The Worst Date I Ever Went On…
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I'm Molly, a typical sushi, makeup, and fashion loving millennial girl who just so happens to be blind! I was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa at just 4 years old and began public speaking at age 5. I started just doing motivational speaking, but now I make videos and even model! Even though I can’t see, I know that there are bright spots in everything we face. Let’s find them together. 💕
What's the worst date you've ever been on??
Hi molly I love your videos
Molly Burke I've never been on any ☹️
I am not old enough go on a date and don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend but I had a girlfriend for 2 days we we're great friends and we still are but we don't talk because she moved Never mind I have a girlfriend
Mine was probably one time where the guy did absolutely nothing but talk about himself, didn’t ask me any questions about myself and didn’t seem at all interested in anything I wanted to talk about. I was just so bored to tears the entire time.
Soling106 oh that must’ve sucked.
I've been a janitor. No one is a janitor for fun. If they tell you that, run.
Lol! Seriously delusional.
Lol. I appreciate janitors because they do what no one else wants to... But I'm pretty sure most don't really enjoy it.
Unless your Will Hunting. lol.
Completely false.
Wonder what his actual job is that he tried to hide if he even has one
“We don’t owe these guys anything.” ALL OF MY YES 👏👏👏
Well basic respect but if they dont show us any.....cya never jerk.
But we expect him to pay for the coffee at the first date to show that he thinks we're special and stuff. I wish you girls would know how ironic that sounds.
@@georgfrap I paid for my food on my first date with a guy, I didnt expect anything but later when someone paid for me I did feel cared about. Its a nice gesture, on either part.
@@-simplicity7551 I don't know you and I don't really care if someone paid for your coffee or you paid for it yourself, I meant a certain part in this clip at 7:02
It's very ironic how certain statements sound compared to others, that's all I wanted to point out.
@@georgfrap Right, you might be taking it too literally, its not an expectation its just a general gesture that shows ones interest in a person.
WARNING!!!
Nine times out of ten when a manipulative person waits until last minute to let you know they’re going to be late OR they just leave you waiting and show up really late with no real explanation ITS A TRICK. They are trying to see if you’re “desperate” enough to wait for them and if you do they think they can treat you however they want
I’ve seen this happen so many times and talked to guys&girls about this. It sucks because I’m an easy going person so I’m happy to wait for someone that doesn’t mean I’m desperate ya know?
Either way pay attention to red flags people please 💗
Ang Star What about men, not just ladies? :)
Seb Morrison you’re right manipulation has no gender. Stay safe 💗
I was about to say the exact same thing!
I also think a lot of it is in how late they are & how they act when they show up. I'm personally horrible with time and habitually late to everything.. but it's normally within 15 mins with apologies. If someone is calling a minute before, they should only be 5 mins away. That's just how it works when it's legitimate.
Noted! 💖
Me and my girlfriend want to have fun this weekend. We're thinking of doing some janitorial work down at the local Arby's
lmao
Lmao
Omg if I get a boyfriend we need to double date!! lol
😂
"Girls only want me for my good looks!"
**dates blind girls**
😂😂😂
Lol!
There was a delay, But then I realized. XD
T Prime l
You have to watch the video "blind people describe beauty". There's a young blonde woman who's probably one of the most shallow people I've ever seen or heard talking about it. She says she only dates men which her friends say are good looking so that other people can see her dating someone handsome. If they say that they hit the gym that's super important for her. And she said that everyone else (including sighted people) is the same... Nope.
Bruh 😂
My worst date:
I went out with a guy who told me that HITLER WAS HIS BIGGEST ROLE MODEL. Yup. Then. He talked about killing me. Legit, this actually happened.
omg......
I hope you reported him to the police for that. Wow!
😱
Why did he say he wanted to kill you?! OMFG scary
Meow It's Shannon he was giving some random example about how all evil is equal... and that him killing me is just as bad as stealing something... he was crazy
To me it sounds like he took advantage of the fact that you're blind. Like he knew you were blind and hyped himself up without knowing you had your mom? Was probably intimidated because you're perfect haha
Exactly, I actually had a similar situation, I am also blind and I got connected with this one dude who was actually specifically looking for blind girls because he had some type of a skin condition I believe it was psoriasis that condition that causes you to develop a white flaky sort of rash on your face and scalp, he was really self-conscious about it and he had been rejected because of it previously, so he was literally trying to find a blind girl who would not be able to see it so that he could have that advantage, and when I told him all jokes aside, if it didn’t occur to him that any blind girl is going to ask her friends or someone what he looks like he got really offended and told me to fuck off etc. as if what I said was extremely offensive.
@@zararoyce319 That's insane. That guy sounds like a straight up sociopath.
As someone with psoriasis (who is happily married) it can cause someone to be very self conscious about it from a long history of being the but of peoples jokes verbal assults. But he did sound like an a-hole
How would a blind person not have one sighted person in their life 😅
@@zararoyce319 Yeah that's an obvious red flag lol
Would LOVE to see some more TINDER or dating videos! :)
I second this.
