8 Signs You're Way Smarter Than People Around
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2018
- What being smart means. Intelligence is something rather different from being good at exams or memorizing history books by heart. And if you have just a couple of friends, if you frequently seem lonely, or if you’re a perfectionist, the chances are high that you’re simply smarter than the people who surround you.
TIMESTAMPS:
You enjoy loneliness 1:10
You feel pressured 4:07
You often daydream 4:53
You're open-minded 5:40
Your self-control is exceptional 6:24
Your indecisiveness stems from overanalyzing 7:13
You often feel dissatisfied or unhappy 7:55
You connect concepts that seem unrelated 8:54
#smartpeople #introvert #self-control
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SUMMARY:
- If you or other people in your life prefer being alone, this doesn't necessarily mean loneliness. Sometimes it's just a sign of greater intelligence.
- Smart people often see and realize things that the people around them can't comprehend. That's why they know for sure where their life should head.
- Daydreaming might not be a distracting habit but a sign of high intelligence. In their study, psychologists from the Georgia Institute of Technology drew a connection between daydreaming and the efficiency and strength of a person's brain.
- Highly intelligent people never close themselves off if they come across new ideas or unusual opportunities. They tend to look for alternative solutions and consider the views of other people.
- Another thing that makes smart people stand out in a crowd is their ability to overcome impulsiveness. They tend to plan their actions, clarify their goals, explore different strategies, and think about consequences.
- Highly intelligent people need to know all the pros and cons before they make a decision. But at the same time, the more they analyze, the less likely they are to act.
- For some smart people, their intelligence turns out to be a curse. They simply don't fit in and sometimes wonder about the truthfulness of the expression “ignorance is bliss.”
- Smart people can see patterns nobody else pays attention to. This happens due to their ability to draw parallels.
#smartpeople #confident #introvert
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Hey there! Which of those statements do you agree or disagree with?
This doesn't apply to a person who has anxiety 😶
#8 Making Friends Makes You Genius!
Hi
I found 6 of the 7 things related to me. Thanks for the video. I always thought that I'm mad when I over analyse and day dreaming and finding more connections among things is what now reveals with evidence that I'm smart too. Thank you so much :) for the evidences and the feeling of smartness for me :)
Idk
"Are you ever lonely?"
-"Yeah, but only when I'm around people"...
I know that feels bro
Lol for real!
the more people i meet, the more i like dogs
I feel u
@@brodieroomojo Yea same, dogs got loyalty
Introverts unite! (Separately, in your own homes of course) 😁
Interior of the design..
Yapp
Lol
Bad spellers of the world, untie!
I'm a somewhat functional introvert. Hi. :)
Honestly, being smart feels like arguing with yourself, because of expectation of people around you
Cant agree more even tho you would not think about others perceptions if you could
Yes, I concur. Whenever you find yourself with your thoughts you just start arguing and criticizing yourself.
Yes, i am so agree
Introverts relate
Smart + Psychology = smart Extroverts (Me : Trilingual)
Truly intelligent people will not tell other people that they are intelligent. They know it is not wise to boast about themselves or what they have.
Exactly luv, I don't feel the need to care of other peoples opinion of me!
ADHD has entered the chat
They also don't brag about they're intelligence, cause they know just how much they have left to learn
Very true! For example, my dad is an electrical engineer. He has worked at Boeing, Motorola, Texas Instruments, and currently, works for another Tier one company. (Their main customer is Apple.) Anyways, he and the majority of his colleagues are all super laid back and humble. One thing I have noticed about most truly successful people is that they don't have anything to prove and never brag, correct, or talk down to others. Also, they pursued something they truly enjoyed so they love to work.
EXACTLY.
"Logic can get you from A to B
Imagination can take you everywhere"
-Albert Einstein
yes...😊
Of course you are right.
Thanks God you quote this in this video! I tottaly agreeeee!
Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living. -Albert Einstein
Wow! Thanks for collecting it and telling it to us
So, Introverts are smart, gotcha. Here's a theory; Maybe smart people don't like to socialize much because it's no fun hanging out with dummies.
so true
I can't handle people. Smart people stay away from 'the masses' and rightfully so. Any time I am forced to integrate with humanity, I become so stressed I lose all patience and have to fight to keep any level of social acceptance about myself. If people weren't so insanely inept, knew how to drive and had some modicum of respect for others instead of being self-centered me me me's, this world might be a little easier to handle.
@@WAAOF1 The more often you interact with people the easier it become to do so. Also there are plenty of books, articles and videos about human interaction which help dramatically. So it's like skill you can upgrade
@@gleed7502 No thanks. As soon as the gig I have is done, it's back to the country for me. I can't see any logic in learning to become comfortable with constant agitation.
I'm guessing by that phrasing that you're a teenager who hasn't been punched yet.
Narrator: You often daydream
Me: " IM A GENIUS!!!!!!!"
SAME
It's so true though.
Every time I'm doing easy tasks my mind wanders off. But as soon as I get a big problem I get fired up completely and can't let it go until it's solved. In addition I'll never settle with the fix, I need to know the cause of it as well.
After that I'm able to let it go.
me too
always
Me too
same
I'm not particularly intelligent, it's just that the world around me has gotten so ignorant in the past few decades. I didn't pass over a bar; the bar just got so low that you can almost trip over it.
Ignorance doesn’t exist. Just the illusion of it. There is only data and how you respond to it.
@@brentthomasaustin woah , slow down Socrates
@@brentthomasaustin It is the "not knowing", of the data that generates the Ignorance. Ignorance is not an illusion.
@@brentthomasaustin That's a Vedic/Buddhist approach. Another Vedic/Buddhist approach, I guess, is there's only emptiness.
Idiocracy
I believe when you're getting older, youre much more enjoying being alone because you have this realization that you dont need to depend on those people around you
Very true
Period sis
Yup
Word.
Im 11 i love being by myself
Introverts!
We're here
We're uncomfortable
And we want to go home!.
I am introvert
Am too
@@aadanaadan9109 good
what is this conversation
Back to kpax?
So I'm a depressed indecisive loner because I'm smart. Cool.
Make a choice to dominate every facet of your life..... Use all the means you've to get what you want.... It is such a rush..... Unleashing... But first you've to get rid of fear of failure
I was gonna say lets be friends, but I don't know how long that would last since I have almost all these characteristics.
I'm a loner too. I dislike being surrounded. The less we are the better. Greetings from a Saturnian!
@@AmanSharma-jy7lw me: that sounds great.
Also me: don't tell me what to do 😂🤷🏽♀️
@@kaeyravelez i would've the same reaction :3
I’m not gonna lie. I always delete the useless messages, and never let my email be full.
Same
@Gemma Dann I hardly read them because i just read the important parts of the emails although I’d rather hear their voice because that’s what your voice is for, right?
Exactly but I don’t check my email often
sounds like OCD..
"Why are you always by yourself?"
"I prefer intelligent company."
😂😂
As the saying goes, better to be alone than in bad company.
Nobody around me is wise and it makes me mad
Like omg right
And apparently it's bad to say it out loud
Sign 9- they don't watch videos saying what smart people do
Why is that?
So that counts you out.
That comments speaks for it self. Can ya here it?
I think a lot of the signs are relative. Humans are a mystery and they never really figure us out!
These comments show the intellect on this particular video, nice job people.😁
There's power in being alone. You get to learn the true self.
I can relate so much to this.
my words & understanding of the world often offends people.
You do know it can go both ways right
TIMESTAMPS:
You enjoy loneliness 1:10
You feel pressured 4:07
You often daydream 4:53
You're open-minded 5:40
Your self-control is exceptional 6:24
Your indecisiveness stems from overanalyzing 7:13
You often feel dissatisfied or unhappy 7:55
You connect concepts that seem unrelated 8:54
BRIGHT SIDE thank yo I didn’t have to watch the video 😂😂
Which software do you guys for your audio ? @_@ Is it a TTS ?
I have fun being with others but it is draining and I often feel worse afterwards.
