The fact that Sheldon can replay that moment over and over and over and choses different responses, it was the only way he could see his dad one last time
I do the same a lot of times when I think about my dad I think about the interactions I had in his last moments with him and all other interactions and think how I could be a better son done things better said things better. I guess is a normal thing to do.
And the last time he replays this moment in his head he asked if he could join his dad. It’s not mentioned but in this one it was clear that he wanted to join so he could save his dad.
And that is why Georgie will always be my favourite he immediately went into taking care of the things that everybody else would’ve normally forgotten… he said aside his grief to take care of his family
It is admirable and amazing he took the reins so quickly. But throwing yourself into work and trying to take care of others is a way a lot of people use to avoid thinking about their own pain and suffering
@danatedawg1018 and Sheldon ran to California caring only about himself as usual. He couldn't even say goodbye to him before they closed his coffin. Not being able to speak to the church is one thing, but to say nothing before you're never going to see yiur father again was an all time low for Sheldon.
Normally, I don't like Sheldon but I think going far away is also a way to deal with grief, the atmosphere at the house became mostly unbearable and I bet that if Missy could, she would've gone too@@Surfer041
Seeing Missy lash out at Sheldon really stung because at the end of the day, he may not have emotionally showed it but he was hurting as much as everyone else was.
@@christina2763 Yes, I had hoped there will be a scene in S7 where Missy & Sheldon will have a heart to heart & Missy will apologize to Sheldon for all her actions - 1) Hanging up when Sheldon called from Germany 2) Dumping the device with which they used to communicate although Sheldon has apologized for snitching on her etc., but none of that happened. Considering the dynamics between Missy & Sheldon till early S6 & TBBT, it was obvious that the twins loved each other despite their on the surface fights / bullying. However, I don't understand why the writers changed this dramatically since end of S6. It seemed Missy started hating Sheldon suddenly for some reason.
Interesting to see how Sheldon plays that moment over and over in his head, slowly becoming more honest with his feelings each time and what he wishes he would've said to George.
I’d like to add that his feelings and the science behind alternate realities branching off may comfort him because he could, in theory, have actually said all these other things to his father. If he envisions them and considers them as a possibility than the theory of alternate realities would prove that in some reality, some other timeline, he DID actually say those things and that could be a huge comfort to him.
My father passed while I was at work a few months back and I did the same thing for weeks. What if this, what if that. Nobody expects a mundane departure to potentially be the last time you see that person alive and come home to find their body..
Was in a similar place few years ago when my dad passed. The last conversation I had with him was on phone, had to play that moment over and over again and how I would have responded more affectionately.
When my mom died, I kept reflecting about the last time I saw her. I dropped her off at the airport. Normally I leave quickly to avoid rush hour traffic. Yet I paused and looked over to where she had been. A part of me wanted to suddenly rush after her to give her another hug. But I just left. I think instinctually I knew this would be my last moment with her but I ignored it. It’s left me with no small amounts of regrets.
Sheldon playing the tape back in his mind. He is broken that his dad is gone but he’s having trouble processing it. All he can do is just think of things he wished he told George before his passing. 😢
I think it's also the fact that he still believes that his dad had cheated on his mom, that's why he's not dealing with it. Also Sheldon never once had that conversation with Mary about it to this day.
My father passed while I was at work a few months back and I did the same thing for weeks. What if this, what if that. Nobody expects a mundane departure to potentially be the last time you see that person alive and come home to find their body.
the way George says "Bye Son" at 2:34 made me cry. It was done with that sense of he knows whats coming, and wanted Sheldon to know he will always be there with him.
Love Sheldon sticking to character, we know he's thinking of things he wished he said to George that morning but says more on it being alternate reality
Nun, es stimmt ja. Und weil er das, was er gerne gesagt hätte, nunmal nicht gesagt hat, käme es ihm wie eine Lüge vor. Dass er über alternative Realitäten nachdenkt abstrahiert davon- und das macht es ihm leichter, überhaupt etwas zu sagen
I lost my dad june 7th 2021. He walked out the door that morning for work and two hours later we got a knock on the door saying he was gone. He got me started on the Big Bang theory when I was 10 years old, and we were so happy when young Sheldon came out. I really wish he were here to watch the last episode with me. I really wish I weren’t in sheldons shoes replaying that last day I saw him walk out the door, wishing I could say what I truly wanted to. I just treated it like an ordinary day because thats usually how our worst days start. I have been, and always shall be your friend Douglas Chad Goodner. I love you. ❤️
My condolences for your father man losing a loved one is never easy and from your text i can see that he raised a good man who he had a good relationship with and that will never die. Again my condolences and I’ll pray for you
Loosing a parent is not easy. I’m older now - both parents deceased & 2 brothers gone. I miss them dearly, life goes on until one day it doesn’t, now it’s me & 1 brother & I hope I leave before him. But it’ll be whenever. Life has many twists & turns. GOD has us covered Amen 🙏
Yea I feel ya it’s not easy I lost my mom back in May 11 of 2022 I think of all the things I should’ve said to her when she was on life support and so no one told me anything so I thought she was gonna get better the nurses probably didn’t want to worry me so I told her you’ll be fine we can go home and watch Disney after this. And then she took my hand squeezed it then it became limp. And the last thing she said that I heard was she had told her friend to give something to me it was a Princess Leia plush I didn’t get till after a few months when she passed but she told that friend “get this for my daughter” she said my nicken instead of daughter but I do not want to put personal information on here. But I think about things I could’ve said and done like if I didn’t argue with her we could’ve had more time together and I hope she knows that I Love her and hope she’s well in heaven❤
He did. Some one had to take control. My cousin helped me when my dad died. My mom was a mess for the rest of her life. I had to have the back bone. It's tough place to be in. My cousin stepped in and helped again when my mom died. Of course my back stayed up. A teen son. A spouse. Brothers who did not live locally. I did my job. 😮 I thank my cousin for his help.
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@@nota113 He’s not taking Missy’s lashing out personally. He understands she’s grieving and hurt. We’ve all done things and said things out of hurt plenty of times.
0:16 Honestly, while that's not exactly a coping mechanism you'd encourage, it's still touching to see that she cared enough about George to grieve that much.
@@ecthox-1mork909 Facing the pain and accepting the loss is a lot healthier (even with alcohol) than deluding yourself into thinking that you haven't really lost anything at all because the dead guy is just sitting on a cloud living his best afterlife while you all suffer from his absence.
@@Triplebrc Sitting on a cloud? This shows me how you really have not read the Bible and therefore do not take it seriously. And even if I am wrong, what is so bad about having hope of seeing your loved ones again?
@@theballboyz898 It diminishes the time you spent with them, it messes up your priorities, twists your perception, you are diving into delusions instead of properly dealing with the loss. Of course I do not take a fantasy book seriously, no rational human being would, the thought of a heaven and hell, of any kind of eternal afterlife, is absurd and horrendous in so many ways. How often has religion been exposed as lying, how many religions have been there in world history, how often has the bible, the supposed word of god, been casually rewritten and changed to better fit the churches purpose, how come gods always are in need of money? Only adults still believing this nonsense are the ones who never applied any critical thinking.
4:30 Props to Billy. He asked politely, received negative replies in both occassions, didn't lash out or take it like a sore loser, continued to be there. Many idiots need to learn from Billy.
This hits home. Everyone morning I would wake up early to say "Good morning" to my grandmother before she head to work. One morning I decided to sleep in and didn't see her, that was the day she died at work...
I understand why Missy is upset, especially because sheldon can't / won't explain it, but in a way thinking about Wrath of Khan is kind of touching when you consider that it deals with the death of someone sheldon adores, and also spock is later brought back to life, which I'm sure sheldon wishes he could do for his dad
I don't think it can be said enough how brilliantly artistic the creators and writers of this show are. The 'alternate reality' sequence is exactly the replay of so many or our experiences, and yet the only time I've ever seen it depicted on screen. It chokes me up every time i see it, and it is the reason I'm on a Sheldon binge watching (i'm new to this amazing series; seeing the great finale makes me want to watch it all now).
Yeah Mary fell apart when her husband died for a while in a depression and Missy rebelled out of grief.. Georgie was a dumb teenager too back then but he matured so much character growth
It is nice to see that Sheldon was still shocked and saddened by his fathers passing. Him saying "Live Long and Prosper" to his dad was his way of saying I love you. And then to get that news that his dad is gone, we see him sort of stumble into the chair behind him when it's delivered Sure he didnt process the events in a way most would understand, so its ALSO understandable as to why Missy is pissed at him for seemingly not caring that their dad is gone.
I found my Father in the garage, two days after my 14th birthday. I was angry until I was 35. You see, I never got to tell my Dad I loved him as a man. When I was 35 I finally realized he knew. Today I am 72 and Dad is still with me in everything I do and everything I say and everything my children do and say. Not a bad legacy for a good man............
@@BrianBlaynolds Missy might've understood Sheldon, but she was dealing her own grief as well. She wasn't thinking straight, she wasn't considering how other people- especially someone like Sheldon- would process their grief.
Im sorry, but from missy's point of view sheldon isn't grieving. What he says about George's funeral only makes everyone more depressed. We can see that he is strugling but they don't and they think he just dosen't care.
It killed me when Sheldon thought of Spock and Kirk when Spock was dying because of radiation on the “Wrath Of Khan” And he said “you’ll always be my friend”, because I remember George pretended he was Kirk sometimes on the show as a way to comfort Sheldon when Sheldon was upset or scared or worried. So it was heartbreaking to see Sheldon think of that scene and relate it to his dad whom he looked up to like he was Kirk.
My dad passed away in 2021 due to covid and I fully understood what Sheldon was saying. We all express grief in different ways I for instance preferred to withdraw myself to cry whenever I missed him.
@@boredape1986gee man, sorry they didnt satisfy your needs. Its as if you are more valuable then the rest of the people who watch the show m. Just one person.
My grandfather loved this show. I am only 15 and live with my grandparents, now my grandparent non plural, aka grandmother. My biological parents have not been in the picture much, and when they were, they did nothing but screw up. I have lived with my grandparents (I refer to them as mom and dad) for 11 years now. My grandfather was an amazing supporter. I loved him so much and looked at him as a father, and he was. That’ll never change. Back in April, he woke up and couldn’t feel his right arm. He had a stroke. We went to the ER and they couldn’t figure out the cause. They sent him home on meds. He was 80 percent better when they sent him home with us. He went downhill. Went back to the ER a little less than a week later and found out that he had had another small bleed in his brain (a stroke). They said they thought it was his calcium level was too high. But then it went back to normal without them doing anything to help it do so. They started digging deeper and found colon cancer. It had metastasized since he had it, and they said if we started kemo and radiation treatment and therapy that we might have another couple of months with him to find out where things were, get a will set up, etc. That’s what we found out on a Wednesday. I realized later that that very first stroke that was three weeks before this was the indication that the cancer was at his brain and we just didn’t know. We never had any signs of cancer until that point. Wednesday evening is when we found this out. He was getting a port Thursday morning, starting radiation Friday, and kemo the following Monday . We got a phone call early Thursday morning at 4:13 that his health status had changed. He was supposed to be coming home Thursday… my grandmother called right back when she woke up because she barely missed the call. They said they had called the code… and asked us what we wanted to do. He told us, he wanted to be resuscitated ONE TIME, and if he didn’t come back, to let him go. He didn’t wanna live his life like that; in pain. So we honored his wishes and the death was called at 4:20 (he smoked cigarettes like a freight train, not weed, but I think now it is kinda funny looking back at it. lol.) He died May 9th. That Thursday morning he was supposed to get the port. It was unexpected, just like George’s passing. He never got to finish this show… But every time it airs; I go back in his bedroom and turn the TV on for him. Because, as a Christian, I believe he is watching over us from Upstairs. And I’m gonna make sure that my father finishes one of his favorite shows. Just like George, it was unexpected, and just like George, he was an amazing provider for us grandkids and an absolutely amazing soul with a heart made of pure GOLD. My grandmother took it hard just like all my family did. I cried yesterday, even a month later. When I vacuumed out his truck, this was the first time he didn’t get to tell me how good of a job I did. But I know he seen it up in heaven and said “Lord, that boy is amazing with that Dyson!” The next day when it started to hit me; I walked outside around 4:30. I seen a red bird on my patio and said “Lord, Jesus, if you’re really there; I just wanna be able to get close to that bird. “. And I did not move an inch, that bird flew over and landed right on my shoulder. That was my sign that my dad is up in heaven, and it is time to move on. So I will. I can do this. When the roll is called up yonder, I’ll be there dad. Wait on me. I’m coming, hopefully sooner than later. When my time has come, I will be there with you dad. And I will catch up with you in heaven. I sure do love and miss you sooooo much. You are my guardian angel. Until I see you again Dad, you give Heaven some Hell.
Thank you for sharing this with us. I am very sorry for your loss and I can empathize with your pain. It is normal to cry even after months, sometimes years. Don't hesitate to do so if you feel the need, please. It's hard to let someone you love so much go. I can understand that. But I'm glad you had that little interaction with that bird. I believe in signs like that too, I had a very similar experience with a butterfly. I understand from your words that your grandfather left you his heart of gold. I am sure that you will cherish it. And I'm equally sure that he really _is_ your guardian angel now. I wish you and your grandmother all the best and a long, healthy time together ahead.
I was Sheldon when I lost my nana (she raised me because my parents couldn’t) I replayed the day over and over the night before over and over, what I should have said, what I did say, her last words, my last words, the feeling I felt the night before towards her compared to the feeling when I found her, I also had a bit of Missy in me because I was pissed that all these people came around after she died, they all had something to say but couldn’t come say anything when she was alive, I was pissed at everyone and everything, I was more mad at myself that I didn’t know it was the last goodbye, the last I love you, the last laugh, the last giggle, the last time watching her drink coffee at night, the last time watching her drink her natural light with her straw at night before bed, the last time I’d get to give her a nose kiss, it was the last time…. And I’ll never take the ones for granted every again that day changed me…
Bruh, never was a fan of young sheldon, but the way they showed him rethinking what he could’ve said to his dad, hit right on the feels, the last time i saw my mom, i never knew it would be the last time, and after that I kept imagining what I could have said for the last time over and over
if I had received 1 dollar for every time I cried over the protagonist of a TV series, by now I could pay for the psychological support I obviously need
People are miss understanding Missy it's not that she can't understand Sheldon, she's just broken and processing loosing the one and only parent that really cared about her and her feelings. Her father was the only parent that really showed her love and affection. Her mother is a fanatic that only care about her twin brother and the ending just showed how broken a teenage girl that lost someone that was evrything for her is facing the lost. The mother can't be save she's an awful caracter from beginning to the end, good mother to Sheldon but a trashy wife and mother to the two other
Astute analysis. The mom's favoritism towards that kid went a long way towards him becoming the self-centered, with-no-self-control narcissistic a**hole Sheldon "is" today. People like that exist -- For example, look at Jim Parsons lol.
Still lashing out on Sheldon won’t fix things, Sheldon is also grieving and trying to process on what happened. Missy is not the only person that’s grieving, she needs to understand she’s not the only one in this. She was being extremely disrespectful to Sheldon saying she waits for his death is so disrespectful, from your own twin? If that was you hearing your own twin waiting for your death is hurtful.
When Sheldon was thinking of the thousand ways he could have said goodbye to his father, I remember the time when I was driving my dad to the hospital. He was unwell, with an oxygen saturation of 89, yet even then, he was telling me stories from his time in the Navy. It was 12 hours, 12 hours that I now recall I should have told him I love him, that I should have hugged him. In my mind, it repeats over and over. I, naive, thought he would make it through. He passed away on March 3, 2021. We were only informed over the phone. Those scenes made me remember how tough that moment is when you're told they're no longer there, when there was no goodbye.
“I can’t wait for yours” that is the worst thing you can hear from your twin sister. Missy doesn’t understand that this is hard for Sheldon. This is hard for everybody but hoping that Sheldon does is not the way to go. Missy should understand that lashing out and hating on your family will not bring George back. I think everyone learned not to disrespect their family because you never know if it’s the last words you’ll ever say to them
Agreed! When my grandfather died almost 12 years ago I didn't immediately cry. I finally started to cry for him almost 8 months later. The last time I ever saw him he went on a plane trip with my grandmother. I really loved him. Also when one of my dogs died I was completely in shock. My body was shaking. When I calmed down a little bit I started to cry
I'm not on anyone's side. But Missy is just a teenager, most teenagers don't know what they are saying or doing when they are emotional especially when they are grieving. I'm just saying that they are still dumb kids that aren't mature enough to cope with what is happening.
Believe it or not this very episode resonated with me after losing my grandfather recently, from the way Sheldon replayed his last moments with him involving not minding his father much-to his mother’s lashing out towards her kids for not wanting to get baptized or attend church heavily after that. This show did a good job highlighting the tension and different forms of grieving after the sudden death of a loved one..
"What is wrong with you our dad just died." Shit that line hits really hard for me. On one hand, I understand why she would feel that, as she doesn't really understand how Sheldon is grieving. On the other hand, I understand how that may hurt Sheldon, because I grieve the same way he does; by attaching it to familiar works and connecting grief to grief, and she doesn't see that despite living with him for 14 years. And on other other hand, seeing her snap at Sheldon reminded me of how I snapped at my brother because he was more emotional over Chadwick Boseman's death than the woman who raised and loved him for 20+ years.
your not. its really freaking sad seeing sheldon replaying that moment in the morning over and over in his head. honestly something i would do. its just... really sad. i also feel sad that no one understood what he meant and that he wasn't able to express what he was actually doing.
Did the same thing and still replay the same events that led up to my parents deaths it can never be undone no matter what we say or do. Thanks for the tears forgot about this show
I would be so proud to have a firstborn like Georgie he just stepped up took care of everything put aside his own issues and grief I were George I would smiling down from heaven saying My sons got this.
My fav George moment was when he was comforting Billy after Missy's rejection,george always guided a fatherless child when he himself is always dealing with some kinda mess in his life, George to Billy was probably more of a father figure than his own father
It really irritates me that Missy never even makes an attempt to understand anybody around her. She lashes out at Sheldon without considering that he has always dealt with emotional situations in that manner; it's just how he grieves, but he cares just as much as anyone else.
When my aunt died everyone in my house acted like one of these characters I was like Sheldon I kept thinking about different times I decided not to hang out with her or the week before she died I forgot to give her a hug as she left Disney and how I wasn’t there the day she’s died I alway thought maybe if I did this she’d still be here so watching Sheldon be grieving so hard and regretting what he dint say/do hit really hard and see missy lash out reminded me of my brother and how mad he was that I don’t talk for 2 weeks after N.A. she actually said the words “why don’t you care” to me and my oldest brother trying to keep things together for us this ep really hit hairs and they did a great job showing it’s ok to expresse grief in different ways
actively crying while watching this but the neighbors bringing food part is so real 😭 When my own dad passed my family didn’t need to shop for a while because of all of the stuff we were given bro
Heres what people don't understand...people have different ways of grieving when it comes to death..and sheldon is right it doesn't matter how much you cry or grieve or anything its not gonna change anything its not gonna bring your loved one back
0:40 Again, props to the character for being parliamentary and diplomatic in mortuary mourning situations. I would still cheer up if she were to meet her demise too, but credit where it's due.
It hurts to know that missy lashed out because Sheldon was thinking about their dad he just didn’t know how to say or express that so he resorted to a Sheldon like answer
@@stephenbyrne2170 it doesn’t matter if she knows or not Sheldon isn’t so heartless it doesn’t matter if she knows or not she should be old enough to know everyone hurts in their own ways
I love the way they executed Sheldon's reaction. It's something we can all relate to in a certain way, replaying the last moments we had with our loved ones. In the end, it often boils down to just hoping you told them you love them one last time
This scene got me because my father loved Star Trek. We went to the movies and years ago I took him to see our family in Puerto Rico. Thr plane ride there and back, he watched the story of Leonard Nimoy.
I love how after George passed away Georgie stepped in and started acting a lot more mature. I love how he completely changed and started dedicating his life to his family.
This was a happy family so then it turned out sad me and my family cried for 1 hour I love this show they all had different why’s are showing there sadness Sheldon I completely lost it he just wished he told his dad he loved him before he left 😖❤
I love this show….the way he is feeling pain…. And recalling the day again n again… it’s deep… lots of people don’t show their feelings, but they feel deep … and there is no way to express deep griefs…. There is no expression to show deep damages.
I don’t blame missy for telling pastor Jeff to shut up. Although it was rude, she’s 14 and her dad died. I’m sure pastor Jeff’s presence isn’t helpful to her in this moment of pain.
She was being a rude little s*it who needed a butt whooping. Yes, Jeff was a dick in the past, but that was then, and this is now. Jeff is only trying to help, and Missy has no right taking her anger out on him. Grieving over your parents' death is not an excuse to lash out at people who are trying to help your family.
How georgie is holding up when he was the closest to his father is amazing, a true man, throwing himself into taking care of his family, letting no one see his pain 😢.
I know how Sheldon can be stuck in that loop. I only have one memory of my father before he was killed by a drunk driver. I was only three so the fact I even have that memory is a blessing. It's been living rent free in my head for 54 years now.
This hits me hard. My dad had cancer, I was visiting him at the hospital just like any other day and left. Not 10 minutes later he passed away. I regret so much not saying I loved him and it’s something I have to take to my grave. I miss him everyday.
The last thing my dad ever said to me was "Dylan, come". He was on his deathbed, and he wanted me to help him out of his bed so that he could have a steak braai with us one last time. The nurses kept trying to hold him down, my mom and aunts were telling him to stay, and I just looked at him with tears in my eyes and shook my head. He looked at me in disbelief with tears in his eyes, nodded his head and laid back down. He was gone within two days. I relive that day a lot.
Georgie did so good trying to help everyone. ❤ even tho he was hurting he known someone had to keep the family together. I feel so bad for Missy. She is my favorite character. To see her like that just hurts. Because she has always been alone. But her dad was always there for her. Now she feels like she has no one. 😢 This episode came out when my aunt died too. So it made me think about my aunt. I kinda relate to Sheldon on his reaction. But also not really knowing how to feel. My aunt has been there for me. But also my family was abusive. My aunt did try her best with things. But also there has been times she would keep things from me. So I am like numb about it. But the last thing I told her was that she should help grandma and take her to therapy. Because she broke her hip. I think it made her mad and she just didn’t say nothing back. Then 2 days later I got a call from my sister saying aunt died of a seizure. Grandma is in a nursing home. 😢 it hurts grandma is in a place she never wanted to go. But she is now so messed up she can hardly keep a conversation going and seems like she don’t care where she is at. Could be depression. 😢 my mom is very abusive. So is my dad. So I don’t talk to them. But that’s my mom’s sister and I know she loves her. So I wonder how she is copeing with all this. Knowing now she almost lost everyone. But also knowing that I did my best trying to get back with her create a friend ship. It never worked. She would always hurt me. Also my brothers and sisters. So we won’t go back.
