if it's real, then i'll stay

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  • @coltenpine2382
    @coltenpine2382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2536

    My late fiancé introduced me to your music. It’s been about 4 years since she died, and every time I hear one of your songs, it reminds me of her. Your music is truly a masterpiece just like she was. Thank you.

    • @bonjr2854
      @bonjr2854  2 ปีที่แล้ว +567

      my condolences, I hope the memories the music brings back are all positive 🙏

    • @coltenpine2382
      @coltenpine2382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      @@bonjr2854 thank you! And yes, it brings nothing but good memories.

    • @thetonymasters
      @thetonymasters ปีที่แล้ว +185

      FUCK; this is sad.
      I am so sorry bro.

    • @Sunnyking77
      @Sunnyking77 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Im sorry what you been through. May everything heal soon. Till then may you blessed enough strength to go on

    • @itisi6455
      @itisi6455 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      ✨One who speaks of a loved one as a Masterpiece, is one itself...

  • @pyrolofi768
    @pyrolofi768 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +421

    The worst part of being young is the fact we all want to grow up when in reality we were truly happy with everything as is back then

    • @Live.Every.Moment
      @Live.Every.Moment 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      True😐

    • @BosstyGaming_YT
      @BosstyGaming_YT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen to that I feel the same way

    • @adrianrock1287
      @adrianrock1287 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My childhood friend, yes I agree! Him and I used to play video games back in the early 2000s. Also playing outside was a regular thing to us...

    • @GoatyMan3678
      @GoatyMan3678 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Growing up is realizing that you should cherish what you have and those memories you made. I may start to journal them, I have started to forget… I’m scared that if I lose someone close to me, I might forget… am I depressed?

    • @SLIVER-MACE
      @SLIVER-MACE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love you all

  • @MC-874
    @MC-874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1200

    Now i can shut down myself in deep-root that lies in the bottom of the void.

    • @McNugge.
      @McNugge. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Why tf did I read that as
      _"... Down myself in deep-throat... "_

    • @unavela
      @unavela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Don't, is cold as fuck down here

    • @unavela
      @unavela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@m.us..c203 it's lonely on the top if you let it get to your head

    • @vid7074
      @vid7074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The void is internal

    • @jesseg94
      @jesseg94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bunch of edge lord's here getting off on themselves lol

  • @IIIIIlIIl
    @IIIIIlIIl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +348

    1 month 11 days sober from alcohol here. Living with my alcoholic family is tough but I will prevail. Much love to everyone. ❤

    • @korbendallas9317
      @korbendallas9317 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Keep pushing. It's not easy, I know. Find new hobbies and keep yourself busy, exercise helps a lot. Replace your time drinking with things and projects you're passionate about
      But, if you're around other people drinking all the time, you probably need to leave that environment.
      It is up to You!! The mind is the most powerful thing, YOU Can do ANYTHING you put your mind to.
      You are not "powerless to alcohol" .. You're the one making the choices. Make good one's.
      I believe in you

    • @muffinatordlux
      @muffinatordlux 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      10 months off the weed... was a chronic smoker.. had to move away from my family as well.. mom, sis and brother all smoked. Didn't care what I was going through. Even said I was arrogant and an asshole after quitting... keep it up man.. life gets harder before it gets better

    • @DanishBroly
      @DanishBroly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      God will bless you

    • @michaelmora8946
      @michaelmora8946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Damn my comment is probably to long too read huh, one day I'll get the same love back

    • @Just2HepCats
      @Just2HepCats 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Just for today... I'm amazed! this is excellent.

  • @CarrotTheParrot
    @CarrotTheParrot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1438

    Its somehow weird, how this song and "its okay, youre okay" have a very unique way of being understood
    They are not your typical songs, but they have a very powerful message, depending on how you feel or your life is going
    I have listened "its okay, youre okay" for literally more than 10 hours for sure.
    These are simple masterpieces and I really want to thank you mr.bonjr

    • @Dd-mt5ol
      @Dd-mt5ol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      takes me out of the world 🌎 into my own reality but now i gotta follow my the worlds reality because i gor debt to pay now before i just drove around my bmw going 150 drifting smoking pot heavily now facing reality because of that debt

    • @InfiniteLife..
      @InfiniteLife.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel the same as this comment. Thank you mr bonjr 🙏✨The first time I listened to it’s okay you’re okay I awaked to the amount of emotions I had suppressed through out my life. I listen to o it regularly now. The power of music 🙌

    • @Pandavelka
      @Pandavelka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can listen to it when you're sad, happy, nostalgic, angry....it's just so complex and it can soothe you as well as make you very sad and contemplative

    • @livysardothien5745
      @livysardothien5745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I made the likes 444 and the comments 4.
      ✨4444✨

    • @_risinsunn
      @_risinsunn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel the same way ✨♡

  • @Tayehl
    @Tayehl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    This is the song you hear when you think your life is going well but it's not.