Hey bright side i need an answer a question...Why n how crying is a sign of strenght n not weakness?...kindly explain this through a video
was hoping to see the elaboration of the video preview/title screen "Ordinary people vs smart ones on unread email and message"; kinda obvious but was hoping to get the verbal confirmation.
It's better to be alone than in a bad company...
Liam hari 😂true
The only bad company I was happy to be in was when I played Battlefield Bad Company 2
I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than be surrounded by a bunch of people just pretending to be my friend
I feel the same
I find communication and inability to comprehend what I am saying is the biggest challenge...because people will swear they understand...and yet so painfully they do not.
They hear your words but somehow they keep building the wrong pictures with them, even when you're precise with your language, it feels like it has the opposite result in the end.
It very much reminds me of the story of Tantalus, except with social interactions instead of food and water...And that is a far better analogy than used in video for strange connections intelligent people make between seemingly unrelated things.
Or another way to put it is...I feel like a dog in a society of wolves...genetically same species yet vastly different and not very compatible socially.
im 34, and as of this time in my life, I feel that most of what i have gained came through my own efforts. I view socializing as a game, a sort of dance we play to appease one another, as opposed to actually accomplishing a meaningful goal.
You just shared a very popular philosophy. Thank you.
That’s deep
@@step938
the truth hits. you got nobody in this world except yourself and g-d.
@@matisyahup613 I would say close family also.
@Matthew Poreda @"I view socializing as a game, a sort of dance we play to appease one another, as opposed to actually accomplishing a meaningful goal. "
This is so true. I agree with you 100%
This video makes me feel proud to be an introvert-
I’ve been trying to socialize like others but it’s hard
I am a extroverted Intovert, I am very social yet I am also introverted, 20 years of wedding photography brought me out of my shell and now I live both lives its wild .
No one wants or is happier alone, but being with 'common' people drains my energy and thus being alone is the better alternative then being with you.
I believe there just at more one with themselve
When I go to school and many people talked to me
It drains my energy and make me fall asleep during class and other time even lunch time
They are annoying to me
@Geoffrey Harris Neither do i
'Common' people?
@@cadencev5572 Non empaths...
Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.
Eleanor Roosevelt
@William H. Bonnie It depends of what you enjoy the most I guess ;)
I thought that was a quote from Socrates. I may be wrong but I'm like 90% sure
@@mrpropercrumpets Socrates is a bit like Confucius: a lot of quotes are mistakenly assigned to them
@@realsteverioux
That's incorrect attribution. The adage has numerous origins; ultimately taking its most popular form from Charles Stewart's 1901 autobiography quoting history scholar Henry Thomas Buckle: "Men and women range themselves into three classes or orders of intelligence; you can tell the lowest class by their habit of always talking about persons; the next by the fact that their habit is always to converse about things; the highest by their preference for the discussion of ideas."
After decades of social circulation, it was arbitrarily ascribed to Eleanor Roosevelt by a Kansas newspaper in 1987.
Henry Thomas Buckle is the earliest recorded originator of the whole phrase.
Fitting. An aristocrat isn't any more wise than an academic is bureaucratic.
So true...
Alone, yes. Lonely, no. I find comfort in my own thoughts, and sharing a conversation with most people leaves me with nothing gained but they always walk away with something. That's okay, I'm cool with that, I've learned to accept my social environment and be content.
No matter how much a person knows... understanding there are still many things still to learn, is a very valuable lesson.
I prefer to stay alone. Don't know about smartness and all. Socialisation is exhausting.
Me too!
True
Too much tho
Yep
We are all smart..loneliness is precious!
I see, so I'm not a depressed introvert, I'm just really smart
You got it.
I hope you win a noble price
@New Vorld Sounds you probably don't have friends then
@New Vorld Sounds then you have about 2 or 3 friends just like me
The rest are just acquaintances
Also I can totally tell you're liking your own comments
@New Vorld Sounds it makes you look arrogant
When all of these apply to you and you score a C in your exams
Book smarts/study skills have zero to do with wisdom/intelligence. I have ADD/ADHD and I typically only do excellent in university in classes that I am interested in. I am a lifelong student and take all sorts of classes with no clear end goal except for History which I hope to get a PhD in. It takes me longer to get it because I have a disability that takes constant treatments /hospitalizations. I have met the wisest intelligent people who have little to no formal schooling, people who are homeless and/or addicts, etc and not around other academics such as when I was a teacher and a TA at a university.