I fourth this.
I fifth this
Molly I thought the story was over and then you said “so I got in his car” and I literally yelled MOLLY NO! Honestly that could have been so bad and I’m glad you were ok.
Omg I was like Girl no! Your probably about to get kidnapped or something!😬😬😬😬
**RANT** My worst date was with a guy I matched on Tinder too. From his online presence he seemed great... He seemed interested in what I had to say, we had a lot in common and he was complimentary to me. So I decided to meet up with him for a cold drink and a stroll around a nearby busy park at daytime. First of all I was discussing things we said we had in common (TV shows, music taste) and he cut me off to say 'I have a confession to make I don't watch/listen to any of that shit I just googled some stuff so you thought we liked the same things'... Wtf? But the worst thing was throughout the date he kept using the phrase 'most guys....' for example 'most guys would prefer to date people shorter than you but I'm different' 'most guys like girls a few sizes smaller than you but Im not shallow' and 'most guys hate girls who wear make up like yours but I think it's cool' it's like he kept putting me down to think he's this AMAZING guy who's DIFFERENT cos he liked someone who's supposedly unlikeable by 'MOST GUYS'. At the time I was a big pushover, my previous relationship was with a manipulative, horrible man. But I finally had enough and said 'MOST GIRLS wouldn't put up with the amount of bullshit that comes out of your mouth but here I am, I'm not wasting any more of my time.' and then I stormed off and decided not to date for a while and focus on self love. Which I've realised is so much more important than feeling the need to have validation from other silly men 😂❤️
Bro i love you. Thats the best thing ive ever heard. See, i love when girls can stand up for themselves and inunderstand why some cannot. Me persnoally. It can be good or bad. Im the type of person that doesnt take shit from people or im the person that sucks it up and says nothing because i dont like making people angry
Honestly girl he was being a huge jerk and deserved what you did! It's so great to hear that u just walked away from that jerk you clearly deserve better than him good for you! ❤❤❤
I love the ending! Some people are so weird. I also dislike people who try to make themselves better by saying they're so different from "the others", all are wrong, they're right. But here you are right, in French we have a saying that could be roughly translated as "Better to be alone than with the wrong person". I've been single almost all my life and I don't care, I personnally think it's better to wait for the right person than throwing myself in the arms of the first saying yes. :-)
Yes girl! Stand up for yourself, don't let men-or anyone bring you down. It may seem like such a small thing, but several girls would struggle to do what you did. That's what causes abusive relationships, so good on you for talking back!
*clap, clap* YAS QUEEN
"I woke up today with a rip in my favorite pants and really bad period cramps."
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She is a QUEEN
Mood.
Moood
Molly Burke honestly, my month
I went on one Tinder date then deleted the app on the way home.
I've heard way too many horror stories, I'll never download it to begin with lol
Worst ever
I married my first tinder date.
girl what happened on that date
Shelby Mathews well, it started with him being late cuz he stopped to buy a book(NBD). They told us they were closing early when we ordered our drinks, then when that time rolled around he acted like they were rude. Then he suggested we grab a cab somewhere else. On the way he “discovered” he didn’t have cash to pay for it, so I had to pay. He had actually sent the cab to his house. I figured I paid for it so I might as well hang around(he was friends with someone I knew, & they knew I was with him). There was an awkward moment where he was like “kiss me,” no spark. He got moody when he saw it wasn’t going further cuz I pulled away. He was suddenly tired, but I was totally ready to leave. When I stepped out of his door, he leans out, points up the street & is like “the bus stop is just up that way” & it was around 1am.
This dude really thought he was going to get laid, then acted all annoyed.
Can't commit to meeting on time but wants you to commit to 4 years with him, typical 😂 love your videos molly! ❤❤❤
“I want you to be my girlfriend for the next 4 years.” What kind of person schedules their breakups? XD I doubt he even knows what the word commitment means.
The fact that he thinks that 4 years is even a real commitment when talking about relationships.
Dude was scheduling the breakup before they even finished the first coffee lol.
I think he said "I want you to be my girlfriend IN the next 4 years", but I could be wrong... That would be, like, he's going to start "training" her now, to dress in what he likes, to run his errands for him, etc, so she'll match his definition of girlfriend material.
@@Zinetha Oh well that's totally fine then hahaha XD What a douche. (The guy in question, not you specifically)
I was on a date with a guy that made me feel like i was on a job interview and when we said goodbye and he found out i was going to get groceries he insisted to come with for some reason??
Walking out of the store he tried to hook arms with me and i have never made a Matrix style move like that n my life before or since to get out of it. He ended up driving me home and said i should schedule another date with him. No thank you sir, learn to read body language.
