As a youngest child, my mom and dad really didn't care even though he was the most athletic person in our school and was valedictorian in senior year In comparison my older sister got decent marks (like 85%) and was decent in athletics while i was shit in athletics and barely passed Yet my older brother was ignored
But in my family I am the youngest one and I literally feel like an outsider in my family whenever the whole family is sitting together except me they really look like a complete family Well .... They look like a complete family because they really are Every family wants 2 children 1 son 1 daughter the 3rd one is always extra and no one gives attention to the third I always feel that my elder brother and sister have already completed the family and I am extra unwanted one😢 I am talking about my family only So don't get offended
Todays status of being blamed my mom blamed me after i cooked that i dstroyed the water dispenser and it was my siblings at some point i laughed out of insanity so bad from what shes doing to me every time i went to my room and she started blaming me to my siblings and family and talking of how i ruin everything and she cones to my room telling me never to cook again😂 god i love you and i will never loss the faith😢
I've always felt like a peice of shit because my older brother's a disappointment so I have to be perfect and then my little sister I have to take care of her because my brother Les responsible than my 6 ur old cousin and he's 13 but that doesn't really matter all plus after all that I have S.A.D. depression anxiety social anxiety ADHD and anger issues on top of all that I just get made fun of for being "overweight and obese " I'm just so done with life
I don't even know why some people have children like if you don't want children don't have them! "All children deserve parents not all parents deserve children"
Being a middle child is hard 😞 You feel like u don’t have a Voice u are Forgotten, and get blamed for everything you are forced to take on others labor until you break.
Being the middle child is harder than people think we are under to much pressure and it's not fair I'm the middle child so it's easy to relate .I'm happy someone understands it's touching thank you
fr. like I'm not the oldest so nobody takes me seriously and Im "too young for everything" and Im not the youngest so Im "too old for everything" and I am expected of too much. They act like I cant have problems
I’m the middle child myself. After going through all this I’ve dusted my hands with my entire family. Even though I’m no contact I’m still the center of blame. Do yourself a big favor, protect your peace. #middlechildrenunite.
Fellow middle child here. Not telling you what what to do, but everyone deserves a second chance. If you have a chance to be the bigger person, you should definitely take it. I hope your relationship with your family heals.
@@_shadownotes_ thank you for your kind words. But in my opinion, when you’ve given out so many chances your trust begins to decline. Not everyone is deserving of your kindness or time.
This brings back memories as a middle child I was blamed for everything someone else didn’t want to own up to or did but my parents didn’t care. when I was sad and I said it was about them or issues I had, they’d call me weak or bratty and make me seems small and worthless.I was emotionally abused and when I brought it to light they wouldn’t believe me since my mother was sweet and no one know my dad.
As the oldest it’s not like we have a choice with the shadow thing- I have feel bad for my five siblings because I have done every sport under the sun and excelled in school. BUT as the oldest out expectations are really high, so it’s not really our choice to create the shadow. Anyway, have a nice day/night. Btw this was not set to be rude or anything, just factual.
Just thanking you melissa, you have touched me and many other people, thanks for spreading awareness, I hope some parents find this and start changing these! YOU ARE AMAZING!!!
As a middle child, I can confirm this is true. Especially the no mistakes and does oldest kid responsibilities. Also, the blamed and misunderstood is REALLY on point.
My mom she makes all of my siblings do this and I love her she loves her children equally I will never leave her nor forget her I love her love you mama
as a middle child I can confirm its true, even when u do something for your other family member, they never notice you did it and thank the other sibling. And they don't even notice that you did it for them. Children needs a better parent/s if this is what their parent/s do and not all parents deserve a child.
I relate to the “make a mistake and it’s the baddest thing” I can’t make a mistake like dropping something without being scolded by everyone there. It’s not just my parents it’s everyone and I am sick of it. I also have to follow into all of my older cousins/siblings footsteps. If they all do good now I have to do more and more to be equal and seem smart like them
I cried during this it is really true all that trauma is built in and most middle childs are too scared to share their emotions because they think that they're not good enough. It shows the weakness personally.
This is the most relatable thing I've seen, especially getting to not make a simple mistake just because my older sibling has made a similar mistake I'm not allowed to make that mistake because "I should learn from there mistakes" 😢
I am the youngest and I get treated like this. My sisters gang up and blame me for everything and I get I. Trouble. If they make me cry or anything the will say I did it first and I have to do thier chores and if I tell my mum my sisters deny it and I get shouted at.
This is exactly how I feel. No one really understands me. But my mom really does understands me. She says she appreciates everything I do for everyone. This is the perfect example of the middle child
As a middle child, I find this very relatable. I am always the one who is the most responsible yet I get called “lazy” and they don’t even care about me at all. I am sorry for whoever goes through the same thing as me and just know that I love you all. ❤
As the oldest of all 4 of my siblings, I try my hardest to treat them the best I possibly can. The 2 middles, they are so fun to be around, and if my parents don’t pay attention to them I do. The youngest kids, me and my other siblings help take care of them equally. I’m sorry for every middle child that has had to go through this.
You are such an amazing sibling. I have always lived in the shadow of my older sister and they always can never do a thing wrong and everything I do is horrible. My sisters like to see me in trouble because that means my mom is happier with them😢 I related to video so much it made me cry
@@Heyhey-i6s I’m so sorry! I try to own up to my mistakes and problems, because when it’s not my siblings fault they don’t deserve the punishment. I hope it gets better
@@jodiehutchins8737 Haha, of course. I hate that other middle children had to go through this. If I could I would take all middle children and make them my siblings 💕
as the oldest, I think the middle child needs to be more appreciated, they work they're hardest and no one notices... I believe everyone needs equal love and affection from the guardians....I still love you lil sis (middle child in my family) and for all middle children out there...I wish you well and remember you are special ❤️
this video truly touches me and its completely relatable . I technically am a middle child and the oldest at the same time. I am the second oldest but two of my siblings unfortunately passed . thank you for spreading awareness to everyone
@@Emmmysxxlol Hang in there girl( or whateveryour gender is :] )! You'll see, in a few yrs she'll start to understand what you went through :] took me a tragedy to be able to get close to my sister, I used to think she hated me so I tried to stay away. Even if she doesn't im sure you've got many friends that can help you manage ! And if not then I wouldn't mind being one of those friends :D
As the youngest child, I think the middle child needs more attention, and needs to be treated more well. If you are a middle child reading this, remember that you're amazing.