I got a c and a b after 5 years of getting all A and A+
Do not fear being different, be afraid of being the same.
Here’s another sign that I notice about intelligence and smarter people:
Intelligent people often understate or don’t even acknowledge their own intelligence, while less intelligent people often try to inject their knowledge where its not needed or wanted.
GoPhish The Dunning-Kruger effect
GoPhish, You got that stuff right !
Knowing you don't know everything makes you want to learn more of it.
Correct
This is actually not entirely true. People that score higher in openness to experience (the personality trait with the highest correlation to intelligence) tend to rate themselves and their ideas as more intelligent than average. They may doubt themselves at times it acknowledge shortcomings, but they generally tend to think of themselves as intelligent. At any rate, this is one of the problems in psychology. So much of this research is not replicable and many different findings seemingly contradict other findings. I wouldn't completely disregard it, but I'd take some of this research with a grain of salt
The things that i do...
1. Try to do something new evryday...its actualky interesting.
2. Yes i want to stay alone.
3. Im not social at all.
4. I enjoy time by writing my dairy n enjoying the nature.
5. I generally try not to waste any time.
@rusc what u think dear my moto is not to say that im smart😂
@@rutujagawale9687 i was like you but the time changed me🙂
What r those new things the you try everyday that are out of your routine if u do have one
I’m so grateful for videos like these. Thank you for the insight. I’ve been struggling with this feeling of loneliness and never being seen or heard. Lack of support makes it worse.
It's not that we love being alone, we simply don't get people who can understand us and those who can engage us in a conversation worth joining
They laugh at me because I am different...I laugh at them cuz they all are the same....
I believe those who don't acknowledge themselves are bound to fail.....
@New Vorld Sounds That's what I believe...leaders don't stand in crowd.....they stand alone to stand apart....
Everyone is different.
@New Vorld Sounds and what qualifies as extremely unique?
@@cadencev5572 if everyone is different then why they say "birds of a feather flock together"...every bird is different but of the same kind!! I am talking about doing something different when everyone is engrossed in a common thing....I like to be different...I'm not a sheep...I am a Jaguar!!!!
@New Vorld Sounds You don't have to change the world to qualify as someone unique. Being unique isn't something tied to your achievements or your successes, it's something granted to everyone. And leaders don't have to be different. They have to serve their followers, and they have to respect the individuality of each one. Leaders who claim to be unique are separating themselves from the people they lead. They're boasting their superiority in an attempt to make their followers feel inferior and common because they lack the "uniqueness" that only they possess. To be a true leader, you have to realize that everyone is different, and that you are not special. One of the qualities a leader should possess is humility. Knowing your weaknesses is the first step to changing them. Every single person is just as unique as you are, even if they've done nothing important with their lives. A leader is chosen by his people. And people are not mindless drones who lack individuality. They'll only choose a leader who puts the people first and himself second. This means stepping down from the pedestal you've created for yourself because you've somehow gotten the idea that people who don't strive for success, are inferior and common.
Being highly humorous & sarcastic is also a vital sign of high IQ.
True sir, and to top that I actually top school and have started going out to parties with guys and girls;) ladies Man that's what I am, the rest of you can just be my fam...
That’s what i want of an high IQ. humorous is a sign of high intelligence.
Sarcastic means
Spot on!
"if they does something that does not contribute to their success and well being, they feel that they're failing"
ouch! i felt attacked..😶
This explains me so much until I predicted two things listed in the video. Great job man. I enjoyed you taking notice. I don't hear many people observe this way.
It is extremely easy for me to realise I am more intelligent than others around me. There is never anybody around me. Thus, I must be the smartest and the dumbest person in the immediate area.
Indrid Cold 😂😂🤣🤣
Awesome answer. Very introspective.
