Kyle....your comediec way of explaining how people allow themselves to stay stuck in human suffering, and how they can change that if they chose to, is simply amazing. With every year - there will be a new teacher, with every channel, we will hear a different interpretation. There are A LOT of people getting IT from the way you share IT! I read some of the comments below - both neg and positive - for some people you may not be the right channel and it's not their time - but I just booked my ticket and I am looking forward to seeing you in May, my friend. Keep GOING!
please can you explain the process of "loving" a negative thought.. I don't know if I know how to feel love, especially when in pain and depressed. I could say the words, but that isn't the way..
Yeah, I do that.. but the thoughts are not as bad as the actual physical feeling of the mood.. but I try to have equanimity with that too. I would not call it 'love' tho
Imagine an awful little kid.. a tantrum throwing two year old, a moody preteen. Inherently unpleasant/negative? Yep. But especially if that terrible kid is yours, you still love them (I hope.. haha.) Anyway, when my terrible two year old is throwing a tantrum because I put his juice in the wrong color cup, I don't shove him out of the room and ignore him.. that's no solution. Besides that, he'd only get louder. Instead, I show compassion because I know he's probably tired and and he's physiologically incapable of clearly expressing his exact feelings. So I empathize and snuggle him and put him to bed. I love him. It's the same with unwanted thoughts. I discovered a great guided meditation by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar callled "transforming emotions" (It's super short, 15 mins, and well worth checking out.) At the time I found it, I was in the first week or so clean after a number of years as an addict. For me, the thoughts I was fighting werre the intense cravings to use. The harder I fought, the stronger they'd get, until all consuming and would usually lead to my relapse. But by loving these thoughts, crazy as it sounded, I was able to let them go much easier.. Or, I should say, they left on their own accord. When I started getting that intense urge to use, instead of thinking "oh no! shit... i don't want to mess up but... ahhhh!! i can't fight it..." I would remind myself "I'm having a craving. It's totally okay and to be expected. It doesn;t mean I'm about to fail, it's part of the process of staying sober." Feeling loving towards myself and the thought like they were little kids. And it worked amazingly. Anyway, sorry for the novel in response. Hope that helped some!
Oh wow I LOVE going back to your older videos, this pertains to TODAY especially when you talk about the news on TV. You inspire me and help me stay on the positive path in a crazy world that I could paint a scary monster picture about, and sometimes do, but less and less every day, because I listen to less and less fear porn, but more and more uplifting talks like this, THEN meditate. I always run into the right info at the right time with you, synchronicity keeps my faith in who I am strong.
So good, brother Kyle. Just yesterday I did a solitary medicine ceremony and connected to that little 5 yr old, abandoned, abused and traumatized little boy that acts out, people pleases and just needs ME (higher self adult) to see/love him and join me in the present moment. Your guidance delivered in a comical and clear way is changing lives. Be encouraged - you are loved, brother.
Kyle, I listen to you every single day. I can’t thank you enough for helping me evolve. I am not completely there yet but I know a shift is coming. That alone keeps me going even on the worst days. I have many spiritual teachers here in TH-cam. But there’s something about your honest, comedic delivery that I can really relate to! ❤️
great transformational stuff brother! I was at this event and can truly say it was and continues to be transformational for me. worth every penny and so much more. looking forward to working with you and help save the world! :)
We as a human collective have gone so far from learning by feeling ( intuition) and experience. Modern science is STILL running around in circles trying to explain (possibly to make money off of, idk) disease that ancient "primitive" people never even experienced because they listened to their bodies and remembered how foods and herbs affected them. Intuition is a lovely thing that I'm glad people are beginning to talk seriously about.
K Y L E !!! Thank you for all that you gave us leading into 2020. That year was perfect vision and you were a massive catalyst for many who were ready for that shift! Then the creation went wild!