    • @liamp6491
      @liamp6491 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel love for you knowing that you can have that same emotion. It's hard

    • @stevenstubby8632
      @stevenstubby8632 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Believe me, you are right where you were meant to be. Everything happens for a reason. Everything is as God wills it to be. Once you truly.. truly understand this, nothing else will matter anymore. You will be one with everything. You will become the perfect infinite divine light that shines through every living thing. The light that is the foundation of the Universe. Everything is as God wills it.

    • @PrinceAmir206
      @PrinceAmir206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@stevenstubby8632yessssssss!!!! Thank you!!!!!!

    • @sagnikpanja2000
      @sagnikpanja2000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢

    • @tiny1801
      @tiny1801 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤😢

  • @justinyang6521
    @justinyang6521 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    When the pain has become a part of you, so when you're pain free, you feel empty.

    • @donsandrano1429
      @donsandrano1429 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I understand

    • @Hxhjli
      @Hxhjli 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@donsandrano1429i also unfortunately understand

    • @SALVAG3D
      @SALVAG3D 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I had to adapt. It was too much for me. If I hadn't, I would have ended myself. But now I'm here listening to this and remembering everything that was lost. But, at least I survived. I guess.

    • @MrJGarcia13106
      @MrJGarcia13106 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I completely understand what it feels to be like that !

    • @MaxW0lf
      @MaxW0lf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      With millions of people dying everyday, why am I still here...?
      Life has no purpose...
      No goals...
      No ambition...
      No need for eating nor drinking...
      Just existing.
      I am just a flesh walking around. I don't feel a thing. Empty...

  • @anujj6104
    @anujj6104 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    It's like this song unlocked so many memories that I had completely forgotten about. It made me see memories that I didn't know I had...
    I can listen to this for hours and hours, contemplating life, living nostalgia and fantasizing about the perfect childhood I wished I had...

    • @Seth-Van-Essence
      @Seth-Van-Essence ปีที่แล้ว

      too much feelings be expressed bud.

    • @chredx
      @chredx ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i can only confirm! This song feels obviously sad, but at the sime time there is always a soft voice saying "its ok, you can forgive, you can let go now, just breathe" ❤
      Almost same feeling: First 50 Seconds of "Hans Zimmer - Goodbye my Son"

    • @iamcopperhead
      @iamcopperhead 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Forreal dude. It hurts so bad every day. Especially after becoming clean and sober, turning 44. Among other things.

  • @VoicesCollide
    @VoicesCollide ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Just realised why I feel so alone.
    Not because I physically am alone but because I have alot of people around me that act like I don't exist.

    • @LamentOfTheFallen
      @LamentOfTheFallen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its okay, Me too.. I was once so happy but now the people made me the way I turned myself into, Im changing.. and I will make sure that change is worth it in every way.

    • @skyler862
      @skyler862 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Kind of similar

    • @justbeingamom6834
      @justbeingamom6834 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ye it's hard feeling alone

    • @wissallazara8344
      @wissallazara8344 หลายเดือนก่อน

      your sweet song such a healing for a soul.....my story is to long to say and eveyone has a story to tell ....bref i really appeciate this masterpiece u have made and i listen to it everytime while i'm writing my stories to my book.....Thank you 🤍🤍

  • @FreeDom-xj9xc
    @FreeDom-xj9xc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    The way i interpret the title is to be a reference to derealization, a wanting for death knowing that the world around you isn't real, and the reassurance of staying if it is the opposite OR a relationship that no longer feels authentic, falling apart; that only if it were real as it was, you would stay.

    • @enesai_
      @enesai_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      this

    • @jamesjonson4501
      @jamesjonson4501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      For many years I've had moments when randomly everything around me feels, like an illusion, my peripheral vison increased and everything felt small like it was shrinking and it felt like I'm slipping into a dream but without sleeping and I've never figured it out until I randomly read your comment and out of curiosity googled derealization and realized that was what I've been experiencing over the years thinking it was only me

    • @jamesjonson4501
      @jamesjonson4501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@michaelgrovesdandyline3099 I've never experienced that extent but the feeling I can understand and it's scary especially if it happen regularly. Maybe therapy might help but if not I really do hope you find a way to cope and deal with it as it comes.

    • @thingonathinginathing
      @thingonathinginathing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just when I thought I was finally starting to not wanting to kill myself lmao

    • @mello4989
      @mello4989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thingonathinginathing please talk to someone it's not worth it I promise you

  • @mateam7517
    @mateam7517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4595

    Dear Bonjr, i think you should know that people around the whole world, even in places you have never heard about (Reunion Island here), listen to your songs to find the comfort they can't find anywhere else. There's something so true and pure, warm and cold, aching and soothing in them...
    When i feel like i'm failing at life, when everything else doesn't make sense anymore, i always come back to them. And it's never enough, i never stop needing those songs. They inspire me to take the next step, to reconnect after accepting to lose myself for a moment.
    So, truly, from the bottom of my heart, thank you ♡.

