Our Marriage Update: Q&A | What's Changed, Disagreements, Kids

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  • @GailFuhlman
    @GailFuhlman ปีที่แล้ว +283

    I have the need to let Iman and Stephon know that I was married for 22 years. My husband passed away on November 16, 2021, of lung cancer and emphysema. It has been very hard, but I remember all of our life together. My husband and I never had arguments, we always had disagreements. We always talk them out. People would say to us that every couple has arguments and that is just not so. We had love and repeat from the very start of our marriage. So I really appreciated that you both said that you have a disagreement. There are so many reasons that I enjoy your channel. I am 70 years young, but your channel has brought so many great memory of the life I had with my loving husband. So as long as you keep God first then everything else with fall into place. But I still love Iman's laughter and the way you look at each other with love and enjoy your new life as a married couple. Thank you for sharing part of your life with us. You two deserve so many blessings as you continue to show each other how much you love each other.

    • @LaVieDeFlavie
      @LaVieDeFlavie ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I love your comment ❤️ And I’m sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one, especially a spouse, is never easy; however, reminiscing on all the beautiful memories shared makes it easier to cope with the loss.
      Thank you for reinforcing that in a healthy relationship there can be disagreements without the need for arguments. I’m all about listening, understanding, and respecting a partner’s opinion even if we disagree. ❤️🙏🏾

    • @Cute_Stuffs
      @Cute_Stuffs ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love this ❤🎉

    • @medinahhagan-morgan6425
      @medinahhagan-morgan6425 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg! I feel the same way about them. They remind me of the beautiful relationship my late husband and I had. We were together for 17 years and married for 10. He died from Covid 2 years ago. I loved being a wife and being in partnership with him!! And their love story is such a wonderful reminder of that. They will go far in their journey. God bless them ❤❤

    • @FreeBright
      @FreeBright ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wouuuh those are some Words dear ❣️❣️🙌🏽 Blessed be the Lord ❣️💌

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow thank you soooo much for sharing your story! So touching! Thank you for your wisdom! You are appreciated cant thank you enough for your love and support!

  • @heremefquist9968
    @heremefquist9968 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    “People need to understand that when you court properly, COURT GOD’s way, it leads to miracles”.
    That was profound!
    Marriage is a blessing and God bless you both for sharing your journey.

  • @correttajackson2301
    @correttajackson2301 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I’m a single 34 year old female and you all TH-cam gives me so much hope to continue to trust GOD…

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +54

      If God remembered us sis, HE WILL remember you! Stay in faith for his BEST!❤️

    • @katehudson104
      @katehudson104 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thealfordsforever Amen and Amen 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️ ♥️

    • @Novembersongbird
      @Novembersongbird ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was married for the first time at 38. It was the best decision in my life to wait for him. He was my King!!! Little did we know God was going to call him home after an ulcer burst.. I have no regrets because God showed me what a Man of God is in a husband. No ones compared since..

    • @frankbobby1930
      @frankbobby1930 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi @Jackson how are u

    • @correttajackson2301
      @correttajackson2301 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@frankbobby1930 I’m good

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots ปีที่แล้ว +70

    “Look at what God did”
    “…and suddenly…” 🥰♥️

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      To God be the Glory!!

    • @NomsLoots
      @NomsLoots ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angiengubane4543 what are you on about?

  • @whereissuz
    @whereissuz ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Iman, when you pause and are thinking before you speak, and then you deliver what you want to say.. it really comes off eloquent, graceful, kind, thoughtful, genuine and very loving. No wonder he fell in love with you! The shared calendar is an excellent idea 💡 and whenever I get married, I’ll incorporate that.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you sooo much for the kind words!!The shared calendar is a blessing!

  • @Zen-cx5tc
    @Zen-cx5tc ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I pray many more men and women will experience this type of love 🤗🥰❤️

  • @Tianah_O
    @Tianah_O ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Who else was smiling throughout this video😊🥹Love watching you both!!🥰

    • @davidsfaith3205
      @davidsfaith3205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was laughing like a fool. They have that effect on me, and what they have is so real.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww so happy!!