My dad died in March of 2017. He died the day before I was scheduled to have shoulder surgery. I was going to be out of work for 3 months and I told my dad that when I was well enough to fly I was going to go to Florida to see him more than likely around he and my birthday(his is the day before mine). My dad had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a couple of years before and I knew his time was short. I had seen him a couple of times the previous year the last time at my niece's wedding. I was looking forward to spending time with him that summer. Of course I didn't get to go and I never got to say goodbye. I do rest in the solace that he died watching his favorite TV channel, the Golf Channel. RIP dad. Miss you to this day.
I understand how Sheldon felt. My dad died in 2021 due to a widow maker heart attack. I was the last person to hug him and kiss him. I said “I’m gunna beat you at golf tonight. I love you.” We played golf every night together.
I truly wished Sheldon had explained himself more to Missy but I’m aware everyone copes differently and perhaps not showing emotion or in Sheldon’s case avoiding it entirely is just a part of his character. I lost someone close to me as I was about to graduate high school. Not knowing it would have been my last chance I chose not to visit her which is a decision I’ll be regretting for the rest of my life. Despite us not being family she put her heart in everything and treated everyone like family even more so than our own blood ever did… I could never understand how someone could be like that I wish I could have asked her when she was around. I had the opportunity to attend her funeral and for the life of me could not cry I felt stunned, broken but no tears could come out just seeing her colorless in her coffin. There are times I explain a situation that involves comic marvel or dc references involving time travel. Nothing related to the shows but wishing to have the ability to go back in time to change a decision or revisit a loved one, one last time.
The fact that Sheldon can replay that moment over and over and over and choses different responses, it was the only way he could see his dad one last time
I do the same a lot of times when I think about my dad I think about the interactions I had in his last moments with him and all other interactions and think how I could be a better son done things better said things better. I guess is a normal thing to do.
Thinking about what he could have or should have done in his last interaction with his dad.
I sometimes think about how I could have done something differently so I can relate to Sheldon. It's a way of coping with something.
Or more like thinking about how he should have acted or done when he was there alive before he left
And the last time he replays this moment in his head he asked if he could join his dad. It’s not mentioned but in this one it was clear that he wanted to join so he could save his dad.
And that is why Georgie will always be my favourite he immediately went into taking care of the things that everybody else would’ve normally forgotten… he said aside his grief to take care of his family
It is admirable and amazing he took the reins so quickly. But throwing yourself into work and trying to take care of others is a way a lot of people use to avoid thinking about their own pain and suffering
He threw away the last of his own childhood and freedom too…he sacrificed a crap Ton
George was actually a pretty good dad… he worked hard and tried his best with the times he was in.
@danatedawg1018 and Sheldon ran to California caring only about himself as usual. He couldn't even say goodbye to him before they closed his coffin. Not being able to speak to the church is one thing, but to say nothing before you're never going to see yiur father again was an all time low for Sheldon.
Normally, I don't like Sheldon but I think going far away is also a way to deal with grief, the atmosphere at the house became mostly unbearable and I bet that if Missy could, she would've gone too@@Surfer041
Seeing Missy lash out at Sheldon really stung because at the end of the day, he may not have emotionally showed it but he was hurting as much as everyone else was.
Worse in the next scene she said she can't wait to be at Sheldon's funeral. Imagine saying that to your twin 😢
@@aviroop22 I know. That line was so heartbreaking and it made me pretty angry.
For real. I get she was angry, but she shouldn't have said any of that. It hurts everyone. But it clearly hurt Sheldon alot.
@@AnnaBee03 it does. And what bothers me the most is that she doesn’t apologize for her actions.
@@christina2763 Yes, I had hoped there will be a scene in S7 where Missy & Sheldon will have a heart to heart & Missy will apologize to Sheldon for all her actions - 1) Hanging up when Sheldon called from Germany 2) Dumping the device with which they used to communicate although Sheldon has apologized for snitching on her etc., but none of that happened.
Considering the dynamics between Missy & Sheldon till early S6 & TBBT, it was obvious that the twins loved each other despite their on the surface fights / bullying. However, I don't understand why the writers changed this dramatically since end of S6. It seemed Missy started hating Sheldon suddenly for some reason.
Interesting to see how Sheldon plays that moment over and over in his head, slowly becoming more honest with his feelings each time and what he wishes he would've said to George.
I’d like to add that his feelings and the science behind alternate realities branching off may comfort him because he could, in theory, have actually said all these other things to his father. If he envisions them and considers them as a possibility than the theory of alternate realities would prove that in some reality, some other timeline, he DID actually say those things and that could be a huge comfort to him.
My father passed while I was at work a few months back and I did the same thing for weeks. What if this, what if that. Nobody expects a mundane departure to potentially be the last time you see that person alive and come home to find their body..
@@LancunI'm sorry for your loss, friend
Was in a similar place few years ago when my dad passed. The last conversation I had with him was on phone, had to play that moment over and over again and how I would have responded more affectionately.
When my mom died, I kept reflecting about the last time I saw her. I dropped her off at the airport. Normally I leave quickly to avoid rush hour traffic. Yet I paused and looked over to where she had been. A part of me wanted to suddenly rush after her to give her another hug. But I just left. I think instinctually I knew this would be my last moment with her but I ignored it. It’s left me with no small amounts of regrets.
That “I love you too son” hits different
hey
Made me cry
I can't watch that part without tearing up 💔
Yeah I can't be crying at work.
Sheldon playing the tape back in his mind. He is broken that his dad is gone but he’s having trouble processing it. All he can do is just think of things he wished he told George before his passing. 😢
Ik I cried really hard on that ❤
It broke my heart seeing him like that
I think it's also the fact that he still believes that his dad had cheated on his mom, that's why he's not dealing with it. Also Sheldon never once had that conversation with Mary about it to this day.
My father passed while I was at work a few months back and I did the same thing for weeks. What if this, what if that. Nobody expects a mundane departure to potentially be the last time you see that person alive and come home to find their body.
I think it is good to replay things to make ourselves response better the next time the same thing happens. Example, when memaw or mum passed away...
the way George says "Bye Son" at 2:34 made me cry. It was done with that sense of he knows whats coming, and wanted Sheldon to know he will always be there with him.
hey
There's a picture online of Lance Barber after he left the kitchen for the final time, he had started to cry.
😭
@@adaezefavour4005 hey
Lol .WTF
Love Sheldon sticking to character, we know he's thinking of things he wished he said to George that morning but says more on it being alternate reality
Nun, es stimmt ja.
Und weil er das, was er gerne gesagt hätte, nunmal nicht gesagt hat, käme es ihm wie eine Lüge vor.