"What would of happend if a 1,000 Martin Luther King's showed up at the same time" I stumbled on this guy about a year ago. I subscribed to his youtube and check back once in a while to reset. Thank you Co Leader. ;)
Watched you for a while. Some great content thank you. My only issue has always been philosophy is based an the presumption humans are special or privileged we are not never have been. Philosophers that realize this truth are rare and most valuable to us all. This perspective makes true human beings humble and aware good stewards unlike an animal. What are you?
the body doesn't die it recycles.. becomes grass feeding some animal...that gets eaten death of a story in my case my story is title my givin name, that dies,,,doe s it....was the story just a illusion, existing in a another deception called past...which is horribly inaccurate mainly cause it's geared to individual s favor and is very incomplete,
Everything is brown from tshirt to suit to hall to curtain,table cloth,piano,your hair...N my heart is now more white n ✨ after seeing this n after meditation.
Hey Kyle - this is a happy surprise. A facebook friend (who I've never met) shared this video. I recognized your name. About 10 years ago you took the stage at Daniel Webster College when I was a freshman in college. I think I even bought one of your CDs that night. I don't think I've thought about you since. (being overly honest there) This video however, came on a perfect day at a perfect time for me. Thank you for this. We've both come far, buddy! (if you can call someone you've thought about twice in 10 years buddy!)
I am sitting here, wanting so badly to listen to what you are saying, but the ad that just came up calling me a cheap ass if I don't buy tickets to your next event, kind of ruined the vibe. I've stayed with ya here, and I think you are my soul mate, lol but the ad came up AGAIN... WTF?????? I am watching this great ' how to love yourself' inspirational video, while having to see the words.. ' you cheap ass' through out the entire video. Now THAT's funny. ;)
Wow! Thank you for snapping me out of victim mode and back into reality! I needed that! You remind me of a modern day Wayne Dyer only with the bonus of also being hilarious.
kyle, I know this will seem shallow. This is not a criticism merely an observation, Buy some new jeans these look like your garage cleaning jeans Your jacket and sweater are spot on. The jeans are out of balance Hugs
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly.”
Jealous and insecure much?? Perhaps you have a lot of inner "stuff" that you fear will come out if you accept that what you have been doing?? Is not working any longer Don't knock something till you've tried it..
Kyle....your comediec way of explaining how people allow themselves to stay stuck in human suffering, and how they can change that if they chose to, is simply amazing. With every year - there will be a new teacher, with every channel, we will hear a different interpretation. There are A LOT of people getting IT from the way you share IT! I read some of the comments below - both neg and positive - for some people you may not be the right channel and it's not their time - but I just booked my ticket and I am looking forward to seeing you in May, my friend. Keep GOING!
This guy is funny and very wise. I can't believe he's not at a million subscribers yet... 🙌👏
Watching and listening to you is a meditation in itself... you are changing my life for the better. THANK YOU
So powerful. Need to see him in May.
"The more you can accept your darkness, the more light you're gonna shine."
Thank you so much for sharing and caring and loving"0ne"🙏
We are Loved❤️
Thank you so much for that!
what an amazing discussion ive learned so much from this
Thank you, Kyle. Keep shining your love and light.
This is beautiful. I woke up three hours ago but NOW I'm up!
OMG I needed to hear this right now. It make so much sense. Thank you Kyle for being you.
One of your best shares...like, ever. Thank you Kyle
WoW- that was AMAZING- i've listened to this talk several times- you are such an inspiration Kyle, thank you for that gift I am a VISIONARY!! xOx LIz
i Rellay see a positive insight from listening to this video ; Amazingly empowering & insightful
Yeah Kyle, thanx for developing out loud😉
Awsome! I love it! Thank you!
*What does a painful thought mean- you're gonna connect to yourself even more than you did yesterday*
I know how they feel at n it now
Not to me so much hate
No
you ROCK Mr.
I LOVE YOU KYLE!!! 😻😍😻❤️💡🙏🏻👽🤠
Really good!
Thank you. I love you.
Oh man. 10:17 -- just got chills -- all over!!!
Awesome advice thanks💚👍😀
WOAH, "expectations are broken".. 😲
Love it !
this is good stuff.
