Relationships Don't Always Work Out (And That's Okay)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- In this vlog, I'm realizing that relationships don't always work out, even after giving your all. I also share what I've been up to since my last vlog, while trying to stay warm and stay positive in this brutally cold New York City winter. At the end of the video, I sit down and give y'all the details. Thanks for watching.
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Music (in order of appearance)
Refried - Ryan James Carr
Soft Pine - Jobii
Solitary Surrender - Rebecca Mardal
Refried (reprise) - Ryan James Carr
That bent over move to show us cake while opening the fridge at 5:30, You think you're slick LOL.
😂🤣👏
I like his videos, but all that cake in each thumbnail is the first thing that always grabs my attention. He's very smart.
@@brianarnold468 need to get those clicks right
Saw your comment, went straight to it. A lot of bakery 🥯
He do got a biggo butt 😊
Happy Sunday, Q! It’s such a joy to see your bright face back on TH-cam. Life flows in cycles, with its highs, lows, and unforeseen twists, yet you remain steadfast in nurturing your spirit. Continue to trust the wisdom of your heart, protect your peace, and guard your mind. While your path may feel uniquely yours, know that many walk beside you, sharing in the pursuit of growth and self-discovery. Always remember: peace is the foundation of strength and stability.
Thanks so much for the encouraging words. I appreciate you, truly!
Salut super mec ravi de passer ce moment avec toi en te regardant sur t'es sublime vidéo que j'aime beaucoup je te fais un gros bisous ❤❤❤👍👍🤟🤟🥰🥰
Break ups are difficult no matter what.. I'm happy that you guys are being adults about the situation. I hope you find someone who is as happy, positive and as adventurous as you are take care of yourself. 😊
They don’t always work out because the work is not interesting. The work to stay in a relationship when both parties committed to each other, is imperative. When people want to workout, they do and they stay, even when they lose interest in each other. There is so much to relationship and requires a level of vulnerability that people have to admit they were never ready for.
My Sunday mornings are now special again!!! So happy to get a notification that you posted a new video! I cannot wait to see more content from you this year! Keep motivating, inspiring, and most importantly, sharing your light with the world!! Much love to you, Quincy!!!
I came across your page awhile back and watched a few of your videos and could tell that you’re just a good person. You were truly missed! Welcome back and love to see you and Wilson handling the situation like adult men.
Hey thanks for such a nice comment! That’s very kind. Take care 🙏🏽
Love this video Quincy • so happy to see a new upload
Thanks for watching 💗
Hello Quincy. We missed you. Thanks for sharing.
I’m sorry man. I can hear the heartbreak in your voice despite the smile. I’m also recently broken up with and it’s ass. But what can you do, life moves on and so do we. take care. I needed to hear this. Feels good to know I’m not alone in feeling the way I do currently 💔
It’s incredible seeing you back. It’s terrific that you and Wilson continue to nourish the friendship developed during the relationship. It’s a testament to both of your maturity.
They tried that before and still ended up back together. I think of them needs to move out to truly grow.
Good to see you back! Sending Well wishes from LA!!!
Thank you! And welcome back, Quincy. First, let me say I have love for you like an old best friend. Your personality is so comforting. Sitting and talking with you is a joy. I also want to say a relationship looks good on you, but you being single looks better. If that makes sense. The day ones know we met you when you were single sharing your vlogs with us. It was something so authentic about it. You traveled and you took us with you. It was so engaging and learning. In the future when you do get into another relationship. Keep your vlogs as you are single and the relationship shown as special occasions like distant and international traveling. Also travels to see your family. Yeah, welcome back and cheers to a blessed 2025.
ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU AND YOUR CONTENT. SO HAPPY YOU'RE BACK. ❤❤❤❤❤
Welcome back and Happy New Year! Wilson is nice but he didn’t seem to be your forever companion. Nice to see y’all work out your housing.
