I think another point to mention is that people change with age also, I myself can say my personality and connection with allah is far better and stronger now at 23 than my nieve 18 year old self
Very true sister. People tend to mature as they get older but that can also be influenced by who people hang around with. I'll say the same myself I've gotten closer to my Deen a few months ago compared to how I was when I went college and university
@@ziasmailbox very true. Sadly as you said some people become misguided. This is what exactly worries me for when I started searching for a wife. People sadly tend to change as time goes on where sometimes it may change into a person which is not good
I’m 28 and unmarried, I wish I COULD GO BACK LMAOOOO. ladies don’t make the mistake I did. Chased after my degrees and I ain’t got a MAN. THE DEGREES WILL NOT KEEP YOU WARM AT NIGHT.
Allahu Akbar, BārakAllāhu Feek sister, please teach your younger sister friends this. Too many deluded, even in my country Canada. May Allah guide us all.
It's hard finding that right person. Don't get into haram relationships as that person you like might actually be showing you one side of them. Allah has the right time written down for us when or who we'll marry or if not insha'Allah in jannah
@Abū AbdulRahmān Makes perfect sense. That stuff is only in the fairy tales. The perfect match doesn't exist. Everyone has negatives, you just gotta make sure it's something you're willing to overlook.
@@kingkatiin2658 I'd say you got a point there. It's just finding that right person who's more compatible than most people. Best to stay close to Allah as he may help us I keep talking about this but I'm alhumdulila recovering over heartbreak. This girl I liked for 7 years I found out got married a few months back. Was miserable for a few months till Allah showed me she wasn't the right one for me showing me all these bad traits of her from which im grateful to Allah now for doing this to me. I started praying 5 times a day one month before I heard about her so very likely was Allah's way of helping me for getting closer to him. Still till this day alhumdulila I still keep up to my namaz
💯 people need to realise that they need to focus their relationship with Allah SWT FIRST AND FOR MOST and Allah inshallah will give them who they deserve. I pray that inshallah Allah gives us a spouse that is the most closest to him and fearing of him.
Just 20 and marriage is not even in my plan just due to studies but watching these podcasts gives me insight and some of these blow my mind... marriage is beautiful thing May Allah Grant us the right spouse..Ameen❤️
Are you a man or a women? If your a women I would highly suggest looking for a husband now, you never know how long it will take. Dont be that woman who put education and degree over marriage and now shes 27+ and finding it hard to marry
@@khayr1 good advice, i am 19 and a sister but a bit scared to get married lol. I also am not very satisfied with my body, weight, etc and want to improve it first before marriage
That brother on the left is so knowledgeable about how both men and women feel, masha'Allah. As a sister, I really appreciate him standing up for the sisters and making important clarifications. Too bad I'm not in England. May Allah grant him a righteous spouse and offspring. Ameen.
@@ytuser9948 I thought about this the other day some girls don't like it when their man is giving them attention all day like does he not have any hobbies, friends to hang around with? Like my friend who goes out and snaps him having a great time with his friends, it's lively and his girl gets jelaous and wants his attention or wants him to come home. There's something called preselection too, women want men who have been preselected by other women because it gives them good reason that he's 'high value'
@@razer0072073 why are you encouraging them to follow a path other than the sunnah, marrying older men is normal because they are more likely to be a proper man
I am 32 but most people in university said I look like first year undergraduate student lol. That statement really made my day :). I don’t apply make up, drink 6 liters mineral water per day and eat fruits and vegetable everyday and of course exercise in the morning.
Assalamu'alaikum ukhtee may Allah bless you and make you from his Awliyaa Aāmeen ukhtee I heard Shaykh usaymi say that saying "this made my day" is from minor shirk and can lead to major shirk aswell Wal iyaadhu billaah
To be honest older women are much better ....I remember as a young girl I was so clingy obsessive...and overly emotional....age calms u down and gives you wisdom which therefore enhances your personality......
your podcasts are unique, I love the homely, welcoming personal vibe, I enjoy your podcasts, it feels like your family, Allahumma barik lakum I hope my Arabic is correct!
@@frabgas27 It’s not even just that man there’s only 3 million Muslims in the world, only some of those of are practicing, only some of those are upon the Sunnah, only some of those are within your age group, and only some of those actually want to get married at that point in time. On top of that we all have our own preferences based off of personality, height, interests etc so that narrows the prospects down even further. I’ve just realised how crazy it is subhanallah May Allah make it easy for us all to find that perfect marriage partner who is upon the Sunnah Ameen
@@unknownrealist5374 ameen. I think it will be very difficult to find one too... I am in USA and I want someone who actively seeks knowledge, Sunni/Salafi, and not too cultural for compatibility
@@aatif7518 These are just jealous older women who followed feminism which told them lies such as ''Focus on your career'' ''You dont need a man'' Bla Bla. It is the natural choice for ALL men from every background to be attracted to the young feminine woman, something these older feminist women will never understand. You can always find them playing the ''Khadija Card'' and weak men fall for this.
Ngl as a woman, I think the younger you are the better But that doesn't mean we should shame other people for that choice. Allah test everyone in their own way and women have other reasons for delaying marriage. (However I don't agree when women delay marriage because of education and have the mindset 'i don't need men' I just think that's silly and you're only making it harder for yourself) scholars say that khadija got married that old and as a divorcee because she was too good for the other men. My point is the prophet did both so there is goodness in both.