    • @conrad5968
      @conrad5968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      This (Ireland here)

    • @Ta.Mires.2
      @Ta.Mires.2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      It's about this. 🌐
      (Brazil here)

    • @mustafapc19
      @mustafapc19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      This (India here) :)

    • @enesai_
      @enesai_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      the words i feel but couldn’t explain

    • @mateam7517
      @mateam7517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@enesai_ loving that it's a shared feeling! music's magic ^^

  • @LostWorld-Comus
    @LostWorld-Comus หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life.

  • @DNDMarcus2293
    @DNDMarcus2293 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    This song makes me feel like I've let down not only myself but everyone around me and its too late to fix anything

    • @josephdavis4956
      @josephdavis4956 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      You're right, it's not too late to become who you know you can be. Keep going, you've got this.

    • @a19894
      @a19894 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Wow , this is exactly how im feeling right now

    • @yankquinn9992
      @yankquinn9992 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's never too late

    • @emperorofcuntstittiesprink155
      @emperorofcuntstittiesprink155 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let those moments flow through you, leaving you cleansed as you wipe the tears away. It's ok to be a disappointment. Be you. Your pain is seen fellow human.

    • @Playstation19999
      @Playstation19999 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I jabe to right a greatful list .. so easy to be down

  • @lethabomodise2765
    @lethabomodise2765 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "I'm tired alfred"-Batman 😢

  • @epalegmail
    @epalegmail ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I was married for four years with this amazing woman. I loved her more than I've loved anyone. She had depression and started taking meds, which at the same time weakened the relationship. She left me saying that she wanted to be alone and in no relationship. I asked very often for a second chance but she just stormed out of my life extremely fast giving me no time to even comprehend what was happening. After just two months she found someone else and they moved in together. These have been dark times in my life and dark thoughts just keep coming. These kind of music makes me feel the hole she left in my life, which I'm not sure anyone will or should fill again. Thanks for posting.

    • @shk9269
      @shk9269 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I feel your pain. Know that you are not alone. This sounds cliche, but time really does heal your wounds. Give it another 4 years and you'll have learned new things about yourself and others. Life may feel less pretty for a while, but you will be a better man in the future. A man that has learnt things others may never learn. By going through a dark stage in life. It will take time, it will be hard. But you are harder my friend. Keep going, there is light at the end. I wish you all the strength you need, and don't be afraid to cry. Tears will bring relief.

    • @epalegmail
      @epalegmail ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@shk9269 I keep coming back every time I feel lost to read your comment. Thanks for the response, my friend. It really helps.

    • @shk9269
      @shk9269 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@epalegmail I personally believe heartbreak is the worst pain a human can feel. It is easier to lose a loved one through a car accident, compared to losing them through a breakup that involves rejection and betrayal. I'm glad the comment I made can bring some relief! You're the best :)

    • @MrJGarcia13106
      @MrJGarcia13106 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel you ! Stay strong

    • @seanmatters8196
      @seanmatters8196 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know we can all say we’re not alone, and people have felt the same pain you’ve felt, but reality is in the moment no one else matters but the ones involved or the one involved, the pain is solidified in time and makes it feel like time isn’t moving, that your utterly alone in this world and only feeling this alone, that is the real feeling, only we can overcome what we feel. We are here for brief moments in people’s lives creating love and bonds with one another, energies moving together. Even tho that energy was given to the world, the energy never left, the world gives back in a new form sometimes, we must keep fighting and not let up, we’re here for a reason

  • @BK-20147
    @BK-20147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I love the colors of the pictures from Bonjr songs (its ok, echo complex) all dark blue

    • @LoonieMoony
      @LoonieMoony 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I listen to them in twilight when the sky out my window is the same colour

  • @somedude8604
    @somedude8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Haven't heard the song yet but I'm sure it's going to be amazing.

    • @memolorenzana5482
      @memolorenzana5482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes it is

    • @somedude8604
      @somedude8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@memolorenzana5482 indeed, absolutely love it.

  • @ronaldokhan2932
    @ronaldokhan2932 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It feels like the moment death arrives and it all becomes gloomy, dark and fading

  • @Froststormer
    @Froststormer ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I listen to this while biking home after a closing shift at 12:30 am. The feeling I get while doing that and no cars are anywhere, immaculate.

  • @realjqa
    @realjqa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Idk where we go when we die, But lord please take me here . 🦋🙏🏽

  • @bonjr2854
    @bonjr2854  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1359

    it's been 520 days since release and the feedback continues to amaze me ^^ ty for listening!
    how's everyone doing? and where are you listening from? i've been reading most of the comments so please keep sharing your stories!

    • @ira._.8822
      @ira._.8822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Ukraine is here)

    • @DBayakFlRemake
      @DBayakFlRemake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Please keep making this kind of music. Love from India...

    • @jackyochoaa
      @jackyochoaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      TEXAS , USA here man I love your music puts me in a great state of mind. Always on repeat. Your doing amazing work man.

    • @aleksandre9711
      @aleksandre9711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Georgia, the country.