Not necessarily true. I am what is called an Introvert. I spend most of my time alone and appreciate my alone time greatly. I only voice my opinion when I think it is needed. Like now. I work in the trucking business and while I'm driving, my mind is calculating very different scenarios. I find that I can drive long distances and still maintain my mental health. I am a perfectionist when it comes to certain aspects of my job too. When I'm alone and I get bored, I usually tend to think of new ideas I can put into motion to make my life better. I socialize very little and can't really stand "small talk." If you want to talk, have a reason to talk. Just because I haven't seen you in 20 years or more doesn't mean we have to talk. If that much time is long gone, maybe there was a reason we didn't talk at all.
Probably a body odor issue.
Same here
I think it’s also intelligent to recognize when you’re over analyzing, and when to stop, and start the action.
Over analyzing is not really a thing when it comes to truly intelligent people. They have the ability to dive deeper in to things on a level that most can't, thus making it seem like they are over analyzing and over complicating things to others.
That's better said than done. Without properly analyzing anything it seems risky to start the action
Yes i guess
Zahra Pirani it goes against our very nature
A workable solution in time is better than a perfect solution too late.
Sometimes when I'm bored my mind creates a VR game world
Me i create movies in my virtual world.. the greatest moves never produced by hollywood
You too huh? It's kind of a security blanket for me, like I'm hanging out with celebrities or something. No I'm not delusional, I just fantasize too much. 😂
My mind does all these when I’m alone too.😱
Okay thank you for the confidence , I really agree with number 2
Being alone doesn't mean you are lonely,it means you have time to create something and to be smart!
true bro, you changed my life. wanna make out?
And yet they spend most of time playing video games
@Jonathan Neufeld yeah but that is minority
I live alone by choice, but I'm not lonely.
Or you could be lonely.
The truth is the more smarter you are the more unhappy and lonelier you tend to be.... such is life 🤷🏻♂️
Can't use "more smarter" together
Because your mind attracts many more thoughts than the average person. But some of those thoughts may cause you to over-analyze things which can bring unhappiness.
Except for the smart people who are smart enough to study and then understand happiness. Yeah, they are smart AND happy.
That's because life is a conundrum
Úr right there
I have figured all these features within me. Thanks for making this video.
There is a difference between being introvert and needing some alone times to regroup and clarify ur thoughts, aims and creative dreams.
I like it when society encourages introverts for being who they are.
HAH, good one!
There should be a balance, time for thinking, and time for action
Alex Takahashi so if you want to approach to something, test the waters first and know everything there is to know about that thing, know the alternatives, then go for it
Society usually doesn't understand introverts
Nice joke
A fool hangs around people to block out the silence in his mind - Keon
That is really profound, and a genius hangs around people to get rest from the thoughts, ideas and constant thinking
Who is keon?
@@darrenmcneil9721 me.
@@relax5367 ha thats my name two
Hmmm this is good
My IQ has been tested to be in the high 140's and I have every single one of these characteristics, in a major way. It's actually not fun.
Only if you let it drain you my dude
I have an IQ in the high 140s as well (148 +- 5), but you gotta make the most of the gift you have ;)
If you are really smart enough.. you don't have to prove yourself.. you overcame insecurities.. telling everyone that you are smart shows how insecure you are.. and a boring and waste of time. This is pointless... it doesn't really matter if everyone here on TH-cam worships you for your intelligence it only matter if.. they follow you a subscribers and you earn money from it.
Are you sure you did an official one from from a university for example(which I did and got 136)
Lies!
@Strong Dream Smart people don't say it. Also he probably didn't take an official one like From a university.
IQ measurements vary with age and level of education and many people I know In an official set up will barely go past 129.
Most folks lie btw 85 - 114 ( average intelligence)
Then a rare minimum go past 115 - 129 (very bright and above average intelligence). Nobody Crosses here in a university IQ test 👆
130 - 144 is moderately gifted
145 - 159 is highly gifted
160 - 179 is exceptionally gifted
180 and above is a genius
I looove and enjoy my own company. Gives me less distractions, and more time to focus on important matters in detail.
For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow.
