MY COMING OUT STORY & ADVICE 🌈

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @haileyrafferty2372
    @haileyrafferty2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm actually excited to hear Chey's story

  • @hhheidi1121
    @hhheidi1121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have no lesbian or gay friends!! I just fell in love with my wife and that’s it. We have a lot of lash back from my wife’s church member like telling us off or like I made her less of a Christian. 1994 I was 26 when I found my true LOVE ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashleyfoss3788
    @ashleyfoss3788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ugh this is so touching!! Living the life you dreamed of...I feel that 🥲
    & feeling this extra hard bc seeing you on BB was my gay "aha" moment... representation is everythinggg 🏳️‍🌈
    Thank you for sharing, Erica!! 🤗
    Looking forward to Chey's story! ✌️☺️

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so positive and having that one person that you could vent is so great, and this was a great story and looking forward to Chey’s story as well. I just started watching you guys and love your videos and cramming your videos now

  • @elektracity205
    @elektracity205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I had the same issue as Erica because I was so boy crazy throughout my middle school and up to my freshman year of college. Idk how I looked up the L word and just became so curious about it during my sophomore year of college. Omg I have so many similarities with Erica on how you came out although still hoping to find my Chey.

  • @helenaslife4729
    @helenaslife4729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So happy you found each other you both are soo cute together 🥰❤️ Chey is such a caring sweet person xx

  • @t_rain
    @t_rain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. Love the shirt Erica
    2. Love the transparency
    3. Love that your LOVE is so pure, honest and infectious.
    4. Why am I crying!?
    5. I smile and laugh every time I watch one of your videos and I'm so glad that the analytics helped me find y'all at the time I was destined to. #dothedamnthing and can't wait for Chey's coming out video!

  • @semantichakraborty9171
    @semantichakraborty9171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's very thoughtful and touching you guys! All these starts a ripple effect for people haven't came out yet..Thank you❤️

  • @luzannynunez4141
    @luzannynunez4141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love you guys, love the energy and Chey I love your hair

  • @steevoridgeline
    @steevoridgeline 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched it again... so refreshing !!! yes indeed, to tell it the first time to someone you trust is the such a pivotal moment and transformative. 💕. to spit it out out loud is like the first ray of a sunrise ☁️🌤☀️🌈

  • @reinertrei7186
    @reinertrei7186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    can't wait for Chey's coming out story.
    much love for you guys.❤❤❤❤

  • @tiffaniharrison3387
    @tiffaniharrison3387 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awhh I’m so glad you’re living your best, dream life ❤❤

  • @thai7040
    @thai7040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    always a good day when there's a new video of u guys

  • @christinedisneyqueen5746
    @christinedisneyqueen5746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you two! 💜 You are so right about the label…that little word freaks people out! 😂

  • @kpats64
    @kpats64 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! Your chemistry is one of a kind and you’re both so blessed to have each other. Thank you for sharing your story Erica.

  • @tiffaniharrison3387
    @tiffaniharrison3387 ปีที่แล้ว

    A shot at love, what a throwback

  • @jaydynmcphee6742
    @jaydynmcphee6742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this video! Very supportive and helpful to hear someone else’s story❤️❤️

  • @entertainmentworld3792
    @entertainmentworld3792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great, you guys are back

  • @rosaguzzo1772
    @rosaguzzo1772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have come out to only a handful because I knew all my life because I kissed a girl and I liked it in grade 6. I married and have had 3 kids but never had any love for my husband it was hard to be intimate with him. My problem was my strict up bringing and my background. It was not expectable to be attracted to the opposite sex and to this day my family still makes comments so I have to live this live without anyone so the dream life you two live I may never get to experience ever. Love you two💖💖💖

    • @shanijohnson2682
      @shanijohnson2682 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sad, explore your sexuality and romantic interests if you want there's many places in the world that accept! 🏳️‍🌈

  • @zebralovin2345
    @zebralovin2345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The section about labels really spoke to me I totally related to it.

  • @817chaparra
    @817chaparra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For me coming out 🏳️‍🌈took longer, 28yr, bcuz I was "told and taught to believe" that way of life was to be living it in a Hetronormative way. Like although many beautiful women caught my eye more often then guys, I would appreciate men but never felt like how I felt with a women, there was no comparison but I really would Convince myself that i would end up married to a man bcuz "that's what Society said, and also my culture" 🇲🇽 Strongly pressured me into believe and thinking was what my life was going to end up being, and I would cry thinking I would never be able to be with a women! But now I'm Out, I'm Loud and Proud and I'm with My Girlfriend and I couldn't be happier being able to live my life for me, I could finally breathe living my truth!🙌🏽

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I could be this open about being a gay guy it's depressing

    • @817chaparra
      @817chaparra 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bubba283 what's holding you back if I may ask?

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@817chaparra mostly I'm embarrassed to tell I like guys. I've had gfs , but I knew I was different or missing something, I even had an ex gf ask if I was gay, I finally said yes, she said I figured I can tell.

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm just glad I can watch gay guys on here when my mother's asleep like now

    • @817chaparra
      @817chaparra 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bubba283 don't worry I was in serious relationships and then engaged to a man but I knew there was a piece missing of me that I needed to get to know bcuz I had suppressed it for so long, but everything with time.

  • @itss.luyandaa
    @itss.luyandaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't wait to hear chey's coming out story 😍

  • @sonianorville6050
    @sonianorville6050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl I almost turned it when u started crying cuz u had me about to cry can't wait to hear chey coming in out story u guys stay safe

  • @nicolewhite1385
    @nicolewhite1385 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had the same experience Erica, thank you for making me feel like my experience was normal!