I just wanted to mention that yes there may not be many practicing potentials it’s important as Muslims to not have a poverty mindset which will lead to eventually compromising. Live your life, work on yourself, your deen & dunya, fear Allah, make dua and the right person will come into your life when the time is right. Allah is Al Kareem & He is Al Razaq. So don’t limit His generosity, He can bless you with the person of your dreams (realistic of course). Patience, when the time is right, Allah will bring them into your life. Also about the some brothers want young women so they can mold them into being more compatible with them (I’ve heard this before & a lot of women probably already know this) , that’s a selfish, immature and insecure way of thinking. Perhaps if they were more secure in who they are, they would look for someone who can match them. Someone that they can engage with on an intellectual, emotional, etc level. How can you have a relationship full of growth and self development if you’ve made your partner a carbon copy of yourself?
It is so sad this mindset is being promoted. They forget the sunnah of the Prophet when comes to his marriage to Khadija but they want to follow him in his marriage to Aisha though.
Its not about having a young to mold them etc. This is just a name-calling brothers for seeking younger women. Having younger women is better because they are less corrupted. And most times more likely to love their man more.
@Fbi OpenUp akhi please don’t disrespect our Muslim sisters. Publicly insulting the beauty of women shows you have arrogance brother which is a great sin. Remember the prophet (saw) said that “He who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride shall not enter Paradise”. Please be careful when making comments like this as even if it wasn’t your intention, it can be perceived in such a way.
Sister/brother plesse ignore FBI’s immature comment. If you want to go use sunnah match go ahead it might be a good idea and if you find that you dont like the person, alhamdulilah you can reject
Unfortunately I don't think they have many users and defo not in my area (south west) . Have a go though . If you're London based you'll probz have a good chance
@Fbi OpenUp ashabulhadeeth.com/articles/articles/why-use-the-name-salafee-is-it-a-call-towards-a-party-or-a-group-or-a-madh-hab-school-of-thought-or-is-it-a-new-sect-in-islaam/ this may clarify
@Fbi OpenUp , it's to follow the Quraan and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf us saalih -- the righteous predecessors , doesn't means others are kaafir, the thing is , you know like some people claim they are Muslim but they worship other than Allah , will we accept some sects they are Muslim but they oppose the Quraan and Sunnah clearly. It's the true Islaam other people they deviated themselves from the true Islaam, this calling them back to the true islaam.
@@frabgas27 I’ll let work hard and he’ll work if Haa has work but for me personally I’m okay with the young guy my age older guy maybe manipulative and controlling and may even know I’m counting on his money or may talk about money in arguments I don’t like money anyways
السلام عليكم ورحمة لله وبركاته Please can we request more entrepreneurial/business educational videos from an Islamic point of view - maybe more Muslim entrepreneurs who have started halal businesses as I think this will be beneficial for a large portion of the channel's audience. Barakallahu Feekum and please continue with the high quality videos. May Allah سبحانه و تعالى aid your work ! Ameen
Aameen. And I'm also very interested in knowing about entrepreneurship from an Islamic perspective. I would appreciate videos on Islamic entrepreneurship.
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Im glad you clarified the Nike thing because i was probably being an Abbas with my questions but hadn't had them answered.. and I'm a sneaker head so its peak... Time to get a move on with the defacing
I don’t think that lamp should be there... it’s just very awkward standing there all crooked😅 Maybe think of having a tall plant or something aesthetically pleasing. The tall plant can also hide the little space between Abbas and his chair.
Whether we agree or not even many practicing Muslimah want physically appealing guys, tall good looking etc I seen a Few guys being rejected because of aesthetics only unfortunately, that's how society is in our community the weird part is there are struggling Muslimah who are not as practicing yet want a guy with good character more so than looks
Nothing wrong if a sister wants a physically appealing guys. We as men need to improve our health and wealth. Muslim men should be fit and strong not fat and unhygienic
@@khayr1 well Imaan should be the deciding factor a practicing Muslim, many girls and men are victim to the superficiality of society which isn't from Islam
I definitely agree when you say that women should begin looking for marriage when they are young, I'd say around 21/22 as that is the age you start becoming more sure about yourself as a person, I'm 25 now and I started being open to marriage at 23 I'd say but I never found the right person and had the right criteria at that age, now I know exactly what I want in a brother and have had many potentials but it is difficult to find the right match honestly - I'm starting to feel like maybe I need to begin compromising? idk anymore lol keep me in your duas, may Allah grant us all righteous spouses
Don't stop yourself getting married by having crazy expectations, don't compromise on what's needed, but maybe looks etc, insha'Allah pray istikhara and khalas
I am 40 with 2 children but look 30 Alhamdulillah and there is a brother who is 22, married and pursuing me to be his second wife. Now, before you judge , I am ok being a second wife Alhamdulillah, his akhlaq and deen is what I am happy with Allahuma Baarik but the only problem is I don’t know how I would feel about his age facing him later, I said to my self I wouldn’t mind if he had beard and physically look a bit older than his age, he is Maasha Allah good looking and slim built. I have met a lot of brothers much older than him but wallahi he is wiser than them. I have always been an open minded person and know what I want Alhamdulillah but this time I don’t know somehow I am unable to come to any decision on this. It would be helpful if you, my brothers and sisters in Islam assist me with your advices wisdoms. JazākumuLlāhu kheyraa.
