I Almost Gave Up...

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  • 2021 has so far been one of the worst years of my life and I Almost Gave Up... In today's video I get up close and personal and share my story with you all on how I'm trying to get through this terrible year...
    #GarethMason #WalkingTallwithGMAN
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    When I was younger, I was told because of my height I wouldn’t be able to play a sport in school however I proved everyone wrong and played sport and became first-team cricket captain of my school.
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  • @briansmaller7443
    @briansmaller7443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have discovered, after 60 years of life, that bad years come and go. I have had many 'worst years' of my life. Then something happens that reminds you that life is worth living because we are a long time dead. Keep fighting, keep doing it.

  • @chantelleengelbrecht4463
    @chantelleengelbrecht4463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We love you brother bear. We will always be there for you no matter what!

  • @youtubetings
    @youtubetings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    G-man you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.
    Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times.
    Stand strong and all the best!

  • @Samizouza
    @Samizouza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We'll make it through this difficult year together mate, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You already have a strong supportive network of those whom you've just mentioned whenever you're feeling down, let's all walk tall together and NEVER EVER give up in the face of adversity and trying times.

  • @murrayheasley9762
    @murrayheasley9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautifully spoken, young man. I just got through two cancers and a liver transplant and surrounded by people I love, I'm a 70 year old and good as gold now. You are an inspiration, Gareth. From an admirer in Auckland, New Zealand looking forward as a neutral to the Lions tour

  • @obe1239
    @obe1239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless Gareth mason. I;am so sorry to hear your news. Stay strong mate. Just remember there are people all over the world who have been inspired by you,. God has given you this platform to launch the mighty Gman…with love from England.

  • @StanWilks
    @StanWilks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's been a terrible year, Gareth - - for all of us. I find myself reading my daily prayers and being thankful that Jesus has kept me out of the darkness. I hope you find that healing.

  • @jdx8733
    @jdx8733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Almost gave up. The key word being ‘Almost’. Gareth you’re strong mate keep going 💪🏻. Being able to open up is such an amazing thing. I’m certain you have inspired others to do the same. God bless you man!!

  • @SkinnyBruRugby
    @SkinnyBruRugby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sorry that you're going through these tough times, man. Glad you didn't give up brother. Stay strong, rely on the people closest to you. Keep going strong, most importantly do what you love the most. We appreciate the fight, my friend!💪

  • @LB_die_Kaapie
    @LB_die_Kaapie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We here for you bro! Keep going!!!

  • @tims5129
    @tims5129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    G Man, you’re helping so many of us with your wisdom and bravery. Just reading the comments, you can see how many of us are benefiting from what you’re doing. Thanks bro x

  • @Jacklullaine
    @Jacklullaine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really sorry to hear about your mom buddy 😔. But great to see that you’re still staying strong and relying on the people that love you. There is strength in needing people. You inspire me pal👊

  • @kennethmadaras9490
    @kennethmadaras9490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Why me? What did I do to deserve this?” These are questions that many of us have often asked. However, somewhere along the way, I have learned that “It rains on the just and the unjust.” It doesn’t take away the suffering, but it reminds me that I am not immune to the “Human Condition.”

  • @Pepgang
    @Pepgang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't think too much my friend, try to be present in the moment. Thinking only creates problems. Stress, Anxiety, depression, anger it all comes from thinking. We either think of the past and future and that's where the problem starts. The past and future is not reality, only NOW is reality. Empty your mind by being present in the moment. The moment you switch to thinking your mind takes control of your life. Your mind is a instrument, don't let it use you.
    YOU ARE NOT YOUR MIND!
    Be present, observe your surroundings, ask yourself "am I present now? Then you are.
    Your true self can only be found in this moment right now anything else is mind created and false
    F*ck your mind!
    Don't think, feel!
    You are the universe my friend! ❤️

    • @librapower7810
      @librapower7810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree , suffering has been my teacher and catalyst out of egoic thinking Now is all there is

  • @Mikeup104
    @Mikeup104 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gman. You may be a man of small stature, but you are also a man with a giant heart! You are STRONG, you are VALUABLE. Your supporters love you. You do what you need to do and know that the 21700 people who follow you are with you. You are a GREAT person. keep it up. an inspiration.

  • @rmanuel67
    @rmanuel67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kia Kaha, remember you make a difference to us.

  • @heaneyb
    @heaneyb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful piece Gareth. You continue to inspire us all.

  • @fleshen
    @fleshen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mate the world gives us a whack an we get on or we give up but you carry all of us on your shoulders!!! Be strong brother your mates are all here for you!