I thought it was just me , it’s sad to know other people can relate 😢 stay strong and never give up take advantage and use it to get stronger form it love y’all and take care ❤❤😊 I also try to remind myself of it most of the time as the middle child I never really thought about bring a middle child until now
I'm the oldest, but every stereotype about kids I'm the middle. I've never been good at anything; sports, art, games, you name it and I've failed. So I am always living in the shadow of my sisters; one is good at sports and the other can do art really well. Any time I try and do something new my sisters have already done it, or if they do it they will get more praise. School is basically the only thing I'm good at, but even my sisters seem to get more praise out of it. I'm expected to always get 100%, if my sisters get that it's a great job, I'm so proud of you (and yes they almost always get A's to so basically the same grades). In my school they have this thing called cluster where basically you are a year ahead. I got put into it for math, without even needing to be tested or anything. I needed so much help because I went from never thinking negative numbers existed to you need to add, subtract, multiply and divide them because you already know this. I never got help and if I did bad it was a why didn't you do good enough. My sister had to take a test and barely passed after studying for weeks and she needs help now (after skipping 7th grade). Everyone wants to help her and tells her how proud they are, it feels almost as if they forgot what I'm doing. I'm in 2 honors classes, a year ahead in math, learning a language, learning to code and more and they ask me why I have to spend so long on studying and I'm stupid for not understanding things. I once wanted to try art, but when I brought it up to my sisters and family they just laughed because I can't do art (I laughed with them and played it off as a joke). But as the oldest I do have to take care of my younger sisters, they tell me everything and I have to live with that, I have to solve their problems and I have to skip my homework to help them with theirs, anything and everything they want I give to them. It's expected now, it isn't oh thank you for doing it, it's a I hate you for not helping me. Everything just hurts me so bad, and at school I'm all alone. I lost my best friend in 6th grade (we just grew apart and I don't even know her anymore because everything has changed), and I've never been able to make friends after elementary school. Every friend I made I lost because they would move away. And after 8 years of that happening you lose hope, so I stopped. I have one "friend" not fake or anything but just she has better friends. It feels almost as if I'm just there. At lunch I just sit there and listen, they never talk to me. After almost 4 years of never trying to make friends it isn't something that I can just do, my one friend she talked to me first, that's all. I haven't made a friend since 3rd grade and I'm in high school now. I hurt so so bad, but I don't tell anyone because I'm a side character, not someone you pay attention to or want to learn about. Everything in here, no one even knows about because no one asks. I was talking to this guardian person for my parents custody battel, and after like 10 minutes of talking she told me that I should go talk to a counselor but honestly I don't want to, because I'll miss class and then I'll have more homework, and if he call's me in a class where I know someone then they'll ask. And what should I tell them. What do you even talk to a counselor about? Do you just walk in and say life sucks? Cause honestly I like the boxes I put things in and store them away, and later at night or when I'm alone I open all of them and look at them, put them back up and forget about them till next time. But lately the boxes have started to fall off the shelf and open up without me knowing. But I'll be fine, because I always have been and always will be. Let's just hope I'm never left alone with a drink or scissors and my thoughts. LOL I don't mean that because I know I would never be able to stop.
I'm a middle child this all happens. I forgot if this was put in but I get compared to my other siblings and no matter what my mum/dad tells me there are favourites and it isn't me. My big brother is favourite with my dad's side. My little brother is favourite for my mum's family. It's not always brutal and there are loving moments (BC they obviously still care) but these all happen at least once.
Us middle children needed this Edit: guys I didn't write this comment trying to say only middle children have it hard You can have it hard as the oldest child or as the youngest or as the muddle child and even as an only child
I understand you but it's not always the middle child I am the youngest but I'm always forgotten bc my parents never wanted 3 children so the middle child is the favorite she always gets what she wants or else she's going to scream and she is 18 my oldest sister moved out she's 20 and I'm 12 they let me do everything like I'm a maid
I am the middle child, and I don’t know if you’ll even see this, but this truly spoke to me. When I was younger I was pretty aggressive and had anger issues, so now whenever I get mad I am treated as a risk or a hazard and it is so hard to make people understand that I was only 6. I constantly feel misunderstood and left out of a lot of things. If I had something, all my siblings had to have it too.
My family love us all the same, we all have chores, we all have the same treatment. I am so sorry to all the middle child’s who gets punished and forgotten , god bless you ❤
I really wanna thank you as a person who is in teenage and is in depression i always tend to hide my feelings i always think i have to survive so that my beloved baby brother don't go through same I'm literally crying and yeah no one saw it so yeah lol
Omg this literally made me cry. Someone finally understands the pain we go through and it just makes me so happy. Like world doesn't revolve around all the other siblings.❤❤
@@Petsimxgabby40504 most* almost every parent in my home country (And other countries too). Are like this. Tbh I've never really seen a child get raised a different way. 🤷♀️ (No need to worry about my kids, I won't do the same thing if I ever get any).
@@vannahhannahit really doesn’t matter I’m trying to point out my point. Not everyone has a life like yours. You said “bro I’m the middle child and everyone treats me the same” that’s why I said not everyone has a life like YOURS. You don’t need to point out your life.
She just described my life… Edit: btw the one of never enough is very true. I have number 1 grades always from both my sister. I don’t get anything. They get ice cream and get to go out but I can never get anything out of accomplishing big stuff. I only get a “good job” and that’s it. My sisters get prizes and stuff.
@@SakinoAo666 ikr? like they just don't understand their always like: "why do you have a b? oh this teachers not that bad [THAT TEACHER MAKES US RIGHT A 2-PAGE ESSAY EVERY 2 DAYS ] like parents just don't understand
@@_s1mpL Agreed....except I'm homeschooled so I don't get out much....and I keep telling my parents I miss the socializing and I miss my friends but they're like oh Idc and stuff like that....
I'm the middle child and am actually so happy for my own life, although I'm literally the most-behaved kid, I do feel lonely a LOT. I'm sorry for anyone that has to go through this, sending prayers🙏❤
I have a biological little brother and an adopted older sister. This describes me so well, having to be the perfect older sister and younger sister so I can put an example for my younger brother.