  • @shay1999
    @shay1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all did the damn thing!!! Been waiting for this story for like forever 😍😍😍😍🤣🤣🤣

  • @Sobekhotep888
    @Sobekhotep888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s how I was with south of nowhere. I was super invested in spashley lol but watched it on the DL when my parents went to bed haha

  • @jimmydeneus9681
    @jimmydeneus9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @jer1230
    @jer1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really wanted to see Chey’s coming out story

  • @troublenesss
    @troublenesss 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    And now I’m not crying! 🥰🥰

  • @glammie
    @glammie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad you found your happiness. *hugs*

  • @jmat11689
    @jmat11689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I relate to your whole entire story, so crazy! Tila Tequila and The OC !!! 😂🤗

  • @alexisisanarieka4311
    @alexisisanarieka4311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I hope I can have the life you guys do one day 😔

  • @francescagruppuso8161
    @francescagruppuso8161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Started in elementary school. Never had any crushes on boys and I convinced myself that the reason for that was, “Oh, I’m too mature to have crushes on boys.” Then I watched Glee when I was 13 and I was like, 👀
    Fought with myself for a couple years. Came out as bi in 2018 then I just re-came out as a lesbian in April. Comp-het is a bitch.
    But my experience makes me who I am💕

  • @dominikbenz8349
    @dominikbenz8349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing vidoe i enjoy love proud of you so pretty stunning queens looking forward

  • @justvirgo7616
    @justvirgo7616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She didn't just say take a picture of your girlfriend and peace out🤣🤣 I laughed hard at that

  • @dakkarbaly
    @dakkarbaly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey ladies. Yall should post Cheyenne's coming out story as well.

    • @CheyErica
      @CheyErica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uploaded! 😊

  • @kahleesaangelofthenight2895
    @kahleesaangelofthenight2895 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love ur channel !

  • @innebandyist
    @innebandyist 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending lots of love and supportive hugs ❤️

  • @sisiponxasana1001
    @sisiponxasana1001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤ thanks for the video, more content please.

  • @pahadibum6073
    @pahadibum6073 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same timeline on the realisation grade 8 to 12. Grade 8th i was clearly infatuated by my new best friend, we had a moment in grade 9 and more in grade 11 and that's when internalised homophobia struck. And grade 12 fell head over heels for another new best friend, things happened, she broke my heart, but that's when I started accepting myself. Only came out to my gay cousin when I was in uni. Was coerced into coming out by my parent, who is extremely homophobic... well life was never the same once the wider family got to know, I changed in their eyes.

  • @mya__8736
    @mya__8736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve know I’m gay since like 7th grade and I’m in 11th now and wanna come out so bad but my family is homophobic, so I’m just trying to wait until I’m at least 18 and that’s really hard, but you guys videos help me out a lot ❤️

  • @xiaalexisbrooklyn8545
    @xiaalexisbrooklyn8545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    #NotificationGang hey ladies miss u guys🥰🥰

  • @aygundokmeciler1352
    @aygundokmeciler1352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How cute duo ❤

  • @poeppiesnoeppie
    @poeppiesnoeppie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice vlog girls ❤️

  • @haileyrafferty2372
    @haileyrafferty2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOL why have i heard Tila Tequila was the reason people knew they were gay so many times

  • @arshikuraishi2024
    @arshikuraishi2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Erica❤
    #morepowertoyou
    Thanks for sharing your story !

  • @stuartkeylock4199
    @stuartkeylock4199 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you guys talk more about advice on how to get a Girlfriend I am dating some one at the moment Stick together stay safe in 2021

  • @kesh7692
    @kesh7692 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can yet to hear Chey story

  • @MsMaryMacc
    @MsMaryMacc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm happy your dream became a reality.....

  • @pascalaboulicam7639
    @pascalaboulicam7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bonsoir Chey et Erica, ça va ?

  • @glendakendrick8330
    @glendakendrick8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you both.

  • @fulc4302
    @fulc4302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @haileyrafferty2372
    @haileyrafferty2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are like my obsession.

  • @monikakamila
    @monikakamila 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi

  • @steevoridgeline
    @steevoridgeline 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🏳️‍🌈❤️🎖

  • @roshellwilliams6463
    @roshellwilliams6463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LEMON IS YOUR BEST FRIEND???

  • @kazisultana3335
    @kazisultana3335 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I see your videos from Bangladesh I Like those very much 😃😃

  • @davidkey9940
    @davidkey9940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good

  • @jahneilrowe2816
    @jahneilrowe2816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @donnievincent5971
    @donnievincent5971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    salute to you both

  • @osarenokeseadesagbon
    @osarenokeseadesagbon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💜💙💚

  • @angelicamoreno80
    @angelicamoreno80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Llegue tarde, pero aquí estoy.

  • @etso777
    @etso777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ♥️🌈♥️🌈♥️

  • @Once.A.Violet
    @Once.A.Violet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely representation for me
    N Yesss omg , that experience when girls thought I was gonna try to fool around with them because I was (am) bisexual but also just a friendly woman.
    Ugh 🙄 so annoying , I wanted to be like … 👀 ew
    But 🤷🏽‍♀️ lol
    Unfortunately my coming out story was because I cheated on my then bf with my ex girlfriend.
    Side bar : He’s married with a kid now, to this girl that I KNEW he liked when we were younger
    ☕️ 🐸 his sister tell me all the tea
    N my ex’s boyfriend is threatened by me 🤣. Glad I still have big d** energy

  • @meaghanam1
    @meaghanam1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Met my first girlfriend on tumblr lol

  • @alexiaanddan
    @alexiaanddan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ask JESUS to come into yr heart to be saved!!! Say u know that he died for yr sins and rose on the third day!!! To give u everlasting life!!! N repent

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💜💜

  • @kazisultana3335
    @kazisultana3335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi