@@beanboy5963 me and my friend were completely opposite on the terms of politics and religon, we decided to just not talk abt religon or politics ever again bcuz we would argue so bad that it would make us ignore each other for days, were not friends anymore but its not bcuz of the politics or religon which is the point
This why I'm so glad my husband and I were together for 5 years before we married. We were always upfront about our wants and needs for both the present and future. Right before we got married. I asked him to be 100% sure that marriage was what he wanted bc if he had even one tiny worry we shouldn't get married. He said "Well you are a bit gassy but I think I can deal with that" lol God I love that man
Yeah basically people need to really get to know this person beyond doubt to get married and that usually takes time, sadly too many people get married quickly often still in the romance person which is the worst time to make such a judgment
Good for you! Being upfront about your wants/needs would prevent a lot of people from getting married who shouldn't. These are discussions that don't happen in a few months! My sis and her ex seemed pretty solid except for one (HUGE) aspect, she wanted kids and he was rather neutral and made her agree no kids for the first few years of their marriage. So time passed and they had a kid. Suddenly he was no longer neutral, he didn't want kids, and didn't even do much with his son's care, and couple's therapy failed. Honestly, she should have gotten a divorce right then, rather than try multiple therapy attempts. You can't therapy someone into changing their mind about their wants.
I was raised in a cult environment. Dad was our leader and had an odd way of interpreting the rules for himself versus us. Girlfriend lived with a physically abusive father. We dated for about a year-and-a-half and decided marriage was the best solution to both our problems. Turns out a religiously brainwashed young man and a young woman who learned that family communication was generally done at the top of her lungs don’t make a good partnership. Her mom was very devout but taught her to lie to the priest. That lesson carried beyond confession of sins. Found out way too late that she wasn’t totally honest with me while we were dating and too many unsavory details began to emerge after the honeymoon. I’m still battling my cult-fostered belief system, but there was really just no way it was going to work. I believed in honesty and she seemed to believe everything was okay if you don’t get caught. Edit. I regretted never asking her dad for permission to marry his daughter, because he probably would have refused. Dammit.
@@TheComemnter i mean, what it sounds like with what little info we have, it very well could be. a cult can be any size, even less than 5 people, and any religious brainwashing usually is the start of or just straight up is a cult.
People are strange. Blows my mind that there are people out there who obviously aren’t compatible getting married, when in my own experience getting a relationship with lots of potential to last longer than 6 months into the dating phase is fucking impossible.
My cousin just told me about her husband's colleague, a young woman. The first time I've heard about her was about 4 years ago, that she was engaged to be married that year. She was living in a different town for work, so it was a long distance relationship for the duration of the engagement. Apparently, the fiance was having several affairs during the engagement, and the girl found out about it just days before the wedding. They went on with the wedding, but she asked for annulment days after. She told my cousin, they didn't consummate the marriage.
My husband & I got divorced this year after 5.5 years. Now we're back together. I'm shocked! He wants to meet me every day for kisses on his way to work. He's so crazy about me. I can't believe it!!
2:14 that one turned out to be one heck of a rollercoaster tbh 3:52 so glad to hear she’s doing much better despite everything that happened 7:08 I’m so sorry to hear that, I usually don’t really believe in luck but that’s what I call misfortune
“ I can’t imagine being the driver in a crash that kills your best friend.” THIS is why I always drive the point home of wearing seatbelts. I don’t care who you think you are, if you’re in my car, you’re wearing a seatbelt. I’ve seen what happens with them, and what happens without them. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I killed somebody. And my passion is driving. So I’m going to try and keep that risk is low as possible, and it starts with seatbelts.
I've never had a desire to get married. My friends were all getting married young, most are now divorced and either on 2nd marriages or just stayed single after the 1st. I was too independent to settle, but then again I really couldn't stand a guy after the 2 year mark with him. After 2 years they seem to change, or maybe I was the one that changed, since I kept going forward and bettering myself. They got comfortable with routine, I did NOT. Been proposed to 4 times in my life and I ran the opposite direction as fast as possible. I'm now 58 and in a 9 year commonlaw relationship. It works because I barely see him. ;) He lives at the other end of the house. works for me. lol
I’ve had an internet license to marry people for 20+ years. I’ve done a few but last year married a young lady to her ex-husband’s brother. Shockingly it didn’t last 😂 Their kids literally had an ‘Uncle Daddy’ and ‘Daddy Uncle’ at the same time 🤣
11:40 Yo, screw your wife. You were nothing but good to her and she got into a relationship while still thinking about her ex. I hope you are doing fine now, cannot wish the same for her though
I just got married like 3 months ago and I love my husband so much I'm newly 20 and my husband is 24 and sometimes I'm like damn, I'm gonna be with you forever.... but I'm sure we will make it :)
My cousin was marry for 3 months because he discovered the baby of his ex girlfriend was his and he wanted to be in his son's life, so his wife kick him out of the house and did everything to stop him from helping financially to the baby, 8 moths relationship and 3 of married and the baby was like 5 or 6 months when he discover the him.