Thank you for making this video and the others on siblings/children People don't get whats going on with children. Middle child gets ignored, oldest takes all the responsibility and takes care of younger siblings, and youngest feels misunderstood but will never say so as they are a people pleaser. It's not an act of love if you make us! YOU MAKE US DO, TO MUCH LABOR!!
Ik this was long ago but my brother did bad things to me he sat on my back so I couldn’t breath, and when I used to play Minecraft and asked him to play he would say “later” then the next day I would ask him again and he said “later” then one year later I asked him “when will you play Minecraft with me” and he didn’t answer. I never got to play Minecraft with him again :(
@@algbrailenbfdi_fan that was my story when I was 8-9, I asked him to hang out with me EVERYDAY and he said "tomorrow" "at night" "later" "NOT NOW!" And then he'd just tell my mom and I'd get yelled at because I bothered him. My mom still wonders why we aren't close anymore…
Nahh, my brother, the middle child, chills with video games every day. He's just another sibling. Doesn't do ANY work, nor takes the blame that often. Just in between the responsible oldest sibling and me, the youngest.
I’m a middle child so this really touches me because my other siblings are bad and don’t get punished yet I do the slightest thing wrong and get in trouble
I was waiting for someone to say this my parents treat all my siblings equal and they pay alot of attention to each and everyone one of us 😊 and it’s just disgusting to treat your child differently to your other children just because they are a middle child
I’m the middle and I rlly feel this, this touched me in so many different ways and I hope this shows everyone that are not the middle child how hard being the middle child is, I always get punished for no reason but my siblings never get punished, if my younger sibling does something bad then my mom will take my phone away and she will say your older you should know better and I’m like but he did it first or he hurt me but she doesn’t care, or my and my older sibling will get into a fight and my mom will say I talk to much or something, it’s very stressful being the middle and I hop everyone knows that, I cry a lot about nothing being fair
my family is the opposite. youngest and oldest are treated the worst, my middle brother is treated the best. i’m sorry for all of you guys who have to go through this. you deserve love no matter who it’s from.❤️ edit: all of you that are saying you go through the same stuff i’m so sorry. i love all of you, and thank you for all the support and love!! and agreeing with me. :) know that i love u all!’
No one’s perfect, someone is gonna be forgotten by someone in this cruel would. Unless you were born in a nice family and great friends ur gonna be forgotten somehow which is what I hate. I get you, I’m the oldest on my mums side but I have 3 have-siblings on my dads and on my mums side, I’m mostly in the shadows on my younger sis. She’s 5, 5 YEARS OLD. and then my mum feels so attacked 24/7
Im the middle child and I'm not forgotten either, for my siblings the more social we are the older we are basically, my older sister is the most socialable, I'm socialable half of the time and my little sister isn't that socialable accept for online, oh and it is my big sis that usually gets blamed for stuff but it doesn't happen often and yea we all get along pretty well despite not talking to eachother all that often
The thing is, it’s not about which sibling you are it’s the parents that raise you you don’t get treated like that for being the middle or the oldest or the youngest it’s how your parents treat you😢
I wish having to do a lot of chores was my worst problem. This is a reminder to be grateful for your parents because you may think they ask you to do a lot but at least they’re still a part of your life.
This relates so much. I tell people this is what I have to do in my family but they always act like I'm lying. It's nice to know that somebody understands us! EDIT: I MEAN THIS FOR ANY CHILD THATS HURTING NOT JUST MIDDLE CHILDREN!
I wish my older sister was like that she constantly bullies me and if I don't do what she wants she will hit me and since we share a room I'm not even allowed to be in it
This was actually kind of me as the oldest. Middle was favorite to the point that it was obvious to family we didn't see regularly. I also suffered emotional and verbal abuse. I was compared to my sister in just about everything except school which I was good at. I mentally matured by 6th grade. When I started to emotionally mature in high school I was punished for not feeling the way my mom expected/wanted me to feel. I also think I freaked her out a little because I tended to be very quiet before that.
Me too, except I’m the youngest and my older siblings are either in uni or starting. I’m still just in high school and I’ve started stressing over everything. I think its just me though 😅
@@trafferthfach7798 If you can move out no matter what when you graduate. It will get better if you can put and keep distance between them. Low contact for a while could be helpful in the relationship but it may not. My mom has chilled some, especially after she became sober.
@@WyvernJelly thanks, this has really helped. I’m trying to chill a bit and my friends are supportive. I’ll keep trying my best but won’t care so much over failure
No matter what i do I’m never good enough, I have to hide my feelings so I can set a good example for my younger siblings, I am forced to do everything and always blamed for things, and the rules that apply to me don’t apply to my siblings. I know most of you feel this on a personal level, I want you to know that I love all of you and have felt your pain ❤
I am a middle child of an 11 year old brother and a 23 year old brother, and you have no idea how much this represents my life and I am so thankful to know how other people know. Btw new sub cause you are a very good creator!
This video means a lot to me. My brother, who is ten years older. Moved out as soon as he graduated high school, didn’t look back. I then had to carry all the slack.
That’s what you are supposed to do really, you can’t get mad at that. You are the oldest once he left, meaning you have to do more work now. I don’t understand what people don’t get about that.
@@cloudyyxchar I know that, since they left, this person has to pick up the slack, their little sibling can’t do it. That’s what’s gonna happen. No matter the age, they will have to pick up the slack once the oldest sibling leaves. God damn this generation is stupid.
@@K_JRobloxI agree. As the eldest sibling, once I move out it will be the middle child’s duty. I gave my whole childhood for him and my baby sister so once I’m out- I’m done. He will understand what I went through and it’s a sad but true reality. Children shouldn’t have to raise their siblings but that’s how it is.
Bro, l'm an oldest with one sibling and this relates to me so much. l'm always getting compared to my friends and l'm practically invisible....Half of the time not even my friends notice me
I’m a middle child, the eldest daughter, and I feel so connected with just a video. It’s mine and my brothers job to make sure out two younger siblings are safe, show them what’s wrong, and sometimes, my other siblings trauma gets noticed before mine. I try not to cry so my stressed mom doesn’t worry. But in my room, I sometimes just break down in tears.