Asalamu alaykum sister I'm a sister(this is my brothers account) I would tell you don't do it.honestly there is to much of a age gap in terms of like life and technology and culture have changed so much I don't really think you would be able to understand each other. men in there twentys especially in this day in age are so immature and very unstable alot of the time and they are into teenage love(which is for 2 week's)and alot of men feel very intimadated by older more stable women.and you have 2 kids and have to understand that you might not be so compatible if he has no kids and is that young there might be some problems.young men have a hard time caring about their own kids when they are young forget kids that are not his.and you have 20 years more live experience and that might cause of alot of headbudding.any ways that my two cents on that and I hope you find it beneficial sis and one last point be VERY carefully of your kids(may Allah bless them)alot of weird men prey on single mothers and rape and molest their kids and the crazy thing is you might not notice so whatever man you do marry watch your kids and tell them if anybody touches them in their private parts and just be very wary no matter how righteous he seems inshallah.i pray Allah blessed you with righteous kids that are the coolness of your eyes and a righteous God fearing husband amen
@@hdstudio3736 jazaakilllah for your advice sis, and I can understand your genuine concern, but I know the brother and was introduced to much older brothers that have known him for years and are teachers in the the mosque, they said a lot of good things about him. He has a child. In terms of my kids, Alhamdulillah I am known in my family and community to be a responsible and likes to give her children an Islamic upbringing therefore I am very cautious, with the help of Allah, about who I bring into their life, I also take their safety and well-being very serious Alhamdulillah. About the compatibility in terms of the age, I would say he is so much into what I want which is seeking the Islamic knowledge. He is an old soul lol he doesnt like social media and is even stricter than I am in the deen Allahuma Baarik. Jazaakilllahu kheyran again my sis for the time you took to advice me.❤️
I appreciate you speaking about this topic Alhamdulilah. You said in a previous video that looking youthful and attractive relies a lot on how healthy you are and it it so true. Sugar shrinks your brain and makes you age quicker. The more healthy you are you will shine from within. There are women that are 30-35 that are stunning in body and face. Again younger women are beautiful aswell.
Hiya.. to a certain extent you are right however it’s about the healthy thing again, the more healthy you are the more likely you are to conceive sooner. Not all older women have a hard time.. there are women that are 50 and are still able to conceive.
What worries me as a 37 year old man that has kept himself for marriage in todays world, potentials will not believe me that I have kept myself for marriage or think something is wrong with me. I have not been able to marry for personal reasons that now I am ready, but hearing even women around my age bracket have most likely committed zina saddens me. I have the right to marry a pure women as I am pure, but now seems like I might have to settle for someone who couldn't keep them selfs for marriage, or be alone. Allah knows best
Female fertility is linked to healthy metabolism. Means the health of your emotions..Get rid of all toxic emotions by istighfar n you can gain real feminine character.
With these matter it's all about perception my bothers always wanted to marry virgins but my eldest brother wife is a divorcee and their marriage is flourishing
Alhamdullillah, not everyone really wishes to marry a non virgin. Sometimes it can be physiologically very taxing even thinking that she had been with someone. Even if it was halal by all means. Not everyone is the same.
Anything older than 23 is approaching the wall. Women hit their peak SMV (sxual market value) at around that age. Men on the other hand, reach their peak smv between 33 and 38. These men therefore have no interest (rightfully so) to pursue older women, especially if they've kept themselves in shape and financially free
@@ThaEzioAuditore so women are only young for 23 years load of rubbish, this isn’t gods message at all, I served a woman the other day she was the 30 years old looked like a supermodel, it all depends on the woman, lifestyle etc etc
@@ThaEzioAuditore my friend looked her best around 26 before then she wasn’t at her best (looks wise) you can’t say ALL women are there best before 23 lol
If it was true all supermodels careers would start declining after 18😅😂 Marilyn Monroe the biggest sex icon was at a prime in here mid 20s from what the media suggests
50:00 this sums up why men prefer younger women, it's nothing to do with fertility or education. The more partners she's had the higher chance of divorce there are enough studies to back this claim.
Actually it all of them but also the fact she is more likely an virgin and Secondly it is easier to get her to have your children while an older women it isnt.
Important! Imran speaks about different things about marriage but he doesn’t speak about young people who can’t get married because lack of money or they can’t offered a house for there spouse so can the next episode be about that please? Jazak Allah khayr
“BRO there r bros n siss there that are wondering WHAT ON EARTH are you talking about” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 are you one of them?! You take no time to say that....May Allah grant u jannah brother
The age of Mother Khadījah R.A. when she married Prophet ﷺ is not authentically narrated according to the following video: th-cam.com/video/rcz8vX3zz0U/w-d-xo.htmlm42s If this is the case, then I don't think we can analyze their relationship under the assumption of her age, for they may have been very close in age. And Allāh knows best. A redaction/annotation may be needed for correcting people's understanding.
use your brains...how many children she had before marrying Muhammmad sallalahu aleihi wa salaam? so she was that young and had all those many children already? and 2 marriages? come on!
Thanks to sunnah match I actually have confidence that I will find the right spouse in the future. But I have a question, does it also work in the United States? Jzk💕💕💕
51.00 I do not agree ... doesn't mean you have been married you have had your first love! Yes I do agree the first relationship you work the hardest.. But i did not love my first husband....my second husband will In sha.Allah.be my first love!!!!
I always wanted to get married when I was young, but I've been my dad's carer since 18, so i was either studying and then looking after my dad, or working and then looking after him. Now I'm 26 and I realised it's probably too late for me now
Its horrible how they consider every single other manhaj as a bidaa and calling them ikhwanies its just chocking those appelations it increase out division and demolish out unity as muslimx there is no such salafi of madkhali or wahabi there is a righteous muslim moulin whish means believers , pls bro sis correct me if im wrong are those brothers from those range of people who consider themselves thé only righteous ones who are on the right path and do takfir to others ??? Cuz i used to watch theif pod but im confused
Praise be to Allah. Firstly: It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines: She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them. There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 . It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female. And Allah knows best.