Hey Quincy!! Happy New Year!! 🎉
It's always great to get an alert that you've posted. I just want to say relationships aren't always easy but we learn from them and grow. I think this just shows you that your match is out there. I'm 40 years old and have been single for three years and it's been hard. Continue to be you and accomplish your goals. It will all work out. Stay Blessed 🫂☺️
Me too; I overthink and I also get anixiously hyped for the week on Sundays. I definitely extend my walks 😅 good luck to you on the apartment. And your grace for your challenge. Thank you for sharing.
Your b roll game is fire and I a.l.w.a.y.s. long for more in your work. Not the fancy, intricate stuff that is top shelf, but the spin you put on the seemingly mundane being worthy of consideration due to a grateful or giving heart. Gimme gimme dude. ♥
Happy to see you back for my Sunday 'fix' of Q! Nothing more peaceful than walking in a snow at night.
Welcome back ❤️❤️
We'll look forward to seeing your next chapter.
Hey Quincy. Glad to see you back on.. remember what your plans are for your life and for anything to be successful we have to make time for it...
Welcome back, good to see your videos again😊
Happy you're back. if you do decide to look at places, you could do videos showing people outside New York what the market is like. That would interest a lot of people thinking about moving to New York.
I agree great comment
this is the first video of yours i'm watching. i appreciate the warm vibe radiating through your personality and just the aesthetics of this video as whole. i know you're talking about your life but it also comforted me with mine a bit, so thank you. safe to say you earned a new subscriber :)
Hey Quincy I am glad you are back and making your incredible videos. Stay safe and warm during this ice cold winter.
love comes in many forms-friendship is one of them. also it great that budgeting is right in the forefront. good luck with everything quincy and wilson.
Happy hugs to you & hope you’re enjoying the new year!! God bless and thanks for continuing to share your journey with us. ❤
Hi Quincy, Welcome back and Happy New Year. Sorry to hear about you and Wilson…good to hear you guys are still friends and sharing a place together. Hope this year brings you all the success you deserve.✌🏾
I am truly sorry to hear, you and Wilson broke up because gay relationships, and especially when you're young can be difficult. First of all, the gay life style is very difficult and its mostly based on youth, having a nice gym body, and sexual hook-ups. I ran into a friend the other day who's a gay police officer. We met each other back in the early 90's. We tried dating briefly and it didn't work out and we became good friends. We both are in our late 50's. When I ran into him the other day at Whole Foods, the first thing he asked, how was I doing and was I seeing or dating someone? My response, Lord no, I have a peace of mind. When I woke up this cloudy Sunday morning, I said to myself, Lord Jesus, I do get lonely at times and especially on cold winter days like today, but I have a peace of mind without any heartache and pain from someone breaking my heart. I refuse to deal with men that play games and or their cheating on me by hooking up with other men. Now that I am a middle-aged gay man, I refuse to play games or my trying to hook up with young good-looking hot men like you, Quincy.😀 My neighbor is a 67-year-old black gay man and he loves young Dominican, Brazilian, and Latino men in their 20's & 30's. He's always telling me about someone he's dating in the Dominican Republic or in Brazil. Poor thing, these young men in these 3rd world countries are using him and he's just a Sugar Daddy. All I can say, Quincy continue to enjoy life while you're young because time will go by quickly and once you become middle-aged or an old man, you're basically invisible in the gay community or in society as a whole. I plan to celebrate my 60th birthday this year in London, Paris, & Rome alone. Feliz Año Nuevo y realmente les deseo a usted y a Wilson lo mejor en la vida. Si crees en Dios, pon tu confianza en él porque nunca estarás solo.
You are only invisible to yourself someone sees you
@@4leafclover611 Wait until you become a senior citizen, you will understand, young man or woman.
@santurcedc I'm 63 years old I am a senior citizen
@santurced PS I am a man
"Hang in there, Quincy! Sometimes things don’t work out the way we want, but that just means better things are ahead. Keep your head up- brighter days and new opportunities are coming your way. You've got this!"
