not, that's a red flag that burning 🔥 thing happens in levels
The was list women made and a list men made. Women focused on date locations with an emphasis on price and luxury. Men focused on the personality and background of the woman. Any bumb can pay for a nice dinner for 1 night but a woman cannot remove her baggage and history
#12 is going to happen with me, I use a buffet as a litmus test on women. You can learn a lot about them just by taking women to a buffet. And there are nice buffet restaurants out there.
Modern women are full of it. It looks like a lot of women are now finding it difficult to get men. Ever since I started covering events on TikTok, trying to monetize, a lot of women have been messaging me for hook-ups or relationships.
A lot of these women today like to go to fancy restaurants because they do girls night out with their friends and they like going to eat at those five star restaurants. BUT i don't see anything wrong with most of these restaurants. There are some restaurants you should not take her too which I believe.
Great way to get a boring, basic, b. She will go where I choose to go. Otherwise I am not leading her, she is leading me, which is the absolute worst way to start. If she can't follow, she can piss off.
I think this topic is an invention, no more common than the odds of getting struck by lighting, started by Cheesecake girl and magnified by social medias b/c it's so funny and ridiculous. Until then, it wasn't anything anyone talked or complained about. I have two young adult kids, a son and a daughter, and they never experienced or heard of such nonsense. 😆
I agree. I’ve never heard anyone complain about the Cheesecake Factory. I can see Chipotle or fast food places but I’m not even opposed to those if our initial date was the park or the beach and we had a picnic but stayed for hours talking and got hungry again. I believe get to know you dates should be before serious dates.
Don't take them nowhere. Tell them to make a dinner plate, bring it to your house. And go straight to the bedroom. They forget that's there duty. But i didn't forget. Kitchen and bedroom
I remember about 10 11 years ago i offered to take a girl to olive garden and she said its a chain restaurant. I didnt understand and didnt see why it mattered. Needless to say she never ate at all with me
I disagree on your take on bowling, i hop, waffle house and denny's. They're great after hour and mornings dates. Bowling is a fun date to go to. Ice cream, chipotle/wingstop/high end or healthy fast foods only work when your going to the museums, walk in the park/waterfront/city plaza, tourist sightings, bowling, arcade, museums, exhibits and many more similar dates.
If thy love u ,thy dont care if thy stay home ,and cook dinner there. But if u a mark ......... well hey , Thts on u........ our women r lions Thy can hunt for themselves. But thy allow us to adore them as well. Does tht sound sorta in line?
Modern Women are like one bedroom apartments in major cities, beyond average yet over priced.
Below average, not beyond. Beyond would mean above average
@@IfYouKnowYouKnow.I just got my passport last week.. y’all can have them. Just to dam toxic. !!
You better copyright that sir!
And have a chalk line of a body on the floor.😅😅😅
@@harveyhankerson8359passport holder since 2006 I have been traveling. My son graduates in June . I’ll have more free time to travel since my son will be 18 years old.
"MY WALLET MY CHOICE"
I know that's right! 😂
I agree.
The perfect place is...leave her right there where she is and go on about your business.
😅😅😅😅😅 that's the best option
It’s simple. If she has a list where she won’t go, then X her off your list. If you start off taking her to fancy restaurants, she will expect that all the time and use you for free meals. Honestly, if she’s really into you, it won’t really matter where you go. I took my girlfriend to places she hated and places she loved. We just learn and move on
There you go
@@jasminedtucker women are good for games
@@jasminedtuckereven with men they like, they still want to go to high dollar places.
There was a TV show, called Blind Date, they'd pair people up,to see what happens, this one BW, was so toxic, the went out with her, did an activity, and because of her attitude 😤, he took her to a McDonald's drive thru, and kicked her out of his car....he was like, glad to be rid of her 😅😅😆😆😂😂 poetic justice, this was back in the late 90's early 2000, look at how screwed up, entitled attitude of these Ratchet women.
@@RomulanWarbirdDecloaking-sd2ir those were all actors
This list is quite helpful actually. Can easily help men filter out the crazy one.
Actually !!
Straight up !!! I don't even play these types of games
Facts
Social media got Hondas thinking they're Lambos.
Hondas are reliable, lol use something else 😂
More like Nissan Altimas
The more they list is out, the more boys are running to the passport office✈️✈️✈️✈️🤣🤣🤣
I just got my passport last week. Y’all can have them. Todays females are just to DAM toxic !!