Luckily the next guy i went on a date with is sitting right next to me as i´m writing this, 6 years later
I, as a female in a wheelchair, learned those statistics when I was about 16 because of a school project and I agree they are terrifying that this is what society is actually like. Keep shredding the game, love your videos.
im in a wheelchair too
Jessica Stephens online it said 83% of Women with disabilities will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime.
Die Potato Do you have a link?
KatieC Vlogs www.gov.nl.ca/VPI/facts/violence_against_women_with_disabilities_fs.pdf
Not replying to a text is not always ghosting, sometimes silence is the BEST thing we can say.
My ex-fianceé, who broke up with me a few months before the wedding date, texted me about a month after he dumped me and asked if he could borrow my car... I never replied, it’s not worth my time or energy.
You are an amazing woman, Molly!
U are a strong women! Very good❤️✨☺️
You deserve better!❤️
My ex boyfriend (we dated for 6 years) texted me, called me and email me until 2.5 years after the break up (with periods between those)
The best thing I did was not answer the last ones, my mental health wasn't good but he sure made it worse and for this day (3.5 since brak up) I'm still not OK, so yep, not answering nothing and no one related to him...
"...sometimes silence is the BEST thing we can say." YES!! 100% Sometimes, even face to face, the only responses that come to mind are downright cruel, and, at best, would provoke heated confrontation. I think most of the people I'm close to would be shocked if they could hear my thoughts sometimes! I'm thankful to also have a strong sense of compassion as a filter that simply keeps my mouth shut!!
Agreed. Molly's date sounded like a narcissist. Saying no to them sometimes makes them think they can convince you. Not with the time or effort for anyone that selfish imo
I think every woman gets a Jonathan date just so we can learn. So thankful you have...😉
The sad thing is that most jonathans settle for someone and manipulate them to do baaaad stuff.
This guy sounds like a COMPULSIVE liar. I agree with your mom - major red flag vibes!
I genuinely believe that your initial gut feelings about someone are pretty accurate. So glad that if you were in that situation again today you would have GTFO. I knew from the moment I met my current partner that he was someone I wanted to spend more time with. He and I actually almost accidentally walked out without paying for our coffees on our first date (it was a pay when you’re done cafe instead of pay when you order). We had such engaging conversation and we were so interested in continuing it as we were leaving that we both totally forgot, then had to quickly run back in all embarrassed and pay. I knew from that first date that I wanted to be with him. I’m a total introvert and no one has ever held my attention and interest for that long without my brain screaming at me to leave. I hope when you’re ready to date, you find someone perfect for you, just like I did.
I'm glad you were safe Molly! Your mom would have sent out a search party if you were 15 more minutes I feel... mothers intuitively know if the man is right or wrong! Molly I love all that you do you inspire me everyday! Lots of Love and a Huge Hug to you Momma Bee and Gallop! 🤗
Molly: If you're not awkward on a phone call, you're probably GOOD in person!
Everyone: PHONE CALL? you want to TALK on the phone?! 😮
Matt Rappaport Lol, that’s what I thought 😂😂 my boyfriend and I have to talk on the phone bc right now we aren’t physically close, but when we are we just text, and talk only in person.
@@CashAndSpanglish Lol.. either you're texting or you're facetiming in 2019.
(Audio texts = perfect to hear voices)
no
Matt Rappaport for me talking on the phone when I've never met someone is soooo aw to me!! I hate it!! So much! Lol! After we meet in God to go!ha ha I'll chat no problem over the phone but even then- I still don't like just sitting on the phone with no real purpose of chatting or topic. I'd much rather just text. Especially because I'm busy and a multitasker and it's just so annoying to be on the phone the whole time when I'm trying to do stuff or relax. Idk just me. Lol
Matt Rappaport hahaha!! EXACTLY!
Me while watching this video:
Molly no.... Molly noooo!! Just leave girl. RUN!!!
Get. Out.
I was invited out for a first date but then he let me know we had to go to his aunt’s funeral first. Who asks someone to a funeral on a first date? Super Creepy!! (I didn’t go obviously)
Judy Ives someone who’s lied to his family about having a gf & now he’s desperate 😹
Oh my god I would have gone for the funeral lunch, what the fuck
When a guy starts off with talking about how rich they are they’re usually lying and usually psychotic. Just in my experience lol
Actually yeah, the whole time I heard her talking about it I was thinking he was delirious
Yes!
Or their testing to see how shallow the other person is. Also to get sex. So manipulative.
Rich people want to actually avoid that topic because they don’t want to be used. So true!
I make 157k/yr. I'm trying to get 170k by the end of 2020.
My worst date was on Valentine’s Day when I went to the cinema and MACDONALDS and had to pay for my dates lunch. He then goes on to SHOPLIFT from Tesco’s and Smiggle. He gave me the keyring he stole and the chocolates I was furious and called my mum to collect me, who got hold of the security at Tesco and the police and got this boy arrested. Worst thing was he was my neighbor at the time! I had to face him almost everyday. A year later he still hated me and gave my phone number out and I got texts telling me to kill my self. I screamed at him for that like full on phsyco at his front door. Now he has nothing to do w me and has a criminal record.