Disgusting I would never marry an fornicator just like the Quran stated an fornicator marries another fornicator.An virgin marries another virgin.Brothers and sisters who are virgin and stayed away from zina don't marry an fornicator.And those that fornicated marry another fornicated who repented.
Asalamu Aleikum Brothers where do you get these numbers from is there a record of it or is experience you get form beings in dawah I do agree with you that practicing muslims will be always the minorities but where do you get this information from or is there a specific formula
I wanna see an in depth episode about marriage meetings
There are couple of videos about that topic, even from this channel (NS)
There is an episode of Chai With my Bhai about it, I suggest that one
@@hehehheheheheh2765 True
I think another point to mention is that people change with age also, I myself can say my personality and connection with allah is far better and stronger now at 23 than my nieve 18 year old self
@Ayesha Farooq yes, its true 100%.
Very true sister. People tend to mature as they get older but that can also be influenced by who people hang around with. I'll say the same myself I've gotten closer to my Deen a few months ago compared to how I was when I went college and university
Same !
@@zaink7037 but the fitrah is that people tend to understand more as they grow. Unless someone grows into misguidance
@@ziasmailbox very true. Sadly as you said some people become misguided. This is what exactly worries me for when I started searching for a wife. People sadly tend to change as time goes on where sometimes it may change into a person which is not good
I’m 28 and unmarried, I wish I COULD GO BACK LMAOOOO. ladies don’t make the mistake I did. Chased after my degrees and I ain’t got a MAN. THE DEGREES WILL NOT KEEP YOU WARM AT NIGHT.
Thank you sister for the advice. May Allah bless both of us with a righteous husband
Turning 28 this July and I’m not married yet pray for me 🤍
I hope you’re married by now sister 🤍
Allahu Akbar, BārakAllāhu Feek sister,
please teach your younger sister friends this. Too many deluded, even in my country Canada. May Allah guide us all.
Well, depends. Degrees like STEM very much keep you warm at night.
It's hard finding that right person. Don't get into haram relationships as that person you like might actually be showing you one side of them. Allah has the right time written down for us when or who we'll marry or if not insha'Allah in jannah
There's no such thing as "right one". There's just people some are good some are bad.
@Abū AbdulRahmān Makes perfect sense. That stuff is only in the fairy tales. The perfect match doesn't exist. Everyone has negatives, you just gotta make sure it's something you're willing to overlook.
@@kingkatiin2658 I'd say you got a point there. It's just finding that right person who's more compatible than most people. Best to stay close to Allah as he may help us
I keep talking about this but I'm alhumdulila recovering over heartbreak. This girl I liked for 7 years I found out got married a few months back. Was miserable for a few months till Allah showed me she wasn't the right one for me showing me all these bad traits of her from which im grateful to Allah now for doing this to me. I started praying 5 times a day one month before I heard about her so very likely was Allah's way of helping me for getting closer to him. Still till this day alhumdulila I still keep up to my namaz
@@zaink7037 Barakallahufeek
💯 people need to realise that they need to focus their relationship with Allah SWT FIRST AND FOR MOST and Allah inshallah will give them who they deserve. I pray that inshallah Allah gives us a spouse that is the most closest to him and fearing of him.
Just 20 and marriage is not even in my plan just due to studies but watching these podcasts gives me insight and some of these blow my mind... marriage is beautiful thing May Allah Grant us the right spouse..Ameen❤️
Ameen ya rabb ♥️
Are you a man or a women? If your a women I would highly suggest looking for a husband now, you never know how long it will take.
Dont be that woman who put education and degree over marriage and now shes 27+ and finding it hard to marry
@@khayr1 tnx sister am a man btw
@@khayr1 so so’s true!
Even for brothers
Not easy finding a spouse these days
@@khayr1 good advice, i am 19 and a sister but a bit scared to get married lol. I also am not very satisfied with my body, weight, etc and want to improve it first before marriage
That brother on the left is so knowledgeable about how both men and women feel, masha'Allah. As a sister, I really appreciate him standing up for the sisters and making important clarifications. Too bad I'm not in England.
May Allah grant him a righteous spouse and offspring. Ameen.
Maturity is one of the most important traits for me defo dnt want an immature annoying boy haha
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@Muqadas You hate it when a man is physically able to provide?
@@ytuser9948 You want a man twenty years older than you?
@@ytuser9948 I thought about this the other day some girls don't like it when their man is giving them attention all day like does he not have any hobbies, friends to hang around with? Like my friend who goes out and snaps him having a great time with his friends, it's lively and his girl gets jelaous and wants his attention or wants him to come home. There's something called preselection too, women want men who have been preselected by other women because it gives them good reason that he's 'high value'
@@razer0072073 why are you encouraging them to follow a path other than the sunnah, marrying older men is normal because they are more likely to be a proper man
I am 32 but most people in university said I look like first year undergraduate student lol. That statement really made my day :). I don’t apply make up, drink 6 liters mineral water per day and eat fruits and vegetable everyday and of course exercise in the morning.
May Allah increase you in beauty, success and happiness. And may Allah protect you sis.
@@sf6510 Amen, May Allah bless you and your love one, May Allah grant you happiness, rizq and good health amen.Thank you dear :)))
damn thats amazing 😍😍 you married?