  • @DrSoprano
    @DrSoprano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Life is tough, and cruel, and it will try and bring you down, but you have to bounce back and keep going, we all love you and your content Gareth, we love you for who you are mate, never give up! And we can’t wait for the lions tour and to see you watching your precious Springboks again, keep walking tall

  • @malcolm9650
    @malcolm9650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stay strong my SA Brother.🤝👍💙

  • @jamesmackinnon4568
    @jamesmackinnon4568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice brother. Wise words spoken as always from the heart. Love to you and the great G nation!

  • @TheNewSettlers
    @TheNewSettlers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you Gareth

  • @gracey2727
    @gracey2727 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for not giving up Gareth. So many people are struggling this past year and you just radiate strength. Your videos do more than you know🙏 Looking forward to the new Pro14!

  • @derrickboscombe2385
    @derrickboscombe2385 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gareth, many are in the same position or have been my friend. Keep strong and you will overcome this hurdle. You must also be there for your family. Keep walking TALL GMan. God's richest blessings upon you and your family. 🙏🙌

  • @blizzard6053
    @blizzard6053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much love G. Glad to see haven’t given up. The best is yet to come 👌

  • @dropyourrods8571
    @dropyourrods8571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chin up G-man. Brighter days ahead. Here for you, from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 👊👊

  • @StarLeo_
    @StarLeo_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep Walking tall gman!

  • @isaacmtamou8070
    @isaacmtamou8070 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad you are taken some of your own wires words and never give up as your supporters are here to listen to you and support you through the good times and the bad the hardest thing is to reach out and ask for help for what ever reason it maybe as men we tend to try and have this hard exterior and to ask for help or just cry is to be weak and that is far from the truth. If it is weak to ask for help or cry on a shoulder why is it so hard to do. Anyway Gman as a Kiwi we have our brothers over the ditch but your our big cousin's with the remote and we want it back 😆🤣😂 as you say it best Gman Walk Tall and Never Give Up.

  • @denbones1234
    @denbones1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    stay strong Gareth!

  • @achilles8397
    @achilles8397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Gareth glad seeing u again mate.. Im watching now.

  • @farisaad5635
    @farisaad5635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    G-man don't lose hope. I know it's been a depressing year for all but watching you on TH-cam is always a pleasure. No matter what happens you can take it in your stride and never dispair. You have all our support and keep on the good work. Take care

  • @lancemorris9701
    @lancemorris9701 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    NEVER GIVE UP BUDDY!! WE ALL BELEIVE IN YOU🔥✊

  • @floydkingi4364
    @floydkingi4364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hang in there G Man tough times eventually pass, you got a lotta fans out there! Love your honest and unbiased opinion on the game

  • @safe7392
    @safe7392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay strong. You say it sooo good. Never give up..

  • @matiasherrera8264
    @matiasherrera8264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro . Just one word !! We love you !!! From Argentina . That's it !!

  • @russelprice6929
    @russelprice6929 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay strong Gareth 🤞🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

  • @alunthomas9501
    @alunthomas9501 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW what a year. I think what you have done here is extremely brave. I have suffered with depression myself and it is hell and being honest it never truely goes away but you can beat it. Im sorry to hear of your loss of your grandfather. I have unfortunately lost all my grandparents and it is devastating but over time i have learned that being a grandson we have an opportunity to keep building the legacy of those we follow do that and know they look down on us with pride which im sure your grandfather is as you have acheived so much respect globally. As for hearing your mum's diagnosis that is devastating and my heart bleeds for you. All i can say is as a parent to 5 kids no matter what if there was an option i would take their place if they were diagnosed with a terminal illness. Be brave Gman your mum will need your support and your strength to keep going. It's easy for me to put in words but you have to find a way no matter what
    And i wish you both you and your mum can get through this together with your family and friends. As for battling depression all i can say on that front is take 1 step at a time mini goals. The more you can acheive the more you will want to acheive and that builds a way to beat back the depression. As you say wisely look back with pride never give up move forward stand tall climb to greater things. But remember to take things slowly as putting to much on yourself will only lead you to drown and wollow in self pitty and further depression. Don't let it happen your stronger than you know.

  • @pauloosthuizen6186
    @pauloosthuizen6186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    G man your the best I also lost my girlfriend to suaside so I'm also going through a hard time but I know it will get better

  • @conrad152
    @conrad152 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful video Gareth, you are such a courageous strong man; you do inspire others. Your mum must be so proud of you.

  • @macrovigilance
    @macrovigilance 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep striving G-Man!

  • @zabaleta66
    @zabaleta66 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Phew!! Brave stuff man! Keep it up......forever.