I love how you actually understand the pain of the middle child and you don’t do those shorts where it’s like all the siblings and the parents and the middle child is invisible. Thank you we need more people in this world to understand this.😊
I am so glad that i know that there are people who get pushed over by their parents to do stuff for them!! and i can never make a mistake. i feel like an outcast in my family
All the youngest children out there. Don't listen when people call you the favorite. You are probably being treated the same way. True loving parents love their children equally.
Being left out and blamed is so true. As a middle child, nobody even listens to what I say and they always talk over me.
As a youngest child, my mom and dad really didn't care even though he was the most athletic person in our school and was valedictorian in senior year
In comparison my older sister got decent marks (like 85%) and was decent in athletics while i was shit in athletics and barely passed
Yet my older brother was ignored
yeah, you can never talk as the middle
I do not remember i wrote this comment.
But in my family I am the youngest one and I literally feel like an outsider in my family whenever the whole family is sitting together except me they really look like a complete family
Well .... They look like a complete family because they really are
Every family wants 2 children 1 son 1 daughter the 3rd one is always extra and no one gives attention to the third I always feel that my elder brother and sister have already completed the family and I am extra unwanted one😢
I am talking about my family only
So don't get offended
@@IAmLivingInMyFantasy yeah well it’s different in different families💀
finally someone understands. we’re always pushed aside, and it’s like we’re not even there. thank you, im subscribing.
Todays status of being blamed my mom blamed me after i cooked that i dstroyed the water dispenser and it was my siblings at some point i laughed out of insanity so bad from what shes doing to me every time i went to my room and she started blaming me to my siblings and family and talking of how i ruin everything and she cones to my room telling me never to cook again😂 god i love you and i will never loss the faith😢
I've always felt like a peice of shit because my older brother's a disappointment so I have to be perfect and then my little sister I have to take care of her because my brother Les responsible than my 6 ur old cousin and he's 13 but that doesn't really matter all plus after all that I have S.A.D. depression anxiety social anxiety ADHD and anger issues on top of all that I just get made fun of for being "overweight and obese " I'm just so done with life
I don't even know why some people have children like if you don't want children don't have them! "All children deserve parents not all parents deserve children"
That is Soo true though
So true as a middle child myself.
I'm a middle child. You have no idea how much thus touched me. My siblings are mischievous and they dont get punished. I do.
In my family I'm the youngest and i get punished for things not my siblings😢😢😢
I'm the middle to and it's the worse
i’m the middle child and the blamed and misunderstood is the thing i relate to most with this video
Same
So true same with me
Being a middle child is hard 😞 You feel like u don’t have a Voice u are Forgotten, and get blamed for everything you are forced to take on others labor until you break.
Relatable
See I understand this I need the break!
No i am one so you can’t say I’m wrong as long as you’re happy
Relate even though I’m the youngest.
Being the middle child is harder than people think we are under to much pressure and it's not fair I'm the middle child so it's easy to relate .I'm happy someone understands it's touching thank you
why are you a gacha life profile
Exactly
fr. like I'm not the oldest so nobody takes me seriously and Im "too young for everything" and Im not the youngest so Im "too old for everything" and I am expected of too much. They act like I cant have problems
That is true
I understand because I am the middle child
Being a mom for the younger sibling and not even being noticed for anything you do hits hard...
I have to act like my mother for my older brother and I get left out all the time, but idk man maybe that's js my family
Frfr...
@@angelinacammarano4361FRR
I’m the middle child myself. After going through all this I’ve dusted my hands with my entire family. Even though I’m no contact I’m still the center of blame. Do yourself a big favor, protect your peace. #middlechildrenunite.
Fellow middle child here. Not telling you what what to do, but everyone deserves a second chance. If you have a chance to be the bigger person, you should definitely take it. I hope your relationship with your family heals.
#middlechildrenunite
As 1 myself like I can understand I'm too tired for this
@@_shadownotes_ thank you for your kind words. But in my opinion, when you’ve given out so many chances your trust begins to decline. Not everyone is deserving of your kindness or time.
This brings back memories as a middle child I was blamed for everything someone else didn’t want to own up to or did but my parents didn’t care. when I was sad and I said it was about them or issues I had, they’d call me weak or bratty and make me seems small and worthless.I was emotionally abused and when I brought it to light they wouldn’t believe me since my mother was sweet and no one know my dad.
Same!
It broke my heart to hear my younger sibling tell me they see me more as a mother than our own mom..
As a middle child I can confirm this is true and we usually sometimes get treated differently than our other siblings
“Always in the shadow of the oldest”
*literally sings to my life 😔😫*
As the oldest it’s not like we have a choice with the shadow thing- I have feel bad for my five siblings because I have done every sport under the sun and excelled in school. BUT as the oldest out expectations are really high, so it’s not really our choice to create the shadow. Anyway, have a nice day/night. Btw this was not set to be rude or anything, just factual.
@@ameliadebilzeneverything u said it true
@@Goofy_122yeah
YES
Fr 😭
Just thanking you melissa, you have touched me and many other people, thanks for spreading awareness, I hope some parents find this and start changing these!
YOU ARE AMAZING!!!
As a middle child, I can confirm this is true. Especially the no mistakes and does oldest kid responsibilities. Also, the blamed and misunderstood is REALLY on point.
Ikr😢😢😢
Ikr 😭😭 I hat go through this
Yaaa Exactly...As a middle child I can relate this Fact.🥺
I know, I literally get blamed for everything
My mom she makes all of my siblings do this and I love her she loves her children equally I will never leave her nor forget her I love her love you mama
Described my life right there
Same but I'm the only girl looking after little bro whilst older one is with friends 😢
You feel this deeply when u realise that *"u can relate"*
I’m the middle child and this is exactly how I feel this is amazing and definitely going to send this to people
as a middle child I can confirm its true, even when u do something for your other family member, they never notice you did it and thank the other sibling. And they don't even notice that you did it for them. Children needs a better parent/s if this is what their parent/s do and not all parents deserve a child.