  • @RashetaCannon
    @RashetaCannon ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I can definitely understand you not wanting to share your marriage so soon Iman & wanting to protect it. I would be the same way. However, please know (as I’m sure you do)that you are encouraging so many of us with your story. So many of us NEEDED to see this kind of love journey. Thank you for your obedience 💜

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you so much sis for understanding! I’m so happy that our journey could be a blessing to you! Comments like this are so touching and shows us why we had to be obedient to the calling that’s on our life. To God be all the glory! Thank you for sharing!❤️

    • @ntobemdladla678
      @ntobemdladla678 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me following your channel has been a blessing thank you ​@@thealfordsforever

    • @jemimajameson578
      @jemimajameson578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly.

    • @terrymobley6031
      @terrymobley6031 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May God continue to richly bless you both in your marriage.

  • @ThokoTwala
    @ThokoTwala 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Talk about a couple that is equally yoked, to the TEE. God is in this & you cannot convince me otherwise. Love you guys & God bless❤❤❤

  • @NaturalBeauty4Real
    @NaturalBeauty4Real ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I feel the love, I see the love…may it withstand the tests of time. “Two is better than one! And a threefold cord WILL NOT be easily broken!” “What GOD has joined together, let no man put asunder!” It’s the motivation and intention, for me. Keep it that way! 💕

  • @iraflora1616
    @iraflora1616 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You guys are def still in the honeymoon stage and nothing wrong with it. God is pleased with you guys!

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes we are! We are very intentional about staying on the moon as Stephon’s mom says! Life be life’n but we choose joy!❤️

  • @oram9112
    @oram9112 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Stephon is a good man of God, and Iman is a good woman of God too, I think he sleeps early now because he is so happy and comfortable. Keep the kindness flowing between you even In the tough times. Bless you guys

  • @mekiandher
    @mekiandher ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Iman your husband is handsome from the outside but the way he thinks and articulate his thoughts makes him so amazing, you guys communicate very well.I love everything about you Iman& Stephon❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much sis! I always look forward to reading your comments sis!

  • @faithwalk.
    @faithwalk. ปีที่แล้ว +14

    God literally took Iman from Stephons rib. Amen!❤ I love that you say "if God remembered us He remembers you." That is encouraging and true. Thank you for sharing.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are so thankful!! God will remember all of us!

  • @antolinzulay105
    @antolinzulay105 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    You Guy's story...encourages me to trust God more and more💝👏

    • @julianakitinde7913
      @julianakitinde7913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @mzDANCEiHEART
      @mzDANCEiHEART ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The same…. And to NOT settle because “look what God did” with them.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen! He won't fail you thats for sure!

  • @iammariaterese
    @iammariaterese ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “When you court, you court God’s way.” 🙏🙏🙏
    I appreciate that comment because I agree with Stephon that courting in our generation (I am single & 35) is a lost art for sure.

  • @pinkcarterinc.
    @pinkcarterinc. ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Why am I waiting for y’all’s videos like it’s a tv show ?! 😂😂😂 love this love story ❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      hahaha!!! We love thattttt!!! Thank you so much for being a supporter and being apart of our YT family!

  • @AnquinettP
    @AnquinettP ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We are thankful for Stephon starting the TH-cam channel. So many people in our generation has lost hope and think the Lord has forgot. This brings hope to so many people and helps to continue to trust the process.

  • @Kizzyfran
    @Kizzyfran ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Coming out of a divorce I sincerely pray for a marriage like this in the future! I got married young and didn’t know half the things you guys are doing here to make it work! I’m really happy for you guys ❤️

    • @frankbobby1930
      @frankbobby1930 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi kizzy how are u

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey sis!! God is a redeemer of time and he will restore you beyond what you can imagine! Thank you Sooo much for all your love and support! We pray God blesses you with a kingdom Husband that will love you like Christ!