Wow Q so glad to see you back missed you and your vibe and your videos keep them coming bruh .. looken smooth hair looking good 😊
Hey Q, thanks for coming back I am so happy that you can back. Please stay with us we love you and your blogs
Very few people can say they harness any of the qualities it takes to approach a conversation about what it looks like living together after a breakup and considering living together temporarily given the current climate. It is super considerate and just shows the kindness and raw empathy and emotional maturity. My ex partner of 9 years has on more than one occasion, packed up and ran to his mother's and left me in rented accommodations to figure it out myself. (You live and you learn) but it's good to know there are good and thoughtful people out there that do the right thing even when it's turbulent.
Quincy welcome back!!! Watching your vídeos is a breath of fresh air in these trying times. I always enjoy your day to day vlogs. Keep them coming if possible. I am some years older than you and I wish I had the self awareness, patience, calmness and confidence that you naturally portay. Focus on yourself and wishing you always the best.
I’m happy to see you! I’m glad that you took some time for yourself. You seem more refreshed. Times are… really tough, but we are here for you. ❤
Glad to have you back. I enjoy watching your videos. Sorry to hear about the break up, but glad you both were able to grow from the experience and stay as friends. There are times when you just need to take care of yourself. It's a good thing. Then you can love someone else.
Happy to see you back, Quincy! This has definitely been the season of change. Skin is glowing and the curls are curling keep up the great work, can't wait to see more content.
Hey Quincy!!! So very nice to see you on here again. Glad to see you're well. Love the night time snowy winter vibes. I try to go out for runs even in winter. I'm going through change too. You're not alone. Sorry to hear about your breakup but you and Wilson seem to be handling it awesomely. You deserve so much love and everything you want. You do you Q. And Happy New Year also. Much love always Quincy.
It's almost February, but happy new year, Quincy!! Talk about snow, in central Kentucky, we received nearly a foot of it three weeks ago, and it's still on the ground today, lol. I love winter, though, so it doesn't bother me. I hope this year treats you great 🩷🤗
It is so wonderful to see you back on Quincy, and truly characteriscally unfiltered. What a positive inspiration you are to us your viewers. Thank you. 🤜🤛
So happy to see you back. I was a bit sad after watching the video before this one. Having patience with yourself is very important in life. You’re gonna be okay kid. And so will Wilson. Glad you both will stay friends. Looking forward to seeing more videos with your new equipment. Greetings from Germany.
Welcome back Quincy and Happy new year. I glad you and Wilson are still friends and looking forward to seeing more of your videos and drone shots. Happy Sunday. 😊❤
Thanks! Happy Sunday!
Hey Q! Keeping you in mind and sending up a prayer for ya. I'm so glad that you're beginning to feel better. SAD, Seasonal Affective Disorder, is a real thing... I live in Los Angeles county and attended Pacific Palisades High. My poor high school burned pretty badly. But, a lot of it was saved. A lot of my friends lost their beautiful homes though. One day at a time. You guys take care of yourselves.
Blessings brother, good seeing you back. One day at a time ❤
Welcome back, enjoyed the video. Thanks for sharing the update with you and Wilson. I am happy about your path forward, you seem to a good plan forward. Best of luck and look forward to future videos.
1. I didn’t expect your return so soon lol
2. I didn’t expect a breakup announcement either 😭
I’m a new subscriber, and I absolutely love your videos! Keep up the amazing work and continue making great content!
I'm sorry about that Quincy. It's just life happening before you as it has for many. I love your attitude and how you guys are going about things, well done. Keep it up and keep moving.
Hey Quincy, welcome back. In the last vlog, I was bummbed to know you were going through so much. It's always good to take a break from things and reflect on your well-being. I am so excited to hear that you will be making more videos. I enjoy your videos, from the trips to capturing nature and hearing your views on different topics. You have really an eye for detail and capturing life. I love that you have a positive outlook on things in life. Even though life gets a little crazy, I always try to keep it positive and grow from the experiences. I really relate with you in that area. At the moment, I'm at a crossroads with my relationship, and watching this video helped me understand some things and gave me some comfort. Therefore, thank you, Quincy, for taking the time to make these vlogs and letting us see a little bit of your life. I really appreciate it. Till the next vlog. Stay positive! ✌🏽
I’m glad your back creating videos. I hope you and Wilson continue to nourish a healthy friendship. All the best, your tennis bud from IG.