@LibsyW oh- ok
Im very sorry’ but fortunately as someone with two brothers one being the middle I can confirm it’s not always true
@@GooseGirl1037 Do not worry, not everyone has the same backstory or childhood, but if that it is how your family works, that is completely fine
@@Ryoku_Darling yes’ I wish you well
@@GooseGirl1037 ty, you too
I relate to the “make a mistake and it’s the baddest thing” I can’t make a mistake like dropping something without being scolded by everyone there. It’s not just my parents it’s everyone and I am sick of it. I also have to follow into all of my older cousins/siblings footsteps. If they all do good now I have to do more and more to be equal and seem smart like them
I cried during this it is really true all that trauma is built in and most middle childs are too scared to share their emotions because they think that they're not good enough. It shows the weakness personally.
You explained me 😢
Same its hard for us i almost cryed
Yeah I know how it feels...
@WolfiedoeseverythingI am sorry you had to go through what you have
@@Katherine-st8dbit dose get better I talked to them do the same it feels good
This is the most relatable thing I've seen, especially getting to not make a simple mistake just because my older sibling has made a similar mistake I'm not allowed to make that mistake because "I should learn from there mistakes" 😢
Coming from a middle child I felt that on a personal level. The loneliness is something u never get over.
as a oldest child i have same thing
I am the youngest and I get treated like this. My sisters gang up and blame me for everything and I get I. Trouble. If they make me cry or anything the will say I did it first and I have to do thier chores and if I tell my mum my sisters deny it and I get shouted at.
@@Sapphire.TWD. thats litteraly every sibling ever 0_0
@@joshuajohn74 👍
@@Sapphire.TWD. idk that sucks
This is exactly how I feel. No one really understands me. But my mom really does understands me. She says she appreciates everything I do for everyone. This is the perfect example of the middle child
As a middle child I can't explain how relatable this is.
Same
Not the same to me
Agreable
As a middle child, I find this very relatable. I am always the one who is the most responsible yet I get called “lazy” and they don’t even care about me at all. I am sorry for whoever goes through the same thing as me and just know that I love you all. ❤
Thank you so much for making this. It makes me so happy that other middle children go through this. ❤
Yesss im one too and I do tell my parents but they ignore me and say im just making this up and im the only middle child who thinks like this
As the oldest of all 4 of my siblings, I try my hardest to treat them the best I possibly can. The 2 middles, they are so fun to be around, and if my parents don’t pay attention to them I do. The youngest kids, me and my other siblings help take care of them equally. I’m sorry for every middle child that has had to go through this.
@@venti526 I’m sorry! I hope that they try to take care of you as you do them
You are such an amazing sibling. I have always lived in the shadow of my older sister and they always can never do a thing wrong and everything I do is horrible. My sisters like to see me in trouble because that means my mom is happier with them😢 I related to video so much it made me cry
@@Heyhey-i6s I’m so sorry! I try to own up to my mistakes and problems, because when it’s not my siblings fault they don’t deserve the punishment. I hope it gets better
Thank u so much for saying that
I wish u we’re my older sibling
@@jodiehutchins8737 Haha, of course. I hate that other middle children had to go through this. If I could I would take all middle children and make them my siblings 💕
as the oldest, I think the middle child needs to be more appreciated, they work they're hardest and no one notices... I believe everyone needs equal love and affection from the guardians....I still love you lil sis (middle child in my family)
and for all middle children out there...I wish you well and remember you are special ❤️
As the youngest I’m the only good one my other two brothers are so annoying
@@Briansmith-ol2es same with me, my younger siblings fight but I still love em
I'm the middle child AND WE DEFINITELY DO NOT WORK THE HARDEST that's for sure you're not a middle child so how would you even know
@@preppy_gurl_13 I'm a middle child, that is NOT TRUE. Every family is different, you should know that.
@@preppy_gurl_13 in my family I work the hardest, and in others the oldest or youngest do. All families are different.
Thanks for the middle child edition it just gives us a little confidence that we are not forgotten
this video truly touches me and its completely relatable . I technically am a middle child and the oldest at the same time. I am the second oldest but two of my siblings unfortunately passed . thank you for spreading awareness to everyone
I relate to this like you’ve known me forever. I wish to everyone else like this that we can get through it
THANK YOU. everyone always ignores issues of middle children. Thank you for making this, it’s made me feel so seen ❤❤❤❤❤
This touched me so much 😊❤
Im not the middle child but as someone who saw her sister go through this, this made me cry
Same I am the oldest and I have a middle sis i feel so bad for her
I’m a middle child I really wish my sister was like y’all no one understands me 💔
@@Emmmysxxlol Hang in there girl( or whateveryour gender is :] )! You'll see, in a few yrs she'll start to understand what you went through :] took me a tragedy to be able to get close to my sister, I used to think she hated me so I tried to stay away. Even if she doesn't im sure you've got many friends that can help you manage ! And if not then I wouldn't mind being one of those friends :D
@@Lewa-o5uSame. No matter how bad my little bro treats her. They blame EVERYTHING on my middle sis
@@zIo_zIo1 Thank you ❤️ you’re so sweet 💗💘
As the youngest child, I think the middle child needs more attention, and needs to be treated more well. If you are a middle child reading this, remember that you're amazing.
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Btw thank you so much this made my day I’m the middle child. :)
@@EsmeandTabsDI'm the youngest
Same
Thank you so much
Thank u
I'm a middle child and this hits hard especially the "You're so mature for your age" like I didn't want to be😭
I thought it was just me , it’s sad to know other people can relate 😢 stay strong and never give up take advantage and use it to get stronger form it love y’all and take care ❤❤😊 I also try to remind myself of it most of the time as the middle child I never really thought about bring a middle child until now
Finally someone who understands, thank you for thus and all you do❤
Any other middles who cry when seeing themselves being described in a YT Short?😢
I almost did cry😅
I am crying :)
Here.
I am literally crying rn 😢
.....yes......