He sounds extremely self centered. Probably found his narcissistic match eventually. Ew.
- Simplicity yeah it was probably a mirror
@@Solar_dust Lol a strict possibility.
It's more likely that he just thought that he could tell a blind girl anything he wanted and she would believe him.
@@lindseynobody4865 Right, I thought so too. Weirdo
I hope this guy is watching this video right know and is thing about what he done and he really regrets it
Indeed, shame can be healthy and help you become a better person if you're ashamed of being an asshole. We should all be ashamed of the moments that we are assholes other people taking out our frustration on them. It doesn't make the world a better place when anyone does that.
He sounds like the kind of guy who wouldn't give a shit, or he'd slide into her DM's to try and "hook up" with her
I about freaking died when he texted "So am I right? Am I a keeper or what?" 😂😂😂 if some man texted me that I would be like no have a good day sir 😂😂😂😂
Immediate red flag was “being a janitor for fun” 😂
Right ?? Tf is he the dude from coming to America ?!?!😂😂
lol I was like damn, I work as a dog sitter with my mom for fun, because it actually is fun
No it's saying "I'll be late" a minute or a couple of minutes before you meet for a date
Luna 9130:3 Depends on if it’s like 5 minutes late or 30, but 5 minutes isn’t really enough to tell them
OMG my sister has the exact same Thumper hot water bottle
BabyGenie And friends I love it 😍 it’s so cute! Where have you bought it?
Yes! Please do share!
I need it in my life!
Does anybody just forget Molly’s blind sometimes?
Edit: Love you Molly thanks for replying 💖💖
Honestly... I forget everyone else can see sometimes! hahah
Molly Burke 😂😂😂 that👏🏽was👏🏽so👏🏽good👏🏽
This is the first video of hers that I've seen. Didn't know she was blind until she said something toward the end of the video.
@@MollyBurkeOfficial love that! 😂
Karyssa Jøhnsøn I’m new to her channel and I had no idea she was blind until I scrolled through the comments, pointing out that she is blind! ☺️
I think you and Dr. Mike had good chemistry, maybe y’all should get together for a date.
Ava Thacker they would be a pretty couple ☺️
Yes please !!!!
If anyone is good enough for Dr Mike it is for sure Molly💕
I think he has a girlfriend.
@@Rubyvipr they broke up
I literally feel so terrible. The second I read the title I just thought “ Was it a blind date? “
I’ll be going to hell now.
Yes You will
"I approve."
"Ew!"
lmao
When your mum knows it is bad, it is bad! My mum knew my last boyfriend was bad from the beginning I wish I had seen it.
The other way around sometimes too. When my mom was dating, I would always sense it when her boyfriends were bad news.
@@edengirly93 She might have to learn harder way then and regret she didn't listen to you. :/ Young people tend to be naive and stubborn.
Moms always know best but when you're young you think you always know best
I just wanna say your mom is so sweet for staying nearby while you're on your first date. Love your momma killer bee ❤❤
I would find that awkward and wouldn't like it. I'm saying that as a disabled person. I understand the safety thing, but I don't know.... It would just make me feel like a kid. I feel like disabled people's parents are usually too overprotective to a fault. I've seen it in a lot of cases, including mine. It can stifle the person from fully developing.
@@sweetluvgurl do you think you'd feel differently if you were blind? I'm disabled but sighted. I might feel more vulnerable not being sighted. But that's just me. My teenage to 25 year old self would never let my mom come. But the current me, would love it because my mom became like Molly and her mom. It's special. I took my mom on a job interview one time. She was visiting and we were going shopping after the interview so she came. Shs stayed in the car and somehow I mentioned she was in the car and he was like, it's hot, get her in here...he was highly amused. I brought her in and she's all personality like Molly, so we stayed there chatting, the three of us, about all sorts of things outside the actual job, for like an hour. When we got home I had a message that I got the job....because my mom came. He thought that was refreshing 😆😆😆💕
She saw him out the window of her house. She didn’t go on the date
Alisha: yeah, I was thinking that too. But it doesn't seem like her mom stayed with her. Maybe waited until he got there? Idk. It's not very clear. If she was there, idk why she would let her get into the car with this stranger. Would've sort of defeated the whole safety argument for being there in the first place
Molly - he said he only dates girls who buys Louis Vuitton and Gucci
Molly - he wouldn't pay, and I had to pay for both mine and his coffee
Molly - he wants to buy a Private Island
Me - he is differently a gold digger she sure did dodge a bullet on that one 😂
Also Molly: "I wanted him to pay for me... omg! He wanted me to pay for him!"
@@bjornolson21 Not really, but nice misinterpretation
🙄
Tipical girls want us to puto everytjing but when we invite them to a hotel that we going to pay they slap us on the face.