    • @Kizzyfran
      @Kizzyfran ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks I appreciate this with all my heart ❤️

  • @sllewis7
    @sllewis7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "God Remembered" is such a powerful reality and is one of the most profound, prolific statements from your platform, your marriage, your lives, that has blessed me. Continue to fulfill purpose because you're helping fir real. #GodRemembered #Iman&StephonsJourney

  • @promiseudoeyop
    @promiseudoeyop ปีที่แล้ว +9

    One of the things that keep radiating is the Joy of the Lord that you both have. Thank you for sharing your stories and experiences with us. This helps us believe in happy ending in Christ ❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amennn! Its truly Joy! God has been so faithful and for that we are so thankful!

  • @kendras.9772
    @kendras.9772 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANK GOD FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL COUPLE! You are correct.Our generation needs you.❤🙏🏽

  • @lamis5348
    @lamis5348 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I just love how much you like each other. There is so much peace, I pray over you that nothing will come between you. May you guys guard the peace fiercely! Sending love!!! ❤❤❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen! Yes…that’s my best friend! Thank you for your prayers! We are yet learning and growing together in unity

  • @deborahphiri3975
    @deborahphiri3975 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've watched all your videos from the first one and let me tell you😊. My heart is just feeling at peace because these are the answers I've been looking for. I just turned 36yrs and relationship wise I desire marriage but it's been so hard for me. I've tried to take control and forget that God knows my desire and I don't need to rush for anything or anyone. In my single season I've learned so much about myself. When you said self care 😅 am the queen of self care. Am here just to say thank you, because this so real and many of us are waiting for God to give us that kingdom marriage. And while I wait am going to be busy serving him and others around me. ❤❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Such a blessing to read sis! God is going to reward you for your faithfulness! So excited for your future kingdom marriage! Self care it up sis and enjoyyyyy your preparation season!!

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This was so helpful!!! I am currently waiting until marriage God’s way. I pray my future hubby and I get to spend the day with you two someday. So thankful for stephon for obeying God. We need this channel

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our pleasure!!!To God be the glory! Yess one day in the future we will have a conference and meet up! We look forward to meeting you and your future husband!

  • @sadestembridge7340
    @sadestembridge7340 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I can truly say Stephon and Imani gives me encouragement on marriage and friendship all in one I love how both of them can laugh and joke with each. #GodRemebered # GodlyRelationship #Blacklove

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank youuu!!! Friendship is soooo important!!

  • @heartstrings110
    @heartstrings110 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m beaming watching you two! I’m so happy for you!! Keep inspiring single men and women. The Lord is using you both to make marriage desirable again for so many.

  • @zee-aaliyah
    @zee-aaliyah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all be having me blushing and feeling all silly with all that cheesing and low key flirting y’all be doing. 😂😂

  • @Thedanniels
    @Thedanniels ปีที่แล้ว +22

    We are obsessed watching you❤

  • @tbinspired
    @tbinspired ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Y’all are awesome ❤!! Can we also get a look book from Iman or fashion tips because I love her elevated style 😍!! So classy & feminine.

  • @miao.2478
    @miao.2478 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ~🔆Thank you for the obedience in starting your channel. What blessed me so is when you stated, “If God remembered us, He Will remember you.”
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    Blessings to your marriage😊

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much! God is so faithful he most certainly will remember you!

  • @bridgetanyango3377
    @bridgetanyango3377 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God really Remembered. I love ya'll ❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He truly did sis! We’re confident that He will remember so many others also 🙌🏽

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We love you!!

  • @shawnrandall1743
    @shawnrandall1743 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your testimony is very necessary, when marriage is being treated as an anomaly. It's refreshing to witness this Godly union (kingdom marriage).

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Amennn! We give all glory to God for what he has done!

  • @skylerever6273
    @skylerever6273 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you guys ... People need and truly enjoy hearing from you guys. Married, single young, older, everything in between. Much value in you guys TH-cam videos. Thank you, love your content!!!
    What a unique, beautiful, all together lovely ministry ...
    " Look what GOD did"🎶💕

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      woowww so encouraged by your comment! Thank you so much for your love and support!