When you’re the middle child and also the eldest daughter 😭
Oml same😭
Same
Same here
same
How? By both you you mean you on have one younger sibling? Because then you are the oldest not the middle
I'm the oldest, but every stereotype about kids I'm the middle. I've never been good at anything; sports, art, games, you name it and I've failed. So I am always living in the shadow of my sisters; one is good at sports and the other can do art really well. Any time I try and do something new my sisters have already done it, or if they do it they will get more praise. School is basically the only thing I'm good at, but even my sisters seem to get more praise out of it. I'm expected to always get 100%, if my sisters get that it's a great job, I'm so proud of you (and yes they almost always get A's to so basically the same grades). In my school they have this thing called cluster where basically you are a year ahead. I got put into it for math, without even needing to be tested or anything. I needed so much help because I went from never thinking negative numbers existed to you need to add, subtract, multiply and divide them because you already know this. I never got help and if I did bad it was a why didn't you do good enough. My sister had to take a test and barely passed after studying for weeks and she needs help now (after skipping 7th grade). Everyone wants to help her and tells her how proud they are, it feels almost as if they forgot what I'm doing. I'm in 2 honors classes, a year ahead in math, learning a language, learning to code and more and they ask me why I have to spend so long on studying and I'm stupid for not understanding things. I once wanted to try art, but when I brought it up to my sisters and family they just laughed because I can't do art (I laughed with them and played it off as a joke). But as the oldest I do have to take care of my younger sisters, they tell me everything and I have to live with that, I have to solve their problems and I have to skip my homework to help them with theirs, anything and everything they want I give to them. It's expected now, it isn't oh thank you for doing it, it's a I hate you for not helping me. Everything just hurts me so bad, and at school I'm all alone. I lost my best friend in 6th grade (we just grew apart and I don't even know her anymore because everything has changed), and I've never been able to make friends after elementary school. Every friend I made I lost because they would move away. And after 8 years of that happening you lose hope, so I stopped. I have one "friend" not fake or anything but just she has better friends. It feels almost as if I'm just there. At lunch I just sit there and listen, they never talk to me. After almost 4 years of never trying to make friends it isn't something that I can just do, my one friend she talked to me first, that's all. I haven't made a friend since 3rd grade and I'm in high school now. I hurt so so bad, but I don't tell anyone because I'm a side character, not someone you pay attention to or want to learn about. Everything in here, no one even knows about because no one asks. I was talking to this guardian person for my parents custody battel, and after like 10 minutes of talking she told me that I should go talk to a counselor but honestly I don't want to, because I'll miss class and then I'll have more homework, and if he call's me in a class where I know someone then they'll ask. And what should I tell them. What do you even talk to a counselor about? Do you just walk in and say life sucks? Cause honestly I like the boxes I put things in and store them away, and later at night or when I'm alone I open all of them and look at them, put them back up and forget about them till next time. But lately the boxes have started to fall off the shelf and open up without me knowing. But I'll be fine, because I always have been and always will be. Let's just hope I'm never left alone with a drink or scissors and my thoughts. LOL I don't mean that because I know I would never be able to stop.
You have been reading my mind!
I'm a middle child this all happens. I forgot if this was put in but I get compared to my other siblings and no matter what my mum/dad tells me there are favourites and it isn't me. My big brother is favourite with my dad's side. My little brother is favourite for my mum's family.
It's not always brutal and there are loving moments (BC they obviously still care) but these all happen at least once.
My entire life. Right here. In less than a minute. Oh my god. Thank you for letting us feel seen.❤
Us middle children needed this
Edit: guys I didn't write this comment trying to say only middle children have it hard
You can have it hard as the oldest child or as the youngest or as the muddle child and even as an only child
Giggles bc i’m the only child and my dad is rich pooron hahahaha
I understand you but it's not always the middle child I am the youngest but I'm always forgotten bc my parents never wanted 3 children so the middle child is the favorite she always gets what she wants or else she's going to scream and she is 18 my oldest sister moved out she's 20 and I'm 12 they let me do everything like I'm a maid
@@irisvaessen9414I feel so sorry for you
@@irisvaessen9414 im so sorry hope it gets better over there
we did need this :( I hope this spreads awareness of what our family makes us go through :(
I am the middle child, and I don’t know if you’ll even see this, but this truly spoke to me. When I was younger I was pretty aggressive and had anger issues, so now whenever I get mad I am treated as a risk or a hazard and it is so hard to make people understand that I was only 6. I constantly feel misunderstood and left out of a lot of things. If I had something, all my siblings had to have it too.
My family love us all the same, we all have chores, we all have the same treatment. I am so sorry to all the middle child’s who gets punished and forgotten , god bless you ❤
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Same but my mom is disabled on one arm and one leg😢
This is an explanation of my life, theses videos are so relatable ❤
Yeah!
I really wanna thank you as a person who is in teenage and is in depression i always tend to hide my feelings i always think i have to survive so that my beloved baby brother don't go through same I'm literally crying and yeah no one saw it so yeah lol
I was blessed with a family that neglects us all equally.
This is so true today I broke down crying cause my bestie compared me to someone saying they are better I already had enough at home…
I’m sorry but she ain’t your bestie saying things like that. Love is there for you, FUCK THOSE WHO HAVE NONE
I'm sorry but I fell the same way...😔
She truly doesn't deserve you. Stay strong and keep fighting, it will only be a certain amount of time till you can leave your trauma behind. ❤
Omg this literally made me cry. Someone finally understands the pain we go through and it just makes me so happy. Like world doesn't revolve around all the other siblings.❤❤
Ok I’m sorry for you but not everyone goes through that actual loving parents treat all their children the same way
@@MiriamParker-c6n yeah, but most parents are like this.
@@DontExpectAReplyFromMenot most actually some.
@@Petsimxgabby40504 most* almost every parent in my home country (And other countries too). Are like this. Tbh I've never really seen a child get raised a different way. 🤷♀️
(No need to worry about my kids, I won't do the same thing if I ever get any).
@@DontExpectAReplyFromMe I typed most right?
Thank you so much for these videos ❤ they spread so much awareness.
As a middle child .....
I find this very true and accurate 😢
I'm thirteen this is my life I never feel good enough 😢
@@l7rya223 I'm with u don't worry
relatable! nobody seems to care when it involves us but when it involves them we're expected to devote our day to it!
bro I'm the middle child and everyone treats me the same as others what do you mean
@@vannahhannahnot everyone has the same life as you.
@@s4turnf0r3ver I wasn't talking to you?
@@vannahhannahit really doesn’t matter I’m trying to point out my point. Not everyone has a life like yours. You said “bro I’m the middle child and everyone treats me the same” that’s why I said not everyone has a life like YOURS. You don’t need to point out your life.