@@bjornolson21 The combination is weird tho, right? Bragging about how much money you have and how you will buy a island to impress the girl, but not buying the drinks(to show his money off, of course)? That's kinda off, right?
I did actually expect the whole "want to go with me to do my errands" thing to end up with attempted assault... SO very glad it didn't!
Molly, that wall of stuffed animals is literally what I want to do.
Same
call up Mr Kate
It's terrifying
Watch Mr. Kate’s video to see how they did it!
I literally didn’t even notice that
Love the messages you put out in this video. You don't owe anyone anything EVER.
That was a bad date, I hope you had better ones with different guys after that. How about making a video on your best date ever? Your biggest disappointment?
I can’t be the only girl that doesn’t even like Gucci 😅😅😅.
i dont like it?...
Lol!! You're not 😂
I hate it
same. i have one mens gucci wallet that my uncle gave to me.
Gucci: over expensive clothes with a logo on it that makes people feel special 🤷🏻♀️
Imagine having a brain that would say the words "I only date girls that wear Gucci." 🤣🤣🤣
Like, really?
He probably never even held a Gucci bag 😂😂
Girls, if a dude is late to a first date... Do not wait around. LEAVE. You deserve so much better.
Yes! I have an ex boyfriend who would show up 1-3 HOURS late for dates. I don’t know why I stayed with him...
Yep a guy will treat only how you allow him to treat you
totally agree!
«You deserve so much better» lol! How would you even know that? And the world doesnt revolve around you and your need to feel special 🤦♂️ if he calls or text you or has a good excuse that should be fine... rant over
what if they got in a car accident
If all the girls want him why is he on tinder!?!😂😂😂
Rebecca Montoya true
because they just want him for his "money" and "good looks" ;) 😂😂😂😂
OMG you are so right
Exactly!
He is doing all of womenhood a favor
There are seriously guys who think like that -.-'
13:40 I literally GASPED! Thank you for making this video so that young women can learn for your experience
I wonder if someone would pull the “run errands with me” as a way to get their date alone and away from the eyes of others.
Yeah it sounded super dangerous. girls don't get in cars with guys you just met
Why does he sound like the guy that hosted fyre festival
That was my thought too! 😂
A beautiful Ryan Gosling semi pro soccer player was coaching abroad in my home town. We met on tinder, and really really hit it off. We walked around my town, and drank a small bottle of vodka together well into the night. I took him to my favorite spots around the town, and we watched the dam in the river for a while. I showed him what a toad was (apparently they don’t exist in England??) and found out that my ma’s side of the family are from the same town he lives in. We held hands and talked like we were already in a relationship. It was really lovely. The next morning, we went to a cafe for lunch, and I showed him RANCH DRESSING. (How does anyone not know what ranch dressing is???)
I dropped him off at the family’s home he was staying at, and we had plans to meet again.
.....he left to country HOURS LATER, and his prepaid phone he was using was turned off. HE. LEFT. THE. COUNTRY. then blocked me on EVERYTHING.
Turned out he had a GF he was on rocky grounds with. He messages me a few years later and apologized. Guess he really liked me, and felt bad for meeting someone he liked, at the wrong time. We still talk once in a while, but it turns out, even an English Ryan Gosling can be a major F.B.
🥺
(Also the girl left his ass.)
He probably didn't know what ranch was because it's a more American thing. And I'm sorry he was a crap show
Um, toads exist in England, lol.
- An English person
If someone is more than 15 mins late I will leave no matter what.
25 year old Molly feels the same. haha
As a blind girl transportation can also be a factor, depending on the circumstances and if the distance is short enough for it to be affordable for the person to use Uber or not, because it’s a really bad situation of something like this happens and we have no way of getting picked up because if we just have a family member or friend schedule to pick us up at a certain time or if it’s using a service like access paratransit that Hass to be scheduled in advance we are totally screwed, that’s why I have learned that the best option is just to try to meet in public places that are at locations that you would normally go anyway and try to schedule it just like before or after something else that you’re going to do, or something like that
I'll accept traffic/car trouble as an excuse. Wrecks and unexpected road closures happen, and there's nothing anyone can do about it. I also drive a 30-year-old car, so I'm all too aware of the myriad ways a car can crap out on you (my favorite was when my alternator died...on the highway. Fun times.) However, I don't want to be left hanging; if a person's going to be late, they need to call (or text) me. I know both are illegal to do while driving in some states, but a text sent while sitting in gridlock would be enough.
Video idea; Dating apps
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omg trur
Yesssss
Imagine him commenting and being like “Hi! Still here..”
“If a man talk shit then I owe him nothing.”