Assalamu'alaikum ukhtee may Allah bless you and make you from his Awliyaa Aāmeen ukhtee I heard Shaykh usaymi say that saying "this made my day" is from minor shirk and can lead to major shirk aswell Wal iyaadhu billaah
@@bintjavid005 in what way
To be honest older women are much better ....I remember as a young girl I was so clingy obsessive...and overly emotional....age calms u down and gives you wisdom which therefore enhances your personality......
your podcasts are unique, I love the homely, welcoming personal vibe, I enjoy your podcasts, it feels like your family, Allahumma barik lakum
I hope my Arabic is correct!
Lahum *
@@pearlsofadaab lakum is for mukhatib (second person) lahum is for ghaib (third person)
Man it really is hard for a young brother to get married out here man. Never even know it was anything like this until now subhanallah
@@frabgas27 It’s not even just that man there’s only 3 million Muslims in the world, only some of those of are practicing, only some of those are upon the Sunnah, only some of those are within your age group, and only some of those actually want to get married at that point in time. On top of that we all have our own preferences based off of personality, height, interests etc so that narrows the prospects down even further. I’ve just realised how crazy it is subhanallah May Allah make it easy for us all to find that perfect marriage partner who is upon the Sunnah Ameen
@@Yassinekamp Yep definitely akhi
@@unknownrealist5374 not in the world . In the uk
@@shahee6579 Yeah I meant to say Uk akhi my bad
@@unknownrealist5374 ameen. I think it will be very difficult to find one too... I am in USA and I want someone who actively seeks knowledge, Sunni/Salafi, and not too cultural for compatibility
Young ladies can be mature too .
InshaAllah,I would be digging for it.
May Allah grant those who are looking for spouses
You obviously don't know enough about women. The hormones make those under 30 more prone to dramas and selfishness.
@@ghafranhaque7161 so we should marry old women?? Nope
Aisha (Ra) was a mature and a very good women and she was small
@@aatif7518 These are just jealous older women who followed feminism which told them lies such as ''Focus on your career'' ''You dont need a man'' Bla Bla. It is the natural choice for ALL men from every background to be attracted to the young feminine woman, something these older feminist women will never understand. You can always find them playing the ''Khadija Card'' and weak men fall for this.
@@taym2720 you male? Just curious
Ngl as a woman, I think the younger you are the better But that doesn't mean we should shame other people for that choice. Allah test everyone in their own way and women have other reasons for delaying marriage. (However I don't agree when women delay marriage because of education and have the mindset 'i don't need men' I just think that's silly and you're only making it harder for yourself) scholars say that khadija got married that old and as a divorcee because she was too good for the other men. My point is the prophet did both so there is goodness in both.
I just wanted to mention that yes there may not be many practicing potentials it’s important as Muslims to not have a poverty mindset which will lead to eventually compromising. Live your life, work on yourself, your deen & dunya, fear Allah, make dua and the right person will come into your life when the time is right. Allah is Al Kareem & He is Al Razaq. So don’t limit His generosity, He can bless you with the person of your dreams (realistic of course). Patience, when the time is right, Allah will bring them into your life.
Also about the some brothers want young women so they can mold them into being more compatible with them (I’ve heard this before & a lot of women probably already know this) , that’s a selfish, immature and insecure way of thinking. Perhaps if they were more secure in who they are, they would look for someone who can match them. Someone that they can engage with on an intellectual, emotional, etc level. How can you have a relationship full of growth and self development if you’ve made your partner a carbon copy of yourself?
It is so sad this mindset is being promoted. They forget the sunnah of the Prophet when comes to his marriage to Khadija but they want to follow him in his marriage to Aisha though.
this is a lovely comment
Its not about having a young to mold them etc. This is just a name-calling brothers for seeking younger women. Having younger women is better because they are less corrupted. And most times more likely to love their man more.
@life Lesson speaking on this days, your foolish for naming our believing mothers
@life Lesson relax sister. I understand you.
I laughed hard when you talked about the girl's description 🤣 💀 😂
Lmaooo why am i thinking of actually going on sunnah match
Girl me too loll
@Fbi OpenUp ,akhi don't call in this manner they are ur sisters.may Allah bless you
@Fbi OpenUp akhi please don’t disrespect our Muslim sisters. Publicly insulting the beauty of women shows you have arrogance brother which is a great sin. Remember the prophet (saw) said that “He who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride shall not enter Paradise”. Please be careful when making comments like this as even if it wasn’t your intention, it can be perceived in such a way.
Sister/brother plesse ignore FBI’s immature comment. If you want to go use sunnah match go ahead it might be a good idea and if you find that you dont like the person, alhamdulilah you can reject
Unfortunately I don't think they have many users and defo not in my area (south west) . Have a go though . If you're London based you'll probz have a good chance
jazakallahu khaira, these are so beneficial. really appreciate all of these videos you guys put out
I think that should be the new slogan:
Single? Salafi? SunnahMatch >>> 😂
(Hotel? Trivago)
How could one be so mentally degenerate...
@Fbi OpenUp 🤦♂️
@Fbi OpenUp A salafi means predecessor
@Fbi OpenUp ashabulhadeeth.com/articles/articles/why-use-the-name-salafee-is-it-a-call-towards-a-party-or-a-group-or-a-madh-hab-school-of-thought-or-is-it-a-new-sect-in-islaam/ this may clarify
@Fbi OpenUp , it's to follow the Quraan and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf us saalih -- the righteous predecessors , doesn't means others are kaafir, the thing is , you know like some people claim they are Muslim but they worship other than Allah , will we accept some sects they are Muslim but they oppose the Quraan and Sunnah clearly.
It's the true Islaam other people they deviated themselves from the true Islaam, this calling them back to the true islaam.