@@s4turnf0r3ver and you don't need to point out your opinion
She just described my life…
Edit: btw the one of never enough is very true. I have number 1 grades always from both my sister. I don’t get anything. They get ice cream and get to go out but I can never get anything out of accomplishing big stuff. I only get a “good job” and that’s it. My sisters get prizes and stuff.
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This is exactly like me.....except I'm just never good enough for my parents....
@@SakinoAo666 ikr? like they just don't understand their always like: "why do you have a b? oh this teachers not that bad [THAT TEACHER MAKES US RIGHT A 2-PAGE ESSAY EVERY 2 DAYS ] like parents just don't understand
@@_s1mpL Agreed....except I'm homeschooled so I don't get out much....and I keep telling my parents I miss the socializing and I miss my friends but they're like oh Idc and stuff like that....
I'm the middle child and am actually so happy for my own life, although I'm literally the most-behaved kid, I do feel lonely a LOT. I'm sorry for anyone that has to go through this, sending prayers🙏❤
I’m a middle child, I can’t believe how accurate this is, you really helped me understand that I’m not alone
I have a biological little brother and an adopted older sister. This describes me so well, having to be the perfect older sister and younger sister so I can put an example for my younger brother.
As a middle child. this touched me so deep. You have no idea
Giggles bc i’m the only child and my dad is rich pooron hahahaha
@@lalalalalaallalaalalbros really giggling in the comment section 💀
Girl be quiet not u @saima4326 but the other girl in this reply. U don’t know what we suffer through
@@lalalalalaallalaalal i honestly have no words for you💀
@@lalalalalaallalaalalyou are the reason why abortions need to be brought back
This touched me so much being a middle Thai just made my day
Thank you for making this video and the others on siblings/children People don't get whats going on with children. Middle child gets ignored, oldest takes all the responsibility and takes care of younger siblings, and youngest feels misunderstood but will never say so as they are a people pleaser.
It's not an act of love if you make us! YOU MAKE US DO, TO MUCH LABOR!!
There’s only one thing to say abt middle child. No matter what we do, we’re never good enough…
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Same
This is true
So true honestly
Honestly bro last week I cleaned my room it’s still clean my parents over here like your room is so dirty clean it again- it’s honestly rly mean
Im a middle child, people call me therapist due to the fact im willing to listen. Dw im here for yall💞
Ik this was long ago but my brother did bad things to me he sat on my back so I couldn’t breath, and when I used to play Minecraft and asked him to play he would say “later” then the next day I would ask him again and he said “later” then one year later I asked him “when will you play Minecraft with me” and he didn’t answer.
I never got to play Minecraft with him again :(
@@algbrailenbfdi_fanI’ll play minecraft with you.
@@algbrailenbfdi_fan that was my story when I was 8-9, I asked him to hang out with me EVERYDAY and he said "tomorrow" "at night" "later" "NOT NOW!" And then he'd just tell my mom and I'd get yelled at because I bothered him. My mom still wonders why we aren't close anymore…
Im youngest and this describes me well. I only have one sibling so in cases like mine, the youngest is treated like the middle child
Same
Same
Same
ikr! my sister made me do everything and i am the one to help my mom and dad meanwhile my sister watching some videos on yt
I have to help my brother in every thing and my parents 😭
Nahh, my brother, the middle child, chills with video games every day. He's just another sibling. Doesn't do ANY work, nor takes the blame that often. Just in between the responsible oldest sibling and me, the youngest.
That’s my younger brother
I’m a middle child so this really touches me because my other siblings are bad and don’t get punished yet I do the slightest thing wrong and get in trouble
Bro just explained my life in a few seconds 😔
Finally I feel like someone actually knows what's its like to be the middle child
Finally someone who understand and if we get mad over something they think we are overreacting….
I am so glad I have loving parents, I am the middle child and they treat me and my siblings equally. I love them.
same
so lucky
Lucky😒😒😒
Lucky my mom hates me
I was waiting for someone to say this my parents treat all my siblings equal and they pay alot of attention to each and everyone one of us 😊 and it’s just disgusting to treat your child differently to your other children just because they are a middle child
This is me. Finally someone represents the middle like they truly are.
Exactly it's always "Brainless, chill, never does any work, trouble maker"
@@ButImNotGonnaTalkAboutThat trouble maker part is true
@@joshuajohn74 yeah It is
I’m the middle and I rlly feel this, this touched me in so many different ways and I hope this shows everyone that are not the middle child how hard being the middle child is, I always get punished for no reason but my siblings never get punished, if my younger sibling does something bad then my mom will take my phone away and she will say your older you should know better and I’m like but he did it first or he hurt me but she doesn’t care, or my and my older sibling will get into a fight and my mom will say I talk to much or something, it’s very stressful being the middle and I hop everyone knows that, I cry a lot about nothing being fair
And then they say “you rely should be a role model to your younger sibling” LIKE IF MY DAMN OLDER SIBLING WAS A ROLE MODEL TO ME
@@JuliGag FR
As a youngest daughter I always get the “Your so mature for your age”… I still feel bad for the other sibling figures.
my family is the opposite. youngest and oldest are treated the worst, my middle brother is treated the best. i’m sorry for all of you guys who have to go through this. you deserve love no matter who it’s from.❤️
edit: all of you that are saying you go through the same stuff i’m so sorry. i love all of you, and thank you for all the support and love!! and agreeing with me. :) know that i love u all!’
Thank you I’m always miss understood
I'm the youngest and my older brother is probably the fav child
@@williammansell7482 ofc!!
@EverydayGabz fr.
@@s0me0ne248 i’m sorry! just know that you are just as important!!
Why is this literally me? This made me wanna cry.
Same cuz like I will be right in front of you and you'll never know only when you want something
i’m the middle child and i’m like the fav
This is so relatable they make the middle child do everything
I relate to this so much and it hurts me to be treated like this as I have other siblings and it’s hard always being treated like this.
Talk to someone trusted about that it will make you feel a lot better than complaining on the internet
Honestly I think that no matter how many siblings you have there will always be a downside. Its just how it is…
edit : middle childs.. your so perfect.