Much love. You definitely sound more centered and present than your last video so I’m happy you took the time to be with family and work things out with yourself.
Sorry to hear about you and Wilson. It's good that you can keep it amicable and co-habit the apartment as friends. While break-ups are difficult, take your time to enjoy being single, discovering yourself and finding out where you want to go on your next chapter. Keep up the videos! x
Happy new year & so good to see you here again! I loved the visuals of your walk in the snow: your eye is what always draws me in. Take care, and good luck in dealing with the challenges, both big and small, that life throws at us.
Great video! I appreciate how well you both are handling things. Wishing you all the love and success in your journey ahead. Thanks for the content! 🫶🏼😊
Welcome back, and sending love.
I am so glad you're back. I truly love watching your vlogs and I'm truly in love with your drone shots. Your amazing drone footage are truly breath taking. I love nature and I can tell you do too. I wish u well in this new year and hope you find happiness within yourself . Remember to take care of yourself and love yourself and continue to venture out and do what it takes to make Quincy happy !
BEAUTIFUL Video and nice to see you again!
Kudos to you my friend on giving yourself the grace you deserve! I've been doing the same inner work since the holidays and it's done a world of difference for my inner peace. Heaven can be right here and now. We can only control our own lives and creating our peace is up to us in realizing our Thoughts are just thoughts. You are doing the right kind of work by valuing yourself. You inspire others to do the same. Your skin is so lovely by the way. Glad you're getting new equipment. Your drone shots are the best! Happy New Year Quincy!🌠💙
Sorry about you and Wilson. Keep it moving, you have a long life ahead of you. Great vlog.
I love this and I appreciate your openness. Very authentic. Sometimes we just have to "be" in our space to learn more about ourselves as we evolve through this crazy life. ❤
Keep thriving Handsome!
Wishing you the best!!💙🙏🏽
Those shots outside in the beginning. >>> You have such an interesting style of self documentation.
The heart knows what it want and the mind is set... Keep it real and keep yourself warm /hug-y, u r good Quincy 🙏
Glad to see you’re back ❤
Sad to hear about your split with Wilson.
New beginnings 🎉
Welcome back, didn't know you'd be back to uploading videos so soon. In any case, your videos always have the smoothest and easy going energy. The opening of the video w the snow and walk was really peaceful, having lived in NYC a bunch of different places, I def
resonate w/ how storybook it is during a nearly cinematic winter in NY. Bummer about you and Wilson, but it sounds like you are both in a very good place. Nonetheless, glad to see your being creative once again, Keep up the good work, Cheers, RJ
Hey Quincy, it is good to hear you are are doing better mentally. Glad to here you had good holiday with the family and good start to the year. As someone who struggles mentally you exude positivity and it truly is refreshing. Have been watching you for a while now and looking forward to more of your content. Also, if you don't mind could you do a curly hair routine and more self care or grooming videos here and there? Your curls are always so shiny and defined.
Love the new accent walls! Good choice. ✨
Hey. Sorry to hear about your relationship but it’s great that you both are remaining friends and that’s commendable. I was in a similar situation a few years back. Wishing you both the best
Great to see you back Quincy...and being positive......we'll always be here for you...❤
Great to have you back quincy .
Glad to have you back!
Happy New Year!!! Have an amazing week and thanks for sharing your updates. Congratulations in advance on many blessings to come🙏🏾❤️❤️
Welcome back Quincy and Happy New Year 😊
Happy New Year in 2025 and hopefully it will be one of your best years ever! I am much older now and more than 25 plus years ago I was in a LTR with my partner for 14 years and it came a time when our paths were not the same and we went parted ways and remained friends and he is like having another brother.. I was single and free and just enjoying life and finding out things about my self for 14 years and then I met a beautiful man whom is now my husband married 5 years and together 15 years living in Florida and still very much in love and very happy! Quincy, you have so much to give and you are a very special and unique man and just enjoy each and everyday to the fullest! Some man is going to be very lucky and blessed to have you my friend. I look forward to your next video soon! 🙏🥰
Ahh I see getting a head start on spring break 😉
You’re happy, we’re happy.