If you are reading this before 5:25, STOP. 🛑 ⚠ it's a horrifying story you will not be able to unsee. You have now been warned, and what you choose to do is up to you. I'm noping out.
A friend 25 ys ago married his fiance. After the reception follow my cousin and sister to my house an hour away leaving his bride. Saying to my cousin he loved her. Cousin turns him down flat. Sister return him to his wife that night. Sister stays friends with bride and groom . 3 months later sister and groom show up at my place and moves in and they stay together for a few months. Then groom return to wife and devorcies. Don't know what happen to him after.
An extreme conservative and extreme liberal get married...in 2016.
How could they not find out about each other's political affiliations until then?
Exactly what I was thinking. Did they never talk to each other or something?
People may express is mainly online rather then in person
@@beanboy5963 me and my friend were completely opposite on the terms of politics and religon, we decided to just not talk abt religon or politics ever again bcuz we would argue so bad that it would make us ignore each other for days, were not friends anymore but its not bcuz of the politics or religon which is the point
That is why you don't get married after three months of dating. In three months there is not enough time to learn everything about the other person🙄.
@A H I think so😂.
"We got married to fix the relationship." If it's already obviously failing, how the hell is getting married going to help?
Apparently people do it all the time. Foolish thing to do, but people keep going for it.
@@stadot1427 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
Jerry Seinfeld and Elaine had sex (attempted to, at least) to save the friendship.
Ikr, dumbest shit
And the even worse sequel "Since getting married didn't help, we're having a baby in the hopes that it will fix everything"
This why I'm so glad my husband and I were together for 5 years before we married. We were always upfront about our wants and needs for both the present and future. Right before we got married. I asked him to be 100% sure that marriage was what he wanted bc if he had even one tiny worry we shouldn't get married. He said "Well you are a bit gassy but I think I can deal with that" lol
God I love that man
Yeah basically people need to really get to know this person beyond doubt to get married and that usually takes time, sadly too many people get married quickly often still in the romance person which is the worst time to make such a judgment
Good for you! Being upfront about your wants/needs would prevent a lot of people from getting married who shouldn't. These are discussions that don't happen in a few months!
My sis and her ex seemed pretty solid except for one (HUGE) aspect, she wanted kids and he was rather neutral and made her agree no kids for the first few years of their marriage. So time passed and they had a kid. Suddenly he was no longer neutral, he didn't want kids, and didn't even do much with his son's care, and couple's therapy failed. Honestly, she should have gotten a divorce right then, rather than try multiple therapy attempts. You can't therapy someone into changing their mind about their wants.
"I don't think she understood the instructions for 23 & Me"! BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
"instructions unclear, i accidentally cheated on my husband 23 times" lmao
If it doesn't work the 1st time, maybe it'll work the 24th time
I was raised in a cult environment. Dad was our leader and had an odd way of interpreting the rules for himself versus us.
Girlfriend lived with a physically abusive father. We dated for about a year-and-a-half and decided marriage was the best solution to both our problems.
Turns out a religiously brainwashed young man and a young woman who learned that family communication was generally done at the top of her lungs don’t make a good partnership.
Her mom was very devout but taught her to lie to the priest. That lesson carried beyond confession of sins. Found out way too late that she wasn’t totally honest with me while we were dating and too many unsavory details began to emerge after the honeymoon. I’m still battling my cult-fostered belief system, but there was really just no way it was going to work. I believed in honesty and she seemed to believe everything was okay if you don’t get caught.
Edit. I regretted never asking her dad for permission to marry his daughter, because he probably would have refused. Dammit.
@@TheComemnter i mean, what it sounds like with what little info we have, it very well could be. a cult can be any size, even less than 5 people, and any religious brainwashing usually is the start of or just straight up is a cult.
It's perfectly fine to question what you're told. "Because I said so," or "don't question it," are NEVER correct answers
People are strange. Blows my mind that there are people out there who obviously aren’t compatible getting married, when in my own experience getting a relationship with lots of potential to last longer than 6 months into the dating phase is fucking impossible.
Well they're not concerned with having a solid relationship
11:38 actually made me sad. I can tell that person is kind.
My cousin just told me about her husband's colleague, a young woman. The first time I've heard about her was about 4 years ago, that she was engaged to be married that year. She was living in a different town for work, so it was a long distance relationship for the duration of the engagement. Apparently, the fiance was having several affairs during the engagement, and the girl found out about it just days before the wedding. They went on with the wedding, but she asked for annulment days after. She told my cousin, they didn't consummate the marriage.