  • @zipporahotaru1704
    @zipporahotaru1704 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl! I come to TH-cam because of you guys.
    The optimism and hope is so relieving.

  • @r.t.2470
    @r.t.2470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello, Just came across o w of yiur videos a few days ago. I've been Binge watching since. You all's love story is AWESOME! I absolutely love how you continue to advised that you two courted!!!!! Dating is no place in the BIBLE.
    May God continue to BLESS you both!

  • @queenpeaches3843
    @queenpeaches3843 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    aww this is so so sweet...Its a beautiful thing to see a God centered relationship

  • @christinehowell431
    @christinehowell431 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Continue to impact this generation. Am hoping to see those 2 kids soon. Just take it one day at a time. This is A podcast of inspiration ..
    Love you both

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! Yes we truly will! Sending much love back to you

  • @fromarianiewithlove
    @fromarianiewithlove ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The way ya'll look at each other is everything!

  • @demetriaclay414
    @demetriaclay414 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are the cutest, I love the way y'all look at each other. This is giving me hope that I'll get the chance to experience true, God ordained love one day! ❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank You! God is the BEST matchmaker and he makes everything beautiful in his timing!

  • @nianijones4611
    @nianijones4611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is sweet! I will say after being married 15 years (ironically to a pastors son), the tissue, toilet seat, and hair will eventually become annoying and nerve wracking lol! But if you continue to rely on the foundation of your marriage which is God, you’ll overcome any obstacles, both small and large. Stay before God ❤

  • @mary14892
    @mary14892 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for mentioning council. I went through 1000 of hours of counciling after my 16 yr marriage ended. It took years of counciling for me to heal. It sure did take all of Jesus to heal my brokenness and I am whole now. Just full of life and happy! ❤❤❤ God Bless Stephon and Iman!

  • @aprilpowell6619
    @aprilpowell6619 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another great video! Thank you so much. Watching you helps me to believe that there is hope for me. I know God has not forgotten me.

  • @Ericka0316
    @Ericka0316 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so amazing. Look at what God did and thank you Stephon for obeying the Lord and starting the TH-cam channel.

  • @alinenishimwe8563
    @alinenishimwe8563 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you both for your obedience. As a single person I have learned so much from you and I am glad I stumbled and got to know your page. God bless abundantly

  • @precious-giftjoshua2803
    @precious-giftjoshua2803 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A wait is only a waste when you let it be a waste, in the process and wait God wants to work on your inner being, so that when the promises come you can be able to handle and take care of them. He gives you the promise when he sees how submitted you were to the process and how ready you are for the promise, I learn a lot from watching the both of you and I love you guys❤❤❤.

  • @hopeolivia590
    @hopeolivia590 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Seeing your determination to do things God's way, especially the way you treat each other with love, and prepared yourself for marriage is so inspirational. Thank you for starting this TH-cam and inspiring this generation, it's truly needed!! ❤❤❤

  • @agmencooks
    @agmencooks ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for uploading, always blushing when watching.

  • @TruthisLife1
    @TruthisLife1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you Guys so refreshing to see how much you adore each other…. I’m definitely looking forward to having my person❤❤❤❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We are so full of Gratitude for what God has done! God is going to give you a beautiful love story, full of purpose!!💕

  • @felnluvwithyou505
    @felnluvwithyou505 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was realistic and honest and It gave me alot to think about as i mentally and physically prepare myself for marriage.

  • @lindaonyangooruko
    @lindaonyangooruko ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We just love you guys, a great marriage ministry ❤ 🇰🇪

  • @princessgigiking
    @princessgigiking ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great marriage update Steph & Iman so proud of both of you, continue to keep God first. Married life is awesome. Your love inspires me! I am obsessed with your channel. ❤️🙏❤️ #godrememberedus #couplegoals

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There’s still hope

  • @mztymtaylormadequeen7127
    @mztymtaylormadequeen7127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm learning from you guys. I am 59 never been married and trust I'm still taking notes..May God continue to bless you guys and family 🙏🏾🙏🏾✌🏾

  • @cocoloca8
    @cocoloca8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow. God really did have a plan for this channel. It’s a blessing to so many. Praise God!❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      To God be the Glory! God is very intentional!

