That's Not Healthy, That's Dysfunctional | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

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  • When you've grown up in a combat zone, warfare becomes familiar to such a degree that peace causes skepticism. In the same way, normalized dysfunction has conditioned us to the point where we have confused what happiness truly is. It isn't until our eyes have been opened that we're able to see hazardous roads have become our normal.
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  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @christinixon7865
      @christinixon7865 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so proud of you for being intentional with your healing. 🩷

    • @overcomingthruchrist83
      @overcomingthruchrist83 ปีที่แล้ว

      FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL

    • @thendelove
      @thendelove ปีที่แล้ว

      FATHER, OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL!!!!

    • @Roxiemoma2
      @Roxiemoma2 ปีที่แล้ว

      FATHER OPEN MY👀 SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS RIADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL🙏🏿

    • @writemywrongs6734
      @writemywrongs6734 ปีที่แล้ว

      FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL

  • @wdsanders04
    @wdsanders04 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    1. Discerning dysfunction is the first step to health.
    2. Find the road
    3. Find a different road
    4. Expect resistance
    5. Expect withdrawals
    6. Sound yourself with health

    • @dondreanajames
      @dondreanajames ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Proud of you for being intentional with your healing❤

    • @ajordan1847
      @ajordan1847 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for the list, very helpful!🙏🏾

    • @wdsanders04
      @wdsanders04 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ajordan1847 you are more than welcome

    • @nathenaf4830
      @nathenaf4830 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If ur partner says this after each argument "it's normal for couples to fight" to u and ur kids no honey it's not that is dysfunctional and maybe a toxic person trying to keep u from where God wants you,from someone he want you to be with, that which is to love yourself & him.

    • @msaverielle
      @msaverielle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good job on your healing.🙏🏾

  • @veronicaedwards3489
    @veronicaedwards3489 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SoI Can See hazardous roads that have become my normal Amen 🙏

  • @CharleanaGreene
    @CharleanaGreene ปีที่แล้ว +6

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE THE DISFUNCTION AND HAZARDOUS ROADS,,THAT HAS BECOME MY NORMAL! AMEN!!!

  • @AGreen-nx7tg
    @AGreen-nx7tg ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Read the title and said “Jerry is about to come for my edges, I’m not ready” but I came in the room because I’m new on my walk and trying to stay on the right path! Thank you God!

  • @flowerbomb9241
    @flowerbomb9241 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg! You all in my business Jerry!!!!!
    Talk Holy Spirit!

    • @Blessedbeauty527
      @Blessedbeauty527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @flowerbomb9241 I’m proud of you for being intentional with your healing! ❤

    • @flowerbomb9241
      @flowerbomb9241 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Blessedbeauty527 proud of you too sis!

  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'M PROUD OF YOU ALL- I SEE YOU BEING INTENTIONAL WITH YOUR HEALING. BLESSINGS ON YOU. VICTORY OVER YOUR LIVES🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jemiaholt8805
    @jemiaholt8805 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Paster Flowers, Can you please do part 2 of this sermon? This message has truly blessed me. I wish I would have known this sooner in my life. Stay blessed 🙌🏾 😇 🙏🏾

    • @macyliketheparade
      @macyliketheparade ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm proud of you for being intentional with your healing!

  • @GemVi-bb9os
    @GemVi-bb9os ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Open heart/mind/soul/spirit/thought surgery. Grateful for divine intervention & Godly therapy 🙌🏾 May we seekHIS face, revelation & ongoing healing.🙏🏾

  • @JulezV25
    @JulezV25 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Family dysfunction disciples us to tolerate toxicity”. God keeps speaking to me and exposing all the nails in my life and I can’t thank Jesus enough. He sees what I can’t! I was blind for so long but I can see it so clearly now. “We relate over punctures not PURPOSE. We’re not bonded. We have the same bondage!” - THIS IS SOOOOO GOOD! Hallelujah 🙌🏻 Thank you Pastor for these THERAPY THURSDAYS!!! You have no idea how much you have helped and blessed me in this season ❤

  • @lanarosales4458
    @lanarosales4458 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So good! Wow thank you so much! ❤Had me crying the whole way through! Thank you Jesus 🎉

    • @msaverielle
      @msaverielle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being intentional with your healing.❤

  • @ososecz
    @ososecz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Father open my eyes, so I can see hazardous roads that have become my normal 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @MsTopDollars
    @MsTopDollars ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I look forward to therapy Thursday's. You are such a blessing. I've learned and grown so much.