It's depressing how many of these end with cancer or sudden deaths. I thought it was just gonna be cheating and abuse, not this. Fuck cancer
Doctors, if your female patients don't want kids, THEY DON'T WANT KIDS
My husband & I got divorced this year after 5.5 years. Now we're back together. I'm shocked! He wants to meet me every day for kisses on his way to work. He's so crazy about me. I can't believe it!!
awesome!
Is the feeling mutual though? I hope so. Good luck in your lives together :)
Jim Halpert Uh, I assume the feeling is mutual....................?
7:00 that’s not a divorce. That’s a tragedy.
The same could be said for several of the entries here, video title is a bit misleading
2:14 that one turned out to be one heck of a rollercoaster tbh
3:52 so glad to hear she’s doing much better despite everything that happened
7:08 I’m so sorry to hear that, I usually don’t really believe in luck but that’s what I call misfortune
“ I can’t imagine being the driver in a crash that kills your best friend.” THIS is why I always drive the point home of wearing seatbelts. I don’t care who you think you are, if you’re in my car, you’re wearing a seatbelt. I’ve seen what happens with them, and what happens without them. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I killed somebody. And my passion is driving. So I’m going to try and keep that risk is low as possible, and it starts with seatbelts.
tl;dr: don't cheat on your spouse
Of course a bunch of these are young military guys who married quickly, and then got deployed soon after. 🙄
I've never had a desire to get married. My friends were all getting married young, most are now divorced and either on 2nd marriages or just stayed single after the 1st. I was too independent to settle, but then again I really couldn't stand a guy after the 2 year mark with him. After 2 years they seem to change, or maybe I was the one that changed, since I kept going forward and bettering myself. They got comfortable with routine, I did NOT. Been proposed to 4 times in my life and I ran the opposite direction as fast as possible. I'm now 58 and in a 9 year commonlaw relationship. It works because I barely see him. ;) He lives at the other end of the house. works for me. lol
23 and me LOL .. just killed me
I didn’t even get married; I canceled the wedding. We lived together for a year, fortunately at her house so all I had to do was leave.
I’ve had an internet license to marry people for 20+ years. I’ve done a few but last year married a young lady to her ex-husband’s brother.
Shockingly it didn’t last 😂
Their kids literally had an ‘Uncle Daddy’ and ‘Daddy Uncle’ at the same time 🤣
i dont want to get married but i want to just do the rings and the wedding dress and suit part
So... _An Elopement/A justice of the peace wedding (at the courthouse/service building) then_...? _Well,you do you then-I heard it's cheaper-though.._
You could get a private wedding!
throw a formal (costume) party and hosts are the king and queen. Basically what a wedding is.
Frig that guy with a pineapple.
🤣
I'm stealing that'
13:31
sounds like 90 day fiance
23 tho????
“It’ll get better” is such a BS reply. Idk why but I hate those supportive cliche comments.
That second one all happened in less than a year??
Nice video! I like most of these stories, thanks for making these videos!
Also this is first comment, showed up 3 seconds after this posted :D
Random Redditor: Frick that guy with a pineapple.
Me:
4 HOUR A DAY COMMUTE?? Lmao wtf people come on now
That's American transportation for you
11:40 Yo, screw your wife. You were nothing but good to her and she got into a relationship while still thinking about her ex. I hope you are doing fine now, cannot wish the same for her though
23 guys??????
I just got married like 3 months ago and I love my husband so much I'm newly 20 and my husband is 24 and sometimes I'm like damn, I'm gonna be with you forever.... but I'm sure we will make it :)
my ex colleague , a woman divorced her husband soon after her business succeeded .... i do not know if that was just coincidence or not.
My cousin was marry for 3 months because he discovered the baby of his ex girlfriend was his and he wanted to be in his son's life, so his wife kick him out of the house and did everything to stop him from helping financially to the baby, 8 moths relationship and 3 of married and the baby was like 5 or 6 months when he discover the him.
Disregard previous comment. I miscalculated.
listening to these kinds of stories is a very "window-watching" kind of experience for me
being aroace is weird
Woo hoo! I made it two!
If you are reading this before 5:25, STOP. 🛑 ⚠ it's a horrifying story you will not be able to unsee.
You have now been warned, and what you choose to do is up to you. I'm noping out.
some people just manipulate. as jordan say. marriage is not worth it. 4/10 gets divorce. yeah not going to take that chance againp
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Mine would have lasted less than a year we hadn't had a honeymoon baby. Been married 20 years now.
A friend 25 ys ago married his fiance. After the reception follow my cousin and sister to my house an hour away leaving his bride. Saying to my cousin he loved her. Cousin turns him down flat. Sister return him to his wife that night.
Sister stays friends with bride and groom . 3 months later sister and groom show up at my place and moves in and they stay together for a few months. Then groom return to wife and devorcies.
Don't know what happen to him after.