This video opened my eyes to marriage in a different way Subhanallah. Most defiantly Sunnahmatch is the way to find your other half In Shaa Allah.
We like financially stable guy but trust me we would never want 50 years old 40 or 30 what 19 year old wants old guy 😂😂😂😭😭
@@frabgas27 I’ll let work hard and he’ll work if Haa has work but for me personally I’m okay with the young guy my age older guy maybe manipulative and controlling and may even know I’m counting on his money or may talk about money in arguments I don’t like money anyways
@@frabgas27 true but it certainly doesn’t make me go around
@@salamkala14 haha
@@frabgas27 tbh id prefer looks and young age over financial stability😭 that is if he has deen ofc which is number one
@@wouldyounot7971 I agree if he is good looking young and has deen
السلام عليكم ورحمة لله وبركاته
Please can we request more entrepreneurial/business educational videos from an Islamic point of view - maybe more Muslim entrepreneurs who have started halal businesses as I think this will be beneficial for a large portion of the channel's audience.
Barakallahu Feekum and please continue with the high quality videos. May Allah سبحانه و تعالى aid your work ! Ameen
Go check out Abu Musa. He fits your description!
Yeah those entrepreneur type videos really opened up my mind and I benefited a lot
The halal businesses you see we can't be sure of
Aameen. And I'm also very interested in knowing about entrepreneurship from an Islamic perspective. I would appreciate videos on Islamic entrepreneurship.
Wow Imran married older than his age
This is my life time dream
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@@Abu_Abdullah790 walaikum as salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu
0:33 i watch relationship goals for entertainment to be honest. Anyone else???
lol
ye same wallah
And for general knowledge aqii
Im glad you clarified the Nike thing because i was probably being an Abbas with my questions but hadn't had them answered.. and I'm a sneaker head so its peak... Time to get a move on with the defacing
18:00 when u break it down like that its actually deep
I don’t think that lamp should be there... it’s just very awkward standing there all crooked😅 Maybe think of having a tall plant or something aesthetically pleasing.
The tall plant can also hide the little space between Abbas and his chair.
Whether we agree or not even many practicing Muslimah want physically appealing guys, tall good looking etc I seen a Few guys being rejected because of aesthetics only unfortunately, that's how society is in our community the weird part is there are struggling Muslimah who are not as practicing yet want a guy with good character more so than looks
Nothing wrong if a sister wants a physically appealing guys. We as men need to improve our health and wealth. Muslim men should be fit and strong not fat and unhygienic
@@khayr1 well Imaan should be the deciding factor a practicing Muslim, many girls and men are victim to the superficiality of society which isn't from Islam
The point of marriage is to look for someone who you are attracted to there is no problme with that.
I definitely agree when you say that women should begin looking for marriage when they are young, I'd say around 21/22 as that is the age you start becoming more sure about yourself as a person, I'm 25 now and I started being open to marriage at 23 I'd say but I never found the right person and had the right criteria at that age, now I know exactly what I want in a brother and have had many potentials but it is difficult to find the right match honestly - I'm starting to feel like maybe I need to begin compromising? idk anymore lol keep me in your duas, may Allah grant us all righteous spouses
Don't stop yourself getting married by having crazy expectations, don't compromise on what's needed, but maybe looks etc, insha'Allah pray istikhara and khalas
I am 40 with 2 children but look 30 Alhamdulillah and there is a brother who is 22, married and pursuing me to be his second wife. Now, before you judge , I am ok being a second wife Alhamdulillah, his akhlaq and deen is what I am happy with Allahuma Baarik but the only problem is I don’t know how I would feel about his age facing him later, I said to my self I wouldn’t mind if he had beard and physically look a bit older than his age, he is Maasha Allah good looking and slim built. I have met a lot of brothers much older than him but wallahi he is wiser than them. I have always been an open minded person and know what I want Alhamdulillah but this time I don’t know somehow I am unable to come to any decision on this. It would be helpful if you, my brothers and sisters in Islam assist me with your advices wisdoms. JazākumuLlāhu kheyraa.
If your happy make 2 rakah istikarah and go for it our dear sister.
Asalamu alaykum sister I'm a sister(this is my brothers account) I would tell you don't do it.honestly there is to much of a age gap in terms of like life and technology and culture have changed so much I don't really think you would be able to understand each other. men in there twentys especially in this day in age are so immature and very unstable alot of the time and they are into teenage love(which is for 2 week's)and alot of men feel very intimadated by older more stable women.and you have 2 kids and have to understand that you might not be so compatible if he has no kids and is that young there might be some problems.young men have a hard time caring about their own kids when they are young forget kids that are not his.and you have 20 years more live experience and that might cause of alot of headbudding.any ways that my two cents on that and I hope you find it beneficial sis and one last point be VERY carefully of your kids(may Allah bless them)alot of weird men prey on single mothers and rape and molest their kids and the crazy thing is you might not notice so whatever man you do marry watch your kids and tell them if anybody touches them in their private parts and just be very wary no matter how righteous he seems inshallah.i pray Allah blessed you with righteous kids that are the coolness of your eyes and a righteous God fearing husband amen
@@hdstudio3736 jazaakilllah for your advice sis, and I can understand your genuine concern, but I know the brother and was introduced to much older brothers that have known him for years and are teachers in the the mosque, they said a lot of good things about him. He has a child. In terms of my kids, Alhamdulillah I am known in my family and community to be a responsible and likes to give her children an Islamic upbringing therefore I am very cautious, with the help of Allah, about who I bring into their life, I also take their safety and well-being very serious Alhamdulillah.