Ecclesiastes 1:18
smart people don't quote the bible
illuminOz I see a pattern here 🤔
Alicia Kayla oh the things you think you know...
@@aliciakayla9264 There are things you can learn from the bible. The book may be outdated, but it is still a book of knowledge. This book is what helped people break from the dark ages so I would say there are some intellectual gleanings you can get from it. And the statement you just condemned, just think about what it is saying and you will see the truth of it. Just so you know I am not religious.
@@jacksparrow3025 nothing in the bible is wisdom at least nothing originally belonging exclusively to the bible if anything it epitomizes the dark ages
TRUTH! Thanks for the video.
I could say that there is a lotta of truth in this one! thanks for the info, and interesting video :)
1 sign you’re smarter than people around you: you don’t take these TH-cam lists that constantly say you’re a genius seriously.
And you start ignoring the video and read the comments instead.
Dallas V I thought that was just what everyone did?
@@feartheghus well, you're the self proclaimed genius.
Dallas V how? When did I ever call myself a genius?
Being smart is observing everything, and learning.
Ignoring this kind of video won't help you learn anything.
Who regrets after meeting people....🙄..or is it just me??
Can you imagine my regrets at re-meeting an old acquaintance? How do you get rid of her quickly? Loan her $10 after 39 years and watch her not return your call. That was funny.
Don't regret things. Take the experience as a usefull thing and see how now you have knowledge of what you don't agree with. Everything is knowledge and a chance to grow on top of the bad encounter. Keep your mind fresh and believe in yourself.
Thats why we need to be careful who we talk to and who we invite in our life😊❤️
I hhavve regretted it many times. Have been forced to make friends by schools and such. Now I know it was not worth it in the end. Have Had friends back stab me, betray me, use me... I feel so much more peaceful in my own company.
I am gettimg to think that maybe it's me that is wrong somehow because I can't tolerate people. I want to, sometimes I want to share what I think is beautiful, but no one gets me, so I try to be like them and feel ashame of betraying myself.
Wow this video just explains my whole personality everything eye opening
Bright Side - You're Way Smarter Than People Around
People around me - watching this video and hearing the same thing
I talk to myself because it's the only way to have an intelligent conversation :)
And me too...
People kinda think I'm crazy lol
@@extremeboi7234, It's an old joke--there are lots of crazy people LOL
Marie Smith it means your brain can’t process his own thoughts
@@JayR305TheChosenOne, it's an old joke, genius.
Marie Smith yup :)
*I AM ULTRA - GENIUS , 0 FRIEND REQUEST, 0 MESSAGES, 0 NOTIFICATION*
Always a loner lol
Me too mate lol
*HAHA I THOUGHT I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO IS ALONE AND OTHER PEOPLE OR FOREIGNERS HAVE LOTS OF FRIENDS LOL*
I have -1 friends.
same here lol
ill be ur friend
A Beautiful Mind is the perfect description to this
Thanks Bright Side！Now everything's clear to me😊
This is not really signs of what people consider “intelligent”. They just exercise their brain more mentally by thinking more, they are just more thoughtful.
Everyone clicked on this video hoping they would get justification for how smart they are... Myself included :)
So true, sounds practical and easy to connect with
It definitely depends on what area one's highest intelligence or innate talents lies. Some incredibly smart people like having company around, just not a whole bunch of people and they usually prefer to have only a couple or so close friends. Also, people with higher than average or extremely high intelligence prefer to have meaningful conversations over idle chit-chat.
Im Introvert. I know that I am genius in school I finished my study in Harvard (neuro psychology) I survived alone without friend without facebook. Just by my self but my problem is im already 32 years old and I dont even have a boyfriend or Husband. Im too shy to talk with my crush....
I think it is time for you to open up with other people just a suggestion hehe
:) can understand but at times u need to talk to people change urself from introvert to ambivert. Many introverts dont realize their power but they realize their value whej they actually surprise others who actually underestimated them
I'm currently accepting applications if you're interested jk
Hm just stay As you are if you have fate one day you will find a partner who like your personality
From what you say, I already like your personality
To pretend to be less smart to fit in a group....that hit me in another level and I cried....it’s really hard.