I find it very disrespectful to men when modern women tell us that they not going out to a certain establishment, but they STILL expect us to pay.
VERY disrespectful bro 💯
So true. If they won't pay they have no say
It also disrespectful to the people that work at restaurants as a whole
@@asiatichebrew5100I like that Bro. If she don't pay. She has no say..
@@donbuyshousescash4765 thanks lol
“My wallet, my choice”.
Tbh I like honest women. You are left with 3 choices:
1. Let her pay where she wants to go.
2. Go to the park (free)
3. Go to a cheap bar
They have made “dating” much easier, assuming this isn’t all satire.
Very reasonable 💯
Thank you social media for being a platform for making the vetting process much easier!
That part about single mothers. If you get attached to her child or children and she decides to leave she’s taking her kids and you’ll never see them again. Don’t consider a serious or long term relationship with a single mother unless you’re absolutely certain she’s the one and you’re willing to take that risk.
Places they don't even take themselves. Poor people ALWAYS picky 😂
Cheesecake factory is getting tons of free publicity
I need go next week
The way prices are at a all time high in this day and time they would be happy for a bag lunch😮
These women want to go out to eat so much they need to go to the food bank
😂😂😂😂😂right
These days even a sandwich is expensive
Word up B ,they'll be lucky as hell if I bought them a snack pack " 3pcchicken dinner breast,thigh,wing and 2 potato wedges and a roll " lucky as hell!!!
@@ashanean facts
Now that men has and is waking up, we won't be taking them nowhere
No fucking where
If they don't want to be dated they need to just say that. Instead of making a list
Looks like a lot of ladies are going to be dining alone or with other women who think like them.
The only place left is the library, the park, and Chucke cheese
The goalposts are always moving. For a while there, women swore rhey wanted to go on dates that were active...like bowling.
I’m so glad I’m single I don’t have to put up with these stupid ass requirements for people who ain’t nothing but a bill and entitled problem
🤑🤑💯
You ain't lying, somebody else can have these problems 😅😅😅😅 it ain't that serious, I don't do this
same
The women you described as disqualified is 90 % majority of the dating pool.
If a woman can not go with me to any of those places while dating me, they will not be around me. The higher end restaurants are earned and are not given.
Also, nothing on this list should apply to high school or college students.
Yep , they're too broke (students) to be this picky and entitled
She doesn't want to do nothing whats the point of even getting involved with any woman like that gold digger for real 🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿 run fast
Didn’t they celebrated Ciara when Russell took her out to The Cheesecake Factory 😂, soo weird 😂.
Waffle House not Cheesecake Factory
Oh yeah.. they forgot about that.) ! That’s why I got my passport last Friday. Y’all can have them. !!!
He's the back up plan that looks good. Other than that, they'll always go for the future's beforehand...
Passport bros continue to win.
If she ain't going to 'the Olive Garden', she is a problem...Hell No !!
PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS CLAMOROUS:SHE IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.
They must enjoy sitting home by themselves with a bottle and ordering Uber Eats.
No, they do this for men who they don't like
Women love free meals I don't see none of them turning these places down fr
So logical!!! either they can starve or eat 🤷 or eat the damn food....but they ain't crazy, hungry as
I don’t think this is a real list. These are common places people go.
IHop could be someone just coming from a late concert or club and want to go ahead and sit down. Ice Cream would be like a fair date or a walk in the park date.
Ice cream and a walk in a park cause you need both to consider it a date. I hop is a great morning date date. Most of all avoid club and concert dates.
This is why society has fallen...
These women are sadly mistaken and way too delusional now in days.
They barely can get relationships nowadays.. idk why they are so picky 😂
Exactly and most of them on antidepressants 😂
The majority of modern "man hating" women are single. By 2030, more than half of western women will be single and childless.
😅😅😅😅 you ain't lying, a lot of them can't....because men control relationships and wmn control sex ....and a lot of them ain't no relationship material
Think of how a scammer works, and it makes sense.
They're interested in selling men a bridge.
EDIT: I mean the men they're only pretending to be interested in, because the guys they really like get free access to their beds.
One day these modern women will be doing cartwheels if Pookie or Ray-Ray asks them out to Applebee's, Olive Garden, or Buffalo Wild Wings.