  • @DanBFitness
    @DanBFitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay strong Gareth

  • @snoopfobz
    @snoopfobz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stand strong brother 💪🏾🏋🏽‍♂️💯

  • @nicensleazy1892
    @nicensleazy1892 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just sent you a message Gareth - we are ALWAYS here for you ! x

  • @callumosullivan7482
    @callumosullivan7482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love u Gareth

  • @will_274
    @will_274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey I enjoy your videos.... Never give up! All the best!

  • @pierrelilley9860
    @pierrelilley9860 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are a truely inspiring legend mate. keep pushing through this !

  • @longegg9892
    @longegg9892 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much love from Cape Town G man, I'm glad you're walking tall again

  • @conorb1534
    @conorb1534 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wise and empowering words from a truly inspirational man! Wishing you all the best in the coming months and long into the future.

  • @dollydollydolly7277
    @dollydollydolly7277 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    GMAN YOUR A GOOD PERSON KEEP THE SPIRIT UP ,LIFE IS A FUNNY GAME,,BEEN THEIR MYSELF. BUT BRUSH MYSELF OFF AND START A NEW,, IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE IS TO REMEMBER THE THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE,S YOU,,AND SAYING THAT YOU WILL BOUNCE BACK LIKE A BALOON ..,KEEP THE FAITH,, KEEP BELIEVING IN YOURSELF BRO,,BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @waynebotha2182
    @waynebotha2182 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life knocks you down but you get up again I went through what you went through even worse but I got up and I look the world in the eye and I came out stronger then before so keep it up bro never give up

  • @tygertyger77
    @tygertyger77 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't talk much normally, I'm a quiet guy, especially about feelings.
    I'm sorry to hear life's getting you down.
    I'm not one for self pity, and don't like being consoled (so please don't, although comments like "man the fuck up" are fine, and make me laugh)
    But, I understand how hard it is.
    I haven't even seen my mother since I was 16, she had a breakdown and left us.
    Needless to say, she had some pretty odd ideas about child raising in the years up too this. Mental illness will do that too you.
    Between 2009-2011, I had the worst time.
    I had lost both my grandparents, my nan first in 2009, and my gramps the next year.(they guided me through my formative years as my young parents were busy doing other things, they weren't great parents, they were kids themselves).
    Then, I lost my missus to skin cancer in 2011 (she was 36 and had 4 kids, who went to live with her sister).
    (wear sunscreen, you fecking idiots, malignant melanomas are a 50/50 survival rate )
    .
    I was besides myself. I couldn't think straight, I lost control of my emotions, I wanted to fight the world, but at the same time I just wanted to curl up in a ball and cry.
    I came within a whisker of giving up and losing my house and the rest of my family.
    I went massively into smoking cannabis to control my temper, and I lost many, many friends (due to the temper, not the cannabis)
    Life seemed so unfair.
    And it was,
    but it's also equal opportunities, and we will all feel that grief at some stage (I just hope people deal with it better than I did, most do)
    Life gets better, time does heal. And sometimes, not getting what you want out of life can make you stronger.
    And I still have one of our two dogs too keep me company, and she's my two eyes.
    It's just a shame it hurts so much to get there.
    My thoughts to you and your family.

  • @trevorodoherty6185
    @trevorodoherty6185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    G man foward and up word's

  • @rohp1283
    @rohp1283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mate, manage the depression positively. After a few years, you would realize that you are not managing it any more but you have actually overcame it. It's an old cliché, " time heals" but it is true. Re your mom, I am sorry to hear about her cancer, but death is a fact of life. Be with her, support her, be strong for her. She does not need you breaking down around her when you should be there to be her strength. It's not about you now, as tough as it is.
    You are so lucky to have great people around you. I know of people who have been through similar tough situations as you, possibly even tougher, but the difference is that they did not have anyone to support them through it.

  • @yungnmighty796
    @yungnmighty796 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello my old friend. Hard times do pass. How we heade it is what makes it what it's worth. People like you who help others with thier own life challenges are rare in such a dark dark world man. Your rugby streams, reactions and analysis is incredible. It creates a space where we forget the bitterness of reality, and interact amoungst eachother over a powerful game. And to be able to invest time to create that space whether people agree or disagree is an amazing attribute you share. Live for those we have lost in a way they were still here, make them proud. Losing my father, my biggest rock and beat friend, I went to a dark place. But I felt that failed what my father had always wanted for me as a boy growing into a man. To lose my path that he invest all his time and love to continue on. Be the strongest man by your mums side you can ever be. You can't regret how much love she will always feel. Keep strong man. Always here for you.

  • @somerledislay9987
    @somerledislay9987 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you remember school Gareth , blink and its gone ,the pain in your life wont go on forever ,as for your mum you find out if you can do anything for her, you find out about vitamin B17 you find out about Bitter apricot kernells, God bless son