I’ve never pretended to be ‘dumber’ to fit in. If I can’t be myself around people they’re not worth hanging out with.
Its really annoying to pretend between friends and let them feel they are smarter than us. Just to not hurt them 😕
Someone's intelligence doesn't relate to their personality.
Or does it?
It does if they are allowed to express it at the first place
I never understood the need to have friends or to have plans on weekends...as in, having a social life. I like to constantly learn new things on a daily basis and prefer being alone and do my multitask without external distractions.
I tend to stay away from crowded environments, noises and people talking too loud makes me dizzy! 😲
Smash that like button if you agree! 😁
*GroovyMotion* I completely agree!
Same 😢😁
GroovyMotion You are my soul mate brother ✋,I do the same.
Same here
@MMAbadboy I lost many friends because of this!
You guys are not getting the point. The fact that you have a few or no friends at all, do not make you a genius. Socially inept people are not intelligent. What makes one intelligent is if one prefers to be alone rather than to socialize on a superficial level. Smart people know how to socialize, build networks and expand their contacts to further their ventures. But they frown upon useless, meaningless chatter, like "duh...what's you favorite sports team, or what's your sign...etc.". They would rather talk about history, politics, the stock market, real estate, art and culture in general (yeah, music and movies too). If they feel that certain people bring them down, they would rather stay at home, read, search the net, or even binge watch tv series alone, rather than adhere to the basic social paradigm.
vf1rj You know what your talking about. Most people are so boring, it's usually just gossip or analyzing some illogical thing someone told you.
Not really sure but those who are quiet or unsocial tend to think a lot and they actually wanted to socialize
@@hui1477 yes. If deep down they want to socialize but are prevented because of their own insecurities, then what makes them intelligent? Social ineptitude is not a sign of intelligence. Even scientist like Albert Einstein used to socialize.
@Gentile Uprising or they don't brag because they have nothing to brag about.
But you're not really getting my point. The fact that one person doesn't have friends do not make them intelligent. That's my main point. Do not deviate from that.
I am not talking about poilitics in general. I enumerated various worthwhile topics that intelligent people are into, not just politics. And it's a stretch to relate that to the dirty world of politicians. Just because one is interested in politics doesn't mean they are corrupt politicians. You're reaching.
vf1rj its not always because of insecurity that people spend most of the time alone. In my instance i dont really like to socialise because i see the pretentiousness within everday encounters with people. Id prefer to have honest time with myself than spend dishonest time with pretentious people.
Thanks for your interesting program 🙏🌹
I relate to all of these. I would also like to commend you for your use of sashimi, instead of calling it sushi. Thank you for that!
Everyone in the comments trying to look smart.
Lol fax
maybe because they are.
biscuits no they’re not
minds I mean some are some aren’t. Smart is a relative term
LOL!!!
You missed a crucial one:
Smart people can admit to not knowing something.
That's wisdom
That’s the truth, I know what I’m good at and what I need to work on. I’m never afraid to ask for help or when to let go.
This has more to do with pride than intelligence.
True...... Smart is the person that learns from his mistakes but wise is the person that learns from the mistakes of others - 😎
That's easy. :-)
I cant beleive that everything that you said représentes me. Especialy the last one. I always make connections with everything...
Growing up, people would make me feel bad because I do not socialize and don't have a lot of friends. But I really enjoy being alone and it makes me very creative and productive. I would also lose my mind when I make small mistakes to things I'm really focused on. I don't know if that makes me smarter.
If you are reading this, I want you to know that you are so special and so so strong, and in the best way! Embrace it. 😍
Love from a small Australian TH-camr! 🐻
Thats the sweetest comment same to you dear and all who reads your comment
I sub you 😸
Thanks i needed that
No i'm ordinary. Ordinary rules!
Step 1: Stop reading comments while watching the video
Lol
You got me😂
hahahaha always do so!
Earl u do it because u knoww....
Busted......d
We can also read comments and watch the video at the same time.
I agree with the content and trust me by the time I have reached this site, I rate myself intelligent....so may of the things directly apply to me. most especially I most times prefer to be alone, can daydream, I feel pressured and worry a lot.