  • @Classyblackqueen
    @Classyblackqueen ปีที่แล้ว

    I am proud of everybody for being intentional about healing

  • @djtonytoneBKS
    @djtonytoneBKS ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lord GOD I pray 🙏🏾 that you Cover Our Brother Jerry and his Family. THIS MESSAGE uncovers the Darkness in many people lives, You have given him the words to help Change Individuals, Families, Communities and the World. I pray this message goes Viral. Thank You Bro for being one of the vessels Our Lord can use, In Jesus Christ Name. AMEN.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Exactly. That is what the Holy Spirit has been telling me a LOT in this season over and over and over again. And MANY people don't really grasp what is going on and refuse to acknowledge it or address it at all in Jesus' name.

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whatever is dysfunctional in our lives expose it God. Amen.❤

  • @Neshtodd
    @Neshtodd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can relate to all that is given in this message. Amen

  • @StephaneyMayersBelgrave-hu1ec
    @StephaneyMayersBelgrave-hu1ec 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Father open my eyes so I can see Hazardous roads that have become my normal.

  • @janinapolk2351
    @janinapolk2351 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You Father🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @calizzafarrell8733
    @calizzafarrell8733 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @michael I am proud of you taking your therapy and healing seriously!

  • @boamos6216
    @boamos6216 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I just love how the holy spirit works. I was going to watch the sermon from last Sunday but decided to watch this. When he told the story about the nails I had to stop and reflect. I couldn't believe that that was actually my marriage. So to the point that every car we had I had nails in most of the tires. Every single car. I as a man of God was trying to keep the marriage together but God had different plans. 2 years ago my my passed 3 days after birthday and when my dad was in hospice my wife separated from me. When I went to go see my pops for would be the last time. My siblings said he would not probable be able to recognize or talk because he was delusional. I saw him for the last time and to my astonishing I said pops do you know who I am and he made a joke and said yeah that killer lol. He then said son I didn't think you were going to still stand. I didn't know what he was saying. I thought he was saying the fact that I was drinking and smoking. He said no the fact of still standing in Christ being the fact that my exwife left me. And the fact of the me standing firm when my ex wife was wrong. I was amazed. He then said to me he is ready to go home. I knew what that meant. I prayed for him and asked the Lord for his will to be done. I later cried when I left because I knew that would be the last time I would see him. For some reason I had in my head don't let it happen on my birthday. Sure enough October 7 I got the call from my sis saying he passed. I didn't know how to feel. I just accepted it. At the funeral was somewhat embarrassing because they kept asking where is your wife. I just said I don't know even though I knew. The point of the story is God removed her. No I didn't like how it was done and the timing but I know he has great plans for me. I just want others to be encouraged even though you may be in a tough season

  • @feliciadance1715
    @feliciadance1715 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is right on time‼️ THANK YOU🫶🏼🙏

    • @gundulaarnim8536
      @gundulaarnim8536 ปีที่แล้ว

      @feliciadance1715 I'm proud of you being intentional with your healing!!!!!!!

    • @Blessedbeauty527
      @Blessedbeauty527 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m proud of you for being intentional with your healing! 😍🙏🏾

  • @MTuckr
    @MTuckr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's my job to change and submit to how the Holy Spirit is causing for me to live a life for God's glory! I'm not obligated to help anybody detox from toxicity. It's my job and the Holy Spirit's job to help me detox from the toxicities that I share in common with other people. GOD changes people, not me! Expect resistance. Expect withdrawals.