No one’s perfect, someone is gonna be forgotten by someone in this cruel would. Unless you were born in a nice family and great friends ur gonna be forgotten somehow which is what I hate. I get you, I’m the oldest on my mums side but I have 3 have-siblings on my dads and on my mums side, I’m mostly in the shadows on my younger sis. She’s 5, 5 YEARS OLD. and then my mum feels so attacked 24/7
Im the middle child and I'm not forgotten either, for my siblings the more social we are the older we are basically, my older sister is the most socialable, I'm socialable half of the time and my little sister isn't that socialable accept for online, oh and it is my big sis that usually gets blamed for stuff but it doesn't happen often and yea we all get along pretty well despite not talking to eachother all that often
This is relatable, for the OLDEST. I am the oldest and it's like anyone younger is the baby.
The thing is, it’s not about which sibling you are it’s the parents that raise you you don’t get treated like that for being the middle or the oldest or the youngest it’s how your parents treat you😢
Exactly.I am oldest and I always feel like I have so much responsibilities
I wish having to do a lot of chores was my worst problem.
This is a reminder to be grateful for your parents because you may think they ask you to do a lot but at least they’re still a part of your life.
This is exactly me! I can’t explain how much I can relate to videos like this!! 😢😭😭😤
The fact of how accurate this is is absolutely insane to me. I can’t even begin to explain how these things affect me 😢
This relates so much. I tell people this is what I have to do in my family but they always act like I'm lying. It's nice to know that somebody understands us!
EDIT: I MEAN THIS FOR ANY CHILD THATS HURTING NOT JUST MIDDLE CHILDREN!
@@Peacuuuwow… way to rub it in their face
@@Peacuuu oh um.. that's nice
@@jayscor08 ugh can't even share my happiness anywhere if you don't know what PPL are going through don't comment
@@Peacuuunah dont delete it, what did u say?
@@jordyn_mt sorry for late response I said "I am the middle child but they love me ❤️" after that I even wrote " I am sorry"
I’m the oldest child, and I will always love my siblings and family more than anything. They. Come.First. ❤
I’m the youngest of my family, I love my siblings and family so much too! You’re so sweet! ⭐️
I wish my older sister was like that she constantly bullies me and if I don't do what she wants she will hit me and since we share a room I'm not even allowed to be in it
@@dedadeda_ aww god bless you 💓😭
@@dedadeda_I’m so sorry 🥺 I wish we were sisters
@@Thosetwobraceletgirlies ye honestly wish they were better
I know how this feels 😢❤
OMGGGGGGG THIS IS THE MOST RELATABLE THING I'VE SEEEEN IM CRYINGGGGGGGGG
This was actually kind of me as the oldest. Middle was favorite to the point that it was obvious to family we didn't see regularly. I also suffered emotional and verbal abuse. I was compared to my sister in just about everything except school which I was good at. I mentally matured by 6th grade. When I started to emotionally mature in high school I was punished for not feeling the way my mom expected/wanted me to feel. I also think I freaked her out a little because I tended to be very quiet before that.
#IcanRelate
Me too, except I’m the youngest and my older siblings are either in uni or starting. I’m still just in high school and I’ve started stressing over everything. I think its just me though 😅
@@trafferthfach7798 If you can move out no matter what when you graduate. It will get better if you can put and keep distance between them. Low contact for a while could be helpful in the relationship but it may not. My mom has chilled some, especially after she became sober.
@@WyvernJelly thanks, this has really helped. I’m trying to chill a bit and my friends are supportive. I’ll keep trying my best but won’t care so much over failure
No matter what i do I’m never good enough, I have to hide my feelings so I can set a good example for my younger siblings, I am forced to do everything and always blamed for things, and the rules that apply to me don’t apply to my siblings.
I know most of you feel this on a personal level, I want you to know that I love all of you and have felt your pain ❤
I am a middle child of an 11 year old brother and a 23 year old brother, and you have no idea how much this represents my life and I am so thankful to know how other people know. Btw new sub cause you are a very good creator!
This video means a lot to me. My brother, who is ten years older. Moved out as soon as he graduated high school, didn’t look back. I then had to carry all the slack.
That’s what you are supposed to do really, you can’t get mad at that. You are the oldest once he left, meaning you have to do more work now. I don’t understand what people don’t get about that.
@@K_JRobloxshe/he said ten years OLDER
@@cloudyyxchar I know that, since they left, this person has to pick up the slack, their little sibling can’t do it. That’s what’s gonna happen. No matter the age, they will have to pick up the slack once the oldest sibling leaves. God damn this generation is stupid.
@@K_JRobloxI agree. As the eldest sibling, once I move out it will be the middle child’s duty. I gave my whole childhood for him and my baby sister so once I’m out- I’m done. He will understand what I went through and it’s a sad but true reality. Children shouldn’t have to raise their siblings but that’s how it is.
@@tsavage998 Very much so sadly, I am the oldest child too, so I will make sure everything is ok by the time I move out.
i felt this on such a deep level😭😭
Same
Bro, l'm an oldest with one sibling and this relates to me so much. l'm always getting compared to my friends and l'm practically invisible....Half of the time not even my friends notice me
Oh I'm so sorry I fell the same way tho
Same bro same damn it hurts so bad that I just don't feel anything anymore whenever they do this 😂😂
Damm.....We gon be fucked 🤣
I’m a middle child, the eldest daughter, and I feel so connected with just a video. It’s mine and my brothers job to make sure out two younger siblings are safe, show them what’s wrong, and sometimes, my other siblings trauma gets noticed before mine. I try not to cry so my stressed mom doesn’t worry. But in my room, I sometimes just break down in tears.
I love how you actually understand the pain of the middle child and you don’t do those shorts where it’s like all the siblings and the parents and the middle child is invisible. Thank you we need more people in this world to understand this.😊
I am so glad that i know that there are people who get pushed over by their parents to do stuff for them!! and i can never make a mistake. i feel like an outcast in my family
Made me want to cry. Thank you for bringing attention to what I go through :(
these videos are proof that it doesn’t matter if you born before or after the rest of you siblings it’s the parents.
She just explained my whole life
All the youngest children out there. Don't listen when people call you the favorite. You are probably being treated the same way. True loving parents love their children equally.