Do you Wilson, you are amazing.🤩
Things will always work for you no matter what you go through this to shall pass.Just stay on your path.
Welcome back Quincy!!! 🤍
Happy New Year!!! Looking forward to seeing more great content from you. And see where you will be traveling to this year!!!
So happy for you that you have a very open mind about everything... You are Truly Blessed person.
Your video making is really good, you draws us in. I love your detail to the little nuances and references about your daily life and surroundings. We feel part of it. Saying hi from South Africa, I have to say you're eyes are dreamy and you're really attractive. Keep going !
This video brings back the nostalgic memories of snow days in NY when I was a kid. I do, however, hate the cold and the darkness of winter. Florida works better for me.
Brother, its good to see you back. You were definitely missed.
Missed ya’ll too, thanks!
Hey Q, so nice to see you back on TH-cam, you have been missed…. Always such a positive, beautiful person. I adore ur videos and content… so refreshing to see relatable gay content… really helps my mental health, especially with the orange buffoon back in office. I’m watching from Canada 🇨🇦… but it bothers me that sooo many people chose to be on the wrong side of history. All the hard work our pioneers fought for us is being threatened. It’s our turn now to keep the fight and hopefully LOVE will prevails. You’re a gem, a ray of sunshine, keep being you and thank you for sharing a part of yourself on here. I truly appreciate you. Thank you!
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Thank you so much for your kind words! Really appreciate you! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I have enjoyed following you on here. Happy New Year and I pray it will be great ‼️💪🏻👊🏻🤎💯✨️👑🏳️🌈
Hey Quincy is so good to see you post up on TH-cam. I was always texting Wilson wondering how are you doing and I was unaware of this that happened but it’s OK. I’m glad that you both stay together as friends and doing your shares with the rent and everything. And also your hair looks very nice curled up. You always have a beautiful, bright smile and also I’m glad that you are getting along with him. He’s such a nice guy always tell him tell Quincy I said hello and he says thank you. I will let him know from you Tony. And also I’m about to turn 36 years old April 18 this year 2025. I’m so excited I’m going to try to celebrate that day for the first time in my life like this will be the best year.
Nice to see you back 👌
Welcome back Quincy!
I’m not going to lie, I’m saddened by the breakup. I get it, but it still hurts. I wish nothing but the best for both of you💞
Hey, GLAD you are back😊❤ Hope you had Happy Holidays 🎉 You look GREAT 👍 , so whatever you are doing, keep it up 👍 Whatever happened to “ friends with benefits “? I thought that was a “ thing “..
You are suppose to get more snow next week, ENJOY! Thanks for sharing❤
Good luck Q....you got this!!
Quincy, this is reason I watch his here. It's been a while from scene I responded to the passed vlogs. But it has very informative vlog thanks for sharing. I will continue watching we support you be by your side.
I really appreciate your support! 🙏🏽🫶🏽
Wishing you the best physically mentally and spiritually. Continue to prioritize yourself and your needs.
Happy New Year and welcome back neighbor ( I’m on other side in Whitestone)…
Love the snow we just got snow here in Houston last week😊
Lol 😆😂🤣 choo 🚂🚂 choo
here for you brother, if you ever need anything. Our lives seem to be parallelling. Remember that you are the catch and you deserve the love you give. Remember that great things come with change
Thanks for the nice and uplifting comment, Matthew! It is much appreciated 🙏🏽
@ ofc man like I said we are paralleling right now. I’m here if you need company or a friend (idk how to dm through TH-cam lol) but I’m always in the city. Would love dinner or drinks if you need to get out. All friendly vibes. Xoxo Matthew
Hey i enjoyed your video and im so sorry to hear about yalls breakup and that you both remained as friends and doing what works for you both ❤ amazing video.
Quincyyy !!! so nice to see you back !!! I missed you 🤗
Enjoyed the Vid Quincy :) Im glad that you are both happy with your decision :)
It’s important to be friends first 🌞
Just happy to to see you both are well!
Good to hear from you!