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your joy you are spreading

  • @QueenSoonToHaveHerKing
    @QueenSoonToHaveHerKing ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I L💜VE Y'ALL LIL SAYIN AT THE END GOD REMEMBERED Y'ALL SO HE'LL REMEMBER US!!! 💯✅🎯 WORD THAT'S FACTS!!!!🥰🙏🏽💪🏽👐🏼🙌🏼👏🏽

  • @ngoziibehealthsituations
    @ngoziibehealthsituations ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys, I am tapping into what you have. Its so beautiful and I join my faith with yours, that just like that, it will happen, as I declare those things that are not as though they were. Its wholesome to see, may God bless your union and grant you His will in all you do.

  • @diymaani
    @diymaani ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Coming through with the consistent content for us! Love you guys! #GodRemembered 🙏🏿❤️

  • @Brownskinlove-qh4io
    @Brownskinlove-qh4io ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know that God led me to this beautiful couple. y’all popped up on my screen. Outta no where Thank you!!♥️🖤🙏🏾 OMG I knew you were a pastors kid! Wow I say every vlog!

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If God remembered us, He will remember you 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @queenk.w_williams
    @queenk.w_williams ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm glad you posted when you did Stephan . I needed ya'lls videos. God send you both to us as a reminder that true love and decent men and women exist. I hope to find that special someone soon 🙏

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so single and in my late 40’s I am just going to enjoy life.

  • @quallawingerter4434
    @quallawingerter4434 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I just love you both!! You are an inspiration to all of us on how you allow the Lord to truly be the 1st and the head of your life and your marriage! Thank you for sharing your journey❤️! May the Lord Jesus continue to lead, guide and direct your lives for his glory!

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for the prayers! So appreciated!

  • @reginabaffour4911
    @reginabaffour4911 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys already❤...the laugh😁, the smiles and most importantly the FAITH you both have 🙏🏽. Your story encourages me to trust God the more during my Waiting season. I pray God remembers me and sends me my God-fearing Man too! 😊.
    **I'm your new subscriber ❤🎉

  • @cathylassiter4660
    @cathylassiter4660 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always excited to see a new video on this gorgeous Christian couple - The Alfords. 🥰
    I would have been nervous like IMAN to share a beautiful LOVE Story as such, yet glad Stephon and you prayed on it and went forward. Stephon had the vision!! You all just don’t know how uplifting and inspirational your love story and videos are to me and the rest of the community!! It’s a blessing beyond what we imagine with the human eye to see how your meeting and marrying unfolded. To see GOD in the midst of orchestrating and planting seeds is truly miraculous.
    I can’t wait for you all to have children. They will be adorable and blessed’😇!!
    Until then continue learning and enjoying the union. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💕💕

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much our GRC sisssss! Love you! Thank you so much for these heartfelt words soo special!

  • @estherduah1983
    @estherduah1983 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God really made you post your first story in perfect time ...... sure it found many in perfect time.... your exact wording and all - (God remembered)...

  • @inawroten3559
    @inawroten3559 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful couple! I enjoyed this! Blessings!❤️❤️

  • @aliciafoster6434
    @aliciafoster6434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is soo good
    I love the honesty and transparency
    I have learned a lot in the video
    You two are on of my favorite couples
    God bless you!!!

  • @Mrs0117
    @Mrs0117 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stephon's forsite about desciding to share your journey to the world is so profound, because the santity of marrige and family is under attack in every way when it is the frabic of this nation. So to individuals that found love and is open to share their testimony is so brave and courageous. Your relationship gives many people still searching for their person hope. So thank you both for all that you do. Blessing for continue happiness on your life paths together.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you sooo much for your love and support! I am so thankful for Steph obedience as well it has changed our life! To God be the glory!