The passport movement is only getting bigger 🤣🤣🤣🤣
lol
Can she bring a friend with her as a shaperon
Exactly!!!! all this is beneath men who knows their value.....pookie and ray ray ain't got to do none of this mess ,or bottom shelf billy " swirlers "
@@midrennelubin975Chaperone???😄
How about men refuse to deal with them...don't refuse that airport
I haven't dated a single woman in the States in 9 years. So I'm good.
Ain’t*
I know I'm good, I don't even remember the last time I went on a date 😅😅😅😅 so 🤷 I'm straight
Lower blood pressure.
Shy from Philly 🌺 Hello Phil and the diaspora family ❣️ This list is absurd‼️ My husband and I enjoy most of these restaurants❣️
Exactly, this is crazy, if somebody's hungry they'll eat ,if not go home and cook or something!!!
Amen
Zoom virtual dates are soon going to be a thing.
That’s the funniest thing I’ve ever heard in a while, but it’s not a bad idea.
These heifers are going to be single for a while. I like most of those restaurants.
A coffee date , is safe
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
You sound desperate or a simp the world is fulof other women to choose from
We can go anywhere she wants IF SHES PAYing .
everyone is entitled to refuse or accept what they want.... the most they get out of me is a walk in the park.
They only make lists or rules for men that they don’t want..keep that in mind going forward
PROVERBS 31:3 GIVE NOT THY STRENGTH UNTO WOMEN, NOR THY WAYS TO WHICH DESTROYETH KINGS.
As much as I love ice cream " I go by myself 😊😊if she don't wanna go" I sure will forget I met her"" 😅
Before my son really didn't understand why i was tenacious about them getting them their passports, now they truly begining to understand, and they both finally accept and are embracing what they need and must do, get off/out of this toxic situation of the west
As far as dating for a man. No baby mama's, no neck or chest tattoos!!.
A lot of these chicks just don't like the idea of restaurants that a lot of people have become very familiar with. That's why some of them don't like places like the Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, and Olive Garden for example.
That’s a good point
Will rather go to expensive 5vstar restaurants like they're the prize.
They better be paying for the place they wanna go to that's not "known" by anyone.....
Yes Phil please do a list. Someone may need or want to hear it.
As i can tell, with that so call list, many of these women are severely limiting the possibility of getting a date period
Looking at this list while i'm in the dominican republic you guys got it bad😂
I see a list like this and it's an immediate no. She's entitled as hell. Not worth any more discussion than that
the more and more i see these videos make me realise that being single is a blessing in disguise God didn't want me to have these problems they might aswell collect food stamps if their looking for a meal ticket 😂😂😂
I wish Kevin Samuel was still alive to see
They made a list with most of my favorite places.
Is the only thing black women value is FOOD! CLOTHES! MAKEUP! PURSES! AND SHOES?.
WHAT ABOUT LOVE! COMMITMENT! AND KINDNESS!.
Whatever you do or go, don't spend no more than $35.
No restaurant is beneath me if it's clean and food is good.
It's so sad that women think that those restaurants are below them. And the places they can't afford
Some of those women who think like that be the main ones who are broke and have a negative balance in there bank account but act like there too good to go to red lobster or the cheese cake factory.
You don't need to go to a place to eat for a date.
Thank goodness. I got my passport. My lord. Y’all can have these toxic females. !!!!
Thank you people have zero creativity
What the hell is wrong with going to the movies
You're not interacting with one another to get to know each other
You are only watching a movie.
@@cocokatdaddy42Facts
Movies is cool for teenagers young adults.
It stirs sexuality
Everything you have said Phil is 100% correct and as a woman I will go to most of those places except the few that you’ve mentioned as well. ❤❤❤ you are an amazing host. Please keep up the great work you do. I watch your show every day.
Ok. How about men don’t take women out who are no longer virgins.
They don't want men to make a list,because they wouldn't be able to make the Cut ,most of them
It’s great that they have a list because it cuts down on wasting time and serve as places to take willing dates without the bitter chicks’ presence. 😁
Most of the those places are pretty decent, I don't see why most of these places are a problem. 🤦♂️
That list doesn’t speak for me. I refuse to participate in others delusions .
Most of them get Ebt every month and acting bougee!