Is it possible to share the same personality with Kyle ? I think maybe 🧚🏻♀️
I love you Kyle!
" the person that stares WAY too long" 🤣
I can't get enough RN
Love!
All improv I do get it!
please can you explain the process of "loving" a negative thought.. I don't know if I know how to feel love, especially when in pain and depressed. I could say the words, but that isn't the way..
Yeah, I do that.. but the thoughts are not as bad as the actual physical feeling of the mood.. but I try to have equanimity with that too. I would not call it 'love' tho
equanimity :)
Imagine an awful little kid.. a tantrum throwing two year old, a moody preteen. Inherently unpleasant/negative? Yep. But especially if that terrible kid is yours, you still love them (I hope.. haha.) Anyway, when my terrible two year old is throwing a tantrum because I put his juice in the wrong color cup, I don't shove him out of the room and ignore him.. that's no solution. Besides that, he'd only get louder. Instead, I show compassion because I know he's probably tired and and he's physiologically incapable of clearly expressing his exact feelings. So I empathize and snuggle him and put him to bed. I love him.
It's the same with unwanted thoughts. I discovered a great guided meditation by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar callled "transforming emotions" (It's super short, 15 mins, and well worth checking out.) At the time I found it, I was in the first week or so clean after a number of years as an addict. For me, the thoughts I was fighting werre the intense cravings to use. The harder I fought, the stronger they'd get, until all consuming and would usually lead to my relapse. But by loving these thoughts, crazy as it sounded, I was able to let them go much easier.. Or, I should say, they left on their own accord. When I started getting that intense urge to use, instead of thinking "oh no! shit... i don't want to mess up but... ahhhh!! i can't fight it..." I would remind myself "I'm having a craving. It's totally okay and to be expected. It doesn;t mean I'm about to fail, it's part of the process of staying sober." Feeling loving towards myself and the thought like they were little kids. And it worked amazingly.
Anyway, sorry for the novel in response. Hope that helped some!
I really like him
I love you so much.
OMG.Kyle.
it's true!
Uhhh YES.
Damn he's more like a motivational speaker thats really funny.
" i want to break up but we are supposed to go camping.. " 😁😲
grandman
5 minutes in and he hasn't said a damned thing other than pretending he's saying something.
7:20
Sure, you might not be a cult. But you're for sure a cult of personality.
Lord Haberdasher take a listen. He has great points.
Kyle, why are you speaking with your hands in your pockets? & "Cheap Ass" is a turn off...
Oh wow I LOVE going back to your older videos, this pertains to TODAY especially when you talk about the news on TV.
You inspire me and help me stay on the positive path in a crazy world that I could paint a scary monster picture about, and sometimes do, but less and less every day, because I listen to less and less fear porn, but more and more uplifting talks like this, THEN meditate. I always run into the right info at the right time with you, synchronicity keeps my faith in who I am strong.
So good, brother Kyle. Just yesterday I did a solitary medicine ceremony and connected to that little 5 yr old, abandoned, abused and traumatized little boy that acts out, people pleases and just needs ME (higher self adult) to see/love him and join me in the present moment. Your guidance delivered in a comical and clear way is changing lives. Be encouraged - you are loved, brother.
Kyle, I listen to you every single day. I can’t thank you enough for helping me evolve. I am not completely there yet but I know a shift is coming. That alone keeps me going even on the worst days. I have many spiritual teachers here in TH-cam. But there’s something about your honest, comedic delivery that I can really relate to!
❤️
10:16 We keep on chasing people that make us feel bad so we keep on chasing them. That's insane!
I looooooovvvveeee you!!!! 💕💕💕💕
great transformational stuff brother! I was at this event and can truly say it was and continues to be transformational for me. worth every penny and so much more. looking forward to working with you and help save the world! :)
We as a human collective have gone so far from learning by feeling ( intuition) and experience. Modern science is STILL running around in circles trying to explain (possibly to make money off of, idk) disease that ancient "primitive" people never even experienced because they listened to their bodies and remembered how foods and herbs affected them. Intuition is a lovely thing that I'm glad people are beginning to talk seriously about.
