Love and peace to you Jessie...been there..spent half my life trying to please others to no outcome..you have a beautiful heart and deserve the love !❤💜✨
This hits me. I’ve been on a 4 year journey and made a decision back in 21 to not get involved with ANYONE until I completely heal. I wouldn’t want to hurt someone the way I’ve been hurt. Baby steps. Day by day. Thanks for your videos Jessie!
@@paulsidey8003 hey! Wow that is a long time to be single. Good for you though. I will say I don’t know if we are ever 💯 percent healed though - maybe the key is to find a partner who respects where you are at but also is self aware enough to not make you responsible for their actions and behaviour as they will have to do their own work. However I do think you will know when you meet the right person. I feel like it’s similar to shoe shopping hahaha - you know when you try a shoe on and it’s not quite right and some people think “I just need to break them in” but in truth they won’t ever wear them again lol 😝 ya don’t buy anything that doesn’t fit just right 😂🤪💯❤️🔥
@ thank you so much for your response! My real friends get my reluctance to be with anyone but also respect my avoidance of physical intimacy due to the level of abuse I’ve experienced in the past. Your videos are SO raw and imo you don’t give a $h!+ about what other people think - like, I have a feeling you, like me, have been through experiences that we’d rather forget but we can’t. I have a hurt so deep that words can’t describe. I’ve been *yuck* But I’m free now and your many videos give me the strength to continue on with TRUE friendships ❤️❤️❤️
@ oh man - seriously it’s true though isn’t it? Those of us who know what it’s like to be in a place where we literally feel stuck in a living hell - I think we recognize each other for sure. And I just got free myself last year. So I get it. Totally. And honestly good for you for choosing yourself first. It’s hard to do. I don’t know how many people realize the strength that takes. And my honey badger attitude is something I have intentionally fostered ya know? I have had to over come the programming since childhood that I was a loser destined to be a “whore” as my step dad tried to make me believe. He just wanted me to be that - but thankfully I am stubborn and have a will inside me that won’t quit hahaha 😆- it’s honestly my only trick. I never quit. Have you heard or Louise Hay? Love yourself heal your life? It’s a free audiobook on here I highly recommend it. It helped me a lot. I love her works.
Love and peace to you Jessie...been there..spent half my life trying to please others to no outcome..you have a beautiful heart and deserve the love !❤💜✨
@@romemancer7905 aww thank you. I hope you are having a wonderful Sunday 💯🔥
This hits me. I’ve been on a 4 year journey and made a decision back in 21 to not get involved with ANYONE until I completely heal. I wouldn’t want to hurt someone the way I’ve been hurt. Baby steps. Day by day. Thanks for your videos Jessie!
@@paulsidey8003 hey! Wow that is a long time to be single. Good for you though. I will say I don’t know if we are ever 💯 percent healed though - maybe the key is to find a partner who respects where you are at but also is self aware enough to not make you responsible for their actions and behaviour as they will have to do their own work. However I do think you will know when you meet the right person. I feel like it’s similar to shoe shopping hahaha - you know when you try a shoe on and it’s not quite right and some people think “I just need to break them in” but in truth they won’t ever wear them again lol 😝 ya don’t buy anything that doesn’t fit just right 😂🤪💯❤️🔥
@ thank you so much for your response! My real friends get my reluctance to be with anyone but also respect my avoidance of physical intimacy due to the level of abuse I’ve experienced in the past. Your videos are SO raw and imo you don’t give a $h!+ about what other people think - like, I have a feeling you, like me, have been through experiences that we’d rather forget but we can’t. I have a hurt so deep that words can’t describe. I’ve been *yuck*
But I’m free now and your many videos give me the strength to continue on with TRUE friendships ❤️❤️❤️
@ oh man - seriously it’s true though isn’t it? Those of us who know what it’s like to be in a place where we literally feel stuck in a living hell - I think we recognize each other for sure. And I just got free myself last year. So I get it. Totally. And honestly good for you for choosing yourself first. It’s hard to do. I don’t know how many people realize the strength that takes.
And my honey badger attitude is something I have intentionally fostered ya know? I have had to over come the programming since childhood that I was a loser destined to be a “whore” as my step dad tried to make me believe. He just wanted me to be that - but thankfully I am stubborn and have a will inside me that won’t quit hahaha 😆- it’s honestly my only trick. I never quit. Have you heard or Louise Hay? Love yourself heal your life? It’s a free audiobook on here I highly recommend it. It helped me a lot. I love her works.