  • @ChosenDeeDee
    @ChosenDeeDee ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So encouraging and a great reminder to do it God’s way. ❤️

  • @marymalloy2848
    @marymalloy2848 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a Beautiful couple, learning each other with God in the center.😊

  • @natcole1878
    @natcole1878 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys look so beautiful together. I love the way you make each other smile. Y'all are beautiful.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!! ❤️

    • @natcole1878
      @natcole1878 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thealfordsforever You're welcome ❤️

  • @trinasmith9730
    @trinasmith9730 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guy’s are so encouraging! Look at those smiles! Blessings to y’all! Praise God! 🎉❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      so glad you are encouraged!!! To God be all the glory!

  • @bsale2024
    @bsale2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad you decided to share your story with the masses. Your relationship with each our and your relationships with the Lord are wonderful examples for others to follow. Thank you for your honesty and integrity! ❤️

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      To God be all the glory!! You are so welcome!!

  • @princessgigiking
    @princessgigiking ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so excited for this update, I love you both 💗💗💗

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not giving up hope. I am watching this video again❤love you both

  • @jenniferhenderson5650
    @jenniferhenderson5650 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is definitely God breathed and I love it!! The chemistry, ect! Wow!! Still believing for myself! God bless you both immensely!

  • @indawright1421
    @indawright1421 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You guys are too cute. I am looking forward to the babies. Blessings!

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! ❤️We can’t wait for the Alford babies lol

  • @mary14892
    @mary14892 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You gassing Stephon up, and he was getting ready to put you on the pillow!😅

  • @victoriaoyedeji8705
    @victoriaoyedeji8705 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My marriage will happen just like that too 💃🏽😀.. Amen

  • @queenk.w_williams
    @queenk.w_williams ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful couple 💑 ya'll compliment each other like you two fit great. It's obvious God did it.

  • @clementiadarko233
    @clementiadarko233 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Lord really Called you to TH-cam..I remember when I was so down one Sunday evening when I chanced on your first video and I knew God was telling me not to worry and trust him.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      woowww! Comments like this keep us encouraged and motivated to keep going! Thank you so much!

  • @ItsTishira
    @ItsTishira ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for starting the channel and for sharing! It’s so beautiful and inspiring to see a healthy and happy marriage and hear about the way you all courted. ❤️ You are our reminder that God always remembers!

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow sis!!! So happy!! So thankful for Steph obedience!

  • @pray2b1
    @pray2b1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A God ordained union is the BEST. Wishing you two the greatest life together. You both deserve each other's love. You two are truly special and I know that you will allow the Holy Spirit to lead and guide you in All things. Your mannerisms attitude and sensitivity to each other is so Special. God's Blessings for what He has joined together.

  • @rubypayne2478
    @rubypayne2478 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this disagreement message. It is critical that your followers know that you are both human, and if you agree completely, someone is giving robotic vibes and not thinking. If that should happen over a long period of time, the marriage would not be healthy. I love your spiritual response to the disagreement. I have been married for 54 years, my husband and I realized that with God's power and our efforts we would have a successful marriage. We used Galatians 5:23-24: the Fruit of the Spirit, to help us honor God through our marriage and to respect and care for each other. We are truly blessed with the friendship of one another. Keeping you on the altar. 🙏 ♥ 🙏 Rjpayne

  • @antolinzulay105
    @antolinzulay105 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love you guys💖💖
    From Cameroon 🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

  • @natural0ne
    @natural0ne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your transparency is greatly appreciated & a blessing to young couples. You are truly a blessing from above. Thanks for sharing your love ❤!