Dass er über alternative Realitäten nachdenkt abstrahiert davon- und das macht es ihm leichter, überhaupt etwas zu sagen
WHY wouldn't he fool
@@BAKER22-l4u nothing in his life would change if you died
I lost my dad june 7th 2021. He walked out the door that morning for work and two hours later we got a knock on the door saying he was gone. He got me started on the Big Bang theory when I was 10 years old, and we were so happy when young Sheldon came out. I really wish he were here to watch the last episode with me. I really wish I weren’t in sheldons shoes replaying that last day I saw him walk out the door, wishing I could say what I truly wanted to. I just treated it like an ordinary day because thats usually how our worst days start. I have been, and always shall be your friend Douglas Chad Goodner. I love you. ❤️
My condolences for your father man losing a loved one is never easy and from your text i can see that he raised a good man who he had a good relationship with and that will never die. Again my condolences and I’ll pray for you
Loosing a parent is not easy. I’m older now - both parents deceased & 2 brothers gone. I miss them dearly, life goes on until one day it doesn’t, now it’s me & 1 brother & I hope I leave before him. But it’ll be whenever. Life has many twists & turns. GOD has us covered
Amen 🙏
Yea I feel ya it’s not easy I lost my mom back in May 11 of 2022 I think of all the things I should’ve said to her when she was on life support and so no one told me anything so I thought she was gonna get better the nurses probably didn’t want to worry me so I told her you’ll be fine we can go home and watch Disney after this. And then she took my hand squeezed it then it became limp. And the last thing she said that I heard was she had told her friend to give something to me it was a Princess Leia plush I didn’t get till after a few months when she passed but she told that friend “get this for my daughter” she said my nicken instead of daughter but I do not want to put personal information on here. But I think about things I could’ve said and done like if I didn’t argue with her we could’ve had more time together and I hope she knows that I Love her and hope she’s well in heaven❤
Your comment made me cry. I can't imagine the pain you had to go through
I’m sorry for your loss
Georgie in TBBT: "Mother was a mess, and Missy was a dumb teenager, I had to take care of everything."
He did. Some one had to take control. My cousin helped me when my dad died. My mom was a mess for the rest of her life. I had to have the back bone. It's tough place to be in. My cousin stepped in and helped again when my mom died. Of course my back stayed up. A teen son. A spouse. Brothers who did not live locally. I did my job. 😮 I thank my cousin for his help.
"Mom was a mess, Missy was a dumb teenager. I had to look after both of them". And he certainly is looking like in the finale.
Can people stop spamming the comment sections with Georgie's line from BBT, it's everywhere. We get it, ok? We get it.
I wonder if prioritizing his main family is what lead to his divorce with Mandy
@@obsessivefanboy7 they dint divorce right? there is coming a spinoff with goergie and mandy
“I made you a casserole.”
“I made you a casserole.”
“I made you a casserole.”
“I bought you a casserole.”
Work smarter, not harder.
That’s a whole lot of casserole but there are variety of casseroles…..
Tater tot casserole
Chicken casserole
Ground beef casserole
Sausage casserole
Chili dog casserole
Spaghetti casserole
Seafood casserole
Pork casserole
Vegetable casserole
Rice casserole
Mac and cheese casserole.
@@sunflowerangeldjoan1921 And don't forget tuna.
I like a good squash casserole.
@@sunflowerangeldjoan1921I hope for their sakes that they were all different casseroles.
For us, casserole is a utensil that keeps food warm
In the first 13 days we don't eat anything with turmeric or salt.@@sunflowerangeldjoan1921
"No need to apologize", really adds to the gravity of the situation
Ong
What do you mean
Im interested what made you think that.
@@nota113 He’s not taking Missy’s lashing out personally. He understands she’s grieving and hurt. We’ve all done things and said things out of hurt plenty of times.
I mean what else would he do? Scold the family and leave the house because a grief-stricken daughter was mean to him?
I wonder if missy was lashing out a lot more because she regrets not taking his ride to school
I wouldn't be surprised if that's the case.
Plus now she's stuck with Mary, who is not a good parent to her.
@@bridgetbinion8494 Maybe she could be a better daughter? /gen
@@JustAGirlOnline they're both awful. Missy is a hateful little brat and Mary is neglectful to anyone not named Sheldon.
@@JustAGirlOnlinetrash take
0:16 Honestly, while that's not exactly a coping mechanism you'd encourage, it's still touching to see that she cared enough about George to grieve that much.
How is praying and putting faith in God not a good coping mechanism????
@@theballboyz898 I was talking about Meemaw, not Mary.
@@ecthox-1mork909 Facing the pain and accepting the loss is a lot healthier (even with alcohol) than deluding yourself into thinking that you haven't really lost anything at all because the dead guy is just sitting on a cloud living his best afterlife while you all suffer from his absence.
@@Triplebrc Sitting on a cloud? This shows me how you really have not read the Bible and therefore do not take it seriously. And even if I am wrong, what is so bad about having hope of seeing your loved ones again?
@@theballboyz898 It diminishes the time you spent with them, it messes up your priorities, twists your perception, you are diving into delusions instead of properly dealing with the loss.
Of course I do not take a fantasy book seriously, no rational human being would, the thought of a heaven and hell, of any kind of eternal afterlife, is absurd and horrendous in so many ways.
How often has religion been exposed as lying, how many religions have been there in world history, how often has the bible, the supposed word of god, been casually rewritten and changed to better fit the churches purpose, how come gods always are in need of money? Only adults still believing this nonsense are the ones who never applied any critical thinking.
Mary: denial
Missy: anger
Sheldon: bargaining
Connie: depression
Georgie: acceptance
Exactly.
I find it really cool that each of them represent a different stage of grief
Good catch
That one version where the dad goes, "bye son."
PERFECT inflection by the actor
A great actor. Loved George 😢
George last words "see y'all later" made me cry because he is so nice that even though nobody really cared they were busy doing there own work.
The way that sheldon regrets everything that he couldnt even say he love george for the last time breaks my heart😢
4:30 Props to Billy.
He asked politely, received negative replies in both occassions, didn't lash out or take it like a sore loser, continued to be there.
Many idiots need to learn from Billy.
This hits home. Everyone morning I would wake up early to say "Good morning" to my grandmother before she head to work. One morning I decided to sleep in and didn't see her, that was the day she died at work...
She still said it to you, you were just asleep.
Sorry.
What could you do ? It was done. You know she loved you. Don't feel guilty.
I bet she left work happy to let you sleep safe and warm in your bed. Getting rest. You sound like a great grandson
Sie wusste, dass du sie liebst. Und hat dich geliebt.
Du bist nicht schuld, du darfst dich über eure liebe und eure Beziehung freuen
"Want me to drive you to school?"
"No, I'll take the bus"
I could see how Missy regrets that line
When Sheldon kept repeating the morning events till he finally could say to his dad he love him made me drop a tear. We will miss George
We will miss the show
I understand why Missy is upset, especially because sheldon can't / won't explain it, but in a way thinking about Wrath of Khan is kind of touching when you consider that it deals with the death of someone sheldon adores, and also spock is later brought back to life, which I'm sure sheldon wishes he could do for his dad
I don't think it can be said enough how brilliantly artistic the creators and writers of this show are. The 'alternate reality' sequence is exactly the replay of so many or our experiences, and yet the only time I've ever seen it depicted on screen. It chokes me up every time i see it, and it is the reason I'm on a Sheldon binge watching (i'm new to this amazing series; seeing the great finale makes me want to watch it all now).
Agreed. Brilliant writing and character development.
I love how Audrey brought Mary some casserole even after Mary and Audrey fought so many times...😊 So kind!
after all, they’re still family
Georgie is very mature guy , I respect the way he handled very thing after passing of his father.
MISSY HAS NO IDEA OF SHELDON'S THOUGHTS Sheldon is grieving. he is. he just can't express his emotions over the shock.
That is grieving in of itself
Sheldon also has no real idea of missus thoughts... lashing out isn't the half of it. He really doesn't get it
"Mom was a mess and Missy was a stupid teenager"
he said dumb not stupid
Dumb kid, he said. Dumb kid. Like George Sr. was an abusive, violent alcoholic drunk until they retconned it.
Yeah Mary fell apart when her husband died for a while in a depression and Missy rebelled out of grief..