    • @bonjr2854
      @bonjr2854  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@aleksandre9711 wow!

  • @odry.mp4
    @odry.mp4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    "İt's ok, you're ok" parçasından sonra favorilerime girdi 🖤✋🏻

    • @Mc-ty8hy
      @Mc-ty8hy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Onun yeri apayrı.

    •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TÜRK YORUUUUM

    • @odry.mp4
      @odry.mp4 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ 😎🖤😳👓🤏

    • @yusufayhan6797
      @yusufayhan6797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      O bambaşka bi şey ya apayrı bi yeri var

    • @makupicu4766
      @makupicu4766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Türk buldum rahat ölebilirim

  • @breenirwin2356
    @breenirwin2356 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The feeling you've hit a brick wall in life people around you are happy but amongst them you still feel alone you are a ghost in society

    • @m0le6377
      @m0le6377 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So fucking real

  • @bumboklaatry5828
    @bumboklaatry5828 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this song made me remember things that i didn't want to remember...

  • @ЯнаПляченко
    @ЯнаПляченко 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Cloudy foggy day.
    you walk alone, celebrating another pointless outing and enjoying the air soaked in longing.
    Dark night.
    You lie wrapped in a blanket and feel a kind of emptiness inside you,
    you look at the ceiling and a tear of unspoken words and hidden emotions flows down your cheek lonely.
    Enjoy.

  • @ShalomMulenga
    @ShalomMulenga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Need to take a long walk to this, really got me thinking.

  • @rmonroe135
    @rmonroe135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Just when I thought “it’s okay, you’re okay” couldn’t be topped! Plz keep making music like this 😭🙏🏽

    • @Bilal-d7z6j
      @Bilal-d7z6j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙁🙁

    • @SALVAG3D
      @SALVAG3D 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Low key ya. I'm ok for a good while. Then I come across music like this, and it knocks me on my butt. I'll get up. I'll be fine. Always are. But ya. I understand that..

  • @1Monty509
    @1Monty509 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I still remember everything, from the very first day we met, to the last. For a few years, I got to experience what true happiness felt like. I got to see what my true potential was. Sadly, depression has taken a grip on me once again, and I feel like I have been falling ever since.
    I don't see a way out this time , and I am scared.

  • @jaydentucker2972
    @jaydentucker2972 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This song makes me think about why people don’t like me not because of me but because in this life they can’t handle things that I can.
    Meaning I’m a strong individual that has been through a lot and I’m on 13 years old 🙏🏾✝️🫶🏾❤️😞

  • @PressHelp2023
    @PressHelp2023 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Maybe fate has its own plans. What I love never loves me back, what loves me always missed by me perfectly.

  • @leosicht-meitner5384
    @leosicht-meitner5384 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Dude this has a certain heaviness to it but also brings positive things, it turns you upside down inside out, brings nostalgia with sorrow but also beauty , mixes sad with joy , memories of exs and people gone from my life into only pleasant memories , it is soothing. It is like life with bad and good but makes it more soothing… Great job and awesome talent , you made a new fan and follower

  • @orimori8016
    @orimori8016 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This music helps me realize how much saying your alone and being alone can really change your point of view in life and it can make you put up walls for opportunities that can change everything. Thank you for letting me hear the magnificent price of work

  • @-BlueX
    @-BlueX หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Makes me think that I could have been a better son. I constantly get dreams about losing my parents and it's my biggest fear.

  • @AlyssiaMaiko
    @AlyssiaMaiko 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wish I could go back in time and hug myself as a child. A very long hug…

  • @blank-re8qv
    @blank-re8qv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    i've only listened to "it's okay, you're okay" so far, but i really like what you're doing!

    • @bonjr2854
      @bonjr2854  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      you should check everything else out then, especially on Spotify ;) might find more stuff that you enjoy

  • @byronmann4525
    @byronmann4525 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I'm only 21 but all this song does is make me think of years past and how everyone has changed. And it's beyond sad.

    • @SoGoXP
      @SoGoXP ปีที่แล้ว +1

      21 aswell and that's true asf

    • @sibusisodlamini5273
      @sibusisodlamini5273 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Turning 20 next year, still yet to see the changes.... hope it won't be anything too bad.

    • @shawnnfr
      @shawnnfr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      me at 17. missing the hell out of my childhood.

  • @doegirl5246
    @doegirl5246 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My boys best friend like a brother,some girl blew him off one night,left his on his motorcycle mins later was killed,he was going about 100. I don't think he was in the right state of mind when he left his house. I have asked my boys before if he was having problems and he did cuz of his father dieing. I saw signs for I to have been down that road of depression and thinking that is no way out but suicide. I'm just sorry that I didn't help him more,me and my husband both treated him like a son,we loved him so much and so did his 2 brothers. Everytime I hear this song I think about him and break down crying,. He was my oldest age,20yrs old.😢
    R.I.P Josh 2002-2023
    We will see you again in heaven❤

  • @toaster9375
    @toaster9375 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whenever I see those Tik Toks with that art style and colour pallette paired with this music it never fails to make me feel nostalgic for whatever reason

  • @mrcharsi4455
    @mrcharsi4455 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Anyone listening in 2024 😢

  • @tim.t777
    @tim.t777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The fact that bonjr is liking every single comment makes this channel special

  • @peaceserafino6015
    @peaceserafino6015 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Though our lights have separated, may they forever shine.