About the compatibility in terms of the age, I would say he is so much into what I want which is seeking the Islamic knowledge. He is an old soul lol he doesnt like social media and is even stricter than I am in the deen Allahuma Baarik.
Jazaakilllahu kheyran again my sis for the time you took to advice me.❤️
@@Chamseibnmasood jazaakallahu kheyran my brother.
@Fbi OpenUp what makes you think I am a Somali?
I appreciate you speaking about this topic Alhamdulilah.
You said in a previous video that looking youthful and attractive relies a lot on how healthy you are and it it so true. Sugar shrinks your brain and makes you age quicker. The more healthy you are you will shine from within. There are women that are 30-35 that are stunning in body and face. Again younger women are beautiful aswell.
Younger women can provide children easily while older women have difficult time.
Hiya.. to a certain extent you are right however it’s about the healthy thing again, the more healthy you are the more likely you are to conceive sooner. Not all older women have a hard time.. there are women that are 50 and are still able to conceive.
@@fibrahim4fi that is compekty false.An man in his 60s can easily have children while an women in her 30s find it difficult to have children.
@@therepublic7708 that is not all false because not all women find it difficult to conceive after 30.
@@therepublic7708 I have worked in women’s health services and there were rare cases of 50 year old women giving birth to triplets.
Allahumma barik for the movement
I see someone saw my comment on the previous video lol good episode jazakallah qeyr.
Everyone is invited here to listen to beautiful Qur'an recitations and beneficial Islamic lectures
What worries me as a 37 year old man that has kept himself for marriage in todays world, potentials will not believe me that I have kept myself for marriage or think something is wrong with me. I have not been able to marry for personal reasons that now I am ready, but hearing even women around my age bracket have most likely committed zina saddens me. I have the right to marry a pure women as I am pure, but now seems like I might have to settle for someone who couldn't keep them selfs for marriage, or be alone. Allah knows best
I know a 35 year old sister who also kept herself pure. It's a shame I can't link you two up.
@@ZM-et7zt I would be interested to know more about her
Please make a video about halal jobs and businesses and specific ways of making money.
Check out Abu Musa
@@amatullahsu Abu Musa's videos aren't specific enough.
@Fbi OpenUp , the money he asks he uses it in dawah projects
What an episode!!! Absolutely mindblowing!! SubhanALLAH!
Regarding the Nike daaaamn took me a loooong time to unstitch that tick from husband’s jacket 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Jazakallah Khair
2-3 years is not much of a difference. Y’all are in the same age range.
56:48 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Imran” why you laughing
Other guy” no I’m not
Subhanallah, my man has finally got a fresh cut. Finally.
Young girls can b way more mature than older women! ”Mature women or the Immature women” would have been better :)
Watching relationship talk with a future dp we love to see it 🤣 GROWTH
@@newaccount5510 Hahahaha💀💀💀
And the same for men :)
@@mane5582 yes agree!!!
Big up my brudders
Female fertility is linked to healthy metabolism. Means the health of your emotions..Get rid of all toxic emotions by istighfar n you can gain real feminine character.
Keep me in your Dua’s I hope to marry soon in sha Allah
With these matter it's all about perception my bothers always wanted to marry virgins but my eldest brother wife is a divorcee and their marriage is flourishing
Alhamdullillah, not everyone really wishes to marry a non virgin. Sometimes it can be physiologically very taxing even thinking that she had been with someone. Even if it was halal by all means.
Not everyone is the same.
I was loving the part where Imran was explaining the love 😂
how to approach the girls father
marriage meeting
these two topics deserve a separate video
50:39 mr. wavy 💀💀💀
Do an episode on teen marriage please.
25 is not old lol
Anything older than 23 is approaching the wall. Women hit their peak SMV (sxual market value) at around that age. Men on the other hand, reach their peak smv between 33 and 38. These men therefore have no interest (rightfully so) to pursue older women, especially if they've kept themselves in shape and financially free
@@ThaEzioAuditore so women are only young for 23 years load of rubbish, this isn’t gods message at all, I served a woman the other day she was the 30 years old looked like a supermodel, it all depends on the woman, lifestyle etc etc
@@ThaEzioAuditore my friend looked her best around 26 before then she wasn’t at her best (looks wise) you can’t say ALL women are there best before 23 lol
@@biancacamara-roberts9989 Yes i completely agree!
If it was true all supermodels careers would start declining after 18😅😂 Marilyn Monroe the biggest sex icon was at a prime in here mid 20s from what the media suggests
Would be nice to be able to access these videos as a podcast. So we can download and listen etc. Jzk
Mashallah 👏👏👏👏super.
Musmatch is just such a tragedy
Muzmatch is a joke thing
@@Tazmannn12345 foreal
Is it even permissible to display yourself on an online platform for anyones eyes?
50:00 this sums up why men prefer younger women, it's nothing to do with fertility or education. The more partners she's had the higher chance of divorce there are enough studies to back this claim.
@@ponder_reflect9644 cheers mate
Actually it all of them but also the fact she is more likely an virgin and Secondly it is easier to get her to have your children while an older women it isnt.
Its really quiet. Please make the audio louder next time. BarakAllahu feekum
A man goes 'how many of them are grave worshipping sufi' 🤣🤣🤣
Important!
Imran speaks about different things about marriage but he doesn’t speak about young people who can’t get married because lack of money or they can’t offered a house for there spouse so can the next episode be about that please?
Jazak Allah khayr
50:40 me right now tbh hahahahha
Someone should make a similar service for people in the US.