~Taylor Swift, from her song I Did Something Bad
I know this isn't on the topic of the video but I saw your video donating hair a while ago and I've had it cut today and donated it to a charity for young people with cancer! It was such an inspiration to see you doing something selfless so even though my hair is now above my chin and doesn't look great at the end of the day my hairs gonna grow back and there are people who need it more so thank you!! You showed me there was a way of helping that didn't involve donating blood which I sadly can't do because of medical problems ✨😊❤️
Thank you for donating hair! As someone with cancer it means so much that people think of us and want to help. I think bob haircuts are cute too!
Hope it was a good charity. Most require very specific qualities of hair (like mustn't ever have been heat treated nor used silicone based products) and if its at all damaged just throw it away. The vast majority of hair donations go straight in the bin due to it not being cut correctly (can't just take cuttings from hair cut at a salon - that will get thrown away) and they buy in hair from people who grow it specifically for that purpose (often poor people in poor countries being taken advantage of). Its actually a terrible waste of resources and the process of applying for the wigs for the young people can be incredibly traumatising (you have to send photos in with your application so they can judge if you deserve a wig or not and only pick the most photogenic kids). Its honestly a shit show and exploitative. And then the wigs are only ever subsidised - they generally don't give them away for free. And as kids are still growing, a wig will only last a very short amount of time before it no longer fits and then it can't be given to someone else easily as they are made to fit a specific person and often won't fit many other people at all. Oh and most of the wigs don't even go to cancer patients.
Plus the whole thing just reinforces the terrible idea that people need hair to be attractive and need to be attractive to be worth something. And makes it seem like the only way to get a wig is with human hair.
Been on a couple of bad dates, the worst is when neither of you can find anything to talk about and kind of just sit there but he doesn't seem to want to end the date 😊
Well past that now, happily married.
Came as soon as I saw the notification. Love you Molly 😘
Kudos to you for learning your value in your 20s! Standing up for yourself in any aspect of your life is a HUGE thing. Literally just got to this level of self respect now, mid 40s, but so grateful to have realized it.
The part where he was driving around looking for the auto body shop to me almost sounds like he was thinking about maybe kidnapping you. I also think you did the right thing on just ghosting that guy.
Aww love you Molly ❤ I'm so glad you've grown from that experience
Once I texted my friend to call me and when she called I pretended it was my dad and he needed me to come home with my truck to pull my brother out of a snow bank LMAO my friend was so concerned thinking I was in danger, but it was just a terrible date 😂 he bought it! The only reason I used that method was because he decided he wanted to see a movie and I didn’t want to get stuck for another hour or more.
Smart! There's an app now too that you can have call you to get out of stuff.
Couldn't you have just told the truth tho
Jessica Prado Hanson do you know the name of that app?
ArielleTheMermaid it is “gotta go” lol it was Chelsea handlers idea that she had some people make for when she wanted to get out of bad dates and meetings lol.
Sherice Conley no. Part of the reason I wasn’t enjoying myself was being he was showing me red flags and I was uncomfortable. He also needed to drive me to my car so I wasn’t going to just say I’m not enjoying myself, take me back. Guys try to convince you and I just wanted to leave
There is like a 0.001% chance that you just passed up on an island in the Bahamas
More like 0.000000000000000000001% chance
'wanna run some errands with me?' Mate, I don't even like doing my own errands I ain't adding yours to the list I'm busy 😂
Molly, I loved everything you said in this video about standing up for yourself as a woman - it is SO true that women are often made subordinate in the dating sphere and I didn't learn that until way too late. I also went on a date that was similar to this - clearly a sociopathic man, claimed to have a lot of money, talked about his standards in a woman, made plans for how long we would be together. Also, your makeup is BEAUTIFUL in this video. Your eyeshadow matches your shirt perfectly! Also FYI, I met my husband on OkCupid! It worked out much better for me than tinder (obviously).
wow that guy was a total jerk, you did not deserve that molly
every time i hear stories like this it makes me grateful for little romance i've had, i had one relationship that lasted two weeks and three days after i was broken up with my ex hooked up with my friend
it wasnt actually a bad experience luckily, we just have a better dynamic as friends than partners, and we are still friends to this day
i hate hearing these stories and honestly these jerks need to grow up
molly you did not deserve that and you are awesome! we love you
Hey Molly! I'm visually impaired and I would be so nervous to go on a Tinder date!!! I don't need to worry about was that now though since I am happily married. ☺️ I think I would have probably done the same as you did when I was younger. But now, I agree with you that overtime and with maturity, I can absolutely say heck no! And if I need to take an Uber home!!! and carry some defense equipment with me whatever that might be. LOL
I have never been on a date before. I’m 26. I have had boyfriends and have been in two serious relationships but I met those guys from school and through my friend group. But when it comes to a real date like actually setting a time and a place to meet someone that I dont know, I have never done that. It sounds terrifying to me. I’m 26 and feel so lame that I haven’t put myself out there more. Its like I keep thinking that eventually the perfect most dreamy man will just appear from the sky above and we’ll live happily ever after 🙄
Molly you are one badass blind chick, please teach me your ways 🙌🏼
I'm 30 and maybe went on 3 dates despite "dating" plenty. I think they can be nice butthe relationships part is what really matters for me.