  • @teegriffin624
    @teegriffin624 ปีที่แล้ว

    AMEN HALLELUJAH THANK YOU FATHER GOD FOR EXPOSING THE NAILS 💜💜💜

  • @GodBlessedLeisset
    @GodBlessedLeisset 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God, I need you! I can’t move through this life alone! 🥺

  • @b.mariaworkman6315
    @b.mariaworkman6315 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father Open my eyes🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @annatsilo5757
    @annatsilo5757 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please pray for me 🙌

  • @TheComposerRell
    @TheComposerRell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FATHER THANK YOU FOR OPENING MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL IN JESUS NAME!

  • @TS-fj2lo
    @TS-fj2lo ปีที่แล้ว

    Expose to me God how these dysfunctions started in my life Lord. I need you to be the Gardner of my heart, uprooting the things, lies, the dysfunctions, bad routines and habits that are getting in the way of my fruitfulness and in living healthy for your Kingdom.

  • @StarlenePlaga
    @StarlenePlaga 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So Good. Thank you Ptr

  • @juliaqueen-ze8yn
    @juliaqueen-ze8yn ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZERDOUs ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL ❤

  • @AcaciaKitzi-um4zy
    @AcaciaKitzi-um4zy ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 😢❤ 🙏🏼 so true

  • @shelliemonroe7629
    @shelliemonroe7629 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Family dysfunction disciples us to tolerate toxicity." 🎤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    This is a sermon all by itself!

  • @ccartagena2262
    @ccartagena2262 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You 🙏 in Jesus name Amen

  • @jamiefulton7541
    @jamiefulton7541 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome thank you

  • @jazzyprice3669
    @jazzyprice3669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this was great, pay attention to your routes 👀☺️

  • @m.l9805
    @m.l9805 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a blessing

  • @Planted83
    @Planted83 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER, OPEN MY EYES SO THAT I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL.

  • @melaniedaly4321
    @melaniedaly4321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To all I am proud of u all my brother's and sister's in christ 🙏 ❤️

  • @angelaboone2766
    @angelaboone2766 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm proud of you all for being intentional with your healing family

  • @28tonisha
    @28tonisha 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL!!!❤

  • @marciazephyr5179
    @marciazephyr5179 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen and amen 🙏

  • @christinalee8986
    @christinalee8986 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m proud of you

  • @TouVee
    @TouVee ปีที่แล้ว

    Every time I listen to your videos, I sit back and reflect on my life. Thank you, God, for purpose❤

  • @philllettegipson5667
    @philllettegipson5667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES; SO THAT I CAN SEE THE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL

  • @rebeccajohnson5158
    @rebeccajohnson5158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🔥 🔥 🔥

  • @hunnycup2008
    @hunnycup2008 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL!

  • @acquitadanae5975
    @acquitadanae5975 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So be it (Amen)

  • @keitumetseramphore4534
    @keitumetseramphore4534 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL

  • @jermbarnett1
    @jermbarnett1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u

  • @nykielhayden-Chosenstorm
    @nykielhayden-Chosenstorm ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROAD THAT HAVE MY NORM!!

  • @kristikramer7899
    @kristikramer7899 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was very much needed. Thank you for your obedience to God on this ❤

  • @Truly1_Of1
    @Truly1_Of1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father open my eyes so that I can see hazardous roads that have become my normal 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am proud of you and ME for being intentional in my healing. I am definitely in my walk and my peace is non negotiable. Thanks Pastor Flowers. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES. AMEN.

  • @ashleysanders1650
    @ashleysanders1650 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AMEN

  • @nicolematt633
    @nicolematt633 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen. Thank you Father!

  • @finessehines8106
    @finessehines8106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    amen amen amen

  • @valeriestaton3192
    @valeriestaton3192 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father open my eyes so I can see hazardous roads that have become my normal!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @DevotedLady53
    @DevotedLady53 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen❤🙏

  • @aliciawebb9580
    @aliciawebb9580 ปีที่แล้ว

    There so much substance in this. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you!