  • @JonYT_75
    @JonYT_75 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dear Bonjr, Its been months since my aunt passed away. This song reminded me of her, she died cause of cancer, I dont know what would i do for you. Thank you. This might be the best music so far. May my aunt rest in peace. 3-4 Months Pass By. Still Crying about her. My mum is still sad. We all loved her.

    • @minatorres5261
      @minatorres5261 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so sorry. May she rest in peace

  • @soyunlobo08
    @soyunlobo08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It’s not real and I know it’s not real.. but I still stayed, slowly losing myself more and more

  • @ysf3655
    @ysf3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    U know... This type of songs, make us almost share the type of feelings that can out explain to each other,

  • @VaibhavMishra-go4oh
    @VaibhavMishra-go4oh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope everyone finds true love, happiness and everything they wanna achieve in this life

    • @fitnessbrotherade2959
      @fitnessbrotherade2959 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That does not exist, we do not find an accurate answer to our living on this primitive planet.

  • @johnysharki5694
    @johnysharki5694 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's been really hard sleeping lately. The darkness of my room and and the silence is haunting. The only way I can try to get a small peace of mind is by hugging a pillow and imagine it's the embrace of someone dear to me. It hurts more when I remember that that someone has passed away, a long time ago and there will be no chance of feeling their warmth except in my mind.

    • @kakr4739
      @kakr4739 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey, I don't know the pain you feel. I don't know the loss you feel or the loneliness you feel. I don't. But I know that it hurts. I don't know your pain, but I know pain. I know loneliness, I know loss, but I don't know just how bad it is for you. If you're willing to listen, I have some good news for you. There's someone that knows exactly how you feel. This person loves you so much more than you could ever imagine. This person would die to make sure you can live. This person can't wait for you to see Him. This person can't wait for you to run to Him and embrace Him. His name is Jesus. He knows that you really want a hug. He knows that even though it feels like the world is falling apart, He is greater than the world. Even if the world crumbles, He will never leave you. Trust me. I was depressed. I was going to take my own life. I was planning it. Every time that I wanted to though, I remember this voice that never left, He told me to keep going. I did, and it's been almost a year since I've been the happiest I've ever been. Jesus showed up in my life. I don't live a perfect life though. I will still lose people, I won't always have my friends, but Jesus has always been there, and will always be there. God has known me since before I was born. The same is for you.
      Jeremiah 1:5
      “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you,
      before you were born I set you apart;
      I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”
      Jesus is there with His arms wide open ready to give you the warmest hug ever. Please, go to Him.

  • @ZaineLombaard-un7jj
    @ZaineLombaard-un7jj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She showed up,in my dreams and it felt so real...

    • @m0le6377
      @m0le6377 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real

  • @tosen.w
    @tosen.w ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All my life I have been kinda lonely. Word of advice don’t push people away in fear of them leaving. don’t become like I was loneliness is an ugly monster it breeds jealousy, envy, it lowers self worth if you wallow in it. When you are feeling lonely take time to explore yourself. To show yourself the extent of your talents, passions, needs, and wants. Do this not because you want to distract yourself but you want to know yourself better so you don’t hate the man in the mirror. Accept ur flaws and if you are truly unhappy then try to fix them. Heads up kings.

  • @michaeldalton5571
    @michaeldalton5571 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My daughter and I love this song. I don't know what that says about us but we come together over this track 😊

  • @awsomegamer102
    @awsomegamer102 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This song reminds me of my ex. We were together for about 9 months and definitely had our ups and downs, but it felt good. This song brings back memories of our time together in the best way possible.

  • @XYouVandal
    @XYouVandal ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This song is the inner sadness we all work so hard to bury deep within ourselves, where no one else can see. It reminds us that it's still here and we're going to have to face it alone eventually. It beckons us to follow...and we will.

  • @tatia.5370
    @tatia.5370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was on a suicide hotline almost about a year ago and we had started to talk about music and the person I was talking to recommend your music to me. I’ve never been more grateful for music. So thank you:)

  • @omnithewolf3628
    @omnithewolf3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m about to zone out the universe with this

  • @veguasar
    @veguasar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When my depression hits, and nothing helps to cheer me up. I always have been looking around for some music instead. The melancholic vibes of this song calm me down. Making me feel not all alone ever since I broke up with my last GF who I was with last time already 3 years ago... haven't had the courage to go out again to find someone, but it's ok as I prefer the lonely times these days more than crowded areas... just waiting, maybe I will be able to find someone one day again... when I'm ready to go out there again.
    P.S. that relationship was one of my best ones yet which is why I bear it so hardly, and made me also realize that there is never anything for granted. All it takes is one small mistake from either side