  • @tonytaylor3640
    @tonytaylor3640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A wonderful ,glorious ,learning and inspiring update! Heart felt and blessed!!! Thanks yall!! Psalms 5 verse 12

  • @ItsKimmyM
    @ItsKimmyM ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your channel. I get excited when I see a new video, I was smiling through the whole video lol. Being from Memphis I get super hype. I love how God showed how he can show up… In the words of Iman JUST LIKE THAT- ❤

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This makes me so happy sis!! 901 baby!!! I don’t know what you’re believing in God for but my prayer is that it happens JUST LIKE THAT!🙌🏽💕

    • @ItsKimmyM
      @ItsKimmyM ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thealfordsforever ❤️Thank you so much. I trusting in God. I literally wrote “Just Like That” on my bedroom mirror because you really inspired me and I saw that God will really come through for us. The first time I saw a video y’all posted and I thought I saved it to my watch later list and when I went to watch it, it wasn’t there. I was like noooo I really wanted to watch it. So I said it will resurface if it’s meant for me to watch and a day or two later it popped back up. I got so excited.. lol and I know then it was meant for my to see y’all story.

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Look at God!!! We love it!! Can’t wait to hear your just like that testimony!❤️

    • @ItsKimmyM
      @ItsKimmyM ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thealfordsforever I’m going to be excited to give it.

    • @ItsKimmyM
      @ItsKimmyM ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thealfordsforeverI just wanted to let you know your hair is gorgeous. Very sleek, simple and pretty.

  • @feliciarogers8899
    @feliciarogers8899 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YALL STORY it gave and gives me hope because I wanted to get married just how Iman wanted and people thought that was crazy but it's possible as I see with yall. GOD IS SO AWESOME ... THANKS for sharing yall story with us 🥰🥰 I LOVED THE WAY YALL LOOK AT EACH ❤ and that she wants you close at ALL TIMES ❤❤ YESSSSSSSSSS LORD

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux769 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They are so sweet. I love how silly they can be together.

  • @angellcateau6098
    @angellcateau6098 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your lives this early...it's very transparent. For single perons looking on it very assuring and a true guide on what to look for in a partner from dating to courtship to marriage. ❤

  • @anathinokhemane5702
    @anathinokhemane5702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ohh man I just love how he looks at her....

  • @Mrs.CryssieJ
    @Mrs.CryssieJ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you guys your videos are so refreshing especially the fact that God has placed you both together , to show so many others what being in a Marriage purposed by God looks like for real because the Holy spirit is leading and guiding you both 🙏🙏 I thank God everyday that He has reshaped me and my husband to show and appreciate one another the way he intended us to originally .

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว

      To God be the glory sis! We are so happy for you and your husband! God bless you both!

    • @Mrs.CryssieJ
      @Mrs.CryssieJ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thealfordsforever yes To God belongs all the Glory thank you my brother and sister in Christ❤🙏🙏

  • @eyram_n
    @eyram_n ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Found out about you guyz yesterday when I was scrolling through Instagram and chanced on your video about finding your wife with just a hashtag.Decided to watch it and I immediately loved it.
    Truly an inspiration to many. smiling anytime I watch your videos.
    Even following your wife now on Instagram.
    Much love from 🇬🇭

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy to have you apart of our YT family!!!

  • @shay7056
    @shay7056 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's Good! Being under the anointing is how God will use you all for Marriage Ministry.Been married For 7 years...never thought we would have a Marriage Ministry .it's a UNRAVELINGGGG LIFE♥️🎀♥️

  • @chiogorrokeke4397
    @chiogorrokeke4397 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your videos are a huge inspiration and blessing to me. I love you guys so much, thank you for existing on this space 🥺❤️ God bless you both!

  • @Thedanniels
    @Thedanniels ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Likes for us we are first❤❤

  • @TheBurningBusch
    @TheBurningBusch ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed this video very much! You are a handsome couple! You’re so beautiful together! I love how you can have open and honest communication even if it means bringing emotions to the surface! May God continue to bless you beyond your wildest dreams and use you for His glory! Your marriage was definitely ordained by God and what God ordains, HE maintains!! I love you both!!🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @thealfordsforever
      @thealfordsforever  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so muchhh! I love that 'what God ordains, he maintains" amen!!