Brilliant!!!
K Y L E !!! Thank you for all that you gave us leading into 2020. That year was perfect vision and you were a massive catalyst for many who were ready for that shift! Then the creation went wild!
"What would of happend if a 1,000 Martin Luther King's showed up at the same time" I stumbled on this guy about a year ago. I subscribed to his youtube and check back once in a while to reset. Thank you Co Leader. ;)
Watched you for a while. Some great content thank you. My only issue has always been philosophy is based an the presumption humans are special or privileged we are not never have been. Philosophers that realize this truth are rare and most valuable to us all. This perspective makes true human beings humble and aware good stewards unlike an animal. What are you?
If plants die we die. If phytoplankton dies we die. If we die... nothing the world goes on.
the body doesn't die it recycles.. becomes grass feeding some animal...that gets eaten death of a story in my case my story is title my givin name, that dies,,,doe s it....was the story just a illusion, existing in a another deception called past...which is horribly inaccurate mainly cause it's geared to individual s favor
and is very incomplete,
*find opportunity in the lack rather than lack in the opportunity*
grandma
That was so profound and it really helped me. Thanks you so much.
U are the space in which those beliefs happen.....❤️
that moment stuff lol.. we never be the moment because the way we see its filtrated by our experiences
Try meditation. Meditation is key. :)
Everything is brown from tshirt to suit to hall to curtain,table cloth,piano,your hair...N my heart is now more white n ✨ after seeing this n after meditation.
Love your personality. I wish I could get trained by you because I’m a closet case comedian. FYI or tmi, your so cute!
"when I'm happy things happen".. 🤔
I love your talks!
Glad I've found you! Very refreshing!
Amazing! Brilliant! I love it!
Hey Kyle - this is a happy surprise. A facebook friend (who I've never met) shared this video. I recognized your name. About 10 years ago you took the stage at Daniel Webster College when I was a freshman in college. I think I even bought one of your CDs that night. I don't think I've thought about you since. (being overly honest there)
This video however, came on a perfect day at a perfect time for me. Thank you for this. We've both come far, buddy! (if you can call someone you've thought about twice in 10 years buddy!)
I am sitting here, wanting so badly to listen to what you are saying, but the ad that just came up calling me a cheap ass if I don't buy tickets to your next event, kind of ruined the vibe. I've stayed with ya here, and I think you are my soul mate, lol but the ad came up AGAIN... WTF?????? I am watching this great ' how to love yourself' inspirational video, while having to see the words.. ' you cheap ass' through out the entire video. Now THAT's funny. ;)
you can go addless
We got placed in a family of aliens. Lol. And so true.
friends will leave you when you find yourself
I had this in my watch later list for only gawd knows how long, followed my heart, watched this in the right moment, thank you Kyle and thank me
Definitely watching this three years later, binge watching to be exact😁
LOVE
23:41 hahahahahaha
Wow.... Just wow... I wish i didn't miss the Orlando event... I will see him soon, definitely!!!
Your shtick is incredibly inspiring for those of use with one foot in each world- performance and self help - so thanks!
You sound like Stuart Wilde
Who's the best !
I think I'm in love
Word.
Awesome! Thank you very much!
RIGHT ON!!! 100% TRUE
Fantastic!! :)
Genius
Love
6:51
Wow! Thank you for snapping me out of victim mode and back into reality! I needed that!
You remind me of a modern day Wayne Dyer only with the bonus of also being hilarious.
kyle, I know this will seem shallow. This is not a criticism merely an observation, Buy
some new jeans these look like your garage cleaning jeans Your jacket and sweater are spot on. The jeans are out of balance Hugs
Next year, Kyle Cease tours cold reading your dead relatives from his obsession over his dead mom. Failed comedian
And what have you done to better humanity?
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly.”
Jealous and insecure much?? Perhaps you have a lot of inner "stuff" that you fear will come out if you accept that what you have been doing?? Is not working any longer Don't knock something till you've tried it..