Men just don’t take them on any dates
Women act like they paying for the meal
Great video coverage, Phillip 💯 You said it you're getting to know the person any respectful sit-down restaurant should do. If not, that's a red flag that burning 🔥 thing happens in levels
Most of these women can’t even get there baby daddy’s to take them anywhere
And they wonder what happen to Chivalry.
The was list women made and a list men made. Women focused on date locations with an emphasis on price and luxury. Men focused on the personality and background of the woman.
Any bumb can pay for a nice dinner for 1 night but a woman cannot remove her baggage and history
Any chick with a list is not to be considered anything other than a jump off.
Looks like I won't be going out on a date. I can save that cash and buy a ticket. I got my passport.
Why is eating at a 10 Star Restaurant so important to a lot of black women?.
Status, power and to break a man's pockets.
@@maroon9273 an ego stroke
#12 is going to happen with me, I use a buffet as a litmus test on women.
You can learn a lot about them just by taking women to a buffet. And there are nice buffet restaurants out there.
what can be learned by going to a buffet?
Nobody said No to a dark alley . Lol😅😅😅😅😅😅
This is Just Another Distraction As Usual , Family!!!!!!!!!!
Modern women are full of it. It looks like a lot of women are now finding it difficult to get men. Ever since I started covering events on TikTok, trying to monetize, a lot of women have been messaging me for hook-ups or relationships.
A lot of these women today like to go to fancy restaurants because they do girls night out with their friends and they like going to eat at those five star restaurants. BUT i don't see anything wrong with most of these restaurants. There are some restaurants you should not take her too which I believe.
That’s because they don’t mind helping pay for each other. When it comes to a man paying she expects to not do it
Bad example Phil. I would never date a woman that’s a cowboys fan 😂. Any other team. 😂
I agree with the movies being a no go because you can't talk to each other and you're just looking at the screen the whole time.
Great way to get a boring, basic, b.
She will go where I choose to go. Otherwise I am not leading her, she is leading me, which is the absolute worst way to start. If she can't follow, she can piss off.
I totally agree with you Phil
These modern women have lost their damn minds. Just my take on it.
Please add
*ANYWHERE I'M AT* to that list of places they avoid. _PLEASE_ 💯
I most definitely am not taking her to a $3500 a person restaurant.
I think this topic is an invention, no more common than the odds of getting struck by lighting, started by Cheesecake girl and magnified by social medias b/c it's so funny and ridiculous. Until then, it wasn't anything anyone talked or complained about. I have two young adult kids, a son and a daughter, and they never experienced or heard of such nonsense. 😆
This topic is not an invention. A lot of modern women have this mindset.
I agree. I’ve never heard anyone complain about the Cheesecake Factory. I can see Chipotle or fast food places but I’m not even opposed to those if our initial date was the park or the beach and we had a picnic but stayed for hours talking and got hungry again. I believe get to know you dates should be before serious dates.
@@theblackestbeautyfacts
I’m going out for drinks here, would you like to join?….. they are telling us men not to ask them out on dates
There will be many young modern women going hungry.
Don't take them nowhere. Tell them to make a dinner plate, bring it to your house. And go straight to the bedroom. They forget that's there duty. But i didn't forget. Kitchen and bedroom
I remember when I used to mess with this white girl and all she wanted was Taco Bell 😂😂😂
😂
Same 😂😂 n i always had to finish her food lol
I remember about 10 11 years ago i offered to take a girl to olive garden and she said its a chain restaurant. I didnt understand and didnt see why it mattered. Needless to say she never ate at all with me
Just like a bad business practice, women don't want return customers, they want to stick you for as much as they can.
Glad Dave and Buster's not on the list...lol
I have NEVER known a woman to say no to cheesecake that she isn’t going to be paying for. Since I, as a man, am expected to pay anyway.
The problem with going to the movies is that you’re not focused on each other you’re focused on the movie screen.
I disagree on your take on bowling, i hop, waffle house and denny's. They're great after hour and mornings dates. Bowling is a fun date to go to. Ice cream, chipotle/wingstop/high end or healthy fast foods only work when your going to the museums, walk in the park/waterfront/city plaza, tourist sightings, bowling, arcade, museums, exhibits and many more similar dates.
If thy love u ,thy dont care if thy stay home ,and cook dinner there.
But if u a mark ......... well hey ,
Thts on u........ our women r lions
Thy can hunt for themselves. But thy allow us to adore them as well. Does tht sound sorta in line?