For what it's worth, I think it's better to meet someone naturally rather than make it a focus anyways. You're less likely to run into weirdly desperate people at the very least lol
Don't worry I'm 40 and have never been on an actual date
I haven't been on any dates yet either, and I don't think I will in the near future, cause I just don't talk to girls much, so asking on a date will probb never happen xD also I would prefer to be friends first to lay out the trust before starting a relationship.. Though I haven't had a GF yet either, I'll be 23 in 2 months. I'm curious when/if a love life will start for me 🤔
“You wanna run my errands with me??” that I can only see with someone who you’ve been dating for months, maybe even a year. Why would anyone even ask that on a first date? 😂
First of all: YES! Dating videos and talk about them too.
Secondly.. I've never been on a bad date actually. I'm a girl, I'm an introverted and I could never use Tinder for example. That means I need to talk to the person for some time (say two weeks at least) to see if there's some sort of connection and chemistry. THEN I'd agree to meet. It worked so far. Even without going for serious relationships.
I love how strong you are and how you make every day a great day
I don't have a cool comment.
I don't have anything funny to say.
All I have to say is...
I love your videos. Keep up the good work ❤❤❤
Love you molly I’m 11 and I’ve been watching your videos for about a week and watching you has helped me with my self confidence tremendously and I truly do appreciate you
You shouldn't state your age online.
We want more dating videos!!! And no disrespect, just genuinely curious, how do you tell when somebody is going in for a kiss? Is it just by feeling? Just curious to learn more!! I love you and your videos so much 💕
I mean, I’d hope if someone was gonna kiss you they’d say “can I kiss you” they wouldn’t just like,, grab your face without warning 😂 so yeah, if I was dating a blind person and wanted to kiss them I’d ask first
My boyfriend was and still is extremely considerate and asked if I was comfortable with him kissing me. But if by chance they don’t ask typically people close their eyes and also you obviously have to tilt your head. So if you see that they move closer and close their eyes and then slightly tilt their head then they are going in for a kiss. I got really lucky and I found a guy who is extremely considerate. He took everything step by step and he made sure I was okay with it.
"Girls only date me because on my good looks" while on date with blind girl. Sir, while that might be true, I would like to make a note.
😂😂😂😂😂
When I dated (my now ex boyfriend from like a year ago) every single time we meet up, we went to his house and watched a movie. Every time. I am an adventurous person and I don't know, I guess it kinda felt tied down. All I can say was I hated it. I told him that and he didn't listen. So those where my worst date's. I was also a little bit of a push over so I kinda let it slid till the end.
Edit: I just remembered, (this is the same person) that one time we decided to hangout we were gonna meet half way between our houses. It was really cold outside, snowing and he was late and I couldn't go home cause my sister dropped me off and I only had one small hoodie, so I was texting him and he replied half an hour later "oh ya I forgot, you can just walk over here if that's okay"... I think by this time I had hypothermia. Yes, I walked over there...
My prom date told me he only came to my prom because of the free food 🤦♀️. I was pretty sad but in the end happy because he didn’t turn out to be the kind of guy I thought he was.
I mean who wouldn’t want to wake up with a rip in their pants and period cramps 😭😂
I'm curious to how she changes her pad or tampon during her period, I can't imagine someone doing it for her.
Tamara M for me, when ive used a tampon i dont see anything anyways i just focus on the feeling haha so thats probably how, and changing a pad is just tactile too , you dont really hve to look at it to change it.. but i guess also you can feel your period starting too sometimes so
Ya....
Maddie Adams me lol 😂
Tamara M SAME like how in the world especially at 14??? Damn this girl has to have a lot of talent and skill to do that
I’ve recently stumbled on your TH-cam channel about a week ago, and I’ve gone down a rabbit hole ever since! Life has been hitting me pretty hard lately, and finding your channel during the time I did is exactly what I needed. So, thank you for being so inspirational Molly. 💕
This made me think of my own daughter who is 15 and I actually have terminal cancer at 34 but this has really made me think and I will be having a conversation of being safe and red flags and not to anything that makes u feel uncomfortable...I might not be around to help at the time so I need to tell her these things now.... thanks for sharing
Molly: I have a friend with cerebral palsy who was feeling really sad bc he was being bullied for his disability. I recommended your 10 year journey to him bc you turned you "disability" into a superpower. Because of you he was able to see his disability in a new way. Thank you for providing this opportunity to help. Love you Molly please keep doing what you're doing!!!