  • @andreamyers1209
    @andreamyers1209 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do a part 2. This was powerful, informative, and inspiring! Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @_humblekay7075
    @_humblekay7075 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Normalized dysfunction: unhealthy routine or practice that has been dressed in the wardrobe of our personality to such a degree that not wearing it causes us to be frustrated

  • @_humblekay7075
    @_humblekay7075 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m proud of you for being intentional with your healing

  • @tonih1385
    @tonih1385 ปีที่แล้ว

    Taking routes that are Unhealthy
    Amen 🙏🏾
    Make it make sense
    Hallelujah 💗

  • @ladyn8198
    @ladyn8198 ปีที่แล้ว

    Part 2 please ❤!

  • @daniellechavez131
    @daniellechavez131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That one really hit for me💔😭

  • @christinehollenbeck3871
    @christinehollenbeck3871 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER, OPEN MY EYES SO THAT I CAN SEE THE HAZARDOUS ROADS!!

  • @Kierradaniellee
    @Kierradaniellee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER, OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL 🙏🏾🤍

  • @TS-fj2lo
    @TS-fj2lo ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME NORMAL IN JESUS NAME AMEN.

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proud of you all for doing the work❤

  • @katrinacash6092
    @katrinacash6092 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have blessed me and answered spoken words from God for me. He said years ago he wanted me to be able to navigate through tunnels and highways or 4 ways noise free!!!!

  • @jamieibrahim6871
    @jamieibrahim6871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I COULD SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL.

  • @jamiefulton7541
    @jamiefulton7541 ปีที่แล้ว

    Father open my eyes so I can see hazderou roads

  • @100HOLYGHOST
    @100HOLYGHOST ปีที่แล้ว

    He's speaking to ME!

  • @LiveWellNowTV
    @LiveWellNowTV ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Walking through “fertilizer” is exhausting

  • @liacaraballo4889
    @liacaraballo4889 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL

  • @KCRoyale
    @KCRoyale ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God changes people NOT you.❤

  • @ncfelise3338
    @ncfelise3338 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @lilban370
    @lilban370 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CSN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECONE MY NORMAL IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

  • @mrs.poised9820
    @mrs.poised9820 ปีที่แล้ว

    I been disobedient. And ttt it e same situation. Lord heal me help me through

  • @annatsilo5757
    @annatsilo5757 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am poud of you guys 🎉😊

  • @kingdomtalk3264
    @kingdomtalk3264 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so good!

    • @kimberlyking3950
      @kimberlyking3950 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm proud of you for being intentional in your healing.

  • @zennyvelez146
    @zennyvelez146 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aaamen

  • @MissWard2u
    @MissWard2u ปีที่แล้ว

    If I could give this 100 likes I would

  • @audreybuchman1972
    @audreybuchman1972 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER, OPEN MY EYES, SO I CAN SEE HAZERDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL!!!

  • @yangelthomas
    @yangelthomas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm catching up....missed some episodes

  • @yepitsdom
    @yepitsdom ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay, so where’s the Part 2, because that message tore me down. I need the re-build!!!!

  • @BlueHouseTravelsTravelServices
    @BlueHouseTravelsTravelServices ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @kingdomtalk3264
    @kingdomtalk3264 ปีที่แล้ว

    BROOO WE NEED A PART 2!!!

  • @leandreabrown2654
    @leandreabrown2654 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL 😮😮😮

  • @obridget9274
    @obridget9274 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trauma Bonds

  • @Dally1k
    @Dally1k ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SONI CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS SO I DAN FIX MY TIRES

  • @AmandaRentz
    @AmandaRentz ปีที่แล้ว

    @1way9889 I'm proud of you!

  • @user-hl2gv8cs9v
    @user-hl2gv8cs9v 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @hunnycup2008 Im proud of you!

    • @Blessed0480
      @Blessed0480 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm proud of you for being intentional with your healing.

  • @darrenphillips9762
    @darrenphillips9762 ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER, OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE
    HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE
    BECOME MY NORMAL!!🙏🏾⚔️🛡️🫶🏾

  • @ZariFleming
    @ZariFleming ปีที่แล้ว

    FATHER OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @efekemarayesarah
    @efekemarayesarah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FATHER,OPEN MY EYES SO I CAN SEE HAZARDOUS ROADS THAT HAVE BECOME MY NORMAL.