Spot on my friend! Big picture thinking annoys others.
Smart people dont have to tell people they're smart, confident people don't go begging for attention, and stinky people dont know they stink.
You clearly on the bright side.. for sure you above average
sign #1:
you don't watch BRIGHT SIDE
This channel's aim is to make people feel good about themselves (a scam). No one can ever fully know the human mind nor the heart.
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If u r homeless, u r smart
Diana cant say thats a bad thing tho
CORRECT.
I try to balance being with people and being by myself. If an artistic idea comes to my mind, I need to exclude myself from the group to attend with my idea so that I don't forget it. Other than that, I like being around people who know what they're talking about and who knows their stuff. I like educated people because that's how I learn. I don't like people who don't like to read, or people who think they know it all. I use my intelligence to help and inspire people. I love learning different things even if I don't get it at first. I don't like the word "genius" because that word is too far of a stretch for me but I just have my own ways of solving problems and taking on difficult challenges. The world is my school and I will never stop learning and growing.
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“Don’t you ever get lonely?”
“No. I have a dog”
I have myself.
A shitting mutt that stinks and wrecks things around. No thank you. I enjoy my solitude and tidy environments.
@@MerlinTheCommenter ok boomer :)
I have my boa constrictor
@@MerlinTheCommenter u don't have a dog so u don't even know what are you talking about .
I like to be alone. Better thinking to me.
Same here
Wow guys you're all sooo cool you want to be different from other people so you can seem smarter or more unique but in reality youre just an ordinary Joe that desires attention
Me too
Actually I'm already lonely haha!
Thanks for explaining me this well 😁 God bless you
I related to a lot in this video!Totally shocked to see that perhaps I have a higher level of intelligence than I thought.Thank you.
Often I have said that I can see why it’s hard for people to live in this world because it is so full of people who are uninformed, or just not smart enough to know what they don’t know. The Dunning Kruger effect and the people around me makes my life insane. I can only imagine how someone like Einstein filled around everyone else.
"That is true people the smarter people don't clout on social media, and keep it low key, with that being said, ima slip back in the cut rite quick..."
95% people here: yeah im genius but they dont know
And 99,9% can't understand the difference between "smart" and "genius".
@Youkimu 😅😐feeling smart not genius....its not a verb.... You can't say I am feeling genius!!!
@2muchtimewidnuttin2do yeah I know that's why I said it's not a verb
That's basically me but i don't enjoy loneliness while I love being alone.
Everyone who watched this video 100% thinking "so, I'm not weird but smarter than others".. that is what I feel right now... thank you bright side, u really brighten up my life 😁
"I am as smart as to know that I am not so smart" - Dan Lok, but we know he stole this quote
oof
Dan Lok? You mean ancient greek philosopher Socrates right? Dan Lok, another modern clown who knows how to manipulate people...
@@kotsiospyrou let's be honest, most smart people are guilty of that😛
I don’t get it
@@kotsiospyrou yeah, they are all just fakers
The depression bit is quite real. Not meeting your own standards or timelines causes a kind of rage that no one else can understand. Wasting time on tasks that require no thought or ingenuity often causes overthinking and daydreaming.
There is few things better than hanging with people that like you and make you laugh. That said I feel like I have to pretend to be ignorant about things and talk about things that are very superficial. When I find a friend or gf who I can talk about sophisticated subjects with its so enjoyable and if they are funny on top I am in heaven.
I actually feel at peace and I can think straighter when I'm alone. But I'm really happy if my family and friends are around me.
I'm completely relaxed around my family and I will seek their company. Being with my friends is fun, but it does take more energy. Being around other people is just stressful.
Now everyone will be like, “ Oh my god this is soo me”
indeed
It shows that you realy know ur self better and u know how to make ur self best
syed ali271994 this is really me though
OMG this is sooo me !
You ain't wrong
9:06
Me, an intellectual: *They’re both food*
As a teenager I always enjoy being alone at home..when my parents left me at home..I was burning my mind positively.
It's heavens when you're alone!