Xoxo
Hey molly I just wanted to say that I hope your having a good week
PLEASE make another video about dating, advice, and all of your thoughts and feelings on it. you are way too wise for your years girl
I am so glad you got home safe from that date & that you didn’t text him back. Omg. Tbh it does sound scary. Trying to move the relationship too fast (like the 4 year thing), is a warning sign of abuse. I used to be the same way about dating though. I was so reckless and tbh got myself in some really messed up situations. But thanks to a video by you about not putting my disability out there on my profile I avoid people who may be seeking targets or may have weird fetishes. I also get to know what they’re like naturally before I let them know I’m disabled and see how things change or shift and how they react to it. Honestly it’s helped so much with filtering out the bad ones. Thank you 💖✨⛅️
My worst date wasn’t that bad, just awkward. Conversation was pretty dull and we struggled to find common interests. I got home and messaged a different guy I matched with on tinder and went out to eat with him that night. I was AMAZING and we are still together ☺️
Sometimes we have these days. You are so amazing Molly, you will find your special someone who loves you for your special-ness. In the mean time, *WE* love you!
Hey Molly!!! Could you make a video on dating advice as a blind girl? Specifically on how to be safe?
I am also blind and I can tell you from my personal experience you should definitely try to do your first date during the day time as a general rule don’t agree to meet people at night after dark and stuff like that. Also, I would say that it’s a very good idea to meet the person at a neutral location rather than having him pick you up try to get him to come and meet you at a place where you would ordinarily go that you’re already somewhat familiar with, so like if you go downtown a lot try to meet somewhere downtown that you’re already at least somewhat familiar with and you can already be there sitting down waiting that kind of thing. Also, consider your transportation after the date, so it could also be good to try to choose a location that you won’t be that far from your home in case if you do need or choose to take an Uber, you don’t want to count on him dropping you off afterwards because that may not happen for whatever reason. Also, tell people where you are, you don’t necessarily have to tell them exactly what you’re doing but it could be very useful just to tell some friends or put on your social media where you’re at that you’re meeting somebody for lunch at such and such place or something like that so that if people don’t hear from you it will be very clear where you were last. Another thing, consider the restroom as awkward as that is, you don’t want to end up as a blind girl in a situation where you need to use the ladies room and you’re not familiar with the layout or how to get there and you don’t really know what to do and the guy is not very easy-going with helping you and it’s super awkward with him having to guide you to the bathroom and then once you get in there being confuse, so that’s why I would again go back to the idea of trying to get him to meet you at a place that you’re already somewhat familiar with at least, of course that’s not always possible but I just think that it could definitely ease some tension if it is an option. On a separate note, my advice is do not do the pretend offer to pay thing, assume that he is going to pay unless he literally specifies otherwise then you can take it from there but as a lady you should assume that he is paying
I love you molly please do more storytimes like this
Gram Piggies really enjoy this, and the clothing hauls!
Please do more storytimes! I love them! They feel like I'm having a girl talk with one of my close friends, and they always make me smile! Love you Molly!
Molly, I love how mature you are and how much sense you make. I love the message you're sending to younger girls who watch your videos. You're a true inspiration
lol the one dislike is “Jonathan” haha
Lol probably is
You're amazing. Thank you so much for sharing this!! "We need to get better at standing up for ourselves" this 100%
My worst date was when I was a wee little 14 year old. He was one of my brother's baseball teammates and we decided to just hang out at the mall and stuff. I love talking. He didn't talk at all. Like, I tried going to a music store and be like "oh, I love this band, what do you listen to?" and he'd be like "eh, whatever, really".
Then this was this other guy whom I knew from choir and he wouldn't shut up about his exes. Boys can be very dumb sometimes when it comes to dating...
Great video. Learning point for others. Here are a few points where she should have bailed:
1. Late with 1 minute notice.
2. LV comments.
3. SHE PAID!!!
4. Janitor for fun???
5. Talking - texting about himself.
6. Private island.
7. 4 year girlfriend.
8. Did not buy the book (he never intended to buy anything).
9. Multiple other warning signs.
Was anyone else secretly hoping she was finally gonna spill the tea on what happened with the guy Joey set her up with?!!
I met my husband through a friend at work. We met on 20 December 1986, got engaged on 18 January 1987 and got married on 22 September 1987. We're still going strong and this year will be our 35th anniversary. He's an absolute diamond and I love him to bits.
Molly: I like to have a tennis mach conversation
Also Molly: **spends all day talking to a camera that can’t answer***
MEEE!
That guy sounded very off and weird, thank god you didn’t reply to his text and thank god you’re okay! I’m glad now you know more of what to do if anybody were to ever be like that again! You deserve to be treated amazing Molly and you will find that right person one day! 😊
It'll be really cool for you to make a video for us to see how 2 blind people behave around each other/have a conversation for the first time.
I didn’t realize but I’ve been binge watching your videos all day today.
Kristeen Tabanera lol same
I was in 2 toxic relationships 2 years ago and looking back on it 16-year-old me would not put up with what I would now I’ve grown a lot and I’ve gained a lot of self-love, and self-respect for myself❤️