    • @TJmuchie
      @TJmuchie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’ll be alright mate

  • @Roddy_Zeh
    @Roddy_Zeh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This music represents a change...a shift.
    From loneliness, feeling sad for being alone...to solitude...finding peace in being alone.
    Went through some tough moments last week and after parting ways with someone important, I'm slowly undergoing that change.
    Peace of mind, freedom...calmness. It's still a work in progress, still processing...sometimes feeling like back to square one, back to loneliness...but then re-balancing myself again...back to stability.
    Now...it's up to you, time. Do your magic...and make the wounds heal, even if they leave scars. Bury the painful and depressing memories, deep in my mind, so I can slowly forget about them...
    I do not wish any harm to that someone, on the contrary. All the best life can offer. I just do not wish to suffer anymore either.
    Thank you for this piece of musical art, bonjr. 🙏‍

    • @izabella1154
      @izabella1154 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey, How you feel now?

    • @Roddy_Zeh
      @Roddy_Zeh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@izabella1154 Hello, friend.
      It's been a while since I wrote that comment.
      Things are better now. No more loneliness, although still being alone. Such a big difference when you learn to enjoy your own company, a very liberating feeling...no longer having to rely on someone else's company to feel better. 🍷🗿
      Thank you for your concern. 🗿👍🏻

  • @wingedwillow5549
    @wingedwillow5549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kinda cool how “It’s okay, you’re ok” and “if it’s real then I’ll stay” somewhat rhyme

  • @chloekushira
    @chloekushira 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I realise that this music dates from 2011 and I'm listening to it in 2024 and I can assure you that no matter what period this music comes from, it will remain engraved in my memory. It makes me feel free inside to accept my pain and move forward.

  • @la_keith321
    @la_keith321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a thinking song, contemplating, planning, rewriting your history.

  • @noahmartin4515
    @noahmartin4515 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A man's first love is his mother. Back to a time when she would hum you a lullaby as your eyes become heavy with sleep. So peaceful, so warm, all is well. Now that you are the age she was, you realize the world was crumbling for her; but you didn't know. All you knew was you were safe with her, that she loved you. Now that time is gone and all you can do is remember her rocking you to sleep with the hum of a lullaby.

  • @survivaldude29
    @survivaldude29 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Really hits the vibes of 2024 😞

  • @theEnsoOne
    @theEnsoOne 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    21 years That I don't shed a tear and 21 years that i don't hug someone, first time crying in this year 😅

  • @silviahdez2950
    @silviahdez2950 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This song reminds me of the 2000's when you go to a park or to toys r us. Nostalgic.

  • @AyushvermaDr
    @AyushvermaDr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It was the year 2017, I was standing alone in my school ground for the school prayer.
    Then my eyes fell on the corridor above the roof.
    And I saw her first time, at that time I only liked her a little but I didn't know that in future she would become my life.
    I can write a whole book on her, but if I tell you briefly, her character, her manners, her dressing sense were very different.
    As if I started getting to know her slowly, I didn't even realize when I started falling in love with her.
    We studied together in the same school for four years but I could never speak a single word to her.
    I stilll remember That day was her last day in school, I knew if I didn't tell her today, I might never meet her again.
    But I was so timid that day I couldn't even say it.
    I cried a lot that day, to be honest I was less sad that I couldn't tell her but more sad that I would never be able to meet her.
    But God had other plans, after a few months we met again in a coaching center and this time she herself proposed me ( In 2021)
    Finally finally i got her ,my love, my life,my everything( after my mummy papa).
    I'm currently preparing for Neet entrance.I like to be alone since childhood,( introvert in a way), I have my parents in my family and I love them very much.But our relation is not such that when I have any problem,i can share it with them.......
    Then my love came in my life, she changed my whole life, I started sharing my every small and big happiness and sorrow with her.She was very mature girls and used to take care of me like a baby, it was impossible to live without each other.
    Then one day suddenly she called me and started crying that day we talked for a long time she kept talking I kept listening and we both kept sobbing.unfortunately that was the last time i talked her,she blocked me from everywere,I was in depression for 6 months and used to take sleeping pills every night for 4-5 days in a week.
    I still don't know why she left me, nor did she try to contact me again
    Maybe because I had nothing to give her except love and loyalty,Or maybe I just didn't deserve her, or maybe iI was so Immature that whenever she was angry with me i would start crying instead of convicing her.
    Sometimes I feel very alone, I want to tell someone that I am alone but it seems as if there are no words with which I can express my sadness, I cry, I don't want anyone to see me, but I also want someone to ask the reason for my crying,I want to be alone but I also want someone to talk to me.
    I'm tired of taking on responsibilities, I'm tired of crying over her, I'm tired of crying over my childhood friends who left me alone, I'm tired of everything.
    I just want to sleep for a long time and when I wake up I want everything to be okay.