Georgie was a dumb teenager too back then but he matured so much character growth
Surprised pastor Rob wasn't there for Mary...hmmmmm
@@divine_simplicity also probably post sedation anxiety due to Sheldon being gone
George would have been proud of Georgie and the fine man he had become. He had the most character development and maturity growth throughout the show.
I love the way that Sheldon got to say goodbye to his Dad in his own way.
It is nice to see that Sheldon was still shocked and saddened by his fathers passing.
Him saying "Live Long and Prosper" to his dad was his way of saying I love you. And then to get that news that his dad is gone, we see him sort of stumble into the chair behind him when it's delivered
Sure he didnt process the events in a way most would understand, so its ALSO understandable as to why Missy is pissed at him for seemingly not caring that their dad is gone.
Every day, I've replayed the last time I seen my Dad alive for 20 years now... This scene broke my heart.
i’m so sorry 😢
I remember my last moments with my mum, wishing I'd said more. I hoped she'd pull through. I miss her. 😢
Rip your dad
Billy: "Want a hug?"
Missy: "No."
Billy: "Want a kiss?"💀💀💀
That part had me rolling 🤣
Missy: "No!"
He was trying
i have the same rizz as billy i swear🤣
@@skeetrcheetr25 lol
"Live long and prosper" 😂
You know what's interesting, Penny understands Spock more than Sheldon, and she's not even a Trekkie.
I found my Father in the garage, two days after my 14th birthday. I was angry until I was 35. You see, I never got to tell my Dad I loved him as a man. When I was 35 I finally realized he knew. Today I am 72 and Dad is still with me in everything I do and everything I say and everything my children do and say. Not a bad legacy for a good man............
i get missy was a kid and grieving in her own way but not understanding that was sheldons way of grief kinda annoyed me
I feel like George and missy were the ones who understood Sheldon the most. So yea that moment irritated me too
Yeah, it definitely annoyed me. And then for Georgie to say "that's enough from you too" really got me, because Sheldon wasn't the one lashing out.
@@BrianBlaynolds Missy might've understood Sheldon, but she was dealing her own grief as well. She wasn't thinking straight, she wasn't considering how other people- especially someone like Sheldon- would process their grief.
Im sorry, but from missy's point of view sheldon isn't grieving. What he says about George's funeral only makes everyone more depressed. We can see that he is strugling but they don't and they think he just dosen't care.
@@johnettecosby4291 he wasnt lashing out but he was talking in a bad way about the funeral which would obsviously annoy Mary and Missy
It killed me when Sheldon thought of Spock and Kirk when Spock was dying because of radiation on the “Wrath Of Khan” And he said “you’ll always be my friend”, because I remember George pretended he was Kirk sometimes on the show as a way to comfort Sheldon when Sheldon was upset or scared or worried. So it was heartbreaking to see Sheldon think of that scene and relate it to his dad whom he looked up to like he was Kirk.
My dad passed away in 2021 due to covid and I fully understood what Sheldon was saying.
We all express grief in different ways I for instance preferred to withdraw myself to cry whenever I missed him.
I’m sorry for your loss, I lost my aunt in 2020 from kidney failure. God bless both of them. ❤🙏
I too lost my Dad due to COVID (and cancer) in 2022, those final 2 episodes of YS definitely hit me hard.
Pray for all of our families in heaven 🙏❤️
@@david-raphael-1300 ♥️ may your aunt's soul gets ultimate peace in heaven 🙏🏻
@@kaa7998 may his soul rest in peace 🙏🏻♥️
'OH shut up Jeff got me dying
Jeff deserved that. I am glad that Jeff didn't get mad about it though, just took it like a champ.
0:37 I’m glad Reba came back
0:40 at least Audrey isn’t being an ahole
I love Reba. And I’m glad Audrey wasn’t being a jerk in this episode.
I’m honestly kind of shocked Audrey even cared
@@TheHManShow I’m just glad during someone’s death she wasn’t being a dick atleast she gave her a casserole
@@TheHManShow Audrey could be unbearable but she wasn’t a monster.
With Mary vs Audrey, it was battle of the Karens
They kinda ruined Billy’s scene with the whole “wanna kiss?” Thing, they coulda made that a lot more heartfelt
It is in character
He’s a teenage boy
You know, from a big brother...
Siblings
This entire season was rushed garbage.
@@boredape1986gee man, sorry they didnt satisfy your needs. Its as if you are more valuable then the rest of the people who watch the show m. Just one person.
My grandfather loved this show. I am only 15 and live with my grandparents, now my grandparent non plural, aka grandmother. My biological parents have not been in the picture much, and when they were, they did nothing but screw up. I have lived with my grandparents (I refer to them as mom and dad) for 11 years now. My grandfather was an amazing supporter. I loved him so much and looked at him as a father, and he was. That’ll never change. Back in April, he woke up and couldn’t feel his right arm. He had a stroke. We went to the ER and they couldn’t figure out the cause. They sent him home on meds. He was 80 percent better when they sent him home with us. He went downhill. Went back to the ER a little less than a week later and found out that he had had another small bleed in his brain (a stroke). They said they thought it was his calcium level was too high. But then it went back to normal without them doing anything to help it do so. They started digging deeper and found colon cancer. It had metastasized since he had it, and they said if we started kemo and radiation treatment and therapy that we might have another couple of months with him to find out where things were, get a will set up, etc. That’s what we found out on a Wednesday. I realized later that that very first stroke that was three weeks before this was the indication that the cancer was at his brain and we just didn’t know. We never had any signs of cancer until that point. Wednesday evening is when we found this out. He was getting a port Thursday morning, starting radiation Friday, and kemo the following Monday . We got a phone call early Thursday morning at 4:13 that his health status had changed. He was supposed to be coming home Thursday… my grandmother called right back when she woke up because she barely missed the call. They said they had called the code… and asked us what we wanted to do. He told us, he wanted to be resuscitated ONE TIME, and if he didn’t come back, to let him go. He didn’t wanna live his life like that; in pain. So we honored his wishes and the death was called at 4:20 (he smoked cigarettes like a freight train, not weed, but I think now it is kinda funny looking back at it. lol.) He died May 9th. That Thursday morning he was supposed to get the port. It was unexpected, just like George’s passing. He never got to finish this show… But every time it airs; I go back in his bedroom and turn the TV on for him. Because, as a Christian, I believe he is watching over us from Upstairs. And I’m gonna make sure that my father finishes one of his favorite shows. Just like George, it was unexpected, and just like George, he was an amazing provider for us grandkids and an absolutely amazing soul with a heart made of pure GOLD. My grandmother took it hard just like all my family did. I cried yesterday, even a month later. When I vacuumed out his truck, this was the first time he didn’t get to tell me how good of a job I did. But I know he seen it up in heaven and said “Lord, that boy is amazing with that Dyson!”
The next day when it started to hit me; I walked outside around 4:30. I seen a red bird on my patio and said “Lord, Jesus, if you’re really there; I just wanna be able to get close to that bird. “. And I did not move an inch, that bird flew over and landed right on my shoulder. That was my sign that my dad is up in heaven, and it is time to move on. So I will. I can do this.
When the roll is called up yonder, I’ll be there dad. Wait on me. I’m coming, hopefully sooner than later. When my time has come, I will be there with you dad. And I will catch up with you in heaven. I sure do love and miss you sooooo much. You are my guardian angel. Until I see you again Dad, you give Heaven some Hell.
Thank you for sharing this with us. I am very sorry for your loss and I can empathize with your pain. It is normal to cry even after months, sometimes years. Don't hesitate to do so if you feel the need, please. It's hard to let someone you love so much go. I can understand that. But I'm glad you had that little interaction with that bird. I believe in signs like that too, I had a very similar experience with a butterfly. I understand from your words that your grandfather left you his heart of gold. I am sure that you will cherish it. And I'm equally sure that he really _is_ your guardian angel now. I wish you and your grandmother all the best and a long, healthy time together ahead.