It’s open for you guys too
@Fbi OpenUp lol find something better to do instead of spamming
“BRO there r bros n siss there that are wondering WHAT ON EARTH are you talking about” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 are you one of them?! You take no time to say that....May Allah grant u jannah brother
It was Imam Ahmed who married after his mother’s death
just because u were married doesnt meqn u loved that person or was compatible mentally or physically.
seems like the editor didnt edit it out. loool
Nah Abbas was right, its based on community roles. Apparently the Rajputs we're the warriors from what my parents told me lol.
can Naseeha sessions be louder? most of the time I get problems hearing well. Barakallah feekum.
+1
I have a question for them everyone who dont claim himself as a salafi us not on the right path ???????
The age of Mother Khadījah R.A. when she married Prophet ﷺ is not authentically narrated according to the following video:
th-cam.com/video/rcz8vX3zz0U/w-d-xo.htmlm42s
If this is the case, then I don't think we can analyze their relationship under the assumption of her age, for they may have been very close in age. And Allāh knows best.
A redaction/annotation may be needed for correcting people's understanding.
use your brains...how many children she had before marrying Muhammmad sallalahu aleihi wa salaam? so she was that young and had all those many children already? and 2 marriages? come on!
That was a great video ZazakAllah.
Is it allowed to say my goodness as the brother said?
*J
Can someone pls explain what’s wrong with wearing Nike ?
Thanks to sunnah match I actually have confidence that I will find the right spouse in the future. But I have a question, does it also work in the United States? Jzk💕💕💕
Yes it’s open for you guys now
@@RighteousnRich Alhamdullilah thank you
@Abū AbdulRahmān thx for that bro don’t even know why it was there
@@sanamemon8787 what in the world
@Bl lol ive seen u in the other video when we were debating abt the opinion of uncovering
51.00 I do not agree ... doesn't mean you have been married you have had your first love! Yes I do agree the first relationship you work the hardest..
But i did not love my first husband....my second husband will In sha.Allah.be my first love!!!!
Wait, the people on Sunnah match are all salafis? Allahuma Barik
Salam Aleykoum, does anyone know if there is a video on interracial mariages ?
25:19😭😭🤣🤣
🌹🌹🌹السلام علیکم ورحمۃ اللہ وبرکاتہ 🌹🌹🌹
Anyone on sunnahmatch from a deobandi/jamaati background in terms of family or your teachers?
Alhamdulilah
Are those DORITOS ????
i am curious because i thought they aren't halal
@@istikharahmarie6077
Why would doritos not be halal??
I always wanted to get married when I was young, but I've been my dad's carer since 18, so i was either studying and then looking after my dad, or working and then looking after him. Now I'm 26 and I realised it's probably too late for me now
Are you also looking to expand sunnahmatch to other european countries? The netherlands etc.
Yes it’s open to all now
Fbi OpenUp if you don’t have the money, how do you plan to get married?
@Fbi OpenUp tinder isnt good for Muslims
@Fbi OpenUp your hilarious.
Are you spreading dawah with your brain or your other part..
Its horrible how they consider every single other manhaj as a bidaa and calling them ikhwanies its just chocking those appelations it increase out division and demolish out unity as muslimx there is no such salafi of madkhali or wahabi there is a righteous muslim moulin whish means believers , pls bro sis correct me if im wrong are those brothers from those range of people who consider themselves thé only righteous ones who are on the right path and do takfir to others ??? Cuz i used to watch theif pod but im confused
eating Doritoz LOOOL
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
And Allah knows best.
"You can't marry the opposite gender" 😂
Is sunnah match international??
Yes it is now alhamdulillah... we are trying to build our international database
if i could speak English 😂😭
caste system is hindism aka shirk
Can you wear Adidas
Yes u can xx
What is salafi
@@ytuser9948 so is that diferent from sunni Mullins
Ps thnkyou for your time, I apreciate yr answers
Can u ware adidas
@@Truthseeker-uponsunnah so wat, that god isn’t real or anything
@@Truthseeker-uponsunnah where did you get this info ? It’s not named after a god 🙃
I heard from somewhere, but I've searched it up and it's not true. Allahu Alim
@@Truthseeker-uponsunnah ohhh okay allahu alam
@@Truthseeker-uponsunnah ok, sorry if I came across offensive I was genuinly intreahed, may allah increace both of you in goodness
Can someone please explain the Nike thing?
Nike is a Greek god and has something to do with shrik
@@abdirahmanjama7481 why do you have the logo as your profile pic?
Salam aleykom, please make a video on hijrah
Disgusting I would never marry an fornicator just like the Quran stated an fornicator marries another fornicator.An virgin marries another virgin.Brothers and sisters who are virgin and stayed away from zina don't marry an fornicator.And those that fornicated marry another fornicated who repented.
Subhanallah
whats wrong with nike?
whats the requirements to join sunnah match
Wait so why cant I ware nike, I dont get it, please explain/answer both my questions
Find the video on the Naseeha Sessions Channel about Nike...
@@amatullahsu will do, thanked sister
1:21 “so you can’t marry someone of the opposite gender”
He meant same gender
@@abshirhersi2941 thank you for the clarification, I needed that or else I would’ve remained confused as to what he meant.
Asalamu Aleikum Brothers where do you get these numbers from is there a record of it or is experience you get form beings in dawah
I do agree with you that practicing muslims will be always the minorities but where do you get this information from or is there a specific formula
All are good but senior is better. I don't see the poadcast yet. But its just by view,nothing against young women.🤷🏻♂️
Salaam Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatahu, Who is it that you guys recommend to go to if you don’t have a wali?
BarakAllahu feekum
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