  • @jvkki3379
    @jvkki3379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It makes me feel like I lost a friend but remember our moments together, until it ...last.

  • @hoodiegirl7221
    @hoodiegirl7221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Every time bonjr comes out with something, I wait until I'm alone at night an listen where nobody bothers me. And each time I cry like a baby

  • @jcreates2926
    @jcreates2926 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If my early morning dreams have background music, it would be this.

  • @theyenvy.gradcie
    @theyenvy.gradcie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I miss feeling happy and free.. nowadays I just feel so empty and that theirs a dark spot spreading around my heart and the more it grows the more I become more sad and gloomy . I miss being with friends and hanging out instead of bed rotting and being homeschooled ever since these horrible events have happened to me I don’t feel like myself anymore .

  • @TK29867
    @TK29867 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I recently just got out of a relationship.. This song reminded me of the good times, and the bad.. I feel comfortable sharing this story.. But everything that went downhill for me. My grandma died. My depression is hitting me hard as a truck can run you over.. And well, the relationship that I used to have.. I feel so relaxed yet sad in a good way. Remembering everything hurts.. but it always puts a smile while going through the pain

  • @fallensadly5799
    @fallensadly5799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    unreachable dreams

  • @rykersalty7265
    @rykersalty7265 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ive been listening to this song on and off since release and I am now a freshman in college and all it reminds me of is my final highschool years and how much fun they were and how little care in the world I had and how insignificant small things were and how much easier living a life with parents was and having childhood friends surrounding me, and it all vanished away from me one day and now I have to start new again just because I got older. Its hard.

    • @wavy.m3
      @wavy.m3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it’s gonna get way worse my guy 😂

  • @quietstormaps
    @quietstormaps 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't know why this music stirs up sadness and nostalgia all at the same time bringing me to tears.

  • @PressHelp2023
    @PressHelp2023 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maybe the most beautiful moment is when you and your loved one at the top of the peak , and died. It makes time stop.
    Things always changing.

  • @alexandrareyes9699
    @alexandrareyes9699 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I used to hear this song while my baby was at the Nicu. Reminded me how strong he was, how strong I was, it gave me hope !! Thank you so much for making this amazing music ❤

  • @jacksonwaldon
    @jacksonwaldon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How I understand the title: recently, I had my first gf. I loved her more-so than I did myself. She was always so happy around me. One day, though, it was different. She hadn't talk to me all day and I was trying to cheer her up but it wouldn’t work. At around 9:01 pm on Nov 20 2021 she sent me a message saying that she wanted to breakup. I still don’t know why she did. I’ve made a promise to myself that I’ll never go from strangers to dating someone that fast ever again. 2 weeks after we met we started dating. It was a naïve mistake that only someone in their youth (as I am) could make. My best guess is that she led me on. Next time, I need to try to remember that there is no love at first sight, only lust at first sight. You can never love someone or someone without knowing them. If the love is real, I’ll stay.

  • @michaelhood9024
    @michaelhood9024 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Spent 40 minutes trying to find this,it was the background music of a youtube video and man it just spoke to the soul, love it

  • @goinbossnova
    @goinbossnova ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've listened to "it's okay, your okay" probably hundreds of times. This makes me feel okay with being alone. Not sad, not ambiguous, just a kind of a safe feeling

  • @maciekjarek2248
    @maciekjarek2248 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That song and the background reminds me only about one book that special story.
    She was escaping from the crowd of zombies while the moon was shinning brighty upon the path she was running after a few moments she saw a bald guy running in her direction and she thought that it was the super zombie just about to catch her but it was her brother that she has not seen since she was 1 years old now having sixteen. They survived everything and been together till their days.
    Every time I see or listen to this music I have flashbacks of the book and of the story.

  • @bLegitBllunt
    @bLegitBllunt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The comfort to my most unloved nights..

  • @Gaming_with_Carlos08
    @Gaming_with_Carlos08 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    who's listening in 2024?

    • @gleyseh
      @gleyseh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙋‍♀️I am! ❤

    • @mrsoccer1356
      @mrsoccer1356 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I still miss 2022😢

  • @evanobrien9850
    @evanobrien9850 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for making this beautiful music, this helps me release so much emotion that otherwise have adverse affects on my family. Something that sooths the pain that you can never forget

  • @Yooner
    @Yooner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't cry that often because Im good at hiding my emotions even when Im alone but somehow you make me cry when I listen to this song. Just so emotionally calming but also so beautiful.

  • @musicsongs1037
    @musicsongs1037 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Xafalik paytlarimda tinglaydigan Eng yoqtirgan ayanchli musiqalarimdan biri.

  • @cameronroman506
    @cameronroman506 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He still is real and always will be real

  • @HONEYxBADG3R.
    @HONEYxBADG3R. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Wow. Absolutely caught me off guard hearing this song. I've had a rough life growing up and lately been dealing with a lot. I've been an expert at bottling things up, it's hard really to say but man hearing this caused a flood. So many emotions and nostalgic memories past can't help but make me so sad when I hear this. Thanks @bonjr for this masterpiece.