It's very sad to see how Meemaw starts to drink excessively. Even though she used to treat George poorly, she came to love him like a son.
Despite being heartbroken from Georges death, billy trying it on with missy was hilarious 😂😂
I was Sheldon when I lost my nana (she raised me because my parents couldn’t) I replayed the day over and over the night before over and over, what I should have said, what I did say, her last words, my last words, the feeling I felt the night before towards her compared to the feeling when I found her, I also had a bit of Missy in me because I was pissed that all these people came around after she died, they all had something to say but couldn’t come say anything when she was alive, I was pissed at everyone and everything, I was more mad at myself that I didn’t know it was the last goodbye, the last I love you, the last laugh, the last giggle, the last time watching her drink coffee at night, the last time watching her drink her natural light with her straw at night before bed, the last time I’d get to give her a nose kiss, it was the last time…. And I’ll never take the ones for granted every again that day changed me…
"Dad, wait...I love you!"
"I love ya too, son!"
Me: *Explodes*
That broke me. 😢
My boy Billy showed no fear in shooting his shot. Still a sad episode though.
The death of spock always gets me.
I didn’t even know he died 😢
I love them showing Georgie stepping up, just like he said he did in bbt
Poor Sheldon and Missy 😢 , Georgie manage it very well, The writer did awesome job
The moment George died broke everyone for many years, but it broke Sheldon forever
When sheldon said “I love you,” I immediately cried 😭😭 no matter how many times I watch this episode, I will still cry
Bruh, never was a fan of young sheldon, but the way they showed him rethinking what he could’ve said to his dad, hit right on the feels, the last time i saw my mom, i never knew it would be the last time, and after that I kept imagining what I could have said for the last time over and over
if I had received 1 dollar for every time I cried over the protagonist of a TV series, by now I could pay for the psychological support I obviously need
We all could.
They draw you in. That's the mark of good writing.
Georgie really steps up and grows into a good man, he's earned the right to be George, his father would be proud.
People are miss understanding Missy it's not that she can't understand Sheldon, she's just broken and processing loosing the one and only parent that really cared about her and her feelings. Her father was the only parent that really showed her love and affection. Her mother is a fanatic that only care about her twin brother and the ending just showed how broken a teenage girl that lost someone that was evrything for her is facing the lost.
The mother can't be save she's an awful caracter from beginning to the end, good mother to Sheldon but a trashy wife and mother to the two other
She is waiting to be at Sheldon's funeral. That's a great way of "understanding " her twin. It's as if Sheldon's has done something really bad to her
HELLO😀😀.. THANK!! YOU!!
Astute analysis. The mom's favoritism towards that kid went a long way towards him becoming the self-centered, with-no-self-control narcissistic a**hole Sheldon "is" today. People like that exist -- For example, look at Jim Parsons lol.
Still lashing out on Sheldon won’t fix things, Sheldon is also grieving and trying to process on what happened. Missy is not the only person that’s grieving, she needs to understand she’s not the only one in this. She was being extremely disrespectful to Sheldon saying she waits for his death is so disrespectful, from your own twin? If that was you hearing your own twin waiting for your death is hurtful.
she just lost her dad. Learn some empathy
When Sheldon was thinking of the thousand ways he could have said goodbye to his father, I remember the time when I was driving my dad to the hospital. He was unwell, with an oxygen saturation of 89, yet even then, he was telling me stories from his time in the Navy. It was 12 hours, 12 hours that I now recall I should have told him I love him, that I should have hugged him. In my mind, it repeats over and over. I, naive, thought he would make it through. He passed away on March 3, 2021. We were only informed over the phone. Those scenes made me remember how tough that moment is when you're told they're no longer there, when there was no goodbye.
Only if Sheldon had been able to express himself better, Missy would have understood that he had been thinking about their father
“I can’t wait for yours” that is the worst thing you can hear from your twin sister. Missy doesn’t understand that this is hard for Sheldon. This is hard for everybody but hoping that Sheldon does is not the way to go. Missy should understand that lashing out and hating on your family will not bring George back. I think everyone learned not to disrespect their family because you never know if it’s the last words you’ll ever say to them
Agreed! When my grandfather died almost 12 years ago I didn't immediately cry. I finally started to cry for him almost 8 months later. The last time I ever saw him he went on a plane trip with my grandmother. I really loved him. Also when one of my dogs died I was completely in shock. My body was shaking. When I calmed down a little bit I started to cry
I'm not on anyone's side. But Missy is just a teenager, most teenagers don't know what they are saying or doing when they are emotional especially when they are grieving. I'm just saying that they are still dumb kids that aren't mature enough to cope with what is happening.
If only missie knew what Sheldon was thinking about
We all show our grief differently.
I don’t even go here but that just broke my heart.
Everyone grieves differently. If thinking about a scene from a favorite TV show or movie helps with grieving process, then that's what has to be done.
Believe it or not this very episode resonated with me after losing my grandfather recently, from the way Sheldon replayed his last moments with him involving not minding his father much-to his mother’s lashing out towards her kids for not wanting to get baptized or attend church heavily after that. This show did a good job highlighting the tension and different forms of grieving after the sudden death of a loved one..
George jr sounds just like George sr in that parlour scene
I bought you a casserole 🥘 had me rollin’ 😂😂😂
"What is wrong with you our dad just died." Shit that line hits really hard for me.
On one hand, I understand why she would feel that, as she doesn't really understand how Sheldon is grieving.
On the other hand, I understand how that may hurt Sheldon, because I grieve the same way he does; by attaching it to familiar works and connecting grief to grief, and she doesn't see that despite living with him for 14 years.
And on other other hand, seeing her snap at Sheldon reminded me of how I snapped at my brother because he was more emotional over Chadwick Boseman's death than the woman who raised and loved him for 20+ years.
Tbh. It was actually smart for Sheldon to think about things he liked and replaced it with his dad. This kept him from being more upset.
Please tell me I'm not the only one tear up😢 after this video:)
your not. its really freaking sad seeing sheldon replaying that moment in the morning over and over in his head. honestly something i would do. its just... really sad. i also feel sad that no one understood what he meant and that he wasn't able to express what he was actually doing.
I cried…
Did the same thing and still replay the same events that led up to my parents deaths it can never be undone no matter what we say or do. Thanks for the tears forgot about this show
Nobody talking about conversation between missy and billy. That was hilarious after rejected by missy. And he said “me either” haha
I would be so proud to have a firstborn like Georgie he just stepped up took care of everything put aside his own issues and grief I were George I would smiling down from heaven saying My sons got this.
My fav George moment was when he was comforting Billy after Missy's rejection,george always guided a fatherless child when he himself is always dealing with some kinda mess in his life, George to Billy was probably more of a father figure than his own father
It really irritates me that Missy never even makes an attempt to understand anybody around her. She lashes out at Sheldon without considering that he has always dealt with emotional situations in that manner; it's just how he grieves, but he cares just as much as anyone else.
Billy’s Dad being in New Jersey definitely means He’s Not Coming Back because….
Was his dad "Big Pussy" from the Sopranos? 😂
you clearly have never watched the sopranos! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@nl5828 Remember When NY’s “Big Dom” went to visit NJ? He’s still floating around the NJ sewers.
Seeing George say "Live long and prosper" is amazing.
When my aunt died everyone in my house acted like one of these characters I was like Sheldon I kept thinking about different times I decided not to hang out with her or the week before she died I forgot to give her a hug as she left Disney and how I wasn’t there the day she’s died I alway thought maybe if I did this she’d still be here so watching Sheldon be grieving so hard and regretting what he dint say/do hit really hard and see missy lash out reminded me of my brother and how mad he was that I don’t talk for 2 weeks after N.A. she actually said the words “why don’t you care” to me and my oldest brother trying to keep things together for us this ep really hit hairs and they did a great job showing it’s ok to expresse grief in different ways
actively crying while watching this but the neighbors bringing food part is so real 😭 When my own dad passed my family didn’t need to shop for a while because of all of the stuff we were given bro
Heres what people don't understand...people have different ways of grieving when it comes to death..and sheldon is right it doesn't matter how much you cry or grieve or anything its not gonna change anything its not gonna bring your loved one back
George Jr's character arc is so good. Props to the actor for pulling it off.
0:40 Again, props to the character for being parliamentary and diplomatic in mortuary mourning situations.
I would still cheer up if she were to meet her demise too, but credit where it's due.
It hurts to know that missy lashed out because Sheldon was thinking about their dad he just didn’t know how to say or express that so he resorted to a Sheldon like answer
How was she supposed to know?
@@stephenbyrne2170 it doesn’t matter if she knows or not Sheldon isn’t so heartless it doesn’t matter if she knows or not she should be old enough to know everyone hurts in their own ways
@@stephenbyrne2170oh so because of her ignorance it’s okay to say “ can’t wait for yours.”
@alabastercalhoun I refuse to view her behaviour the same way you lot do.
I love the way they executed Sheldon's reaction.
It's something we can all relate to in a certain way, replaying the last moments we had with our loved ones.
In the end, it often boils down to just hoping you told them you love them one last time
This scene got me because my father loved Star Trek. We went to the movies and years ago I took him to see our family in Puerto Rico. Thr plane ride there and back, he watched the story of Leonard Nimoy.
“Oh shut up, Jeff!” Hits hard
I love how after George passed away Georgie stepped in and started acting a lot more mature. I love how he completely changed and started dedicating his life to his family.
This was a happy family so then it turned out sad me and my family cried for 1 hour I love this show they all had different why’s are showing there sadness Sheldon I completely lost it he just wished he told his dad he loved him before he left 😖❤
I love this show….the way he is feeling pain…. And recalling the day again n again… it’s deep… lots of people don’t show their feelings, but they feel deep … and there is no way to express deep griefs…. There is no expression to show deep damages.
I don’t blame missy for telling pastor Jeff to shut up. Although it was rude, she’s 14 and her dad died. I’m sure pastor Jeff’s presence isn’t helpful to her in this moment of pain.
She was being a rude little s*it who needed a butt whooping. Yes, Jeff was a dick in the past, but that was then, and this is now. Jeff is only trying to help, and Missy has no right taking her anger out on him.
Grieving over your parents' death is not an excuse to lash out at people who are trying to help your family.
But why
What you mean by "pastor Jeff's presence"
@@johnpradeep9372 pastor Jeff was in the house
I don’t think Missy wanted that while she was grieving
Plus let's face if when Mandy got pregnant Pastor Jeff did not do a thing to protect the cooper's
How georgie is holding up when he was the closest to his father is amazing, a true man, throwing himself into taking care of his family, letting no one see his pain 😢.
“Yeah, me neither” smooth my dude, smooth.
I know how Sheldon can be stuck in that loop. I only have one memory of my father before he was killed by a drunk driver. I was only three so the fact I even have that memory is a blessing. It's been living rent free in my head for 54 years now.
"Bye son." Hits so hard😢😢😢😢
I don’t know why I laughed so hard when the lady said “I bought you a casserole”😂😂😂
This hits me hard. My dad had cancer, I was visiting him at the hospital just like any other day and left. Not 10 minutes later he passed away. I regret so much not saying I loved him and it’s something I have to take to my grave. I miss him everyday.
I’m so sorry !! 😔😢
The last thing my dad ever said to me was "Dylan, come". He was on his deathbed, and he wanted me to help him out of his bed so that he could have a steak braai with us one last time. The nurses kept trying to hold him down, my mom and aunts were telling him to stay, and I just looked at him with tears in my eyes and shook my head. He looked at me in disbelief with tears in his eyes, nodded his head and laid back down. He was gone within two days.
I relive that day a lot.
Georgie did so good trying to help everyone. ❤ even tho he was hurting he known someone had to keep the family together. I feel so bad for Missy. She is my favorite character. To see her like that just hurts. Because she has always been alone. But her dad was always there for her. Now she feels like she has no one. 😢
This episode came out when my aunt died too. So it made me think about my aunt. I kinda relate to Sheldon on his reaction. But also not really knowing how to feel. My aunt has been there for me. But also my family was abusive. My aunt did try her best with things. But also there has been times she would keep things from me. So I am like numb about it. But the last thing I told her was that she should help grandma and take her to therapy. Because she broke her hip. I think it made her mad and she just didn’t say nothing back. Then 2 days later I got a call from my sister saying aunt died of a seizure. Grandma is in a nursing home. 😢 it hurts grandma is in a place she never wanted to go. But she is now so messed up she can hardly keep a conversation going and seems like she don’t care where she is at. Could be depression. 😢 my mom is very abusive. So is my dad. So I don’t talk to them. But that’s my mom’s sister and I know she loves her. So I wonder how she is copeing with all this. Knowing now she almost lost everyone. But also knowing that I did my best trying to get back with her create a friend ship. It never worked. She would always hurt me. Also my brothers and sisters. So we won’t go back.
My dad died in March of 2017. He died the day before I was scheduled to have shoulder surgery. I was going to be out of work for 3 months and I told my dad that when I was well enough to fly I was going to go to Florida to see him more than likely around he and my birthday(his is the day before mine). My dad had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a couple of years before and I knew his time was short. I had seen him a couple of times the previous year the last time at my niece's wedding. I was looking forward to spending time with him that summer. Of course I didn't get to go and I never got to say goodbye. I do rest in the solace that he died watching his favorite TV channel, the Golf Channel. RIP dad. Miss you to this day.
Missy was Indeed a mess. Shii
Seriously, she's way too much now
+user-lg5qo7ru8b Thanks to a horrible mother, she will miss her father, the better parent, and now she's stuck with her mother, the horrible parent.
@diactionza5864 She's only 14 years old and has just lost her father you idiot, she needs time with her emotions.
@@dennisardakis5857No she's not. I think you don't have any idea what a really horrible mother is.
Her dad is dead. She’s allowed to upset. Jesus, you folks really need to ease up.
I understand how Sheldon felt.
My dad died in 2021 due to a widow maker heart attack. I was the last person to hug him and kiss him.
I said “I’m gunna beat you at golf tonight. I love you.”
We played golf every night together.
omg i am so sorry for your loss ❤️🩹 i praying for you 🫶
@@ed1tsbyemma I miss him everyday still.
@@heartroll8719 i can’t imagine your pain but i hope you feel better ❤️🩹
I truly wished Sheldon had explained himself more to Missy but I’m aware everyone copes differently and perhaps not showing emotion or in Sheldon’s case avoiding it entirely is just a part of his character.
I lost someone close to me as I was about to graduate high school. Not knowing it would have been my last chance I chose not to visit her which is a decision I’ll be regretting for the rest of my life.
Despite us not being family she put her heart in everything and treated everyone like family even more so than our own blood ever did… I could never understand how someone could be like that I wish I could have asked her when she was around. I had the opportunity to attend her funeral and for the life of me could not cry I felt stunned, broken but no tears could come out just seeing her colorless in her coffin.
There are times I explain a situation that involves comic marvel or dc references involving time travel. Nothing related to the shows but wishing to have the ability to go back in time to change a decision or revisit a loved one, one last time.