  • @qllrm
    @qllrm ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bonjr's works should be in movies, I would love to watch a scene work with this song 🥰

  • @TW23796
    @TW23796 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Feels so comforting...like a lullaby

  • @FunkyGod
    @FunkyGod 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You meet friends everywhere, at work, at a store, playing a videogame some you will keep in contact with, some you will never see again but regardless you will never forget them.

  • @cassiecolon8946
    @cassiecolon8946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This song always makes me wanna ball my eyes out. If I wasn’t thinking about anything sad or felt sad before, I do now. But in a healing type of way. Like I have to face things I don’t wanna feel. If that makes any sense.

  • @EverythingsEventuall
    @EverythingsEventuall 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When my daughter passed i thought nothing in this world could ever hurt me. I was deeply wrong; nothing in this world will make me as happy. And the years have come and gone. A few loves lay accost a few warm memories since then. There is so much hard things in life we as men must accept, and just face alone.

  • @heart4braiins173
    @heart4braiins173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This song makes me feel alive.

  • @joaodickel5015
    @joaodickel5015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Much love from Brazil!

  • @91Putts
    @91Putts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have found deep peace in this song. Thank you. And thank you to all the people in this thread

  • @jamesbailey5618
    @jamesbailey5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Peace. This isn’t what I thought it would be like.

  • @brimerwelpippy4972
    @brimerwelpippy4972 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been freezing cold for a decade and I see no end to it. not a flicker of a flame in sight.

  • @AsianRiceBoy-v6u
    @AsianRiceBoy-v6u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    100 reasons to stay alive:
    1. to make your parents proud
    2. to conquer your fears
    3. to see your family again
    4. to see your Favorite artist live
    5. to listen to music again
    6. to experience a new culture
    7. to make new friends
    8. to inspire
    9. to have your own children
    10. to adopt your own pet
    11. to make yourself proud
    12. to meet your idols
    13. to laugh until you cry
    14. to feel tears of happiness
    15. to eat your favorite food
    16. to see your siblings grow
    17. to pass school
    18. to get tattoo
    19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
    20. to meet your internet friends
    21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
    22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
    23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
    24. to see untouched snow in the morning
    25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
    26. to see stars light up the sky
    27. to read a book that changes your life
    28. to see the flowers in the spring
    29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
    30. to travel abroad
    31. to learn a new language
    32. to learn to draw
    33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
    34. Puppy kisses.
    35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
    36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
    37. Trampolines.
    38. Ice cream.
    39. Stargazing.
    40. Cloud watching.
    41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
    42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
    43. To hear “I saw this and thought of you."
    44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
    45. The relief you feel after crying.
    46. Sunshine.
    47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
    48. Your future wedding.
    49. Your favorite candy bar.
    50. New clothes.
    51. Witty puns.
    52. Really good bread.
    53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
    54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
    55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
    56. The smell before and after it rains
    57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
    58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
    59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
    60. Trying out new recipes.
    61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
    62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
    63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
    64.Breakfast in bed.
    65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
    66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
    67. Pray (if you are religious)
    68. Forgiveness.
    69. Water balloon fights.
    70. New books by your favorite authors.
    71. Fireflies.
    72. Birthdays.
    73. Realizing that someone loves you.
    74. Spending the day with someone like you.
    75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
    76. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person.
    77. Joy and happiness in the little things.
    78. The power to inspire others.
    79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression.
    80. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life.
    81. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet.
    82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family.
    83. Learn new things and develop new skills.
    84. Create a legacy that will outlive you.
    85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
    86. Cuddles
    87. Holding hands.
    88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
    89. Singing off key with your best friends.
    90. Road trips.
    91. Spontaneous adventures.
    92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
    93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
    94. Thunderstorms.
    95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
    96. The taste of your favorite food.
    97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
    98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
    99. Compliments and praise.
    100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
    Take life easy and stay healthy❤❤❤❤

  • @camic4070
    @camic4070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    hi bonjr idk if you’ll see this but it’s okay, you’re okay. is one of the main songs i listen to that has helped me get out of my head and this one as well. i really hope you have an amazing life cause you deserve it and you saved mine in some way ❤️

  • @respectable2540
    @respectable2540 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don't know if you still read comments, but this music has held a speical place in me since last christmas. the memories it brings back are insane

    • @bonjr2854
      @bonjr2854  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      still here ;)

    • @ncreal333
      @ncreal333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just coming across this gem, it's wonderful ❤

  • @watari13sigh
    @watari13sigh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    last song you'll hear before you die .... im okey with this...its so peaceful

  • @kristinetheim3201
    @kristinetheim3201 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For the one who don’t have and don’t like any kind of social media, I’m so glad I found this side of TH-cam.

  • @black09mln09
    @black09mln09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If I ever find someone who feels the same comfort from your songs that I do, I might have found the one. You really know how to make our deepest feelings flourish, accept them and be ready to move forward. Thank you for your art.